Here's my story. A month ago, my wife confessed that she was having an affair when I was working overseas. I immediately got a DNA test for all the kids and it turns out the younger girl is not my daughter. Should I still pay child support? She's not my daughter and I can prove it to the court. And also I would prefer if she's not called by my family name. Thank you.

Write your age at the time you dated them Mine is: When I was 50, I dated a 28 year old. Then when I was 51 I dated a 36 years old (five years relationship). I meant the age difference.

We've been working together for about a year and a half now. It started with her stopping by my desk to vent about the boss, coworkers, etc... I didn't think anything of it at all at first, just a female friend at work. Over the past couple of months discussions have become increasingly personal. We've found some crazy similarities between us about various topics. Then she started talking about how she felt forced into marriage, and that she regretted getting married. Another thing she will talk about often is that she feels disatisfied with life and needs more, whatever that is. Then a week ago she goes into that her husband was a virgin when they got together but she's been "doin it" since she was 15. All of this is unprompted by me. She knows that I'm married, but I can't help to think that she's trying to seduce me? Or am I reading too much into an innocent friendship? I'm not saying I'd act on it or anything, but it would be extremely flattering to me if she is interested considering she's an attractive woman.

They want a divorce after a 30 year marriage. Idk what to think

Child support thieving women domestic violence case man always goes to jail women ruining men's credit. Not worth it in my opinion I'm staying a bachelor

This weekend, my both 82 year old mother in law and father in law will be visiting us to celebrate our children's' birthday. Whenever they visit, my wife has to give him a project to do or he will start one that he thinks we need and never finish it and leave us with a mess. Or he will tell us what he thinks we need beforehand, tells us he will do it, starts it and realizes he doesn't have the right tool. Then there is a three hour trip to Home Depot around the corner from us to get the tool. Or if he can't get the tool, he does a half baked job and has to come back and fix it. Meanwhile his wife comes with him and has health issues. She gets tired, begs to leave and her husband ignores her until he is "done." When I ask my wife to tell her dad to stop, my wife gets scared and stops talking. What should I do about this!

For Ex: there are men that would be fine and happy content with marrying a woman who slept with some or most of all the men sitting at the wedding reception in the past To each their own I guess and I understand everyone has their own preferences But I just can't wrap my head around it I'm really curious to know I just don't get it or understand it please explain ? Is it just a Western male thing ? What is so great exciting or fun about being a Cuckold ? Why take such a huge risk and make such a big investment for your life and future with such a risky woman Why provide for and love devote yourself to such a woman ?

My husband cheated on me twice. After the first time he apologized and begged for forgiveness to which i didnt forgive him completely. I said i needed time but we were still in a relationship. His affair lasted a year before i found out. I also noticed he messaged several women on facebook but did not find other evidence. Fast forward today. Our relationship was pretty good i thought. I recently found out he was having an affair with a another woman for about 7 months. I left him and took all my things. I found out he was begging the other woman not to leave him. Just two days prior he was telling me that he wanted to have kids with me ans buy a house. He later apologized about his behavior. What should i believe? I still love him but i don't want to be disrespected? Weve been together several years 6.

The amount of deadbeat dads in the world is insane. Husbands as well! What's up with that?? for some of the pressed people in comments I'm not saying that there aren't deadbeat wife/moms. But I'm specifically talking about men because it is very prevalent.

Narcissist

I own way more assets than her and I make way more than her I bring in just a little over 200 k CAD after taxes and own my own home paid off in Vancouver valued at over 2 million and my own business and a 2nd house also valued at over 2 million. I have a bunch of other savings and investments RRSP , stocks ,bonds She makes 40 k a year and doesn't have any assets or investments She says to get a prenup then if that's what I'm worried about. But even with prenup I'm not safe in the event of divorce separation because judge can overrule and void those things Why does she want to make our relationship complicated and difficult by introducing legalities and getting the government involved. Why do we have to get married . I'm happy with our current relationship. We have an equal relationship we believe in Equality so she shouldn't expect to put me in the sexist traditional male gender role of provider and expect me to provide for her . We should both work and contribute provide . If we ever had kids I can provide for them without being married Why does she have to make things so complicated and difficult for me. Now I have to decide whether to marry her and keep her Or to let her go and find someone else and rinse and repeat until the next one gives me an ultimatum to marry or break up

My husband needs therapy. His mood changes suddenly and he stops talking to me for weeks at a time. He also doesn't show any affection or touch me unless he wants sex. I love him and want to work it out, and he says he loves me but would rather divorce than go to a therapist. Don't people only divorce when they no longer love each other?

I don't care what people say, the puppy love and the honeymoon phase goes away and people's marriage and life becomes nothing more than a robotic song and dance of routine. The problem is, marriage thrives on that puppy love and Honeymoon Feeling of being in love and without it marriage is nothing more than a business contract between two individuals that is legally recognized for the benefits of government incentive programs. But this is no way to live and I want my life to have meaning again. But I have no idea how to do this. It's been 17 years since I met my wife and I was 19 then, fresh out of high school with raging hormones, we didn't have a dating phase at all, we just jumped into having a family and responsibilities. So I have no clue what I'm doing right now because that just wasn't part of my past. I had no education in how to date a girl. But I still think everything starts with a Feeling and I don't know how to get that feeling when I've been dead inside for almost a decade now. As sheloves_dablues constantly points out, we are very incompatible when it comes to political and religious points of View, and we really just tolerate each other anymore since our feelings are dead, so the only way this is going to work is if I can spark some passion between us without her having to do anything because that's just how she is, she's too stubborn to take the lead on anything yet she wants to be the one in charge. What am I supposed to do?

