I m a latino guy and I use to really like white girls but after I started college, have observed how white girls date and get sexually attracted to blacks, had stories told by friends of mine how their gf s cheated with black guys, etc I m very put off by white women now. In fact, I feel like I can t like them anymore because they might have the potential to be a white girl who has been with black guys. No offense or anything, but I find that a bit vulgar. I ended up rejecting a friend of mines (she s white) because she had kissed a black guy and girls in college. Watching interracial videos makes it even worse because most interracial scenes have a black guy and white girl when other races exist. Thoughts?

I'm not bad looking, never cheated on my wife. I always provided for her and I always loved her with care. When ever there is something broken in the house I'm the one that fixes and I also fix our cars. Together we have 4 children. I'm 54 years old and my wife is 52 years old. This doesn't make any sense. My wife looks hot for her age. But she has always dress quite modest. She usually stays at home and runs her own restaurant. We were both a virgin on our wedding night. This all happened our weekend at New Orleans. I can't believe this, there were some kids selling weed. They seem to be black, mixed and white. They were talking to my wife like a piece of meat. I was mad and I said something back but this punk kids threaten me with a knife. I saw them a day later and I tried to hide the other way. Meanwhile my wife walked. One of the kids this black guy who was 6'4 all muscle and extremely dark was flirting with my wife. I saw my wife hesitant but before I knew it the guy was guiding her to a motel. My wife had sex with this 25 year old guy.

I currently have full custody of my four year old son. Is it possible at all for his father to get joint custody of him even though the judge already granted custody to me against his wishes? What would the protocol be for that type of situation?

Can a Boy from one Family and a Girl from another Family still get married even if the two families blended together if you know what I mean?

Say 32,33,34 is that too old to get married for the first time?

I'm 29 he's 31. I'm sure at 31 he's looking to settle down sooner rather than later. I love my bf but right now I'm unemployed, finishing grad school and I'm just not ready to be married until I have a solid job which for me, could take a year or two. Is it likely at 31 my bf isn't going to want to wait until his mid 30's to get married? I'm scared he may leave me.

I'm just wondering I'm 15 and I know that as a girl I sometimes fantasize about having a husband and having kids. I wonder what teen guys think about marriage and having kids.

I'm a wife and mother of two. We have a mortgage and other bills. My husband does pretty good with the bills. But a little help would help. Should I get a or job or full time? Considering, I'm already a busy mom and wife.

Over the holidays I got married for the first time to Steve who is a wonderful man. He adopted OUR daughter Taylor. Taylor never had a Father in her life and greatly loves Steve. She is soon going to be eight. Steve acted odd recently when Taylor was getting a spanking. He has been presnt when she got one before. The time before when Taylor was given a spanking she was in jeans but normally our daughter is in a dress or skirt for school. So when Steve came in the living room I seen nothing imporper (and neither did Taylor) that she was partly undressed with her little dress raised up over her underpants. I am asking this cause afterwards Taylor seemed confused why Daddy turned and left the room. Thinking that there is something ugly or wrong with her underpants? Soon to be eight year olds do think and act this way. When I bought Taylor more grown up panties (white nylon briefs) to wear not long ago she would go in just her nightgown around Daddy at night. Typical behavior. Why would my Husband turn and leave when the spanking was being given on our daughters underpants. He IS her FATHER?

I've tried things like Spokeo and others and found them highly inaccurate. Cook county in Illinois has those you can look up online but I can't find a site for that in WI.

Is it appropriate for an ex husband to give a Birthday gift(i.e. bottle of wine) to his ex wife? Should an ex wife accept the gift?

When I married my wife, she had 2 kids. I always accepted them as my own. She literally gets no child support for them. We have one child together and found out in October she's pregnant again. This has been a nightmare. It's not hormones because my wife is mean, rude and downright evil sometimes. She feels I need to get a second job, but she fails to realize that she came into the marriage with kids. My income would be perfect if it were me her and just two kids. My stepdaughter is 17 and got fired from her job months ago. She doesn't do any extracurricular activities in school, so I always felt like she needed a job. My mother-in-law bought her a car and we have to pay the insurance, gas and upkeep on it because she didn't keep her end of the bargain up by having a job. I bought my stepson stuff for Christmas and he wouldn't even wear the shoes I bought him. They're name brand and very popular, but he wanted $220 air Jordan's that I refused to buy. I took the shoes back. I don't know how much money my wife wants to have after bills? I bought $200 worth of grocery and she felt it wasn't enough. She then turned around and ordered Mexican food the next night. She and her kids eat out so much and she goes broke and takes it out on me. She cussed me out and called me sorry and all sorts of stuff last night. I work full time everyday, get up at 4 in the morning, but she thinks I'm a sorry man. What do I do?

