Family: Question: 16 Year Old Daughter Is A Spoiled Brat!!?

Question: 16 Year Old Daughter Is A Spoiled Brat!!?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 02:08 PM PST

My daughter is a spoiled brat. She's 16 & is convinced she's the center of the universe. I married her mom 20 years ago & adopted her 2 kids. A girl who was then 11 & her son who was 10. We were very happy & we were over joyed when we welcomed Jessica into the world, nothing could be better. However, because of the age difference we showered her with gifts. I suppose i had a sub-consciesce favoritism because she was mine. We are well off & sent her to a Catholic school for $25,000 a year. Since she was born she has never heard the word no. She went to bed when she wanted, went to school when she wanted & everything else. She now goes to private HS for $50,000 a year & she is like a 5 year old. She won't say please, or do what she's told & barks orders at us. She cries if i try to say no & her mom sides with her. My wife is a housewife & i give her an allowance of $5,000 a week. On top of witch, our daughter gets her hair done, nails done, waxed tanned & my wife does this stuff with her. We go to Italy for vacations or any where else we want & it's all just rewarding her for being a witch. I just payed $30,000 on her sweet 16 & bought her a pink Corvette for another 30. The other 2 kids are great & normal people who now have their own families. I don't want there kids to learn from their aunt. I'm older now & i'm just sick of it. At age 68 i don't need this any more. Please help me convince my wife that something needs to be done.

Question: Is this a sign of a personality disorder?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 01:56 PM PST

I have a friend who I'm thinking about breaking contact with. Here's the reasons: She's 45 years old living with her mother of whom she's constantly mean to, and her mother pays all the bills. My friend doesn't work and pay any of the bills and hasn't since I've know her for 10 years, Her mother pays her cell phone bill, car insurance; buys her food and clothing and she never thanks her nor show appreciation for her mother, She doesn't get along with her mother and blames her mother for everything that is wrong in her life, When her mother ask for help around the house, she gets angry with her mother and rages at her. I've asked her many times, if your mother is so bad, why don't you get a job and move out; but then she gets mad at me and won't speak to me for days. And she feels entitled to things without doing anything to earn or deserve it. What could be wrong with this person? Thanks.

Question: Mum won't stop investigating things.?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 01:29 PM PST

My mum has been doing this for a long time. Every time I buy something from somewhere for example clothes, shoes and electronics. I do tell her where I get them from but she won't believe so she will end up going to the particular shop and find out if its true. How do I stope her from doing this?

Question: My parents grounded me because I want to join the military after high school rather than go to college?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 12:55 PM PST

When I told them this they grounded me and said they were extremely disappointed. They then proceeded to tell all of our relatives that I'm just a failure. HELP?!?!?!?!?!

Question: Dad told me if I didn't like football then quit... then grounded me for quitting?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 12:52 PM PST

This year I wanted to play football for the school team for the first time. However, I ended up not liking it for a multitude of reasons. Some of the reasons: 1. I tried out for 5 different positions and slotted to be 3rd or 4th string for all but 1 2. The coaches started arguing in front of me over whether I was good enough to start or not 3. Rather than show me the ropes, most of the more seasoned players acted as if I was some sort of weapon from another school sent in to sabotage their season even though I probably wasn't going to start anyway 4. The one position the coaches thought I was good enough to start at (center) I disagreed with because all the other players on the team were bigger and easily bowling me over in practice. When I brought it up the HC he cussed me out over it. With that said, I decided to quit 2.5 weeks into the season, with about a month before the first game. When I told my dad, he got super pissed and grounded me for "giving up." I told him he had said if I don't like it then don't do it, and he got even angrier for giving him "attitude." This was in August and he's still pissed over it today. Why would he tell me it it's alright to quit if I didn't like it, then ground me over it? I didn't ask for a ******* participation trophy but when you try out for 4 positions and are told you aren't good enough to play any of them it's kind of disheartening. I don't agree with the whole participation trophy concept anyway.

