So I recently started working at this place along with 4 other people who started at the same time as me. One of them got the manager position because he s the oldest and this is his first managing job (my boss needed a manager). So I guess he s still inexperience and stuff. I m a high schooler so of course I m more inexperienced but at least if I were a manager I wouldn t be a douche like him. He barely reply back to me when I text him- which I don t really care but in crucial moments I would ask him where the stuff are because people always misplace them. Once, I try to search for this stuff for hours at work and I called and texted him but he only replied once said "it s there" but it s not?!? And than later he said that it s not there and he realized who has it. Wtf? I m pretty sure he forgot and took it with him. Anyways, I let that go but today I came to work but no one is there. I called him and he said that the water is broken and we re not working. I told him did he told the person who suppose to work with me today and he said he told her. But what about me?!? I feel like he s super unbiased toward me. I literally wasted my time drove all the way to work. He even have the nerve to tell me that he didn t know I was scheduled BUT HE WAS THE ONE WHO SCHEDULED ME HIMSELF???? And he just told me to stop acting superior to him. I sent him a long a** paragraph saying that I respect him so much but I feel so disrespected toward to. He's very immature mentally. I just wanted an apology but he didn't give me any. I also forgot to mention that he even has another nerve to tell me to walk around lose weight if I got to work?? Like what the heck. I'm pretty skinny so that makes him childish. He's pretty big, so I don't know why he's treating me like this. I'm really nice to people around me INCLUDING HIM. He always try to act like its never his fault. But at least say sorry if he'll be a half a** manager?! Im not trying to go to work everyday knowing that I'm not working because stuff happened, and NOT TELLING ME. And I'm not going to quit yet because that means I'll give in to him. THANK YOU PLS GIVE ME SOME GREAT ADVICE. @TheGoatNose I'm actually close with my boss FYI.. It's not those chain restaurants where the boss is hard to get to. And no how can I be professional when he can't even be one bit profess with me?! @Dave This is not an English class therefore why do I need to write a properly written story? I'm asking for advice, not a feedback on my grammar? Your life must be great if all you care about is grammar!! And English is not my first language.

God is Good. God is Great. And my parents are trying to take that away from me. My grandma understands but what's her opinion to those of my parents'? It's a disaster. I love God and I can't believe my parents would do this to me. Any suggestions for me to stand up for what's right? Thanks peeps.

okay so long story short. there is this guy I met me he first approached me. I was working out and he was next to me. he started laughing because I guess i was doing the work out wrong. He introduced himself, I did the same and left. After that he'd say hi when he'd see me. then one time he offered to help me work out , mind you he had finished his work out. Another time I was playing racket ball, he played with me. he had to go all the way to his car to get his own because the gym ran out. He asks me questions regarding my personal life. he also mentioned hiking and if i'd like to go with him. only issue is he never asked for my number. I used hiking as an excuse and told him to save my number. this was thursday he never texted me. I saw him again yesterday, i was on vacation this weekend and he knew about it so he asked how it was. I kept it short and I mentioned that I think i forgot to give him my area code when I gave him my number. he was like oh I'll check I haven't tried to reach out because I didn't want to bother you on vacation. I am back now so is that an excuse I am so confused . what do you think? he's 30 .. anyone that goes to the gym knows meaningless conversations don't usually happen because everyone is busy doing their own thing. Also he's the headphone type that does his own thing and doesn't pay much attention. So I am very confused on why he can't text me at least so I have his number. OH and he always mentions how cute I am and smiles non stop also while asking about my vacation, he was like Oh a lot of guys hit on you huh? and I was like no I was with family he's like yeah true. he always says this like that so confusing. why isn't he texting me -________________-

My ex and I were texting last night. We have been split up for almost 2 months. We basically laughed about a lot of things that we had done while we were together. All were good things, I was getting ready to go to sleep so I said. Have a good night, I miss you. He texted back. Sweet dreams I miss you too. I really do miss him and hope we work things out. I see so much more potential in him then he does himself. We split because he lost his job and he said he doesn't know what he wants and I do. Does he really miss me or was he saying that to make me feel better?

i added him on SC but he hasnt added me back yet its still pending. We arent that close, the last time we talked was the last day of school so he could sign my yearbook, he wrote "Have a amazing summer - name". Should i msg him or will that be obvious? I got his SC through his friend this really pretty and popular girl. Anyways, so what should i msg him if i should at all? Should i wait till he adds me, or has 3 days been enough? He has been told by backstabbing friends that i like him months ago so he mustve forgotten. I asked him if he hated me a month ago and he said no and that he never said that.

