Others tend to have..addiction problems, emotional and or committment intimacy problems, or relationships just don't work out. Something I have noticed and they arent even emotionally all that attrsctive AND they are drug/alcohol addicts, not financilly well doing.. i like mostly kind people but i find i cant force any one guy to love me nor do exactly as i wish...im annoyed with people...thry expect you to be happy when you are handed crumbs for "love" ...theres actually not much to enjoy if yiure already that desperate

My husband constantly lies about stupid little things! Little white lies.. All the time.. I've brought it up, we've discussed it multiple times.. There has been alot of larger lies too.. Him hiding things from me like debt and what not.. It's gotten to the point where I have almost left him twice.. Now we're in the same position tonight.. I don't want to lose him, this is our ONLY issue. He is an amazing man, but I'm afraid hes willing to keep anything from me.. The lies haven't been as often, he has been making an effort for a few months now, but I caught him in another lie tonight (asking for his old job back) without bringing it to my attention and then denying it. And I wouldn't even be mad over it if he told me. What should I do ?

My wife throws my stuff away thinking I am a moron and won't miss it. All my belongings are "crap" to her while she has about two hundred pairs of shoes etc. What does she want? I don't drink I don't go to strip clubs, I just stay home and do my hobbies and she throws my stuff out without my knowledge. I find it disrespectful and it makes me very angry. What should I do about this?

Alright, so I know I don't have the fear of commitment... because I can commit to everything else just fine. But with relationships... no. It honestly freaks me out even just thinking about marriage. My heart does race, and I even sometimes get an upset stomach. I get really anxious, like really anxious at times. All my walls go up instantly when it's brought up. I feel like I'm afraid of it, but I don't know. Because I don't want it anyways, so maybe I just really don't want it? I will get myself into relationships that I know won't last. Again, not sure if I have a legit fear of marriage, but I kind of fit the definition... so maybe I do? I don't know. Honestly, though, I don't want to change it if I do. I like being afraid if that's what it takes to not ever get married. I don't know why or how I got this way, but that's just how I am. I haven't posted this question before??? I also don't want counseling. I'm not the same person who posted the question you are talking about. Please stop changing my category Please leave me alone! I'm not the person who asked the question. Please stop changing my category and leave me alone! You have no life if you pick on some random person on the internet. I don't play petty child games. So whatever. Be immature. That's on you. Dear Anonymous: Please stop trolling, it's really annoying. Thanks. Yahoo needs a better reporting system... because you children don't get enough homework I guess. Grow up. Whatever. Change my category to whatever **** you want. I'll just change it later. I'm going to bed. Goodnight troll.

We had no sex for two years , I told hubby if we don't fix sex in our marriage I would have to leave because I can't keep getting hurt . I already tried to get him to have sexual fun with me 3 times in a row and been begging him for over two years . So now hubby working on when to have sex and make love with me . He told me not to worry about it and leave it to him .. weather we finally had it or not , doesn't married comply just do it out of love or because the love each other ? Hubby And I are doing it because we want to feel more connected as hubby and wife . I'm his first true love . We are in our 20s.

My wife seems to think that it's totally fine to ask the same question everyday. I guess she thinks she'll trip me up or something. I leave home every morning at 6:30 to be at work by 7 AM. This way I can get off at 4:00 PM. My wife gets off at 5:30 and when she walks in the house after 6 I'm usually sitting on the sofa watching TV. Everyday for the past week she's asked me, "what time did you get off" or "what time did you get home?" For the first few days I'd tell her "I got off at 4 and was home by 4:30." That was fine for a couple of days but today is more than a week later and she's still asking me the same question. Today I refused to answer and she got an attitude. At that point I snapped. I told her it's not like I got off at 4 then didn't come home till 8 or 9 PM. I'm sitting here everyday when she walks in the door but she seems to question why I'm home so early and what did I do while she was away. Am I wrong to snap at her even though I've answered the same question over and over and over?

Our budget is low, but we definitely want to leave the USA. We know that Mexico and Jamaica are the cheapest generally, but that's beside the point. I work in a travel agency so I may be able to get a good deal. But we can't choose on a location. We don't really know what we want and how to come on an agreement (not that we are arguing..we just keep changing our minds to even get a quote) and our time is dwindling. We have thought about Jamaica, Alaska, Tokyo, Hawaii, The Netherlands...we literally can't decide. We want a beach and boose, and relaxation mixed with fun and romantic times. As one commenter was nice enough to suggest I add, We are getting married 10/8. So it will be in the fall or maybe even early November when we leave.

If your married & call the cops on your husband for abusive, will cops do something about it?

I am married and had an affair with a guy I fell in love with. it was intense and a dream come true. I got my nose pierced for him and I still have the nose ring. I keep a stuffed animal he gave me still on my desk. We are friends now. We have broken up for some time now and I am now pregnant with my husbands baby. It is our 3rd child. Is it wrong of me to still have the nose ring and the gift he gave me ? Or to accept any gift from him ? Or even to be friends with him ? We are friends on facebook Update: I have been married for ten years

I can understand abusive relationships, but others? Why even get married if you know your not going to be able to stay faithful? Marriage takes work, it's not easy, but if you truly love someone then you wouldn't cheat. It's simple as that. If you wanna screw everyone that comes along that may be more attractive to you, has a tighter vagina or a bigger cock, then you really do not deserve marriage, nor should anyone have to waste their time marrying you.

