Why can't I just go to work without someone making sure that I have a hard time getting through the day? How come I can't take my dog out without being watched by the neighbors? How come I can't be at my leisure on my day off without someone saying something about it....it's pissing me off... the other day a neighbor who I don't know that we'll asked me about how much my partner and I pay for rent... I told that he and I don't talk about financial hardships.

There is this kid that was at my lunch table during school and is in all of my instagram group chats. Well this kids is addicted to feet. And he is always asking everyone for feet pics. He even asks random strangers. And it is getting super annoying for me and all of my friends. What should I do about it. What are the ways we can get him help. We are all super annoyed about it and want it to stop. Please help me

my team does not listen to me. they don't do what i want/tell them to do. but when somebody else tells them the same thing, they do it. this really makes me angry.. not knowing what to do. what should i do to make them more flexible with me and build a better relationship with my team mates? i am the manager of the team btw. i am new manager. but they were there since 3 years or so.

I met this guy at my job who got hired a month after I did, We're both in our early 20s. We were good pals at first quite cordial with each other, to where I kinda called him like a bro and he said we're like cousins. From that day on, him and I were legit like fam. Now, we both look a lot different and have gotton more attractive. We do everything together, we go out to eat, he lets me drive his car, he quit the job we both worked because I got fired, and he's always there, as I am for him. His parents and mine both think the whole cousin thing is crazy that it's childish. I definitely like him and have feelings for him. He's going to take me out for my birthday, but he told me his blood cousin wants to meet me. (it's not a hookup, his cousin is married) I'm kinda nervous because him and Edwin are like brothers and I'm not sure if I'm being judged or if he wants to know if I'm worthy of him. If him and I aren't dating, why does he want to meet me?

I'm 15 and she's 14. We've been best friends for 10 years and we are extremely close. Well this past year she's been drinking and stuff, not a huge deal to me. But then she's been telling me lately that's she's been doing drugs a lot and going to parties. This makes me really upset because my dad was a drug addict and so I'm sensitive to that subject and she knows that. She thinks it's fun and it's cool that she does it. She blames it on peer pressure but then why go in the first place? I can't just stop being friends with her because she's my best friend but I don't know what to do. It's really bugging me

Ok, so this has been really bothering me, but we have 1/2 day left so that's good, but this is the only place I can go to telling people without ever being embarrassed about this. So this happened today. I couldn't find my friend anywhere (turns out she was in the lunch line!) so I saw this girl (who was wearing the exact shirt as her and the hair looked the same) but I couldn't identify who it was. And I thought it was my friend. She was also sitting at the table of people who hate everyone and are very snobby, and one of my friends best friends was sitting there which lead me to think it was her. (She was also sitting next to the girl that has spread rumors about me in the past, which I thought was weird) so I went over to the table and hardly tapped her, cause that's what me and my friend do, and she turned around, and it was NOT my friend. In fact, it was the girl who also spread rumors about me, so I looked her directly in the eye and then I quickly just looked around their table and said I was looking for something. Then I made my other friend come over again with me like 2 minutes later to "check" again. But before I went the second time, I was already sitting at my table and the 1st girl who talked bad about me was like "why did you come over? What are you looking for" and I made up a lie. But after me and my friend went to that table the second time I saw them put their hands up over their mouth like they always do when they talk about people. How do I accept this?

I need some help to improve my life. The thing is everyone is disgusted from me they think I m psycho. No matter howhard I try no one ever wants to be friend with even when I tell my parents they told me that you are abnormal or just ignore my problem. I like to help each other but my friend always say I don t need help from you are mad. Teachers also believe that I m worst student even I know everything they don t even ask a single question to me so that I can answer to change their mind. I have started having suicidal thought. But don t be scared I don t want die . its just I want everyone to believe me and trust me not to abuse me . I cry ever night just having thoughts about that. I know that if I try I will be the best friend off everyone but I don t know how. Please give me advice to help me.