I posted a few weeks ago about a dad at my son's basketball practice and agreed that maybe I was reading too much into his behavior. But today, I'm not so sure. I caught him looking at me during practice, and afterward when another coach was talking to me, he hung around listening to the conversation and watching my face the whole time - he was standing off to the side. Then, when that coach moved away, the dad turned to me and said, similing "I'm ready for bed...". I said I was too, but his tone was different. He continued to make conversation and so did I. He seemed to be hanging around waiting for my son and I to leave, since he would not leave first. Now, is this how married men flirt? I found out through a friend that he's married and even though I don't want to start anything, I need to know if I should cool things off a little - we have emailed back and forth and I've noticed some behavior from him then too. Or misbehavior, I should say. He also stared at me when he was leaving and I was at a restaurant by the exit. I got flustered and looked away. I think what's been most blatant is the staring. But that's harmless, right? Guys stare at me all the time and since I don't reciprocate, that's where it ends. Is he a harmless married man?

My sister and I are by ourselves vacationing in colombia. It has been a good trip so far in Cartagena, but tomorrow we are going to the Colombian city of Medellin. This city used to be known as the Murder Capital of the World. but now people say its safe. We are going to a safe area, but my husband has been stressing. Hes back home in Texas and is stressed about me going there. Saying I should go and that it's dangerous.

My husband never took me out and used to scold me for hours even when I was pregnant. I went to my patents house since 7th month of pregnancy and stayed there till my baby was 2 months old.dads falling health moms and bros behavior plus husband's scoldings everyday over phone was building up a lot of stress in me. After dads death I was depressed. My son was unwell too and all this was increasing my stress a lot. For the past few months I started verbally abusing my husband. Im unable to control my anger these days. My husbands behavior too became bad to worse and this resulted in increase in my anger as well as my verbal abuse.I don't want to say bad things to anyone please advice how to stop saying ill things

Our relationship has been up and down. Together 5 years, married 1 of those years. We were never really religious people before, but now since we have been attending his former lifestyle meetings since April of 17", it has brought about lots of changes. He works all week and attends meetings on Wednesday nights, am I wrong for asking that Saturday be our family day since Sunday we are at the hall for 2 hours, have lunch and by the time we get home there is no real time for the family.

my wife and I are recently married 8 months ago. our finances got a little rough and she has been upset with me about it so I got a second job but for the past month she still has an attitude with me. she went to her mothers house last night. after she said get out of the van and go in the house. I was upset that she was still mad at me but its been about 3 weeks now so to fight for my marriage I went back over to her moms house and talked to her on the porch she got mad wit me and said you coming back over was disrespectful I said its call fighting for our marriage she thinks that I am smothering her all because I desire to spend time with her and our kids sometimes I do press the issue but its because she keeps saying maybe or will see. was it wrong to go back over to her moms house and confront my wife about her attitude

IF I GOT RID OF THE DOG I OWN AND PAID FOR. IS THAT RIDICULOUS OR WHAT?

I'm married... I thought I met the perfect guy... finally after too many douche bags and then he proved me wrong, yesterday I told him he should leave and we need to move on because I am so unhappy. He has anxiety but also can just be a massive jerk, he snaps at everyone except his parents, to them he acts like a perfect husband, to everyone else he's moody and unsociable. I'm a passionate person and I don't just mean sex, I mean life!! He made out he was but he isn't at all. I feel so trapped. We also have a child and I have one from previous long crappy relationship. I just, wish fairytales were a little true, I get it life's pants for most but some do get it or atleast close to it, every time I get forked over. I'm so confused. Do I want to be single again, do I just learn to live with my choice, marriage is a big thing to me. I wouldn't cheat so that answer is out of the question. . Maybe I should just get over myself and give up and become a miserable boring unhappy housewife that so many become(not slating if that's your choice) I just don't know what to do. Have I just not met the right guy again or does the right guy not exist ?

