I just found some young girls erotic photos on my husband s laptop. They look like 13 or 14 year-old and they were wearing bikini or something short and posing really inappropriately. Those pictures were stored with other naughty pictures, but other ones were adult females . I was so shocked and asked him about it, and he said he didn t look those photos after saving them and he doesn t know why he saved those. But I can t trust him. It disgusts me. Is he pedophile? I am so scared.

It's only 5 inches erect. I'm extremely ashamed of it. Women laugh at it whenever we get intimate. I just want one woman who'll love me and accept me.

I like this guy. We have so much in common. Problem is he's my ex husband ex friend. They use to be best friends back in highschool up until 7 years ago. Not sure what happened but I would feel so guilty for crossing that line even though they're not friends anymore and I don't talk to my ex husband either. Should I feel guilty?

I am a straight guy and I happen to know a lot more about women clothing and make up and accessories. I know what foundation is and I know about different types of high heels like pumps and sandals and etc. A lot of people think that I am gay because I know a lot more than other men. I want to be a fashion designer or a make up artist. Is it really gay of me to know all of this ?

Hey yall, i recently got married to my husband nearly a year ago. We have been together for 6 years 3 children 5, 4 and 2. Our marriage was never based on love and neither was our relationship, we met got pregnant right away and ever since has been soley based on the kids. About 1 month ago his brother was released from prison and was staying with us. One thing lead to another and me and his brother have started to have feelings for each other. My husband had to move back to another state because of financial reasons, and i am left here with his brother and my children. The plan is for me to move back to be with my husband but I feel so strong and care about his brother. What should I do?

my parents are getting divorced and i want to know how much she'll make she has 4 kids (21,18,16,14) and we reside in new jersey. my father commited adultery and my mom retaliated by basically stealing his money. how much would she be taking from him?

All I know is I want lots of money so I can have cool clothes a cool car and get my wife anything she wants, provide for my future kids, give them the opportunity to go and be what they want to be and do what they want to do. I want to be there for them so I want weekends off so I can test my wife to a dinner bring my son to a football match or 2 do whatever the hello your supposed to do with your daughter I dunno I guess that's what we all after ha. I just want to be happy and have a happy family but right now I'm depressed as he'll with no money, no job and a damn good gcse that. Needs money and

My husbands not being intimate with me lately and I've been really sexual frustrated..It's like we're arguing over nothing every day, he's even sleeping on the couch ON HIS OWN..he hasn't came to me for sex in days.. I feel like he's not interested or entertained with someone else.. I haven't masturbated in a while because I think it's a sin and I've been doing good at not doing it (please don't insult my beliefs) ... I don't belive in cheating and I will never cheat on my husband just because our relationship is having trouble but I honestly don't know what to do... I have the urge of playing with myself but my beliefs are in the back of my head.

Its the fact that he knows she has it he feels safe enough to Not do anything for her And keep her at a distance..but still finds her attractive. These type females are gonna lose all their assets just to be appreciated for even a chance in a relationship with a male. Even thinking this is a problem Is a problem. People even females who have money are living creatures with feelings. Why males just think you re just an option and see you as a safety net if they know you have extra money and you actually manage it well wiyhout "insane" behaviour coming from others causing you intense emotional stress.. I am not intending to place blame just that either a guy isnt able or willing to provide for the female or he sees you as a "target" or safety net..not "needed, loved, appreciated" even more guys will look for your personal intimate details and stalk you on the internet not seeing that as a crime or rude at all and keeping you at a distance and ignored..he Really thinks you ve already got it all am I basically corrrct? ..typos...* I do believe it has to do with your attitude and morals what not... that anyone is allowed to behave so negatively and does not allow nor respect the female...apologies but you can't ignore this stuff..guys who see a female as independant type don't value the female its probably going to continue to occur repeatedly through my life.. therapy isnt going to solve it. My main question is what I would like answered and assistance with the whole attracting poor communicative guys with really disturbing creep behaviours negative .. it bothers me that much they eat me inside like gd damn selfish bloodsucking ...i used to be tolerant and then back out of any committment with these types . I can not stand it happrning again and again The communication is So poor that he will show you , repeatedly how much he does not need you or desire you near him. But then come around when its convenient for him and all the while i waste my resources on "junk" And I get blamed for it nobody much seems to accept that this is a males Fault i should not suffer for their immaturity.

