I'm texting a female friend from school, both of us are 14, and at some point she just asked if she could get my opinion on something and I responded with "sure". Then she sent me a picture of her in her bra with the focus clearly on her breasts. I haven't responded because I'm not sure if this is okay, but I don't want to hurt her feelings by telling her not to do it again. What should I tell her and is this okay? I thought she might want a picture in return but I'm really not sure what to do.

Long story short, I'm going out with this guy tomorrow and we were texting, and he said, "it's going to be much fun!" Not to sound stupid, but that's a good thing, right?

They dont.

Today I called my fiancé (someone I been with 7 years) to ask him for his opinion on a something I was purchasing because I couldn't wait for him to text me back as I was buying the item right away. I didn't know he was busy, when he answered he was so cruel to me. He was yelling at me and telling me it's just shoes and why I'm asking him and I just need to buy it. He said I am too much and that I am chasing him and I should chill out and let him chase me and that I'm weak and I need to be strong... I was crying cus he was tearing me down for no reason at all:( just ruined my entire mood and was blaming me that I ruined his energy! But he was projecting it all onto me. he said I need to call him only if it's something important not something so stupid or not call him at all until he calls me. I'm soo hurt I can't even explain. He is apologizing and saying he is mean to everyone and not just me and proceeded to tell me how he even screamed at his boss. I don't know what to do. I completely turned off. I can't do this anymore. I feel so torn down and belittled. 

So I really like this guy and we've known each other for a long time, we've had feelings on and off for a while. We have been friends with benefits for a while. But we never have been A couple, of I get pregnant with his kid and keep it what are the chances me and him would become a couple?

It seems that not only that women cheat all the time while men are steadfastly loyal, but society defends women when they cheat, and lambast men for the very few occasions when men cheat, typically claiming that he didnt treat her well or something Why the double standard

Been talking to this guy for a month. We were supposed to meet up last week and something came up on his end and he said he was delayed and would call later. Never called. Called the next day but I was so pissed I didn't answer. Texts me to tell me what happened and that he had called the day before to see if he could come see me (which was the day after we were originally supposed to meet). I believe him. But he never apologized for basically standing me up or forgetting about me or whatever you want to call it. Should I still be mad? I mean he seems like a good honest guy. I believe his explanation of what happened. Should he apologized or should I let it go?

I think about him every once and a while. I've been with my current boyfriend for almost 3 years but my ex recently texted me an apology. It made me feel like I genuinely had to let him go. I went through almost a whole week thinking this over and crying being dramatic as my personality makes me. I know that if my ex said jump, I'd jump. I am completely in love with my bf but I know a small part of my still loves my ex. Maybe not in love, but love Technically not an update but my relationship with my ex was very rushed, passionate but when it ended it was almost like we found excuses to talk to each other until we finally went our separate ways. Idk if that helps

A lot of women seem to like a man with a nice big round muscular butt. Should guys be aiming to have big butts?

This girl and i both work together at this store. Everyday he walks by and looks at my shoes. One day i actually caught her sneak a look at them. My shoes are really comfortable and they retail for $200. I dont know if it is a sign of interest or what. I just dont get why she looks at them everyda

I haven't drank in a while because I've just been busy with my kids, work and just everything in general . My boyfriend and I took some time to go for some drinks and I had a couple more drinks than normal and got sick the very last minuet I got back into our car . I thew up twice as I waited for him to come back after peeing . I couldn't control myself , I tried making sure I tried throwing up beforehand but I just couldn't control myself once I sat into the car . Anyway he got furious with me because I thew up and "ruined his night" he started yelling at me how he should've came out alone and never even drank with me . I fired my very best not to get sick , especially not on the side of car (not a spot on the car ) but I just did . This has been the third time I've actually thew up because of alcohol (second time him getting mad)  he was intoxicated himself as we were waiting for his friend to drop us back home but I just understand what I did so wrong that got him very angry . We have been fighting all night . Yes he had apologized but can't get over the fact he kept bringing up "his exes " used to drink normally with him  , or How I ruined his night . I'm usually like this but damn I couldn't just prevent it . Now I'm here just sitting alone , thinking what I did so wrong ? 

