Family: Question: My dad kicked me out....how do I get back in? No hate please.?

Question: My dad kicked me out....how do I get back in? No hate please.?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 02:07 PM PDT

I am 15 years old and my dad kicked me out. I always said hold on when he told me to do something and I would end up not doing it. I was lazy and always watched tv and didn't respect my parents. I would always smart off to them. After a while my dad called my grandma and said that I need to spend the night at her house and that I could come back home the next day. Well everything was good between my dad and I the next day but I wanted to stay at my cousins for a while just to visit. So I went over there. So I stayed at my cousins for 2 weeks and my dad came over because we were having some sort of party or something. I don't remember. My dad said he misses me and that I could come home whenever I went. (My aunt lectured me therefore I wasn't going to be lazy anymore and I would show respect to my parents). I told my dad I wanted to visit a while longer and he said okay. Well guess what! The next week I said I wanted to come home and he said no! He said I can't come home until I prove myself. So I did. My aunt and grandma think I am ready to go home so I asked if they could call my dad and tell him that but they refuse to. It has been almost 3 months sense I have been kicked out and my dad won't let me back in. I went over to his house yesterday to talk (cause he wont listen on the phone he just hangs up) and I come to find out that his freakin girlfriend has a lot to do with that I am not home. She said if I come home she will kick my sis and dad out. WTF! HELP!?!?

Question: Is my mom overacting?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 02:06 PM PDT

I am 30 I'm still living at home because I have seizures.... But last night I was in my room and had a seizure and fell and knocked over a couple things .. After I came out of it my mom started picking everything up and found a fleshlight sex toy and a couple porn DVD's today she told me that she wanted me to get rid of that crap .... My dad told me not to worry and he told my mom to forget about it that I'm a 30yr old man and have needs

Question: Funeral etiquette?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 02:04 PM PDT

My grandma (who I live with and helped raise me) is actively dying. It ll be within the next couple days or so. My grandparents have two sons. My dad and my uncle. My uncles wife absolutely hates me and my mom. We re all currently gathered around my grandmother in the living room and she s asleep on a hospital bed that was brought to the house. My grandparents have two other grandchildren who are older and have babies of their own. My grandparents and I have always been close I m 20 and theyre really my second parents. Who stands up front at the funeral? My dad is going to need me but it ll be uncomfortable with my aunt up there. Do grandchildren stand up front? I m just at a loss here. Also is there anywhere I can get some clothes to wear for the wake and funeral? What store would be the easiest to find clothes. Sorry for the rambling.

Question: Seventeen and not allowed any social media?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 02:00 PM PDT

I'm 17 and not allowed any social media because of an incident when I was in 8th grade (I'm a senior now) where I talked to people online. That was about 5 years ago and even though I've proved that I'm more mature now than I was then, they still won't allow me to have any social media. It's very frusterating, and when I talked to my parents about it recently, they just said we needed to be more mature (as in my 15 year old brother and I). I think this paranoia is getting out of hand. Any suggestions?

Question: Why don't don't like being around my family?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 01:53 PM PDT

I really hate being around my family and I don't have any friends to hang out with. But, whenever my mom gets off work I get mad because she's home. Same goes with her fiancé. I wouldn't wish anything bad upon my family, I just don't want them there. I don't like going to my dad's house because I have to share a room with two girls. They would probably make fun of me because I pace around my room a lot. I really hate it when people are loud, and it actually makes me mad.

Question: I am just wondering where me and my mom and brothers can go to get away from my dad.?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 01:52 PM PDT

My dad verbally abuses me and my mom and threatens of hurting us. We live in Endicott, NY. We are looking to go to one of those shelters but we dont know what they are called

Question: I am 18 years old, my dad isn't helping me get my life on track?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 01:47 PM PDT

My dad told me to get a job a few days ago, i have my licenses but my dad wont put me on the car insurance because i have to earn it. I told him I could walk to my job because we do live in town and he told me I am not allowed to walk alone. I have one year left of school which I am going to try and make it a half so I dont have to go the whole year. Dont tell me to move out because i dont have the job or car to get to that job, I have a place to stay but it is out in the country with my friends family and i wont have a car to get to a my workplace. As soon as i get a job i am working and saving for a car. I dont know what to do anymore because i have shown the ambition to grow up and get started on life but no one will really help me, starting next year I am expected to pay rent BUT WITH WHAT ******* MONEY?!?! if he isn't going to put me on insurance so i can drive my moms car to my part time job as long as i pay for the gas i use, or let me walk to the work place HOW THE **** AM I SUPPOSE TO PAY RENT LET ALONE HAVE MONEY WHEN EVERY IDEA I THROW OUT IS SHOT DOWN! do you have any tips on how i can get what i need?

