Is what my boyfriend said disturbing about a young girl? Jason and I share a townhouse where next door is a couple with a little girl. Becky is going into 4th grade so that makes her 8. We seen her a week ago run out to give Daddy his thermo's while still in her nightgown. Becky is cute and yes she did look adorable outside in her sheer white undies giving Daddy a hug.. Jason seen her but didn't say anything yet. Last night due to it being hot they had a window open next door. Becky misbehaved or did wrong and we heard her Father say he was going to "give her a good spanking over his lap" We heard pat pat and Becky starting to lowly cry as she was getting a spanking. It lasted a few minutes. I said poor little Becky which Jason said that "that sounds like" hand on panty" . Yes Becky was probably across her Daddy lap getting a spanking felt in her panty. BUT why would Jason think of that and is Jason not saying what else he is thinking? Maybe I am being sensitive

I was sick of being bullied all throughout middle school so when I joined high school I decided to do something about it There was a new boy in town that had autism, he attended special school because his parents knew if he went to public school he'd get bullied incessantly. I came up with a plan, I craftily formed a fake friendship with him & convinced his mom to cancel his schooling, claiming to always be at his side & the kids at our school were nice. As he entered school he inadvertently shifted the target off of my back & plastered it onto himself. His parents cannot afford to get him back to the special school he was in, Thus he is forced to live a miserable high school life, & I am now spared from the abuse I bragged to my mom about how easily manipulative I was and she called me a "dirty coward" & told me to defend him the next day or I would get grounded & she would get him back to his special school. I didn't do it, but I escaped punishment through pure luck due to the boy telling my mom that I defended him, in hopes that I would be his friend again. However, I did not become friends with him & said it was nothing personal, but if we did I'd get bullied too. Everything ended so peacefully for me. It's been four years since high school, I'm in college, doing well. I googled the autistic boy & discovered he became a loser in life. He is now a criminal & he blames it all on the bullies. I am starting to feel a BIT bad about what I did, not enough to regret it tho

The type of that will constantly talk crap about you and make fun of you and call you names and when you try to defend yourself they just say you look dumb. The type that never leave you alone. For example they called me stupid and I said I'm not stupid. They said she's not stupid guys. What would you do? They constantly make me feel like crap.

I recently started group therapy for depression and anxiety. Another reason I am attending is because I've been having ongoing issues with my roommate and i recently installed a lock on my bedroom door. Aside from that, I began group therapy and on my first day this guy began hitting on me, hes a nice guy, but also has issues as well and he claims he's married. He asked me if I wanted to spend the night over his house because my roommate's father is coming tomorrow night to spend and I'm a bit uncomfortable with him being here (my roommate is out town studying for a the barr exam) I'm having mixed emotions as what to decide,any thoughts gus? Your comments are helpful!

I came for a vacation in Europe and to safe money decided to stay in brother's house. I didn't know his spoiled brat son was off school and staying with him. He usually stays with his mom but he's mom is out of the country. Now I don't feel the vacation and just feel angry. Every time he's son is around, he spoils my mood. Today I was making food for myself and brother asked me to make one for his son too. I'm deciding to go leave his house and stay the night in my cousin's house. I'm away daytime and come back night time

I am not American living abroad, but I have my American friends from my college days. Well, I am not having good days recently with my own problems, and I just had a conversation with my one of American friend. She said that she wants to send me some made in USA gifts to cheer me up. And I politly told her she doesn t have to. But she still wants to send me some. Not everything, but I can find the most of American products here where I live, Indeed, I feel so bad for make her to spend money for me, especially the shipping fee costs more than the gift itself. Well, I need a big help because I am not American and don t know how to decline gifts politly even she still wants to send me stuff.

