Marriage & Divorce: Question: Life sucks? |
- Question: Life sucks?
- Question: Is this ok?
- Question: Is "fish boy" the same as "fisherboy"?
- Question: Ex is secretly taking child to therapist for her own benefit!?
- Question: Did I do the right thing?
- Question: Can a 15 year old get married if ther significant other is on their death bed?
- Question: When will people realize that engaged 23 yr olds have the perfect life?
- Question: Are there husbands who really do wake up their wives when the are sick? If so, why? Should they wake them up to see if they're ok, or not?
- Question: What are the consequences if my ex misses our divorce/child custody pre-trail?
- Question: Is it normal for a recently divorced couple to still spend weekends together at their summer house with their kids (two teenagers)?
- Question: I'm having doubts about marriage?
- Question: Why do men go to Dominatrix??
- Question: How to know if marriage is right for you?
- Question: If someone is not engaged by 25 then there is no hope for them, true or false?
- Question: Is there a way to know if you're right for marriage or not?
- Question: In the state of Missouri, can you get a free divorce if your spouse is in prison? If so, where do I go or call to get it started?
- Question: Could you ever be with someone who is bitter and sour and just an all round killjoy pain in the azz?
- Question: Loss Of Patience?
- Question: Was it ok for me to take this trip?
- Question: Problems with the In Laws?
- Question: Have you ever been in a polyamorous relationship? How long did it last?
- Question: Is he a momma's boy?
- Question: For Women Only?
- Question: I am 40 year old man.I want to marry a 23 year old trainee pilot girl.She also loves me and want to marry me.Shall I marry her?
- Question: I am 40 year old.Can i marry a 23 year old girl.She loves me and wants to marry me after completion of her training. She is a trainee pilot.?
- Question: When will wife realize that her life will be a lot happier when she starts doing as she's told?
- Question: Why is it that all of my former bullies are becoming moms or getting married or engaged?
- Question: Should I be cautious of his behavior?
- Question: How should I handle this?
- Question: Can a woman in be in love with her daughter more then her husband ?
- Question: I want divorce we have three kids one is 2 half if I said we were split up but living separate in same house but if had one night stand?
- Question: Would you prefer your spouse attended all his family's events without you so you would never need to see or speak with your in-laws?
- Question: Marry a woman on my education level or not?
- Question: Wife just hip replacement surgery cant have sex for now,what can I do to curve my sex hunger?
- Question: I want a divorce but not yet separated 4 years if I were to lie and say if no kids just to get divorce quicker wud judge find out?
- Question: Is it worth fighting for ?
- Question: Ex wife taking daughter out of my house when ever she wants to on my court order visitation days.?
- Question: Is my partner emotionally abusive?
- Question: College or kids first?
- Question: Do victims of domestic abuse usually come from abusive backgrounds, or a non-abusive backgrounds?
- Question: What do i do?
- Question: Was he thinking about someone else?
- Question: When you get married can I throw rice at you?
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 09:27 PM PDT I'm just an average kid that no one understand Mom and Dad and Vicky (my babysitter) always giving me commands doom and gloom up in my room |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 09:24 PM PDT Im a very kind, big hearted, sentimental, somewhat emotional person. I've always remembered every man I fell in love with/dated all my life even after my marriage. Every one of them held a special place in my heart and there will always be some sort of sentiment left. But this is only if we are still on good terms after breakup. And if any of my exes are in dire need of help like a dying 65 yr old with no family to care for him, I will probably visit them. But this doesn't mean that I have any intention of cheating. I'm just really sympathetic, caring as a person and I will help anyone out if they need help. I know I won't like to be in a dire consequence and have absolutely nobody to be there for me. Its a cold world out there. I know it will sound wrong to many people but its just not in my nature to not care about someone who has so much sentimental value to me and to just watch them die alone. |
| Question: Is "fish boy" the same as "fisherboy"? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 09:08 PM PDT |
| Question: Ex is secretly taking child to therapist for her own benefit!? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 09:04 PM PDT We have shared custody of my 10 year told son. We have been divorced for almost 4 years and my ex wife signed up my son to see therapist. She has taken him tons of times to see the therapist without informing me of his appointments. I have contacted the therapist as well to let me know whenever he has an appointment but ignores my emails and messages. For the 4 years he ha been seeing this therapist , she has only informed me one time of his appointment and I have went. The reason she does NOT tell me that he is taking her to appointment is to benefit herself. My son told me she forced him the other day to go see his therapist and say things to her about me that is not even true!!!! She then gets a printed letter from the therapist about what he has said and will bring that to court. She is basically using his therapist for her own benefit in the long run. I have emailed this therapist many times to please inform me of his appointments and she simply ignores me. What can I do to protect myself of this TACTIC so that I dont lose custody in the long run. I am a very good father and this is another one of her ways to make me look bad. I do have an attorney he told me he can send a certified letter to the therapist! I also found another therapist for him and told her about what she is doing, she said that she cant see the child unless she agrees for a new therapist!! |