Question: My sister keeps finding this under my bed and telling my mom that I peed in the water bottle, and I'm too embarrassed to admit that it's?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 01:39 PM PDT

olive oil. She also calls my grandparents and tells them every little, unimportant thing. Today she said I left a little surprise on your bed. It was my water bottle I filled with some olive oil and I poke a hole in the lid. Everyone thinks I pee in water bottles, but I'd feel more embarrassed admitting that it's olive oil I put in water bottles to masturbate with. So everyone thinks I'm a sicko who pees in water bottles and hides them under my bed. But it's OLIVE OIL IN THE WATER BOTTLE so I can masturbate! The fact that I poke a hole in the top should make this clearer. I can't keep anything a secret in this house, everyone finds everything. I can't move out right away, I want to have sex with a real alive human woman, but masturbating is the best I have access to while I live here. What should I do?

Question: Daughter & son in law mad we did not attend his dads funeral. It was over 2 hours away, hubby 74 can't drive, I'm 62 w rheumatoid arthritis.?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 01:39 PM PDT

I don't drive long distances just around town & they didn't offer to pick us up, they have picked us up numerous times when we go to their home. No one else near us went, and there are no buses/trains into the deep south (where funeral was held). I sent a nice gift basket to his parents. When my hubby was in ICU/rehab for 2 months, his family didn't visit him, but I understood as they live over 2 hours away! I kind of feel my son in law has two sets of rules, one for his family and one for ours. His family never brings any food to my daughters house but they all come to eat (and I help cook & pay for it). I told my daughter the truth her dad was sick with bronchitis. She continued to berate me,now she won't talk to me. They have picked us up many times, but I now feel it was only when they needed something.

Question: Why does my dad make fun of/ criticise literally everything I do.?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 01:35 PM PDT

Pretty much everyday since I ve moved in with him a year ago he has had something negative to say about me. For example just now I put my phone onto charge. He went on about it for 5 straight minutes saying how "funny it is" and "you always find a way to be on that phone." I literally just put it on to charge but that s not even the half of it. He s constantly making fun of my appearance, my hobbies, pretty much anything I genuinely enjoy he makes fun of it. It s not like I can even talk back because then he gets really angry and starts screaming and throwing **** around/ at me. I can t leave when he does this because he stands in front of the door and shouts until I cry and then makes fun of me for crying. I can t show any kind of emotion other than happiness bc then he makes fun of me for "looking like I ve just been slapped". I honestly believe I hate him but I just don t know what to do or even why he does this.

Question: Am I childish ? I almost cry everytime when I remember what he have done?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 01:34 PM PDT

So recently I got absent and I'm still heart broken because my dad made a mistake and took desicion without telling me afterwards he started to change he stopped worrying about me some times he doesn't call me for a week and there's this kinda awkward gab btwn us and I criticize him all the time but then I think oh thank God that you have a dad who supports

Question: Should I tell my sister what she wants to know?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 01:29 PM PDT

I have a 14 year old sister Nancy that has been my best friend for my whole life. I really like her. I am a 19 year old guy. We are very close. I try to be very protective of her. She has developed into a beautiful girl. She recently ask me to tell her about boys and sex. I think it is VERY IMPORTANT that she know the facts especially about sex. I don't want her pregnant. I told her I would prefer she talk to our mom about this. She said it would be to embarrassing to talk to our mom and she wants me to educate her about these subjects. Should I tell our mom about here asking about this and ask her to talk to Nancy or should I tell Nancy the facts about her body and how to prevent pregnancy. Nancy trust me completely and feels she can talk to me about anything without embarrassment. Mom and teenage girls, PLEASE give me some advice her. I only what is best for Nancy.

Question: How do i get my parents to take me to therapy?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 01:29 PM PDT

i asked this somewhere else but no one helped. i am starting to hear screaming in my head, i almost always feel empty, i have terrible anxiety.. they finally agreed to take me after 3 years but its been months after they said they would and they havent called the therapist once. how do i finally get them to? i've asked and my counselor already told them i need a therapist.

Question: How did my mom know I had been doing that?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 01:19 PM PDT

I was upstairs in my bedroom watching TV when my step mother yelled "Lets go so we will not be late". Trying to stall for time, I said "I'm coming". She said "Don't get it on the sheets. That makes them sticky. Oh My God, she thought I was j - -king off. I did not know she knew I did that. She has a wonderful sense of humor so I hope she was joking. I love and adore her. I think she is the greatest mom a guy can have. Does that mean she is OK with it and I don't have to hide from her when I do it in the future? Do I have a cool mom or what? I did not know women knew guys did this. Do all women know about it?