He has a high sex drive, wants it 4-5x s\day. But he only lasts for a minute. I don t want sex at all. I don t have orgasms unless I do it alone. He gropes me and tries to make out in public like walmart and that freaks me out and makes me feel trashy. And he has a one track mind. Everything I say he turns into some trashy hehe that s what she said or I have something to make u feel better come sit on my lap thing. That turns me off right there. It pisses me off. I ve told him I have depression and I have a low sex drive. I ve gone years without sex. I can go a whole lifetime without. He gets mad at me and says things to make me feel bad. Am I a sexual or is this just the depression. I feel bad cause I want to want him but I can t. I just end up not liking him even more

I can NOT stop drinking. No matter how many times I quit for several weeks I always fall back on it. And now my wife and I are getting a divorce and we have child custody to figure out, but right now the child is temporarily in my custody. I do not EVER drink when I am around him, just after he goes to bed, to kind of mellow down for the evening. I know I am able to stop when I need to, but I am having trouble stopping completely, or even slowing down to once or twice a month. I've tried AA, have quit cold turkey, have sought help from friends and family, but at the end of the day it's just me left here alone in my house with nothing else to do. Please someone come up with some sort of suggestion.

Give fake name so that they cant find me too. What they gonna do GILLETINE me?!??!

I have to teach children about what happens when we heat and cool different things. The only problem is I don't know how to demonstrate this in the classroom without some sort of heat source. Could I use a candle to show them the effects of heating different things ?

The only "acceptable" way to validate their feelings is to do as you're told or expected to. And if you don't, you will be shamed until you feel sorry for what you did and they get their way anyways. They are relentless and will not let it go until they get their needed victory or are vindicated.

Okay, I don t have many people to talk about this with. And I just need opinions. My boyfriend and I talked about marriage and he wants a prenup but I do not believe in that. Especially because we really don t have anything going into marriage. I mean he has two Blazers but honestly if anything were to happen I wouldn t want them. other then that we have no assets. Everything we will have will be gained and earned while married and I m the person who likes to help. If anything were to happen I wouldn t want to see him suffer anyways and I hope he feels the same. I just don t know what to do. I also would feel lack of trust if I had to sign that.

I want to move but my husband doesn't. We've been living with my grandmother for over 2 years now. Shes elderly and needs some care. We have two children, age 11 and 18 months old. My oldest son has his own room but the baby doesn't. My grandmother has another piece of land connected to hers and told us we could have it. I want to buy a mobile home and put on it and my husband doesn't. He says hes worried about paying the bills but I think we can afford it. I really need to get out of this room we live in and have my own place, not just for me but for my kids and our dog. (Basically we're all forced to live in a very small room) I feel like every time I try to bring it up he just cuts me off and we start arguing. He has a job and a decent credit score. I don't. I'm a stay at home mom with very little income on my own. I can not get anything without his signature. We would still be close enough to my grandma that I could check in on her and another plus we wouldn't be paying rent! If we move somewhere away from here, which is most likely the ONLY way he will agree to move, then we will be paying out even more a month in rent. The place Im interested in purchasing the mobile home gave me an estimate of $150 a month. We cant find rent that cheap. I don't know how to convince him to move or if I should just give up. I need someone to give me advice. Thanks

My wife is upset with me because I didn't discuss with her first that I was going to go on a diet and lose some weight. I didn't know I was suppose to discuss EVERYTHING with her. Is this common in a marriage? You decide to do something for you to make you healthier and lose some weight but you have to have a discussion about it with your spouse. What's next? "Hey honey, I'm thinking about going to the bathroom in a few minutes. Do you think I should wipe front to back or back to front?" How much do you discuss with your spouse and what is too much communication? Last year my wife decided to lose some weight and she got mad that I wouldn't go out and walk with her or get on her diet. Now that I'm deciding to get healthier she seems to have a problem with it. I guess men aren't allowed to change their minds. I told her last year I wasn't interested in loosing weight so I guess that means I can never loose weight. Ok, the toilet comment was sarcasm. Yes, we share cooking duties. One day she cooks, one day I cook. Last year when she was on her diet we really didn't change much eating or cooking habits but I am changing what I eat. I've cut out coffee and a lot of sweets. I'm drinking smoothies and eating a sliced cucumber with lite dressing for lunch instead burgers or stuff like that.

For argument purposes, I'm speaking of straight marriages. I've been divorced for 5 years and have zero desire to get remarried. I don't trust men but that's my issue. My ex told me he would rather live in a box than be married to me. As awful as that sounds I didn't do anything terrible. He went out with friends, finished hobbies. I raised children, probably didn't complete my wifely duties very often, and I wasn't the best housekeeper. He also told me he didn't want to be "whipped". Now he's remarried and she completey controls all his actions. Are men really just big babies that need a "mother" to coddle them?

Also he take no responsibility if my two year daughter. I feel tired, exhausted at the end of the day and sleepless in the night. Medication are not working ! He provide no emotional support to me in these times. He is extremely frustrated and depressed himself because of his job and trying pour all his stress on it. I can't take it. I want to tension free and in these times. Pls help

He verbally abuses, drinks all the time and didnt take any responsibility of our younger daughter (2). We have also lost our job so money crunch is there but keep asking me money for loan. How can u survive like this? I can't sleep in nights.