My brother in-law's wife is not good with my wife and that has caused my brother in-law to be always mad at my wife. He makes my wife cry for so many stupid reasons and this makes me sad.. But my wife tells me not to interfere. Do you think I need to let it be like this?

So I'm 24 and there's this 21 y.old guy who has a crush on me. Seriously? How come? I think it's gross to be dating such a young guy

She's a close family friend I've know her since I was a baby by the time I was 10 I started noticing the way guys would look @ her & the clothes she's wear I developed a Crush for her. I got more infatuated with her as time went on & she wasn't helping. Once I turned 16 & she finalized her divorce we started to flirt. I'd have my arm around her waist & she said she loved it, we'd go the pool she'd say she wanted to take off her swimsuit I got closer & she laughed saying it was a joke. We went to a concert she suggestively danced & I slapped her butt. We'd go to places together & shed catch me checking her out & smirked. Here we are 2 years later it's Friday & I really want to bang her, when I asked her she said she'd never get married again she's 35. She's basically a cougar I've picked her up from work before & the clothes she wears drives me crazy she's looking to get ******. Her butt is my favorite I know she uses injections but I don't care. Anyways I got a text prepared saying "Hey her, I haven't seen you in a while. I hope all is well, are u busy tomorow? I'd love to get together again" do I have a chance with her

I m 16 year old girl. mom used to go to dance class with her 2 friends Dona & Elsa. I got really close with donas son, were still good friends, almost dated. I m very close with both of them, but I m closer with Dona. She s been there for me a lot, 16th birthday, homecoming crowning, supported me when I lost & gained my vision back, my breakdowns. she s a very reserved person, after losing her husband & daughter who was my age 4yrs ago. But she s always super loving & caring to me, always giving hugs & laughing together, always happy, says she's proud of me, we have a special bond. Last year she quit Zumba due to fight she had with Elsa, so we don t see her anymore but I miss her so much, so I text her "have a great day!" & that I miss her Every know and then.. My grandma died a couple weeks ago & surprisingly Dona had came to her funeral, I was crying very hard & shaking, She came down the line hugging family, we she got to me I bawled out crying even harder when I saw her, Life seemed at its worst & to see her after months without her, I missed her so much it was overwhelming. She gave me the biggest/longest hug. It was a special moment, very hard & overwhelming. Days letter she would text me checking on me. i felt so embarrassed for crying to her.. How do you think she felt seeing me like that? is it weird that we are close? FYI I'm very close with my mom, were bestfriends, she doesn't lack anything

It's been 4 years and I've met a guy who I am very very similar to. No matter what in these 4 years we've never been able to separate. God doesn't want us to separate at all. Our personalities are the same. We act the same. It's weird because I've experienced this with his elder brother as well. Both brothers I've met and they've treated me like a little brother. Their parents I don't know I had a strange feeling when I met them. Their mum kept looking at me and I looked at her as if we knew each other. This happened with their dad as well. I. Just feel I have a connection to that family as I always worry about them and care about them. I feel my current family is not my family because Im different compared to everyone else. I don't look like anyone in my family. I'm. Intelligent and the only one who has achieved high grades whereas everyone else had failed. The other family they are as clever as I am. I am.similar to the two brothers I've met but I'm the opposite to my own brother. Why do I feel that the family I've met is my own family?

I am a fifteen year old girl. My family is a group of strong christians. My mom pressured me into saying yes to going to mexico for a missions trip, but now I'm stressing out. I am an atheist AND gay. Christianity and gayness don't mix too well. I am closeted in my faith and sexuality, but my mother is very pushy when it comes to religion. I have anxiety so anything I am not familiar with, I get SUPER stressed about. I am not going to know anyone when I do go on the trip. I really don't want to go. What should I do? Should I just come out and say that I don't believe in god? HELPPPP

Here is my deal. I am going to be 23 years old this year and have been in college full time since 2014. My boyfriend works full time in order to support us and I also get financial aid. However, this is my last semester that I will be receiving financial aid since my dad went back to work and they base it off of his income. I have been taking all of my general classes and a few other elective type classes. I have 2 more classes in order to finish my general ed and then I have to decide what kind of degree I want. That is the tough part. I am starting to feel like I am wasting money and time on these classes when I could be working and helping us save for a house. We currently live on my parents property so it's not too bad but if we ever wanted to buy a house or rent another place I would have to work. Now, I can either keep going with school (I just don't know what to study) or finish up this semester and get a job and just see what happens from there and once I find out what I want to do I can go back to school. I can't do anything like nursing or medical assistant because I can't stand blood. I am not big on managing places or being a leader. I also am not interested in math whatsoever. I don't really like working with kids although it would be a lot better than dealing with blood and/or math. I already completed a dental assisting program right after high school and the office I worked for didn't have room to grow or move up in positions. What do you suggest I do? If you have any information or thoughts on what to go to school for or what career to look into please let me know. I feel so helpless.

