we are going to have the house to ourselves all day and be able to spend the night together because our parents think we are going to friends houses and we are staying at a friends house who is out of town. the friend is cool with it. we are 16. I can drive. we live in suberbs of Cincinnati, Ohio. we are already planning on having sex a few times and going iceskating the next day after the sleep over. what else can we do because she won't give me any ideas and I don't want to waste our time. we already talked about watching Netflix and stuff so please don't recommend that. Thanks!

I constantly feel want to talk to someone and alot of times it ends up with me being stressed out. Its best if i shut everyone out but im having a hard time doing this. how do i do this?

Last semester after a few weeks we moved in he started calling me out for the stupidest stuff like typing too fast, tapping my fingers, using freshener or body spray, doing laundry or entering the room when he's napping, etc. So I told him he also did tons of stuff I didn't like but I just tried to get over it asap because we were roommates and we should try to tolerate each other's lifestyle as much as we can and only call out the really bad stuff. And then he was all surprised he did things that bothered me and demanded that I tell him what was it that he did that bothered me. And I refused at first because I really REALLY don't care that much about it, but then I told him I only used the freshener because his food's smell was too strong but I can take it and I only expect him to also try to tolerate the stuff I do unless it's unreasonable or a deal-breaker. Well months have passed, and today I found him eating in my floor's lobby. He'd been eating there for months. I told him I never knew and never asked him to do that and to go back into the room and eat there and that I really don't care if he does. I've always made it clear that I understand he has the right to eat in the apartment if he wants and I have no problem with it (I don't like it but I respect it.) I apologized and told him that he misunderstood me and I would never ask something like that. But now I'm worried my whole floor hates me. I mean who would do that? And they probably think I did. What can I do? When I say "I don't like it but I respect it" I mean the smell of his food. Obviously I don't mind AT ALL that he eats in the apartment, it's just the smell that's extremely strong, but even that I don't have a problem with. Oh and this is in college, in case it makes a difference.

Hi. This is my first post and I really need some advice. I am an 18 year old high school guy and my friend group (18 year old boys and girls) is planning a July trip up to a cabin outside Montreal, Canada (about 7 1/2 hours from where I live). It is a really nice place on a lake and we have all of the money, transportation, and other details figured out. I really want to go because it will probably be the last "hoorah" before all of us go off to college and go our separate ways. I get good grades in school and I have been accepted to four colleges thus far. All four have given me merit money. I used to smoke weed regularly but my parents are now drug testing me for it. I have been driving with a license for 1 1/2 years and have had no accidents, tickets, or even warnings. I am a responsible kid who is more than ready to go to college and make his own decisions. However, there is a road block in my way. I am an only child and therefore my parents are very protective of me (especially my mom). If I bring up the trip to my parents it will be very hard to convince them to let me go. Also, there is a kid in my friend group who they are not huge fans of because they know he smokes weed and drinks alcohol regularly. I really want to go on this trip but I am so nervous of what I am going to say. If they say no, I would hate to rebel against them and just go but I can do that legally. I really need some advice. Please help me out. Thank you friends.

My friends & I eat table we sit at now is by a group of 8th graders. We've never been as mean to them as they've been to us. They're mad cause we "stole" their table but we have freedom to sit wherever we want and we always leave room for them so it shouldn't be a big deal.They've always been really mean to us. Today we sat down on "their side" but we left enough room for them to sit down. Then we scoot over when the other half was empty so they would have room to sit. We walked away to talk to someone and my bag was on the table. I knew they would do something so I kept a watch from where it was. A kid took my water bottle (which had ice cold water) and passed it to his friend who passed it to his other friend. I walked behind him and he had opened my water bottle ( I don't know if he was going to drink it, dump it, or spit in it) and his friends were like she's behind you so he turned around and closed it. I grabbed it, opened it, and dumped some on him. He got mad and was like " I didn't even do anything" and tried knocking it out of my hand. He tried once and hit me in the boobs and tried again and hit me in the face and his friend was like "calm down" he told on me and I had to say sorry but I never told the teacher that he hit me. Should I tell her tmrw? What us you have done? What would u do tmrw?

My 14 year old , 5 of her friends are going to sleepover and I don't know what they could do please give me a list of activities: Food: and anything else they could do:

I have an ex friend who is very caring but he has a very selfish manipulative, dishonest side to him. He would say things then deny it later on. He will do anything or play mind games without any compassion for your personal feelings just to get what he secretly wants. When you accuse him of being manipulative, he always denies it and blames it on misunderstandings or freshly created lies. He never admits to anything that he does wrong or is ever truly sorry. Hes never responsible for his behavior or words on others and claims to enjoy playing mind tricks on girls but never actually intend to harm them. He says that he feels powerful and confident when he tricks girls.

