We have a toddler but it's sooo frustrating because he lies about everything. And he gets sooo defensive so any question starts a huge fight. He lies about EVERYTHING. Finishing school, having a drivers license, signing up for direct deposit (he cashes his check and pockets the money and doesn't contribute much at home) I'm getting fed up about being lied to about everything but I'm scared to separate this "family" am I wrong for hating being married to a liar

I had an affair with a married man for almost a year. It s been a couple months since we ended it but I m still feeling disgusted with him, myself, and a lot of guilt surrounding the situation. I don t want to tell his wife because I don t want to get further involved. How do I stop feeling this way?

My wife cries whenever we have sex. Why does she do this ? How can I comfort her ?

When I was in my late -20s, every guy I knew was getting married. Now that I'm in my late-30s, most people I know are divorced. Most divorced men had it bad. They are fat and broke. I'm fit and I financially stable. I have no kids, but the divorced men are not even allowed to see the kids. What can man get from marriage? Kids he doesn't get to see? Getting fat? Going broke? A lot of people think it's a bad thing that I've never been married What's wrong with a straight man in hid late-30s who does not wish to marry?

Why does he keep trying to have Sex with me instead of focusing on our baby? This is my ex husband . He told me he's interested in nothing but the child , but won't keep his hands off me . He feels strongly about focusing on the child , how do I get him to stop then? Every word he texts me contradicts his actions why?

I cohabited 25 years With my mother and she never answered my Phone!

We've been married for 10 years. Sex drive was high for both of us until maybe 5 years ago when our 1st child came along. It went down for her but still remain same for me. i want sex, if i can get it, 2x per day. For the past 6 months, I've only been lucky enough to get sex once every 2 weeks for 4 months and the past 2 months only once. She claims she is not attracted to me, she hates me, she does not want to have sex with me anymore, she is on her period, sex is nasty, sex hurts, she is not in the mood, she is tired... all sorts of excuses when I make advances. It used to be that I give her a massage and then it always leads to sex but she bought her a massage machine and declines any offer from me to massage her. I have asked her what's going on, she says nothing... not even 'i don't want to talk about it'... I guess that's what her silence means. However, she doesn't hesitate to grab my Junk when she possibly can or pose in sexually suggestive way in front of me whenever she is naked. She doesn't waste time humping on top of my junk whenever I lay on the bed but as soon as I start touching her, she disappears... I am beginning to think she has a sexphobia. I am going crazy as I have a high sex drive.

My spouse wants a divorce. While married a house was bought with my spouses money. I don't want the house, I just want money to get back to my country and not be homeless. But my spouse says in a Japanese court I will get nothing due to being married less than 1 year.

My husband and I seem to always be in a constant battle with everything. He says that we only talk to each other and not listen to each other. He says I only want things to go my way. I wanted a new car and he told me there was nothing wrong with the one I had. I found a new (older) car and he didn't like it so he told me to walk away from it. He said that if I wanted a new one he couldn't stop me but the one I was looking at was not a mechanically sound car. I wanted that car so I bought it and now it needs more work than what I was willing to put into it. One of his biggest problems is that my adult sons, 22 and 24, still live at home with us. Well, my youngest stays with his girlfriend at her parents house most nights but comes home a few days a week. My oldest hasn't had the best of luck. He's a felon and having a hard time finding a job. 2 kids and we're supporting the oldest one right now. The 2nd baby momma won't even let him or us see the baby. Well, my husband says I baby then too much and I'm not teaching them to be men to stand on their own two feet. He charges them rent to live with us. They only pay $200 a month but they have trouble paying that. He wants them out. I want them to stay. He said that in an effort to compromise either I need to tell them they need to move or they start paying more rent. How is that a compromise? My sons don't make that much money and my husband said they need better jobs then. So either I tell my sons they have to move or make them pay more rent? Again, how is that a compromise? He says that he doesn't want them living with us forever. The oldest can make 2 babies but can't pay $200 once a month. I told him that neither are they moving out nor am I asking them to pay more in rent. What should I do?