| Question: Did I do the right thing? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 08:53 PM PDT okay so in the last week or so I applied to many different jobs on care.com and I finally got a response back from someone. This person emailed me and told me they needed a housekeeper on certain days for his house. this guy, his wife and their 2 year old son are going to be moving to my area and will need a housekeeper starting June 12th and idk if it s legit or not bc the guy and his wife are asking for my info and address and want to send me a check by mail. I sent the guy another email saying sorry but I can t start working for you til we meet up and I could meet you, your wife and your child. the last time I got a check in the mail before I thought I was going to work for this guy and it turned out to be void and the guy sent me a fake check when I went to deposit it into my account and I ve already had enough bad experiences in the past and don t want to have to deal with it or go thru it again. Did I do and say the right thing by not giving him my info and by telling him the right thing too? |
| Question: Can a 15 year old get married if ther significant other is on their death bed? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 08:51 PM PDT |
| Question: When will people realize that engaged 23 yr olds have the perfect life? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 08:35 PM PDT When you get engaged at 23 you could easily get 400 likes on Facebook. At 33 proposals are not as romantic. I need to be engaged in the next 5 years or hopefully I will go missing. |
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| Question: What are the consequences if my ex misses our divorce/child custody pre-trail? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 07:39 PM PDT |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 06:59 PM PDT They have different apartments during the week. The man is trying enter into a relationship with me. He says they had an amicable divorce. I am single with no kids. I like him and don't want to be prejudiced. But at the same time I don't find this setup as normal. What do divorced people here think? |
| Question: I'm having doubts about marriage? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 06:39 PM PDT So there's this guy. We've been best friends for a long time. We both love each other, more than friends. We tried dating previously, but neither one of us was mature enough to date at that time. We broke up but still remained best friends. Now we are both ready to date, but made the agreement that it would lead to marriage if we did. I'm having doubts about marriage. I'm terrified I will marry the wrong person or marry when I was meant to be single. I just don't know if marriage is right for me and it's causing a lot of doubts. I would love to date him again, but I need to figure out this marriage thing first. Why do I feel this way about marriage? Does it mean he's not the one? |
| Question: Why do men go to Dominatrix?? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 06:39 PM PDT Is there something wrong with them? Do they get off on the thought of being dominated by sexually aggressive women? Did they have weak mothers that didn't discipline them???? Why do they do it?? |
| Question: How to know if marriage is right for you? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 06:28 PM PDT I don't believe in divorce, so if/when I get married it would be permanent. I heard that not everyone is right for marriage. How do you know if you are/aren't right for marriage? |
| Question: If someone is not engaged by 25 then there is no hope for them, true or false? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 04:31 PM PDT I graduated in 2013 and all of my former bullies are becoming moms or getting married or engaged. I unfortunately am a virgin. Guys don't wife virgins. I should have been a bully in high school lol. Getting engaged at 25 is way more romantic than at 45. |
| Question: Is there a way to know if you're right for marriage or not? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 04:24 PM PDT I don't believe in divorce, so if/when I get married it would be permanent. I heard that not everyone is right for marriage. How do you know if you are/aren't right for marriage? |
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| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 12:52 PM PDT As of late for some reason I am having loss of patience with my hubby. I have been really stressed as of late and for the last week the slightest things will annoy me. I love my husband dearly but lately whenever he opens his mouth I want to strangle hum. Anybody have any ideas as to why I am so irritable and tips on how to manage it? |
| Question: Was it ok for me to take this trip? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 12:38 PM PDT My parents paid for me to take a trip out of state to see old friends. I didn't invite my girlfriend because I didnt have the money to take her with me however I've expressed to her I wouldn't like it if she took a trip without me and it would likely cause problems in our relationship.l wouldn't like the idea of her going on a trip without me. In the past she's also funded trips I have gone in. I went on the trip anyways and now my girlfriend is going away this summer without me and I don't think that is fair. Was it wrong of me to take the trip? |