I had three really good friends in elementary school. One of them called Emma made a new really good friend. Now they sit my three good friends together on the bus because I'm not on that bus and they are. So one of them is going for school points to help in a library (Emma). My other friend Jane told me that she invited most of her friends but she hasn't invited me. I don't want to ask her why, but really? We've hung out many times together. And some of you might say make new friends. How? It's January and I stil haven't made new friends whom I sit with at lunch (I'm in 7th grade). Help what should I tell Emma?

I recently broke up with my girlfriend, however we have a group of mutual friends (how we also met), one in that group is her brother (which may or may not be relevant). I want to keep seeing this group of our mutual friends (they know about me and her), but she doesn't want to keep seeing me, she said it's easier for her that way. I'm not sure am i friends with her either after what she said. She was not seeing them regularly though. She says she doesn't see a problem if i keep hanging out with them but she doesn't want to be part of that group anymore. I think the problem is she won't be seeing them because i would be around, and because of that, they will not want to keep seeing me either because she is their friend. Is it possible for me to keep hanging out with our mutual friends now? If so, what should i do in this situation?

Hello, im 16 years old, good student, A B honor roll, maybe a C once in a while, i take advanced classe, im a good kid over all, i care for people. I love to smoke pot when i can it helps me stay on the ground and not loose it, Recently in the past year ive been studying a lot about psychedelic mushrooms, and i came across a field where i can pick em, now my question is Is it bad i enjoy going into my own little world every here and there i would say about every month or two i would chow down on a couple of caps and just sit around and explore the univers, I feel like this is helping me big time co-operate with people and the world itself, wven though it is looked down upon where i live (big time) i feel like it isnt harming me and since im just 16 i would love to get some advice on you older folks, i would love possitive feedback and no stupid answers like "pot makes you dumb" "stop that youre an idiot" since clearly im not considering the level of inteligence i have being an honor student, Excuse some of my grammar, im hispanic and only been in the states for 3 years. Thank you!!😌

During break at school I was looking at him from a distance at school and he turned around and saw me and I looked away really fast and he caught me doing this like twice and after that he was with his friends and they were looking at me and the guy I like kept passing by me with his friends . It was so embarrassing how do I get over him catching me staring ahh I can't stop thinking about it

I was taking a quiz in math class. We had two minutes to take it. It was memorization. So, very stressful. When the time started, a guy said, "Wow, haha, I don't know this," and I said, "Shut up" fairly loudly. I thought he was being really distracting and ******* annoying. Am I correct? I said it pretty loudly, I was really ******* annoyed. Then at the end of the two minutes, when we had fifteen seconds, he said, "Haha, I'm not going to get this," I again said, "Shut up!"

My best friend has just went through a really hard time. I love her and will always be there for her, but I can't help her if she doesn't tell me what's wrong. I know when the time is right, she will tell me, but I really want to be there for her and look out for her in rough times. She recently had an accident and almost got run over and now seems really shaken up. She is seeing the guidance counsellor at the moment. Please tell me what I have to do to earn her trust.

she is really pretty and she makes me breathless I have also known her for a long time should i ask her out? she has brown hair and wears skirts and she is funny and we are good friends

I have a Wattpad account that I have not told anyone about, where I post personal stuff, such as fanfictions and imagines that I am not interested in anyone else seeing. Once I sent my friend a screenshot of something on Wattpad, and my username was still in the upper right hand corner. She looked up my username and found all my stories, but never told me. I continued posting things that I thought no one that I knew was reading. About six months later, my friend was bragging that she knew my "secret" Wattpad username and brought it up on the computer. **NOTE** We were at school when this happened and the kids around us were also looking at my secret profile. My friend started laughing and told me about how she knew about my account for six months and hasn't told me, and read all my books. When I texted her angrily about it later, she just kept saying "ok" and then didn't reply at all. Was this a violation of privacy? Or am I wrong for accidently sending her a picture of my account?

all of my friends started hanging out without inviting me this summer. one of my other friends also wasn't really getting invited (although she still did more than me) but now that she recently broke up with her boyfriend she's getting invited all the time and she's even acting like best friends with someone else (I've always considered her to be my best friend before but I always hear about her life from other people now) I still have a boyfriend but is that really why I'm not getting invited? how should I talk to my friends about this because it's really hurting my feelings and making me extremely self conscious.

