We get up around 12 in the afternoon, make coffee, smoke, drink, talk about how it's going to be, read, watch TV, eat the most delicious food imaginable, and bone each other into oblivion. We've been doing this for 8 months now so its pretty much been an 8 month honeymoon. Are you b*itches jealous?

He doesn't understand, he just said we will do it gently doesn't matter, it is an arranged marriage by both sides of our family but I don't feel comfortable and I'm really worried it will hurt a lot  It's been 8 months now 

I have been married for about 4 years, I'm 27 years old. My husband never wants to have sex, can't even remember the last time we ever did. I have no reason to believe the reason is me since I love sex and I have seduced him at times but it failed. He goes to his moms twice a week to eat dinner straight after work does not say a word to me until he gets home from his moms. He works even when he is not working. He always does something and never takes the time to spend time with me. Every time we do get to do something together, we just eat or watch the news and not say a word to each-other. He's on his phone constantly or hangs out with his cousin. I'm not even sure how to fix this marriage or get to him as he doesn't even want to go to marriage counseling. He tells me to leave the house if I'm not happy but that's not fair to me because it's my home too and I have put in so much Into this house with him. He tells me to smell his butt all of the time and calls me names when I get mad at him for doing that. He never gives me affection. This marriage is making me feel lonely and miserable. I feel burnt out. 

My ex and I separated about 3 months ago. We have a son together. He moved in with his new girlfriend just a day after I left him (drug use, cheating, never helped with bills, never even bathed our child who is 19 months now). I am going to take him to court so I can have custody of our child and he gets supervised visits. But the last couple weeks we have been sleeping together, just quick 20 mins sessions and then he goes home to his gf.  I don't want him back, he can't take care of himself what so ever he's 27. Never had a bill in his name, had his car repod he drinks and drives. He's just very immature but the sex is wonderful. So we have continued that but I worry that when it comes to taking him to court he can use that against me.?? Is that possible???? 

If you walked away from a failed or toxic relationship why does it take someone so long to file for divorce? Even when they have been happily dating someone else?

My  BF and I have two kinds under 2. He works 2nd shift and with a lot of overtime, he doesn't come home until 2 am. I have a midnight feeding and wake up between hours of 6:30-7 for feeding and 50/50 whether I can fall asleep because my child doesnt want to sleep and my other one wake ups around 8:30.  Im a stay at home who does all the mother/typical household. Im trying to find a job so their naptime is usually job hunting. He's  complaining about it to point where he locked our bedroom door and made me sleep on the couch. I understand its important but with me being tired and fear of getting pregnant again. I just cant do it. On top of the way he treats me even after we would have sex. How important is it. Why cant a guy understand that with kids and household. Women are just tired. Hes not making the living situation uncomfortable and hinting either breakup with threaten to take the kids or cheating. I live an hr away from family and my friends dont understand or have issues of their own. I feel so alone and emotionally  drain with no one to talk to

We are still married and I kept talking about divorce. Now she's the one that wants to divorce me. This is kind of a long story. We have a 16 year old son together. Hes our only child and I've always loved him more than anything in the world. I've never appreciated my wife and I've been regretting it lately after not having her around me. I left her because she was being harsh towards our son. She takes away his devices and sets curfews. I wanted to be the cool dad and I wanted him to love me more than his mom so I told him he can do whatever he wants. Me and my wife got into an argument and I told her I'm leaving and my son came along with me. After my son spent a month with me, he wanted to go back to his mother. I've been telling his mother I want a divorce. She kept trying to work it out but I didn't want to. After my son left me all alone, I started thinking. My son still loves his mom more than me and he went to go live with her instead of me. And when he turns 18, I know he's gonna be leaving us and starting his own life. That's when I knew I messed up and tried talking to my wife but she no longer cares and tells me that divorce is her only option. I tried telling her that kids will go but we should always stick together to death because in the end, we will only have each other. She still didn't want to work things out. What should I do? 

My BF asked if I would want to move in together. I said sure if it will be 2 or 3 months before getting married. He said he is not sure yet about marriage. He's the type that likes to live in the moment and not see into the future. He said the present would be living together. But is it right or wrong that I don't want to move in unless there is potential marriage? Who is at fault?

How long did it take you to file for divorce after separating? If you didn't file right after separation, what was the reason for waiting?

How did you know you weren't just going through just a bad time with your spouse verses knowing clearly you were not good for each other?

My husband and his sister have low key resentment towards their mother who was never around but now as they are adults she is competitive and fighting for attention from her adult children...believes her children should put her first before their spouses,,,,,is this a result of guilt and they are going full force to try to make up for lost time? I keep my distance only if it effects my household ...has anyone experienced this? what to do to keep sane when a mothe rin law is jealous of our new home and life while she struggles and lives with her daughter & Bitter?

My daughter married a man that treats her like a queen and moved 9000 miles away from me and left her ex husband who was abusive looks like she wants to cut ties with me for her husband  What is the best way I can track her down so that I can force her to leave her husband and get back together with her ex husband I want her to be abused I don't want her to be loved I want to ruin her life just because I couldn't get loving parents 

How long did it take you to file for divorce and why?

My wife grew up in an emotionally mentally verbally physically abusive household she was treated like trash she was reminded that she could never do anything in life she was reminded of this daily when she met me (we met when we were both 15 and started dating) she wonders why she never had loving parents and I have loving parents I told her that life is not always fair and that she can chose her friends but she can't chose her family she told me that it isn't fair that she never got loving parents and I did  What should I tell her

I know with work, kids, finances, etc it seems like marriage drops down the list on a lot of occasions. If you could tell your husband a couple things that would help you, what would it be? Or how he can show he is listening and cares. 