Question: My parents found out about my self harm. What do I do now?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 01:16 PM PDT

My 9 year old sister and I were sitting in the back seat of the car. My dad and step mom were in the front. My sister and I were playing around and out of no where she shouted, "ARE YOU BEING ABUSED!? YOU HAVE CUTS ALL OVER YOUR ARM!" And I was smacking her leg to get her to stop talking but she kept going and going while my parents were listening. I tried to make a joke out of it and change the subject but it wasn't working. They didn't say anything at this point. I don't want to talk to my parents because it's embarrassing, and I don't want them to bring it up. I really just don't know what to do at this point.

Question: My grandma is living forever?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 01:09 PM PDT

I'm sorry that I sound so arrogant, but it's true. She has had dementia for 8 years or something and she just won't go even though she's almost 90. It's become a joke to my family because she's lived so long. We added an extension to our house when I was in elementary school and ever since, she's been ruling how my family lives their life. I am in high school now, and I'm soon leaving for The Netherlands because America is so screwed. Anyways, how long does the average woman live during stage 6-7 of dementia? Trust me, she's been on stage 6 forever. I am sort of humbled that she's fought so long but she honestly needs to move on. It would be good for everyone. I never liked her, but what can you do. As for my guess, I think she's going to go the second I move out. :/

Question: Should I confront Mother In Law about this?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 01:03 PM PDT

Hi, I am not going into tremendous details here. Maybe in my next question. But here is why I am upset. My MIL is very nice and she usually goes out of her way to make cookies, cakes, food and other niceties to appear friendly and nice. However....we recently moved into her house because my husband is a veteran and he hit hard times after leaving the Army. I will go into those details later. But he is a very honorable man who does a lot for his family and he tries very hard. He got a part time job and he enrolled into college as a Vet Tech. We plan to move out soon. Our mistake was that we moved into an expensive city in Southwest Florida and they don't have apartments or mobile homes available less than 1400 a month! We planned to move out way sooner! Now are moving to the Northern Part of Florida. She mysteriously stopped "Liking" my pictures of my son who is three years old. He lives with us in the house. She only posts pictures to her facebook of her other Son's Wife and Kids (they are not even her real grandkids!) She posted a recent picture of them visiting us and she left out our son who is her flesh and blood grandson! I am getting very irate over this! She says she wants to go out with us but she acts like it is a big burden and we don't ask her to go anywhere now. She doesn't have a pic of my husband (her son) either on Facebook. You would never know she has another son with a family! She made my sister in law stop talking to me too! Reason to be upset???

Question: How should I feel about what my ex husband did to my mom?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 12:59 PM PDT

My mom lost her job and got behind on her mortgage payments and was in danger of losing her home of 30 years. Of all the people she could of asked for help, she asked my ex husband Bill. She really liked Bill when we were married and he really liked her. She thought of him as the son she never had. I guess that friendship did not stop with our friendly divorce like I thought it would. Bill immediately paid the back mortgage payments and also he paid 1 years mortgage payments in advance. He also used his business contacts to get her a new job. That is totally in character with Bill. As long as I have known him, if he finds out someone needs help, he helps them. Mom went from VERY DEPRESSED to VERY HAPPY in one day. I am not sure how I should feel about this. I and my siblings agree that mom should of asked us first for help but we all admit we could not have helped her like Bill did. We just do not have that kind of money. I told Bill we would somehow repay him. He told me he would not accept any repayment. He said mom was great to us when we were married and this was his repayment to her. Am I off base to think mom should of asked us first before going outside the family for help. Is it possible that it would be too embarrassing for mom to ask her family for help? How should I feel about what Bill did? I am totally confused.

Question: Name this family!?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 12:46 PM PDT

Name this family - pick a first and middle name out of the choices given. You may also do slight adjustments! Surname: Bowen ; Carr ; Alexandre ; Greenwood; Saks Dads name: Sean ; Alex ; Terry ; Tristan ; Matthew ; Vinny Moms name: Nicole ; Daisy ; Michelle ; Alex ; Bianca ; Amber ; Ashley Son : Mason ; Brooklyn ; Alessio ; Harvey ; Romeo Daughter : Veronica ; Lucy ; Adrianna ; Nova ; Stella Daughter : India ; Tracy ; Jessica ; Ivy ; Summer Daughter : Aria ; Isla ; India ; Isabella ; Lucy ; Brooklyn

Question: My brother hates me. He literally told me when he saw me after a week of being away he wanted to go back because of me. What do I do?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 12:41 PM PDT

Question: Im fixing to be homeless soon any tips?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 12:29 PM PDT