Hi. I'm 21 and I hate men. As far as I know a total of 2 good men are on Earth.  Here is why. My dad compulsively cheats on my mom. He almost gave her an STD, threatens to kill himself when she tries to leave, and propositions anyone for sex. I went out to dinner with him and he had sex with our waitress in the bathroom.  I was molested as a kid by a family member. It wasn't a dude, but it made me trust people less. I was 10. I remember around that time men started cat-calling me. One 50-year-old said, "hey darlin, why don't you sit on my lap?" at an isolated area. I ran away. When I was 12 I was invited to drink w/ 30 year olds. I said no. In high older guys called me "jail bait." Around that age I was invited to the hotel of a celebrity, who was 30. I said no b/c curfew. He's been accused of rape multiple times now. At 15 I went on my first date with a guy. He went to a nearby school. I hadn't met him in person before, but he was the first guy to seem nice and express interest. I got an infection before I was supposed to go on the date, and it left a scar. When I hung out with him he raped me, and it was definitely his plan all along. The scar I have is a constant reminder that I should've listened to my instincts and not went. I tried to report it, and had a decent amount of evidence. Nothing happened. He tried to hit on my friends, and pretended like he barely knew me after. A few years later I was waiting for my bf on the beach at night. Two dudes surrounded me, and started talking about how great my rack was. I thought i was going to get gang raped, but one guy got bored, and the other left bc my bf came back.  I slept with whoever gave me attention, and the more they put into me, it seemed the worse off they were. I messed up a lot of relationships. That's on me. I had another bf. I'm pretty sure the first time we had sex it was rape. I was so high I passed out a few times. He would threaten to rape me when he was mad, threatened to- get me pregnant, throw me down the stairs, and said I was "only good for sex" but he never raised his voice at me once. He threatened to hit me with a bat as well. Another dude tried to assault me in early college. I threw a knife at him, and got away. Another dude actually did assault me (ex bf) and said "I raped you" after, grinned, and demanded I cuddled with him after. We eventually broke up b/c he was also psycho, and threatened to kill his psychiatrist. If I go to a bar in any southern state I get groped so much I can't even stay for very long, start crying, and leave. Another time I was walking home, a few dudes wanted me to get in their car.  Another time I was swimming in a creek behind my home and this old man was adamantly taking pictures. This happened with another old man, who then tracked down my sorority and followed me on Instagram. I have a great boyfriend now, and feel very lucky. I realize in the past I have picked shitty men, but that only accounts for some of the experiences I've had. I used to place more stock in that, because it would make me the problem, rather than the world, which was easier for me to accept. Now, I don't think it's just me. Worse things have happened to almost every friend I have.

I found out my bf has a sexual relationship with sister he has 3 POF accounts also he's on other dating site accounts. He still communicating with his exes off of FB. My bf watches porn about love videos between sister and brother deep throat or anal sex.

We've been talking for around two months. He recently got out of a breakup of two years before we started talking, and we would FaceTime and hang on our breaks up until the point where I was tired of not being serious. In short he told me about a week ago that he wants to be with me but needs time to figure things out. I said okay, but I finally brought up the issue that he barely initiates and doesn't seem to care. His initial response was to snap at me and say he's busy with school and family and it pissed me off bc he seemed to want to make no effort in solving it. I told him that's ridiculous bc he does make time to hang with his friends and etc. i told him I wanted him to be there for me and text me bc he wanted to and he said "ok I'll try harder." I always tell him to be honest with me because it's dumb to sit there and say you like me with little to no actions. Coworkers tell me he talks about me but he never takes me out and is dry as hell. Should I test him to see if he tries or just stop

Like a guy liking a girls pics or vice versa. Most people I know seem to think it does.