I've been best friends with a girl for 5 or 6 years now. Over the recent years, though, she's gotten progressively more and more lazy and unmotivated. She has basically had everything handed to her all her life; if she wants new makeup, her mom will buy it for her, and one time she saw a ukulele cover of a song she likes and in a spur-of-the-moment decision she got her dad to buy her an expensive ukulele and played it for about 2 weeks, then promptly kicked it to the curb and hasn't touched it since. She basically has the idea that whenever she wants something, her parents will buy it for her. I keep telling her she should get a job, and I even suggested for her to apply at the same place I work, but she's extremely unmotivated and comes up with excuses like "Well I don't have a resume" (she could obviously look up how to create one with her parents, she just chooses not to) or "Well I don't have any time" when she has literally, and I kid you not, spend the past month since summer started sitting on her living room couch every single day playing video games or watching TV and then complaining that her back hurts from spending so much time being a couch potato. Every time I suggest to her that she could get some fresh air by taking a walk around her neighborhood or if I suggest we go out for coffee soon, she never wants to, even though she complains she's bored of sitting on her couch continuously. I don't know what to do with her! Help?

there's this guy I'm good friends with and we are always smiling in each other's company and enjoy talking to one another. Funny thing, is I've noticed the other day we were talking and I started saying 'I was working with this guy' and he sort of reacted to me saying this, like he jumped up and got tense He usually reacts like this when I talk about other guys. Why does he react when I bring up the word 'other guy'

So my friends mom is crazy and HATESSS anything related to music, phone and stuff and she will probably search my bag that weirdo she is. So I'm bring a case kinda about 5inch with my headphones and phone.. where could I hide it in my bag (north face) or what could I bring with me to hide it in... he has a pool to so we are going swimming.

I really want to go with my friend, but I am nervous I might get homesick. I haven't tried to go anywhere in a while though I'm not sure if it still bothers me. If do decided to go it would be great to have some advice.

Hello I'm a 14 year old girl and So I have this guy friend who is 16 that I met 2 years ago but wasn't always really that close with, (and by that I mean we talk but he has never really been that friendly to me cause that's his character he is selectively nice to people). A week ago me and a group of friends and him was invited to a sleepover to my other friend's house. All we did really was eat then watched 2 movies.( So it wasn't like we did anything that made us closer) At 3 am some of us including me and him felt tired so we went to the other end of the room to sleep. I fell asleep and after 15 minutes I woke up and felt him hugging me and stroking my face. Then he woke up as well and smiled at me. After that the whole group of us tired ones started to talk and when he saw that I didn't have a pillow to hug he gave me mine . Then we were on a bus later in the morning to go to the mall, I fell half asleep again) and i was basically sleeping in a very weird position with my bag taking half the chair and my back curved. I heard him talking about how he felt bad for me and that my knees and back will hurt when I wake up, And I felt him moving the bag in my sleep and then resting my head on his shoulder then his legs so I can sleep on him. I'm really confused because we aren't really close and he wasn't even that friendly to me but then literally out of a sudden he was so caring to me...but I don't understand why?

My friend started a new job tonight he starts working at 6pm. He hasnt gotten his schedule yet. He wants to know how long will 9 hours be ?

I'm interning and there is this hot co worker I like. I've done favors for her in the office. I've taken thick files out of tight drawers, I've put her bracelet on her other wrist, and etc. Sometimes when we talk I notice she maintains eye contact with me a little longer than normal. She complimented my shirt today. She is attentive when we talk. She puts her hands on my desk with them facing me. Plus one day she was going through my drawers looking for something when I was working there when they barely have anything in them But she asked a fellow female co worker if they wanted something from the vending machine. She didn't ask me if I wanted anything. That is bothering me some. I can't make a person like me but I'm lonely and it's bothering me. I've had people tell me I should go to a bar and hook up with some random girl. But I want a relationship with someone normal. I thought this woman at work could like me but now I think she's just being nice.

