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- Question: If my friend gets a fight, do I have to get in the way?
- Question: All my friends are prettier than me!!?
- Question: What to do about a fake friend?
- Question: Was I being over sensitive over my friends's prank?
- Question: Who owns a surprise birthday party, the planner or the birthday boy?
- Question: Good convorsation topics?
- Question: Is this a weird idea ?
- Question: EXCUSE FOR NOT GOING TO SUMMER CAMP?? HELP!!!?
- Question: I emailed my new college roommate to meet her, and she hasn't replied. Any advice on what to do will help!!?
- Question: If you need to find help for yourself or a friend who is suicidal, which of the following should you do?
- Question: Friend encourages his boys to fight?
- Question: When a stranger calls you "my friend": really not your friend?
- Question: How can I stop being friends with someone, when I've already become so emotionally attached to them.?
- Question: Do you ever feel this way/why do i feel like this?
- Question: Meeting my friend's parents?
- Question: What are polite manners for Facebook? Do I friend someone again you declined my friends are passed two years ago?
- Question: So, I'm really nervous to ask this but I'm really attracted to my half sisters cousin to the point it emotionally hurts...IDK what to do...?
- Question: I'm stuck in a lie?
- Question: My friend is sad and crying all the time but she doesnt want to say why? It's getting really annoying. What to do with her?
- Question: I don't know how to respond?
- Question: My friends pulled the most f*cked up prank on me and i reacted badly. Was i being unreasonable?
- Question: What is a good thank you gift for someone lending you a trailer/sleeper?
- Question: I need help?
- Question: Ew boy bestfriend?
- Question: Why do you think the dude blocked me?
- Question: Where do I go from here?
- Question: What can my friend do about being mistreated at home?
- Question: I can't go to my friend's party because of social anxiety, what should I do?
- Question: I can t go to my friend s party because of social anxiety, what should I do?
- Question: Threw a partyq and no one came?
- Question: Best friend 6 years younger than me, is it normal?
- Question: I don't really like who I am and want to change, but how?
- Question: Should I speak to my friend?
- Question: Why do teenagers swear so much?
- Question: Stansgirl_2012?
- Question: I got "kicked out of a party"?
- Question: I'm loseing all my friends I feel really lonely because I have no friends anymore really an if I do hang with them they r mean and rude?
- Question: Is it true that Trump has no friends?
- Question: My friend embarrased me infront of the whole school by pulling my pants down while i was saying a speech what should i do now?
- Question: Need advice/ help:(?
- Question: My boyfriend is breaking up with me because he doesn't like my friends?
- Question: My parents dont care about me - only me school?
- Question: I have no friends. How do I make some?
- Question: 14 almost 15 and I feel like Im wasting my teen years?
- Question: How does one get a fake friend I would like a fake friend, some that are no really me friend but they act like friends? Thank you?
- Question: Should I talk to my best friend that I have a problem with her?
- Question: Women who pull their jeans up towards their butt crack while in the presence of a particular guy, why do they do it?
- Question: Why do people keep leaving me easily?
- Question: Why does my friend call me every night?
- Question: Is it normal for my brother who was my best friend to act like an asshole an ignore me for almost a year. even though we live in same house?
- Question: Meeting my friend's parents?
- Question: My friend won't let her close friend who's a boy talk to me?
- Question: Why should I be alive?
- Question: Trust issues?
- Question: What is wrong with me?
- Question: Is it rude to spend an hour on the phone talking to one friend while another friend with whom you went out with that night is still over?
- Question: Irritating friends keep teasing me thinking I always jack off just because I didn't want to go to the mall with them?
- Question: My friend is coming over for the first time,i have nothing interesting i only have my hamster i want to entertain her?
- Question: I lost my phone in my house?!?
