My ex and I dated for 3 years before he proposed. We were engaged for 9 months after that before he called off the wedding a few weeks before it was to take place. It was difficult to get him to propose to me. Ill admit I nagged him and gave him an ultimatum. Its been a little over 2 years since this all happened. I just saw on Facebook he is engaged again. He didn't add a picture of them together on his Facebook until a little over a year ago so they did not begin dating right after he called it off with me. Why did he propose so quickly to her, and not me? His new girl put their wedding date on her profile and I calculated he will have dated/be engaged/then married to her in the same amount of time it took him to propose to me? (3 years) Is he more into her than he was with me? Also, we were 25 when we met and broke up at ages 29.

I am newly married only 2 years, my husband and I are both 34 & yes I was snooping through his phone & seen that he text his co-worker asking her out for dinner, telling her she was beautiful & saying he couldn't wait to give her "his gift" & she was thinking her for the massage he gave her after work. There were over 50 text that I didn't read also. How do I approach this situation the right way or should I say anything at all? I have met this young woman before at his companies holiday party & the fact that he introduced us makes me sick to my stomach. *thanking not thinking

I've been married to my husband for almost 6 years and we were in love, head over heels for eachother. He was the most prefect husband he cared so much about me and i would do anything to just make him happy. He wouldn't even look at a woman, and from the day i met him my eye has never even lift up to a man because i love my husband so much.Just recently i found out he cheated on me, he works an extra job where he carpools girls to work or college. I always joke with him saying "don't cheat on me" and he's always swearing to me that he has not even looked at a woman or loved a woman and is only doing his job and has nothing to do with them. I even feel bad about saying it because I'm accusing him even if im joking. I just found out he has been in a relationship with one of the girls he takes. I'm so devastated and just don't know what to think anymore. He tried lying and saying it was his friend and swore it was his friend until i told him the messages does not sound like a guy to me, he finally admitted to it and said he will never do it again and he will end the relationship with her. But where does that leave me? I was happy for him to have that extra income in since our work hasn't been that great lately and being very jealous person, i had all trust in him.Im so broken, theres not a thing i haven't done for him to make him happy, we haven't even fought in a long time. i was with him when he had nothing but my trust is just lost and im not sure if i can forgiveThis is so difficult because i just did not expect it, what should i do?

Dude gets desperate and goes on a dating site and, well then his life is over. What explains when married teacher bitchez get busy with a student? It's not because the husband cut off sex, so what else could explain it? It must be the husband's lack of showing desire, since a wife would care more about that?

Should I leave him? I mean I know I should :( but I don't know why i haven't. I was in a bus I've relationship for 20 years and finally divorced. I was living happy and met this one guy who has now slapped me so bad he split my lip. I don't know why I haven't walked away. I'm so stupid. I'm not scared of him. I just don't know why.

Hello, do I wait until I receive my soon to be ex spouses papers to file them with the court or do I go ahead and file my portion? we're filing divorce without children, and we agreed on this, so I don't think we need a court date or anything.. im sure. at least thats what ive heard.

So I have bipolar disorder and have been trying for years to get approved for disability and have been denied. I have tried for the past six years and recently got denied from a disability hearing judge stating that there is not enough evidence and says that he believes that I can work. I got referred to vocational rehabilitation a few weeks ago and they threw me into this training facility and made me go to work there. I didn't like the job because first I had to get up at 6am everyday to get ready to work at 7am and then the job was stupid. I had to sit and packaged salt and pepper packets. Plus I was severely depressed from the lack of sleep. I am not a morning person and so I stay up late and get up at noon. I got severely depressed one morning after getting there and asked to leave to go home. The manager there didn't let me go saying that I just been here for 2 hours. I told him that if he didn't let me go then I will call 911 and told them that they were holding me hostage. My relatives criticized me and said that I just ruined my chances to recieve benefits because I walked out there. I don't want to work and I can't handle having a job. My uncle says that being homeless must be a new wakeup call for me and he says that I will never get married if I don't grow up and get a job. Why do people criticize me for leaving that training facility ?? How does me leaving that training facility affects my chances of recieving benefits ??

