Family: Question: I doing sex with my cousin sister?

Question: I doing sex with my cousin sister?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 01:39 PM PDT

Question: I was done wrong... I need advice.?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 01:20 PM PDT

When I was younger a women a adopted me, at the time she was seeing a man, which is my dad not biological he never adopted me but took care of me, years later they stopped seeing each other... he was amazing he was my dad not by blood but by heart I loved him and he loved me a lot he treated me like his own... to make the story short he had two biological kids much older than me also a girlfriend who he always said was envious of me and my dads relationship(she felt like he did to much for me) which he didn t he was just naturally a good dad to me ... He passed a couple years ago and his bio daughter and girlfriend got together to make funeral plans , in the pass everytime I had seen his bio daughter, Well when they both got together to make funeral plans the daughter called my mother and they talked and the daughter said that their were three of us which is me her and his other bio son so anything he had would go all three of us they wouldn t leave me out, we ll anyways in my dad s obituary it said he was only survived by two kids they put their names and left me out!!!!!!!! Also his girlfriend names was mentioned as the companion they did me wrong my dad loved me like his own he treated me so damn good . Me and his bio daughter haven t spoken in years but I m sure we will run into each other soon because we live in a small town my question is when we run into each other and she tries to be fake and act like she didnt do me wrong what do I do ?? What do I say???

Question: How do I cope with Father's Day when I see all the people who have father's with them and my father died 7 years ago?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 01:15 PM PDT

And my step-mother, two half-siblings, and my Dad's siblings have not spoken to us since except once despite my multiple attempts at reaching out. My step-mother resented that he spent as much time with me as he did when he was alive so they have not responded to my outreach. This makes me miss him all the more as Father's Day was always with not just him but his whole family (wife, kids, and his siblings and mother). His mother died three months before he did (both cancer). How do I cope with this holiday in less then two weeks, I have been dreading it since Mother's Day and the pain lingers to early July. I have moved on at Christmas and enjoy my mother's family but Father's Day is a painful reminder as that was his annual reunion. Some of his family still gets together but I am not welcome there and they got mad the year I just showed up.

Question: How can I get my sister and her husband to reproduce as I want to be an aunt?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 01:09 PM PDT

Question: My Mom destroyed my childhood with her resentment towards her alcoholic family. The two alcoholics did not harm me. How do I get past this?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 01:06 PM PDT

She did this by using me as a sword against the alcoholic father of hers and the alcoholic brother. She used me to get them back by not letting me go anywhere they were and by pouring all the gossip on me about it and saying "your grandfather doesn't love you, he loves his drink" while I knew my cousins were still visiting Grandpa. I now feel great shame that my cousins were loyal to Grandpa despite his drinking and I was not. She also told me my grandmother did not want a relationship with us because of my grandfather's choice to be an alcoholic. Because of this I felt deep rejection by both grandparents. In reality my grandmother loved me very much and my grandfather did to and tried his best when he got to know me later. I also have heard some say alcoholism is a disease and not a choice. So my mother poured her toxic bitterness onto me. To this day we miss out on family time as she resented all her siblings until the day she died in 2011. I reach out to the extended family but they only reciprocate a little and the alcoholic uncle is still alive (I don't know him as well). This all hurts and it is my Mom I fault the most. This is my Mom's legacy. How do I get past this. I am in therapy and looking for additional ideas. The therapist actually mentioned this website to me. Jason----My cousin has told me, as well as my aunt, what went on. I certainly couldn't be left alone but there was nothing wrong with me going supervised several times a year for events like Christmas. Also the therapist honestly did recommend the question and answers sites. He cautioned of bullies on sites but otherwise said I'd find helpful replies. Yahoo Answers was one of many for Q&A. Have a nice day

Question: Is this fair of my parents to do?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 01:02 PM PDT

So I got a "bad grade" according to my parents. I got a B+ on my math test, and that apparently is "DISRESPECTFUL" and "SHAMEFUL". I have a dog, who I have had for 8 years. He is my bestfriend, and I love him. They took him away from me and put him in a pound. This, in my opinion, is not fair AT ALL. Please tell me you agree with me!!