So I have this old friend (ex friend from high school) that reached out to me asking if I wanted to room with her for college (junior year) along with her other friends. I don't have a problem with her anymore and wouldn't mind living with her because I know her well and she's clean. The only problem is my very best friend (back home) hates her because this ex friend of ours treated her very meant and hurtfully in high school. What should I do? My best friend from back home already said she wouldn't be a fan if I moved in with her but it's a great oppurnity. I feel stuck! Thank you

So, my friend's friend, is really attractive and we've been talking for a while. Just as mates for the time being and tomorrow we're going for a ride on his bike. He's 19 and owns this bike, tbh i am kinda scared for my life lol because I've never been on the back of one before. He says, he will go slow and not be a **** with me on the back, not that he is a **** anyway. I trust him. But my parents will never allow me to go on one with him. THEY DON'T KNOW ABOUT TOMORROW, a few lies. He's lending my a helmet which fits, a jacket and stuff just in case and safety as well. So, in my point of view he is ticking the boxes. I mean, he says bikes are pretty hard to be knocked over on. Like, he is also 6'4 and quite big as well. Its just the cars, some cars are quite boisterous. I've been asking my parents if i would be allowed in the future and my dad has said no, with fair enough reasons around the topic of there being too many hazards, he also knew a girl who died (his friend, back in the day) who was on the back of a bike, the driver revved and she slipped off the back or something and died. My mum just screams no. "My baby could die" "your life is at risk" "we can't trust no w-_ker on a bike" .... I obviously disagree, but respect their opinions too. But, I'm still going out with him tomorrow. Kinda feel bad and don't want to lie to them all the time. So if anyone has any ways of helping me- what to say or any ways to get round it that would be very nice!

I'm fourteen and I just can't see myself having a future. I've always had an idea of what I've wanted to do when I was little, but not anymore. I've thought of joining the army, but I couldn't handle it. I don't have the motivation for law school to become a lawyer. If I have to take chemistry and all these other sciences to be a veterinarian, then I don't want to do it. Four years ago I switched schools and I've made new friends but dropped all the old ones. There's no point in renewing the friendship because most of them have changed. I only have two close "best" friends that I don't really conversate with unless it's on Snapchat and they both live 45 minutes away. I'm friendly with people at school but not close to them. My parents are divorced and I live with my dad. I don't like talking to my mom, so I'm stuck here. I hate going on vacations, I don't enjoy them. I don't have fun anywhere with them. I have an older brother that takes me to the movie and to his friend's house. It keeps me occupied, but not happy. The middle sibling, my other brother, is going to college in two years, so all I have is my dad. So, if I don't enjoy spending time family and going on vacations with them, I don't have many friends to hang out with, and when I say "future" it's just all a blur. What's the point of living if I can't enjoy my life?

Hi I have a question and I really don t think my parents are right. I m going to be a junior next year I turn 17 in January. I live in California right now and my dad is in the military and it got moved to Tennessee. My grandma lives in California and I was thinking what if I still lived in California with my grandma and my two uncles just until I graduate high school. The reason I want to stay in California is because I have a chance of getting a scholarship to a university and I think I d be messing it up if I move to a different state with new people and I don t want to make new friends. Another reason why I think I should say is because I I am inqui I have a chance of getting a scholarship to a university and I think I d be messing it up if I move to a different state with new people and I don t want to make new friends. Another reason why I think I should say is because I Am in choir and I m going to be in another class called music industry which help you learn and play instruments. I really think I shouldn t move I really think I could get a scholarship for singing in choir

My friend always says she has no money, yet just bought a wallet, purse, clothes, $130 at Nike, and always eats out. We were gonna go to Santa Cruz and spend the night, but then she said she has no money for a hotel and literally the next day bragged about spending the $130 at Nike. Today she says she s going to Sephora, so I ve had it. How should I bring this up to her?

