He has been living separate from his wife for years. They have a decent relationship and two teenagers. He had told me they were going to get divorced, even showed me the divorce filing. Now he said the kids are going through rough years, so he and his ex will just keep the status quo of living separate lives (but not divorce). I said this is not for me and I cut contact but I miss him. I wonder if I made the right choice. We are both late thirties. I'm not sure if I want kids of my own, but I want a committed relationship. Was I unreasonable? Does his story about his children being the reason not to divorce make sense?

I know my husband is addicted to sex (and he's agreed that he has a problem). He literally gets a ***** by watching a stripper on T.V. (not joking). I used to be sexual with him, but I think after all of cheating and lying I think I lost my drive. we cant lay in bed for a second before he's asking for oral or sex. It's great and all but it's exhausting. My libido is so low, I dread when he ask for sex, I avoid laying in bed with him because I know he's going ask. I don't know what to do to get my Lidio up? I've tried pills and they don't work. What can I do?

We have been on and off for 8 years. Since the beginning he has been a liar, cheater and manipulator. I have taken him back so many times. I love him so much, I devote myself to him. He's cheated on me multiple times from Strippers, crackheads in parking lot giving him oral while he was traveling, to visiting brothels abroad after a fight we had. There is a lot to in between but too much to fit here. He's done the worst to me but I still married him in 2015 then we divorced in 2017. I've literally lost all my friends because of him. I don't know why I keep letting him back in to my life after everything he's done to me. we've been on and off this whole time after our divorce and remarried 2 weeks ago. I have no one else to talk to. I just want to know what's wrong with me? Why do I continue to do this to myself? Has anyone ever been through this? I need I advice. How do I get out of this pattern? Is it too late? can I get our marriage annulled?

Hi. Please do not judge me I was having an affair with a married man while in a relationship its complicated my partner was abusive in the past we been together a long time. we don't sleep together or in the Same room. The married guy broke it off with me after his wife found out last I heard he was kicked out and living somewhere else he said he needed time to get his head straight for his family he changed his number. I moved on but miss him terribly the time we spent together I started seeing a single guy not messing with married men anymore, my boyfriend is aware of my unfaithfulness but doesn't care honestly I don't know why we stay together. Last night my new Fling went to the spot I use to go with the married guy the park I seen him leave with someone it was his wife's jeep he was driving I was a little hurt but I'm slowly moving on. I'm only sticking to one guy and he's single not married he has feelings for me which I'm unsure if I should feel the same way. How do I get over the married man and move on with my life?

if my husbands ex wife's name is still on house deed, but divorce papers state that the property only belongs to my husband, which is higher?

Every guy always says that if you want your wife to be happy, she always has to be right. Even when she's wrong, you have to tell her she's right. Why does the guy always have the be wrong, and if things go wrong in the relationship, it's always the guys fault?

We had one with one of my girl friends when we were dating.. I liked it but it was very random and unplanned. Now that we are married, I am thinking about maybe arranging one but I want to know if that will damage our intimacy? I love my husband and I would rather have a strong marriage than a one night satisfaction. Also, he is thrilled by the idea as well. I just want to specifically know if it will tangle with our romantic/everyday life down the road. Let me know your thoughts. Also-The threesome was my idea from start. Should've made that clear. He is just on board.

I am a stay at home mom at the moment to a one and a half year old. Her dad and I have been together for 2 years. It s been a rough two years and I think I want to leave. We always fight and sometimes the fights get really bad. I have had bruises all over me. He supports us right now and i have to be a stay at home mom despite really missing work because we have no help with anyone watching our daughter. My whole family works too much and his doesnt live around here. What do I do if I want to leave? Where would we go? How would we be able to afford things? Where could we stay? Sometimes all these questions overwhelm me and I talk myself into staying longer hoping things will get better. With his work schedule it s so spontaneous that he doesnt have a set work schedule so it s hard for me to also even work the part time because I cant rely on his schedule of when he will actually be off to watch her. And the last thing I want is to leave her with a complete stranger or one of those really sketchy day cares.