Martial Arts : What is controlled sparring????

So his birthday is almost coming up and I thought it would be cool for me to place his 3 gifts and he would go about his day (as any other work day) but also searching for the gifts. Except now I m stuck trying to figure out some clues for him to be able to look for the gifts. Can anyone please help! I m placing the first gift in his trunk and leave a note beside the bed so when he wakes up and leaves to work he would follow whatever the note states and obviously find it in the trunk. The second gift would be placed at work in his office in a drawer and I would also need to give him a clue for that but I don t know what!?😞 The last and main gift would be at home in our room. Does anyone have any ideas??

My fiance and I have been together for 4 years and out of the 4 years he s only seen his son a handful of times. He pays child support but the babymama and her family are bitter and only let him see him when they are in need of something. We now have 3 boys together and I want them to know their brother. My boys are 2yr 9 months,1 yr 7 months, and 7 months. So how can I approach her or write her to see if she would be willing to get together her and me with our boys so they can get to know one another?

Does anybody know a another body switching spell, Please help I'm nit kidding I need help! if not I can always touch mine/his body like never before but I like it when he's feisty help! I'M BEING SEROUS SO GET OFF IF YOU'RE GOING TO BE A TROLL IF I FIND AT YOU I'M USING MY MINDY POWERS TO FND AT YOU!!!

So I've recently married my husband and best friend, whom I love. Together we are happy, and the only emotional stressors I feel as a result of our marriage is the family I have married into. More specifically, his female cousin who is slightly younger than me but seemingly years behind me in maturity level (more on that later). She is clingy towards my husband, and had admitted to me that she would marry him if they weren't cousins. In that way, she decided to become my friend to both become closer to my husband and be competitive towards me. I realized this after we became close and I trusted her with personal information about myself. For instance, when we became friends she would ask my personal questions about my thoughts and feelings, including questions about the depression...and later told everything to my in-laws. This damaged my relationship with my mother-in-law and was when I stopped seeking this girl out. Recently, she announced her engagement to her now-fiancé two weeks before my wedding reception (we are having a late one thing weekend) and announced an engagement party two weeks after my reception, at a similar venue, with a garden theme...a theme she knew I was having well in advance. For whatever reason, she wants me there. I realize it's cowardly and make excuses, and I don't want to stoop myself down to her level. At the same time, I don't want to cause drama that would inevitably unfold with my true feelings about her. What should I do?

I m also having fantasies about her. She s 10. When I last saw her, she was sexually active. Is this normal?

I'm a black woman and I don't care if you believe that I'm not. But I absolutely hate black men with a passion. I think most of them are uncivilized, animalistic, ghetto, ugly and annoying as hell. Throughout my life, black men have made my life a living hell. They have done nothing but harass and terrorize me. I was even harassed by them in business suits. Whether I'm dressed modestly or immodestly I get harassed by them. Who the hell give you animals the right to harass random women on the street. Who the hell give you the right to make my life a living hell? Who the hell give you the right to instill fear in women and make us uncomfortable or feel unsafe? You're the race of men who's always bitching and complaining about being harassed by the police so you shouldn't harass other people. WHAT IS YOUR DAMN PROBLEM? Anonn... stupid I don't have any children... If I had a son, they would be nothing like the stereotypical black man...

I really see no point in marriage other than to cheat on my mate. I enjoy and get satisfaction from it. I love men who like to mess with married women. they see a ring and it totally turns them on. are there any men on here who would be willing to do that for me

my father who i was trying to help move into a retirement home or live independently with help as he was 81 yo with a heart condition my other sisters and brothers were pretending to help him they are very greedy selfish people who didnt truly love my father in his will only his ex girlfriend inherits mostly everything and i inherit his checking account but he was trying to change his will so i could inherit more because i dont have much money anyways my other sisters and brothers were very resentful and bitter of my father sending me money to help me every month it wasnt much but they were very jealous so all the kids are inheriting a house sharing the rent which is only a few hundred dollars they want more. they hire this property manager acting like they are helping my father and he gets sued. they are getting him sued hes under all this stress and he has a heart condition he has had a heart attack and he doesnt need any stress. so because of all these harrassing calls from my sister and this property manager he has a heart attack at work. my sister tells them pretty much to botch his heart surgery she tells them give him stents when his drs advice like years ago and they actually listen to her and give him stents. hes still alive in recovery they take him off life support. then they act like they get all things his money apartments everything but his ex girlfriend wants it. im not sure what to do should i report this to someone and have this investigated. thanks

