I dont want my child going to a ghetto school where im at in a shelter. Im in Indianapolis indiana and i want my son to live with my mom whos in Marion county indianapolis IN. What papers do i need to fill out so she can do that for him?

I m so angry my brother came in today saying that everyone spoiled me as I was the youngest my mother agreed with him, if I said anything back to him they d kill me, I never say a bad word about him, I always stand up for him, him and my sister in law live next door, when I had the flu I still had to get up at 7:00 in the morning and travel to college, when he has a cold he won t even come over to our house, I never ask for anything off my parents and he would always be greedy for money off them, he throws temper tantrums and is very moody, he also never cleans his house so my parents were so stressed they took it out on me, they said to me and my other brother to give out to him over it, we didn t and I made an effort to try and understand his side of the situation, sometimes he s not even bothered to talk to me, my dad said he says **** about me. Now I know I m no Saint but still my parents are tough on me.

I have never been the smartest kid, but I get A's and B's. I have never been the smartest, never have never been. My cousin on the other hand, is really smart, and just got accepted into Stanford yesterday. My parents wish that I would be a replica of him. He was born naturally gifted, and my parents criticize me for not being that. They don't really understand that it kinda hurts me.

My older sibling threw shoes on the floor and wall really loud. Older sibling also calls me the worst. Older sibling said "You're mean, I hate you" for not knowing a password! Older sibling yells at me for no reason.

I think it is selfish for parents to have kids when they know there is down parts of life. Can you blame us for being suicidal?

Okay, back in 2010, me and my cousin were leaving from school, then suddenly three guys approached us trying to rob us, they immediately grabbed my cousin and started beating on him but fortunately I got away, I feel so bad anytime I see my cousin today because I should've helped him, these guys didn't even have weapons, and he also lost an eye because of the incident, we're both 26 today, but I just feel bad still because I should've helped him, he forgives me, but I don't, I just wish I could've helped my cousin. I'm still just stuck on that part of the past, it sucks.

None of her kids have developmental disabilities, but they still have poor social skills. Every time I see them, they're always begging their parents to let them go home. The middle child is especially addicted to video games. Apparently, their mom says that the siblings don't even socialize with each other much. Each kid has his/her own room and they stay in there until their lessons, or dinner time. It is hard for Mom and Dad to get them out of the house, because they'll complain. Two of them are teenagers already (ages 14 and 17), but act much younger than their real ages. The youngest is 10.

I have a twin brother (we are 17yrs now), do it goes like he doesn't listen to my mom like he dies not study instead binge watches movie which is quite normal like in any other house.. But when my mum can't handle I talk to him in a way that he can understand better.. Instead he calls names that even any other sister on this planet would like to hear (trust me u feel like killing urself at that moment) slso he beats me up... U know wats the best part my mom says calm down... (Wow! ).. I cannot tell my mum what all names he has called me coz she would break inside so badly that she might end up getting depressed... Neither my dad had time to listen to me.. Its like I can't handle him... He cannot work on his own.. Seeks help from me.. But abuses me back.. And I can't refuse coz I am forced to help me.. He shows respect to no one (neither my parents nor me).. I don't know wat to do... NOTE : I have talked to him infinity no. Of times!!

We had been estranged for 4/5 years, and I got in touch with him to reconnect. My childhood, when he was there, was rough and my mom always said she loves us but my father didn't and he really didn't raise me... just weekends and holidays here and there over maybe 2 or 3 years. He puts his work first and his love language is money, but he always tells me he's proud of me (first in our family of 8 kids to get a degree and get a good job). When I was a kid and he'd realized he was neglecting me, he'd just buy me a toy that was 3 years too young for me or give me cash. He has a favorite, one of my brothers, and it was well known. Only that brother and one of my sisters call him dad, my other brother and one sister calls him uncle, and the rest of us call him by his first name. Anyway - since reconnecting he's been helping me financially with a few things, which I mostly didn't ask for. It's important to me that I don't make money the end-all be-all in my life. He started telling me he loves me just about every time we have a conversation, and I feel bad but I just can't say it back. It was a really rough life, and I'm only 22 now, so I know that with time I could get there... but I just keep saying thank you and I know that must hurt him and I know that it sucks. But what can I do? It's worse to say something and not mean it, than it is to not say it at all.

I am Chinese male whose name is Lu Wang. I lived in America for 19 years since my early 20. I am 5'8, looking fine (7 out of 10 rated by myself and a few others), have light accent speaking English. I got a question. Do you think my name is foreign/strange for Americans and makes it harder to be assimilated? Would an English name better in this sense?

After I got beaten up by my dad I lost myself and confident. And I Get angry so easily over dumb things and IT runis my head and makes me Go crazy. I scream at people and I Get so mad when I talk to my mom and start to scream at her. Sometimes I wanna kill people and punch them. I almost punched my mom and I have never been like this. Before I was a sweetheart and so Nice and calm and not violent at all. Why did I suddently become this kind of person?