- Question: Letting friends "go"?
| Question: If my friend gets a fight, do I have to get in the way? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 05:54 PM PDT |
| Question: All my friends are prettier than me!!? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 05:50 PM PDT And the worst part is, my closest friend who I hang out with the most is one of the most popular girls on the school. She's gorgeous, and adorable, and I'm just the awkward one standing next to her while she gets asked out, invited to parties, Ect. I tru not to compare myself but it's near impossible when I'm around them. I just wish I was less awkward and people liked me. |
| Question: What to do about a fake friend? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 05:32 PM PDT I want to do something about a fake friend who's pretended to be one of my best friends for over seven years. I genuinely like her and enjoyed the time we spent together. I always knew she liked friend #2 more than me, they hung out a lot more and she told friend #2 things she never told me. It bothered me because I had been friends with her for longer, because friend #2 talked **** about her behind her back, and because I told her everything, but I guess I can't really fault her for not liking me as much as I liked her. So, I never said anything about it. But just to give you more background on the kind of person she is she dated one of my closest guy friends a while back and always complained about him to me. I didn't even know we had problems?? But then he would get mad at me too. when they broke up he apologized and he was like, "I can't believe I got mad at you about all the stupid **** she told me." Anyway basically she's apparently getting married and she only told friend #2. This just really pisses me off because I've been nothing but a good friend to her and I don't understand why she secretly doesn't like me or something. friend #2 of course went and told everybody the moment she found out. What should I do?? she's hurt my feelings so many times and I want her to know it. At the same time I don't want there to be a big confrontation. should I just cut her off and blocked her on everything?? |
| Question: Was I being over sensitive over my friends's prank? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 04:37 PM PDT So I was spending the night with to of my friends in a tent in her backyard. Everything was going fine and we were just talking while laying down in the tent. Suddenly we saw a spider, I didn't have my glasses on so I thought the spider was actually in the tent, instead of just crawling on the outside. I have a huge fear of spiders, which both of my friends know, so I started to scream. One of my friends, I'll call her S, pretended to throw the spider at me, and the other friend, K, played along. I had no idea it wasn't real, so I actually started crying and shaking. K apparently wanted to stop and tell me it was a joke, but S made her shut up and kept saying that the spider was close to. I was bawling at this point (which is sorta embarrassing). Was I being oversensitive? S has known how scared I am of spiders for years. |
| Question: Who owns a surprise birthday party, the planner or the birthday boy? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 04:22 PM PDT I crashed a surprise birthday party of a close friend of mine (his name is Coby). I saw a snap of another friend of mine (Bella) with other people, some who i'm also friends with at coby's house prepring for a surprise party. I felt so jealous of not being part that I decided to come (his house was nearby). I got some drinks and brought some cards. When I went in the house, many people were happy to see me, even Coby. We played poker together and King's Cup (less alcoholic version). However, one guy (Rafa) was extremely angry at me. I was texting my brother outside and he came to me and asked "HOW THE F*** DID YOU KNOW ABT THIS AND WHY THE HELL DID YOU COME?" He actually the one who gave the invites and I told him "PISS OFF! COBY likes it that I came so SCREW YOU!" He blocked me on FB the next day. |
| Question: Good convorsation topics? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 03:55 PM PDT im looking for good convorsation topics with my friend (i know her well, 6mos) and i cant think of any right now because i m too high. just topics in general please |
| Question: Is this a weird idea ? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 03:42 PM PDT I'm 20 and I have a much older friend who is in her 60's (I hope that's not weird) she's helped me through a lot of hard times, were extremely close, she's an amazing friend to have. Her mom died last year and it's about to be the 1 year mark since then, she's going to be so upset this month. She got a new pool recently and I was thinking, what if I wrote a short sweet hand written letter and sent it to her along with a new comfy pool float! Would that be weird? |
