My sister is obsessed with Motley Crue she loves Mick Mars she's upset because he has a girlfriend. She said it's not fair she's 26 she can't be with him this girl is 20 something now she's been with him 10 years she was just 12 or 13 when she got with him I don't see how her parents allowed that. She was just a kid dating him. I wouldn't let a 12 year old date a 50 or 60 year old that's messed up this kids parents need serious help I wonder how the hell they even met. Sure he's famous but still she just wants him for his money. My sister wants him for something else. She doesn't want to talk about it she's too upset. Also she just got over being sick she cries and gets upset easily when she's sick. How can I help her feel better ?

I have a friend that is actually making more money than me ..he has a second job as well. He is a single father and has two teenage children that goes to a going away h.s. he is literally paying their rent, tuition, phone bill and food/clothing expenses. While at the time he only lived in a room. He wants the best for them therefore he is creating a clothing line so his children can have something to fall back on. He lost his room when his Renter lost the apartment. Since losing the room he no longer wants to rent out rooms he said he rather sleep in his car work his two jobs and just fully invest in the clothing line and simple living expenses to feed himself and keep his things in storage. I have seen for myself all the money he has spent for this clothing line that is set to come out towards the summer and despite most people not supporting him and discouraging how he is living right now..even at one point I didn't agree with him I can kinda see his point of view. At times he have slept over my apt the only reason I never put my foot down to charge weekly rent because he can be there 5 days one week and only two the following week and not at all the next week. He gave me 100 here , 50 there and another 50. Bought groceries for my apt. Do you think I am being stupid partially supporting his dream..tell me what do you think guys?

We moved in with my Grandma a few months ago while we house search for a new place to move. She has all these weird, controlling rules in her home. Anyway, she always just barges into my room and says " Its my house, I don't have to knock " it's so rude and annoying. I could just be out the shower and she'll barge in to tell me something stupid. It really sucks that when I am sleep she'll open my door EARLY in the morning waking me up and say nothing or yell " You are here! Just checking! " I have insomnia so sometimes I'm just following asleep two hours before that. My Mom always tells her to please knock on our doors and she continously will say basically " Its her house " we get that! But, what kind of person wants to invade someone's privacy all the time? This is a daily thing. As soon as she gets up she makes rounds around the house to see who is home when we said you could just look outside in the driveway at the cars! Last night I put a chair on my door and this morning she wiggled my handle and banged like she was the police coming to get me just to see if I was here. I wish I had some where else to live, but I do not and for those whom will come and say " JuSt MovE oUt " I plan to eventually, but I can't right now financially. Secondly, " WeLl iT iS HeR HOuse " duh. We get that... it's not right though. Never met someone so controlling.

I'm 18 and i spend a lot of time with my friends, which i think is completely normal for someone my age. My mom always guilts me into thinking i don't spend enough time with family which i don't think is true. I'm leaving for college in September and i'm scared my mom won't be able to cope. i just need to know how to tell her i can't always spend time with her.

My cousin said very mean and offensive things to me on multiple occasions in the 3 weeks. Today I told my aunt what my cousin said to me and my aunt just ignored me for that whole day and didn't look at me in the eye. like she tried to ignore it and it makes me very upset because why didn't she do or say anything Btw: im annoyed by cousin and not hurt but i wish she would stop.

As I was growing up my mother was neglecting her family. She was bitter towards her father cause he had alcoholism and thus she banned me for 7 years from being in the family. You likely remember my story as I have written before on here. So now as an adult my mother has died though my father is still living. Sometimes my mother's family still includes us in celebrations like last Christmas but other times they do not. When they don't I am devastated and ashamed. I am 2nd rate. When they do I am ecstatic and full of joy cause I may have moved up to 1st rate cause I reach out and host a party every summer. How do I know if I am 1st rate or 2nd rate in her family? I get mixed signals. My siblings are never invited so I know they are 2nd rate but they seem to invite me about half the time. I spend much of my day obsessing on whether I will be rejected by them like when a kid and feel the suffering and loss again or if I am 1st rate and worthy of being in her family. My father's family I don't have this problem as we have always gone and been close to them and they have always included us. Plus he has a much smaller family.