Ok so dont say im gay or i wanna have sex with him cus thats not the case at all. we've been close friends for a few years and we can talk about any sexual or personal stuff or crushes n stuff. be said he wanted the masturbate with me but we couldnt cus there were other ppl with us, how can we get naked together/masturbate just us 2? hes done it with 1 other person b4 so he doesnt mind it. he says he trusts me to see him naked and stuff and idm if he see's me. it;s just the next step in our friendship. how should we do it? should i go to his house or should we do it somewhere else? were meeting at a friends house soon and last time we almost did it but there were girls there and we have gfs. pls help asap thanks all of u r so dumb i mean i dont wanna have sex with him its a typo i could NEVER ew

My boyfriend thinks everything I do is wrong. We had plans to hangout today after my exam, I drove a friend home from the exam and stopped and got smoothies with a different friend who I drove home. As i was on my way home, he freaked out on me, telling me I always put my friends before him and he's tired of it. WHICH I NEVER DO. I barley go out anymore because I'm always with him... He fails to see all the things he gets mad at me for doing, he does the exact same things, which is part of the reason I do them. He gets mad about everything I do. I went to the beach with friends the other morning and he got mad and ignored me for a whole day, because I didnt want to go to the beach when he asked five days before. Im unsure of what to do, because if I tried to talk to him, I'd just be wrong in the situation.

Guys gawk over me but girls are eager to point out any of my flaws and in front of as many people as possible to, I'm one of those people who hate it when people hate them, and I have no idea why they do, and I am also one of those girly girl types who love having some girls as friends, which I do but they also try to point out my flaws whenever they can.

Aren't you glad you are not Tomorrow?

Now, I am sixteen years old and basically have no friends or at least close friends (I only have some, that we talk because of school and hang out not so frequently). I used to have some close friends but since we went to different high schools we kind of lost touch and actually realized we didn't really match as much as we thought.Since entering high school I tried to meet some new people that I could potentially match/connect with and found the people I mentioned before,but the truth is that again we never really reached to the point where we could be called friends.Now summer has come and I have totally lost touch with them, and basically I am alone. The fact that I am alone doesn't really bother me because I seriously don't think I can match with people my age. I usually find myself connecting with older people than me. People around me tell me that I am more mature or grown for my age and more serious. And partiality that is true.( I am not saying people my age are stupid or dumb or less mature, I am just talking about me) Now the problem is that I am the problem, I can't have a social life and enjoy my youth as other people my age do and my mum keeps "bothering" me by saying things like " you don't have friends","you will be alone forever", "people are going to mess with you when you get older" things that make me sad. I should mention that I have no socialmedia such as Facebook that most people my age have.What should I do? SorryAboutMyEnglishAndForTheLength!

i've always had plenty of friends but the past few months have been so so bad and i lost all my friends for whatever reason and i feel very lonely. i even had a few friends i had for 5+ years who don't like me anymore. Im still in school and it's summer right now, i'm going to a new school next year where i'll (probably) make new friends but i need advice on how to handle having no friends right now. i have no motivation to do anything because most of my activities revolved around being with my friends. can you tell me like activities to keep my mind off of my loneliness or how to be content with having no friends for a couple more months??? thank you :)

hello so today me and four of my friends went out and we had lots of fun until one of them decided that he wants to take a video, but although i asked him nicely not to film me because i (maybe irrationally) DISPISE being filmed or taking pictures of, he did not respect my request and went on and filmed me regardless, and throughout the video he kept turning his phone camera towards me deliberately and laughing at me while i'm asking him not to. so one hour later, i asked him to give me the phone, and i deleted the video... i kind of feel bad, but still, i think if you nicely ask someone not to do something, they should respect that he got mad and said it wasn't my right to delete it but i think it wasn't his right to film me to begin with am i being selfish?

