If it doesn't work out, the laws are all against the men, especially if there are children involved. There is zero benefit to a man getting married. 1 out of 2 get divorced. Why take that risk? Why? It truly boggles my mind that men still get married in our modern. Men need to work hard in their careers, focus on their career, and worry about themselves. The world is a mans oyster if they are hard working and successful. Why destroy that with the chance of marriage. I just had a hot 4some with three hot women at the same time. I date women and never have the intentions of marrying them. I treat them like crap because that's what women like. Women don't have sex with nice guys. Women only have sex with men who treat them like crap.

I caused my wife to have a miscarriage due to my abuse. We are trying to work on being together now that I have changed. Do you think a woman could ever fully feel comfortable with a man the same as before that kind of abuse? 

If two people of the same sex can marry because love knows no boundaries then why can't relatives marry?  If they love each other then why not? Remember love ❤️ knows boundaries  As far as genetic issues if one of them agreed to be sterilize then couldn't a brother marry his sister?

All of my ex girlfriends claim that I'm a massive jerk because I am married with children and loyal to my wife. How does that make any sense

 so we got married  in January  2020 a.d we moved into a new house   a.y need help so his family  movied in and they do them recently  hes been using the bathroom  alot  . [ he did drugs  in bathroom) before  now he go's to bath alot more now and i found stuff  he denied it. how do i find out cuse he'll  lie to keep me around 

Our sex life has sucked. We have young kids so I don't expect it to be good but it's bad. A couple weeks ago my wife suggested scheduling sex at least every other week. We did it that night and it was great. Recently we talked and she said she agrees we need to do better but she's tired a lot. We got interrupted by someone so couldn't finish the convo. I'm just hurt and upset. I don't know why to do as I can't do another 6 months without any. 

And in college educated marriages, women initiate divorce at a whopping 90 percent of the time. Why would a guy marry a college educated woman if 50 percent of marriages end in divorce and 90 percent of the time, it's out of his control. So basically he has a 45 percent chance of getting divorced when entering a marriage with a woman he loves against his desire.

How can you help someone overcome abuse when you were the abuser? In my addiction I was verbally and physically abusive towards my wife. I hurt her badly. Her self esteem still suffers, and she is still coping with the miscarriage caused by my harm. I have told her since I've gotten better and apologized that she can leave and I wouldn't stop her. She has chosen to give our marriage a change now that I'm sober. She still shudders when I go to touch her. She is fearful when it comes to sex, and age over apologizes for everything. How can I help her be comfortable with me again? 

Our daughter is ten years old and has been riding since she was three. She competes in eventing and wins apparently she wants to compete in the olympics when she is older. My ex husband who I divorced six years ago makes a very good living and she lives with him a majority of the time and visits me every six weeks despite we both live in Florida and I live only two hours away from her Father. She says to me she loves living with her father and loves her step mom. She hasn't said I love you once to her my husband her step father. I saw posted on her facebook. A picture of her riding a pony. It was captioned Thanks Dad for all your support in my riding and after riding (pony's name) for four months he's mine! Her father liked the post. I was infuriated seeing this. I feel like he is trying to show me up.

And please elaborate on your answer too thank you

There was a question on Facebook basically asking why doesn't our current generation take marriage serious or have marriage as a goal in life. I'm a 21 year old gay male and I've never felt that marriage was ever necessary. I've also never thought romantic relationships were necessary, I don't ever need a partner or a soulmate. I'm only attracted to men for friendships and sex and that's it. I don't have the ability to have feelings for a man and I've never seen a relationship as something important. People make marriage to be the gold standard of how people should live life. I don't want to have kids, people make it a thing that everybody has to reproduce but not everybody is capable of raising a child. Reproducing isn't just creating a baby, that baby has to be cared for and raised until they're 18, not every person walking on this planet is capable of providing a life for a child. I'm going to college to get my degree in psychology, I'm working a full time job and when I get my degree I'm probably going to be working in a career field that requires a lot more time and work so I wouldn't even have the time of day for a partner or kids. So not everybody has to get married, people are entitled to do what they want in life and do whats best for them individually.