So... It s prom night next week, and it s far away from my house, my mum knows it ll finish at midnight and that there are partys I could go to. She usually let s me go to partys and everything. But I ve been thinking for the last few weeks that I could sleep at my boyfriend s house, my mum knows I ve go a boyfriend and we ve been going out for 11months, I m really happy with him but I know my mum will say no if I tell her I want to sleep at his house, what would the problem be? I don t get it, she knows we already has sexual intercourse, so if her problem is me having sex with him, no point, Because it can happen at any time, and we don t need night time to do it, she knows! I wouldn t be mad at her if she said no, but I really wanna wake up next to him, I m 17 in two months, he s 17 already... What do I do?

Basicaly i need help at home etc and cant find someone to marry. Choices are limited to single moms with kids or divorcees ( both are a very bad "choice" ). So my solution is to find a domestic helper with benefits. How and where to find them ? ( Benefits = sex )

My manager and I weren't geting along when I started working at his fast food place. So he said that he wanted to have "bonding" time with me to get to know each other better. So the next day we worked together, he had gotten a huge belt for us to share and an apron to share. But not only that he had taken his shirt off and had shared my shirt instead. He said he was told to do this, by the person who owned the place, for a whole month. Is this a weird bonding exercise, or does it make sense?

My Birthday is in a week and idk why but I feel sad about it. I haven't gotten any plans at all and this is my 3rd year of feeling sad but I feel like it's much worse. And lost. What can I do? Why am I feeling like this?

So I met a Gambian guy 3 months ago. He is a nice guy and claims to love me.. which I think he does... but I see som e things that make me worry... he is pressuring me to go to work + make me help with papers and go speak for him... so when thing go wrong he tells me what solution can we do? plus when we go out I pay a lot... should I be concerned?

We had been texting back & forth for a while. I intiated by saying how amazing she was & I was there for her if she needed me. She responded pretty much saying what I said but adding I was sweet, smart, chill & fun to be around. I said thanks ur a special person, no response so I send a screenshot of an email from my work she got excited & said it was a great idea. I explained the situation & asked how her summer was going she said good but cold & asked how things were where I'm at. I got deep & was like I need somebody I can be honest with, people are moving on in life & im where I was last year. I admire you for being such a genuine person. Most people would treat me difrently. She hasn't responded. So a week later I screenshot another email in hopes of exciting her I asked for her input no reply but seen. 5 days later I ask if she was alright. Seen but no reply. She's been with a guy for 5 years but IDGAF I'm in love with her. She wouldn't have added all the other stuff in her first response to me if she didn't feel a way. Like I didn't notice her in the dark waiting for me to kiss her and laughed and then I kissed her. Her family isn't find of the guy she's with but her sister mom and dad seem down with me. Her sister thinks I'm sweet so does her mom. I took them to a Mandir & they were amazed. I make her laugh. She said I was sexy, dressed well, handsome all Infront of her parents. She thinks I have a cool job (not a normal one).I'm 17 & she's 21 but does she hate me

I am a 20 year old female I was at a party and I...drank a bit to much. and i did something i am not proud of I had sex with a guy i don't even know, when i woke up next to him (At his house), i started screaming. He calmed me down and said that i wanted to do it. Even if i did want it, he used me when i was drunk. I would have never agreed to it when i was sober... He raped me

Heads up if you're weirded out by gay people you might as well move on lol. So I just started dating this guy about a month ago, and at the time I knew he'd just gotten divorced from his husband. He was totally straight up about not totally being ready for anything serious and just sort of trying to get used to being pretty single first. This is the first guy I've even liked (I'm also a guy, usually into girls) and idk, I just actually wanted it to eventually work whenever he was ready. I just really like him. He's so uniquely funny I can't even explain it. Just a really great funny laid back personality. Too bad he's also really laid back about who he's dating. He's been up front about everything but he's also dating at least one girl and one other guy. The thing is he says he hasn't even slept with either of them and I believe him cause we haven't slept together either. But I honestly kind of want to be the only one he's seeing before we do, and I do want to. He told me we can whenever I'm ready (I guess on account of me being younger and him being my first guy) but i just want him to take it more seriously before we do, you know? I'd how to go about this. I feel really inexperienced with him since I'm new to this and I'm 20 while he's 28. Just don't wanna sound demanding or anything. What should I do?