Okay so about a month ago i told my grandma & mom i was going to my best friend jaylas house. I really did go over there but later that night me & jayla went to hangout with her friend hayley & a couple of other people. Well we got drunk & went into the woods, the cops ended up coming saying we were trespassing on private property. It was about 3 in the morning & they called my grandma to come get me & my friend jayla. Im now grounded & have been grounded for about a month & im no longer aloud at jaylas house because my grandma thinks her mom is irresponsible for letting us leave her house to go over to hayleys. Ive been so depressed lately because of this. Ive always had bad depression since i was 13, im now 17. Jayla is my only friend & i mean literally my only friend. Shes still aloud at my house but i hate it because i loved going to her house because i could get away from home even if it was for a couple of hours. I come home from school everyday & dont do anything but sit here & be bored & depressed. The weekends are the worse because i see everyone else having fun i cant do anything. Yes i get i messed up & made a mistake & lied but im a teenager im gonna make mistakes. I know my grandma will never trust me again but ive been really depressed. I cry everyday because i have no one to talk to & im always home. Me & my ex also broke up a month ago & i fell hard for him & he broke my heart so being home just makes me think about that 24/7. I hate this so much.

I'm actually a guy. Apparently, a lot of past friends I've had felt used in my friendships with them, no matter how big or small the friendship was. They are all girls. Is there anything I may be doing, perhaps subtle movements or things that make people feel used? Perhaps someone who has felt subtly used or someone who has been a "user" can help me identify the things I do? I just want to have good friends.

She'll make fun of my appearance (and others appearances, but she usually targets me) but if I comment back, she'll get mad and tell me I'm being a ***** and I'm rude. She'll make fun of the way I walk or run, which I don't understand why- I move like any other healthy person out there. She will insult something I'm wearing and so one time I told her she probably bought her shoes from a secondhand store, she was MAD. Now I do get mad at her. If I'm eating, she'll say "oh my god, you ate that so fast, look at her shove that down!" and laugh. Today I yelled at her "YOU'RE SO ******* ANNOYING, SHUT THE **** UP!" which worked, even though she got mad, but how do I continue dealing with her? How do you deal with someone like her? Our relationship is pretty unhealthy, honestly. She used to be nice and she turned into a huge asshole.

I'm 16, one of my best friends is 18. Basically, this is really ****** up. Her friend, a drug dealer, raped her. She has nightmares. She confides in me a lot and seems like she's having a really hard time, and while she's in a good mood most of the time, but she's definitely having mental issues and I'm sort of her therapist now I guess. Sounds terrible, but I can't hear about it. It makes me too depressed. I was raped last year, and molested when I was 10. They video taped it. But honestly, I think I'm fine now, but I'm reliving it when she talks about it but I can't be like "shut the **** up I can't hear about your problems."

Me and this girl used to text and talk everyday in class we were almost like best friends last year. Now this year were juniors and we barely talk we have one class together who her best friend is in so I feel like that s why we barely talk she asked me last week "why don t you talk to me anymore" and I m like " I do what do you mean" even though I don t but I feel like she s fake because she know she s the one who doesn t try to talk to me were in the same group table with her best friend and I don t talk to anyone in that class besides to her so she never tried to make conversation with me only with her best friend so is extremely awkward that we see each other every week and don t talk. Who s fault is this? I feel like it s hers for not talking with me and only making conversation with her other friend. How can I fix this I do really wish we can talk how we used to

he seems to have turned into a douche. He's CONSTANTLY on his smartphone whenever we meet he's ALWLAYS on the thing. He's not some bigshot executive either where he's doing flash big business deals every few minutes or something he's just got an average job. I was just straight up with him the last time I saw him and said "you know its actually quite rude to keep ignoring people you are with?" but like most of these self-obsorbed idiots he didn't seem to think it was a big deal. Anyway I just left and now he tells other people I know that i'm a jerk blah blah blah but seriously do you think what I did was wrong? I

I have a friend who just started booking music at a local club. I thought oh cool, ya know, friends do favors for each other and I've done plenty for them, so I said how bout booking my band, they said no cuz this joint only does mellow which is such B.S. because we have a whole mellow set and they've heard it, they even suggested some of the numbers. Then they put up some other false obstacles about the sound system, all of which are completely bogus and they HAVE to know that!!! It's like they went out of their way to make the most transparently bogus excuses possible. If they were gonna lie, they could at least come up with something plausible. My God, I own an XLR cable (several, in fact), the fact that the venue doesn't is no reason not to book us!!! If that were valid they couldnt book ANYONE!! BTW My band does not suck. We are all professionals who have been at this for years and we are regionally sought after by people who don't know us. Doesn't bother me that we obviously won't be playing at this particular club any time soon because we get enough gigs, but it bothers me that a "friend" would make such a bogus excuse not to book us. Yeah I put "friend" in quotes. This pretty much hosed the friendship for me. Any way to salvage it? Why would a friend suddenly turn on you when the rubber meets the road?