I am a girl and so is my best friend (also we are both straight). We just finished high school and we'll be several hours away from each other for college (like 5 hours). I haven't seen her in more than a month now and I miss her so much, especially since I'm not sure when I'm going to see her again. I actually have not even gone a day yet since I last saw her without thinking about her. We talk online sometimes but I try to not message her too often because I don't want her to know about how obsessed I am with her. I really want to stop obsessing over her like this because it's not good for our long distance friendship either. She says she misses me, but she seems to be dealing with this distance a lot better than I am. What is wrong with me?! How can I get over this obsession without letting go of our friendship? Please help, thanks a bunch! :)

I am not American living abroad, but I have my American friends from my college days. Well, I am not having good days recently with my own problems, and I just had a conversation with my one of American friend. She said that she wants to send me some made in USA gifts to cheer me up. And I politly told her she doesn t have to. But she still wants to send me some. Not everything, but I can find the most of American products here where I live, Indeed, I feel so bad for make her to spend money for me, especially the shipping fee costs more than the gift itself. Well, I need a big help because I am not American and don t know how to decline gifts politly even she still wants to send me stuff.

I broke the person's promise which was saying that he likes me. Here's the story... first he made me upset with something he've done so upsetting, so I told my close friends everything about what happened and also the promise... i told my close friends because I knew I can count on them and I know they will be there for me... I guess I just cared about myself at that time and not really realising that I'm also breaking a promise. I was once hurt by him, but now I'm more hurt because of me. I do realise my own mistake and it's really difficult to forgive myself for hurting that person by lying about promising them... I guess I'm just too naive to realise what's right and wrong and the best thing to do? I also don't really like blaming all of this on myself, because he did gave me many bad times and I did as well to him (including breaking the promise), I apologised but he did not, which is literally making me think I'm all at fault, I'm the one to blame on all of this. I hate being the mean one but I guess I let that happen... I should also mention that he's a very shy person, only towards me because, you know, he has a crush on me, and he's also a very emotional person like me. Right now our friendship is up and down but are still trying to get to know each other well before hurting each other again. Clearing up, I've thought of a better way to put this. The guy and I both have our wrongs sides, (Me) I broke the promise because (the guy) he pushed me to my limits by upsetting me. I know he's shy so he might act all rude in some way but... if you can make someone upset by being that rude even though you're shy, it's really just wrong. I do care about him and his feelings, but I just really want him to understand my feelings as well. Sometimes I just feel like he doesn't care about my feelings and only care about his, and then it gets me all so upset so I can't really talk to him about it when he doesn't really care about me. I think he only does that when he's upset... but dude, I'm upset, you're upset, we both are, can't we just understand each other? I'm trying but can you?

There's this guy that has a crush on me and told me that he likes me, then I kindly replied I only like him as a friend. He then told me to keep a promise saying I won't tell anyone that he likes me. One day the guy (who had a crush on me) gave me such a hard time, I blurted out the incident to my close friends saying everything like he likes me and now he's doing things making me so upset. I slowly realised I broke the promise... and I told him I broke it then he flipped out, I tried reasoning to him saying he gave me a hard time and I told him to try and understand me. He also made me a bit fuming so I told him "the promise was a silly promise anyway, by time people will know that you like me anyway" which was true, someone already knew before I even said anything. But he wouldn't have it, he didn't try to understand what he did to me was very upsetting, I did apologise to him about breaking the promise but he didn't apologise at all like the blame is all on me...

Hi everyone. So basically I had a huge arguement with this guy, I got really upset so I told a friend about what happened so I could get some advice on how to deal with it. And a few days later he texted me saying have I been gossiping about him because my friends were staring at him. I answered "no" because I didn t say any fraud mean stuffs behind his back, I only told my friend what happened so I d know how to deal with the situation. But he still says I was gossiping and called me a jerk. And I really want your consideration on does this claim as gossiping? I thought the definition of gossiping is saying something behind someone s back with things that are not true or mean stuffs. Thank you!

So my sister and I are planning to fly into California from Florida but my mom is worried for our safety even though our friend and their mom will be flying in the same day as us, we will also be staying with them once they arrive. However, we will be alone for basically the whole day without them because they are arriving 7 hours after us. How do I convince my mom this isn't a bad idea and that uber isn't all that bad?