| Question: EXCUSE FOR NOT GOING TO SUMMER CAMP?? HELP!!!? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 03:28 PM PDT I went to this summer camp last year but I didn't really like it and I don't wanna go this year. But all my friends are asking me if I'm going and I need a GOOD excuse. I can't use the vacation excuse because they know I'm going on vacation in August after camp ends. I don't wanna tell them I don't want to go so just please give me a good excuse I can use. |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 03:18 PM PDT Ok so I finally got my assigned roommate this past Monday. They gave me her name and her email address, so I emailed her. I introduced myself and said something like I was excited about college and wanted to get to know her before move in day. So I've been waiting for a reply, but nothing. I know it's only been a couple days, but I'm really eager to meet her. I don't want to bother her though, which is why I haven't sent another email, but I don't really know what to do. So what should I do? Should I email her again or is that clingy? Or should I just wait?? If you took the time to help me out, thank you! It really means a lot. Sincerely, The girl thats currently freaking out. |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 02:21 PM PDT A. Find a place where you can be alone B. Call an emergency hotline C. Look in the phone book for a counselor D. Suggest that your friend talk to an adult he or she trusts I've narrowed it down to the last three but I dont think its C oops on the last part i meant to say i dont think its B |
| Question: Friend encourages his boys to fight? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 02:16 PM PDT My friend has 2 boys, ages 8 and 10, who often rough-house. I've witnessed first hand the boys fight and wrestle with each other, and rather than stepping in and stopping it, my friend encourages them and sometimes even eggs them on. I've watched the older boy kick the younger boy in the head repeatedly until he cries. It makes me uncomfortable, and when I ask him about it, he says it helps teach the boys to stand up for each other and that it is a good life lesson. I can't help but wonder if this is child abuse, even though he's not the being abusive? It's not illegal to wrestle with your siblings, but is this acceptable behavior? |
| Question: When a stranger calls you "my friend": really not your friend? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 02:09 PM PDT If a complete stranger calls you "my friend", is that kind of like people in the Southern US who say "Bless your heart": it's really a nasty statement, meaning that the stranger really dislikes you? |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 02:08 PM PDT I used to think that my best friend and I were going to be friends forever, but lately, she keeps acting differetly(in a bad way) to me around other people, she keep physically hurting me(and then saying it was a joke or an accident), she keeps embarrassing me, and she keeps pointing out the flaws of my boyfriend and I really don't appreciate it. And I know if I stop being friends with her, she's gonna make a huge deal out of it and cry and be so over dramatic and I'll feel bad. How can I stop being friends with her? Please help. |
| Question: Do you ever feel this way/why do i feel like this? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 02:04 PM PDT Im a senior in HS and im considered like (ik it sounds stupid) RELATIVELY "popular." Im generally well liked and get invited to parties and throw some myself. But still, when my whole class is together, i feel utterly lost and alone. I dont fall into any specific category or "group" so at class events, i dont know who to talk too since im too shy to just bud into a group convo. I usually end up accidentally clinging to one person or friend. For that reason, school-related class gatherings cause me a lot of anxiety but parties do not. I just think this is odd and was wondering if anyone feels the same. |
| Question: Meeting my friend's parents? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 01:48 PM PDT So, I'm planning to meet my friend's parents so that they know the person their son is often hanging out with and so that they would perhaps let him sleep over at my place. I have some experience with meeting the parents and they usually liked me but this time it's much more different. These parents are really conservative and religious and I am exactly the opposite. I know not to bring up those topics but I'm afraid they would bring up politics or religion and I don't know what I should say if I disagree with them. Another problem is that I have dyed red hair with a sidecut and they judge people by their looks so they would probably think badly of me because of that. I listen to rock and alternative and usually dress that way but that's not such a problem as I have "normal" clothes as well. Do you have any tips about what I could do to get them to like me nevertheless? I really care about this friendship and wouldn't like it if they tried to get in the way just because I'm different... |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 01:46 PM PDT For example my mom's niece declined my friend request but she was very bitter and not speaking to my mom at the time. She has softened some so do I friend her again? Same question with old classmates on there that might not of remembered me right away. |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 01:37 PM PDT I have been a friend of my half sister side of the family for years now, my half sister has this cousin i like alot and ive only felt this type of LOVE ONCE IN MY LIFE WITH MY EX but this is more stronger then Kitty love and each day it seems to get worse, it's been about a year now and i keep spiraling down a sad path. Emotionally not telling her is killing me each breath i take. IDK if we are FAMILY or not and if we are (I NEED HELP LOL) but if we are not then how do i tell her without losing our friend ship or making