She set up this affair when he was separated but had no idea if he'd become divorced or not. Now the wife has filed for divorce. I doubt my Mom planned for the relationship to become sexual but the woman who is her friend is a slut. I am fascinated by separation vs. divorce which is why I've asked questions several times about this in the last month or two.

Me and my wife were dating for a week before we got married. Was that wrong ?

Me and my wife have been married for 2 weeks I'm 71 she's 26 I used to be the guitar player for a famous band I can't tell you who it is. I still look young for my age I don't look my age at all. Also I got kids who are older than her and even grandkids. Is it wrong for us to be together ?

I ran into my ex mother in law Lisa at the mall. We talked briefly and as it was lunch time I invited her to go to join me for lunch. We went to a nice restaurant in the mall. We had great food, great conversation, and a lot of fun. I did not think any more about it until I get a text message from my former wife Pam, that she did not want me dating her mom anymore. She said it would be to weird to call her ex husband dad? I thought she must be joking as how could anyone think that having lunch one time with anyone would mean they were going to get married so going along with the joke, I said "Does that mean you will not be a brides maid at the wedding"? It turns out she was not joking and now she is mad at me. Do you think I did something wrong here?

MY QUESTION IS ONLY FOR MUSLIM AND HINDU INDIANS AND PAKISTANIS dear Americans this question is not for u so please don't answer

I've been married to an american for two years. We lived in Denmark, since I am from here, but we got married in USA,Atlanta. We had a big fight and after that he left back to US. It has been a very unhealthy partnership. He has been physically and verbally abusive. Even now, that he is not around me he still threatens me, insults and humiliates. I really want to get divorced asap, but I have no idea where to start and how to proceed. who I need to contact and how to start divorce process?

There's this guy I talk to a lot at my job. We're just friends, he doesn't seem to flirt with me, although he does compliment my looks from time to time. Sometimes I notice that he'll randomly put his wife in the discussion and say something like,"My wife likes this..." I've noticed he'll just say his wife's name when talking to others. It's almost like he emphasizes the fact that he has a wife to me. I've never flirted with him. I don't think I've shown him I like him, so what's the reason

Today I'm on a totally different way of thinking and I'm sure a lot of you are going to be happy that I'm taking personal accountability for the problems in my relationship. I think my Rebellion against Christianity after we got married using Christian vows has created all of the irreconcilable differences between me and my wife. I'm actually not a Christian and I was never raised with the Bible in mind, everything I do is because I thought it was a good idea and no one else told me what to think because I wouldn't have listened to them anyways. My arrogance and my rejection I think contributed more to the problems in my household than anything else. Don't get me wrong, I've benefited widely from not having to follow a traditional Christian lifestyle but I think by not doing so I've cause so much unnecessary debate between me and my wife that arguing and not knowing what to expect from each other is the norm and it's extremely stressful and sometimes even hostile to deal with each other. At this point I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do to fix this, I think I'm willing to finally adopt the rules of the Bible but I don't care to go to church because the cognitive dissonance or the fight in my brain rather in public would be embarrassing until I'm used to it. But what's your thoughts? Did I mess things up by being a liberal?

Im western countries like the U.S kids lose their virginity at ages as young as 14. Having girl friends is a common practice meaning a person is not obliged and can change partners at will. Marriage is overly complicated and expensive and often couples in the west divorce anyway. Bastards and single mothers are a common occurrence aswell. I understand that in the east esspecially Muslim nations where marriage is encouraged as it is holy and commitment, also they allow polygamy. However none of these concepts exist in the west and sleeping with multiple partners is a norm so what is the point of getting married in the west anyways ? Isn't it about time we abolish this practice ?

He has been talking about getting back together, and living together. We separated due to his impulsiveness, and anger issues, & iinvolving others in our business. All things of which he claims to acknowledged, as problematic, and has created abrupt interruptions in our relarionshio. He is going to counseling, and I plan to be involved in counseling as a couple, in addition to separately for myself. I also feel we should have counselors who are non subjective, and whom be both feel comfortable working with.