I'm a 15 year old girl and school isn't treating me the best. During the school year I became depressed and I had constant suicidal thoughts but I would NEVER act on it. My mom walked past my room when I was talking to my best friend of 10 years about it ( she goes to a diff school ) and my mom made me come in her room and she practically lectured me and said " I think you hang out with depressed people at school that say they want to kill themselves so now you talk about it because you think it's cool." She kept saying stuff like that to me and now my dad knows and my dad is my best friend and I don't want him to know but i'm just kind of upset. I feel like I can't look my parents in the eye knowing that they know. Can someone give me advice please.

I am a 15 year old girl. I m about to go into my sophomore year of high school. I have been having this problem as long as I can remember. I don t have friends. I have some people that consider me their friends, but I don t feel the same way. My peers are all so edgy and depressing. I love helping people - I m always the one to cheer everyone up, but no one is here to cheer me up when I need it. I feel like I m the only happy person in my school. I just want a group of positive people to do fun things with. I want support, because being happy for everyone else is really tiring. I go to school with a good attitude every day, but no one else does the same. I have problems going out and meeting people because I live in an extremely rural area. I ve been feeling sad all summer. I just feel so alone...

So, our new schedules for highschool just came out and my friend and i both took french, which was new for both of us, but they are cutting this coming year so we had to choose a different language. I had taken Latin 1 last year but she did not. So i said that i would take latin 1 so I could do it with her but i did have the option to take latin 2. My guidance couselor emailed me to see if i wanted to move up to latin 2 since he looked at my test scores and i did good so when i told my parents they said i should do latin2 so i did, and now my friend is mad but does she have a reason to be? I already took latin 1 and my parents and guidance counselor think this is what is best for me. I texted her and she is just ignoring me which is what most girls do and i know that if I were in her position I guess i would be a little upset/ What should i do? should i wait for her to confront me about how she feels or just give her time? TBH i think this is something that she should not be getting mad over because i love her as my friend but it was mostly my parents decision for this so idk. thank you to those who responded...I think the best thing is to wait it out and see if she realizes that I am doing this solely based on furthering my education not that I hate her, and I think she is mad since she will be alone in that class, but I will be alone as well since because I took French, everyone who stuck with Latin is in Latin 3. Field hockey practices are starting up this week as well and I will have to see her there, and I am just about certain she will ignore me and if she continues to do so do you think I should confront her then? And tell her that i didnt do it to just leave her out? i am not sure how to handle this in the best way given the fact that i am a very sensitive person and I know I shouldnt let things like this bother me, but it still doesss

My guy friend (we'll call him Jorge) asked one of my female friends to prom, we will call her Nat. My other two female friends, we will call them Kait and Olivia, were options, but weren't chosen. Kait was really hoping to be asked by Jorge, and she kept dropping hints. Little did Kait know that Jorge was going to ask her, but our other friend, let's call home harry, convinced him to go with someone more "attractive". Harry suggested I go with him, but I thought I had a date already (that date fell through but that's unimportant). Then Harry suggested Jorge go with Nat. He pretty much said anyone but Kait. So Jorge asked Nat. Then, Kait texted Olivia that night saying "of course he asked the pretty one out of us". Olivia JUST told me this a few days ago, but that comment has realy been bothering her. Olivia has been acting kinda bitter towards Kait for awhile, and now I know why. I'm not sure whether to be personally offended. I can't tell if Kait was including me or not in that comment. I think she was under the impression that I already had a date, so she may have not been referring to me. Regardless, I really want to say something because this isn't the first time Kait's self esteem issues have been thrust on someone else. Advice?