Okay so yesterday i walked in on my husband masterbating to monkeys having sex on youtube? He didn't see me and im not sure if i should bring it up? He makes strange comments towards me about animals a lot but ive just always thought it was him playing. Im very freaked oit

He talks favorably about his ex wife a lot and has mentioned "I didn't want to get divorced, I had to get the divorce." and also has three kids.

We just moved into a new home last week. We are noticing blood stains tiny drops on our sheets. We've never in our lives experienced bed bugs prior to this. I've been told it could cost us thousands to fix this issue and we may have to get rid of all of our brand new furniture we just purchased a week ago. Anyone had bed bugs? We got screwed purchasing this house.

Me and my wife have been married since April 2017. We didn't have sex on our wedding night or our honeymoon. Our honeymoon didn't go the way we planned we were both too tired and disappointed to even have sex. We've been doing it a lot lately. How often should we do it ?

My husband left me back in June 2017. We had no children, no major property. We divided everything up between ourselves with no arguments. This is a non-fault, uncontested divorce. We just didnt work out. Everything is ending amicably. We just want it to be over. Can we represent ourselves in court and not spend an arm and a leg?

than her breasts while she's on all fours?

My wife has had a cough the last week she's been taking cough medicine she feels like she's gonna be sick. She can't drink water after she takes it it makes her feel sick. Is this normal ? How can I help her feel better ?

My husband is a good guy but has severe ADD and lazy problems. When he comes back from work he does absolutely nothing but sit around and watch movies and smoke ciagretts for hours. He never washes the dishes even though i put up a sticky notes all over the house reminding him to wash dishes, flush toilets ext. When he eats he leaves the plates on the table and expects me to pick them up and do the dishes everyday all day even though he knows what our deal is. Besides that he never takes the trash out, comes in with his shoes everyday and theres salt from outside all over the floors, trashes the kitchen, Pees on the toilet seat and even gets some on the floor sometimes so when i use the bathroom in the morning i sometimes step in his piss.lol We have talked about this time and time again and his excuse is always that he has ADD. but yet he wont even go get help for that either. I am beyond stressed out and have been on medication for stress to deal with him and his bad habbits but even my meds dont help because he triggers me to get mad and then i end up yelling bc he never helps nor listens to a word I say. Does anyone else have these issues with their husbands? What Can i do? I am beyond stressed out i feel like im living with a teenager not a man whom im married too.

How might I stay home even if she goes with the kids. I don;t like my in-laws.

If he loves his mistress but loves his family more, how long will he continue living a double/ secret life by having an affair?

My husband & I both work and so we share parenting duties. At night, we take turns getting up with our children. My husband sleeps through crying kids so when I wake him up he yells & curses at me when I tell him it is his turn. The next day he tells me that he doesn't remember his outbursts. I feel this is abusive and worse, reflects how he really feels since it seems to be done unconsciously. I talk to him about it the next day, he apologizes and then does it again the next night. Please help!

Since the husband can't have sex the way he used to with his wife's breasts, I'd imagine he'd want to divorce and get a new wife with perfectly fine breasts.

I have been with my husband for 12 years. We have been married for almost 3 years but together for 12. Ever since we had our 3rd child he has been very mean. He yells at us for no reason. Sometimes as soon as he gets out of bed or gets home from work he will just start yelling at us. He always wants the kids to be quiet and we can't really be ourselves around him because he either gets mad or makes fun of us. He will tell people one thing and then complain about it to me and make it out to be my problem or fault when the other person is not there. He doesn't help with housework or the kids unless I beg him and then he acts like it will kill him or like he has conquered the world after doing it. He wants praise for it. I work a full time job as well and we both get home around the same time each day so its not like I sit at home and do nothing. He says that he makes more money then me so he makes the rules. I want to leave him so that my girls have a better chance of not turning out like him and his sister. It will be hard because I won't have the income to help and the kids will hate me at first. Is this a reason to leave someone? What would you do in this situation?