I am 38 and my Dad is an alcoholic. I would guess he will die in another 5 years. He is abusive verbally when drunk and I only let my kids around him if it is a group family event where they can play with cousins. However, my mother believes since he has been this way for years that I have failed to fix him. She put this on me in college and still insists on it 20 years later. She says since I am the oldest and the only son it is on me to fix this condition. Since he still drinks she CONSTANTLY blames me. On top of this I was not a good teenager. I did some drugs, had God awful friends, and got expelled from Regis High School where my Dad, grandfather, and many uncles had all gone. As a result my father will say when drunk that if the claims are true that he is a drinker then he drinks because of me. So I have BOTH my parents blaming me. Most the time my father says he is not an alcoholic and it is all lies. So how do I get my mother to STOP blaming me and to STOP doing it to my kids? I would keep the kids away totally but my wife notes that her mother did that with an alcoholic grandmother they had and her brother was traumatized by not being able to go to family events. That brother committed suicide at 22. Indeed it was very painful for him to be estranged totally from the alcoholic grandmother though there were other issues as well leading to his suicide. So I have given up on my Dad but how do I BREAK my mother's blame of me for not fixing my pathetic father? And I should add I have tried a lot to fix my father. Even staged two interventions. Never asked a question on here but using my wife's account. Please reply and I will check back later. Thank you in advance and have a nice day.

So I nerd who makes my own battlecard game, with many heroes and villains in it. And my half-sisters kids enjoy playing the game with me. But me and my sister have differences. She's was born and raised in Colombia. I'm a half Irish born and raised in Chicago. She's a Generation X, I'm a Millennial. And the big one; she's a Muslim, I'm a Christian/Roman Catholic. See, one of the heroes I want to include in my battlecard game is Rob O'Neill, a true American hero :D But my sister being Muslim, how do you think she'd reaction if me and her kids are playing the battle card game, and she sees one of the cards is based on Rob O'Neill?

So basically I have three brothers three dogs and a big house to take care of. I clean, cook, do laundry, dishes, mow and weed eat, exc but my mom complains about how I'm not doing enough that I work only when told to. But it's not true I do all of it of my own will! She says when I ask for help on a job I'm just trying to dump the work on everyone else, I know it's not true but I can't say anything because if i do she'll get a belt or wooden spoon and beat me. I don't know… should I just do more chores?

Hi, so I am around 30 yrs old. Most of my life I've had many problems with my mother. While I no longer see her as much, maybe once a month at most, I would rather not see her at all. She has caused me a lot emotional damage, that while we do get along when we see each other I would just rather not have much to do with her. The rest of my family would like to buy a larger home in the future and wanted me to join as well. However I've told them I think it may be best to obtain a multi-family, or homes nearby each other like a condo-townhouse. Due to the reason that I don't want my mother to come by my home, however she can go visit the rest of them. My family thinks that I am crazy, that why do I hold grudges for long, why can't I get over the fact of what she's done. We don't see a nice older lady once a month, sometimes she causes lots of arguments with any of us, since they're unexpected it's what I am trying to avoid. I don't mind talking to the phone when needed, but I would rather not see her at all. I can't have a day to speak to her of the problems that have happened in the past because she sees these problems in her own view and very different. But then again, I don't want to go over these things, rather just move on. Is it wrong of me to not want to see my mother/avoid her completely, or have much to do with her?

I'm sick of them trying to control my life I'm 31 the reason I don't have my own place is because most jobs are taken by **** skinned Mexican wet backs who work cheap and no I'm not trolling I'm dead serious I told my mom if she was my wife I would beat her

He told my cousin while I was in the room that someday you have to stop "being a parent" to a child. I heard him and my aunt talking while I was in the bathroom about how he thinks my mom is evil and how he's going to cancel her phone and WiFi bills because it hasn't been transferred yet after their divorce. He also said he's going to sell my house for sure, so now I'm going to not have anywhere to come back to during my freshman year of college. He's moving to Florida to live with the woman he had an affair with in July and leaving everything behind. He wants no contact with her (he said he's going to block her email after the house sells) and he absolutely hates her. It hurts me really bad because I don't understand. How could someone absolutely despise the mother of their children. It's making me hate him so much because I can see the kind of person he is now. If he could, he would leave her with no money and nowhere to live after the divorce. It really sucks because my friends whose parents are divorced are still friends. My dad was the one who had ab affair and he hates HER. It's terrible. Now I don't know what to do for graduation because obviously my parents want nothing to do with each other. My mom was willing to work it out but my dad is honestly a piece of **** and doesn't want to see her and has gotten his entire family to hate her, and vice versa with my mom. I don't know how to live with them like this

I've decided to disown my brother. He is not my brother in fact my enemy. I don't hate him just want nothing to do with him.