Question: Dad is an alcoholic and when drunk he yells at me and I feel sad. It is summer break and I see him drunk more. How do I stop feeling sad?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 12:53 PM PDT

Question: How can I make my parents NOT move closer to me?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 12:10 PM PDT

My parents don't get along with each other they take me as their scapegoat. I am to whom they go to when they don't want to spend time together. My parents are messed up. My mom is crazy, she doesn't get along with anyone. She withdraws from social situations. But even when she makes new friends she always ends up saying something offensive to them so she ends up with no friends. My dad is a caring father but he is crazy too. He is a software developer and he wanted me to be a software developer like him so he made me to study the same career as him. When I graduated last year I decided to find the job that I wanted, I moved to another state far from them, I now work as a teacher and he is always asking me about my salary. He tries to convince me to find another job or he comes up with a million ideas of how I could make more money. I am tired of him thinking that I should be making more money. I don't care if I make $13 an hour. I wouldn't change my job for anything. We are a first generation immigrants from Brazil. We don't have anyone here besides ourselves. I have two younger siblings. One who ran away from home and got married and now lives happy and another one who is in college. My mom was abusive but she has changed a lot but she is still very controlling and so is my dad. They have been talking about moving closer to me but I don't want them to move closer to me because they are the reason that I am single. They get in my life too much. They criticize me too much.

Question: My daughter hates me. She cusses at me, belittles me but lives with me with her kids. What can I do?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 12:01 PM PDT

Question: Moving Out Of State?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 11:28 AM PDT

So I'm a 20 year old guy turning 21 in a couple of months and still living at home with my parents. The thing is I want to move out. I feel like I don't have much freedom when living at home with my family. Don't get me wrong, I love my parents to death. My mom is amazing and my dad is a very good husband and father to me and my brother (He's 17). I want to move to a different state about 20 hours away from my current state. I talked to my parents about it and my dad was very happy and excited that I'm moving forward with my life and living on my own, my mom acted like it didn't bother her in front of my dad but she's really heartbroken. She started talking to me about me moving out a few nights ago while I was laying down next to her then she started crying about how I'm gonna leave her all alone. I love my mom very very much and I hate seeing my mom cry it just breaks my heart. It's not like I'm never gonna visit them ever again. Once I get things sorted out in the new state I'm moving to I will come back and visit couple times a year if I can. I will not be living alone. I have a family member that I will be staying with I don't know how long though. also My girlfriend will be living with me once I get my own place in there. Did I make the right decision of moving out of my parent's house? Also is it wrong for choosing my girlfriend over my mom? ( I'm planning on marrying this girl in the future) she's not just any girl. But I feel like I made the wrong decision when I saw my mom cry

Question: Black sheep of my family?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 10:46 AM PDT

I need some advice. I was an only child with a young single mom for 12 years until she got remarried and had 4 more kids and theres another on the way. I am 20 now living at home while attending college. I pay for everything myself so theres not much leverage besides me living at home. My step father treats me like I am a roommate to the family and he just hates me. I do love my siblings so much but I can't help but be sad constantly, as I am never willingly included in things, and everything is my fault. I am grumpy a lot because my step father makes me so mad and it seems like my mom who used to be my everything doesn't care that I am really scarred by all of this. I don't have many friends or a boyfriend to take myself out of this situation a little bit... but I am just not sure if I am way too sensitive about it. I am always told how much of a brat I am who does nothing to help with anything, when I spend like all of my time playing with my siblings. I spend all my money on gifts and such... I just don't know. They are ashamed of me. Even down to Facebook posts, it's like I am not a member of their family. Not to mention, this next child on the way sent me into a depression to say the least. Am I being selfish or do I have a right to be really upset about my home life?

Question: Full-Time Mom Opinions?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 10:38 AM PDT

I am not a mother yet, but my fiance and I plan to get married in September of 2018 then start to have kids. He is a computer software engineer and makes enough money for the both of us without having to struggle. I currently work in retail and HATE it, but not a fan of school and can't seem to get out of retail. I do video editing on the side as a hobby and currently trying to teach myself web designing. I would like to do either video editing or web designing in the future. However, with everything you hear about people abusing children they're taking care of and almost killing the kids, I can't trust anyone to watch my kids unless you're family or very close friends. I thought about becoming a stay-at-home mom when it gets to that point and my fiance supports my decision on that. For any full-time mom's or even mom's in general, what are your thoughts? Should I become a full-time mom or should I focus on the video editing/web designing? I want to make my own money (that's why I currently work in retail), but I can't seem to find a company willing to give me a chance on a video editing position. I understand it's because I don't have a degree, but I'm really good at this! Please only serious answers!