| Question: Problems with the In Laws? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 12:03 PM PDT My husband and I just had our first baby, we've been getting the typical unwanted advice from people but recently my mother in law and husband got into a huge fight over it. She wanted us to do something and my husband refused (I'm not going to get into it because it will take forever to explain). They got into a huge fight where my MIL started saying ugly things to my husband. His sisters got dragged into it but since it's been a couple of weeks they've (his sisters not mom) gotten over it. We got to hang out with one of his sisters recently and her and my husband were great but she was looking at me weird. I know they blame me for the fight, they've done this in the past. When my husband decides something they disagree with they automatically think it's because of me. We decided to have Thanksgiving alone one year and they held it against ME even though it was my husband's idea!!! I will literally do whatever they want just to keep the peace because they are so dramatic. How would you deal with this? It would be easier if they just came out and accused me of being the one who wants these things so my husband can tell them no but they are so passive aggressive about it and act weird when my husband isn't around. What do I do? |
| Question: Have you ever been in a polyamorous relationship? How long did it last? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 11:35 AM PDT I was in one years ago with my first love who was 15 years older than me. He took in this woman who was down on her luck. He told me about her and problems. I understood. At first me and her would take turns spending the night at his apartment. Then on the weekends her and I would cook for him. It lasted for about year until she moved away. She was special to us |
| Question: Is he a momma's boy? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 11:11 AM PDT My boyfriend is in his 30s, divorced and has a child from his previous marriage. He works for his mothers company where she is one of the directors. He got a fairly job good at her company despite have little experience in that field. He is also having money issues so his mother will often give him money, buy him and his daughter groceries and stuff for their house, etc pretty often. He not only works with his mother but talks to her on the phone 6-12 times a day even late at night when I am at his place. His mother often also takes him and his daughter out to dinner or brings dinner over and she always pays. Is he a mommas boy? |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 10:10 AM PDT Ladies, this is me. 52 years old Bald Big belly 3 college degrees Security guard Rent a room in a house not my own Divorced Salary is less than $400 due to child support Question: Good catch or not? Why? Why not? |
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| Question: Why is it that all of my former bullies are becoming moms or getting married or engaged? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 09:29 AM PDT I graduated in 2013 and noticed that. I am a virgin. Maybe I was a loser after all.. |
| Question: Should I be cautious of his behavior? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 09:22 AM PDT My wife won't let me near her phone.She takes it everywhere with her, even the bathroom. Should I be wary of this type of behavior? One time I snooped through her texts and found out her ex was brining over dinner for her and their children which she never mentioned to me. She also seemed super friendly with I'm via text. I also caught her complaining about me to a male friend of hers. What should I do? |
| Question: How should I handle this? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 08:49 AM PDT Husband has yet again punched a wall and has broken his hand. We got into a little argument before bed last night and apparently when I went to bed he was still frustrated that he decided to hit something. He almost thinks it s funny or cute, he chuckles and has a smirk on his face when I see his buldging bruise hand. I find it incredibly unattractive and child like. I have told him this and it doesn t seem to matter. How would you handle this? ((He s never done this in front of me I just end up seeing the after math on his hands, and the medical bills.)) |
| Question: Can a woman in be in love with her daughter more then her husband ? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 08:36 AM PDT |
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| Question: Marry a woman on my education level or not? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 07:48 AM PDT So I just finished up my MS1 (first year of medical school) and am thinking about the years ahead. I am planning on dating seriously later in med schools and through my residency if possible, but I don't know whether I should go for someone like another physician or someone with less education. On one hand, I want to be able to have good conversations with my wife, which would come with the education. Not to mention the extra money we would make. On the other hand, I want my wife to be obedient to me, I don't want her to talk back, and I never would want her asking/commanding me to do thing, which might come if I had an educated wife. I also want her to think that looking pretty is one of her top attributes and priorities; I want her to shave her legs, wear makeup and always be looking her best. An educated wife might not think she has to do that. If I want sex I want a wife who will be happy to please her man and not be stuck up about it. I would be fine with some education for the latter scenario I think; maybe a journalism major from a good private institution. They are usually dumb and pretty enough to please me but smart enough to not drive me insane (I despise idiots/imbeciles) any input? actually, shelves_d, that's what I was saying - that an educated woman would think that SHE is entitled to make her own deacons instead of the man/head of household the man makes the decisions, that's how it's always been, sorry |
