My BFF told me that she hates and can't tolerate my husband because he is a republican and he is not welcome to come to her parties, but I can.

My son works out of state & leaves his wife of 11 years at home with their 5 children. He has a child with a first wife. His wife found texts and photos $ let him know that she had found out about the woman. He has not left his wife but he is acting like a different person & still very sneaky. He just returned to the other state again and flies back and forth to be with his wife and kids. She is afraid he is still being unfaithful. She wants me to talk to him and find out what is going on, and to tell him she s about to give up on him. I however I do not feel like that is my place. I will say something to him and I have suffered the same thing by his own father, and although I refuse to take sides I completely understand the pain she is in. She deserves truth, faithfulness, and for him to either stay away or come home and save their marriage and family. She is a very strong person and although I know that this is breaking her heart, she will give him hell if he doesn t man up about everything. I need to know what I should do for he, she, and my precious grandchildren. I m going to be there for them now even more, and I will stand up for them no matter what they are innocents. This is something that I also went through my own mother marrying 6 times, and after the age of 2 I only got to see my birth father but only 5 times in my entire life before he passed away in 2016. Thank you for your advice, prayers, and any links you have to share. Sincerely, A Mother

I am Japanese and recently got married with French! (I go to French school after work!) His brother and his girlfriend have been unfriendly to me for more than 2 years. - She did not thank me for a Christmas gift from me. - Because I texted his brother "I am sad that they are not willing to talk to me though I fly to France from Japan." 2 years ago, she had been feeling I am very a rude person and did not like they way I texted to him. 
 - etc The last visit to France(for announce of marriage) was a very firs time for me to be able to talk a bit with him in French. And I called his girlfriend and said things like "Let's let everything go and why don't we just be friends or at least to be able to talk? ", but she could not stay calm. Because of all the these issues, our marriage was pushed, and we stopped planning the wedding ceremony for a while. (His family wants me to clear everything about her, and sincerely invite her to our wedding (which is hard for my feeling honestly)) My husband had talked to them saying be nice, respectful, and simply they cannot behave like that to a foreigner to them. His mom recently talked to his brother's gf and said "her behavior impacted on us in many ways", so she texted me saying "if she is not friendly, sorry. Its all because she was feeling bad to leave their house, and SHE DOES NOT FEEL GOOD TO SPEAK ENGLISH." How would it be possible for me to be able to feel ok?

My dad found my mother's faceb history for the last 2 years and my mom has been stalking a male coworker his wife and his daughter on Facebook incessantly for the last 2 years. Sometimes 10-15 times in a row in the matter of 20 minutes. More so his wife than anyone else and my dad counted the times. She stalked her coworker 360 times, his wife 719 times and his daughter 75 times in the last 3 months. Is this normal or do you think my moms cheating on my dad

While we were together for 6 years my ex wife had a very low sex drive. So low that it was a major factor in our breakup. After we broke up, at one point she was very vindictive and mean, texted me sexually explicit pictures of her with other guys and gave me lots of details of her new sex life. She now apparently is a nympho, having threesomes with two guys, into deepthroating while her hands and tied and while wearing a collar and leash, into anal intercourse and basically trying to sleep with as many guys as she can. This all has utterly destroyed my confidence to try again. Is it me, am I abysmally horrible in bed? We had a very loving, involved relationship, close emotional bond, just packed sex. Why would she change so much? What is wrong with me???

My bf has a foot fetish that he hasn't admitted to. When we first got together he asked for a pic of my feet after I told him I got my nails done. Then during intimate moments he wanted a foot job. About 5 months ago I saw him texting a guy friend and they were talking about this girl in a video's feet where she was showing her feet. The text said "Man I'd love to get a foot job"..... I questioned it and the texts were gone and he said he doesn't know what it was because the texts aren't there. Also he said maybe he got an "accidental" text convo sent to his phone because he's not the only person in the world who might "possibly" be into that Should I break up with him?