After I arrived at my guy friend's work, after being on the road for 19 hours, he spots me from across the way and says, "What you doing here" then I jumped up into his arms and said I come to see you handsome. He kissed me on the side of my head and then I said, I'm official single and ready to mingle. He laughed saying, Well I obviously got that from all the texts and calls that you were single now. He gave me the spare key to his apartment and I went over there to wait for him to get done at work. When he got home, we went out to dinner at one of his favorite restaurants, then he said the most sweetest thing ever, "I love you beautiful. I'm glad that you're down here in Florida to see me instead of freezing your beautiful *** off in Michigan." I said, I wanted to come see you, not because I'm single but because I have something that I need to tell you. He coughs a little and says, "What's that" and I said, "I've been in love with you for a while and I don't know anyone else that I care about more than you." He smiled and said, Well that took you forever to tell me that. I just smiled and said, Well I didn't want to leave you as a rebound while I wasn't single." After dinner, he asked me if I wanted to go somewhere special with him. We went to this beautiful nightly lit waterfall and he said, "I always wanted to bring you here if you ever came down here" and I just thought it was beautiful and I turned and said, "Its perfect", then he leaned down and whispered... "I knew you would like it" and kissed me on the top of my forehead. I kissed him under his chin and then put my head on his chest for a big huge hug. After being at the waterfall, we drove back to his condo and walked upstairs. We laid in his bed and he says to me, "You've always been the most beautiful girl I've ever laid my eyes on and now that we're serious friends, I couldn't be in love with you more." I leaned up and kissed him and pulled away then he leaned down and we kissed even deeper.

So I'm nineteen and I recently came home from my first semester at college for winter break. I work in fast food and while I was gone, we hired a bunch of new people. I got to know a couple of them and we ended up getting really close. However, my friends back here at home think it's really weird considering my new pals are still in high school and I'm 1.5-3 years older than them. And I guess an added thing is that they are both guys who very clearly have crushes on me and I'm a girl. I don't flirt back with them or "lead them on" because they're minors and that's gross, but I don't let that stop me from being their friend because they're still genuinely good people and they're a lot of fun to hang out with. Do you guys think it's weird?

Before I ask the question, I need to provide a background. In high school, my friend and I befriended a girl who has mental and physical disabilities. We saw her sitting by herself and invited to sit with us. She became very attach to us. We did not have problems until both of us graduated from high school. We both went away for college and both the girl and her mother expected us to come home to hang out. I politely explained once that i have too much going on at school to come back home. Also, I financially did not have enough money to come home. However, overtime, I think the mother thought I was ignoring her daughter. I was not invited to her the girl's graduation party and she started to make rude comments on my Facebook statuses. The problem is the girl knows now I am home on break and keeps messaging me constantly to hang out with her. I feel, bad but I know if I go over to the girl's house I will have to confront with the mother. What should I do?

I came to school hoping to start new and make new friends, but half the year has gone already and I am still by myself. A few time when I'm invited into a group a person would give me the sidelong glance. I feel like I am in the same place like I am before. It's true that I'm not at home with people and I am a very quiet woman and not easily open. When I do talk it's awkward. But I have always ended up by myself for some reason.

Why is it that I really feel like I don't have friends? I have a serious attitude but not a serious personality. People say I'm intimidating. I had a very good high school reputation (I'm not sure why) since I hardly ever talked to anyone. I feel like everyone enjoys their life, and mine is passing me by. I have one close friend, and people seem to like to talk to me but it always seems that I have to break the tension

i did nothing.absolutley nothing.i feel horrible right now but my friend said she was used to it.Nobody picks on me at my school mainly because im a girl who acts looks and is pretty muscular for a girl,i get respect.These 3 dudes were behind us and kept poking at her and she just asked a teacher if she could move.i couldve done something.

My bf has this "best friend" who has gave him a ******* before, once for his birthday. They knew each other for about 3 years. And this happened last year, before him and I knew each other. But this really bothers me because they are "best friends". And they had a sexual past. So I m uneasy about their friendship. Am I wrong for not liking them talking to each other?