So I'm 11 and I go to summer school where I ride the bus. The only problem is the people on my bus cuss more than sailors. They said a**, b****, b***ard, c**t, d**k, d**n, f***, h**, h**l, p**s, s**t, and sl**. I used to just try to ignore it, but that was before they started calling people a f****t and n*****. I can deal with the other words but those I can not STAND for a single minute the f and n word. They're horrible words to call someone. I usually just tell them to shut up and restrain myself from punching them so hard they can't talk but they just continue to call me a b**** and a f*****. That was also before my friend called my brother a ****** and told him to f off. He wasn't even doing anything. I just hate it. How can I make them stop without strangling them? (I'm considering it)

So i have this friend who is very self conscious. She talks constantly about how fat she is but hates if any of us say the same. She will comment on peoples Instagram pics "wish i could take pictures like that" or she will tell us at lunch "wish i could eat like that. At first I was sympathetic and tried to tell her constantly she wasn't fat but it did nothing. Now it has been a couple months of this and i'm starting to stop feeling so sympathetic. She also gets ticked off if we say anything about these youtubers she is obsessed with. See I'm in a "group" of five girls including her but she just kinda shoved her way into the group. We are all sarcastic and "mean" to each other but she doesn't get it so we have to watch what we say. She also gets mad if we say anything bad about another friend even if we're joking. See two of the girls in the group are best friends and im good friends with another but we all join together due to our similiar personalities. The problem with this other girl is she is left out a lot because of this. Sometimes me and my friend will hang out and then the other two will leaving her alone. We don't do it on purpose it just happens. I feel bad but she has so few similiar interests its hard to do things with her. For example we might want to see a PG13 action film but she'll either want a PG Disney/Pixar one or a too cheesy romance. I don't like that she is left out but there is just so helping it. What should i do PS We have tried to tell her constantly that she is beautiful and not fat she just doesn't except it.

Yes! Great sex with someone you trust and love No! Messy, feelings, ruins friendships Please give reasoning and stories!! Does it turn your friendship into something that only revolves around sex? If you have close and sexual feelings for eachother, should you just do it? Especially if you don't see a future dating.

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I ve had best friends (a friend I would see nearly every day, have sleep overs with, entrust all my secrets to and pretty much share everything with) before, one in elementary school and one in high school as well. After highschool and college I drifted apart from everyone. Yes, I have friends that I see once in a while including old schoolmates and coworkers, i even still see my elementary school best friend but we are no longer as close as we were and she has her own best friend. Everyone I know seems to have a "best friend" or at least a really close friend and I really miss that feeling of having THAT person, but I can t help but feel that it s too late to find one. I m not an extrovert at all and I can barely make new friends, nevermind a really close one. Is there any chance at this age that I ll ever find a best friend?

I think im obsessed with talking to my bestfriend. We have been bestfriends for years and we would always talk to each other. But for the past year she's been too busy to talk. At least that's what she says. So I've been bugging her to talk to me but she says she will always be busy. I need to learn how to stop trying to talk to her. I have tried many things to stop but I can't. Can someone give me suggestions on what will help me stop trying to talk to her?

They don t know I have this and I don t really want them to know. Should I just go and they ll find out I have it or find an excuse? If I choose the latter what excuse should I make up? This is written horribly, I could put it better than this, sorry. Edit 2: I'm 16

I am a junior in high school and my sister is a freshman. For some reason, a lot of people in her grade and the sophomore class make fun of me and like bully me. I don't really care bc they're stupid. But like why me? I'm a christian girl, I dress and look normal, but I do dress quite conservatively which is different than the slutty dressing around me lol. how do i respond to this in a kind way? they call me weird and jesus freak and whatever... don't tell me I am different i know that... what do i do about this? i won't change myself for others

My bf's best friend is having a late birthday party at their apartment and everyone is going to be drinking (everyone is over 22 years old). I can't afford booze right now. There's going to be a ton of his roommates mutual friends and family that my bf knows. I have social anxiety and I'm already working a 10 hour shift beforehand.. I don't know what to do?