I already know what gonna happen I'm just liveing day to day and everyday me and my family gets more and more further apart and one day I'm gonna have no one and I'm gonna get kick out of my house that my uncle owns it's just a matter of time and every day I pray that it's no the day I'm hopeless but I know it's gonna happen and I'm gonna lose everything and I'm Scared to death but I'm pretty sure I'm gonna be homeless by then you see I don't talk to my mom not my fault by the way and my dad is a drug addict and the only time I see him is when he's asking for money or drugs my grandpas getting old and getting senile my uncle an alcoholic who I don't really get along with right now and I'm pretty sure that he's gonna kick me out because he wants his house back to live in my sister is living with my grandpa so she can't help me she has a son to think about and my grandma can't support me because she has just enough money for her self and me and her don't really talk anymore and she basically wants nothing to do with me but that story's for another day and my aunt is just abuseive and there no way in hell I'll live with her and my bestfriend is fixing to go to college and live there so that's out of the question

Question: I HATE my mother?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 12:27 PM PDT

I can't stand that woman. I'm 17 years old and she treats me like I"m a child. She's totally unfair, rude, and just plain irritating. I can't even be in the same room with her for 5 minutes. We're always fighting and she thinks she can control everything. Like today, I kindly asked her if I can go out and she starts screaming at me like a maniac. She just said no. No reason at all, just no. A minute later, my brother asked to go out and she let him. He doesn't do anything, he is such a deadbeat. My mom recently found out he was smoking and doing drugs, which he continued to smoke in his room, and my mom simply said "well its not illegal so he can do whatever he wants" It bullshit how he can just go do anything he wants. He's 18 years old and not even in college. We're a year a part and somehow he can just go do everything. My mom even cancelled our vacation because she said she was sick of me. I don't ever want to see her again as soon as I'm moved out. My dad lsot a bunch of change he has been saving for a couple of years and she thinks I stole it. I didn't take the money yet she is still blaming me. She thinks I'm such a bad kid when in reality I don't do anything wrong, she should eb yelling at my brother. Why is she taking his side all the time.

Question: What is a father son bond like?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 12:23 PM PDT

Could a man tell me what the bond between him and his father is like? And maybe something you used to like doing with your father? Thanks.

Question: So I found a safe apartment yesterday and when I told my mom she doesn't even like that idea and is angry with me me and my dad are doing it?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 12:23 PM PDT

Anyways without her permission It's affordable and my dad will help pay for it I'm 24 years old women can't get a job because of social anixety so my dad will pay for it

Question: I hope all interracial couples born and rot in hell?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 12:16 PM PDT

Question: I don't know what to do with my daughter?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 12:14 PM PDT

She's 23 and is a porn star. She parties all the time, smokes pot and does cocaine. She can't even keep a guy around for a week because she gets them, does her job and then ditches them. I don't talk to her anymore because I don't want my daughter being a porn star but I don't know what to do. She talks to her mother but her mom is able to accept it. She also got TONS of plastic surgery. Breast implants, lip fillers/injections, a brow lift, cheek enhancement, butt implants, etc. I just don't know what to do

Question: When I have my baby, is it my right to let the father of my child come into my hospital room?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 12:13 PM PDT

I'm 14. The father of my child is 19. He wants to be there. After the baby is born, is it my right to let the father of my child see our baby and sign the paperwork? Or can my father say no?

Question: My parents fighting is bad! Help!?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 12:05 PM PDT

My parents are fighting constantly. And when they do its bad. They not hurting each other physically but they are screaming, my mom usually ends up crying And my dad raises his voice in a really bad way and I get really scared when they do this. If I leave the house it gets worse. Ik they don t want a divorce but my mom or dad tries leaving the house and it really frightens me. They usually fight about things my father has done on the past, how he s always away for work, or really stupid things that don t matter. When they do it it s bad and I don t have anyone to talk to... Plz help!

Question: Girl Trouble?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 11:50 AM PDT

So my friend's step-sister is extremely sexually active and flirtatious. She has had sex with guys before and has done a few sexual acts on me. I'm still a virgin though and I already told her this. However, she consistently asks me though if I'm a virgin in front of her friends, her family, and even when we are both alone. We have made out a few times and she told me she would let me eat her out and do other things. My question is - does she want to take my virginity? And if she does, how should I go about asking or talking to her about it? My friend literally said go ahead, he doesn't care, hell he told me he did stuff with her too. But still, how should I go about asking or talking to her about it. Thanks.