Question: Feeling uneasy about son-in-law dating again?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 10:33 AM PDT

I'm a mother/ mother-in-law. My daughter sadly passed away in 2011 while being pregnant with her second child. My son-in-law was unconsolable at that time (and so are we) and we've grown close despite a bumpy start. Anyway he's a good father and even raises my daughter's son from a previous relationship. Recently while staying with us (grandparents), my grandsons told us that their father introduced them to a "nice lady", who has twice stayed overnight at their place. My son-in-law hasn't told us anything. I somehow feel worried. He was only 31 when my daughter passed away and I thought with some dread he'd certainly remarry pretty soon. He hasn't dated anyone though so far, and, although this seems selfish, it suits me for the sake of the kids. I just can't help thinking of thousands bad scenarios about evil stepmom. My own stepmother was a total nightmare. Am I alone in feeling like this? Bereft MIL, how do you cope when your son-in-law remarries?

Question: Age difference between siblings?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 10:28 AM PDT

Is having kids closer in age better than having more years between siblings? Not from a parenting perspective but as far as the kids' relationship with each other goes? My nephews are 4 years apart and the older one absolutely hates his brother who is 3. I don't mean the usual sibling fights I mean he really can't stand his little brother at all.

Question: Can I find my own job while on welfare?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 09:34 AM PDT

I'm 19 with a 11week old baby. I understand that welfare is either making me go to college or work. I'd rather work to make money but Can I find my own job then have them choose for me?

Question: My brother is a smartalic as well as my stepmother. How do I know when they're just kidding around and when they're actually being mean?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 09:31 AM PDT

By smartalic I mean sarcastic

Question: My sister direct my parents and tells them what to do. Is this a dysfunctional family situation?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 09:30 AM PDT

my parents are in their 60s and my sister is 26

Question: Would this be dumb ?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 09:30 AM PDT

I'm 20 and I have a lot of friends but I have much older friend who is in her 60's (I hope that's not weird) she's helped me through a lot of hard times, were extremely close, she's an amazing friend to have. Her mom died last year and it's about to be the 1 year mark since then, she's going to be so upset this month. She got a new pool recently and I was thinking, what if I wrote a short sweet hand written letter and sent it to her along with a new comfy pool (chair) float. Just to boost her spirits a tiny bit.. Would that be weird?

Question: My mom ruined my life. She sucked my soul out of me and she established shame in me and I have never recovered. So how do I?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 09:00 AM PDT

She did this by brainwashing me against my father when she got divorced when I was nine. Telling me that my father did not love me because he was incapable of love and that he did not want to relationship with me. Yet he was regularly calling and trying to see me. And he was always excited when I was able to see him. He was thrilled when I reestablished regular contact as a teenager. Yet the shame has remained. How do I overcome this all these years later? My mom is otherwise a good mom and a good person, but her anger at my dad, some of which was justified, destroyed me when she put it on me by using me as a weapon against my dad. I obsess now about my relationship with my dad and his family. When I miss an event at my dad's such as Thanksgiving I feel all that shame from childhood. My mother put this on me even if her intention was to destroy my dad she actually destroyed me. Any advice? I'm still good to my mom and she is otherwise a good person but I'm good to her at a distance.

Question: How do i stop my sister to stop lying about obviously true stuff?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 08:48 AM PDT

for example i pick the game for 2 days then for 3 weeks she says "I never pick the game" and if she does something you should not infront of me and my entire family she says"i didnt do that" its so annoying how do i get get to stop? and like 30seconds ago she said "My brother sayed he never gets to pick" WE BOTH GET TO PICK

Question: Boyfriend hasn't told parents about our baby?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 08:41 AM PDT