Two women in particular come to mind when I say this: my crush, and a family member. The family member's husband and my family member try to play cutesy games. They try to talk from time to time in a foreign language that I also speak. She says that they do it so she can keep her proficiency in the language for work. When I hear her talk in it that language, it's not exactly anything complex. A person in their second year of that language could easily get it. It feels like she's looking for an excuse to talk with an exaggerated accent and pretend like she is proficient. Everything she does feels like it exists because she's trying to match her mannerisms and being to the image she has in her head of love filled marriage. Not that she doesn't have that, but why is she trying to convince herself of that? Her husband plays along, and I gather that she expects him to. In the case of my crush, it's all her bf. He'll find any excuse to playfully say "hey she's mine" while she's there. He knows I like her too (started prior to them dating), and he'll try to be a little extra caring to her when all three of us are in the same proximity at work. It's like he's trying to make her feel good, and tell me off at the same time. He's not the least bit intimidating though. Again, it's like he's trying to imitate archetypical purity without the credentials to do it unconsciously/naturally. So, do women like this??? Are some women so desperate for the peace of mind that they've found som1 I'm glad you have that confidence. I don't know if my sister does or does not have that in her relationship. I know my crush has been mistreated (not physically to my knowledge) by her previous boyfriends, and she did not get the love from her father that she wanted when she was younger. When I last spoke to her on a regular basis, she was utterly miserable, hated her place in life with her career, her love life, and her spiritual life. I wonder if the new bf is giving her that...kinda

we had a fight a week ago, we went to her mother place she had to pick some stuff from their and i was waiting outside in the car.. shd took little more time to comeback and when she came back i shouted on her.. she also started and this convert into fight.. she said middle of our journey thay she doesnt want to live with me and ask me to drop her mother place. i ask her to come home then we will sort it out but she already lost her temper and when we reached home she locked her in the room and call for the cab and went to her mother place. i ask her to stop and not go but she refused. suddenly she blocked me from all her social media accounts like FB WhatsApp etc but after couple of days she unblock me and video call me when i recieved the call so it was my daughter on the call who is only 3 years old. i talked to my daughter politely .. she were saying plz come i miss you dad.. have you eat the food etc.. i know it was my wife who is inquiring cz my daughter is to small for this kind of questions .. anyways after that she blocked me again.. and few hours later she unblocked me again.. next day she called me again same things happen.. my daughter talked to me .. after hang up she blocked me then few hours later she unblocked me.. i texted her if you want to talk so please talk.. thinhs will be sort.. we love each other i know but she didnt respond.. i am confused what to do. its not happen first time many time she went her mother place after 2 to 3 days she come back.

I don't want to be married legally but I want spousal benefits when my partner of 5 years is in the hospital. Could I get married abroad and not inform anyone or any entity unless I need the document for the rights. Could that work?

I have three kids, two from a previous relationship. I was having the conversation with him that I wanted to add our baby to the names I already have tattooed. He asked me if I would add his son. I said I hadn t thought about it, knowing I already decided against it in my own mind. I just don t know how to tell him I m not going to.

Argument went further than it should have, he threw me out of his home and took my car he gave me. I found out I was pregnant a week later (the irony). I tell him about the pregnancy, he doesn't say anything other than," how did my mom respond and what made me check"..its been an entire week and he hasn't said a word to me about it or anything for that matter. We are suppose to have counseling tomorrow and he did show up for the one last week, says he doesn't know if he's coming this week. I would like him to tell me because I was going to go to the beach instead. Should i just go to the beach anyway or wait around and see if he's going to mention counseling..i feel so tricked he spoke of marriage and kids but now that this is happening...no words

He's married. I have a boyfriend. We met 2 and half years ago and have been off and off before he got married. The last year and a half we have been seeing each other. He says he loves me. His marriage is on the rocks. I love him with all my heart. His wife saw messages on his fone that he sent to me. A month later she messaged me asking abt it which I denied. She then told me that she is pregnant with another baby. He says it can't be true but he doesn't know because she hasn't spoken to him about it, they barely talk. They apparently slepe in separate rooms. She refuses him to see mother and sister and his older son. He says he needs to be stable first before he leaves her. But he says that we should get a place together and make it work coz he loves me and wants to be with me. He says that she lied about the pregnancy because she wants to put me off the relationship because he lived in the same house as her and she never told him. What do i do? I love him, but what is she really is pregnant? If she was, she wouldn't have kicked him out and would have made things work. He lived with her and her family and her family chased him out the house with his clothes in bags. Please don't judge me, live has no control. I want to leave my bf, I'm with him for 9 years, not happy. He is abusive and refuses to get married. He takes care of the home but always hurts me physically and emotionally. Please give me advice or your opinions. I don't know what to do

Assume the husband admits and acknowledges himself, that he has a relatively low sex drive. He does have sex with his wife any time he wants, because his wife has a high sex drive and enjoys sex anytime. Assume wife also meets his emotional needs and gives him love in the way he wants to receive it, i.e. acts of service and quality time. IF this man is presented with an opportunity to cheat, say another woman starts giving him attention, what is the likelihood that he would actually cheat?