Buona sera a tutti :) Ho 18 anni e sono una ragazza normale, un po' tanto paranoica,insicura su tutto, pessimista ,ma in fondo normale... Sono uscita con diversi ragazzi, e purtroppo ho "sofferto" parecchio,soprattutto per uno di questi(circa 8 mesi fa)Pur essendo giovane ho sempre pensato di costruire qualcosa di serio con qualcuno, ci tengo, ho dei valori di cui vado fiera e non sono una ragazza assolutamente facile. Il problema è che quando inizio a sentirmi con qualcuno (nell'ultimo periodo)all'inizio sono abbastanza presa, poi quando costui mi chiede di uscire il mio interesse cala... Non riesco a capire il perché ... Sarà perché dentro di me so già che non funzionerà ? Eppure se ci penso alcuni sono delle persone che vale la pena conoscere... Saranno le mie paranoie?Non voglio una cosa seria? Davvero non so più cosa pensare ... Voi cosa ne dite ?

I'm a man and I have a good friend from university, she's a woman who I was chatting with last night by Whatsapp.she said that she was interested in a guy at work, they still weren't friends and that they had only talked briefly in a couple of times, my firiend told me that she sometimes smiles at him when she sees him.She also told me that one day she came to her office and the guy she likes was there talking with two friends of hers and she greeted her two friends, except him.she told me that she didn't greet him because of nervousness. a while after she said that he went away and he seemed kind of serious and indignated. a week after she said that he came to her office and did the same, he greeted every one except her. Another day she told me that she was sitting in a seat and he came and sat next to her and she thinks he said something to her in order to start a converation, but she said she didn't say anything because of nervousness and a while after he went away again with that attitude like if he was indignated. to tell you the truth, I didn't know what to say to her, I just told her that maybe the guy was egocentric because a guy should show interest instead of behaving like that. Did I do well in saying that to her? they haven't seen each other in 4 months. sorry for the mistakes I wanted to say indignant instead of indignated. but yes, she said that the guy seemed like offended or something like that.

I was already really insecure about my vagina and I never let him go down on me. If he would try I would kind of push him away because I was worried something like this would happen. He pretty much said it unwarranted too. I was giving him oral and he suddenly just says "I would say to make this a 69 but you kind of smell sometimes." I finished up and then asked him about it after. He laughed and said he'd only been joking to see my reaction. But I call b.s on that why would you tell the girl giving you head something that would normally make her stop? Also why the hell would you lie about that just to see someone's reaction? I have no hair down there and I clean myself the proper way. I have never even let him be intimate with me unless I've had a shower beforehand. I scheduled an appointment with a gyno to make sure I don't have an infection or something but honestly I don't think I smell bad. I've had one boyfriend before him and he never told me I smelled or even hinted at it. Do you think he seriously was joking? If not, does anyone have any remedies for an issue like this?

I was in Japan for a few months when I did study abroad for a semester. I was gone from August until the beginning of January. So just recently he told me he wanted to confess to me about him sleeping with another girl while I was gone. At first I was going to be angry and start yelling but I composed myself and tried seeing it from his side. I was gone for five months he's got needs and it was only once. Clearly it was a mistake and accident he has apologised so what else could I ask of him? Basically I told him that I wanted him to get tested before he expects to have sex with me again and that I didn't want him to talk to her anymore. So he gets angry with me saying he was hurt that I didn't really care about it. I saw it as me being understanding he sees it as me being cold towards him and not valuing our relationship. I found the whole thing really petty so when he asked me if I cared at all I iust said not really if this was the only time. He proceeds to tell me I don't care about him and just make a huge deal about it. at the time I was brushing everything off as him being dramatic but looking back he honestly seemed so upset that I wonder if maybe I was in the wrong here?