I love my boyfriend but he hasn't told anyone in his family about our 2 mnths old.I didn't want them to know and I told him it was bc I felt like because I was Hispanic and my sis & mom got pregnant early that they'd think I was worthless or seeking money.They kept saying before that if he was with me that I'd defget pregnant. I was ashamed because I was so young.Theyre already racist towards me. I thought I wasn't good enough. I'm dealing with my emotions after a sexual assault. And I told him that,I told him exactly how I felt and what made me think that.He told me that if his family found out they'd put him out, stop paying for University and take his car.To this day he says I convinced him not to tell his parents.He cries and says how much he hates me for not letting him tell anyone. Bc he's so lonely.Both of my parents are dead and the only people that can help out is them,bt neither can change her diaper or bathe her.He says he'll help me get an apartment for the fall. But he plans on getting his own.I don't understand how we'd be able to afford it. He says I should leave the baby with my grandma Lately he's been slapping and yelling at me.This whole time he says he loves me but my grandmother is going through early dementia and she can be downright evil sometimes. what I'm asking, does he really love me? My grandparents said if I gave her up for adoption they'd tell his parents and he said he was completely fine with that and said it's unavoidableDoes he love me?

Question: Should I allow my anti-choice relative to come to my house for Thanksgiving?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 08:22 AM PDT

I don't call it Thanksgiving. I prefer to call it the day when white people stole land from peaceful native people, which is typical of white cis-males. Anyway, my cousin is invited, as always, to my house for the gathering. I serve Tofurkey, not meat. I don't mind my cousin as she is educated but her husband is a real piece of work. I suppose his one redeeming value is that he didn't vote for Trump, although I think he either abstained or voted third party. Apparently, this cretin is anti choice. Supposedly he thinks he has the right to be this way because he is adopted and is grateful his mother "chose life." Sorry, but I do not want misogynists in my apartment, even if they are family. It's bad enough having Trump on the television every day, but not a family member who is not far removed.

Question: I have an uncle who is a recovering alcoholic. Should I laugh at him for it?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 08:20 AM PDT

Say something like "everyone but uncle Tim gets beer".

Question: My mother tells me to lock my doors when I'm in a black neighborhood. Does this mean she is a racist?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 08:19 AM PDT

she also complains about all Hispanic neighborhoods feeling like she's in little Mexico. Yet she is nice to black people when she sees them and she babysat when he was a kid her nephew who was adopted from Mexico.

Question: My boyfriend's daughter wants to call me mom?? Is it ok?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 07:17 AM PDT

She is 5 years old and she is very connected to me. She says that I am her mother now... I am constantly telling her not to call me like that, because I know that my boyfriend and her mother don't like this... What should I do if she still continues to call me mom? I don't mind that she calls me mom, I just don't feel exactly like a mom, as I don't have children of my own, I'd say I am more like a aunt, or a big sister or a friend.

Question: I'm scared of my sister she is a bully please help?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 07:02 AM PDT

Question: Do you think remarrying when you already have kids is wrong?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 06:50 AM PDT

I think its wrong of the parent to bring in someone who's practically a stranger into the house who's never going to care about their children as much as the parent would like them to. Its selfish of the parent/ Especially when the parent has new children with them. The step parent will never care for the other kids as much as they would for their own. You see stories of how children are abused by their step parent and the parent does nothing until its too late. Sometimes they don't do anything at all which is sad. What's abnormal is the abomination known as 'Blended families'. My solution to this? Make divorce illegal if the couple have kids. If you're married, you're married for life ( as wedding vows state). Infidelity should be punishable by jail time or a heavy fine. Separation could be granted only under serious cases of domestic violence. . The parents shouldn't be allowed to remarry or date until the kids become adults and give their written consent. Same rule applies if there was a death of one of the parent. Its all about the well being of children in the end. People would take marriage more seriously. It will only be a matter of time before ''Blended families' would be seen as an unusual, weird practice of the past.

Question: Is this a sign of low self esteem?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 06:26 AM PDT

6 months ago I started having sex with my exs best friend. I thought we'd start dating but it's been more like friends with benefits. A few months ago I found out he'd started seeing a woman that I know. Whenever I would ask him, he'd deny it. Last weekend at a party she was all up under him while we were trying to have a conversation. My friend told me that I have a bad habit of following him around like a puppy dog and should wait and let him come to me. She just wouldn't get out of his face. He went to walk another woman to her car. Then she had a big argument with him and started crying. It confirmed that he had been seeing her. However, I still followed him home and had sex with him that night. He's still trying to deny seeing her saying it's over. What am I doing wrong? Should I keep being his friend with benefit?

