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I used to work at a warehouse and I dropped off a box where the guy I like was at and he was like that's fine leave it here then when I left my mom had told me he started actin funny and was grinning really big and like excited and when he noticed my mom was looking at him he kinda stopped and I saw him a lot that day and like twice he would b staring at me from far but with no expression. He's really nice to my mom n they talk a little. Hes always smiling seems silly and for some reason I really like that about him cuz I'm kinda similar in that way of how he acts. My mom said he could like me a little cuz he got all flirty/excited. We went to work today to stop by to talk to the manager then see the guy as an excuse to speak to him and ask for his number but he didn't work today.but my mom talked to a friend of hers and asked about the guy I like so now we know his first name but how can I see him? We don't have his last name to find him on fb and i can go to the place again another day to find him but what excuse would we have now to go inside the job since we don't work there anymore? Also my mom doesn't want to go again how can I convince her to go since she's the one that knows him she's the only one who can help me. I would just need to go again once and it would be perfect and I'll be able to have contact with him. I go to an all girls college in a few months I can need see guys and I don't have many friends I just wanna try I really like this guy.

I can t f*cking stand her, I mean she s the most annoying person on the world. She s always talking **** and when I ask her a question, she gives a completely inadequate answer. She wouldn t admit her wrongs and would always deny mean stuff she s side (for example once she told me I don t have friends because I m a mean person and 5 minutes later she denied saying that and told me I always make stuff up just to make myself feel better... I asked her like 10 times why she said that and she responded "You should stop focusing on things people say so much")... But the most annoying thing is that she s constantly sticking her tongue out or licking her lips because she s nervous and that irritates the cr*p out of me... I barely stand people who are doing this (also I can t stand loud chewing which she does too) and she knows it but whenever she starts talking to me she does it all the time and it makes my head hurt. I don t hate her, she s my mom and I love her but what can I do to make my life with her at least bearable? How can I stop noticing her annoying lip licking habit or her irritating behavior?

If the scientists are correct, we will inherit a earth that will be nothing like the way it was when our grandparents were kids. They are now saying that the 6th great extinction of life on earth is now underway. Billions of people will starve to death because the major grain producing regions will be too hot to grow food. They say that the Methane gas in the Arctic Permafrost and the Methane Clathrates in the water will be enough to kill us all 7 times over when they are released into the air. What do you think ?

Every time my roommate goes to the store, he calls me afterwards to ask me to come downstairs and help bring up his groceries. The problem is, I often take naps in the afternoon and he tends to wake me up doing this. And I already have a chronic lack of sleep, since I'm in college. I want to tell him I don't really want to bring up his groceries, but he seems to think I owe him everything. One time he threw a huge screaming fit because I didn't want to buy him beer, as he's under 21.

Okay, so i'm a 24 y.old female and have never been in a relationship.. No normal decent-looking guy at my own age was ever interested in me. I only get 50-70 y.old guys hitting on me (but they would hit on any woman so this isn't an accomplishment) and obese guys. Seriously i'm not looking for a supermodel or have high standards. Just looking for a normal guy at my age, polite, educated with normal weight. I am well-educated, polite,kind but also a bit shy and introverted but overall i think i'm a nice person so i don't know what the problem is. I''ve been trying to find out whether i'm ugly by posting pics and asking on reddit, asking friends of mine but i never found the answer. Some people say i'm ugly, others that i'm average with potential, others a bit over average and others pretty but i must be ugly if guys don't look me. I even tried to create a profile on a dating site (a bad one, i don't want to mention its name) but got no likes there... I see 15 or 16 y.old kids with boyfriends so what's the problem with me? Is it the way I speak? Do you guess sth like that from my question? People have been telling me, one day you'll meet that one person for you but i'm old now and ''prince charming" never came Maybe i should just accept my fate and date an old guy even if he's 60 or 80? There is a 63 y.old who recently asked me out