I used to have a group of really close friends and I genuinely cherished them but I just found out they have disliked/ hated me for quite a long time and I decided to not be friends with people who treat me nicely and acted like they liked me in front of my face then backstab me secretly so I cut all contact with them. But we have mutual friends so it's hard like they keep telling my good friends (now) bad things about me and I've already left them alone, never talked to them again but they keep spreading **** about me??? The worst thing is I don't even know why they hate me so much and I never asked, because they said so many hurtful things about me I didn't bother to ask. Help?

it all started when her power went out and she was desperate to find some where to cool off as it without air conditioning it easily climbed to over 95 degrees in minutes as the second day of no power started she looked to her friends for somewhere to go hang out and cool off a friend of hers responded and said she could come over and hang out for awhile to cool off after he got off work which she agreed to she had known him for a year or two and trusted him as they had only been friends id even met him a few times and never got any bad vibes she would also be with is roommate who was also a friend of hers and having another girl with them made me feel more comfortable about it all so I just assumed it would be an innocent hang out but it turned into much more. after a couple of hours of playing some silly board games and watching a few movies together which she texted me through they got some food and had a few drinks which also wasn't abnormal a couple drinks with friends is pretty harmless normally but she had never had anything to drink around them at this time I had gone to sleep for the evening the continued drinking and playing games until she texted me around 4 in the morning saying that some more people had come over and she decided to try weed with them for the first time in her life I can only assume the alcohol led her to this decision as she had always been adamant about never doing drugs but she did it and texted me during and after trying it about how it went adding in that she felt it was ok to try it because she trusted them and they would keep her safe that was the last I heard from her in 10 hours of course by this point I was very worried about what could have happened she finally woke up in bed with the guy she had gone to hang out with with no pants on and didn't realize what had happened until he kissed her and asked if she would like to join him in the shower she claims to remember nothing after getting into his bed and the waking up he claims she instigated it all but I just don't know what to believe she refused to call the police for rape because she couldn't answer if she instigated or he did she claimed she only went to his room because the girl was already asleep in the other bed and they didn't have a couch and since they picked her up and she was messed up she couldnt come home

I can't even comment on ANY responses? I changed my password but didn't help. This person ASKED me to help, and I can't answer! What's up?

He used to be my 5th closest friend. We used to eat together at the dining hall and talk about classes, sports, the gym, etc. (though I'm not super interested in sports like he is). However, we havent really had a lot of contact in a few months. I was heartbroken that he unfollowed me on instagram. Could it be a mistake? I rarely post. We don t have too much in common and I spend 95% of my social life with my top 4 friends, but I just don t want to lose him as a friend.

So me & this guy, let's call him Jared, have been friends for 4 years now. We met my freshman year of high school & his sophomore year. After he graduated he left to boot camp for the Marines & when he came back our friendship got so much stronger. We tell each other everything & have so much fun which is why I've been having feeling for him. He doesn't know that (I think) but recently we have gone to a water park with another friend of mine & when I got home she told me that Jared told her that he likes me but I kept befriending him. Then 2 days ago we went to a party & we danced so much. On the way back he laid on my lap while I ran my fingers through his hair & tbh I felt butterflies in my stomach. I only get to see him on the weekends since he's at base (he's doing active duty) & soon he's going to leave to be stationed somewhere else. I'm about to start college now but before he leaves I want to tell him how I feel but I'm afraid it'll ruin our friendship if what my friend said was false. How would you tell him if you were to?

So I have this friend at work and we bonded and connected really well. She's really cool and we get each other. So I want to create a clique of 4-5 people of close friends. How do I tell her this? I want to make a circle and unity of 5 people and I want us to trust each other, and be open and honest with each other and tell each other everything. So how do I tell her this?

I'm 15. In 6th grade there was this mean boy who'd continue harrassing me and call me every curse word known to mankind. And I sat right in the middle of him and his best friend in class so they'd harass me every single day. In 7th grade I remember one time we were going to run a mile and I was wearing jean shorts because I forgot my P.E. shorts and he told me "you look like a prostitute" and asked me if I was "looking for tips?" Meaning I was looking for tips (cash) for my "services." In 8th grade he would tease me at times and in 9th grade he didn't bother me that much. I wanted revenge on him today for lowering my self-esteem so badly so I logged into his school Google account and looked through his saved passwords and looked for the password to his Instagram account. I then deleted his Instagram account. My sister thinks he kind of deserves it but also thinks he doesn't at the same time because "it was a long time ago." What do you guys think? I think he deserves it because he was ruthlessly bullying me for no reasons and was totally ignorant to my feelings and whenever I felt like telling the teachers he would beg for me to stop. Just because I'm anonymous doesn't mean I'm a troll. You seem more like a "troll" ChokoCanyon, do you spend your whole day in this website?