Question: How do I get my mom to see that she is a poisonous cancer on me?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 05:26 AM PDT

Question: Telling my parents my friend bought me a plane ticket. Does this sound too far fetched?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 04:47 AM PDT

I'm 30 years old but my parents are so protective of me. I want to Florida with my friend and her mom. Does this story sound ok? If I tell my parents that my friend bought me a plane ticket to go with her and her mom to Florida.

Question: How do I cope with Father's Day when I see all the people who have father's with them and my father died 7 years ago?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 04:43 AM PDT

And my step-mother, two half-siblings, and my Dad's siblings have not spoken to us since except once despite my multiple attempts at reaching out. My step-mother resented that he spent as much time with me as he did when he was alive so they have not responded to my outreach. This makes me miss him all the more as Father's Day was always with not just him but his whole family (wife, kids, and his siblings and mother). His mother died three months before he did (both cancer). How do I cope with this holiday in less then two weeks, I have been dreading it since Mother's Day and the pain lingers to early July. I have moved on at Christmas and enjoy my mother's family but Father's Day is a painful reminder as that was his annual reunion. Some of his family still gets together but I am not welcome there and they got mad the year I just showed up.

Question: My father is a functioning pathological liar. How do I get myself not to expect anything from him anymore?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 04:39 AM PDT

I always think he is telling the truth when he is lying. I don't even think he realizes he is doing it.

Question: My father died and I regret not seeing him and talking to him more?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 02:31 AM PDT

My father died almost two weeks ago and well I was looking through my call log and now I feel terrible. I think he's mad at me for not always calling back or taking forever to do so. I admit sometimes I just didn't wanna talk on the phone because I don't like talking on the phone in general. Other times I just didn't want to talk to him, nothing against him. But I'm an adult so I don't feel the need to have to constantly talk to my parents and well that was my mentality. All my father's voicemails he left are gone cause I deleted them every few days. Would be the standard message like "Hi Amy this is dad, give me a call when you get the chance. Okay I love you honey I'll talk to you later, bye bye" something like that. Since they're all deleted I can't listen to his voice anymore. It kills me that my father is gone and I should have called him more and I think he's mad at me for it. He was cool about it, he understood I had my own life. Well that's what he'd tell me. Last time I talked to him was 4 days before he died and it was a short conversation. I feel like he's mad at me that I didn't call him or see him enough.

Question: Please help me, my 19 year old is highly disrespectful and lies...will do best answer?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 12:40 AM PDT

My 19 year old son lied to his father about going to college that he offered to pay for full ride. Things got bitter between them so he came to live with me. He claimed he was having problems because his dad pressured him too much, as he didn't want to go to college and he just wanted to get a job. He's been living with me for over 3 months now and just got a job a couple weeks ago at a deli. However he is causing me considerable stress because he never helps out around the house despite my constant nagging and making clear what needs to be done. On top of that he yells at me fights with my other children who are under 18, and he had a fit and broke my valuable vase and a gift my boyfriend got me for Christmas because I wanted to come over my own apartment and watch TV with my boyfriend. He got mad because he was going to have his friend over instead. He spent nearly $1,000 on a PlayStation and games and all he does in his spare time is hang out with his friends and play a games. I'm up to my wits at this point and had to stay up late when I have to work tomorrow to clean up the mess he made from breaking my beautiful vase and plant. I'm a single mother working two jobs I have no idea what to do can someone please help me? I'm going to have to end up telling him he has to move back with his dad I think, he doesn't listen to me or respect me although he does pay me 200 a month for rent.

Question: Should we put my aunt into a skilled care home for Alzheimer's?

Posted: 07 Jun 2017 12:19 AM PDT

My 87 year old grandmother has been taking care of my 65 year old aunt (her daughter) who has Alzheimer's ever since my aunt had a seizure 2 years ago. My aunt has been aggressive towards my grandmother and routinely tells her to go to he**, calls her curse words , says she wishes she would die, she doesn't need her help, and mutters the most horrible things under breath constantly when in an odd state which is about half of the time. My grandmother has been so selfless and always responds sweetly it breaks my heart to see her treated like this in her later years. My family is working on getting my aunt to move into her old house with her son, but I was wondering if instead she should move into a skilled care home since she also has no short term memory anymore and refuses to take her medicine or eat anything good for her. Any opinions would be greatly appreciated!