So, me and my girlfriend like to hang out with my friend and his girlfriend. His girlfriend which me and my girlfriend had know for a while broght her friend with. She ask if she could go since we were taking a trip I said yes which I shouldn't have. My friends girlfriend and her friend doesn't like My girlfriend at all. I don't know why they don't like her they were being fake and made her sit in the back with them just so they could be mean to her. Acting like their her friend so they could torment her the whole way and it was like a 9 hour drive. My girlfriend had a bladder Issue so she has accidents sometimes and they know about it and they were making fun of her about her condition. Asking her if she wears diapers and all that noise. I told them several times to stop bothering her but they didn't listen. They even took her condition to their advantage, they poured water down in pants to make it look like she wet herself and they were like. Ewwwww she peed herself. I don't like to see them to this to her. I try to get them to stop but they won't. I like doing things with them and hanging out talking fun trips but it's not fun to see my girlfriend being made fun of and embarrassing her. She even like to hang out with them too she even ask me why they don't like her. She is always trying to fit in with them and they are just falt out mean to her all the time. How could I just get them to get along I don't know what to do about it. I just tell my girlfriend to ignore them  I just want them to stop making fun of her and making fun of her bladder issue she can't help

Should I go to bed, go outside and smoke a joint or go for a drive 

I'm so handsome and magnificent. Compared to other guys now days, I'm a prophet. My penis is decent in size, so any trolls that want to try to insult me about that can jump off a bridge. I'm polite, athletic, handsome, clean, smell good, wealthy, and pretty much anything that a girl could possibly want in a guy. I drive a 2020 BMW M8, and I could take you anywhere in the world to eat, since I can easily afford it. Why won't girls just give me a chance?

I met this girl on tinder and we hung on twice. Two weeks ago on our second outing I tried to kiss her at the end of the night on she gave me the cheek. I was confused because everything seemed to go well, she would playfully touch me, we shared each other drinks etc. Figuring she wasn't interested I stopped messaging her as much. We didn't talk for about 4 days until she messaged me on Wednesday about something I was working on.She told me she's been stressed lately and going through something personal. I asked if she would be free this weekend and she said yea she needs someone to talk to. I jokingly said she only wants to see me to be her psychiatrist and she didn't really deny it.  She said she would text me yesterday but only messaged me about an hour ago a few saying " hi , how are you, sorry I know I suck at texting" Should I give up on this one?

There's this guy I'm been friends with for a couple years. We didn't start getting close friends till last year. But one time me and my bf and friends got high. I didn't take any that day though, but my bf and all my other friends left. Except for one, and he started getting really close to me and we'll kinda took out his thing and started putting it in my face. I kept turning away and after saying to put it away a bunch of times he finally did. Then a couple minutes later we were catching and he touched me a couple times even after hitting his hand away and saying no. And well he wasn't been in our friends group in a couple months. But now he apologized and said he doesn't remember that happening. My bf and other friends said he's changed and we should give him another chance, but I don't really feel okay with it but my own bf said we should. Idk I mean he didn't r*pe me it still kinda gave me trama. Should I forgive me and be friends again even if I don't feel comfortable.

My ex viewed my Snapchat stories after we broke up and I told him I missed talking to him and he said it back. he said he didn't wanna have a relationship over the phone.  we broke up due to distance and he just wanted to be friends with benefits which I didn't think was a good idea but still agreed because I missed him. That didn't work out and I would text him a lot to meet up or just to spark up a convo and now I feel like I looked needy. Whenever we were talking he viewed my story and January I cut things off because we were arguing and I apologized then I stopped talking to him.   a week later he stopped viewing my Snapchat stories. 4 months later I posted a text convo and he viewed it out of nowhere so I knew he was curious. lately, he has been viewing all of my snaps since I went to the beach. I think it's weird he only does this when we're talking.I honestly wouldn't think anything of it if we weren't exes but we have history. Is he trying to hint to me that he misses me?I haven't talked to him in 7 months and I rlly do miss him. I posted something of my baby cousins and he viewed it in less than 30 minutes lol which was sorta obvious. I want to say something because my summer is ending and we won't get to see each other first semester. I think he might like me but idk!! Some Ppl said whoever ended it should be the one to initiate and even though he broke up, I cut off all contact 7 months ago and left him on opened. So I could I initiate a convo? And how?