My friend was very mean to me about my disability, so I don't feel comfortable doing things with her and have ended the friendship. I respect my other friends' decision to remain friends with her, but they keep trying to force me back into a friendship with her. They say she wants to reconcile and that I should talk to her, which is bull. If she wanted to reconcile, shouldn't she approach me? She made me feel worthless because of my disability, and I cannot be in the same room as her without feeling judged. How to help tem understand?

So I lived in a small town once upon a time. The type of town that everyone hangs out with one another and says hello to one another and so forth. Well when I lived there, it was different for me. I wouldn't say hi to them, and it was pretty common for me to only go out when people from other places would come and visit me who were my friends. I would refuse to associate with any of the locals and then when I would eventually go out I was always with people who they didn't know and who were not from there. We would go to these local places and we would avoid the regulars by sitting away from them and so forth. I think they got the hint if you know what I mean. So how come they didn't like me all that much? Dont' I have the right to associate with whomever I please?

I see him at one of my favorite hangouts and was my waiter first few times. When he'd approach my table he'd always be looking right at me regardless who else was there. I didn't think nothing of it. Then I noticed how he'd look at me from across the room. Once again I didn't think nothing of it since he was my waiter that day too but he would jus keep staring even if I looked up he wouldn't look away. When I left he looked at me and not the person I was with and said bye while smiling jus at me. Then next time I went there he stared at me the whole time I was walking up to restaurant (he was bartener that night). My friends would notice him staring at me when i wasn't looking. Also, the last time he waited on me, he'd always have a huge smile on his face. By this time I suppose maybe he felt more at ease. lol So it been a few weeks that I hadn't gone , so the last time i was up there he had did a double take when i was at my table (he was in the back when i had gotten seated so guess he was superised). No biggie I'm sure but as he walked past me (he wasn't my waiter this day) we both looked up at the same time and locked eyes for least 5 seconds then I smiled at him and he smiled back then we broke eye contact after lingering for another sec. I think he might have interest but how do I know for sure? I don't want to look dumb if its jus my mind playin tricks. But I want things to progress if he does have a thing for me you know? *SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY* Thank you for reading!

today me and my friend were talking about movies yesterday she gave me advise to watch one movie, today she asked if i liked it but i said i wathced another movie, which was amazing she asked me what it was and when i told her it was kdrama she ironically told me that she wont watch it (even thought i didnt asked her to watch)and we had little argument she is racis!!! i feel bad because i hate racis people i even think to end up our friendship because i dont need ignorant people i feel really really bad because i hate this kind of things. give me advise what can i say when she will be online or what do you think about this should i end up being friend with her?

I am the only woman in an office of 12 people. My boss who is also a good friend is the greatest boss in the world. He gave me a job when no one else would and I just adore him. He is always available to help me when I need help. He is giving me training so I can improve my skills and get a higher wage. He is very generous with raises. All the guys I work with are my friends and I enjoy working with them. They are just great people and I enjoy coming to work each day. I found out my boss called a meeting soon after I was hired of all the guys and told them "We now have a beautiful woman working here and I do not want any problems with sexual harassment". "Anyone that is going to hit on her will be fired immediately". "I know having a beautiful woman working here is new for you guys, but she is a very valuable member of our team and I don't want to loose her". "It is my moral and legal obligation to see that she does not feel the slightest pressure of sexual harassment". I think my boss paying me a compliment. My friends that I told about this told me he was just trying to protect the company from sexual harassment claims. What do you think?

I'm in my last year of high school. During my first two years, I had a close group of eight friends. We always hung out and because there was so many of us, I never wanted to make more friends because they were enough. After more than 2 years of friendship, out of the blue, 4 of them told me they don't like me anymore and that they have never liked me that much, and they told me to stop hanging out with them. Just one of those 8 friends (let's call her Isla) said they were being mean to me and remained my friend. After that, I joined this choir, where I got lots of new friends but none of them are really that close, it's more of friendly aquaintances. We go out and party sometimes but not that often, and to be quite honest, while I like some of these people a lot, I find a few of these people very annoying and I have a feeling they don't like me that much, either. About a year after I was excluded from my "friend" group, another girl (let's call her Rose) who was actually really mean to me at the time was also told to stop hanging out with them because they didn't like her anymore for some stupid reason. Now, she hangs out with me and Isla. I have lots of aquaintances, I don't really have close friends, and I miss that. While I really appreciate that Isla stuck by me, and I really respect her for it, we are a lot different, plus, she is depressed and has mood swings and is unpleasant sometimes. And I can't trust Rose. I'm nice to her but I'm like, forgive but don't forget. Basically, I'm wondering if there's something wrong with me, I obviously can't get or keep very close friends. This makes me even more depressed because I'm 18, and I've never had a boyfriend, and I'm wondering whether that's because I'm just super-unpleasant or something.