it awkward. i really want to tell her but i don't know how...please help!!!.... HAS ANYONE EVER FELT THIS WAY I HATE LOVE LOL.... |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 01:28 PM PDT (rly bad caption sorry) So basically maybe a year ago I told this story to my friend about a thing that happened to me? The thing is, the story was completely fake, all lies. I don't really know why I did it, I guess I just wanted to sound interesting in front of new friends. I just thought people would forget about it. Well, they did not. The friend asked me to tell the story to another friend, them another, and soon everyone in mu close circle knew the story. Every time I'm talking with new people, someone asks me to tell it. It's basically the thing I'm known for. I mean, it's nothing that could cause any harm, but I'm afraid that someone will find out it was fake and I'll embarrass myself. |
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| Question: I don't know how to respond? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 01:11 PM PDT There is a girl who texted me, hello Senpai. Hmm... should I just respond with Hi? Or is there something I can say too. I don't know |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 12:57 PM PDT I am 18, and me and 5 friends went on holiday in uk. We were staying at this house... Anyway my friends know that i have a fear of getting buried alive. When i went asleep they picked me up and put me on a table, they got this wooden box thing and put it over my head and held it down... Then they started hammering it, like they were putting in nails. I woke up and screamed, they held it down for like 30 seconds, and i couldn't see nothing and i was sh*t scared. When i finally find out its a prank i was so furious, My friends were laughing except the one girl who was with us as she tried to help me.(i dont think she was in on it)... at this point i had rolled of the table and was laying on the floor, breathing heavily cause i was so scared, because i actually thought i was buried alive. i was so angry, and my friend who said it was his idea was still laughing and i got up and punched him so hard in his jawside, he was just dazed. He was just seeing stars and fell down. i left and its been a few hours since.... did i over react. Iv gotten texts from the guy saying he doesnt hate me and that he deserved the punch. Idk what to do, im just pretty angry they would use my greatest fear as a prank on me. |
| Question: What is a good thank you gift for someone lending you a trailer/sleeper? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 12:16 PM PDT Hubs is borrowing a pop up trailer/sleeper from a friend and we are going on a week-long camping trip to the Smokey mountains. After the trip, I'd like to do something to thank him for lending us the camper. I don't know him that well, and my husband said returning it in spotless condition is all that he would expect. I know my husband lends him things all the time, but these are usually smaller items. I suggested having him over for steaks and my husband said, "Steak! We're not borrowing $1,000 from him!" Still spending about $10-$15 to feed someone seems like cheap rent for a pop up trailer/sleeper. |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 12:08 PM PDT one of my friend invited me to go to her swimming pool tomorrow i'm really shy , I know its sounds stupid but i'm really shy and when I going out with my friends I don't say anything I don't talk with them , should I go to my friend's house and swimming ? bcs I don't know how can I have fun with her , I really hate myself , what should I do? |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 12:05 PM PDT So my ex boy bestfriend unfollowed me on insta and even unfollowed me frim his small brother's insta account (he is the one who wons the account) today i open my follow requests and he requested to follow me wat does it mean ? or was it by mistake owns* |
| Question: Why do you think the dude blocked me? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 11:52 AM PDT One of my friends passed away a few weeks ago and I became friends with his best friend (he asked me to be friends on Facebook) I knew him since I was a kid but never talked to him. Well Friday I told him he was hot it was 11:30 pm he told me at 1:30am that I was hot when I message him back at 9am Saturday morning he blocked me why would he block me? I didn't do anything wrong |
| Question: Where do I go from here? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 11:46 AM PDT I turned 60 yrs old yesterday. Oddly enough I have no friends. I am miserable. I am lonely. I used to work in a gym years ago, met a few people, but they went on their way. One of the ladies lives two streets over. I have tried to be friends, but she does things with other people, never invite me. It was birthday yesterday and I got a happy birthday from my handyman. The lady that lives two streets over said she would take me out for my birthday on Tuesday but didn't text or call to say Happy Birthday. Most days I want to live other days not so much. I live by myself trying to run a house with all it's problems and no one to confer with. I am a Christian and that's how I am making it through life. What did I do to create this hell? |