I m 16 year old girl. mom used to dance everyday Zumba with her 2 friends Dona & Elsa. I got really close with do as son, were still good friends, almost dated. I m very close with both of them, but I m closer with Dona. She s been there for me a lot, 16th birthday, homecoming crowning, supported me when I lost & gained my vision back etc. she s a very reserved person, after losing her husband & daughter 4yrs ago. But she s always super loving, caring to me, always giving hugs & laughing together, always happy, we have a special bond. Last year she quit Zumba due to fight she had with Elsa, so we don t see her anymore but I miss her so much, so I text her "have a great day!" Every know and then.. My grandma died a couple weeks ago & surprisingly Dona had came to her funeral, I was crying very hard & shaking, She came down the line hugging family, we she got to me I bawled out crying even harder when I saw her, Life seemed at its worst & to see her after months without her, I missed her so much.cit was overwhelming. She gave me the biggest/longest hug. She kept telling me that it s okay, it s okay to cry. It was a special moment, very hard & overwhelming. Days letter she would text me checking on me. i felt so embarrassed for crying to her.. How do you think she felt seeing me like that? is it weird that we are close? FYI I'm very close with my mom, were bestfriends, she doesn't lack anything

I m 16 year old girl. mom used to dance everyday Zumba with her 2 friends Dona & Elsa. I got really close with do as son, were still good friends, almost dated. I m very close with both of them, but I m closer with Dona. She s been there for me a lot, 16th birthday, homecoming crowning, supported me when I lost & gained my vision back etc. she s a very reserved person, after losing her husband & daughter 4yrs ago. But she s always super loving, caring to me, always giving hugs & laughing together, always happy, we have a special bond. Last year she quit Zumba due to fight she had with Elsa, so we don t see her anymore but I miss her so much, so I text her "have a great day!" Every know and then.. My grandma died a couple weeks ago & surprisingly Dona had came to her funeral, I was crying very hard & shaking, She came down the line hugging family, we she got to me I bawled out crying even harder when I saw her, Life seemed at its worst & to see her after months without her, I missed her so much.cit was overwhelming. She gave me the biggest/longest hug. She kept telling me that it s okay, it s okay to cry. It was a special moment, very hard & overwhelming. Days letter she would text me checking on me. i felt so embarrassed for crying to her.. How do you think she felt seeing me like that? is it weird that we are close? FYI I'm very close with my mom, were bestfriends, she doesn't lack anything

Hello , So lately , my sister got her first mobile phone . Of course , since it's 2016 it was a smartphone - an iPhone (my mother's older phone ) . Technically , she only was allowed to use it if she was outside , or for games , but it went in a whole other level . She got whatsapp (that's okay , as long as it's only her friends and family) , but recently she got "Musically" . I never had that app , cause I don't really like exposing myself to strangers doing some lipdubbing . Anyways , she makes videos on that like everyday , and it kinda gets me worried . I'm afraid that she'll end up on the famous internet fails , or cringe websites ( all she does is lipdub ,but like she's really really really young , get what I mean ? ) Cause when I was 11 , I only had a blog , and didn't even post things about me , I was completly anonymous with some weird japanese name ,and it was all about anime . I mean , I was like really afraid if my parents knew that I had facebook or whatever , so I waited for their permission , and got it till I was 12-13 . And everything was private , while she has all her videos on public. When I tell her to stop making so much videos , or at least make them private she goes off and tell me " I won't have any likes if it's on private" or when I tell her they're gonna make fun of you she ignores me . What should I do ? I don't even know if my parents know about this , only thing I know is that my dad dosen't know .

Due to my own childhood, along with my siblings, some friends, and overall the experiences of the general population of poverty stricken areas, I started writing a book about. It's about what still goes on behind closed doors in this country that we decide to ignore. But I would rather not write a biography. So I've started to write a fiction book about a young girl as she faces these issues on a daily basis, and how it is ignored. Ect. And I would like to involve the TRUE events that are experienced in different ways, for different reasons. So please share your story, if you have the time. You can be anonymous, you can email it to me at ashleysosa44@gmail.com. Or just comment on here. And if you want your name to be credited, in case I use it for ideas, please include your name. And thank you if you take the time to do this. And since this has a limit of space to write, if you choose to go into detail, emailing may be better than adding more comments.

i always felt my bf dad eyes were on me ,but wasent sure, until my bf said he noticed anytime i was at their old house, he would look my way ,when i was on the couch, or walking out the door, or even when we were near the sink, bf said he might have been if not what else could have been looking at ? in my direction. My bf said it was a intense stare ,but then he said blank, what do you think the stare means ? and could he have been looking at something on my body ? if so why

I have never had a bf i worked at a warehouse for a little bit thru an agency with my mom and I started liking this guy. He seemed like a cool nice funny guy and we had only spoken once and I was going to talk to him again but I haven't been able to work thru the agency in a month but my mom has a friend from fb who works there and the only thing I can do is have her friend give the guy my number or fb or both. I feel like that's the only thing I can do but I feel bad because I wanted to talk to him at work and be his friend and get to know him but I prob won't be able to go there anymore. If I do it...when is the right time to do it? Today? next week?hes my type of guy I like I just want to try I feel like a bad person. My mom says it will b fine since he seems like a nice guy.

