Friends: Question: Is my friend a true friend? |
- Question: Is my friend a true friend?
- Question: Should I be upset that my BFF isn’t coming to my daughters 1st birthday?
- Question: What does it mean when a guy asks if you want to hangout?
- Question: You think in out of line with my thinking patterbs?
- Question: My only friend is leaving my school?
- Question: Help! My cousin is treating me like **** in front of others! What should i do?
- Question: Is it bad to not have a kid by 27?
- Question: Would a person with low self-esteem post pics of their face on the internet?
- Question: My friend died in Iraq 3 weeks ago and I still can't believe he's gone?! God I'm crying so much right now?!?
- Question: I received a REALLY expensive gift for my birthday and I feel bad i dont want it?
- Question: Why do I feel so voilated that my ex tried contacting me?
- Question: Should i confront her??/?
- Question: Why do my penpals only write back once or twice?
- Question: Tinder guy stopped messaging me?
- Question: Friend problems?
- Question: How to stop obssessing over details?
- Question: Why do boys like to tease me?
- Question: 29 y/o Virgin afraid of intimacy?
- Question: I love tall women. I can't even seem to make friends with one. How do I even get to be friends with one who is at least 6 ft?
- Question: Did I **** up with her ����?
- Question: Weird question?
- Question: What does it mean when a guy asks if you want to hangout?
- Question: I’m being bullied I don’t know why!? Help?
- Question: Looking for friend s name Lim Hyoung Jin born 1964 Aug,08 in Korea?
- Question: Get into club without id?
- Question: Dog show dilemma? Dealing with a difficult friend - what should I do?
- Question: How do I tell my friend that she is a making a mistake?
- Question: What is wrong with me?
- Question: I have nothing to talk about anymore?
- Question: Is it normal to text someone this much ?
- Question: Is it an insult towards me when my guy friend say you might as well go to the party this weekend.?
- Question: My Friend is bringing her mom?
- Question: My best friend has became a COMPLETE WHORE Should I end our friendship!!?
- Question: Comrade navycrab is sad about decision of notrk korea and sout korea friendhsip?
- Question: Would you rather be admired or receive compliments?
- Question: Do Popular People Forget Easily?
- Question: What do I need to do if my friend is being distant, trying to avoid me, and talk to me less?
- Question: What does it mean when a guy asks if you want to hangout?
- Question: Should I bother contacting her? Im 29 she is 19 and we were just friends. Her mother made her block me against her will 2 weeks ago.?
- Question: Can't ask my friend directly so need advice?
- Question: POLL: How do I know I'm an annoying friend because I'm tired of them having to deal with me?
- Question: Should I say my Goodbyes with a kiss?
- Question: Has anyone felt this way before or am I over exaggerating?
- Question: What can I do to solve an conflict in friendship?
- Question: How to manage multiple close friends?
- Question: Why would a friend tell me that I am cheating on him?
- Question: Am I overthinking it?
- Question: I've been hooking up and having sex with this older man, but now another guy asked me to hangout?
- Question: What to do about my friend who is petty?
- Question: How to get a free pen pal?
- Question: When you know your words can hurt others and you know that person has hurt you, do you say it to hurt them back?
- Question: Which is more important to you?
- Question: My sister tried to commit suicide and my other sister is trying to blame my mom?
- Question: I want to disappear?
- Question: Please help! Friend is being rude!?
- Question: Why don't any of my "friends" care about me?
- Question: Do Popular People Forget Easily?
- Question: I lost my bestfriend please help???
- Question: My friend is in a tough situation?
- Question: Am I overthinking it?
| Question: Is my friend a true friend? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 05:59 PM PST ever since my friend got a boyfriend its like she forgot about me. she always does this. boyfriend over best friend. im literally moving in a few weeks and she chooses to be with him instead of me. ive fought with her about this multiple times and she always makes up lame excuses. ive never been in a relationship so i wouldn't know but if i was i know i would still make time for friends. its messed up what shes doing to me considering she is like my only friend so im always alone watching them be happy. |
| Question: Should I be upset that my BFF isn’t coming to my daughters 1st birthday? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 05:54 PM PST My daughters 1st birthday is coming up, and my best friend is not coming to her birthday party. She says it's because she lives 7 hours away, can't take off work that Friday to travel in, and has a test for grad school the following Monday. I get having things to do, but I'm highly offended that she isn't making the trip for this huge event. My husband says "don't be so upset, she has things going on to". But I can't shake it. My feelings are hurt.. should I confront her? |
| Question: What does it mean when a guy asks if you want to hangout? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 05:51 PM PST There is a store that I go to and over a year or so ago. My mom and I started talking to one of the male cashiers. He just asked us questions like what were we doing for the weekend etc. Just general conversation just being polite. So one day I told him I was going to Massage Therapy school. So he told me that if I needed anyone to practice on I could practice on him. So I said ok and gave him my number awhile went by and he never called. So it's been about four months and the other day he called me. Asking when could I practice Massage on him. I told him that I am no longer in Massage Therapy school. Because I decided to change to something else. But I told him I may end up going back next year. So he asked me if I still remembered some of the things I learned I told him yes. So then he said he could come to my house and I could practice on him. I told him I lived with a roommate I actually still live with my parents. He doesn't have his own place but he said he will soon. So then he asks me if i want to hang out and I told him I would let him know. So I don't know what to think about this. I'm not overthinking it I' |