| Question: What can my friend do about being mistreated at home? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 11:45 AM PDT So, we re both pretty young, 13 and my friend told me that basically because he is a step child he can t have anything his brothers can, kind of like a guy Cinderella. Please help, it pains me that he is getting mistreated. I texted him today asking him what he can eat, because he can t have cereal, and all he said was "I can have toast". |
| Question: I can't go to my friend's party because of social anxiety, what should I do? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 11:44 AM PDT I have social anxiety and I hate going to party s well I hate going anywhere and socialising with others which is why I only have two friends, but one of my friends invited me to her birthday party and she has a lot of friends so I know it s going to be a big party. She doesn t know that I have anxiety because I find it difficult to talk about. Of course I want to see my friend and wish her a happy birthday but I just know I m going to have a bad time, but if I don t go I m going to look like a terrible friend. |
| Question: I can t go to my friend s party because of social anxiety, what should I do? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 11:43 AM PDT I have social anxiety and I hate going to party's well I hate going anywhere and socialising with others which is why I only have two friends, but one of my friends invited me to her birthday party and she has a lot of friends so I know it's going to be a big party. She doesn't know that I have anxiety because I find it difficult to talk about. Of course I want to see my friend and wish her a happy birthday but I just know I m going to have a bad time, but if I don't go I m going to look like a terrible friend. |
| Question: Threw a partyq and no one came? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 11:18 AM PDT Last night I was throwing a kickback I invited my closer friends which is about 5 people and then invited around 5 people who said they were bringing people around a week ago. They all said yes and that they would bring something. I went out and bought snacks and other stuff.. That night my closest friends show up. But then the others I invited didn t show up after they said yes. I was embarrassed and still am because I told my friends there would be more people so we could all have a good time. What I don t get is that they said they would come but they didn t. Last night I even heard one of my friends friend ( who I know and talk to but aren t close to) talk about it and how boring it is which made me feel worse. |
| Question: Best friend 6 years younger than me, is it normal? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 11:14 AM PDT I'm 19, and I see him more like a brother whom I really like being with. We share common interests, and I like having a mentoring role. He's like the brother I never had, a younger version of me. Is it odd that I see him as one of my best friends? Or that I enjoy so much talking to him? Thanks. edit: Don't get me wrong, I do have lots of friends my age. He is about the only one his age I get along with. |
| Question: I don't really like who I am and want to change, but how? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 11:08 AM PDT I'm a senior in high school and I graduate in a little under 2 weeks. Pretty much throughout high school I've been introverted and socially awkward, and everybody sees me as the "smart girl", you know, the one who you ask to do "help" you with your homework all the time. I have a really hard time making friends because it takes me a bit to warm up to people, and before I can, people have already made up their minds that I'm too quiet and awkward to be considered worthy of being their friend. Really all I've ever wanted is to be more socially confident and even just a little more outgoing, but I have no idea where to start. I figured going off to college next year will give me the fresh start I've been waiting for; I've gone to school with pretty much the same people since elementary and this is the first time I'm going off to college where I'll know literally no one. I want to make good first impressions and start friendships off on the right foot, but I'm not sure I know how, and my confidence about doing that is pretty much at 0 right now. I'd really appreciate any advice at all on how to go about tackling this! |
| Question: Should I speak to my friend? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 10:54 AM PDT ok so I spoke bad about my friend behind her back but only because she does it to me and my other friends. long story short she found out and told me to never speak to her again but then she always replies to my status and acts like nothing happened so should I do the same or just not speak to her again? |
| Question: Why do teenagers swear so much? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 10:22 AM PDT I'm only 12 but it gets annoying even though some kids my age swear a lot too. My 15 year old cousin swears nonstop in every 2-4 sentences. So does the majority of her friends. Whenever you walk down a high school hallway, you will hear at least one swear word. Its the same everywhere I go. I'm on a trip to the US (california) from Canada right now, and I see groups of people at the beach. Mostly teens, who will swear nonstop in public. Back in Canada, it's no difference from the US, most teenagers will scream and swear loudly enough for everyone to hear. Whats with the swearing? And why do mostly teenagers do it? Ive seen a few adults use that kind of language a lot and kids my age do it less, but most adults I know don't swear very much and most younger kids think its the "worst thing ever" and will snitch if someone does |