Question: Parents forcing me to buy a yearbook even though I don't want one?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 12:37 PM PST

Because I'm a senior my parents are forcing me to buy a yearbook. I don't enjoy school (don't get bad grades, just not my thing), so I'd rather not have a reminder. As if that wasn't bad enough, it's 160 ******* dollars that I'm being forced to pay. I asked my parents what would happen if I didn't order a yearbook and they said I would be grounded until I turn 18 (December of NEXT YEAR). I really don't want to shell out $160 (an entire week's pay for me) for something I'll probably never look at again. Any advice appreciated!

Question: My father bought a game console as a gift for his friends. yet I never have one. was he bad?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 12:30 PM PST

I am thinking about the past to find a single nice thing my father did to me and i fail to do so. 30 years of abuse. i never call him. he used to buy expensive gifts to others but never got me anything. one example is that he bought expensive watches to every one of his relatives. he even took my lunch money that i saved for 3 years

Question: Question about cousins?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 12:11 PM PST

how close is a third cousin? don't you share the same great grandparent? no I am asking how close genetically are they and what exactly is a third cousin. said nothing about dating one... it's a big world I don't need to resort to family members

Question: Please read, separated parents and mom wants me to hate dad?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 12:07 PM PST

My parents haven't been together for like 16 years now and I'm 18. Ofc, my dad was never there for me and it didn't help me grow up but after all, he's my dad. My mom wants me to hate him and every time she brings him up and tries to make me feel bad for seeing him and going out with him. It's becoming a weight on my shoulders

Question: How to comfort your sister ?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 11:21 AM PST

My sister is obsessed with Queen she's in love with the guitar player Brian. She read online where today is his wedding anniversary she's not very happy she didn't know he was married. She's kind of upset about it. She has been diagnosed with flu and bronchitis she's not feeling well seeing that didn't help her at all. How can I help her feel better ?

Question: Dont you think my father is being too strict with my older brother?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 11:07 AM PST

My older brother is 17. Last week he got really drunk and got into a fight with an other guy. He got in big trouble. He is grounded, and he cant literally nothing, expect of housework and his homework. He has his stuff taken, and he is not allowed leave the house for any reason expect for school and gym. Tbh I think its fair enough, cuz it is not the first time he has got in trouble for getting into fights. Allthough my dad took the punishment really far. He will not allow my brother go to his big school trip (6 days) at Spain. My brother has been waiting for this moment for like 8 months and he even would pay the price of the trip by his money,which was saving for over a year. The trip is at 22nd of January and my brother begged my father of letting him go. My father says that there is no chance of leaving him, cuz as he says he has to learn how to control his behaviour by this punishment. I havent seen my brother being so sad ever again, he even cried. It has been 2 days now he is just sitting to his room and doesn't talk to anyone. I worry about him. Is there anything I can do? I cant stand seeing my brother like this. I believe my father overeacted and I dont know how to handle this Guys I know he deserves his punishment, he even know it, he has apologised to my dad yes, but it did not help with the situation. He is really sorry, and called the other guy and apologised too. The other boy is grounded too as far I know. He just sits in his bed all day, went in for goodnight and he was still crying. It makes me sad too. We all make mistakes. He could be grounded till his school trip. Thats what my brother said to my dad. But he denied.. The other guy, have not even apologised yet.

Question: Is it wrong to skipThanksgiving?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 10:42 AM PST

when I go to visit family they just make me feel bad about myself. everyone swoons over my cousins because of their careers and accomplishments in life. I assume they see me as a disappointment, the black sheep. I think I would be happier ordering Chinese and staying at home with my dog

Question: I said I would not go to my brothers wedding?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 10:32 AM PST

I'm 21 year old guy. I have two siblings a sister (22) and my brother is 25. So the thing is my siblings and I don't have too many friends. My brother had a girlfriend he's known since he's 21. All three of us were talking and Somehow marriage got brought up and he started saying all the things I'd have to do as his best man. I said if I have to do that then I'm not going to a wedding. My sister got angry and said I'm his only brother and I owe it to him. We got into an argument. My father said he doesn't blame me because he hates going to wedding events and my sister told my father he is going to her wedding. My father said no he isn't and then my sister started crying. Then my mother started to argue with my father because they never had a "real" wedding and she never wore a wedding dress like her sister and then my mom cried and everyone was yelling and I feel like it's my fault? am I wrong for saying how I felt?