I'm a senior that's about to graduate in june which is almost 4 months from now. my freshman & sophomore year were good because I had my two best friends that I went to middle school with & I got to know everyone else that came from the other middle school. then my junior year I my two best friends got closer with this other groups of girls (4 of them), they started sitting with us a lunch & I didn't know them like that so it was kinda weird to me. at first it was all good but then they started excluding me from their plans & ended up making a group message without me. by that time I finally realized that I should desperate myself from them, which I did. now my senior year, I met these two other girls that both came to my school at the same time & it started off well, we did everything together. but then a little over a month ago they got super close & started making plans without me like getting their nails done, going to each other's houses, & now going to the gym together. this one time we were walking to the car during lunch & they just left me behind walking by myself, they didn't even look back or anything & just continued walking & then I decided to finally separate myself from them but one of them tries to talk to me when it's 1on1 but when the other one is around they don't really acknowledge me & now I don't have any real friends at school, like yeah I talk to some people but I'm not close with anyone. what should I do?

I really love my mom, and they told me not to tell her.But I feel the urge to!

Im in literacy and, I know, I should probably listen and all that, but 2 hours is too long. ANyways please help. Things I can't do: -phone -read -anything that sounds remotely fun -,-

Last night my guy friend and I went out for sushi together. We've been really close ever since we met and started becoming friends back in 2013. After going to dinner, we went back to his condo and made some hot coco and sat by the fireplace talking. After talking for awhile, I sat my cup on the coffee table and straddled him, then I began kissing his neck and rubbing his chest on his shirt, then I grabbed end of his shirt and pulled his shirt off. I leaned back to take my shirt off and he grabbed my arms before I could take my top off and he said, Listen I love you a lot, I think you're great, and you definitely turned me on big time, but I really want to wait for the right time. I got off of his lap and sat on the couch, then he could tell something was up and then I just got up and left his house. He texted me "I love you a lot and I find you very attractive, but we're friends." I thought about texting him, but I'm too ashamed of what I did. What should I do? He's a shy guy, but just doing this makes me feel like I threw myself at him and now I'm ashamed of it. I want to text him, "Sorry about last night, I don't know what got into me. I find you attractive to (obviously), but I am also ashamed of the way I acted towards you." But I don't know what I should do or if I should send it to him. But he will act sexual around me sometimes, but hasn't done anything like this with me before. We haven't talked since this incident with one another. He's single, gorgeous, smart, humble, down-to-earth, happy, loving and caring individual. I did ask him if he was ever wanting to date someone, would he be interested in dating me or someone prettier and he said, I would definitely look at getting into a relationship with you first, and I don't look you as ugly because your not. I texted: "Whatcha been up to?" his reply: Nothing much. wbu? I texted: nothing. I wanted to get something off my chest, but I don't want to hurt you his reply: ok. just say it or meet me over at my house I texted: No I don't want to meet you at your house because I'm not going to wait around anymore for you and over the years that we've been friends, you've always looked at me like a little sister, when I know you want something more than just friends. Don't hide it from me, just tell me. his reply: What happened last night was the closest I ever came to wanting you ever. I replied: Well why the hell didn't you do anything about it his reply: because I don't ever want to hurt you. I replied: Are you gay and not wanting me to find out he replied: No. I'm straight. But I don't ever want to hurt you in anything. I replied: Well I feel ashamed for what I did and how I acted with you. I can't get it off my mind and when I want to it comes back. What do I do about it then?

i miss the old times, i have lost everybody, I dont have a partner or friends, i am done

She said she was trying to learn who will gossip about the lie is this right? She basically played with us like toys

I have really strict parents and they wont let me be friends with boys because im 13 and they dont want me to get a boyfriend but i dont even like anybody atm!! like no i dont want to kiss boys i want to play monopoly with them. how do i convince them to let me be friends with boys (maybe even date some if i ever actually like one)

I am m so sad!! me and my mom are from Italy and we recently moved back here from Argentina (6 months ago) without my dad bc they are separated. we just had a pretty long talk on how she felt better back there and how she is bored with her life here in Italy. the thing is i want to stay here!!! i used to be really quiet and shy in argentina and now i feel kind of confident and bubbly. i have loads of friends now and i don't want to move. although the people were definitely nicer there, i didn't feel like i fit in. here its much better, although i know that if i moved back i would probably have as many friends as i do here in italy. should i tell my mom about how i feel? i don't want to as i feel guilty that she's unhappy here because i was the main reason for the move. help!