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months and we are both 17 yo. Whenever I am with my boyfriend at his house, his mom tends to butt in and give him kisses in front of me, pinch his *** or just kinda cuddle with him. Paul (my bf) gets really angry at her and tells her to stop and pushes her away. Then his mom kinda looks at me and then says to him, "You don't love mom". She also tries to come along on our dates with the rest of the family, I am totally okay w that but Paul isn't. She's a great person but I wish she would just give us some space and stop doing lovey things in front of me w him. It is definitely cringe-worthy for both of us. Thanks! <3 :)

ok i know a 25 year old man buying beer shouldn't be a big deal but my boyfriend got a DUI in 2014 he crashed his car while drunk and ending up losing his car and license(which he lied about for a year he didnt tell me about his DUI till last month and just told me he simply lost control of the car) anyway one time i was over his place and he was drinking and i didnt wanna have sex with his drunk *** and i turned down sex and he called me a ugly a$$ h0e and told me to get out of his apartment since i didnt wanna f**k him then last month he got so drunk he called me a Igorant n!gg*r he's a white man and I'm a black woman and since that incident we've been on break and he's been claiming he'll completely stop drinking if he could have me back in his life but last night he broke his promise he told me he bought a 6 pack of beer and didnt even seem sorry about it saying "6 BEERS WONT DO NOTHING TO ME BABE STOP CRYING ABOUT IT DAMN' I'm now so fed up with being with a drunk douchebag not only is he a drunk but he's a bullish!tt!er ITS TIME TO DUMP HIM RIGHT? last year when i asked him what happened to his car and license he told me he lost control but he didnt actually tell me he got a DUI till a year into a the relationship ISNT THAT F**KED UP ???SMH

I'm selling my albums on CD baby and I still haven't seen 1 sale it's been like a year now. Keep in mind I've never played my music live. Also on youtube I only get like 40 views per video on my song videos. But at the same time cracked mentioned the title of one of my songs in their article and the title is a made up word (Doomentor). Also people say stuff like "you're god" when I'm out in public and also I've heard the names of my songs mentioned twice in public so is CD baby scamming me and lying about how many sales I'm getting? And one time I got 3 grand deposited into my bank account somehow, did I earn money?

I know my mom doesn't control the weather or anything, but it feels like whenever I want to go out something always happens. It feels like I'm always on someone else's schedule. For example my mom gets sick, she says she doesn't feel like driving me, she's tired, she doesn't want to drive in the snow, etc. I understand that sometimes she does it for my safety, for instance not driving in the snow, but it still upsets me. Whenever she drives me places she complains too. Like I love my mom, but I feel she doesn't understand either. Whenever my sister wants to go out, everyone jumps to it, but everyone always beats around the bush with me. I'm only 14 so I can't drive at all and no other family lives in state with us. I talked to her about it today, and she said she pushes me to go out on sunny days and what not, but she doesn't understand I have to be in a good mood to go out because I have really bad depression and Im quite moody. Help! Is there anything I can do??

I'm 21. I was having sex, and this was the first time that I had REALLY intense sex, lasting more than two hours. My boyfriend likes to go really fast and hard. However in almost every position that we tried that I could really feel him in me, when he started going a lot faster I started having problems breathing (which I know is understandable with having intense sex) but then my chest would start to hurt and it would feel like I needed to burp, and one time it got so intense that I started to cry and feel nauseous. Only once when he started his really fast pumping did I only feel the problems breathing and not the needing to burp, and then it started to feel like I needed to pee, which I understand means that I am very close to orgasm. Indeed I came, more than once, and it felt extremely good. I don't know how to deal with this or what it is or what to do. I kept having to tell him to pause while I got my chest and breathing under control, which was a major buzz kill. Please help with any info that you may have

Okay, so i'm a 24 y.old female and have never been in a relationship.. No normal decent-looking guy at my own age was ever interested in me. I only get 50-70 y.old guys hitting on me (but they would hit on any woman so this isn't an accomplishment) and obese guys. I am well-educated, polite,kind but also a bit shy and introverted but overall i think i'm a nice person so i don't know what the problem is. I''ve been trying to find out whether i'm ugly by posting pics and asking on reddit, asking friends of mine but i never found the answer. Some people say i'm ugly, others that i'm average with potential, others a bit over average and others pretty but i must be ugly if guys don't look me. I even tried to create a profile on a dating site (a bad one, i don't want to mention its name) but got no likes there... I see 15 or 16 y.old kids with boyfriends so what's the problem with me? Is it the way I speak? Do you guess sth like that from my question? People have been telling me, one day you'll meet that one person for you but i'm old now and ''prince charming" never came Maybe i should just accept my fate and date an old guy even if he's 80? yahoo answers doesn't allow to rate pics of people