Question: Are these answers funny?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 11:32 PM PDT

Question: In your opinion, at what age would you feel comfortable leaving your child home alone, and for how long? Answer: 2. 1 second. Answer: 70. One month.

Question: I resent my mother but i dont want to?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 10:13 PM PDT

Shes not abusive, in fact shes the complete opposite. Shes always there cause shes 67, (im 21) ad has no life of her own. I come home and shes watching TV or what not. However she was and still is never distant. She gives me what i want, when i want. But now i cant do anything for myself! im sick of seeing her everyday and living with her. Im always at my bf's house cause i wanna get away from seeing her. I feel so bad but i cant help it. whats wrong with me?! I also never dormed. commuting was like 10k cheaper and i feel that has some impact. i have an older sister who is not even in the family so maybe thats why my mom is so emotionally needy? I just cant help but feel like im on a constant schedule with her. every night i have to go to her room and kiss her goodnight and every night im not in bed at 1 am- maybe im up doing hw and she comes into my room and tell me its late and i should get some sleep. I KNOW but you telling me something i already know isnt gonna help me finish this assigment is it?!

Question: I need advice on this issue with my mom!?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 10:06 PM PDT

So basically I have had this volleyball camp the last week which has made me super nervous and anxious, but I sucked it up, and went. (a little backstory I suffer from high anxiety) anyways, it's the last day tomorrow and I am having severe anxiety about it, and I told my mom how I feel and she just gets mad at me. she thinks I am a wimp for not going, but she never did any sports when she was my age or anything! she told me she is done arguing about and is letting me decide whether I am going or not, or even trying out for the high school team! she seemed really mad and disappointed in me! I am way to nervous to go, I have already had 3 panic attacks. how do I fix this?!

Question: Are there responsibilities I should have as a child?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 09:20 PM PDT

My dad is always complaining that I don't help around the house telling me I'm useless and lazy. but all my friends act like there parents make dinner, and make appointments for them if they need it, or drive them to places if they need it as well. I have seem examples of this in several tv shows and books, but at the same time I've seen evidence of my friends mom being like my dad. So is what tv showing me really false and are my friends lying about what their parents do for them? Should I take care of myself when I'm not even in high school yet? should I take care of my dad and my sister when I'm not even in high school yet? Is that my responsibility for being a child? I thought school was, and I do well in school, but I like to have a break when I come home from school, is that lazy?

Question: Why can't I control myself?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 09:04 PM PDT

I am 15. When I was nine, my parents got me a computer for my birthday. Had it for about 2 months before my parents took it away from me. I used my dad s credit card to pay for some online game. They thought I was too irresponsible to have full power over my own electronic device. Swore to myself that I would never go on that website without my parent s consent or use my parent s credit card again. When I was 12, I started having interest toward having my own phone, because many of my friends also have their own phone, and I started being in more sports and other extracurricular events before and after school. Parents thought I wasn t ready because of what happened when I was nine. Only this year, my dad said he would get me a phone for my birthday, and a good one. A few months ago, the ipad that we share between our family "disappeared" because I hid it in my room and decided to use it as my personal device. I ve had many close calls where my parents or my sister almost accidentally caught me on the ipad. Today, my dad caught me in my room playing a game on the ipad. He s lost almost all his trust with me and now I don t know what to do. I just don t know why I can t control or behave myself. I know the right thing to do, it s like I m possessed by something that doesn t want me to do something. He s told me I have one chance to redeem myself, but I don t know how to. Am I a horrible person? I am a 15 year old Asian girl.

Question: Should I listen to sister and Dad.?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 08:39 PM PDT

I am hesitant to start a new job tomorrow. A lot of it is because I don't like California any more and I feel trapped here.My financial predicament is not good. My sister and Dad say I should take the job. Should I listen to their advice.?

Question: I regret not talking with my grandpa.?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 08:09 PM PDT

He passed away about a year ago and I miss him so much. I had a chance to go visit him while the 2 weeks that I was in Japan. But instead I decided to have fun with my friends. i should've went talk to him and told him how much I love him. It's too late now. What can I do to feel better... I feel awful.