So I was planning on going to an event called magcon with my friends. We all wanted meet and greet tickets, but they said it's too expensive and decided that they want to go just for general admission. I really want to meet everyone but I'm scared to be by myself. I have no other friends that are interested in going. What should I do?

We moved away and also away from my friends ,we were together like forever around 22 years.It's been almost 4 years , i am the one that i have to text them to learn about them to "talk", I see them on FB posting 7 years old friendship post and commenting best friends for ever etc, what about me? i was never one?:( I'm a bit desperate , i have met some guys here where i live now but they are nothing like them and i try to avoid some of them since they are liers , drug addicts.One girl is a good friend but only when she is mad with her boyfriend otherwise she wont even chat me (familiar?) and a guy that we hang out but he is a bit stupied but still enjoy spending time with him...

We were smoking weed (us and another friend) and we really didnt smoke that much like we all shared one joint and my other friend and i didnt feel anything but the third friend was uncontrollably laughing and saying she was "seeing things" but it was only weed (so there shouldnt be hallucinations). I dont smoke often so i feel as if it has nothing to do with tolerance. Im no expert tho. Could her tolerance just be very low?? She also started actinf high pretty quickly and i feel like it takes some time to sink in

Hi! I m a girl and I m going to be a sophomore in highschool and I feel like I ve wasted so much of my life just sitting around on my phone and doing nothing. I m not a bad person, ofcourse there s things I can improve on about myself but I try to be kind to others and help people. I helped a lot of my friends and they are always so thankful and really enjoy how understanding I am. I want to do something good for my community and peers. I want to become a better person. Is there any advice you could give me or anything like clubs, church groups (I m catholic), or just deeds I can do to not only help someone else out and make them feel good, but that will help me become a well wounded person and make me feel good about doing it. Thankyou!

I have few friends and the ones I do have arent very close at all. I feel very lonely-ish

So my friend told me that her mom grabs her butt a lot and one time she was laying down and her mom moved her hands up my friend's stomach and touched her breasts. My friend is 13 almost 14 btw

Tengo 13 años y no puedo aguantar la envidia que le siento a mi amigo El es blanco y yo ***** El esta musculoso y yo soy el palo de escoba El es guapo y yo soy mas feo que el bomito El es menor de sus hermanos y yo por el contrario soy el mayor y parezco su sirviente El Tiene muchos más seguidores que yo en redes sociales y yo con suerte tengo.5 El le cae bien a la mayoría de las personas yo ni a mi familia le agrado El Tiene novia y yo no le gustó ni a la pared El Tiene voz grave yo la tengo de ardilla Lo recogen de la escuela y solo vive a 5 calles y yo vivo como a 2 colonias y me voy solo en camión El si saca malas calificaciónes solo hablan con el a mi me pegan y me quitan todo El si fue deseado yo fui un accidente El Tiene todos los juegos de pokemon yo apenas me compre el sol pero tuve que trabajar con mi tío vendiendo carne y el se lo compraron solo por que le fue bien en los exámenes A el lo agrego todo el salón al face a mi casi nadie me acepta El es el mejor amigo de 5 personas yo no soy el mejor amigo de nadie por que soy feo El Tiene todas las vacaciones libres yo tengo que ir a trabajar para ganar dinero para un juego que quiero mucho A el se lo comprarían si le fuera bien en los exámenes A mi aunque saque 10 perfecto no me comprarían nada dicen que es mi obligación Ya no puedo con esto ya no quiero tenerle envidia es mi único amigo pero que puedo hacer