He dumped me at my family's house, took our daughter. He claimed he was coming back in 2 hours, well it's been two months. Lots of stuff going on, trying to work things out, but I haven't seen him since, only his grandmother. Police wouldn't do anything. Now, I've made a fake profile and he's added me. Should I make him fall in love again and crush him? You don't know how bad he's hurt me. Good idea? why or why not?

We were married at the time of the fling. I called her and confronted him. He called her in front of me and nastily broke it up. Now I get a FB message from her that says tell him to stop contacting her. Feel she wants me to know about it. Should I reply with "You're a big girl you can tell him" or just block her or ignore? btw, not surprised by jackass husband of 25 years.

I know two people are second cousins to each other and are getting married. I know its legal but is it ok if they decide to have kids?

My husband and I got married but didn t pay the fee because we only wanted my family to think that we were married. The person that married us told us that it would not be valid until we paid the $100 fee and the information was submitted to the court. Since we didn t really want to be married, we agreed to that. Little did we know that he submitted the information anyway without us having made a payment. Is our marriage valid and/or legal?

I met my husbamd a yr ago. We were inseperable. We married each other after 6 months. We moved in to a new place. I started getting the hang of the married life, cooking, cleaning, etc. I forgot to mention that I have 3 children with my ex. He has 1 with his ex. Not bc it matters but I would like to throw in that I was born and raised in Ny and he was born and raised in Guanajuato Mexico. Even before we got married he would yell at me and say some hurtful things. Now we have been married 7 mnths. He works 2 full time jobs and only has 1 day off. He is very moody now. Explodes when he is angry. He hasn't hit me. But he has called me names, said I was a single mother for a reason and that reason is not good. I try my best in cooking what he likes, learning new recipes, I clean, iron his 10 uniforms. I have his 2 different lunches ready and snacks too packed every morning. His milk and bread ready when he gets home at 3 am. His pjs ready with his towel for him to shower and go to bed. I am not an angel I have lied abt stupid things to him and I was jealous at one point but not anymore. I am in love with him. I try to do everything correctly. I have never cheated on him. Alot I do gets unseen, if I moved stuff around the house, if I cut or dyed my hair or did my nails it goes un noticed. I got a tattoo behind my ear and he hasn't noticed. He has told me he doesnt love me. Idk what it is he is with me for. He says alot of hurtful things to me like that I am useless etc.

We are both 24. We have been together for a year and a half now and he's wanted to get married the whole time. I got divorced about 2 years ago and I was married for 4 years and with the guy for 5 years before that. My bf is really pushing for marriage and I keep saying no and every time I do he gets upset with me. I understand that he really wants to be married but Im sick of marriage right now. He knows how long I was married. How do I get him off my back?! Ive told him multiple times Im not ready. He just brought it up again today saying "Us getting married is less than a year away! :)" and Im like ummm says who? and he said "Us! :)" Then I had to tell him that I never said or implied that and now hes upset...any advice? Im sick of this getting brought up all the time. I told him maybe 5 years. Help! Trust me I have told him that I NEVER want to be married but he really wants to so I decided ONE day we will...one day...Ive told him that marriage is only paper and he says "Not to me its not." as if he knows..

So he was abused as a child emotionally and physically by his father and I don't know how to help him. He has nervous shakes, night terrors, and he barely ever has time to work on his job. His boss is a good friend from church and he is trying to work with him but I fear that he will lose his job soon. I was forced to explain to his boss when he fell and hit his head and got a severe concussion. He then had to go to the hospital because he was mixing pain pills with alcohol and its just been a roller coaster. He is 23 and I am 21 we've been married for two years but I just don't know what to do. I love him but he has really pushed me I've already talked to the Bishop at our ward as well as his family about it but I just can't come up with what to say to the man I married for all the pain he has caused me... He just drinks and drinks and I need to know what to tell him so that I can have the man I fell in love with back. So I packed up my bags and told him I was going to my parents for a week to reevaluate things.... As I was walking out the door he started to cry and said don't leave I don't want to be alone....he then said that he'd get help but he doesn't want to go to a rehab facility for his drug and alcoholism. While I held him I couldn't help but think how overwhelmed I am... Should he go to a group or does he need to go to a clinic?

We got a spark . We seem to only make it stronger with kissing cuddle and hugs .. . Now every time I believe our spark is strong and I want to make it stronger leading to sex or even sexual intimacy , my husband makes plans to do stuff such as errands for himself to do such as food shopping . What Im trying to say is we have a spark but by husband is too busy to make it stronger at the moment . We haven't had sex for 2 years ! Not even on our honeymoon:(. Do you think that's why it's so hard to keep our spark strong ?