I used to work at a warehouse and I dropped off a box where the guy I like was at and he was like that's fine leave it here then when I left my mom had told me he started actin funny and was grinning really big and like excited and when he noticed my mom was looking at him he kinda stopped and I saw him a lot that day and like twice he would b staring at me from far but with no expression does that mean anything or not?hes really nice to my mom n they talk a little. Hes always smiling seems silly and for some reason I really like that about him cuz I'm kinda similar in that way of how he acts. My mom said he could like me a little cuz he got all flirty/excited but idk

Ok so i dont want to be mean but idk what to do so im asking u guys So about two months ago my aunt cane here and when i went to the bathroom i saw her used tampon it was in toilet paper but it opened it was so disguating skrry for that and when i went to the bathroom again she was before me in and still this tampon was there so gross it wasin bin but opened im so diagusted she is here right now but i cant stand her help me guys!! :(

seems very passive-aggressive towards me.she will always talk bad about me behind my back but never to my face.Like if i do something wrong she will announce it to everyone. Also, She will go on and on about my other coworker and how great of a job she did like she wants me to hear it. It just really hurts my feelings. is there something i should do about this?

So, today I took 3 pictures on snapchat today talking about my ex and her friend (Never said their names) about how I slept with both of them (Not in the same timeframe) I was at work and did have my ID, not sure how clear it was, my ex claims it was clear but idk I deleted the posts. She said she would complain to my company about it. There are 3 problems I see causing issues, 1. I was driving a company vehicle while using my personal cell-phone 2. It was on company time and 3. It didnt mention names, but I did say my ex. Should I be concerned? I am on time to work everyday (Have never been late) I do very efficient work (Top tech in all of Houston) and I can have a ton of people vouch for me. Im concerned as this could cost me my job, I have never been in trouble at my job before and dont want to lose this job. I know it was stupid and I shouldnt have done it. If they do find out about it, what should I say and do?

I a job I used to work at with my mom. He would talk to my mom a little but only talked to me once so we don't know each other but I really wanted to be friends with him and talk to him more. However me and my mom are going to the job to talk to someone Tommorrow and we can try to make that as an excuse to talk to him real quick and get his number or fb so then In the future we can talk that way since I wont be working there anymore. Is that bad? I don't have many friends and all I want to do is talk to him.i start at an all girls college In a few months so there's no way of seeing guys but He genuinely seems like a nice funny cool guy n I just want to get to know him. I just wanna try.

LET ME CLARIFY FOR THOSE WHO BELIEVE IM A CHEATER,KMSL. FIRST OFF I BEEN MARRIED SINCE 07 AND BEEN KNOWIN MY HUBBY SINCE 95,OK. HE THE CHEATER, HE HAS A 13 MONTH OLD AND DIDNT *** FROM ME,U FEEL ME. I HAVE THREE STEP CHILDREN,13M,14,15. HE CAME WITH TWO NT THREE. BT EVEN THO HE A CONFUSED ON HOW TO BE A HUBBY, I LOVE HIM JUST THE SAME AS I MET HIM IN 95. HE JUST HURT ME AND I WAS IN THE WRONG PLACE AT THE WRONG TIME. LETS JUST SAY THE OTHER GUY IS IN PRISON SO IM NO CHEATER,PEOPLE

I'm 18. used to have a good friend that I stopped hanging out with because of his personality and the way he acted. People often ask me "why aren't you two friends anymore?" And I can never quite put it to words. I just say "because our personalities don't go together". About him. He is popular. So am I. He has the attitude that he is better than people and shows it. He cares about who he's seen talking to (only talks to other popular kids). He has an aggressive personality. For example he is very pushy with his preferences. He also has the " one-up" mentality. We used to smoke and drink together and he always acted like he could out smoke/drink any of me or my friends. He worries too much about hooking up with girls. He's the flexing while snapchatting girls type. Literally saw him do it often. He's never been mean to me but I've seen him be mean to other people. I'm really focused on bettering myself now and setting up a good future and it seems like all he wants to do is party every chance he gets. And he tries making me feel bad or like I'm missing out whenever I don't go to them. We used to party a lot but now I'm just not into it. Idk that's what comes to mind when I think of him. It bothers me that I can't come up with words to describe him when I think about why we aren't friends. I don't wanna say "because he's a dick" because he isn't a dick to me and I feel like its more than that.