Hello everyone. Just looking for some addvice. My wife and i have been married for four years. she is a stay at home mom with two kids 3 and 1. I work 12 to 16 hours a day and i get home and have to cook dinner for everyone becuase she wont. she wont clean the house at all. I cant clean it and stay ahead of it when im not home. all she talks about is buying a bigger house so she has room to put things. our house is 2600 sqf and we have a shop thats 40x50 that she has full of junk. she set around and takes care of the kids and shops online all day. she spends around $2,000 a month shopping for the kids and herself. What should i do? i love them all but am getting depressing me.i have spoke to her about it and she looks at me like im crazy. I know taking care of the two kids is hard work and is a job in its self. just been thinking of how to be happy again. She was way differnt before we got mairred and has started this in the past 2 years

She never goes grocery shopping. She never throws out the trash. She throws trash on the floor when the bin is full. She never buys food, clothes or toys for her babies. She always demands a new smartphone. She demands a new car. She never gives her husband a ride to the airport (for work). She even refused to give her husband a ride to the ER when he fell seriously ill. So would you divorce this woman?? She was different before marriage OBVIOUSLY!

My husband and I got married in April, 2017. My mom has always bought Turbo Tax and we've done it at home. His parents have always gotten them done my a professional. With tax season coming up, I asked him if he would like my mom to do them because it would save us $60 or more dollars and he said no, he wanted to go continue going to someone he's been going to. I asked for an explanation why and he kept saying, "just because!!" When he finally gave me a "real" answer he basically said he doesn't trust my mom to do his taxes. You would have to be an absolute moron to screw up using Turbo Tax! My mom is incredibly intelligent and he knows that. If you could save $60 by doing the taxes yourself, why wouldn't you?? Am I misunderstanding him or is he just being unreasonable and stubborn? Looking for actual advice from people who won't be bias. Thank you all for answering my question, and a thank you to those who helped me see his side of the story as well. I wish I could award more than one Best Answer, because there were several great ones.

I have been divorced for more than a year. But still I am still dreaming of her frequently, even when I take small day nap. The dreams are many but most of them is one of these 3: 1. We are in an intimate position and I remind her in the dream that she is married and she says i don t care. 2. We are in a romantic place and both of us are happy and she gives me promises that she will leave her husband and return to me. 3. She is angry from me and shouting and yelling and threatening me to bring someone to hurt me Do these dreams have a meaning or I should simply ignore them?

Im pregnant and sick. My husband was out with his friends so i texted him and asked if he could pick me up some medicine. He responded saying he was busy drinking with friends. I didnt tell him to stop what he was doing and buy me medicine. I simply asked if he could pick it up after he was done...but like always he puts his friends before me and he never takes me on dates but runs to go hang with friends. He makes me feel like he is not ready to be a husband or father. I told him i was upset and he didnt apologize which he never does. Ive been crying because i always go out my way for him. He works and is in school and i even help him pay for school...why should i when he cant even help me get medicine when im.sick. hes very selfish, immature and can never admit when he is wrong. I dont know what else to do. I know im hormonal and maybe im making it into a big deal but idk how to get through to him

Borel...this is my first time giving a question and I didn't know I would be allowed more characters in the detail section. He is a citizen of Ghana and I am a citizen of the United States. There are a lot of facts (July 2016-December 2017) but I will just say that he married a traditional girl after we were married legally, so I probably won't continue with the marriage anyways.

My husband , my 3 year old daughter , and I are currently living with his parents and sister at their house , I don't really get along with his mom much because she's just one of those mother in laws that get in your business and tries to butt in to your marriage , I try giving her chance after chance and I just can't seem to like her , she's very stingy to the point where she hides toilet paper , food and laundry soap so we don't get it or eat her stuff even though I don't want ANY of her things , she talks about me behind my back to my husband all that fun stuff , anyway she wants us to pay 300 $ of rent monthly , they only pay 500$ a month for rent and they don't make their daughter pay for ANYTHING , or buy food nothing but his mom always wants us to do everything he gives his dad money each check but we're getting tired of getting charged everything while their princess wastes all her money on herself and doesn't contribute to the house , my father in law was also driving my car a few months back and crashed it my rear view mirror fell off and my car has a huge dent on the passenger door he never paid for it I need it fixed but he's so quick to charge us , we are trying to leave but it's so hard to move out cause everyone does credit checks what should I do I'm going crazy !