Anyway, of course I am grateful and said yes. It's pretty. I like it! The box says 1/4ct. T.w. so does that mean they are real? It is sterling which I heard wont last a life time): I was thinking I would just wear it until it wears out then get a new one that will last, or is there anything else I could/should do?

Are there still girls/women who are looking for someone but do not want marriage or kids? Seems like almost all the women want both and there's a fair share that do no want one of these, but I never really found a girl or woman who don't desire any of them.

What's the point of getting married.

I have kissed a married man who is 20 years older than me. I work with him and he came to me for marriage advice because he said he could trust me to provide advice knowing I wouldn't tell anyone he knew. He asked to meet up to chat about it - and he then kissed me for ages and said he doesn't regret it. I feel awful for doing it. He came on to me. I don't know why. I am confused.

If you want that feeling with ur hubby then work for it.

To my face. It think he felt it too! Hes not handsome btw but i felt a strong sexual feeling emanating from him. Maybe next time i go to class he will talk to me???? I really want a husband...especially one I'll be THAT attracted to and MUTUALLY. Dude this was the best sexual feeling i ever had .. It was MUTUAL.

Prior to getting a divorce we bought a hamster as a family pet. The hamster resides at my ex's house full time. After the divorce, my son wanted a cat, so I adopted a cat for him. The cat resides at my house full time. Last week the hamster got sick and my ex took him to the vet. Now she expects me to pay half the vet bill. Her argument for me paying is because it's the children's pet and the pet was acquired prior to divorce. I asked her if she would be willing to pay for half of the vet bills for the cat since it is my son's cat. Her response was no. She argued that she shouldn't have to pay it because the cat was acquired after the divorce. Does her logic hold water? Coincidentally the cat is sick. He has an infection on his paw and I need to take him to the vet tomorrow. If I'm expected to contribute to the hamster's vet bills, should she be expected to contribute to the cat's vet bills?

Several months ago my husband finally talked me into getting a larger TV for our living room and moving that 50 inch to the kitchen. We went and put a 65 inch Vizio on layaway at Walmart and it was suppose to be ours. Well, in the interim, he paid everything but $50 of the TV and now he's saying that since I really didn't help him pay for OUR new TV he was going to give me my $50 back and the TV would be his. He even bought a new Vizio sound bar to go along with it getting rid of our very old surround sound system. I told him I didn't think it would be fair for him to call the TV his which means he doesn't want anyone looking at it while he's home. If I accept the $50 back from him is that in a sense giving him permission to call that TV his? It will be in our living room and he's not saying no one can watch it but he's saying that bottom line, since he paid for it out of his own money the TV would be his. Is this right?

I'm getting married in March. We are planning to go to Japan in July. I issued my passport in June or July of last year. Could this be a problem. Should I change it as soon as I get married. We already have pir travel agent our info including my current maiden name. I live in Tennessee.

I had another guy stare into my eyes without blinking just to find out he didn't want a relationship. Three guys want me to meet up alone regularly as just friends. And one guy who was already in a relationship that kept telling me I was beautiful & wanted us to travel alone together when he was in a relationship as "just friends". I'm still a Virgin and don't flirt!

This is quite a long story and I don't know where to begin. I'm almost 30, and when I was in middle school some of my friends and I decided to use other people's pictures as ourselves online. This is before people even called it catfishing. A guy and I had a friendship, sometimes romantic, over the years but I didn't feel like I could come clean. I didn't want to lose him and I was embarrassed. I'm married now and I have a child, I never told me husband about this guy. However I did tell this guy that I have since gotten married and had a child when he would reach out to me. He seemed romantically interested at some points in our friendship even after I told him I was in a relationship and even once I had gotten married. Well, just recently he found me online (I didn't have social media for years because of my line of work) and I had to come clean about everything. But he's had many questions, understandably, since we have "known" each other for more than a decade. We have been in contact over the years, nothing I would consider inappropriate. But I never told husband about him. Even now that this guy has reached out to me and I've had to tell him the truth. I am embarrassed. I have never cheated on my husband or given him a reason to not trust me, and now I feel guilty for keeping this from him. My husband is very big on security. I know he does trust me, but if I hurt him he could hold this over my head for years. It could really go either way. Please help.