Question: My sister is 26 but still demands stuff of our parents with the attitude of "I want it and I want it NOW". Is this normal of a 26 year old?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 10:19 AM PST

Or are more 26 year old's respectful of their parents rather then teen like? Our Mom has enabled the sister for years and made her narcissistic like this.

Question: My brother (22) is not changing his underwear.?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 10:05 AM PST

So my brother is 22, he s always been a late bloomer. He works a part time job and currently has no vision for his future and thus squanders every free moment he has on video games-- just to give you an idea of his situation. I am his 16 year old younger sister, and I help my mom do the laundry. Well, for a LONG while, we have noticed that when we do laundry, which is about once every week, that there is only ONE pair of underwear in my brother s dirty laundry. Alright, so tell me if this analysis makes sense: 1. He either only wears underwear once or twice a week. Or, 2. He is wearing the same pair of underwear for 4-5 days at a time, which is nasty, unacceptable, and potentially dangerous to his health. We know we have to do something about this, but my brother is an extremely sensitive person, and we don t know how we could somehow tell him to change his underwear without embarrassing him and hurting his ego to the point where he goes ballistic and starts crying. We have never had him tested for any kind of autism, but we know there s something off about him. His behavior is just abnormal for his age and it always has been. Suggestions? Just to clarify, me and my mom do all of the house chores (dishes, laundry, cleaning, etc.) My brother is a lazy bum who is supposed to take the trash out but he has NEVER done that without being asked to do it.

Question: Since my Dad is arrogant and lies should I ban my children from being in his presence?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 10:01 AM PST

My mother used me this way as a kid.

Question: Should I address my concerns with my son?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 09:52 AM PST

I worry about the girl my son has begun dating. He's 17 as is she. She's around the house a lot and I see these instances of her whining to get her way and bossing him around. Too often I've seen them argue, she puts on this "sad/pouty face" and he gives in, which magically cheers her up. A truly annoying instance was when we were sitting around watching TV, she said she wanted water, he told her there was a full jug in the kitchen. She wanted him to go get it for her "so that she wouldn't miss the show", and he went and got it. My husband isn't worried at all. I'm just worried that my son, who speaks glowingly about how beautiful she is and how much fun she is, is becoming enamored with a spoiled brat who loves pushing him around. I don't want to start a fight that causes tension or somehow have my disapproval draw them closer together.

Question: What is wrong with my son?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 08:41 AM PST

My son is 20 and is staying home to finish school(hes in college.) He's never brought home a girl, which is fine with me! As long as he's happy. However when borrowing his laptop to submit a work email(mine was with geek squad that day) he left his tabs open, and theres a lot of cartoon porn on there. All of it is one character in particular, not even others. Do I confront this?

Question: My sister is milking the fact that she went to a hospital for getting to high and it’s starting to piss me off?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 08:36 AM PST

I'm honestly just wondering what I should do, because it's beginning to be a problem. Okay to explain, she ate half a brownie (edible) and basically she started to have a panic attack, and of course her noob friends who barely started smoking weed themselves freaked tf out too and ended up freaking her out and drove her to the ******* hospital. We can not afford another god damn hospital bill and it just pisses me off because she completely took advantage of the situation. She started acting completely insane and pretending she didn't remember, which trust me, she did. Now she's posting all over her different social media accounts that she "really did almost die because her heart rate was really high and she saw heaven and angels and all that bs. I'm just so fed up honestly, just wondering what I should say or do in this situation.

Question: Do people get worse eyesight as they age so the wrinkles and uglyness of their loved oves goes unnoticed because of the blur?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 08:07 AM PST

Question: Father keeps saying normal to everthing i say just normal and calling me a tard what do i do?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 07:49 AM PST

Question: Should I change Thanksgiving plans because someone can't come ?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 07:15 AM PST

We have always had Thanksgiving at our house at noon . My husbands sister is now wanting us to change the time to the evening so that her newly married daughter (husbands niece) and her husband can come. (they are going to his family for thanksgiving at noon) I do not want to change plans If you can come fine, if not , thats fine..we shouldn't have to rearrange our plans for 2 people .