Every time we go out with a group of friends she sits next to me and she can't keep her hands off of me. She's always touching my arm, hair and shoulder. She randomly gave me a valentine Pretty sure she didn't give one to anyone else. A few weeks ago she gave me a hug because we hadn't seen each other for a few weeks. I could feel everything. Yesterday I saw her for the first time in a while and she smiled and said "I haven't seen you in forever. It's good to see you. I missed you." Three and a half seconds later she said "you're supposed to say you missed me." No clue if she has a crush on me or if she's just being nice. I'm completely retarded about this stuff.

I just want to know.. What kind of man do you prefer? I notice so many girls lately want only black guys.. Even.the Asian girls I was rejected 3 times in a month Telling me im not their "type" and I asked.. What is your "type"? And they replied. Black. So do I still stand a chance?

My ex girlfriend always wore skinny jeans and a t-shirt. I told her to stop wearing them because she looks like a stripper and she is trying to show off and make other men come after me. That b*tch broke up with me. I deserve better.

This always seems to happen... I meet a girl, we date for a month or more, and when I ask about being exclusive, I get "You're a sweet guy, and I hate to do this, but I'm not feeling the spark" (or they say they need to focus on themselves). Yet, they tell me they were abused (verbally or mentally) by their exs... or sex wasn't good (and they were with the ex for 2+ years... sometimes 6 years!). They tell me their ex never held hands in public or kissed them in public. I'm into PDA, I like showing off my girl with holding hands or a quick peck or two. Yet, I do eskimo kisses or bring them a single rose and be sweet... yet I again, lose! I also write poems that rhyme! Do i need to start being a jerk? I certainly dont want to change who I am! HELP PLEASE!

I see her in them and them in her. So its super weird for me idk. And when I say her age I mean women 3-6 years younger than myself and ill soon be 27. 

Hi I am a man 36 years old, and I always will be a lonely man

He is also a good human. That was what I saw when I looked into his eyes in the past.

We have strong history, I lived with him for a couple of months and it was great. Something happened that made me start to question intentions and that led into him falling straight into a deep depression. He said he wanted to be alone as a human and a burden on no one.. and then stopped wanting to have sex although we did for the first time today, and hasn't been messaging me unless I reach out :( I know that he's not really talking to anyone. But I can't help but feel when we had sex and then I left him a care package that it hurts when he can't even say anything about it the whole day. I want to be here but I can't tell if this is him also not wanting me anymore. I don't know if I should move on or not..

Through friends, clubs, bars, charity events, dating sites, other

Last night my boyfriend had been drunk and also partaking in drugs. We had gotten an argument and he accused me of cheating on him with his friend which did not happen. He called me a liar and a bunch of other names and ended up hitting me across the face.  He has hit me Before and been physical in the past. I ended up leaving and I called the cops on him and he ended up getting arrested and taken to jail for the night until he was bailed out early this morning. I also in forced a no contact. Is there anyway to possibly have the no contact dropped and possibly maybe even the charges if I decide to do so? I would honestly like to talk to him and hear from him and see if he feels bad for his actions or cares in any way to decide whether I want to go through with the charges or not. We have been together for almost 3 years but have recently been in a rough patch. he has been drinking a lot more and partaking in drugs and I feel I've lost him. He is going in a bad path.  I really do love this guy and care for him deeply and I don't want to ruin his life but I also want him to take responsibility for his actions. We are both 21. I don't know if the relationship is worth any saving at this point. But when I saw his mug shot and booking it really broke my heart and made me sad because I could see the sadness in his eyes. I know him like the back of my hand and deeply I know he does not mean any of this. It would've never happened sober. But then again, I can only take so much thanks

Say they told you that one of their exes had herpes. They had unprotected sex with their ex while they were together and a couple months into their relationship, the ex told them they had herpes and they stayed together for another month but used protection whenever they had sex.  Say that happened a year before you started going out with them and they never bothered to get checked after the relationship with their ex ended.  Instead, they decided to put you at risk not knowing if they contracted herpes and didn't suggest using condoms every time. Say you were dumb like me and trusted them and didn't always use a condom when you had sex with them. Eight months into the relationship, they decide to get tested and get a phone call, but don't answer and never call back. No matter how much you nag them to. You don't know about any of this, not even the fact that they had sex with someone who had herpes, until almost a year into the relationship and next thing you know, they look up their test results and there it is. They had tested positive for HSV-1. I know it's the most common type, but it can still cause genital herpes. How would you feel and what would you do?