She was the sexually abused and belittled daughter who was considered the 2nd rate child and is now ignored by her mother cause she got "Dad" in trouble for abusing her I guess. Her father abused her and is now out of the picture. She is now 31 and when her boyfriend cheats on her she says it is her fault cause she hasn't been herself. She has gotten pregnant 3 times, has one kid, gave up one for adoption back when she was 16, and made the mistake of killing one through an abortion about 10 years ago. So I feel for this cousin and want to help her. She is not a bad person but an abuse victim. What advise to I give when she blames herself for her boyfriend's behavior? Her brother and his wife have adopted the son she has a relationship with so they may be better to advise but she comes to me more. Her brother is good to her but her two sisters are not at all.

I feel he is evil but wanted to get other people's opinions.

I am scared I did something wrong.

OK so for the last year or so I've been a carer for my disabled and quite ungrateful sister, who does nothing but complain. My mother and stepfather are always working, whilst I have to stay home all day. I have no social life, no friends but do get money and that's the only reason I don't quit. All I want to do all day is stay home drinking and eating junk food. My mother tells me that I can give up and she'll give up her job and I go out and find one, but then I'll feel bad when she has no money for herself. I am depressed and feel like I can't do anything without my sister following. It's not that I hate my sister, it's that I wish she was normal. I feel left out when my other sisters and parents go on holidays and I just have to stay at home. I would end it all tomorrow, if it made a difference.

I'm not even saying "disruptive" in the Silicon Valley sense, I mean it just disrupts everything. He specializes in biker tattoos, and so a lot of bikers come into our nice neighborhood. They get drunk, they get loud, they do drugs, they yell at strangers. I don't want to call 911 on my Uncle, but wow this is bad.

I'm their only biological kid and my little brother is adopted - which means that my parents should've only had it ONCE (to birth me). Both of us have been avoiding our parents ever since we found condoms in their drawer. The ONLY acceptable reason to have sex is if you want a baby. But they said that they don't want anymore babies because 2 kids is enough. I don't know how to forgive them if they keep doing the wrong thing and I can't stop them. I've been staying up super late to make sure one parent doesn't enter the other's bedroom (they have separate rooms). If I catch them, I come out to distract them by having conversations so they'll get tired and change their mind.

I told the guy he should be in prison or dead. I told him he should be beaten. I told him he was a loser, Who could not get a girl his own age, and to break up with her, and end the relationship. He just turned 20, and she is 16. He punched me in my face so hard, i was out cold, when i came to my nose was broken and bleeding. and they were both gone.

I am 16 years old and a junior in high school, I work weekends and I would personally say I'm high achieving in school. My mother complains a lot about having to drive me around for work, community service, and academic activities. I walk to school and back because she doesn't feel like talking me which I suppose is fine. But now she's been telling me to find my own way to work. I don't have friends with cars, we don't have close relatives who I could ask, and my father plain right refuses to take me any where because he claims I need to be responsible and grow up. I'm all for me getting a car ( I've already got about 2,000 saved) paying for car insurance and assuming responsibility but they also refuse to take me practice driving so I have no way of learning. I already have my permit but like I said I have no close friends nor relatives to help me learn. What do I do?

Here's a little backstory on me. I live in a townhouse with walls that were thin. That meant I could hear almost everything from my next door neighbors. I live right next to a woman (let's call her C), and she has two daughters. For years now, I had feared she's been abusing her children, though I'm not sure. It could've been discipline. Her neighbors haven't been any help either. 1. This happened at least a year to six months ago. I was actually getting the mail, and C's windows were open. I heard yelling coming from it. The youngest daughter, at age 10, was in full view. She was sobbing. A minute later, I saw a shoebox flying at her, knocking her down. She later got hit in the head with a book. 2. This actually happened quite recently. I heard yelling and sobbing. I could faintly hear "Please! I'm sorry!" or something like that coming from the daughter. I heard glass shattering and more yelling. C was yelling how it was her daughter's fault. 3. At least twice a week, C would leave her daughters home alone for more than 12 hours straight. I know this because I usually hear her garage door open at around 4-6, and then I hear it open again at around 11-12. I'm pretty sure C doesn't even make preperations for her daughters when she leaves. I think she goes to a casino. By the way, the oldest daughter isn't even 13. Is any of this considered abuse? Or am I just overreacting? Please answer quick!

I'm writing a story about WW1 and need a name for a female character. Let's say she's in her mids 20s during 1917. The U.S.

I always thought it was because she wasn't on medication at the time but I've been questioning it lately. I'd like to think that, even if your mind is messed up, you still would know that hitting your kid (or anyone) is wrong.