Me and my fiancé are adopting a baby in August he's excited but he's also scared. We're still young he's 19 he'll be 20 in December I'm 21. He watches 16 And Pregnant and Teen Mom those are the worst shows I ever seen I think now that those kids are older they're starting to realize why they get to be on tv. We were watching an episode the other night the girl who had the twins she was asking them why they need to get good grades at school one of the girls said " so we don't end up like you ". I think they're starting to understand why they are famous. And why they're parents have to work on tv. Those kids are cute but they shouldn't have had them so young I think those girls just did it so they can get on tv. Luckily me and my fiancé are both guys so we can't get pregnant I don't think I could handle having a kid being on tv I don't see how they do it. Even my cousin did the same thing she has been whoring around with men since she was 12 I heard she had her first baby when she was 15 she has his brother and sister with two other dads she left the kids went from here in Ohio moved down to North Carolina I never met her but I heard she's a badass. It seems like people think having kids is a bad thing anymore. Is it really that bad ?

Emotional hurt and not physical. However, he is bad to me but I sometimes have to see him, not a lot, cause I wish not to be estranged. He even neglected his own mother cause she had anxiety issues that led to some personal stuff and my Dad neglected her for years (she passed away in 2005).

No one likes her cause she is such a bad person.

Continuing from this question: https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20190330102759AA0RD1I "My parents are fighting....... My mom has had a VERY bad back pain...And she's feeling very stressed. me and my dad have been nothing but helpful to her (Dad Even taking her to the hospital) Now, My Mom is YELLING and SCREAMING at Dad, Calling him A-S-S-H-O-L-E, C-U-N-T, Accusing him of drinking alcohol.....Saying really nasty things to him .....She even said "I HATE YOU" to him... What should I do about this?" Update: My Parents are Still fighting, it has gottten so bad that My mom ACTUALLY THREATENED TO THROW SCOULDING HOT WATER FROM A KETTLE on my dad..... Is this ever OK?

My parents are fighting....... My mom has had a VERY bad back pain...And she's feeling very stressed. me and my dad have been nothing but helpful to her (Dad Even taking her to the hospital) Now, My Mom is YELLING and SCREAMING at Dad, Calling him A-S-S-H-O-L-E, C-U-N-T, Accusing him of drinking alcohol.....Saying really nasty things to him .....She even said "I HATE YOU" to him... What should I do about this?

I live in an apartment with my wife and mother in law. I pay all the bills except food. My wife's Sister is living in my home(seperate home down the street) and stopped paying rent and we are now going through a long eviction process. When I do get my home back and move in i dont want anymore of my wife's family screwing me over. The Sister has threatened me that something will happen once she moves out and my mother in law is always telling her where we are, what were doing. Would it be unreasonable to kick her out?

My mother in law has meth addicted relatives that I don't want to be associated with but those same relatives will be very angry with me in this small town if I kick her out. Can I just annoy her Out? She is not a horrible person herself but I've already received threats from her brother and I don't like the idea of her telling people when I'm home and not home.i don't want my home vandalized or anything. She doesn't do meth herself, she's just always on her phone with the family gossiping and all If I could. I'd like to make it non confrontational

No one else in my family is quiet or shy so I really don't know how she turned out like that

I live in an apartment with my wife and mother in law. I pay all the bills except food. My wife's Sister is living in my home and stopped paying rent and we are now going through a long eviction process. When I do get my home back and move in i dont want anymore of my wife's family screwing me over. Would it be unreasonable to tell my mother in law to kick rocks? My home is seperate from my apartment(where I'm at now)

My sister asked me to "watch over her company" whilst on vacation for a day and it went bancrupt...how do I cover it up and inflate their stocks without getting caught?!?

My daughter and her friend(s) like to go on random sites. Sometimes, people are straight up bullying my child and use brutal language at her. She's come to me crying several times before, although I ignored it so she can deal with it on her own. Later on, she apparently met a person who sounds like a pedophile on Omegle. They exposed her to genitalia and sexualized images. She also seems to have knowledge about drugs that I never told her about.

My aunt is almost 60 and im 20, we were arguing recently and she said let marry you off so we dont have to see you anymore and another time I didnt want to go to a restaurant she said maybe we can marry you off after someone sees you. I am very annoyed by this

Yesterday was my 16th b-day and my parents forgot. My brother got caught stealing and the day was just a mess. I don't know if I should remind my parents or just forget about it.

I am 14 years old and I have a really bad phone, my mom is against me getting an iPhone because she thinks I will become too addicted, I can get one for free though. My aunt said she will give me her iPhone 6 for free since she recently got a new phone and it works good and looks good, my mom still says no even though it's free. My mom just hates seeing me happy. What should I do? what are pros of having an iPhone I should tell her?

