I need a place to ask that's not social media.  I figured there's enough people on Yahoo?  We've been married close to 25 years and he told me very calmly and plainly last weekend that he's not going to spend the rest of his life with someone who doesn't love him.  I admittedly got defensive and threw a whole bunch of questions and stuff at him, but he didn't flinch.  Said he'd know if I loved him.  He said I've never been crazy about him.  I told him women don't fawn over their husbands.  He basically said he isn't going to go the rest of his life with very little sex.  He's always been horny.  I don't want to go on with this question forever, but he asked me when was the last time we had sex that wasn't completely on my schedule.  I mean he's probably thinking about sex every day, and the few times a month we do it are really really amazing.  I'm really at a loss on what to do.  He's obviously thought this through.  He said he's going to give me his half of the house, and that he's not going to contest anything about his retirement account, and that the last one's college tuition will be no problem.  I asked him why and he said isn't it obvious that I'm crazy about you? I'd ask my sisters for advice but I'm afraid I'll get judged.  They both got divorced within 10 years.

Or do they still fantasize about them? What will an so called modern wife say if some of her exes tries to return to her life for free sex after marriage by emotionally blackmailing her before as she has nothing to hide from them?

I am trying to stop smoking and my wife isn't a good support Since she smokes My health isn't looking good no motivation o energy to do anything and weight dropped

So my mom saw our neighbors daughter at the store today and she told my mom that her husband left her and when she said that I felt sad for her but she said that her marriage wasn't good but I still feel sorry for her and her kids ( her oldest kid is about 20 if not already 20 and her other one is 16 . I have had a crush on Michael the 20 year old for a long time ) but why do I feel so bad for her? Please help

I love his big cock but that's pretty much it.

When my husband drinks a little bit too much he sleep walk pees but never in the toilet. He's always worked in the food and bev industry so drinking comes with the territory. He doesn't get super drunk often but when he does he always ends up peeing in random places, corner of bedroom, laundry basket, kitchen etc... Most recently he OPENED one of my dresser drawers and peed on my clothes.  How can I train him to pee in the toilet even when drunk sleep walking? 

The background is that I got married to my step-uncle, divorced him, and then I married his daughter. He got a restraining order from the court against me (minimum 500 feet apart), but I still want to attend family events and holidays with my family and my wife. He only got the restraining order because I would stalk him and repeatedly bang on his Ford at night after we got divorced. I only wanted to talk about getting my Jeffree Star Jawbreaker eyeshadow pallet back from him not like scare him, I just left it by mistake. What can I do? Can I possibly get the order lifted and how?

When my daughter was 18, she married a man in his 40s. I was furious. I found it to be highly inappropriate. I tried to stop the wedding. I told her she was making a mistake. They've been together 5 years now and have 2 children. But still,I can't stand her husband. I find it very difficult to be in the same room as him. My daughter wants me to get along with him. She says I can't be angry forever. But as far as I'm concerned, I don't see any way to forgive him. He's a creep and he ruined my daughter's life.

My kid just recently shared photos with another relative of herself dressed up in make up and fishnet stockings and I'm disturbed. I'm very active in her life but the other parent has primary custody. The other parent and I have always had a good relationship but just recently things have gotten acrimonious between us over a financial transaction and I'm not sure how to approach them about my concerns. Also, I'm on the fence because I don't want to isolate my daughter by " narcing" on her. Advice?

Hi I am Alex My wife lived with her dad and stepmother her whole life she endured physical and emotional abuse her dad was an alcoholic her stepmother was a cruel jerk her stepmother also treated her like a servant like clean cooking scrubbing the floors and taking out the trash and being sent to her room on a regular bases she was even woken up by her stepmother at 3 am to go to bars to look for her father her father emotionally abused her when she was 18 she and I met when I found out what my wife was going through at home I took her out of that family and let her live with me and my family we got married 3 years earlier and we moved 190000 miles from my wife's family now 30 years later her past came to haunt her she still breaks down and cries about her parents not loving her during her whole childhood she never got over it somehow things will be good than BAM!!!! remember and get depressed again it wounded her very deep and she never moved on or healed from it she tried therapy but it didn't work out and she tried church but her relationship with god is constant   I have been loving and supporting towards her I allow her to sob in my arms and I tried telling her that it is going to be ok but it isn't enough for her What can I do to help her get over her past and help her move on? I mean 300 miles not 190000 3000 miles

I work in an office with 12 other women. We are all single or divorced. Our boss Bill is a 29 year old great looking single guy. Besides being our boss Bill is a good friend to all of us and just a fun person to be around. Instead of not wanting to come to work, we all enjoy our job mostly because of Bill. One day at a staff meeting one of us asked Bill, "how do I find someone rich to marry?" Bill said I don't know but if you find out, please let me know how to do it. Another one of us said, "Does that mean you would marry me if I was rich"? Bill said "if your are rich, please answer 2 questions for me. "What is your ring size and where will we go on our honeymoon". To which she replied "That is the first marriage proposal I have ever had". We ALL had a GOOD LAUGH at that conversation. Later talking to other employees about this, they told us we should not be talking to our boss like this. It shows disrespect to our boss. We thought we were just having fun. What do you think? Were we doing something wrong with our boss?