I have a one year married with my husband and one morning at 2 am while I woke up to feed my six month baby I walk to the kitchen where my husband leaves his work phone connected I decided to check his msgs and I checked and I see a msg saying to not tell me which was a conversation between his mom and him. Talking about my husbands brother thst he is a teenager and he was smoking but the thing thst got me upset was his mom telling my husband to not tell me ? I mean should I tell my husband why he dosent wanna tell I will b there for support. ? And why he is hiding secret from me?

Not too many gentleman answering !

I have a lot of problems with my wife. As I posted previously, we have experienced some major problems. Currently we still live under the same roof and it is business as usual. Her parents take care of my son, we both work and still share the same bed. We still talk but not very much. My biggest issue right at this moment is her refusal to let me see her social media posts. Its underlying anger on her part. She is refusing to back down. Why does this bother me? Because we barely talk and the posts are a window into her day that she would otherwise not tell me about. So it is like she is trying to live her life and purposely exclude me all the time. So I have no idea what she got up to throughout the day. It is slowly killing me. I have a heavy chest, experience chest pain and go through a lot of negative emotions. Those include feeling unwanted and isolated. She loves our son a lot and she is doing well in her job. I sometimes think she is just using me to have a safe roof over her head (she doesnt contribute to this house or the associated bills because she is paying off investment properties). She also uses my car during the day whilst I'm night shift. So it would cause significant disruption to my life if I tried to ask her to leave. I doubt she would. And then no one would care for my son. Her parents take him almost full time. I don't know what to do if she keeps up the disinterest in me...I don't want to cheat or start looking for attention outside the home. We have a 7 month old son together. First child. I plan to check with her again. I need to know if she wants to be separated under the same roof or if she still wants to work on our marriage. That's very important. Other websites are saying it is contempt and utter disrespect. So perhaps I should say something along the lines of she is disrespecting me and our marriage and she needs to leave whilst I consider divorce proceedings. I have done homework on our property values. I just don't know how her business liabilities and personal loans with private lenders are going to affect my financial standing or the marital assets... I spoke with her and she said she cannot forgive me for calling the cops on her and getting the AVO.She was ordered by the courts to see a psychologist about her anger management issues. She was increasing her violence in the home towards our belongings, myself and her mother. I was worried about our son hearing all that commotion. These days she still swears at me or says she hates me on occasion but then acts normal again. Perhaps I need support for spouses living with mentally ill partners?

I feel like no one should be in a relationship where they are no longer happy. All the money in the world isn't worth your peace of your mind, your happiness, your joy. I would rather work 5 jobs then be with a man who I don't like and be miserable just cause he's paying the bills, just seems like a sad life to live.

My best friends husband has asked for a divorce. They have been married for 6 years and she hasn t worked in 5 and has no degree. He has his bachelors and works two full time jobs. One salary, the other hourly. They have 3 kids together ages 6, 3 and 1. The house is in both of their names, the car in his. We live in Pennsylvania. Does anyone know how good or bad this can get as far as child support, alimony, and whatever else? Thanks

She and I decided on her grandfather s last name a while ago but don t know if she has to change her last name first before the marriage certificate and such or if we can just change it as we re signing all of that

Thats not the most important thing on my list. In fact its not that important to me but wow black men tend to strike as nost manly than other guys. I DONT KNOW WHY ;) I am half black if it matters.

My husband and I have not been doing well. We have been married 3 years and I have been struggling figuring out what it is I want in life while having to stick by his side through his military career. He gets to do what he wants in life, travel etc. while I have to stay at home with our child. I resent him for it. Now that he's home from deployment, the word divorce has been thrown around a lot and I'm fine with it but the only way I will agree To it is if I leave him to care for our 2 year old while I go back home, resettle, and finish college. 2 years left. Would I be a monster for doing that? He has a 6 year old son that he gave up custody of so he could join the military and I'm not going to allow him to get away with not being a parent to his second child and this is part of the reason why I would leave her with him. I'm 23 and I'm still trying to find my way so I can provide a great life to my daughter.