Our marriage has been very individualistic for the both of us. 2-3 weekends/month she has spent either at a friend's place or with her family. Out off laziness I accepted it. I knew something was wrong when she got a phone call from a friend or her mother and says she doesn't have the energy to deal with it. But I let it go on. For the last year we have together planned and saved money for a backpacking trip where she gets her first panic attack. We go home and I listen to her discuss who could have potentially put the evil eye on her. She has from her mother learned that what others think off me is more important than what I think off myself. Which is exactly what her therapist told her is the problem. And I let that slide. Last year she went on 2 weekend trips with her friends and a 2 week long vacation with her family. That didn't apparently stress her out. But 2 weeks in a 5 star resort with her husband warrants panic attacks. I feel stupid, angry with myself and her. I feel foolish for knowingly letting people I know are less intelligent and less experienced lead me astray. I am to blame for it. And now I have a wife that can't work, can't ride the bus and again has en excuse for not properly learning the lessons of life. All I wanted to do is travel and make memories with my wife before we had kids and all that. I am angry, I don't know how to help and at the moment I don't know if I am capable of it. I have ignored my own feelings in favour of hers for too long.

I'm one of those women who when she sees something strange I'm going to speak up. My husband and I haven't been on the best of terms for the past few weeks and he claims that I inquire too much about things a typical 48 year old woman wouldn't even care about. Well. usually he comes home from work and sits in the other room watching TV until time to go to bed. Last night after eating dinner he told me he had to run to his mom's house for a little while. My husband and his siblings are always at their parents house. They usually always gather there on Sunday afternoon and he'll stop by there several times a week and even on weekends. Me, I don't spend that much time with my parents and yes, they live in our city too. He left and several hours later I sent him this text, ""I am going to ask a question: you are just hanging at your Mom which is kinda unusual for you to do on a weeknight? I do find it strange." His reply to me was, "I didn't know I had a curfew." When he got home we got into it because he said I treat him like my child instead of my husband. He typically doesn't just go visit his parents in the middle of the week so I thought that was strange. We got into a big argument when he got home. Then he shoved his phone in my face showing me that he went to his parents and sister's house to show them the cap and gown photos of his daughter who is graduating college this coming May. He told me that he feels that he can't leave for a couple of hours without me calling or texting to check up on him. Now, had the shoe been on the other foot and I told him I was going out for a while I could stay gone for hours and my husband wouldn't even thing to pick up his phone to check in with me. He says that because I'm an adult not a child. He also said that if you're not getting along with someone why would you want them just hanging out at home to annoy you? He said that him going out for a while gave me the time to just relax and do what I wanted to but no, I had to text and pester him so that when he got home we began arguing again. Do I not have the right to ask where he is?

My self esteem is nonexistent.

You have barely spoken to him but you are acquaintances. You are in love with him and lust (you write fanfic about him a lot).

Because if i had that choice i would be married centuries ago!!! Ladies can fall for a guy too easily. But guys take their time chosing a woman.

Are you a victim of parental alienation? If so, what do you do to reunite with your child or children? I want to know your story.

We have been married for 2 months and dated for 3 yrs. I am 26 and he is 28. We planned on waiting a few yrs to have kids but I got pregnant on the honeymoon. I am 5 weeks pregnant. I told him I am pregnant by putting a test in a little cute box and wrapped with ribbon. I also put a card that said "congrats daddy" ....I had my phone out to film what I thought would be a happy reaction. Instead, his face looked shocked and blank. He then told me that it is too soon and we need to "take care of it". I started to cry and asked him how he could say that. His response was "nobody told you to get pregnant". I just walked away disgusted. I feel like I don't know this man who I just married. What should I do? I am so sad and confused. I am not killing my baby.

He is not a bad man but a bad husband who has scarred his kids with the emotional abuse. It is his now ex-wife as they split up and he began going with someone new who is his wife now. He is not as bad to her cause he is older.

My husband may have to travel out of state with his female boss alone in a few months. I have never liked her because she has said inappropriate things to my husband in the past. We talked it through last year and haven't had any issues since. This would be their first trip alone together. I do not find it appropriate and I am not comfortable with it. Any recommendations?

He says he doesn't believe in marriage and is against the institution of marriage and the government Is against societal norms and customs and doesn't care what anyone thinks or says He thinks and I quote him it is an "Obsolete outdated old fashioned sexist tradition and religious ritual that has no place in Modern day Liberal society He says that marriage reduces men and women into possessions to be owned by the other lulls people into a false sense of security so couples stop trying to wooh each other and traps two people in a relationship and if one party is unhappy in the relationship it is very difficulty and a nightmare to get out He said Marriage was used in times when women could not work and needed to rely on a man to provide and take care of them it reduced women to property and they were traded away given by their parents to men . Women were expected to be chaste pure virgins and men were expected to provide for them But nowadays we are Equal and women are independent and can work no longer need men to provide so its not needed ? He says we should be together because we are happy together and want to stay together not because we are trapped by a legally binding contract

I'm at my sister's house right now but I don't know what to do. Earlier today I threw out all of my now ex-boyfriend's alcohol stash since a doctor recently told him he had liver disease. And when he discovered this he was furious & aggressive, I'd never seen him like this. I was trying to help him! Then he just started hitting me & wouldn't stop! He hurt me so badly. It lasted about a minute & my face was covered in blood & it was so painful & I just ran out when he took his attention away from me. He was so furious & thought I was dead. I'm obviously never going back with him but should I call the police & press charges? My sister says I should but I don't really want to, I just wanna forget what happened, I mean part of me still loves him but I can't believe he hurt me like that, he had never once behaved aggressively towards me even when he was drunk. I don't know what to do