With the Covid crisis still going strong my wife is one who feels that I'm supposed to keep her entertained since we're both working from home. Yesterday after she got off work she comes walking into the bedroom where I'm working and lays across the bed and looks at me till I was done with my call. She said that she was bored and had nothing to do. She likes to read but wasn't in the mood to read a book. She's tired of that. I told her she needed to get a hobby, something she likes to do to occupy her time. Me, I love working with wood. I took that after my dad. I'm in the process of making my mom a butcher block cutting board so the past few weeks have been filled with me looking at hardwoods, buying tools, and supplies to begin this next project. I can spend 5 hours in my workshop and it'll only feel like I've done 20 minutes of work. My wife is not a creative thinker so she has a problem coming up with anything she likes to do. I honestly do not want to sit and keep her entertained all the time so she can feel happy. I've made suggestions but she isn't willing to invest any money into something she might like. Everything to her is supposed to be free. She thinks that we should always want to go to the park together, go have a picnic together, or just go take a walk together. You pick up what I'm laying down? I'm supposed to keep her entertained. I have my hobbies that I like to do outside of her but how do I help her find what she likes to do? In the 16 years since we've been together she's never really shown any interest in anything other than things we can go together.  Again, I don't want to be up under her all the time.  Every couple needs space and time away from each other, am I wrong?

I really have this desire to be a mother and I want many children and I also want to be a wife. Where can I find a man who will be a loving, caring and wonderful husband?

My wife and I have been together for 3 years, married for almost 3 months. We used to have amazing sex, but now it seems like everytime the mood changes I get very anxious about ejaculating too quickly, which in fact causes me to not even get hard. Then my mind spirals down to "what if she leaves me for someone better?" And just jumps to the worse case scenario. Anyone have any advice?  Also side note, I've been diagnosed with depression and anxiety but she's not the most understanding of it

Do you think marriage is necessary in a committed relationship? Why or why not?

My parents were emotionally physically verbally and mentally abusive I was treated like trash I was told I could never do anything in life I was reminded of this daily I left home at 18 I am happily married to a wonderful beautiful amazing husband and I have my own children and grandchildren and great grandchildren but I want my husband to help fill that void of not having loving parents I want him to fill the void How can I get him to fill the void of not having loving parents 

We have kids and life is tough and she's tired. We split duties but she is the planner. She's an excellent mom and person. Our sex life is not there. Randomly last week she was in the mood so of course she got her way with me. Lol.   She then said she knows this is an issue with her marriage and wants to try more.  However for her she got some and then she's satisfied for a while when the next day I want more. I don't show her that but instead help her be nice to her rub her back and all not expecting anything. But who knows when she will be in the mood again.  I just want to understand more how you all operate as us guys it's basically her making one move and I'm all hers. 

How can she ask her husband to lose his virginity to her even though she gave it to others?

I got an arranged marriage and I am very happy with him I fell in love during my arranged marriage and my husband fell in love with me I am happily married for 21 years is anyone else happy with their arranged marriage 

He is remarried now. We have not seen his ex in 8 years but I remain seriously attracted to her.

A couple is struggling in their relationship. The female doesn't have many friends to talk to about any issues. Her man finds that she has been talking to an ex from 30 yrs ago. She says that the ex wrote her and that it was one conversation but the messages are deleted. Two weeks later the man finds out that the woman and X are talking. He finds a few messages between the woman and X. I'm those messages there are good morning texts w a clean selfie. She mentions her man and says that she doesn't feel like her relationship is worth staying anymore and then apologizes for bringing him up. There are a few other days w "good morning, have a great day!" texts w selfies attached but most messages had been deleted. She says that she reached out to him to have an unbiased opinion of issues that she and her man were having. He believes that she has an interest in the X.  What do you make of it all? I don't know that it matters but the X is single. 

Diring the divorce

I watched a season of Married At First Sight. After the honeymoon, the couples live together for 8 weeks, then decide if they want to stay married or divorce. One of the brides revealed that she was a virgin. She wanted to get to know her husband before consumating the marriage because she didn't feel comfortable having sex with a stranger, thus they didn't have sex during those 8 weeks. On decision day, even though she and her husband both felt they were very compatible, the husband chose to divorce her because she was sexually inexperienced. This is baffling. He threw away the most beautiful gift a woman could give her husband.