Question: My aunt said I look like a fat 40yr old woman when I wear a long skirt I'm only 18 :'( How do I tell her to stop? :'(?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 11:45 AM PDT

My grandma's sister which is her foster aunt was on the phone with her other sister and they were talking about me. Yeah I'm a little chunky and I weight 160 and I'm 5"8 and she said that my face looks fat with straight hair but I have chubby cheeks which I get from my mother and then she said I look like a fat 40yr old woman when I wear long skirts because I'm not aloud to wear short skirts but she's bigger than me and has a lot of health problem but I don't :'( She told me not to tell my grandma but I want too and she told me not to wear skirts in public because I look old and fat but I'm 18 turning 19 :'( How do I make her stop she's always judging me but yet she's a lot bigger than I am :'(

Question: My 23 year old brother, walks around in just boxers or sometimes he doesn't put on underwear?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 11:36 AM PDT

How to tell my brother to ****** put on some pants!!! Or to wear underwear with pants!!!! Lately it's been pissing me off, cause he isn't self aware of stuff like this. A few days ago he was walking around with NO shirt and ONLY wearing pajama pants too fckin big for him, I could even see his pubes!!! He's sooo blind

Question: I don't want us to move in with my moms boyfriend?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 11:34 AM PDT

My mom just announced that we will be moving out of our house and that we're going to move into her boyfriend's house. I really don't want this and I hate the fact that I will be living in some guy's (whom I've only known for like two months know and don't even like) house and that he will be a part of our family. I'm afraid, and fairly certain, that I won't ever feel at home there. I don't want to leave my house and I definitely don't want to go live at someone else's house, when I know I will never feel comfortable with this guy, nor in his house. I don't like him and I can feel that he doesn't like me either, we're simply not clicking. It will always be HIS house to me and I get so sad when I think about how he will always be there. I know I should be happy for my mom and I am, I just don't want this. I know it's selfish, so can someone please give me some advice on how to cope with this? I'm 15 so not moving out isn't an option and I don't want that either, I just want to live in my house with my mom and my sister, just like it was before.

Question: My parents keep yelling at me for no particular reason, how can I get them to stop doing this?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 11:11 AM PDT

n They pick up on tiny inconsequential things and tell me and my sister off about them. For instance, my mum yelled at me for looking in the mirror today

Question: I don't want to be Muslim anymore! How do I tell my strict parents?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 11:04 AM PDT

Hi, I'm turning 15 soon. I have really strict parents ( they are Somali ) and Muslim. Everyday I have to wear scarf and I lost interest in mosque and praying. I just don't see the point of it. I keep asking myself questions and no one seem to answer them. Aboveall you can't question your religion. I went to Mecca when I was 7 which I am grateful for. I'm scared of my parents and worst Allah. I mean what's the point of living life if you have to follow constant rules. I feel trapped and I cry myself to sleep because no one seem to understand me nor Iisten to me . How do I tell my parents about this? I know they'll never look at me the same Ever. But I have goals and dreams and non of them support me. I feel like they going to send back to Somali until I get my **** right but I'm forced until things I don't approve of. My mum Is keep making false conclusion about how I'll turn out when I grow up and disrespect them etc because I can't make any mistakes at all . ( which just me angry and frustrated ) I'm tired of making them happy and I can't live life the way I want to, but am I going to regret this? will they accept me for who I'm? I'm scared. Please help especially if you are Somali.

Question: My son came out to me as gay. Help/Advice please.?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 10:54 AM PDT

I am single father of my only son. His mother left when he was 5 years old since I have been his mother and father both. I love him no matter what but this is something in which I would need help at. We have been through some financial crisis which was the reason my wife left us but I managed to pull things together. I did everything for him to make him feel large cause he is the only one in my life whom I love. We are now very much financially aloot better than we were. Thing that bothers me is he being gay. Its not that things change for me but in a sense yes it does. I never thought that he would be gay. He's 19 now btw and he send me a voice note on WhatsApp. How can I accept him?

Question: Eye color question.?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 10:53 AM PDT

What are the odds of a child having an eye color other than brown if : -Mother had light brown eyes -Father has somewhat light to medium brown eyes Mothers side : -Grandfather with hazel gray eyes and mother with light brown eyes. Grandmother with blue eyes. Fathers side : - brown eyes. Odds of eye colors??

Question: My mom hates my dad, so much hate that she doesn't cook for my dad. What should I do?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 10:25 AM PDT

So, basically, my mom hates my dad and she's decided not to give him any food she cooks. I don't want my dad to be left hungry all the time, so sometimes I sneakily give my dad the food my mother cooks for me. Recently, I got caught by my mother. She now hates me and said there would be no more food for me if I did it again once more. I love my mother and father. So, what should I do to solve this?

Question: What should I do?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 10:14 AM PDT

I'm a mother and I have 2 daughters and I was doing laundry and I was heading to my youngest daughters room (she's 12) And before going into her room her door was open slightly and I saw her masterbating. I never went in and I never told her. And I have been noticing she has been alone in her room very often. What should I do ?