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| Question: I got "kicked out of a party"? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 09:47 AM PDT There was a party that me and my two best friends went to. I didn't know the guy but one of my best friends did and i know that anyone from our school could go and i know that some of my friends were going. We got there and entered and my ex best friend said "I hate them all" and that was so embarrassing. No one was doing anything. There were hardly any people. We wanted to leave but we didn't want to pass through them. We just stayed there towards the back and they got some guys to tell us," They said no one invited you." and one of my friends knew both of them. We left and they watched us leave but we just went to get food and hung out with our other friend who said the party was lame. I'm just so embarrassed and i don't want anyone talking about when i go back to school. Summer already started for me and it was a good day because i slept over at my friends house but just that part ruined it. I feel like everyone hates me for no good reason. |
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| Question: Is it true that Trump has no friends? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 09:27 AM PDT |
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| Question: Need advice/ help:(? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 09:01 AM PDT It was my friend Emma's birthday today and me and my twin sister and lily and Alexis went to the mall at the same day of the party. we weren't sure if we should go bc all of Emma's friends, aren't our friends so we would be kinda left out. So we were going to make the excuse of "we didn't know it was today". Then, about an hour later, (her birthday party started at 5, it wa alike 3:30) we were still at the mall, and we talked about it again. My twin sister and Alexis were saying that they wanted to go.lily , was telling us we would be late by the time we got there and it was rude to show up late, we shouldnt go at all. So we split up and I call lily asking what they are going to do. They said they would tell if they are going. Me and my twin get in the car and tell my dad everything and he explained what we did wrong and that we treated her wrong. I told Emma EVERYTHING. I apologize and told THE TRUTH! I sent her a long text explaining what happen bc she asked if I was coming. My dad then said we couldn't go bc the way we acted.lily started denying stuff and lying when we had evidence. Lily & Alexis go to the party, start tell Emma lies while I was on the phone with one of my best friends at the party and everyone believed us. Lily starts being a ***** and saying that emma is mad at me and my twin but not them. So we all Facetime and get it figured out. We end and lily texts me saying it isn't over what should I do? I told the truth and everything! |
| Question: My boyfriend is breaking up with me because he doesn't like my friends? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 08:39 AM PDT my friends don't like my boyfriend because of his past he has a past of being drug abuser and he has changed and I'm proud and my friends just don't see that, even when the changes show they don't want to believe any different than what he was and say he'll always be. I get tired of hearing the negative thoughts about him and of course my friends get upset about me standing up for him...so this begins to cause like problems and since they say all that they say about him he obviously doesn't feel too good about them and he doesn't like the idea of me hanging out with his "enemies " i get that but it's not like we all sit and talk smack about him but that's how he sees it.. it's became to the point I can't even hangout with him without my friends getting upset so it stresses him out because he knows I care for my friends as well and I choose to stay with them most of the time and not go to him, it turns into some choosing game and I hate it. I do talk to my friends about this but I feel like it never gets to their heads. Just last night my boyfriend texted me and told me he can't deal with it anymore that the stress from this is eating him alive and even though he wants to be with me all of this drama is only pushing him away and it really sucks because I feel so much for him and I don't wanna see him go because of other people's thoughts, but it's like I can't just drop my friends I do care for my friendships with them I just hate that they are this way towards him . |
| Question: My parents dont care about me - only me school? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 07:56 AM PDT im super deppressed and i keep telling them, but they dont care. I dont care about school at this point, because the job i want when im older dosent require it. (im 13 btw). They both verbaly and sometimes physicaly assault me, and they tell me im wrong to tell me im right an hour later. |
| Question: I have no friends. How do I make some? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 07:52 AM PDT I'm in middle school. Well I'm in 8th grade and year is almost over but I'm still in middle school. You know how it is in middle school, all the cliques and drama. Well the problem is is that I'm the only girl in my grade that doesn't have a clique or friends. Every day at lunch and recess (recess is only twice a week) I sit/stand alone and look at all the cliques socialize. I have gone to the same school my entire life and I just don't get it. Why does nobody want to be my friend. My parents always say I should have friends because I have a good sense of humor. But it really wrecks me seeing the groups hang out at school and on social media. |