Me and my husband have been married three years now. Our relationship has been off and on since the beginning of our marriage due to some issues. We have been been separated multiple times throughout our marriage due to reoccurring issues from my husband's end, trouble with in-laws, financial crisis that has lead to homelessness on numerous occasions due to my husband's reckless spending habits and my job security. Our separations are usually six months apart but we always end up coming back together. But now I am getting tired of this rollercoaster ride and moving from place to place. There have been times where I have been forced to leave our home because I was unhappy and my husband refused to meet my emotional needs. I have been homeless four times throughout the course of our relationship. I need a stable life. My husband always says he's changed but eventually over time reverts back to his ways making the same mistakes over and over and over again. Our recent separation led to infidelities on both ends but we've both overcome that. Things just don't feel exactly the same like they once were but the connection is still there. My husband is dying to move back in together but for some reason I feel paranoid and scared about it. What should I do? I now have a job I have been at for awhile with work I can actually do with my mental disibility

I recently got married, but as Christians, me and my now husband had sex before we got married. Will our marriage be difficult because of that?

On Sunday (06/21) Father's Day. My husband got a message from a guy stating that he got a paternity test done on his girlfriends baby and he wasn't the father and he too had sex with her around the time she had gotten pregnant but he suspected it might be my husbands. Alittle back story a few years ago (before he knew me) my husband was a drug addict, mainly hooked on heroin and he met this girl at a rehab house and had sex with her in an alley way high in heroin. After the incident she told him she is pregnant with his baby and then one day out of the blue says he's not yours bye &my husband left it at that until on Sunday he received a message from the girls now ex boyfriend that he was not the father and the "only other person" would be my husband which cant be certain for she was on dope too. Anyways this has been on my mind heavy for the past few days. I remember him telling me this situation when we first got together a year ago but it slipped my mind until now. The picture of the child does sorta look like my husband but I think it's my mind playing tricks on me because I don't want it to be true. My husband said he doesn't care to know because it was a mistake on his part years ago. But it just bothers me knowing he randomly just had sex and possibly got someone he doesn't even know pregnant. We have one child together whom is 2 months but it bothers me knowing if that child from that other woman could possibly be his. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

My BF and I have been dating for 8 months. He says he loves me very much. I wonder if not enough though because he said "I did not see the future". But he still wants to date? I'm confused because last week he said I'm the best person in his life.

I had an arranged marriage and I am happily married with my beautiful amazing husband for 22 years and we are still happy my parents gave me the best gift of all time and he is a cutie all the men I had crushes were wrong ones but my parents chose the best one I am so happy  Is anyone else happy with their arranged marriage? He is my other half as well it is like my parents read my mind 

My mom wants me all for herself she wants to be the only women in my life but i refuse to divorce my wife I want to spend the rest of my life with my wife and have children and grow old with her how can i force my mother to let me grow old with my wife and spend the rest of my life with her 

So my dad likes my boyfriend and says he's a nice guy but during the virus he got laid off from his job. He's planning to get a different job for 30+ hours a week. My dad isn't happy he's not working as much and won't approve of the marriage unless he gets a full time job on the spot with benefits. These days it's hard to get full time cause most low class jobs only hire part time. My mom on the other hand will never let our marriage be legal no matter what we do. I'm sure she doesn't like my boyfriend. So if I go ahead and get married my mom will cause trouble cause she always does. Another thing they did was said they would pay for all of the honeymoon and 3/4 of the wedding costs but only if we fixed the issue but my mom will never approve. I think it's wrong they're holding money over my head like that. But my fiancé's family approves of us getting married and supports us. They say it's our life and we have to live it and if it's a mistake then we learn from it. So we decided to have a wedding next September and just not tell my family at all. Is this a good idea? I really love him. I'm 34 by the way and I've been with him for 5 years now. Update: please read carefully. I'm not the one laid off. I've worked hard my whole life. I'm working 11 days straight a lot before a day off and loads of hours. My family is concerned I'll work so much and get tired and he won't help bring money in

We met 2 years ago. The first year, things were amazing and he was clean and dressed nicely and took showers regularly, even brushed his teeth twice a day. After a year of caring, he suddenly just stopped. He smells awful now. He wears the most ugliest outfits and he doesn't shower at all. He goes out with oily hair and crappy clothes. I feel so embarrassed when I'm going shopping with him because he always looks disgusting. His teeth have gotten so yellow and he never lays his hand on a toothbrush. His body odor gets in the way and I can't handle sitting with him for more than 20 minutes. I get disguted when he tries to get me to sleep with him cause I know he hasn't showered in days. When he lifts his arms, it smells like skunk sprayed all over them. He wears the most ugliest outfits he finds when we go out. I had a talk with him and he keeps saying hes a man and hes allowed to be that way. He tries to point out my flaws and tells me I'm not perfect. I know I'm not but I take care of my hygiene and take showers and even dress nicely. He wears short shirts and hes overweight so it doesnt look good at all. I try to tell him but he turns on me. I cant live with a man like this forever. I love him but he disgusts me now. I can't imagine a future with a man who smells and dresses like crap. He gets mad when I dont want to kiss him. His breth kills me. Is this a good reason to leave? I always try to avoid getting sexual or romantic with him. He gets so frustrated and I tell him why but he doesn't want to listen. I just can't stand it. 

If a man in good shape marries a thin woman.  Years latter he is still in good shape but she fat should that be a good reason to divorce her?  I think it is.  If she really loved me and wanted to make me happy she would had works off the weight.  I stayed thin. Why can't she.  I didn't sign up for this. I plan to leave her and find someone else.  I'm just not attracted to fat women.

 So, whats the benefit of love marriage if it has less durability then arranged marriage where both the couple tries hard to save their marriage with necessary adjustments and sacrifice? Then, is love a game for such so called modern people for whom sleeping around in the name of love is not a big thing?