Question: Are my siblings the same century as me?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 08:04 PM PDT

Me and brothers will be name Bro A, Bro B and Bro C (me) Bro A is from 1999, Bro B is from 2000, and Bro C is 2003

Question: My Dad is an alcoholic. How do I get him to see how it hurts me?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 07:40 PM PDT

Question: I am on fire with love for my Mom. What do I do?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 07:25 PM PDT

Question: My parents won't let me do dance?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 07:24 PM PDT

I play softball and soccer right now but i'm quitting before the fall season starts. I really want to do dance because i've always wanted to but my sister has done dance for the last two years. Now that she's quitting and i'm not playing sports i really want to do it. I've expressed this to my parents and they just laugh and me and don't think i'm serious and won't let me. I am heavier but i used to do gymnastics and i wasn't terrible so i don't think i'd be that bad. My mother keeps giving me bad excuses to not do it but how do i show her i'm serious and i want to.

Question: How do I convince my parents to have a Sweet 16?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 07:17 PM PDT

I'm only 14 and a half right now so it's a little far away, but if I want to have a Sweet 16 I need to start planning soon. I really want to have one and if I needed to pay for it myself I could but I still don't think my mom will let me have one. I think I can convince my dad, but my mom seems pretty firm on no and i don't think he'll go against her. How can I convince her? Money's not the issue, she just thinks it's dumb and a waste. I asked if we could go on vacation instead and it was still a no unless it was somewhere close and my siblings would come.

Question: What is boarding school like?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 07:06 PM PDT

My parents just got in an argument with me because I asked to hang out with a black person, and unfortunately, my dad is super racist. Calling me an n----r lover, redneck, etc. Long story short, my mother threatened to send me to boarding school and my father hopped onto that boat and said, "Why not? She's too much of a liability." So I kinda want an outlook on it in case if they're serious about it. Isn't it just school where you live in? Do they let us out to go places on our own after school hours?

Question: Need advice please!?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 06:56 PM PDT

I currently moved to hawaii with my family because my dads in the military. im 21 and will be working full time till January when i go to school for my associates and afterwards im going to move in with my bf who lives back in maryland the problem is my parents hate him and dont approve of him. by the time 2 years is up ill be 23 with my degree and thinking of going back and getting a job there and then going back to school eventually for my bachelors. im scared that my parents will complain about it, i dont know what else to give them. im going to school like they want me to its just they wont let me live my life with the person i love. i dont know what to do if i should tell them me and him are back together or just not tell them at all. we broke up in the first place because my parents didnt like him. its not what i wanted to happen at all.

Question: How do I kick my Aunt out the house?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 06:19 PM PDT

So my Aunt has been living with us for 4 years now, at first she said she ll stay for about a few weeks... Then weeks became a couple months. She didn t even pay rent at first, she just freeloaded. Although, she would bring food home from time to time. 6 months later, parents asked her to pay around $400/mo. So she s been paying, but told us that she ll be gone in 2 years.... Guess what? She s still here after all this time. Now she said she ll be gone in a year, but I highly doubt it. I tend to sleep late nowadays because it is summer and don t feel like doing things but usually in the morning she would talk loud and bang on the FREAKING CABINETS (I sleep on the couch because there are no rooms available, siblings occupy them as well. BTW I m the youngest, 17 and a girl ;(. I need privacy). I think my parents are scared to kick her out, she s not even blood-related just my mom s old friend but I can t take her. I always have to fake a smile around her

Question: Why isn't my son ambitious?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 06:16 PM PDT

He's never been ambitious. He never had any goals or dreams from himself even when he was a child. He's an adult now and still doesn't have any. He doesn't care about anything and has always had that and a bad attitude. He suffers from low self esteem because of how he grew up. Most people by his age and even younger are dating, married, having kids, working, or even going to school. He just sits at home and does nothing. He has no interest in cooking, or doing his laundry, he goes days without showering or brushing his teeth. I know he understands that I'm not always going to be there and he has to work for something. But the problem is... he won't! What's wrong with him?

Question: Girlfriend doesn't care she is moving?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 06:12 PM PDT

My girlfriend is moving 4 hours away! (she has a ton of family there) She wants me to stay here and I've been having a hard time with it. We been together for 3 years. I've been trying to convince her to stay here, but She won't , And I don't have the money to move right now. At least not all on my own. Tonight I was trying to tell her how much I am worried. How I want her here with me. She text me this " look I know this is hard for you, but I need this! I really need this. I been wanting to get away forever now, and I'm not going to pass this up. I need this change for me. If I stay I'm never going to be okay, and this is something at least for now I have to do on my own. You won't be able to stop me." Why is she doing this? Its 4 hours away!!!