Question: My dad has really bad road rage.?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 09:56 AM PDT

My dad has really bad road rage and it really terrifies me. The other day we were driving home and this guy was driving the correct speed limit and my dad got really mad at him for driving slow. My dad usually speeds like 10miles over the speed limit so that s why he was mad. Any way, he started to like ride really close on his bumper and honk his horn and stuff. Then he kept cussing at him and yelling that he wasn t afraid to wreck into him. It really scares me especially since sometimes he like speeds up next to them and roles down his window and flips people off. My 16 year old brother tried to tell him to calm down once but my dad immediately stopped the car (on a highway) and started screaming at him about how he is a good driver and that my brother is just a p*ssy. Not only does he have road rage but he has really bad temper. Like one time I spilled salt on the table and he yelled at me and called me a b*tch. I instantly broke down crying and he told me to go crying to my mommy. WHICH I CANT BECAUSE MY MOM DIED OF CANCER TWO YEARS AGO. That day I ran out of the house and didn t come back till the next day. I had stayed at a friends house. The weirdest thing is he never hits us. Like you would think with all of this temper he has he would hit us by now but he hasn t. I love my dad so much but I feel all of this rage is too much for him and I want to see him be happy again. I don t want him to yell at us like this any more.... What do I do?

Question: Do you know how me and family can be on the Dr. Phil show to help my family with our family problems and help us be a good family again?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 09:45 AM PDT

Yo, how's it hanging everyone? I'm interested in knowing how me and my family can be on the Dr. Phil McGraw show so my family can get help and change. I'm a Christian and I come from a Christian family. My family used to be loving, caring, playful, kind-hearted, loyal, faithful and true when I was a little child in the 90s and early 2000s. Me and my cousins used to play outside, play at the park, go to the beach, talk about fun things, watch old school kids shows and cartoons, go on family vacations and do fun things when I was a little child. And I had a fun childhood as a little kid. But by 2007, my family completely changed and now they're stuck up, they talk with strong language, they're neglectful, they're more mean than ever, they fight a lot with me, they got me on trouble in the past and still do, they're always pointing fingers, my family never gets along no more, they want nothing to do with me and shoved me out of their lives, they never help me when I need them, my mom isn't there for me no more, they don't live clean and holy no more and they're now living in black darkness sin. I used to live with my mom when I was younger until they put me in a group home in Oakland, CA in 2012 when my mom got to sick to take care of me. The group home was so violent and dangerous, I was almost killed. So I went to another in Fremont, CA and that one was also dangerous and violent. Then I went to one in Union City, CA and they were nice and treated me good! (Continued) But I was in a group home for too long for three years and it got me no where in my life and got boring. I wanted to move back home with my mom for a few years until I was back on my feet but my mom and our cousin Vicki who's her caregiver wouldn't let me just to be mean. So now I live in Sacramento, CA with my cousin and it's been hell living with him for a year. He hits me, cusses at me and gets me in trouble. So how can me and family go on the Dr. Phil show cause I want my good family back!

Question: My brother won't let me leave for 5-10 minutes?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 09:40 AM PDT

He is 10 years old. I told him I was going on a bike ride to the local park and would be back in 5 minutes. He started getting really nervous and started calling my mom. I kept asking him why he didn't want me to go and he always replied with "I just don't like being home alone." I offered for him to come with me but he didn't want to do that either. My mother said I could go, and once I opened the garage door, he started crying. I eventually gave in after about 20 minutes and told him I wasn't going to speak to him until our mother came home. He told me he didn't feel endangered, didn't need the company, and wasn't arguing for the sake of it. Can someone explain to me what might have been going on inside his head? P.S. He's been like this for a few months, and he's usually mature for his age.

Question: Should I treat my sister with respect or no?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 09:38 AM PDT

hi, I am 15, a guy. I have a 12 year old sister who puts me down everyday (I also asked a question about this earlier, here is the link: https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20160705144234AAuxcaV ). so this morning, my grandma (this was yesterday) she bought coffee buns (you have to cut your piece in half) and I accidentally cut 1 inch bigger then I was supposed to. I didn't know that, she must've said it after I went to bed. now my sister is mad at me because I accidentally made my piece a little bigger (it was 1 inch bigger). and she is making a big deal out of it she yells at me everyday and treats me like crap. should I treat my sister with respect? I mean she is nice to everyone else (including cousins), but she isn't nice to me! that is so messed up!! so, should I treat her with respect? she also yells at me for the stupidest things ever and bosses me around. should I treat her with respect?

Question: Would I exist if my parents had never met...?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 09:33 AM PDT

Would I be born to the different mother or father?

Question: Argumentative Mother in Law?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 09:14 AM PDT

My mother in law is a poorly informed tea party member who believes everything she hears at meetings and gets most of her news from facebook memes. I'd like to be able to have family gatherings and include her, she's my husband's only living parent but she starts arguments with everyone. It's very much like trying to spend the day with one of the trolls from the politics section but you can't get away and she is very loud and passionate in her misinformation. I'm not sure what to do. Her husband is only slightly more reasonable so I don't know that I can enlist his help. Does anyone have any idea of what I can do? Possibly some compelling distraction to have handy for visits?