So recently, I've been helping out a lot with my mom, as when i ask for something it's usually given, though i have to wait years to get it, this may sound like I'm just some spoiled teen, but hear me out for a second. I recently started doing alot of cleaning recently, and my brothers never help me, to paint a picture for you, I'm a 16-Year-Old Homosexual teenager, and I'm surrounded by family members who I know don't support me. I have many siblings, and I'm not gonna specify the amount, because if my mom finds out i posted this, things will just get worse for me. I have multiple piercings, this will become prominent to the story. So, I recently had gotten into a feud with my mother, she was asking me to clean more, but I argued telling her i had cleaned the room already that day, and she got mad and back-handed my nose, causing the septum scar tissue to rip, and cause bleeding, this isnt the only thing she's hit me with. She's thrown books, hangers, necklaces, christmas lights, anything she sees near her, she'll grab it, and throw it at me. Not to mention I was falling asleep, and was VERY exhausted, so i would've ended up doing it anyway. She exclaimed that my little brother did the dishes the day before, but that was false, as he wasn't home all day. She took my phone, and i managed to keep her from taking my laptop. I don't wanna call cps, as id only have to deal with this up until either may, or next may. As im turning 17. an you guys please help me with this?

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I just need help and don't know how to get it I can't get out of my home I am an O.A.P. an all this with my Son is making me ill I need help I got my 48 year old Son who became homeless dew to his drinking all the time I said he could stay with me But it has got so bad he is not nice to me and go's mad when .I say no to giving money to go to get beer. He dose not give me a penny Now I am getting afraid of him now

Today my husband and I got into a big argument. It all started because I told him to feed our daughter slower inbetween bites and less on the spoon. The main reason why he got mad is because he says I always nick pick or complain. I tell him I am not complaining I am just saying and asking. I do it calmly. He says how I say it doesnt matter its that i said it and i dont trust him. Again I tell him thats not it I just wanted it slower. I do tell him a lot of little things here and there but it is not in a rude tone. I told him I don't want to fight anymore about this. Basically he said he doesn't want me to control how he parents. Forward to the end of the day and he is getting her water ready for the bath. I go to put her in and when my hand goes in it is way too hot and she flinches and gasps. I told him it was too hot and he gets all sad and moody telling him I did it again. I told him it was just too hot and that was it just cool it down. He is in a mood again where he thinks I'm being rude. There is more to these kinds of things but it would be too much to type. What can I do?

I am an adult, a mom with kids. My sister has been a source of stress for me lately. I find her difficult to get along with because of how overbearing she is. She thinks she knows everything and tries to tell people how to live their lives. She always talks down to me trying to tell me what I'm doing wrong in life from the way I parent to my school/church choices everything! The most difficult part though is that I can't just put distance between her and I because she will retaliate by messing with my life. For example for a couple years ago I told her I didn't want to talk to her for awhile, I'd ignored her text messages. She knew I was fine but didn't like being ignored so she emailed a list of people I know to embarrass me saying I was struggling in life and to reach out to me. I wasn't struggling at all. I just didn't want to talk to her. Then she sent me text messages saying respond to my text messages or I will call the police and tell them to do a welfare check on you. the thing is she knew 100 percent that I was fine but she did it to because she was mad I didn't want to talk to her. it never stops. I'll tell her something personal about my life and she'll go and contact my entire family to tell them. I'll ask her not to tell anyone but she does it anyway saying NO families deserve to know everything. I told her my husband and I haven't told our kids that my husband isn't their biological father. I told her I would tell them when they were a little older. She said if I don't tell them soon she'll tell them herself. I love my sister but I don't want her knowing anything about my life anymore. I don't know how to handle her. I truly feel that if I don't give her what she wants and do what she says that she'll embarrass me by contacting my employer, friends, neighbors, anything to get a reaction from me.

Yesterday my dad came in and took out my Xbox, my ipad my tv and all of my hockey trophies. EVEN MY OLD IPHONE 5!!!!!! Everyday when I'm sitting in the living room watching tv and on my iPhone X I hear my father in the garage slamming stuff and laughing and repeatedly saying my name and humiliating stuff about me. I heard the sound of plastic breaking but I'm not sure if that's my stuff. I went over to open the door but it was locked. My dad is goofy man. I asked my mom what she thinks about what he's doing and she looked at me and started laughing at me.. I hope my dads not breaking my stuff. My mom may be in on this because she points and laughs at me everytime he's in the garage. Any thoughts???