Question: Family roommate?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 07:08 AM PST

My sister apartment burned down, and her old roommate decided to just move in with her boyfriend. My sister can't afford a place on her own, so I agreed to let her move in with me. We set up a rent amount together that we both thought was fair. Well 4 month later, she is on my nerves she won't help clean or cook because she is too tired after working. The worse part is she not even been paying half the rent she agreed too, I know for a fact she has money, but I asked to grab something from the store she will say she is broke, I seen her back statement she left it in the living room she has over 2k in her bank. I love my sister and I don't want to cause problems in our relationship but I also need her to step up, and I don't know how without causing problems. Example: 2 weeks ago, I told her I need her rent for that bi-week, she said she forgot for almost a week (everyday) then she had to get gas so told me she would just pay me double next time, I haven't seen any of that money, just yesterday she told me she didn't have the money to get an onion from the store, but she has 2k in her bank account. I know what she makes and know how much her bills are, car, insurance, phone, ext. She has more then enought left to pay the rent I am charging her and still have spending money, but not enough to afford her own place so I can't ask her to do that.

Question: Is it alright for me to hate my family?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 06:47 AM PST

My family has been dysfunctional as long as I could remember. My mother is physically and verbally abusive and she's expressed her anger out on me with choking, hitting, etc. Other times, she'd question why I was born and stated in front of me, when I was 11-12, she didn't ask for children as though we were a burden on her. She constantly berates me with insults and attacks me for how I am both in demeanor and appearance, pointing out my flaws and downsides. Not only that, she's unbelievably childish and puts herself before everyone else and when confronted about this reality, she's questioned them and implied how she's more important than her daughter and son. She's threatened to kill herself and/or kill me. My father is an alcoholic and he doesn't stand up to my mother whatsoever. Moreover, he supports her in some instances. I've confronted the two of them and attempted in discussing about my mental health with them and they've called me selfish and said it was my fault that I was being abused by my mother. There was a time in which she tried to choke me and I instinctively kicked her in the stomach in order to defend myself and my father had gotten mad at ME for defending myself. I've become so anxious and depressed because of them and have had suicidal thoughts to try to escape them, although I never acted upon it. I cry myself to sleep constantly and I've hurt myself through bruising in order to cope with it. I hate them, but they're my family. I'm not meant to.

Question: How a hippie can break heart of a person?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 05:51 AM PST

I, 75 percent hippie, I,m never waiting, they, my family, like me nothing in house, but I wanna know what to do really to break a heart and stop them,so that they stop being with us, or war upon us, they can see how a family of us is too much in noise blotch of an after while at all. I,m a continuing person with hippieism: an animal . I can war, add to me how can I?

Question: Since my Dad is a liar and an arrogant man what would happen if I put a picture of him in a bottle and threw it in the river?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 04:38 AM PST

I would write LIAR on the bottle. Would this help me let go of the anger my father put on me? I would write a note telling him how much he has hurt me and put it in the bottle. My hatred of him eats at me but I don't think he is evil. just ignorant and arrogant. He also lies a lot. So I want to let the hate go so even if I don;t like him I can love him.

Question: Are my parents trying to take advantage of me?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 04:28 AM PST

I'm 14 years old and have been drawing for quite some time now. I love to do it and I am very passionate about it... my parents on the other hand don't really care. My brother on the other hand is their "MVP hockey child" and they treat him like he's the 8th wonder of the world or something. Anyways... like I said, I'm an artist and my brother does hockey. All of the sudden my parents acted super interested in my art. But it seems they are only interested because they want me to make his hockey team a mascot/logo for cheap. Yeah. My parents OWN the hockey team, and when they sell the jerseys with the mascot on it (that i made) they will be making some profit. From the sounds of it, I'll be making very little money off of this project. They're trying to act all nice and sweet... just to use me?? Maybe I am biased because I do have some trust issues with them. What do you think...? If they ARE trying to take advantage of me, what should I do? Also, the project I'd have to do to make their project wouldn't be easy- at all! I have to come up with MULTIPLE color pallets, mascots, line work examples, etc. It could take up hours and hours of my time just for something that, in concept, seems simple. I am not worried about exposure, as I have made money off my art in the past and people are interested in it. I'm not sure I explained the prices well enough. My parents buy the jerseys with my design on it. Then, they can sell them for however much the want. The problem here, is that they would be gaining more money than me, which makes no sense. It's also not like they will be crediting me other than saying "oh yeah my daughter made the design" to the people in the team... who don't care.