| Question: 14 almost 15 and I feel like Im wasting my teen years? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 07:25 AM PDT Almost every adult says the teen years are the best, but I don't feel that way at all. Im wasting mines away. I see people on my snap going to parties, the pool, hanging with friends and I get jealous. I've always wanted to hang out with these girls, but they're so (trap/hood/always wanting to fight). Basically Im not popular or trendy like the teens that hang out with each other like that. The few friends I do have, I ask to hangout, but they always say no or I don't feel like it or I can't. Im going to be 15 and I don't have much longer to "live my life" as adults say. All I do is sit around watching youtube ,play games on my phone, listen to music, or jog around the neighborhood. Will I have more fun sophomore year? College? Are the teen years suppose to be the best? Because if they are, I guess the rest of my life is going to suck *** |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 06:01 AM PDT |
| Question: Should I talk to my best friend that I have a problem with her? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 05:19 AM PDT I don't know how I feel about her anymore. She says we're close when really she's always too busy to meet up and hangs out with her friends more and has more of a good time with them. I always have to be the one to ask and to plan when if she wants to hangout and it's just too complicated when doing so. I feel like I put most of the effort in trying to stay friends with her. Recently, one of her friends talked to me about some stuff that I never knew about her and claims that they know the real her. My best friend still calls me her best friend and that I'm her number 1 and loves me because I make her happy. I honestly feel like I don't know her but I don't wanna come off and tell her that I'm not feeling a connection with her and don't really care much for her anymore. I don't really like her friends (be friends with whoever you want by all means) but I feel like I'm coming in second and I'm never the first to know whats going on in her life. |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 04:47 AM PDT Where i live, a number of the girls and women, while walking pass me when I am outside, i have noticed them pulling their pants up while passing. The pants is already skin fit, but they still pull it up in lifting their butt and everything with it. Why do you think they do it? |
| Question: Why do people keep leaving me easily? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 03:44 AM PDT Honestly speaking it s easy for me to attract friends as I m a pretty open and funny person the problem is they always somehow leave the same way. They go ghost. And when I try to confront them and ask what happened or what I did it s always "lol nothings wrong don t worry" and I m not being clingy at all, I know there s fine line between clingy and curious and I don t cross that line. I just don t understand what s wrong with me to the point where this happens 24/7. I already know I trust too easily and I basically wear my heart on my sleeves so I know that s part of the problem but I don t know what else to do. I don t want to change myself but at the same time I don t want to continue hurting myself by feeling this heartbreak. Please do help as this is basically my last hope |
| Question: Why does my friend call me every night? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 03:08 AM PDT I really miss one of my best friends. He lives 75 miles away so 46 minutes away I haven't seen him since February 22nd. He rings me every night but he promised to come up and see me but he hasn't. He said his mum was ill so couldn't come up, when I offered to see him he said he had problems with his neighbours but his mum is out of hospital now and I asked if I could see him in a few weeks and he said ''well see'' and ''maybe'' I even offered to move to his area to see him more and even then he said he wouldn't be able to see me much. I asked him how often he said ''I don't know'' It just feels I'm doing everything I can to see him but I get nothing in return but yet he rings me every night , I don't understand?? Why ring me but won't see me?? Does he feel obligated to call me so he doesn't upset me?? My friend said this to me Play it cool, don't always instantly answer your phone when he rings, if your busy doing something he can wait. If he asks to see you don't always immediately say yes, do what he does to you and say maybe and you'll get back to him x Guarantee hell start to make the effort if I mean anything to him x |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 02:25 AM PDT |