Hi guys. My college roommate hates me so bad. He camt even stand to see me. I got indomnia im afraid to sleep. He is a "life of the party" person, many people like him he is very funny indeed... but something happened between us and he wants me to die. He said himself. He is an EXTREMELY cunning and machiavellic person. He made one of the college girls to quit after an well thought plot using fake conversations and stuff. Lately i heard he got Hepatitis B. Im afraid he will try to pour some of his blood into my food, hence poisoning me with hepatitis. Is it possible?.please, this guy may appear an amgel.but ITS TERIFYING.

So my friend who has been close friends with me for about 8 years just suddenly stopped talking to me. I'm wondering if it's me who's done something wrong, and if I should apologize—because I do have anxiety issues and that does have a tendency to screw things up a lot. I know she might just be busy, but part of me just wants to apologize, even if I haven't done anything

I let my "friend" borrow my old IPhone 6 (I have a 7). Even though my old iPhone isn't activated I still use it to play games so I don't waste battery life on my main phone. School ends Wednesday, and I ask him everyday for it back, and he keeps giving me excuses like "I'm trying to find it" or "I'm going to let it charge the whole day" and then after the excuses he stops reading the texts I send him. I wanted to tell him that my dad was gonna call the police to retrieve it back but I don't know if that's a thing (I have proof I own it) and I don't know what else to do.

Friday night, Holly, a good friend... or so I thought, came over to my house... out of the blue and uninvited. I was soaking... no way to clean up the mess i've made... from detoxifiying my lizard's extra tongue. Holly, looked at me. How do I take revenge on my one true friend, i've known her for so long. I want my cheese maker back! Where do the lies stop and the truth begin? I was only trying to make sardine casserole for brunch that weekend. Holly should have known better!

It's been 3 years since my ex-bff & I have drifted and yet I'm still so emotional about it.  We had been bffs since we were children, 11 years & she was my top best friend. I've given up trying to talk to her as she will leave our conversations in a hurry, never answer phone calls, nor even tell me happy bday. Last year I thought we reconciled but looks like now that is not true. And yet here I am still crying & emotional about it. I know I should be over it by now but I'm not. I think however I am ready to face this reality that we aren't friends anymore. Just a stranger with memories.

i'm 15, male. i'm going through puberty so i guess this is the reason why i always feel alone. I wouldn't say that i am reserved or introverted, in school i'm kinda popular too, because i love to perform in front of others and be in the center of attention. i know many people, but those aren't people i regularly hang out with. I regularly hang out around 70 people. and only 15 of them my closest friends. Those 15 people are that kind of friends i can tell them to go out and stuff. but i don't have anyone else to who i can offer to play basketball for example. Am i really that alone? do i really need more people to meet which i will see regularly?

I made a friend only a few months ago (around late February or early March) and she's a good person who I could open up too and have interesting conversations with and she's great to be around. But then she started gaslighting me and stonewalling me i.e. she told me that she didn't like how "smart and intelligent" I am or that I make her feel bad because I'm so nice or something else that makes me feel bad of myself so now I had to walk on eggshells around her, being careful of what I say. When she cancels or flakes out on me, she would cut off all communication for days until eventually I would be the one who would end up sending a message and apologizing. I did confront her once and she told me that she doesn't want to lose me and that she would try to be a better friend but she started going back to her old habits like flaking out and whatnot. My question is; Am I overreacting? Should I get to know this person better? since the friendship is "young" (more less 3 months). Also, I really like this person. TIA

so me and my friend were playing ball in the house because he has a mini hoop and we were doing long shots then my friend hit the glass antique thing on the wall and it broke and shattered and we need a good excuse that makes sense and to not get in trouble, Thanks -Tfdfv

I hate this...my best friend...is like the only person I am always with in school but lately, when her boyfriend comes along, I just get left out. They stand and talk for so long and she acts like I don't exist, so I just wander around and they're just standing in one place flirting and all. It's so awkward, sometimes I want to leave but she'd consider that "ditching her". So I really don't know what I should do. Sometimes they can go on talking for an hour and I really have to go home...it sucks. And when we're walking home, they're holding each other and here I am walking beside them awkwardly. It's like I don't exist and I don't want to be there either, I don't know what to do. I've never dated before but I feel like it's wrong for me to hang around while they're together sometimes. I just want to leave most times because I feel like I'm in their space. But my best friend gets butt hurt when I go home with other people. I hate this. What should I do?