Question: How do I distract myself this Thursday on Thanksgiving from the pain of being unwelcomed in my mother's family?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 04:23 AM PST

The pain opens at Thanksgiving and Christmas. You might recognize me as I frequently ask about this on here. All the aunts, uncles, and cousins will be gathering around the turkey in my mother's family. Probably about 23 of them. My parents, siblings, and I are unwelcome cause we are unlovable. It hurts and especially this time of the year. We will be the 2nd rate relatives doing something separate with my Mom's friend who is not even family. How do I cope with this pain and not remember this Thanksgiving as a dark one like I do every year? Same question come Christmas if I don't see my mother's family Sometimes I do see them at Christmas but separate from the get together since my immediate family is unlovable. Anonymous: Why do you keep calling me an autistic wackjob. That is not nice. Reporting it will do no good. I just reported you.

Question: Please give me your opinions?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 04:19 AM PST

My boyfriend is in the military stationed in the Middle East. His next mission is in Alaska and he'll be there for more than a year and we are planning to get married and move in together once he gets stationed in Alaska. But now his mom is living on her own with his little brother and his mom asked him if he could transfer closer to her home which is in another state. So now he is deciding to whether stay going to Alaska or ask to get transferred to closer where his mom lives but then we won't be moving in together if he does get transferred closer to his mom. I'm happy for him because that's his mom and I love him very much but now I don't know if I want to be living like that for more than a year with him being in another state. I was happy that we were moving in together and I understand that it's his family. And I'm not mad at that but at one point in your life everyone moves out and lives with their wife and start their own family. What are your opinions?

Question: Saying no means youre being defensive?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 03:22 AM PST

okay. so lately, i've been saying no to my brother cause it got to the point where i'm tired doing his chores and when he asked random things i should do for him like cooking and cleaning when my parents specifically ask him. but i ended up doing the dirty work. there's days i simply say no. implying i don't want to do your chores. simple as that. but he'll be like, what's w the attitude?!? i'm like what attitude? all i'm saying i don't wanna do your chores. simple. and sometimes he points out things that i'm doing "wrong". like making minor noise around 9 at night while everyone is still awake. i said no and give him a reason (everyone is still awake) and he kept on saying why are being defensive?! so overall, saying no means "you're being defensive" & also, with a reasonable reason? sorry for the grammar, i'm very annoyed w my brother

Question: A father's reaction?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 02:57 AM PST

A father is very close to his brother in law (wife's brother). His brother in law wounds up sexually molesting his daughter. She was 5ish or 6 when this happened .After the father founds out, (his daughter gave graphic details of the incident) but he's NOT moved by this.The uncle initially denied it , but quickly recanted his lie (when the mom threaten to call the cops), and apologized . There was evidence of anal and vaginal penetration, the mom undressed her daughter to investigate, and she was able to see that her private areas were opened/bruised, the father was also allowed to see this. The father never became upset. He still hung out with his brother in law and brought him over to the house (as if nothing ever happened), but his daughter would run in the parents bedroom and hide in the closet ( when ever the uncle came around) out of fear. The father caught her one day and yelled at her and made her come out. He forced her to be around him. How can this father's behavior be explained? Please help! This little girl is now an adult, and would just like some insight.

Question: Is my brother being unreasonable?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 02:33 AM PST

It is my graduation tomorrow and my brother has just told my dad he is not going because his fiance is sick. She is having morning sickness as she is 6 weeks pregnant. I understand its not pleasant but 2 girls at work do 13 hour shifts and vomit 3-4 times a day and they are early stages of pregnancy too. The graduation is only 40 from his house so not as if its the other side of the country. He hasnt even told me himself yet. Our mum passed away just over a year ago aswell so the day will be difficult enough without having the same support everyone else has. I have been crying all morning over this. AM i being unreasonable or should he be making the effort?