Me and my sister are vacationing together in colombia and my husband who is back home tells me "it bothers me if you're out past midnight because its dangerous and people start hitting on you and it just bothers me. Its up to you at the end, and i wouldn't know since im home, but ill tell you now..if it bothered you I wouldnt do it. Love ya"

Hi everyone i'm writing this form my sister's account my wife and I have been together for 8 years and when we first started dating which wa 7 years ago, she did something that she didn't tell me until now when we first started dating we were doing long distance and at the time a guy she said she had sex with once way before me and her met came to her house he was her brothers, friend, and back then it pissed me off that he was there she admits that he slept in her room but they never had sex we have a 1-year-old son now and I feel so betyraed. I dont believe they didn't have sex it doesn't make any sense she just kept telling me it was a stupid decision and she wasn't thinking at the time and she didn't tell me back then because I was always accusing her of cheating and harassing her about it she was afraid about what I would do. I just don't feel like I can trust her again she was always accusing me for the past couple years of cheating i got mad about 2 years ago and had a short emotional affair with a co-worker and she found out but she got over it and we moved on but this situation is worse and can't compare the two do you think I should give her a chance and move on after all these years?

Assume Ash is my wife. One card read exactly "Dear Ash, Ash I feel lucky to know you. Thank you very much for your invaluable company as I find you very special and wish to have you around everyday in my llife. Merry Xmas & Happy New Year. To Ash" Another card read "P.S - Put flowers on your desk - they'll brighten up you last couple of days! (I know you are leaving me - Joke :)" When I asked my wife she went. 1st card was from my friend/brother and 2nd one from a stakler. I said "Why would a bother want to have his sis around everyday in his life and why did stalker card did not go in bin the moment you saw it? Why it landed in your purse and then home and then stayed there for 7 years? she clears her clutter after every few months. Am I being paranoid or was she up to something? What is your opinion? Thanks.

Who his first love was and he told about a girl he loved n wanted to marry n then she got engaged to someone else Listening to this i cried and im unable to get over it n its ruining my marriage. What is my problem?

Hes a recovering addict of everything. The last year he s progressively talking more and more every dam day god says this god says that the bible says this the bible says that the none stop God talk has gotten on my last nerve. If he s not talking about God then its something very negative and when he does talk its non stop like a he s giving a lecture or a sermon im rarely able to get a word in because he will talk non stop for hours if I let him. Its like he thinks I dont have anything else to do but sit and listen to him. Im burned out on his addictions and was glad hes clean n sober but not anymore it sounds horrible but he was more fun high n drunk to be around now he has turned into this bigger jerk than when he was high im clueless why he s acting this way?

I'm 28 and I've been married to my wife for two years. We are in a perfectly healthy relationship and we are both virgins. My wife has a high sex drive and has been wanting sex from me but I just don't want, man. Sex is absolutely revolting (don't call me an immature asshole, I have my reasons) and it will make me less cool and awesome. I'm a cool guy and I just don't want to lose my dignity and coolness over that. Sex destroys dignity and coolness. My brother used to be awesome and I admired him but once he told me that he had sex with his lover, I lost all my respect for him. I'm fine with romance but sexual intimacy stays off. I don't want to do anything sexual to my wife. I don't want to put my penis in a vagina, I don't want her to touch my penis or suck it. It's shameful and stupid to do such. I'm not like others who do that crap to make love. Man that's lame. Sexual intercourse and intimacy is absolutely pathetic. I love my wife and I don't want her to cheat on me but I can't do that sex, it's not cool. I know I'm acting childish but this is serious. Any advice people?

ive fallen head over heals for my spouse but in all this time he has not satisfied me once in the bed room an advice would be a big help and he is very emotional on the subject so its hard to communicate about it

i'm a male feminists and i attract many women. @libcrusher, lol, and usually women that are against feminism are insecure of themselves so anti-feminist women usually use men as their security blanket actually most women feminists i know are in relationships. the only female feminists that i know are single choose to be that way