We don't ever have paper towels at our house because my husband says it goes to fast. He also doesn't buy orange juice because it goes to fast. however, what can you expect with 3 boys in the house. We are a family of five. Orange juice is not going to last for a long time. I would prefer them to drink orange juice instead of sodas but my husband buys sodas religiously. I feel as though he's buying soda every other day. I beg him to stop getting sodas but he still buys it because he said it's only a dollar at dollar tree. These were his words " orange juice is four dollars, a soda is one dollar. I can't afford to keep buying orange juice". he makes quite a bit of money but he wants to eat fast food everyday. It's definitely strange that he's cheap with everything except eating fast food everyday. We don't have groceries in our house except for breakfast type food. And sometimes we don't even have that. He said he might have to stop buying eggs because our 15 year old son will eat 4 eggs in one day. My husband said that everyone needs to limit themselves to only two eggs a day. He said " if y'all eat more than two eggs a day and we run out then that's ok y'all because I'm not buying eggs again until next week". I will make a list of things for him to get at the grocery store that I can cook for myself and the kids and my husband will angry and said that it's too much money for the ingredients. For example, if I'm cooking chicken or steak, he will get the chicken but not get the ingredients i need for the chicken or the vegetables to cook with it because he said its too expensive. I told him the ingredients should last for a while once i stock them up because right now we don't even have the basics. I have a job but it hardly pays a liveable wage. Think of the time of job a teenager would have that needs some pocket change. I've been working here twenty years and it's only getting worse My sister is wealthy, she took me to do groceries a couple of days ago. I came home with about 5 bags of groceries and my husband had this irritated look on his face when i came back home. He said " how did you get all those groceries. you only had "xxx" amount of money. Then He told me that he hoped no one bought it for me

Would you be upset if your girlfriend didn't tell you she was raped? How can something like this be told to a guy without him overreacting? Do you think he'd be mad for not being told for so long?

There was this one time years ago, I was probably either 10/11 years old and my older sister Jasmine and I were arguing about something with the computer in our computer room. We were at each other's throats and arguing. Then Jasmine went into the guest room and I followed her there. While she was sitting listening to get iPod, I kept talking sh*t to get face. Then when I got everything off my chest, I got up and walked away and then out if nowhere, Jasmine punched me on the back of my head. Then we started scrapping like crazy in the kitchen. I forgot what happened after that, but I do remember she wanted to permanently make us enemies, but I wanted to make up. We eventually did and I started crying. We both got cut on our finger and went to the bathroom to heal our wounds. So was this counted as a sister fight/sister brawl??

My husband and me have had a lot of problems for awhile now. One issue is he thinks he is superior and I am not putting up with that. He just told me to ask any man if in a marriage, if the wife has a concern about something she can voice her opinion but in the end he has the final say. So who he really thinks that is how marriage works bc this one is heading for divorce.

Hi, I havent been feeling the best since 2014. I dont know what happened i just broke down i guess. When i was a kid i was physically and emotionally abused by my mother from kindergarten to 6 grade and it never dawned on me till 2014. It was something i always looked past but in 2014 i couldn't stop thinking about it and i just broke down crying from then till this very day. My whole personality changed and whenever i get into relationships or make friends the minute there's a problem i cant help but to leave people then regret it later. It caused me to lose my childhood friend that i really miss. Its like i can fake being happy but when im alone i breakdown. It feels like i can't think straight or comprehend my thoughts. I use to be open and expressive but when i was around my mom i always stayed quiet and it just stuck with me and im not as expressive anymore. I feel like the world around me isn't real it feels weird and dream like. I also lost most enjoyment for things i used to like. Such as drawing and writing poetry. I have ideas but when it comes down to it i cant put my thought completely on the paper. Im just confused right now. I know this is long but if you read it thank you.