Question: Are my mother and sister fake towards me? Inside of the home they are not nice.. but ouside they act as if they like me because (Read below)?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 02:24 AM PST

In the household they can be cruel against me act as if i am not important because of my genorosity and kindness.. I am like this outside and inside of the home.. people outside of the house appreciate it and i am a likable person and when people see's that others like me and I know many people they act as if they like me more all of a sudden... It's so fake I can't stand it.

Question: What should I get for my coworker for Christmas?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 01:24 AM PST

I would like to get him something that represents or reminds him of Hawaii. He talks about it sometimes and says he misses it and hasn't been there in 22 years. I've never visited and I know nothing about the culture, so any insight would be greatly appreciated.

Question: What is it like growing up with a step mom in general and Indian Step mom in particular?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 01:05 AM PST

So my ex-wife created this big mess, and endangered my 4.5 years old son's life. Long cut short: - She cheated, I forgave. - She tried contacting him again, i did not react was scared to loose her. - She kept contacting him again through common friends, I discovered explicit pics in hotel room. It seemed - I was under immense stress , supper a major heart attack @ 36 age. I feared for my life, there was no way she would stop pursuing him and I did not want to lead a life full of doubt, I divorced her. She took away my son, Fought a custody battle, She handed over the boy to me in hopes that it would melt my heart, and I will take her back. It is impossible for me to imagine living with her... Now I want to get married, but I am worried what will growing up be like for my son? is it advisable for me to get married? My son is 4.5 year old.

Question: Should my daughter be offended?

Posted: 19 Nov 2018 12:08 AM PST

My daughter married a man who already had kids from a previous relationship. I have them on social media at least the one who's old enough to be on Facebook (14). He made his cover photo a picture of his dad and mom at his baptiziim. From what I see and hear he gets along with my daughter but does this mean anything?

Question: Is impolite for adult daughter or son directly calls their parents name rather dad or mom ?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 11:13 PM PST

Question: My dad is mad at me because I am letting my Stepmom stay with me. She raised me. Am I right for letting her stay with me?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 10:05 PM PST

My dad starting drinking again. My stepmom told him if he didn't help she was going to leave. She she showed up at my house late Saturday night and I couldn't turn her away she raised me. My my dad knows how I feel about his drinking and I won't talk to him while he is drinking. He knows I won't let him in my home either. He sent me a bunch of texts that's said betrayed him. He also left messages on my voicemail he said I was an awful daughter and an ungrateful daughter. He said I think I'm hot s*** cuz I'm 22 with job and a place of my own. I am not going to send my dad any nasty texts back. . I am not answering his calls either. I am not going to kick my mother out she raised me and to me she is not my stepmother she is my mother. She could walked on my dad years and go left me with him but she didn't. Years ago when they spilt up she took care of me not my dad. She protected me. She pushed me to do good in school and she taught me right from wrong. She has been there for me no matter what.

Question: Should i stop smoking weed ?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 09:59 PM PST

Im 18 and I recently started smoking since mid july, i dont smoke everyday nor do i smoke a lot. Every time i have a smoke shesh its 1 blunt or a gram. I like the way it makes me feel and it reliefs stress and boosts my confidence. I really see no negative affects from it. It has not stopped me from doing well in school as im a senior in high school nor has it made me "lazy". I love to lift weights and have been consistently hitting the gym since i was 15. I go to the gym 4-5 times a week . My mom found out and she has gone mad that im doing this. She said i should feel embarrassed and that its going to bring me problems in the future, and that what am i going to do when i have a family. First of all im 18 far from when im going to have a family. I just see it as having fun enjoying life,living to the fullest, and no worrying about a thing because life is short . I am not hurting anyone and i could care less who knows i smoke, it just shows who they are for judging but speak about "im a good person" nah **** all that nowdays your own family and people you know are hypocritical . Anyways any advice will help thank you

Question: Are baby boomers more ridiculous than Millennials?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 09:37 PM PST