| Question: Meeting my friend's parents? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 01:43 AM PDT So, I'm planning to meet my friend's parents so that they know the person their son is often hanging out with and so that they would perhaps let him sleep over at my place. I have some experience with meeting the parents and they usually liked me but this time it's much more different. These parents are really conservative and religious and I am exactly the opposite. I know not to bring up those topics but I'm afraid they would bring up politics or religion and I don't know what I should say if I disagree with them. Another problem is that I have dyed red hair with a sidecut and they judge people by their looks so they would probably think badly of me because of that. I listen to rock and alternative and usually dress that way but that's not such a problem as I have "normal" clothes as well. Do you have any tips about what I could do to get them to like me nevertheless? I really care about this friendship and wouldn't like it if they tried to get in the way just because I'm different... |
| Question: My friend won't let her close friend who's a boy talk to me? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 12:42 AM PDT Hey y'all, so I have a friend (we can call her Carly), who I'm kind of close with and she has liked the same guy (he can be Bill) for years but he has no interest in her and has even politely told her he just wants to be friends, which they do still maintain a pretty close friendship. So about a month ago I attended an event where a lot of people from my town went and Carly, another friend, and I were walking around. We ended up meeting up with Bill and hung with him for a while. I just found out that ever since that event Bill has had a crush on me and has been asking Bella for my number which she refuses to give. She has been doing several things to try and prevent him from talking to me. I have always had an interest in Bill but because of Carly liking him so much I stayed away. I guess what I want to ask is would it be wrong if I did start talking to Bill? Carly isn't getting anywhere with him, why can't I? and was it wrong for Carly to refuse to let him talk with me? |
| Question: Why should I be alive? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 12:23 AM PDT Why? Death is bound to happen some day. I'm 17 but I'm overweight, I can't keep clean and my best friend doesn't want me anymore, neither does anyone else. Nobody is real anymore. Why live |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 12:03 AM PDT Cant trust a friend anymore. We were really close but he just threw it all away lie after lie. Gave him chances to regain my trust. Would tell him secrets, but he would tell them and lie to me in my face. What should I even do. We were going to hang out but I dont know what to do anymore. Should I still just hang out with him and be friends but not as close. Or start to distance myself |
| Question: What is wrong with me? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 12:00 AM PDT Ok hope everyone understands but I have problems with going downstairs when my roommate has friends over some of these people I met before its like something prevents me from feeling like im interrupting them but when I invite someone over I have no issues with going downstairs and I have no problems with going to school or working. I just would like to feel comfortable in my home lol. |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2017 11:46 PM PDT |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2017 11:43 PM PDT They asked me to go to the mall and I declined. Then they started peer pressuring saying to stop jacking off and go with them. I kept saying no but they kept asking. Now they keep teasing me saying I always masturbate and its so irritating and immature. They are 19 & 36 and the 19 year old keeps asking me to buy him beer and tonight I blocked both of their numbers. What should i do ? |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2017 11:05 PM PDT first impression is everything,when i visited her she had xbox,board games ..etc so how can i make it interesting when she comes over? i need some tips |
| Question: I lost my phone in my house?!? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 11:01 PM PDT Im so mad. i punched literally everything. I have a basketball tournament i need to get too and i have rides and i cannot find my phone anywhere. It like randomly disapeared. im in a fight with my parents so they dont care. and they wont buy me a new one. I have a lot of plans for tomorrow and they wont help me. No one is. What should I do? I tried retracing my steps, dug in the trashcan outside. NOTHING. find my iphone i tried, and it says my phone is off. |
| Question: Letting friends "go"? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 10:47 PM PDT So I met my best friend in kindergarten and we were always best buddies until 4th grade when I left the school and moved to another state it was extremely hard to make friends and I saw my old friend about once a year and thought nothing could ever separate us and I also thought we would always be best friends. Then he left that school and moved away 3-4 hours away from where I live now and I am always reminded by my parents to keep in touch with my friends bc my dad said he wished he stayed in better touch with his friends. So I message him every now and then and see he has made new friends just as I have I'm now in 7th grade age 14 and I realized I never made another friend like him who I could to tell anything to and just be myself. The only thing Is it seems my friend doesn't want anything to do with me now and it's honestly Tourn me apart and it's not like I said anything mean or something I'm so confused. Is it time to move on? Thanks for reading -Chris |
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