I supervise nearly 60 third graders in the lunch room by myself, and another nearly 60 fifth graders everyday outside. Second week after winter break and things are getting more hectic and energetic, particularly for third grade. Lunch is 20 min. Most kids are finished at the fifteen minute mark, and to keep the chaos down, prior to winterbreak, I'd allow one or two students to tell a joke five minutes before lunch ended and then we would line up. It was enough to get them quiet without feeling like they were in trouble. They haven't been showing respect during this time, this week meaning no jokes. I'd been letting those who asked and were done then, line up at the fidteen mark and talk on a whisper... I think that's the problem, maybe I should wait till there is two minutes from now on. All I know is line up time is pure chaos. Now, fifth grade isn't a huge problem outside, but I have to get them all in and down stairs alone. Getting them quiet to walk through the halls is easy, but getting them to actually STAY quiet, not so much. They are so spread out and I'm obviously outnumbered.

I wish I had a girl - friends, just like before I had. I miss the joyful times I had with them, I wish I had a childish friends I could laugh with in skype. We met in an art site. I wish so hard to have new internet friends that I could meet later, and always be happy

Im 15 and my best friend is 16 we are friends for like 4 years. Lately he has been behaving diffirent then before. He always asks if he can kiss me and i tought ok friendly kisses but he forces his tongue in my mouth and i tought he will stop but he doesnt. He also asks me if i would like to have sex. Im a virgin and he isnt. He says it wil be fun and i will like it. I asked him if we shouldnt talk about relationships or so and he said we can after sex. I also suggested if he wants to go on a date and he sayd yea we can hang out after we have sex. Do you think he likes me and wants to be more then friends (bf and gf)? I dunno i like him too but i dont want to risk it to be weird and then we break up and out friendship ends :(

So i had dinner with one of my best friends. During dinner he confessed that he was in love with me and it was his dream to walk me down the isle. He's my best friend so id feel horrible disinviting him to the wedding. should i disinvite him?

I went over to hang out with my buddy John at his house. He was not home from school yet so I talked to his mom for a while. She had cooked us both many meals and she was a great cook and had a wonderful personality. It was fun just being around her. I knew John had 2 older sisters so just to make conversation, I asked her if it was easier to raise boys or girls. She said "probably girls as they don't have porno dvds hidden behind their bed like John does". "John doesn't know I know about his porno dvds". "He also doesn't know that I know he watches them while he j---- off." This is far more information than I wanted to know. I felt VERY uncomfortable talking to his mother about sex so I changed the subject. Should I tell John his mother knows what he does with his dvds? Should she have told me stuff like this?

I'm a teenage girl and I'm home sick from school. I'm trying to think of things to do that'll keep me from staring at the ceiling all day, but are not too strenuous, that will make me feel good. It may be weird, but so far I've been doing things like walking around naked and going to the bathroom with the door open. Not crazy stuff, but things you just can't do when other people are home.

She only attends school part time and doesn't have a job yet. She had 2 or 3 interviews but she either didn't call them back or they don't want her. She has no skills. She has no children or any friends. She worked at an arbys from June 2013 to late October 2014. She needs to become something in life. She's too introverted. How can she be forced out?

I work in an office with 12 other women. A employee from another department Mindy was transferred to our department. To say she was beautiful would be an understatement. She was gorgeous. If there ever was a trophy girlfriend/wife she would be it. At first we all did not like her as we thought our boss Bob, a 28 year old single guy would give her all the choice assignments. That didn't happen. He treated her just like the rest of us. No better and no worse. We also started to like her as she was such a nice person. One day we had a staff meeting and Mindy was not there. We asked Bob if he noticed that Mindy was beautiful. He said all my employees were beautiful. WOW, he is good. Someone ask him if he would like to date Mindy. He said he was not allowed to date anyone that worked for him. He said, can you imagine the gossip that would start if I dated someone that worked for me. Another one of us, Linda asked Bob if he would date her if she did not work for him. He said "We have a date the first day you don't work for me". All of us are wondering the same thing. Is it possible for a single guy can resist dating such a beautiful woman? Could they be dating in secret? What do you think about what our boss is saying. Is he a good boss or a bad boss?