Ganservoot Hotel New York. I see a crowd of mixed people in this rooftop party. Old men in suits, skimpy women in outfits, young wall street guys with that slicked back Don Jr hair, women in their 30s that are already starting to have decayed body, Latin guys in their late 40s with too much cologne and a pinky ring. Daft Punk "One more time" is playing and I honestly realize that whatever the old folks say about millennials, that baby boomers in their youth where just as decadent and that nowadays they are likewise the same. A dozen or so girls are in the dance floor. A good amount of Asian girls. Next to me is some bald guy. He looked like a retired accountant. Big belly, glasses, ACDC shirt, drinking a heineken. He was looking at the girls dancing to Daft Punk and tapping his foot. Later I see him with some latina girl, he's all over her and she's laughing and calling him 'papi' Both millenials and boomers are no worse than each other. In my personal opinion, the boomers were bad parents and more hedonistic, they never really knew how to be traditional old people. There's this woman in her early 60s with botox injection and dyed hair flailing her hips like some lame mom. What hardship did this generation deal with? Its been 70 so years since America was really threatened and in dire straits. Now they're all wearing band shirts, drinking beer, and pretending to be young if they're old women and throwing themselves on young women if they're old men

Question: What would you do in this situation?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 08:49 PM PST

I'm 25 and I have a 20 year old sister who does not know her place. She slams the door and plays loud music, talks back to my parents, makes passive aggressive comments directed towards me when I'm around to make me feel bad, steals my things, etc. I've tried giving her the benefit of the doubt numerous times and I've tried completely ignoring and disregarding her but she gets on my nerves and makes me so angry. I've never hated someone so much before. I help pay the bills and I have student loans to pay off so I live in the house that we rent to save money. I'm not just mooching off them

Question: If your child was transgender would you want them to tell you?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 08:31 PM PST

And how would you feel?

Question: Who is my dad?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 08:29 PM PST

My dad leved me when I was 3 and I always wanted to know what he looked liked.

Question: My grandma died while we were out?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 07:58 PM PST

Well I took my great grandma for a walk in her wheelchair and I thought she fell asleep but now that we're back at the house I can't wake her up and I think she might have died!!! My dad isn't home yet idk what to do HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!

Question: My brother in law is pissing me off?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 07:23 PM PST

i brought candy for the parent's kids so they would tip more, which it worked great. but today he says that i'm being cheap and should buy more expensive candies because he wouldn't even eat them if he was a customer. dude, and then the whole family butts in and joke about how cheap i am and how "my heart hurts" giving the candy away for hours. i was so mad. i did nothing wrong, and all of a sudden he said it to make everyone entertained. i am so pissed right now. why can't he keep his head out of people's business.

Question: HELP WITH MCAFEE FAST?!?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 06:33 PM PST

Okay long story short I have a YouTube channel that is one of my biggest passions and my most enjoyable hobby but my dad doesn't agree with it and I don't want him to find out for a while until I tell him. So, he installed McAfee to control my life. So I have internet history of my Channel Activity saved in the freaking Security History and Internet Activity thing, and I want to know how to DELETE it PERMANENTLY. I don't want my dad to find out about my channel yet and he is REALLY STRICT. I just want to be able to tell him myself.

Question: Parents are messy and hoarders?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 06:33 PM PST

Before anyone says "Just move out". .I'm 14 years old! My parents have always been messy and as they get older it gets worse. There's times where I will throw away an almost empty bottle of any thing that is passed its expiration date. My mom will pick it up and store it. Even things that are empty. They buy and have bought things that they don't even use at all. They have clothes all over the place that don't fit and haven't been washed in the past 10 years. Perhaps even more than 10 years. The kitchen floor, living room, and their rooms are probably moped every 6 months. I will go out barefoot to those rooms and in 2 minutes my feet will be all dirty as if I were to go outside of the house. They'll step on dog feces and they will clean it maybe the next day not before they enter the house. They sleep in the same pillows and sheets they've been using for the past year without washing. My mom will sometimes smell like old pee cause she doesn't wash her clothes often. Sometimes being in other places of my house gives me crazy anxiety that I rather be in my room for the rest of the day. I eat at my friend's place cause that's how disgusting it is. I'm the total opposite of them. I sweep my room every day and mop it every 3 days. I clean my bedding every 2 weeks. I like to keep things organized in my room. I wash my clothes every Sunday. I dont know how to handle it! I've attempted to clean and my parents will b**** bout movin the kitchen stuff or leaving the floor to "slippery" I envy my friends that have clean and organized parents. I wish I could live in their houses! Star_of_darkness: Did you not read everything? I said I've ATTEMPTED to clean, but my parents get mad at me for organizing things and claim that I leave the floor "too slippery". Do you really think it is an okay environment for a teenager to live in? There are mountains of old clothes that nobody has worn in the past decade! I've tried donating some and my parents don't want to. The products I throw away are MINE they will pick them up from the trash and take those empty products back inside.

