So my Mom is the type of person who expects the world to revolve around her. She doesn't work because she inherited my father's properties and lives off the passive income. She is what I describe as a nightmare for anyone who works in customer service and people remember her because of her obnoxious behavior whether it's in a store or a bank because she always wants her way. She is still my mother and I am supposed to respect her and I have flaws too and one of them is my temper and how I speak without thinking with no filters. Last night she asked me to grab one of the bags in the backyard and throw it in the waste bin. She didn't tell me which one and they were both tied so I grabbed one and she was so upset I didn't grab the one she wanted and told me it was common sense as she expected me to read her mind. Already having a short temper you can see where this is heading. I asked her why are both of them tied and she arrongantly told me "you want to know why it was tied?" It quickly came out of my mouth without thinking and I told her "yeah so it doesn't shoot up your @ss." She was kind of shocked but kind of laughed at my answer and our neighbors heard the whole conversation. She got her way in the end but she didn't like my attitude. I did feel bad in the end but it's frustraiting to have to deal with someone who is self centered and always complaining about the small things in life. That doesn't justify my behavior and I am still working on my tone and way of using words

I'm 25 and they begged me to move into their house with them so they can have their 3 yr old grandson close to them who has autism I work and help them out with bills and rent but all they do is complain that my son makes mess or jumps around because of his autism which he can't help and my dad wants to charge me double rent because of my son and shouts at him and threatens to kick me out if he don't get double rent or if my son not quiet

I'm 24 and my mom literally came over my House getting DRUNK shaking her *** in front of my baby father and HER fiance. My sister even recorded the video on facebook live. I was embarrassed! Was she being inappropriate ? WHAT mom shake her *** in front of their DAUGHTER boyfriend AND her fiance?

I have a problem. I'm not talking about COVID-19, I am talking about somewhere that I wanted to go my whole life as it obviously won't be this year but the problem is, my family has 3 houses, and 2 Country Clubs, which we are very busy people, which can be tricky. In a couple of years, I wanted to go somewhere that I told my Dad that I wanted for me to take me to. Those are problems. He told me, "We'll go back," and I asked him again 2 weeks ago that if he was going to go to this place with me, and he said not even next year because of our Beach house, and our other house, and Home main. I asked him if he'd be ready in 2 years from now. He said maybe. I am dying to go to this place. About a week ago, I pulled out a magazine of a picture of a place we went last year he told me we will go back I did not tell him where I told him I wanted to go because my Mom was in the room. (I have been there, done that.) My Mom does not want to go to this place. But I do! My Dad has the money. He said he was going to take me to this place someday. If I wanted to ask him if I did, how should I tell him again that I wanted to go to this place? How do I ask my Dad again if he will take me if I am dying to go?

My sister in law hates me. No reason at all just dislikes any ideas why 

I live with my only mom so it just me and her. She always yelling at me for the stupidest stuff. Literally, she always argues with me like I did something. She always said that i'm lazy but I clean my bathroom, draws stuff when i'm bored, did my laundry, pass my grades, took out the trash, and she still talking about that im lazy. Like what do you want me to do? There a virus going around and people are dying and she still had the nerves to fuss at me. Like this Spring I been coughing and having a sore throat and this time right now I feel like she to do this again cause no it not fun. Like we in this quarantine and she still have the nerves to said I didn't do nothing at all. Like i'm stressed out about this and well I do love her but sometimes I just can't deal with this. Can you help me about this? Btw i'm 17. She then going to compare me with other people like no i don't care what other people think, i'm being myself, im being me.

I am 37 male and only recently I have realized to try to get closer with some family cousins. Well I have a younger cousin who is 28 but he lives across the country now and we only have contact through social media and see each other once a year at family Christmas. Well when we were younger because of the age gap and interests we didn't spend much time together or know each other. Well now that we are adults and I reach out to him, he just answers questions but never shows a real desire to get to know me on a personable level. It's very surface. Why is this? We have each other on social media however. 

People are going to think that this is a troll but this is not I had to get this out of my chest I was emotionally mentally verbally physically abused by my parents I was treated like trash I was told that I will never succeed in life I was reminded of this daily my parents always favored my siblings over me and forgo that I ever existed I ran away when I was 16 nobody was looking for me I also started cutting myself at 14 years old now many years later I am happily married to my husband who loves me unconditionally and i love his family but it isn't enough I will never be satisfied with  what i have I want my parents to love me now or I will make my entire families life hell my husband told me that I can never get my parents to love me I don't have my parents love I will never get my parents love I need to get over it and move on now but I refuse to believe that I want my parents to love me within 2 month or else I will make my families life hell I will never let them rest until I make my parents love me  How can I force my parents to love me right now 

It makes me horribly embarrassed to even write this knowing what people think of incest, but I want to be with my grandpa forever. Normally people might say that just means I love my grandfather a bunch, but it's more than that. I want his passionate side. I want him to love me, cuddle me and hold me. I want to be held in his arms as he would a wife and to share our nights together. Whenever I think of a future with a person I love, adore and feel safe with it's my grandpa. I've tried thinking of guys my own age to be into, but for some reason I don't find them attractive at all. The last few day's I tried masturbating to older more mature men closer to my grandpas age, but without an emotional connection it feels like **** and my mind returns back to my grandpa before my mind blank's out and I climax. It's made me depressed knowing that I desire the impossible as I'm sure he would never accept my feelings. The last few days I've felt like a bus should run me over and end this nightmare that's tearing me apart. I can't stop thinking of when I was 14 and suggested I wanted to marry him and he thought it was funny. He didn't understand my actual feelings and know telling him now would be a bad idea. Dread comes over me writing this again, but I feel like such a wreak that I'm ready to spill everything to him. I just don't know what I should do or how to move forward. It feels like I'm a freak and that everyone hates me or would if they knew this part of me. What do i do?