Hey, I'm Kevin. My best friend since preschool, Maddie, is a bully magnet. Everyone calls her "Troll-t!ts" saying that she's ugly (which she isn't) and that she has freakishly huge boobs.(Which…okay they're big but so what?) People make fun of her behind her back AND to her face. Guys will stare at her chest and start hitting on her, only to look up and pretend to puke when they see her face. It's sickening. I was always her date to every dance, before she decided she just didn't want to go to them anymore. I'm not her only friend, but sometimes I feel like I'm the only genuine one. I've caught many of her girl-friends spreading nasty stories, calling her an ugly whore. I really don't get why they're so hell bent on making her miserable. She doesn't have acne anything, her skin is flawless…but her physical features are apparently "off center" "Not the right size" according to Amy. Even her breasts are "weirdly shaped." If you ask me, the other girls are just jealous, but whatever. Even if it's that, it still hurts Maddie. She wears sports bras every day but she still gets harassed for being so endowed, or for being a "goblin." Whether she wears makeup or not, she's tried it both ways. What can I do to help! I feel so bad for her and I want to do something to help Maddie, make this stop happening, make her life easier and give her a reason to be happy. Any ideas? Please!

I asked her "Hi Izzy can I talk to you about something anything? I just need someone to talk to now." and she said "sure what's up?" and I said "well I'm autistic and for the past 2 years there's been a lot of noise and noise in my house and it really bothers me a lot. I try not to let it get to me but it's hard. It's my baby niece and nephew I love them so much but the noise they make it's just too much for me. do you know what I mean?" and she said "I understand, my house is pretty quiet but at school I get really bothered and irritated with all the noise when my classmates are loud. Can you go outside or somewhere to get away from the noise?"

I asked her to explain her situation/relationship with my fiance. I wanted to know why does she call him so much. They are on the phone together several times a day and I have never heard of her. She told me that she has known him and been his close friend since they were little kids. I told her that I got engaged to him last month. She told me that he hadn't mentioned this. I told her that I was getting tired of his lies. She said she agreed that a spouse shouldn't be lying to their lover and that she did not understand why I was still talking about getting married to someone that I KNOW lies, can't be trusted and keeps vital things from me.

My high school buddy Jimmy invited me to come to house and hang out. At his house he introduced me to his mom. WOW, she was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen in my life. The fact the she was showing a lot and I mean a LOT of cleavage probably had an influence on my thinking. As she was serving me food for dinner, her boobs were 6 inches away from my face. I got a b0ner and almost come in my pants. I finally got control of my feelings and thought what a pervert I was for thinking of Jimmy's mom as sex object instead of Jimmy's mother. She was a very nice person. After we had talked for a while, I ask her if she had been a model. She said she was a lingerie model until she got pregnant with Jimmy. That was the end of her modeling career. She ask if I would like to see some of her pictures when she was a model. I told her YES. Some of her pictures were her in a VERY skimpy lingerie. I almost got a b0ner again. I am ashamed of myself for the way I reacted by my weenee must have a mind of it's own. Did I have an normal reaction for a teenage guy? It was really embarrassing.

At my workplace there is this guy he is prett ok but has a bit douchy personality and likes to play pranks on people. So yesterday he brought me a coffee and we talked for a min then he left and i drank my coffee and he comes laughing like crazy "how did the coffee taste". So i expected a prank or so and he says "hah i jerked off into your coffee hahhaha" and left and i was just a bit stunned for a sec..... like... isnt that more of disgusting then funny? But i dont want to be mean and make him go to prison for a stupid joke :( maybe i could just ask him to not do it again?

My friend had been staying at my place for almost 2 weeks by now, the reason why is bc her parents kicked her out at 11pm @ midnight with her 2 year old son, my friend just turned 22. And her son is now with her ex husband place, and she had been staying at the hotel for a week, and I let her stay at mine without charging her.. but I feel like she doesnt feel thankful because if I was her the first thing I would do is buy dinner if one of my friend had let me stay at their place. When she came the first night, she had texted me if I wanted to go eat out with her, I said sure and thinking she would pay mine, but no. She asked for seperate checks. She also had been using my expensive makeup without asking and my body lotion which isnt expensive (she could just go buy herself one at target instead of using mine, you know) And I have been taking her out with my car and the gas is high and she pays no gas whats so ever... Im not sure when she is going to live with me...should i give her a week and next week to pay hundred dollars for a week to stay at my house? Because she doesnt turn off her lights at night and is wasting my electricity bills