I told my girlfriend that I am ready to get married to her and I suggested that we go look at rings together because for the past year or so she has suggested that she's ready to get married too. I finally got a really good job and am financially secure and am ready to start my life with her and get married and buy a house. Well now all of a sudden, she's claiming that I'm not ready to get married and putting words into my mouth I've never even said. Then she starts arguments and fights with me and then gives me the silent treatment for days because she thinks I'm not ready to get married or that I don't want to marry her. I've explicitly told her than I want to marry her. I've never given any reason for her to doubt my commitment to her. Our relationship has been perfect up to this point and now all of a sudden she's completely changed and is gaslighting me and making me question what is going on, or if I did something wrong to hurt her that I'm unaware about. But I've literally done nothing wrong. She was so excited for me that I got a really good job because I told her once I got a good job I wanted to get married to her, and now like a month later, she's fighting with me over stuff I've never even said before and giving me silent treatment I just don't see how she has the right to say that I'M the one who's not ready to get married. That's for me to decide, because that's me making that choice for myself. She isn't me, so how can she say that I'm the one who's not ready to get married?

Hi I am Alex My wife's stepmother treated her very badly and made her be a servant abused her both physically and emotionally her father did nothing about it her dad was an alcoholic she was sent to her room on daily bases and was dragged to bars at 3 am by her stepmother to look for her dad when we first married we moved 12000 miles from them now 22 years later it is all coming back to her it haunts her regularly she has abandonment issues when her dad and stepmother would abandon her for weeks when she was a child and she cries at night I have been loving supportive understanding and patient with her I tried to get her to understand that she needs counseling but she refuses to get counseling she wonders why her parents treated her badly  How can I help comfort my with feb I taught her about love understanding and patients  Wife not deb 

Why did she have to exist? I never wanted my son to get married. It's not like I wanted him to. Why did my son have to get married? I just want him for myself :( and I hate seeing her face her voice is soft and mousy like her families. I tell my son to leave her just so that I can have my son all for myself but he won't and cut off all contact with me and moved 9000 miles away from me with his new wife I want to make my daughter in laws life a living hell just so that she can divorce my son and I can have my son all for myself I hate sharing him what do I do this is not a troll what do I do? no rude comments please

We have 3 kids who are all under 7. Also taking care of a relative at the moment. My wife and I are busy and of course "us" time is the one that suffers. We did have a discussion agreeing we have put us on the back burner and we don't want to end up divorcing. We have been doing better with being intimate as well.  I know most people will say date nights but it's almost impossible with the virus and getting away from the kids. I have been working with a therapist and listening to my wife more and not responding but taking action.  Any other advice would be appreciated as I have someone I never want to grow apart from. Thx

I have heard that every good wife loves her husband just a little bit more than her kid(s). Is this true? I feel like my own mom loves dad more because she wants to spend more time with him and they share a bed too.

My ex is with this woman, but she is still married! He wants to tell our 6 year old son that she is his girlfriend but i dont think its even right. Shes apparently leaving her husband soon, or getting him to leave her which i was first told about by my ex about 2 months ago.... she still hasn't left her husband. She also has 2 kids with this husband, the oldest is 9 years old.  My kids have met her as thier dads friend, and have met her kids too, but until shes left her husband i dont think my kids should know about their dads.... married girlfriend. Im worried its going to hurt and confuse my 6 yr old son as he still wants his dad back home, and my ex just wants to drop it on him like it's no big deal. I said we could speak to him together once hes actually official with his GF, just dropping this on him I dont think he will be okay with. He likes his dads friend but that's all she is to my son And also if my son knows and then says something to her oldest daughter.... I dont think that would go down well as her mom and dad are still together and her dad is still living at home with them. I said to my ex that the kids shouldn't know anything until hes official with her and they are in a stable relationship because it's not stable right now with what they are doing behind her husbands back.  Am i doing the right thing by telling my ex that our son shouldn't know yet and to wait until they are official?  And before anyone says I'm bitter or using my son as a weapon or I'm jealous of my ex, he was a serial cheat while with me and I am not jealous or bitter,  i never ever want him back, and I do not use my children as weapons.  I'm worried about the mess that could happen due to what his dad and his married gf is doing and the kids being in the middle of it all.