Question: Am I Being Unreasonable Feeling Uneasy About Letting My Baby See Her Drug-Addicted Father?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 09:01 AM PDT

My baby is 6 months old and the light of my life. Her father who is younger than I is in and out of rehab and uses crystal meth on an ongoing basis. His parents want me to let them take my baby to meet up with him in the shopping centre so he can see her. I am on civil terms with the parents, but they seem to be extremely permissive and complacent about his drug use, which makes me feel distrustful of them. What should I do? My gut says no... But I don't want to be the bad mum that keeps her kids from the other parent. I just feel something wrong...

Question: Money wise I feel like I can't compete with my parents?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 08:57 AM PDT

I was an only child who grew up in Rhode Island. My mother worked in law and my father was an engineer. I was a bit "spoiled". We never struggled with money. I was able to attend college out of state with very little in college loans. After graduation, my parents actually paid those loans off for me. My husband and I now live in Georgia. I always wanted to be as successful as my parents. I really looked up to them. They were very hard working. My fathers job demanded a lot from him. He would often work my father often worked 10-12 hours a day. I had a goal to be as successful and to provide for my children the way my parents did for me. My husband and I now have two children. We both work full time. Money can be tight for us at times and I feel like I often have to say no to my children for certain items. Between the two of us we make around $65,000 per year before taxes. I realize we live in a much cheaper area of the country but I feel I should be as successful as my parents. It often bothers me and I often feel I can't compete with my parents money wise. We are in our early 30's so I'm not sure if eventually I'll make more money. It just really bothers me.

Question: Is it bad that I dislike my family?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 08:52 AM PDT

I dislike my mother at times. She calls my siblings and I bitc-es when shes mad. She sometimes screams at me in the morning, telling me to stfu or screaming in the morning to wake me up to clean. She doesn't do anything.She buys me things but acts all fake infront of people and acts like a pycho in our house. I just hate it. She calls me fresh and says that I want to be grown... WELL I DON'T. I take care of my sister, feeding them dinner, breakfast... whatever you want to say. She makes me cook half of the time and I'm always dressing them at 6:00 in the morning to get them ready for school. She makes me wash the dishes after her but when I don't wash the dishes after myself she calls me a nasty b*tch. My sister yell at me all the time. They are disrespect full to me when I just try to tell them simple this. What should I do? I think I'm going to lose my mind in this house.

Question: My sister called me and I want to call her back but she is just calling to bash my brother, how should I respond?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 08:14 AM PDT

I want to be nice but all she does is bash my brother who she is feuding with. I am neutral and think both act like kids. My sister even makes her kids suffer because of it. So how should I respond when the brother bashing begins? My sister tolerates me so I'd like to keep it that way so her kids aren't afraid of me. She has her kids terrified of my brother now as though he is a bad guy (he is not).

Question: Does my mother have the right to be mad at my aunt, read below?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 08:10 AM PDT

My aunt is marrying this man whose father my mother's family doesn't like. The man's father (actually step-father) is a slick businessman and my grandfather tried to do a real estate deal with this guy and it went sour due to the guy's slick move (the guy whose son is about to marry my aunt). So my mother and her family do not support the wedding. They are polite to the man's face but are grumbling behind his back and furious at Thanksgiving last year when my aunt went to see his family instead of ours (she did Thanksgiving with us). I like the guy she is marrying and though I don't know the guy's father I don't see why the son should be punished for his father's real estate mistake. However, my aunt has been seen as betraying my grandfather by marrying this guy who is the offspring of someone the family didn't like. So are they right or is this as silly as it seems to me? I am only 15 so maybe I am not old enough to see this is wrong somehow. It is a 2nd marriage for both but everyone says they are glad she is remarrying just not to this person when their father caused the hurt he did.

Question: I'm 17 and I can hear my brother and his gf having sex almost everything morning?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 08:07 AM PDT

I hate it so much, when they it do its loud and repulsive. I'm the only one home and I have to listen to this constantly, it makes me cry and panic every time. My whole house shakes and I feel trapped. It messes with my head, I want to bash their heads I with my bat. I cant stand this mentally. It's happening rn and I'm shaking and in tears. What do i do? I can't say anything to him, thinking about it gives me anxiety and how do I bring this up to my parents without making it a huuge problem. I just want them to keep it down. They only do it when my parents leave as if I don't matter.

Question: Is it normal for a mother to penalize her kids whenever she is mad at someone by getting mad when her kids are nice to that person?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 08:01 AM PDT

Is this normal behavior for women-mothers or is my mother rare this way?

Question: My dad choked me, what do I do?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 07:43 AM PDT

All because I was apparently taking too long to clean the house. My mom came in afterwards and said I deserved it because I was being irresponsible. I'm scared because not even my mom protects me 😔

Question: Why am i adicted to having a orgy with my 4 dogs 2 cats and my mom and dad?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 07:38 AM PDT

I can't help loving it. My parents always innitiate it. What do i do?????