my friend is 13 years old, im about 6 months older than her. on saturday, her parents took her to the emergency room because she self harms and they didn't want her doing it again. i stay in touch with her mom so they'll tell me if anythings wrong or happens. last night, her mom called me and told me that she cut herself again in the emergancy room, they were out of the room at the time so they have no idea how she could've gotten anything sharp. she just arrived at the mental hospital yesterday morning at 2:30 am. shes my best friend and im so worried about her. they transported her to a hospital thats in memphis, im in nashville. i don't want her to feel alone. i asked her mom if she would be okay with me calling her at the mental hospital and she said they won't allow phone calls, they can't even talk to her. and my mom won't let me send her letters, because she wants her to get settled in before i send letters. what should i do? i really want to make sometime of contact with her.

I always thought it was great, but my best friend is not allowed to watch it bc her gpa is religious Christian. I am religious and I watch it. She said he will not let her watch it bc there is sex involved. What do you think? Is it a "bad" show?

Why do the people I have to be around with post every little thing on social media. I barely have social media, and the platform I use - I find just about every post being about their best friend, then they fight and both post a bunch of cheesy obvious quotes and wonder why everyone always does wrong to them, then screenshots text messages. Can anyone keep anything private? I literally can't trust anybody.

I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm going to the mall tomorrow(ALONEE). I used to go to the mall alone without caring. I'm afraid now because I have found out that other people are afraid to go alone. It started making me worried after I read forums about it.(does that make sense?) Its like watching a scary movie and all of the sudden you feel like an intruder is in your home. I can shop in department stores and feel confident but not in the mall where everyone is with their friends. I also don't want to go with my dad because he is VERY impatient and he starts to embarrass me and that's pretty much worse lol. Just let me know it's okay please :,-(|)

I am going to visit the city one of my old friends moved to a year ago. She said to visit if I was in town but I feel as though that was an empty statement as I haven't heard from her the whole time. I am visiting family there, should I feel obligated to make plans or just pretend like I forgot she lives there? She also visited the town I live in now a few months ago but made no effort to contact me (I saw on social media). I just feel tied to her since we went to high school and college together. If she sees that I went to her city and didn't message her I feel like she will get offended.

Honestly I've been trying, and I've only managed to talk to one stranger on instagram, and I didn't even start the conversation. I have rlly bad anxiety, and for some reason it affects me online too. I can't even comment on a photo without getting nervous. I want to try and become friends with people, and comment and whatever but it's so hard. I don't want to seem creepy, and I feel they'll hate me. I don't have online friends or irl friends. I'm ******* pathetic. I rlly needs tips and help. How do I just message someone??? What would I even say??? I have a few people I'd like to message. Also I just need friends in general. Please help.

And don't talk to me anymore. One lost her phone the other blocked me. I guess they wasn't real friends. I'm kinda sad though because I have guy friends but it's nothing like talking to a female friend. Advice

In my friend group, I am the one who cracks the most sex jokes and often mentions topics concerning sexual behaviour and affairs. My friends are different compared to me and I just feel so strange. I am always hormonal and they never seem to go through what I do. I literally crave sex 25/7. It would just be nice to have someone to talk to about this. Because I feel like I'm the only one in my circle of close friends who feels this way.

I am close to 30 years old. Most of the people that I meet are rude to me, so I have no choice. But is it bad?

My band mate lost his best friend today. His friend was hit by a car and didn't make it. He was still young. He was like a brother to him. He's been feeling sad all day. His parents live far away he doesn't know if they're coming to the funeral. He never sees them anymore. His friend was the only one he really had. How can I comfort him ?

I thought we were friends but now all my friends go in a group together and leave me and my other friend behind. It sucks and it hurts and I get it, stay positive, I didn't need them anyways but it still hurts. I've have 5 emotional breakdowns in the past 2 days and no matter how much I tell myself that they're stupid and that real friends don't leave like that, it just makes me think more and more about them leading me onto another breakdown