Question: I need a place to get away?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 06:03 PM PDT

I need a place to get away from my family. I have the typical case of teenage angst, and all the **** that goes with it. I m not getting along at all with my family and I need some place to get away. My house is very small and I share a room. Any ideas?

Question: Can my mom keep me away from my little brother?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 05:41 PM PDT

Four months ago, my mom's boyfriend moved in, despite they were barely three months together. I would constantly tell my mom that I felt uncomfortable, but she would never do anything about it. Last month I got tired of him drinking, being nude, and being sexual with my mom in front of us. I told her I'll call the police to remove him since the home was supposed to be signed to my name, but forged my aunts signature to gain ownership. (My dad bought the house, but put it in my aunts name so she can pass it to me).She told her boyfriend and he wanted to fight because I disrespected him. The next day another argument occurred when he came up to me again stating that I have to respect my mother, he tried using a metal pipe and a my little brothers trycycle to hit me as my middle brother tried holding me back. My mother was simply calling the police again telling them "My son is trying too hurt my boyfriend, he's acting very crazy, yes he's the one who started it". I left the house because I knew he was going to enter my room as he did before. Its been a month and I still haven't made amends with my mother. I sleep at the house and she refuses to feed me, provide for me although my father is paying child support to do so. She does not allow me to see my youngest brother and tells him that I sleep there only so I can hurt her boyfriend. Can she really do this? Can she keep me away from my bothers? By the way, my dad has visitation on Monday through Wednesday, but my mom "arranges something" last minute and always denies him, except when he would get visitation on Friday to Sunday's. But that was two years ago, my dad hadn't seen my brothers since. The realm for this is so it would be harder for me to see my little brother.

Question: My Parents Aren't Letting Me Go In My Room or Use My Electronics!?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 05:04 PM PDT

Help! This summer, they said that I could only go in my room for sleeping. I have to spend all of my time downstairs where the rest of my loud, dumb family is. I can't even drive anywhere! They also limited my electronic use to 1 hour a day, so I literally have NOTHING to do. My backyard is tin and I don't feel safe enough to take walks alone in my neighborhood. My sister is at a summer camp so it's just me, my parents, and my obnoxious little brother. I want to go back to my room so bad, how can I convince them to let me back in my room/use my electronics longer? If I can only use my phone/computer for 1 hour and can't go in my room, I think I'm going to start hurting myself again. Thank you for reading, please help!!!

Question: IS 30 AN ADULT/MATURE AGE Or Young In Your View?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 04:55 PM PDT

FAMILY- FAMILIES is aging these days. fewer members are indeed young. the population growth is indeed slowing and societies are aging so fast. AGE CAN MEAN A LOT. family members especially are looking achievements of the younger members. education, jobs paying 40,000 and up, do they own home, own a car, have kids, good mate or partner, and living ok. BUT AT AGE 30. MANY UNCERTAIN WHERE TO GO/ they may be held backed by having to care for older members or deal with a weak economy

Question: Jealous about my nephew getting more attention.?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 04:26 PM PDT

When I graduated I got a small party, but of course I got too sick to remember it. But I do remember how my sister and brother didn t even come or get me a gift. Now my nephews graduating tomorrow and everyone s coming, everyone s getting him a gift and **** and I m kind of upset and I know I shouldn t be but yeah. Any tips on how to just breath and get over it?

Question: In 2014 i caughted with an girl while we have in sex, now not any of my uncles or aunts let their daughters alone with me?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 04:18 PM PDT

in 2014 i caughted with an girl while we have in sex, now not any of my uncles or aunts let their daughters alone with me, ifeel so bad why my family think im an unsecure person? im so feel bad for my mistake.

Question: Public school?

Posted: 06 Jun 2017 04:16 PM PDT

I've been homeschooled for almost 5 years now, and I want to go to public school more than anything. How do I convince my mom to let me go back, every time I bring up the topic she gets mad, and then tells me "she'll think about it." Which she never decides, I just need advice to finally make her send me back. I was also wondering how long it would take to get enrolled, because we aren't rich and will most likely have to by school supplies throughout summer, and we have to get physicals, because the school requires them and my sister and I want to play sports. Tia