To start of me and my boyfriend have been together almost 3 years broke up once for a little while and got back together. I moved to NC and he stayed in FL and we've been having a long distance relationship about 5 months ago we decide we are going to move in together down in FL so we start saving money and such. Now he lives with his mother and was on the lease with her and his brother. And about a couple of months ago he told his mom needed him to sign the lease again for the next year. I told him he could not do that because that would mess us up with getting a apartment because you can't be on two leases. Fast foward to now I finally found a apartment in our price, and was the first person to apply for it and turns out today I found out my boyfriend (from the apartment people im trying to rent from) renewed the lease with his mother which means they will not let him into a new one with them. And pretty much sure no other apartment place will either. I'm am so beyond angry because I told him if he did that, this would happen. So I hate him so much because if his current apartment does not let him out of the lease we can't move in together and this long distance relationship has been hard. And idk if I can wait another year. 1. It's not fair to me that I have to suffer b ed cause of his stupidity. I am so emotional shattered and in pain for the betrayal be a useful I told him!! I'm so angry that he would not listen to me and do it anyway. Please help me cope.tell me how 2

I haven't been treating him nice lately. But he is a womanizing cheat. He cheats on my mom. I know, because I went with him one night, we went into a 7/11 to buy gas and hot coffee, and these girls were there and they wouldn't keep their eyes off my dad. They were making eyes at him, calling him cutie. So when we walked out, one of them reached up and tried to play with my dad's hair, and he smiled and winked at them. I was debating on if I should tell my mom what happened that night, but I didn't say anything. But instead, I took it out on him. I don't hug him, or talk to him, and I told him that I wish he was dead for some random, stupid reason. This was like 3 days ago. He told me that maybe I would get my wish sooner than I think. And he hasn't really said anything to me since. He also stays at work late, and when he comes home he won't make eye contact with me or say anything. Now I wanna apologize because maybe I was wrong about him cheating. But the truth is, my mom is kinda plain, while almost every female flirts with my dad, and my friends say my dad is tall and gorgeous, which makes for cheating scenario. What do you think he meant by what he said my wish coming true? I hope it is not suicide, but he has been acting weird.

We had been texting back & forth for a while. I intiated by saying how amazing she was & I was there for her if she needed me. She responded pretty much saying what I said but adding I was sweet, smart, chill & fun to be around. I said thanks ur a special person, no response so I send a screenshot of an email from my work she got excited & said it was a great idea. I explained the situation & asked how her summer was going she said good but cold & asked how things were where I'm at. I got deep & was like I need somebody I can be honest with, people are moving on in life & im where I was last year. I admire you for being such a genuine person. Most people would treat me difrently. She hasn't responded. So a week later I screenshot another email in hopes of exciting her I asked for her input no reply but seen. 5 days later I ask if she was alright. Seen but no reply. She's been with a guy for 5 years but IDGAF I'm in love with her. She wouldn't have added all the other stuff in her first response to me if she didn't feel a way. Like I didn't notice her in the dark waiting for me to kiss her and laughed and then I kissed her. Her family isn't find of the guy she's with but her sister mom and dad seem down with me. Her sister thinks I'm sweet so does her mom. I took them to a Mandir & they were amazed. I make her laugh. She said I was sexy, dressed well, handsome all Infront of her parents. She thinks I have a cool job (not a normal one).I'm 17 & she's 21 but does she hate me

One of my friends has been dating a girl for a couple of years. A couple days ago, they were told that, without their knowledge, their parents had been dating (his mom and her dad), and were planning on getting married. Both of their parents then told then that, because of this, they had to break up. Both refused. They asked me what I thought about it, and whether I thought it was the right thing to do, and I honestly don't see the problem. They weren't raised in the sane home, considering themselves brother and sister, so that relationship was never there for them to cross. However, their parents keep insisting that it wouldn't be right, and some other people have said they took issue with it, as well. Am I missing something? Both of them are over 18, and have their own place. They are also engaged, and have even thought about eloping, and getting married before their parents, which would, since their parents are so disturbed by this, put the pressure on them instead. Anyone have any thoughts on the situation?