Okay so those who know me on here for the 10 years I've been posting (on multiple accounts) I have a very sexually deprived marriage. She says no when I try to have sex, she says no when I ask for favors, she says no when I'm romantic and try to earn sex by woo'ing her, she says no when I ask for a quickie, my wife is the queen of NO. There's not even an excuse, she just says "No" and that's that. When we first met she used to say no but it was a playful whiny smiling through her words no, kind of a foreplay "come get it champ" no. But now here no is a firm no with no playfulness to her at all... Normally I get a birthday beej or a father's day one but nothing this year; I guess I deserve nothing, even on my special days... With constant rejection from my wife and her making no attempts to attract me at all, I'm starting to lose hope in the relationship. And the more I lose hope, the more the girls around me are starting to look attractive. To the point where I'm imagining myself with them. This is purely fantasy, even if I had the chance with these women I don't think I'd do anything no matter how much they threw themselves to me; but with how sexually deprived I am I might officially be tempted and I hate this feeling. Since my wife refuses sex therapy or marriage counseling which can I do to stop having these thoughts and just be abstinent from sex because of my prude wife like feminists and SJWs expect me to be in this situation? How can I stop craving sex? My wife knew I had a high sex drive/crave when she met me and decided to marry me. She still married me knowing I was high maintenance. I don't understand why she is torturing me like this.

So my "boyfriend" and I have been on and off for three years. He's been asking me for a baby for three years now. I want to get married he doesn't. He says we can be together but just won't get married. He told me he will be involved in the child's life. He also said he doesn't like the idea of marriage anymore and that marriage ends up in debt. Marriage doesn't guarantee anything though. Idk what to do

The divorce rate is close to 50 percent, which is pretty scary. Since men end up having to pay child support, which can be a financial ruin for men, why take the risk of not getting a prenuptial agreement? Men, if they are thinking about getting married, should seriously get a prenuptial agreement since the divorce rate is so high. Look at car insurance for example. You pay monthly auto insurance premiums for your car. You have no intentions of wrecking your car on purpose, but you pay auto insurance premiums just in case if you car does get into a wreck. A prenuptial agreement implies to this same logic as well. Isn't it wise for a man to get a prenuptial agreement before getting married?

My hubby said he wanted a divorce..'for now'. I asked him specifically if he wanted a D or a seperation, he said divorce cause he needs that complete seperation from me to be able to think(?). We have had problems lately. With outside sources, me and my incessant anxiety, trust issues, him not being forthright..etc..he was just done. At that point a few months ago, I got the help for my anxiety, it was hard...but I did it abd he was all for it then. We had the most loving 3 mths ever and he was so affectionate. We hadnt had a fight in 3 months. We had a mild argument the other day and that was enough for him to tell me he was faking it the past mths, needs to think, not happy, be away, doesnt know what he wants...also to note he has aSEVERE hormonal imbalance atm. He doesnt want to deal with the stress anymore. Aday later, my sis msged him. Nothing mean, just that she understands I can be a handful, but marriage is hard and sometimes you need to fight, she loves you, she will be fine either way and, etc, etc. His response to her was... "The primary issue is lack of trust. I'm not trying to lead her on. I told her I need a separation to even begin to see what I want. Was hoping to go from there and I'll help her get where she wants to be." I am wondering if you could assess that comment and tell me if I am delusional in thinking he still has feelings for me/sounds like he hopes to resume in the future...or does it sound like he doesnt ever want to get back with me...

I have no confidence and I have problems at home. Honestly I don't want to marry but since my friend did and she seem happy I thought it will solve problems.

At age 19 I got out of a abusive relationship. It lasted a total of 4-5 years. The guy put his hands on me and I went to the police. The guy was already on probation so they locked him away. Later, in court, his entire family lied for him and he beat the case. I don't know what happened to him after that. I am much stronger than before and am getting my life on track. This summer I discovered that his mother and I will be working at the same location. I REALLY don't want to interact with this woman. The last thing I need is for her to run her mouth to her son about how she seen me at work. I REALLY don't want this guy popping back up in my life or trying to stalk me again. What should I do? I am now 24