Question: How to survive a two-week trip with my messed up family?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 07:25 AM PDT

So this week I'm travelling with my family, and we're going to be gone for two weeks, except i don't know how to survive the trip. First of all, I haven't spoken to my brother for one year even though we live in the same house. Weird, right? But he got angry at me for some dumb reason that I can't even remember and has refused to talk to me ever since. He does this everytime he gets angry and once we even went two years without speaking. This happened when I was 11. Even when I try to include him in a conversation, he's always like: "tell her to don't mention my name again and mind her own business," - he's my older brother and I used to look up to him when I was younger, so it's quite hurtful. My younger sister is even worse, we talk but she always finds something hurtful to say. Like if I ask her if fx a dress I'm trying on looks good on me, she always smiles this like really mean (??) smile and just says "if you think so", or if I'm talking about my friends she'll be like "oh i didn't know you had friends" but not in a sisterly, joking kind of way - she'll say it like she wants to hurt me, because she knows I struggled with bullying and not having any friends when I was younger. But the thing is, I can't even say something back to her, because she'll tell my parents and they always take her side because she's the youngest. My dad always finds something to complain about. He'll always be like muttering under his breath: (the rest is written down by the answers)

Question: Parents Don't Care About me?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 07:19 AM PDT

Hi. I'm 16. I feel like my parents don't even care about me. I've been having lower back and abdominal discomfort. My doctor said is was due to my horrible bed (I've been living in the same cheap bed for 16 years. It's Springs) and now I have to pay the price for my parents carelessness. I've complained for TWO WEEKS about the pain but they never took me to a doctor until now (saying that I was fine and to stop being a baby). I had a fever, but my mother claims she's the sick one!! (She's been having a tiny pain in her lungs in which she's been told by three doctors that there is nothing wrong) even during my appointment, she kept going on about how SHE felt. My appointment wasn't even with a doctor!! IT WAS WITH A NURSE (she gets to have the actual doctor, BUT NO NOT ME). The nurse said I should get a memory foam cover, so I asked my dad if he could get one and he just said, "get a job. My back has been hurting for two years." My mom said she'll never take me to physical therapy, no matter how bad my pain is. I really don't know what to do, I feel like my parents don't care about my well being and I don't know what to do. The pain in my back is so bad but they don't care.

Question: My Mom's pregnant again n I can't help hating her?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 07:10 AM PDT

She's a filthy ****** I dont know how can I even look at her face. Pregnant again and doesn't know who's the father Just like when she had me. I don't know who's my dad and now another kid Why does she do this to us? Its humiliating that I must live with her 3 years more I cant stand

Question: I hate my mom and I donrvknow what to do?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 06:45 AM PDT

I hate my mom so much she has verbally abused me since I was little and has hit me 2 times. My dad doesn't do anything about it he just sits there and watches and acts like nothing happens and if he gets involved he just yells at me and says its my fault. I'm 14 do I even have a choice to live with another family member or am I stick here forever. I can't handle it anymore I can't be around and I need to get away. I feel if I don't get away soon I am going to run away I can't handle it anymore. I need help

Question: What did Joshua Stockton do to Miranda cosgrove?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 06:43 AM PDT

Question: How do I explain to my mother why I sat with my uncle (her brother) and his kids yesterday and not her?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 06:39 AM PDT

My mother is mad at me because I sat with my uncle and cousins instead of her at a reception after a wedding yesterday. I see my mother weekly and my uncle just a few times a year and his kids like once a year. Yet, my mother resents I didn't sit with her. My mother is a narcissist about family but otherwise is not a narcissist at all. So she has this weird anger at me for being nice to relatives she doesn't pick for me but I am an adult who lives on his own.

Question: I want to leave my house and go away from my family?

Posted: 10 Jul 2016 06:21 AM PDT

I'm completely sick and extremely depressed living with my family sure they do provide me with all the basic necessities in my life. But I'm tired of them constantly not being supportive with any of the decisions I make everything has to be according to their choice.And I'm really fed up of being forced upon and doing things according to their decision if I don't I'm a complete disgrace or I should be ashamed they never listen to me they consider themselves to be the best. And they're not making me do not anything bad it's just about my career, life partner and the country I want to settle in. According to what they desire and not my choice. And guys please I don't wanna live in the streets or become trafficked any of that sort I just plan on getting a job and living a good life not in a way that I would hurt my parents but I think it's kind of necessary for them to understand what I want.Also I'm a brown so you basically would know what I'm going through right now. And guys please don't bash my parents call them names any of that sort I respect them I just need to figure out what I need to do with my life.