Lony story short there's this girl that my bf had a crush on in high school She kept liking his stuff on Facebook (he never actually spoke to her) I started to notice it... Usually girls don't like his stuff... So I just told him I noticed it... That's all. He then Unfriended her and blocked her.. I told him he really didn't need to I was just being jelly, he said he prefers me not have anxiety about her because I'm the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with Few months later we broke up for a month (for something really stupid) We got back together I noticed he unblocked her messaged her. But she didn't respond. When we got back together he then Reblocked I didn't really notice he told me he did.. He admitted he did unblock and message her but he said he did it because he assumed I dumped him to be with my ex.. ( I ended our relationship because he had refused to stop smoking weed) I did learn I shouldn't try to change him he likes it and he's not the typical weed smoker... He has a job and whatnot So my question is..... Am I like his rebound....? Because when we split he tried to get with her... Few weeks later he messaged me saying ' he doesn't wanna ever be apart from me because it felt like he lost his best friend, family and future wife'

Okay so me and my now ex( were still best friends and wanna be together) broke up bc my parents wouldn't accept him and we couldn't see eachother or hangout. We're both 17 about to be 18 and seniors in highschool. We've been together since sophomore year and have went through a lot together with my parents and family being racist. I tried talking to my mom in the beginning of the year about him I didn't tell her we were dating I just told her that he asked me to go to the movies with him and she flipped because he isn't white. I don't know what to do or how to tell her or the rest of my family. I'm scared they will make my life a living hell because I'm dating a black guy. I know we're both young but I love him so much and he loves me. He makes me so happy and he's one of the most polite and we'll manners guys Ive ever met. He makes me so happy and I don't want to lose him. I don't know what to do or how to tell my family. I have no one to talk to in my fam because they all feel the same way. I feel like my family is gonna hate me and disowne me but I'm happy with him. Mom tells me that she wants us happy but as soon as it's not what she wants she gets mad at me. I don't know what to do anymore.

Ok I know it's weird but she always is very sexual with me. She gets on my back and her vagina on my back. I have stuck my finger in her through tights when I was"pulling her up." Everytime I'm at her house I masturbate using one of her socks or panties. Please help

my teacher recently died, it's been hard. We were very close, he taught me cane mobility for 2 yrs, I used to be blind but I got my vision back.. He had been heavy on my mind. I felt I needed to contact his sister he told me about. I found her and messaged her comforting words, how I was his student and how special Mr.J was to me, what a blessing he was and what awesome of a brother he was to her. I sent pictures of us too and she loved them. We began talking a lot about him and all he did, share stories, how awesome he was. We're FB friends and she's like/shared every post I had about Mr.J. She randomly goes and likes all of my posts (about him) Talking to her gave me comfort, why? Today i felt to share an important cane class accomplishment with her. She was explaining how proud she/Mr.J would've been of me. Gave me advice and was complimenting me. She then went and liked all of my posts I ever posted about him and shared everything. Even though we've never met in person, is it weird that I feel close to her? Or how do you think she felt about it all?

He left me when I was 8mos pregnant since his mom told him to do so and forbid him to see me. Now, my child is 20 mos old and he asked his friend to tell me if he can see her. I told his friend to tell him yes. Then his friend told me he wanted me to bring her birth certificate. I asked why and he said that the govn do not believe that our daughter exist. Idk what he's been doing and why the govn is saying she does not exist when she is. Also, it's weird because he seemed like he was not excited to see her and after 1 hour told us to leave because his mom might come home but I know she won't be home until later. It was weird, and it was his first time seeing her too. After everything that he did to me, he just acted like nothing happened, like he acted like he was careless about what happened to us. He left me, told me many hurtful words and did not care about how I felt and the baby and now he came and asked to see the baby with her birth certificate. It's funny because after the day he saw her he disappeared again. We don't have any contact with each other anymore so I couldn't ask wtf is going on. It sucks because I still love him even after everything he did, I was with him for 5 yrs and he left me like we were only together for 5days and now he showed up and disappeared again. Idk what's going on anymore.