If you can't even have commitment to a man and have a stable marriage or relationship with him, how are you going to raise a child with any effectiveness? Raising a child is the ultimate act of selflessness and you aren't even selfless enough to have a stable relationship with the man you had your child with. Talk about immaturity. And don't say what if the man left and it's not the woman's fault. Well it still is the woman's fault because she could have chosen a more loyal partner and vetted him and gotten to know him better before having kids with him. There are plenty of guys who are ride or die guys who are fiercely loyal to their wives. And there's also a lot who aren't. It's the woman's job to choose the best partner you are most compatible with. Not just "meh" he's kinda compatible, or eh he's cute I'll have his kid. Having kids is a serious thing and many women just have kids with any random dude who they think is cute

I've been married to my husband for two months. Last night I found out he has a secret Instagram account. On this account he follows nobody but half naked so called "models" who post twerk videos etc. He didn't tell me about this new account, I happened to find it by mistake, and it only was created 3 or 4 weeks ago. He has also been extra secretive with his phone lately. I confronted him about it and he said he created it for viewing pleasure only and his only intention was to create a new account where he can follow naked girls. I don't believe him and this really feels to me like a a gateway to him one day cheating on me. He is doing this now, what is he going to do in two years time? I feel so stupid and I don't know what to do. Side note: I was not snooping through his phone or looking at it without consent or permission.

I have a LOT of skeletons in my closet and have done as much as I can to distance myself from the person I was growing up. My girlfriend now is someone that means the world to me and that I want to believe is understanding. I won't go too into it but growing up I didn't really have a stable environment and my friends were the people I spent a lot of the time with when I couldn't be home. Their families were "street" and growing I did a lot of things to survive and prove myself. I never got caught up in jail or drugs and apart from a few tattoos in my T-Shirt region there isn't much of anything permanent. Anyway, she's been wanting to meet my family and she's been asking questions about me and my life. She comes from a stable family with both parents and has never been through anything that I have. Point is, she's asking questions now and I don't know what to do. I know I can't keep dodging her forever, so should I just be bluntly open?

I'm 26 and will start med school in sept. My younger sister doesn't have a bf. But, we are 4 years apart and is saying if she gets someone that's serious about her now, she will get married before I finish. Which means if I get married first, I won't have a job if she finds someone before I finish school; we are both single now. But, she's never dated ever! If I'm in school and have no job to the point that I can't get a cheeseburger without my husband leaving money for it

I have known my husband for 15 years and been married for 2 years. He have raised my older son most of his life. There was an argument between them two over some damm coffee for 3 months. His been a teenager and thanks god he have never be in any trouble with the law now , all of a sudden he stop giving me money so when i ask what's going on , he told me his not going to give me his money to feed my son but he expect me to have sex with him but i haven't for the same 4 weeks and he is calling me unfair.

so my question is does he not love me? He says he loves me but he acts weird sometimes. we have been together since I was 19. I am 27 and he's 35. He has three kids by two women. My boyfriend was like " I feel like someone with your dad's chill personality is more suited for you because I'm not chill and my anger is sometimes unstable." He has a habit of getting mad over small stuff sometimes but He can go to therapy for his mental issues. I truly feel like his heart is in the right place he just struggles mentally. I have anxiety problems so i'm not going to break up with him because of his anger. I love him and we have a lot of history and memories together and there has been a lot of hard times but I'm TRYING to make it work. I don't want to be that girl that gives up. I don't want to be a statistic. I always wanted to show everyone that love is real and we can make it work. my boyfriend was like " who i am is hard to change and i think your insecurities keep you with me and you're mostly thinking about the future we had planned more than the love". he doesn't even make sense? what his deal?