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| Question: Is it worth fighting for ? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 05:56 AM PDT Me & my son's dad has been through alot in the past 3 years . I moved away to go to school & to model in the beginning but later moved back , i was also caught texting other guys and eventually I actually cheated on him & ended up in the position of not knowing who my son's father was. Before you judge me the relationship was stressful at the points of when I did these things like when I moved away he didn't support me but instead tried to belittle me so I would quit & come home & when I cheated I was in a hurt mindset because the month before he had stole money out of my account for cocaine , I was being abused & I caught him talking to other girls. On his end of the relationship His jealousy of me having more than him always made him angry he hit me ,hit me when I was pregnant, pour drinks on me , drag me & my clothes outside , drive off in my car & flat out disrespect me . His & my family have always said he doesn't deserve me but i didnt believe them until Now . Now he has changed alot & wants a 2nd chance but he is still disrespectful has put his hands on me 5 times this year alone so far even in front of our child, he becomes belligerent when things don't go his was like if I don't let him borrow my car or if I don't buy him food .ive grown and changed also since I got pregnant I finished college and am focused on a better future & want to leave drama behind me .i love him & we both have done wrong in the past but I'm not sure if this is something I should fight for . |
| Posted: 04 Jun 2017 05:40 AM PDT Court order to pay half insurance costs for child ex never has paid a dime. We have joint physical care. Never follows court order said she can do what ever she wants. What can I do to enforce court order ? |
| Question: Is my partner emotionally abusive? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 03:54 AM PDT My partner does not call me names or physically abuse me. However they will sometimes talk behind my back negatively to their friends and paint me in a bad light to their friends and family. I have never met their friends yet they have met all of my friends. They will subtly act more interested in my friends (the ones who havewho have great careers) and ask about them to me frequently making me feel insecure and talk about how great their careers are. This person accepted a free vacation I funded for them because I wanted them to go with me and they said they did not have the money to go so I paid for them yet they went on a vacation without me, never even invited me and claimed it was funded by a relative and did not even think about inviting me along. This person talked negatively about me to their friends while on this vacation and stayed with friends. Is my partner abusive? Ive tried my best to be a good partner and be nice to them and not sure how to make them happy. |
| Question: College or kids first? Posted: 04 Jun 2017 12:40 AM PDT Please don't just say college without reading. I am 19 years old and active duty in the Air Force. I've been with my fiancé for 2ish years. Initially I wanted to go to college first because that's all I've been told. But while me and my SO were talking he brought up how he would like kids sooner than later. And here are the reasons. I just want to know if you think it's doable or completely crazy. Both him and I are active duty in the military. He's army. We decided that if we do go this route one of us would likely have to separate (most likely me). If it is me this is my plan. We plan to have 3-5 kids. He's very family orientied so having kids means everything to him. Our mindset is to have them sooner rather than later because by time we're eligible for retirement (18 years) we would like for our kids to be nearly on to college (or whatever they choose to do). That way we can enjoy our retirement years. By time I separate I will have a little over 3 years time in service. Which means I am still eligible to use my GI bill for college. I am starting classes this summer and would plan to continue throughout my pregnancy and once they're born. I'm not sure what I would like to go to college for yet but I know it would be somewhere in the medical field considering that's where I work now. I would just like to know whether you think this is feasible considering small children would be lots of work. |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2017 10:49 PM PDT Trying to find anything that will prove or disprove that either abused people stay in abusive relationships because the cycle isn t broken, or people who come from loving homes don t know how to identify an abuser. |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2017 10:00 PM PDT My boss and I kind of became friends to the point that my husband and I would regularly have dinner with her and her husband but the kicker is a week we went out and she brought a man that isn't her husband to dinner they were all over each other it made my husband and I both uncomfortable the guy left halfway through dinner and her husband joined for dessert he saw the guy walk away from our table and she hurriedly said it was a friend of ours. She ended up promoting for keeping her secret I do a great job at work but I'll be honest my coworker deserved the job more than I did he has been with the company 5 yrs I've been here 2 1/2....It's akward I feel guitly my morals tell me to quit but the fact that I have a family to feed and my coworker is a single man is clouding it up I'm in the middle of a mess |
| Question: Was he thinking about someone else? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 09:45 PM PDT I just had a baby and logically my husband and I cannot have sex yet until I m 6 weeks postpartum. Without being too vulgar, I will say that A few weeks ago I offered other means of relief and he rejected me. Today after brushing my teeth I walked into the bedroom to find that he had a hard on. This was upsetting because I feel like he was thinking about someone else. Am I wrong to think this way or is it possible someone else turned him on. I asked him and he said he wasnt thinking about anyone. Hes 32 so I think it s highly unlikely. |
| Question: When you get married can I throw rice at you? Posted: 03 Jun 2017 06:08 PM PDT |
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