My mom and I have always had a rocky relationship. When I was in elementary school she was physically abusive. Then she started seeing a therapist for her anger management for a year and she got a lot better. That was when I was 7, now I'm 15 and for the past 6 years she's been calling names like "*****", "ungrateful brat", "******* asshole", and things like that. It's only when we get into fights but we get into a fight almost every day, although she'll usually call me a name about once a month or a bit less. A few months ago, she would scream and yell horrible things at me after she had a few glasses of wine. That happened twice and both times I was trying to do my homework and I asked her to turn the volume down on the tv, then she would snap at me. I admit that some of the time I piss her off for something that would piss off anyone but most of the time ill ask my brother to not cough on my food or for her to sign a paper for school, things that are just normal questions and then she'll yell at me about it. I try to talk to her in a respectful voice but I never know if she's gonna get mad at me. She's also had a ton of relationship issues with me dad, and my dad is almost always the one who will come up to me and apologize for her actions and give me an excuse for her actions. I can count the times she's actually apologize for something with my fingers. She can be nice sometimes though, but usually she gets mad at me for taking and only gives attention to my brother. Is this emotional abuse? Should I report her to CPS? I'm really confused and I just want her to love me (it feels like she doesn't).

I know this may seem crazy and its just a teenager phase I'm going through but I wanna move out because i like thinking ahead and I'm always dreaming about having my own place and be independent. I understand that i am very incapable of living alone but i really want this. I also wanna move out because my parents are extreme horaders and on the other hand i cannot stand a spec of dust anywhere and its very annoying living with them because every time i try to clean or make change they say to do it another day or to calm down and not worry so much about cleaning. I love my parents and I appreciate them but i really want to move out. Please give me advice, thanks.

My sister has been very upset the last few days I know what's wrong but I can't say. I keep telling her to forget about it but every time it comes back to it. She's been crying really hard here lately I'm worried about her there's not much I can do to take her mind off it. There's really nothing I can do. I've tried everything even taking her to the movies let her snuggle up against me because she secretly has a crush on me but that's not what's upsetting her. Taking her to the movie didn't help either. I'm her big brother it kills me to see her so sad. She doesn't want to talk about it because it upsets her even more I've been sleeping with her because I'm afraid of leaving her alone it hurts me to see her like this. How can I comfort her ? I even hold her close to me and let her cry on me or I let her cuddle with me when we watch tv

Yesterday, my bf and I had a really bad argument that I take all the blame for because it was my fault. The only time I can actually talk it out and see him is at school so I'm really out of luck with verbal communication until Monday. He hasn't talked to me all day and he didn't talk to me for the rest of the day after the argument. I'm so sad because I don't know what to do and I wish I would have just left him alone and waited for him to talk to me first instead of messaging him first and causing such a mess that I probably won't be able to fix until Monday..

wife- i am leaving your brother. i cant take it with him any more. the way he acts. is not right. he only get's 771 a mo. and that covers his rent and water. i am moving out so he will need to fine another place he can afford. im sorry but i cant deal with this any more. its time for me and him to go our own ways. he gets mad and takes it out on me. when he gets mad he wont watch OUR SON. i do more for our kid then he does. He is a mean person. Hope you understand and can help your brother out. sister in law-I'm sorry you're going thought this. You don't deserve this and idk what to do with Larry. He may have to figure things out for himself. I have my own life and problems and can't make his mine too. wife-i dont know how he is going to figure anything out. he never paid bills. well i dont know all i do know is i will be moving out and his stuff will be shut off because he dont have money to pay them because he only gets 771 a mo. so i guess if he dont fine something in his range then he will be homeless. because i took enough of his stuff and can take anymore from him. sister in law-That's on him. You have to do what you have to do. He's grown now and should know how to take care of himself. I'm not his mother and don't coddle. wife-wow okay. i guess i will pay what he needs then. i understand where your coming from but he is your brother. idk. i thought you and him were close. but i cant see him going homeless because you dont want to help him. so i will do what i can do. i guess. sister in law-I don't expect you to understand, and close if you consider seeing him once in over two years. I'm only his sister when he or anyone else needs something from me. You're still his wife so he's your family until you divorce him so I guess you feel like he's all the sudden my problem. Please don't bother me with your or his problems they are not mine. the husband is always mean to his wife and takes everything out on her for no reason. and she cant take it anymore. they been together for 19 years the husband have a accent and he is not all there. so its hard for him to stand on his feet.. The husband had accident and cant put his feet down. he is not all there any more.

Some people say that Western developed countries can make some losers, marginalized people, fools, madmen and people with brain problems better. Do you think this is true? He also said that Western civilization is more advanced than many Asian countries. The West is more concerned about the safety of the weak and the potential of the weak than Asians. Is this true? He believes that white people in Western countries have the ability to change some losers, marginal people, madmen, fools and mental patients better. He believes that the West is more civilized and more advanced than Asian countries. I don't know if this is true. He also said that this world rule was formulated by Western whites, and that Asia and other countries are not as developed and perfect as the West. He also said that the world is ridiculous and evil. He believes that if he and others who are themselves defective can choose to be born in a family and environment in a western developed country, it would be better.