Can someone please help me, I'm 16 years old and muslim, I know allah will always punish those who wrong others but my father who abandoned me when my mother was pregnant with me is a published doctor right now, if all he did was leave me i would be able to forgive him, but he couldn't just do that, he has literally 9 other kids who he spends every day with, he spoils them with villas and unnecessary stuff they don't need while I'm forgotten, that hurts but it would still be okay if that's all he did. Years ago we got robbed in london, of literally everything we had, the police refused to help us and the hotel that we were staying at couldn't help either, we lost our passports, our ids, thousands of dollars, everything that verified who we were, when we were trying to make a new passport i had to get my father's signature since I'm still underage (and my parents never divorced in court so no one has custody papers over me legally) and he refused, I spent nights bombarding him with phone calls and emails bcs if he didn't sign the agency would get suspicious and take me away from my mother, where i would be in foster care (keep in mind my mother is very healthy and we have a great life so there was no need for me to leave) he KNEW that and yet he didn't help, until my mom offered to pay him 500 dollars of a donation some kind stranger gave us.  I hate him, he's done so much worse as well and i always ask when he'll be punished for this ****, but i can't find a single answer  It's been so long and yet he still thrives everyday, while i suffer for what he's done to me, it still kills me every day and i believe in allah but now it's hard to see that I'll get my justice, someone please tell me why this is happening, it kills me everyday and it's stunted my emotional growth as a human being, will he ever be punished for the things he's done or rather hasn't? he's also lied to me and my mother a shite ton of times just to get our hopes up only to destroy us.  the worst thing he's done was when I was 8, it was eid, and it was the first time I've ever met him, he called me earlier that day and told me we'd be taking a drive to my grandma's house, i was so excited, i was so happy when he came and picked me up, we didn't end up going to my grandma's house though, it was my uncle's (not a problem atm but i would later find out my grandma didn't even know i existed at the time) he said he'd come pick me up the next day, and man i was so excited  I waited for hours for him outside my house sitting on the curb, from 9 am to 10 pm, i slept and ate at that curb, my family would do rounds on me to tell me he wasn't coming, it was still eid, i refused to believe them and i sat there in the sun burning for hours, i had so much hope, i believed in him, then at 10 pm they told me he left the country earlier that day, it hurt so bad i didnt even cry, i sat there betrayed for the first time in my life, i still cry about it to this day.  someone please give me hope, I'm finding it hard to even eat anymore, i feel so betrayed and thrown out, even my mother wont acknowledge my pain because "I'm a man" i love her to death but she just makes things worse, and my friends just make a joke out of it, or say things I've heard a million times, please give me even the slightest bit of hope that all this suffering on my end will cause him pain later on. 

There was a post on here after info on a person. But the post is over 10 years old. I can't reply to the question probably because it is so old Any idea

My dad has Parkinson's. Has no real use of his arms, and legs, though he tries to stand many times in the day from his wheelchair just to fall to the floor. He has to have medicine, food, and water administered to him throughout the day. Along with having his diapers changed. He has dementia and hallucinations, mostly just talking to himself. My dad only progressed to this low state within the past year, so all us kids still have a hard time with the fact, as it's still fresh. I feel like I can barely look at my dad anymore. I feel horrible about it, but my insides can't accept that that's my dad. Anyway, my mom loves going on trips every year and plans them throughout the whole year, just her main joy in life right now besides grand kids. She now expects us to watch my dad while she goes on her upcoming trip to Vegas and is mad that none of us seem to want to. My husband and I are living in her home rent free, so she's using that over our head now saying we shouldn't fight doing it because we don't pay to live there. We watch him a few hours everyday as is while she runs her errands, but never feeding or changing diapers. And my husband is the only one that can lift him off the ground when he falls throughout the day. I'm pregnant and honestly just can't do it, and the thought of changing my own dads diapers seems mentally disturbing to me. My other two siblings that she's mad at for not wanting to help live in their own homes with three small kids each. My mom is good at the guilt trips so I feel really guilty for not feeling able to do this, but is this right that my mom is expecting this of us all? What is the right thing to do here? Are kids supposed to do this type of thing for their parents when they get old? I'm just very conflicted about right and wrong here, as I've never had a parent in this state before. The doctors suggest hospice care but my mom refuses...

Occasionally my mother will nag me about what I wear and will say rude things about my body. For example, once I was reaching for a item that was on a very high shelf in my house, my mother saw my stomach and said my stomach was disgusting. Why does she keep saying things like this? I am not overweight at all but I am not very thin either, so I don't understand why she keeps insulting my appearance and she weighs much more than me. Thanks for the answers, I feel better now.

Every time something bad happens, my sister & mother always put the blame on me (Even when there is no proof.) and when I defend myself, they start screaming at me, cussing, & say horrible things about me. What should I do? everyday they try to find something negative about me and when they can't find any problems, they purposely cause problems by accusing me and blaming me for things. When I try talking to them & mention how they treat me, they say things like ''If you don't want to be treated like that, then just leave'' and they never apologise for any of this either. 

Let's say that a close relative offended you by telling you not to come visit the relative. So you don't go visit the relative. So the relative asks if they did anything to offend you. Well of course the relative caused offense.  But if you tell the relative that instructing you not to visit was offensive, the relative will blow up at you. No-win situation, right? The relative told me that I should "take a break" from visits with the relative.  It wasn't a rejection for a specific visit at a specific time.