It's been 4 months and she always tells me that I'm not in a good place mentally to hang out, she has anxiety, is too broke, is busy, is working, tired.. She works 2 jobs . Are some introverted people this bad? Or is she just making excuses

Okcupid banned me now who will I talk to?

I had a dear friend in another state. We parted ways with hurt feelings and strong words. I was stressed, he was hyper-emotional. I can sometimes be a bit guarded and emotionally distant and he always takes everything too personally to the point of being neurotic. Being his friend came with the feeling that I was always walking on egg shells out of concern for hurting his feelings. Regardless, I miss him and our conversations. Sometimes I want to reconnect....and if history is a predictor of the future, he'd be open.......but pride and my desire to keep high drama out of my life has kept me from contacting him. We parted because he was trying to control me and I finally had to let my stress out a bit and get him to back off. Dunno if I should make up....or even how, really. Suggestions?

First of all, NO MONEY WAS LOST. He had not gotten to receive money from us yet, thank goodness. But it would have happened soon. Well, his emails seemed very legit. He showed legitimate concern about how old we were (under 21), especially when it came to cleanliness and damages, for example. He showed us so many pictures of the place as well. It just seemed so real. And we are new to vacation rentals, but I now know just how sketchy bank transfers are. We had been struggling to find a place for my friends birthday for several weeks, and we all thought we finally found it after I reached out the person whom I now know is a scammer. I've been getting so much praise for being the one to finally find a place. It will be so humiliating, and it'll break the birthday girl's heart, to tell them that it was all a scam.

ok this is so weird that im asking a website this but no body gives me good advice. So, i used to have a lot of friends that i would hang out with (this is ms and ls) and like 1 solid best friend. Now i have a best friend that i can litterly tell everything and do anything with and no matter how much i mess up she still stays my friend. Sounds great? No ok it sounds like im complaining over nothing but she COPIES MY EVERY MOVE im not even effing kidding she agrees with whatever i say is way to all over my stuff and is so annoyinh. Ok i could have said that much better its late so i cant right now but i used to have 3 close friends and i loved all of them (the best friend that i have now was one of them) then we had a big long lasted arguememt but i still have a special place for them and we talk sometimes. Anyways i dont even like hanging out with my best friend most of the time its awfull and i know i have a big group of friends but none of them im close enough to hang out one on one with bc they have there closer circles and im only in the big one (my school is very clique we have names for our groups) and i get invited to parties and stuff but nothing to form a closer friendship.

another person set up my i tune acct under her name and she doesn't remember the password and I want it off my phone so i can set up my own...can I delete the account?