Question: Is it weird I'd have sex with my third cousin?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 06:13 PM PST

Question: Should I call the police on my brother?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 06:09 PM PST

My brother is holding my sister hostage right now and kicks anyone that tries to get him to let her go. He kicked my mom, threw a spoon at my jaw and now it's bleeding, and took my brother's phone and refuses to give it back. But he's only 16, and my mom says the police won't do anything. What should I do?

Question: How can I resolve this problem between my uncle my dad and me?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 05:34 PM PST

This started about 3 years ago when my dad needed my uncle to ride with him to a mechanic shop to pick his car up. My uncle had a log on his truck that he wanted my dad to help him unload. My dad would not help him because he wanted to get to the mechanic before he closed. So my uncle got mad and decided to not go with him so my dad had to pay the mechanic 50 dollars to drive his car home. Around the same time my uncle had a bow that he wanted to sell to my dad to give to me for 50 dollars. So my dad never payed my uncle for the bow. My dad spent 80 dollars on the bow to get it in good enough shape to shoot. So now (3 years later) my uncle was at my house and saw the bow while my dad was not there and he took it. My dad found out and was very angry and it's somehow my fault because I didn't stop my uncle from taking it. What was I supposed to say? Was I supposed to say he couldn't take his bow back that my dad never payed him for? Should I just pay my dad for the 80 dollars he spent on it so he'll stop complaining?

Question: Can my principal legally do this?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 05:15 PM PST

Im in America in a public high school and I got in trouble for texting this girl insults because I don't like her and the principal took my phone and asked if he could go through it and I said no so he called my parents and asked and they said no but he went through my phone anyway and forced me to give him my passcode or he'd expel me and he read everything and took pictures of my texts and wrote everything down

Question: How to comfort your sister ?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 05:00 PM PST

My sister was watching a show about John Wayne Gacy she thought it was about the cowboy John Wayne until she found out about a killer clown she has a fear of clowns not because of him it's because of IT. She said that they said on tv that IT was based on him. She went to the circus last year with her youth group she was a little nervous when she met the clowns. She got a little bit upset when his father got mad at his mom for the dinner being cold she said he took her outside right in front of the children and beat her. She also said once he worked for KFC she said she's never gonna look at that the same way again. She said she's gonna have nightmares tonight she wants me to sleep with her. How can I help her feel better ?

Question: Should I go to the hospital for the birth or no?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 04:19 PM PST

My dad and his gf are suppose to having their baby tonight and he wanted his kids to see their new half sister. The thing is his gf is 28, has a 4 yr old daughter and im kind of attracted to her and honestly a bit jealous of my dad for having her. She isn't much older than I am. My half sister is going with her two kids and husband, my older sister is also going. I mean I want to support my dad and his endeavors, considering how sick he was last week with a kidney stone, but I kind of guess she will still look good after giving birth and I dont want to have to think about her all night.

Question: My father proposed without telling me/asking me first.?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 04:06 PM PST

I am 15 years old and my parents have been divorced for some time now. While I was with my mom, I found out over instagram that my father had proposed. How do I deal with this?

Question: I think daddy is gonna die... how can i take care of him?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 03:09 PM PST

I discharge all the hate people give me against him because im such a coward to fight with others. I actually nees alcohol i need it...

Question: I think my son has just saw me naked and he said that i looked beautiful?

Posted: 18 Nov 2018 01:51 PM PST