Married for 6 years. He has always been very rude to me.When my first child ws 2 yrs I joined to job.Sometimes he is ok with me working and sometimes not.for last 5 yrs I dont have peace of mind .keeps picking fight. Blames evrything on me and my job. Gives me silent treatment and belittles/ demeans me often.I cannot have opinion on anything.it upsets him. He acts very normal/extra nice in front of others.My mil also creates issues to me. Now my husband is asking to quit job and to have second child. He says it will complete family. I understand that, but with his history I am not able cope up. Hs is not understanding.its always his way or high way. He always gives me some hopes and gets wht he wants and again acts the same way. Pleasd give me suggestions what I can do here.I am also worried to leave because of my son..

I'm getting mixed signals. . Is it just friend ship? recently he started liking all my posts and commenting on them about smoking and I hit him up and since we found out were both stoners so he asked to hang out and catch up. When we hung out he was very talkative and I noticed he was mimicking my body language and commented on how mature I've gotten. On the way back to his house he reluctantly asked to hang out again the next day he seemed shy about it. So ever since then he's been messaging me on Facebook everyday and liking most of my posts. He'll start a convo and even said he'd front me some green even got upset when I was gonna get it from someone else but then decided to charge me? We haven't hung out yet I picked up a g off him that's it but I've been trying to everyday cuz he keeps asking plus I gotta pay him back and it seems he never wants to hang anymore unless it's in my car and I'm alone he didn't like my house nd we hung out with another guy friend that was with me the first time we hung out that's what I'm thinking. He likes teasing me sometimes lol but I can't tell if he just wants friendship or more. Or if he just wants one thing everyday he's def been trying to see me since we hung out and just hang out and smoke together he'll text me first and ask what I'm doin

Several months ago my husband and I both made the commitment to eating better and exercising and losing weight. Since then, his weight has slid off and he's lost a lot and looks like a different person. I, on the other hand, have only lost 20 pounds. Now, I want to be very clear that I am VERY proud of my husband and so happy for him. He's remained dedicated and committed and it shows! I have only managed to lose 20 pounds, and have "fell off the wagon" a lot as far as eating healthy. Plus, he's committed to getting up at 4:30 each morning to exercise, and I have had a hard time getting up so early to go. I know this is nobody's fault but my own, and I just need to work on doing better, but i'm feeling really inadequate and down on myself about not being able to stay committed. Not to mention, i'm feeling insecure that he looks so great and I look not so great. Again, I am VERY proud of my husband, and I do not mention this to him because I want him to know that I am proud of him and want to continue to encourage him...I know this is all my problem and not his. Has anyone else felt this way after their spouse either lost a lot of weight or made some other huge change and it left you feeling somewhat inadequate and bad about yourself because you didn't have the ability to do the same? How did/do you handle it?

So, my boyfriend, whom I love very much, wants me to go to his WGI performance on Sunday. I asked my mom last weekend and she said "We ll see." because it s two hours away. But, he thinks I don t care about this stuff when, I do. I care a lot about anything that he enjoys or anything that makes him happy. I really want to go because I know that he really wants me to but, my mom has to say yes. Can I pray for her to say yes? Is it wrong?

What should i do about this? I'm 17, and right now everyone is treating me badly but expecting me to treat them really nicely. Also i am caught in between every one of my family's problems! My sister is spoiled and when she doesn't want to do something she asks me to do it and i do it, but when i ask her to do something for me she always tells my mom and my mom gets mad at me and tells me to do it myself. BTW SHE IS 19! & she doesn't work or anything, just stays at home. My mom is constantly hitting me, calling me names, and overall just ignoring me and paying attention to my sister. I rarely ask her for anything, but when i do she gets mad at me and tells me that I'm always wasting her money, but yet when my sister wants something she gets it for her and buys her everything. Also i help clean around the house and i've tried looking for a job, i always do what she asks and she always treats me like ****, and tells me I'm the lazy one that never does anything. Another problem is my dad, he cheated on my mom and I'm stuck between them. My mom is constantly nagging me and telling me crap because i still talk to him. She has gone as far as saying he's my bf, and that i do inappropriate things with him. And my sister just asks him for money and i'm still the one who has to be in-between this also, yet even then i still get yelled at for messaging him. I'm starting to feel really sad, because no one is taking into consideration what i do for them... Am i exaggerating? My life with my friends is the same also! :( I am constantly ignored and treated like **** but i can't ignore them because "I'm a bad friend"? They always make me feel like the third wheel and i never do that to them. I don't know what to do anymore