so my ex dumped me this past sunday after church because i said i wanted a bottle of wine for our sunday dinner when went to the store and he showed his id and asked me if hes paying for it i said well ya your wallet is out and then he did it and stormed out the store like a manic (mind you the wine was only 10 dollars and he makes 65,000 a year so it wasnt breaking his bank lol) he's speeding to his house running red lights almost getting us T-BONED so i asked him whats wrong and he said "YOU IM F**KING DONE!!! YOU EXPECT ME TO PAY FOR EVERYTHING AND DONT APPERICATE SH*T" which was a complete lie because ive cooked for him ive brought food and alochol over his house ive bought his dogs christmas gifts ive kept them while he was on business trips but i was the "ungrateful one" so he demands me to get all my stuff out of his house and he'll take me home to my parents but i call my parents cause he was acting crazy to pick me up they pick me up and then he tells the im an ungrateful child and he's done with me (he's 31 and im 22 and we were together for 10 months) anyways i felt so bad i had a pizza delivered to his house that night and wings the next night then he starts talking to me like he wanted me back telling me good morning and good night then randomly asks me if i can go on a weekend trip to his moms house next month and im like "does this mean were back together " and he yells at me saying "NO I NEED TO BE ALONE I DONT WANT A RELATIONSHIP!" So should i go or not? and he tells me he never told his family we broke up and im like so they think were together and he says "yes why get them in our business?" then i go on to tell him im not going to be used as arm candy and for sexx and he tells me "im not going to make you back me in a corner with ulitmatiums if you want me to make you my gf again because of that nevermind then dont go" mind you his family and my family thought we were getting engaged now he's ignoring me, im missing him did i mess things up? and he started ignoring me after i told him i wanted a relationship or no vacation like he was angry that i was doing what he said and my birthday is the week after this "vacation" and i asked him if he was going to see me on my birthday he said "possibly i guess so" wtf

I have a friend who is older and in a higher grade than me & my friend s (Older than us by 1 and 2 yrs) Who always complains about everything we do saying "YOU GUYS ARE SO CHILDISIH AND START TOO MUCH DRAMA" Then she ll always talk about how boys lime her and when she needs something she ll totally ignore us and our words expecting us to help her. And last but not least she will ditch us for her other friends forgetting about us until her friends leave then go back to us like she did nothing to hurt us. Guys please help...I want the best for me & my friend s.

Why friends are terrible. My friends pretend that my life is perfect when they know what I go through. Sure I don't hand as bad as other people but they still shouldn't pretend like my life is perfect and I don't matter it's ridiculous. I think I need new friends should I make new friends that will actually listen to me. I have no problem with it I just want to see if that is a good option to.

Hey so I haven't spoken to my used-to-be best friend in over two months. So I'm 13, and she's turning 13. So anyway here is the story: I live in Florida. She lives in Kentucky. So it's a long-distant friendship but we see each other because our families travel/vacation often. Anyways, not long after I turned 13 she got a boyfriend. He is 16. I don't have a boyfriend. So I am home schooled, she is public schooled. Just because I am home schooled doesn't mean that she's better than me and doesn't mean that I am different than any other teenager. I wish she would understand that. My life is really hard right now, with family and other personal reasons. She knows that I am home schooled and that it is SUPER hard to make friends and get a boyfriend and whatever. Yet, she rubbed her love life and social life in my face. It hurt so much, just the way she worded things when she talked to me and how she rubbed her going out and partying with friends, going to the movies, having a boyfriend (who is 16, by the way), all that. She knows I am going through a rough time. I don't have friends so I spend all of my time at home. My only friends are my dogs and farm animals and I am happy with what I have. She used to be understanding, but ever since she got a boyfriend and became "popular", she has been rubbing everything in my face and it hurts a lot. I am a soft-hearted, forgiving person. So I was nice to her. I listened to her. I comforted her when she complained that her boyfriend hadn't texted her in over an hour, I let her rub everything in my face even though it was painful. I tried to be a good friend. But I want to focus on whats important, my family, my animals, my grades, my studies, my 4-H, etc. I didn't want her tormenting and judging anymore, so I hadn't texted her months. I didn't say anything, just stopped texting. If she truly wants to talk to me, she is more than welcome to text me or call me. She hasn't texted a word to me since. That proves that the only time she had ever talked to me was because I texted HER and all she talked about was her drama. She literally stopped caring about me. My mom is best friends with her mom, and they don't know that we are not best friends anymore. My mom just reminded me that her birthday is coming up. So she gave me a $10 gift card and I sent it to her in a birthday card. Her birthday is on July 1st. Should I text her happy birthday? I want to forgive her for some reason. I just know that she will hurt me again. I've never felt more relieved since I stopped talking to her. But part of me feels guilty for not wanting to text her happy birthday. What do you think? Am I being selfish? Answer honestly. Thank you so much