My neice is married to a great guy, he is wonderful husband and soon to be father. My neice's husband father was very abusive to his 3 children and is a registered sex offender, he has been since the 1980s Kidnapping With Intent To Commit A Specified Sex Offense and Rape by Force. Fortunately he lives in another state from my neice and her husband. My neice doesn't want her father in law in the picture at all but her husband says that was a long time ago, before I waa even born, people make mistakes. He can still bw verbally and emotionally abusuve towards his children depending on his mood. I lagree with my neice that her father in law should not be around expected child. Would you allow your children around this man?

I live in California. My ex wants to create a mutual agreement between me and her on a certain amount of cash I should giver her for my daughter every month. We don't want to use the formula child support uses, but we do want child support to enforce the order. Is it possible for me and my ex to create a mutual agreement on a certain amount of cash she should receive per month without using the Child Support formula but having Child support enforce it? what would this type of agreement be called if there is one, or how else can we go about doing this?

I don't want her to wreck the family.

How do girls view cheating differently then if a girl cheats on a guy? I know it's still a big deal but isn't the "guys will be guys" and "guys can't keep it in there pants" Senerio take in account? What I'm asking is does a girl feel as hurt if the guy does it? Because I read some stuff online and girls where literally willing to leave their husband because he kissed another girl before they even married, and I'm just so confused of how a girl could actually leave their husband for that? What are the boundaries before and after marriage or even before engaged?

Or do I act like everything is fine and befriend the new lover?

My wife and I think we're upper middle class and we've checked online but we can't find an exact number, we usually find things like "between 100k and $1 million is upper middle class". We live in Denver, Colorado.

I live in Denver, Colorado

I met him 7 years ago & fell in love with him. Im not ashamed to say I crave affection and love, coz I grew up with both a physically sick mom who died when I was 16 and a chronically ill dad, who was a successful man and was rich. When we got married, my father offered us a large sum of money. He wanted to put it all in HIS bank account coz it would help him close off his debts. He kept tellin me he has no money and is in debt, and asked me to help him with the expenditures (I didn't mind to pay a certain share even if he makes 4 times what I make). So I helped with the house expenditures, we almost split the bills when we went out, etc But the relation kept getting more dry, he would rarely spend a dollar on me, in 4 years of marriage I received 5 gifts max (of really humble value – but I didn't mind coz I didn't marry him to get gifts!). I don't ask him for money coz I'm a working lady Lately, financials became a huge issue for him. He kept asking me for financial support, but I couldn't offer more (plus I never dared to give more because he always used to walk away from me and ask for divorce repeatedly only to come back later and apologize) No sex,no kissing,no affection,no support Last month, my father passed away: he was very interested in the inheritance, making plans about future investments.. 2 days ago, I found a bank statement showing he has TONS of cash. He denied it and said the amount i saw is a loan and not actual cash. But hey, I CAN read a bank report!!

Why is snow removal a mans job? Men can do anything a woman can do and it's not fair

My step daughter mentioned something about a flip phone to my wife the other day. Something about one of its features. The problem is my wife as far as I know only has a smart phone and hasn't had a flip phone in about 8 years. My stepdaughter is 15 and would hardly even remember the phone. why would she have a secret second phone if this was the case?

I met him 7 years ago & fell in love with him. Im not ashamed to say I crave affection and love, coz I grew up with both a physically sick mom who died when I was 16 and a chronically ill dad, who was a successful man and was rich. When we got married, my father offered us a large sum of money. He wanted to put it all in HIS bank account coz it would help him close off his debts. He kept tellin me he has no money and is in debt, and asked me to help him with the expenditures (I didn't mind to pay a certain share even if he makes 4 times what I make). So I helped with the house expenditures, we almost split the bills when we went out, etc. But the relation kept getting more dry, he would rarely spend a dollar on me, in 4 years of marriage I received 5 gifts max (of really humble value – but I didn't mind coz I didn't marry him to get gifts!). I don't ask him for money coz I'm a working lady Lately, financials became a huge issue for him. He kept asking me for financial support, but I couldn't offer more (plus I never dared to give more because he always used to walk away from me and ask for divorce repeatedly only to come back later and apologize) No sex,no kissing,no affection,no support Last month, my father passed away: he was very interested in the inheritance, making plans about future investments.. 2 days ago, I found a bank statement showing he has TONS of cash. He denied it and said the amount i saw is a loan and not actual cash. But hey, I CAN read a bank statement!! Another thing is whenever I ask him for anything concerning me or the house, his answer is: I don't have money!! Why don't u do it?? But when HE wants something, be it a trip, or any REALLY EXPENSIVE gadget, he gets it and then says "Oh u know, I got it with a great discount", or "I didn't pay it cash, I bought it on my credit card". He justified AAAALLL of his purchases in anyyyy possible way. But when responsibilites arise, the cash is gone! I don't mean to make this long but I need input coz I'm so lonely and frustrated. While hes the one who turned out to be the millionaire, he always accused me of being unreliable and materialistic. He always said everything is my mistake, that I don't have what it takes to be married (while I did everything I could, at least in the first two years, but when he kept being abusive & alking away asking for divorce, I cut down a lot on helping with the house expenses. I think this ticked him off

I've been in a relationship for about 2 years and 7 months , we got married on 2016. He broke up with me several times , we moved together with his family , but there were always conflicts because of his mother , she didn't like me , I proposed him to move just us into another aprtament , but he did not want , so I continued to staying with them , suffering on inside. Now we expect a baby girl next month , I asked him to move into another apartment with rent but he says he doesn't have money to pay the rent. So if I want to stay there with him and his family, it's ok , if not he said to broke up with me. I feel like he is blackmailing me , manipulating me , he is influenced by his mother. Can I be thinking if in this relationship was existing love between us? Does he loves me ?

In the 1980s on 17% remained overweight/obese after child birth so don't use that excuse. Did your previous relationships deserve the best of you but not your spouse?