im a Junior in high school and i have 23 credits and i only need three more to graduate school (26 needed) Here is the thing at my high school most of the people there slack off and dont really care about there grades and stuff like that they just go to school to either skip or jack around. Me on the other hand im serious about my school work and life after school since most people at my school (not all) but most dont really care about there life after high school i got lucky enough to be enter in many scholar ship programs i won 3 scholar ships so far and still waiting for more info on the others the scholar ships were in my favorite subject psychology Getting to the main point is that after high school i wont to lead a successful life and not turn out like the rest of my family the only accomplishments they done were becoming the better drunk and thats about it not really much to say about my family but that there your typical cliche s-h-i-t-t-y F-U-C-KED family and that the only person i can really count on is my mom and set examples for my baby sister

I have t write an essay on my beliefs and I have thought of three topics. help me choose a topic and why? my topics are: Animal rights Anti-abortion Marriage equality *please do not tell me my beliefs are wrong, they are MY beliefs, not yours.*

I don't normally ask for relationship advice so this feels extremely weird to me.... but to put it all bluntly, my husband has stated many times that he loves me very dearly but that he's just not happy with me. We are two very different people - the biggest difference being that I'm a homebody that finds enjoyment in being around my immediate family members, and he is an outdoorsy/hang-out-with-his friends kind of guy. I want more time with him, he wants more time away from me and the family/house. I really love him and I try very hard to be good to him and I think we could really have something amazing together if we just tried, but I don't think he wants to. He just wants to live his easy, carefree life with his friends. I do believe that he loves me, because he's pretty good to me in every other way, but I feel so rejected simply because I know he's so unhappy being with me. Should I try to suck it up and try harder to be "that" woman that he needs and keep my mouth shut about my own wants? Or should I honestly just leave so that he can live his life without worrying about me? I want him to be happy but I don't want to end up an emotional wreck trying to make him that way. But I feel like I'm going to be crushed either way... I really do feel torn... In response to one of the answers, I kind of did mention kids - I said "me and the family/house." In actuality, I am due with our 4th (we lost our 3rd, however) in just 3 weeks. & I never said anything about the in-laws or wanting to spend every waking minute with him. I'm kind of insulted by the accusation to be completely honest. I am happy that he can find his happiness in being out... what hurts is that I am never the one he chooses to be with. It's always something or someone else. Wow, I really do appreciate so much support in this and some of the great answers. They've given me some food for thought.... I've read lots of other questions on this site and most are filled with the most outrageous, insulting answers. Thanks for the kindness - it goes a long way. Even in cyberspace!

I don't mean to sound so pitiful but i wonder why is it that some people have all the luck then others. At times i was told that everyone has their bad moments but it's hard for me to believe that because i know I'm not evil but i'm not perfect either I'm aware of karma and believe that what you do gets back to you well I'm aloner and dont hardly have any friends because i dont want any much drama and any support from any family members because they want to control me and think im weak so i stood away also I'm been trying so hard to stay positive and believe that some good is going to happen well i haven't hardly gotten any luck yet i fasted pray and kept on with my faith and all my situation had gotten worse i haven't move yet,my older 14 year daughter is slow and she's not doing well my husband was rejected to get his residents green card and i have to deal with my step daughter who tries to control my home and family.i was fasting praying for something i really needed and i was rejected for it but yet i could also get problems to bare with but yet my second cousin has it all she's married to a computer engineer he bought her a beautiful huge home he takes her traveling he pleases her in every way and her 3kids has it all why is it that her life is that way and mine's is all crap i didn't ask for the life I'm living in now!