I can't understand guys what they want they hold so much in why how do you read between the lines 

In real life I'm 5,6 but in pictures I look like I'm 4,8.. in the mirror I look all big but in pictures I look like little ****

This girl and i both work together at this store. Everyday he walks by and looks at my shoes. One day i actually caught her sneak a look at them. My shoes are really comfortable and they retail for $200. I dont know if it is a sign of interest or what. I just dont get why she looks at them everyda

When this guy & I were talking, he asked for a picture of me and after I sent him a picture, he asked if it was for real and if it was really me. Why did he ask me that? he was also calling me beautiful but I don't understand why he asked me that when we were talking. A guy that I met online, he wanted to see a picture of my face and after I sent him my picture, he asked if it was for real and if it was really me. Why would he ask me that? who else could it be? 

to give you a better understanding, I don't get any likes back from women I swipe like, all the women I match with are the ones I never swiped in the first place. some of them I am interested but many I am not 

So recently I just accepted a job and today I went to training. I was walking out to leave and I was wearing heels and a really cute outfit with my hoop earrings. as I was walking out this middle age lady asked me about my training. Then she was like what day you coming back? And o told her Tuesday and she was like "why not today?" And started laughing. I didn't know the lady lol and idk if she thought I was someone else. And I'm a girl btw and I'm 18 a pretty girl at that but was this lady flirting with me or something? I felt very uncomfortable 

Last night I slept at my boyfriend's (19) house. He said he was going upstairs to take a shower and came down about 10 minutes later un-showered. I asked him why he hadn't showered and he had a somber look on his face. He said that his younger sister (16) had said something depressing. Of course I was very concerned and sympathetic but later I asked who she had said that to and he told me her "boyfriend" (they're talking). Then I ask him how he found out if she told her "boyfriend" and he revealed that he had saw on her phone. He explained that he went in to check on her (which he always does) but when he saw that she was asleep and her phone was unlocked next to her, he sat on her bed and read through her text messages with her boyfriend. I was extremely disturbed when I heard this, and expressed this to him. He said he was just looking out for her and just wanted to make sure he was treating her right (she's been in multiple abusive relationships) and that she never talks to him about that sort of thing. I am still really disgusted and creeped out by this and do not know how to react. He says now that he reflects on it, he's disappointed with himself and knows it was messed up and won't do it again, but I don't know if I can get over the fact that he would do something that weird! We have been together for three years and we've both gone through each others texts before which I have no problem with, but this situation isn't sitting right with me.

I'm a 21 year old guy and I was at a shopping mall last night to buy a coat. As I was leaving, I noticed a group of 4 girls who looked like they were about 14-15 years old and they were teasing and making fun another girl who looked about the same age. She was a bit on the heavy side. Well the girl had tears streaming down her face, so I stepped in and told the girls to piss off. I was really angry and called them a group of "sluts who should find something better to do". I gave the other girl some Kleenex, asked if she was okay and left. I don't like bullies. But was calling them "sluts" out of order? I don't know, it's been on my mind all day.

its like people have this weird preconceived notion of a black guy that is walking with a white woman or some asian or hispanic woman, that he must be banging her or destroying her tight private. why can't it just bet that I happen to be walking with her because she might be a friend, acquaintance, coworker? and there are a lot of gay black men out there with non black women friends. they have no interest in getting at them. are these weird perceptions of us based on porn or some weird fetish about black men being all well hung and women being curious about it? lol