I have had many of my so called "friends" ask me why I still mope around depressed about my dad who died almost 2 years ago. (Obviously they ask me that nicely but thats not the point) Im still extremely upset about him passing away but nobody seems to understand that except for my close family and like 1 friend. Its makes me so angry thats people would ask me why I still griev over a lost loved one let alone a father. But maybe they're right, maybe I should "try to be happy" so they say. But last time i checked, grief doesnt have an expiration date. But is it wrong to feel so very upset about my dad still? And is it wrong to be angry against the people who ask me those questions?

i hate my dad. he has gotten violent and lost control and he loses his temper often. He has gotten violent towards me my mom and my sister before. My mom and sister are overseas now and I m stuck with him. I am an adult. He just was threatening me and lost his temper over something very small and he acted like he was going to hit me or beat me up. I m a girl and if he gets violent, i can t defend myself. When he loses his temper, i want to call the police or drive to the police department and report him. But if do, i think they will side with my dad. He s a dead beat loser and hasn t been employed for years and he has serious anger issues and doesn t do anything to help the family financially. Since i m still dependent and living at home, if i call the police, i m worried if my dad will kick me out or if the cops will pick his side because he will lie. And my mom s overseas, so what do i do? My dad loses temper over small things like having a messy room or misplacing something. i don't do anything bad, i don't do drugs or go out late or have behavioral issues, and usually I mind my own business. My mom has been telling him to get a job and help out with the family financially and my mom has been supporting him. He used to yell and cuss out my mom and including me and my sister. He loses his temper and gets out of control sometimes. What do i do? @ Bertsta you don't even know me or my situation, don't answer my question if you didn't read the whole thing or know the situation, you stupid troll! I'm not asking about reporting my dad for no reason at all, it's when he gets violent and loses control and hurts people physically. My mom wants to divorce him because he isn't even trying to get a job nor does he care about the family situation. @oh and at Bertsta saying those things about me calling me a 'deadbeat loser' is a reflection of YOURSELF, 'a man needs to feel useful'? Obviously you don't feel useful and most likely aren't, so you're trolling on my question.

So I messed up in our relationship and didn't show my ,now ex, how I truly feel about her. I found out she may be talking to someone else, but she still comes over my house everyday to see me an talk to me and she basically wants me to show her that I want to be with her and show her that I can "try" to keep us together .... How else besides cooking for her and writing her really nice and apologetic letters expressing my love for her should I do ? I'm willing to try anything and I'm not very creative but I love her so much I just can't lose her ... Please help! Thanks in advance !

I absolutely adore my girlfriend's body, and especially her breasts. I know girls often don't like it when you talk about them sexually. Would it be OK if I told my girlfriend I adore her body (especially her breasts). How can I do that in an OK way

During the course of a very long journey I find a bottle that someone discarded. I pick the bottle up and bring it with me. After carrying it for many miles the bottle becomes cumbersome and heavy. Am I required to carry the bottle forever or do I discard it also, thus being no better than the person that discarded it first?

I was at a pool party, I had too much to drink and he carried me upstairs. At this point I was too drunk to walk or speak. Anyway, he took my clothes off and started to have sex with me. I was too drunk to respond but remember him asking me over and over again if i wanted it and saying he needed me to say yes. I couldn't talk but can't remember the end so I can't be 100% certain I didn't say anything but I don't think I passed out? I just feel confused

I am in my early 60's and am not ill that i know of, no health issues that is, and a family member keeps saying things that would say she thinks i am going to drop off my perch any day now, then a distant friend started it too, like when you are dying and this and so on, it is so depressing, should i cut those people out of my life, that are just depressing me ? It is my opinion they are aware it is upsetting me. Thanks for the answer, but i have got used to things all my life and just do not feel like any more.

My ex left me 5 years ago at the time I was just over six months pregnant and a lot went on back then, I feel so disheartened that he has never once tried to contact me about our son. I don t know if writing to him will be a good idea or not my family are totally against it I m just so confused please any advice would help so much.

Say things got bad in your relationship and you took a break, and during that break your SO slept with someone else. Would you want to know?

Hey yall, i recently got married to my husband nearly a year ago. We have been together for 6 years 3 children 5, 4 and 2. Our marriage was never based on love and neither was our relationship, we met got pregnant right away and ever since has been soley based on the kids. About 1 month ago his brother was released from prison and was staying with us. One thing lead to another and me and his brother have started to have feelings for each other. My husband had to move back to another state because of financial reasons, and i am left here with his brother and my children. The plan is for me to move back to be with my husband but I feel so strong and care about his brother. What should I do?