| Question: You think in out of line with my thinking patterbs? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 05:48 PM PST Is it normal to not want to be friends with someone who cheats on his girlfriends repeatedly and laughs about it while disrespecting other girls as well? He states he loves females but really he just lists females. No love. I try to find a nice girl in life but they don't seem to exist. Only thots, slurs or shemales. Seems like my friend brings an energy I don't welcome. Plus he brags about how he gets "bytches" and I don't. Like wtf lol. He loves to rub in my face and then either that or he will boost about himself constantly. I just don't want to be with someone and knock her up without being a dad to the baby. I must be nuts after all. I used to respect him and his older brother until I found out what white knights they really are and preach to me that I should be doing the same as then when it comes to the female situation. Is it weird that it gets on my nerves when they begin bragging about that they do and call me or at least hint that I'm lame? I starting to want to ditch all those I considered friend for the past 9 years. This friend of mine I don't really like anymore, we are 3 months into our 12 month lease. Its on his name too. Plus this friend of mine thinks its weird that I let my dogs lick my face or wirsts. I got 2 dogs and love them like they were my children and my friend is friends with a loser who had 2 huskies and one of them just recently died due to neglect. This guy we will call him"chuck", put the dogs body in the garage after it was dead then went out with his slut girlfriend he met on POF. Now all this o was told when my roommate told me. I don't go over there. always thought of dogs, cats, and iguanas to be better company than my own kind. People can be such losers who repeat their bullshyt. I'm not anti social. I just want to make new and better friends now. I'm 36 so that might be a hard one. |
| Question: My only friend is leaving my school? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 05:35 PM PST I go to a schoool with a bunch of rich, stuck up, preppy kid and I found out that my only friend is changing schools next week. I don't know what to do?!?! |
| Question: Help! My cousin is treating me like **** in front of others! What should i do? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 05:33 PM PST When we are together she is nice and fine (ofc haha). When we are with other ppl, she is always humilaiting me.. she is always saying somethin that will make me feel bad and she is always exchanging sights with her sister and always rubbing her eyes! Should i say anything to her? This has been going on for a while, but she is the only who i hang out with.. i feel like i am not capable of saying anything to her. Please help me. What should i do? I feel like i cant say anything to her. Pls help 😭😭 |
| Question: Is it bad to not have a kid by 27? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 05:32 PM PST I'll be 27 tomorrow. My two best friends are 26 and are both mothers. One has 3 biological kids, one has one and is pushing for another. People always assume that because my best friends are 26 and mothers, that I should be a mother as well. I've been asked numerous times why I don't have kids yet. I do want kids and I've had a few close calls, but I think God knew what He was doing when I didn't end up pregnant by these losers. Is it really that frowned upon to not be a mother by 27? lol My mom had me (I am her youngest) when she was almost 35 and I turned out fine. I have at least 8 years before I have to worry about it. I don't know what all the pressure is, either. Most of these young mothers aren't married and that used to be frowned upon 40 years ago. A lot has surely changed. |
| Question: Would a person with low self-esteem post pics of their face on the internet? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 04:47 PM PST |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2018 04:36 PM PST So my friend died 3 weeks ago in Iraq. He was 20 years old. When we were in high school he told he'd want to serve our great country. He wanted to defend the United States of America. But the truth is that it doesn't feel real that he's gone,forever. Like sometimes I just think about sending a funny youtube video and then I realize he's no longer around. However after almost 15 years since OPERATION IRAQI FREEDOM started why are we still fighting there? I've been crying for 1 hour. Here in town things got slowly back to normal. When OIF started we were 6 yo. Now we're 20 and we're still there. I do not know how to cope with the loss of a friend. He'll never be a father,a husband. A friend is gone and for what? I wish I had told him how much I loved him when I had the chance. I never thought one day I'd attend his funeral,oh god. |
| Question: I received a REALLY expensive gift for my birthday and I feel bad i dont want it? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 04:32 PM PST and its something i think i will literally NEVER use. I really want to tell the person to return it but i don t know how because i think they put a lot thought into it i feel bad telling them i dont want it but it just costs so much i cant keep it. What do i do!!? It's a designer bag that isn't me at all, i know the person doesn't have that much money to throw around |
| Question: Why do I feel so voilated that my ex tried contacting me? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 04:16 PM PST I cut unfriended him on social media because he was posting disturbing things like wanting someone to suck his dick and other stiff that I don't want to see. Anyhow one day he sends me a friend request, I deny it then he messages me which I also ignored. He knows that I'm in a relationship and 6 months pregnant. Something about the entire situation makes me want to throw up no idea why. |
| Question: Should i confront her??/? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 04:09 PM PST so this girl has been staring at me with a grin on her face when she is with her friends. in class she whispers to her friends while looking at me grinning and her and her friend both starts laughing. Whenever they are laughing i look at them and she stops laughing and hides behind her friend and pretends she wasnt laughing. She does this with every friend she is with and almost making fun of me to the whole school. She doesnt do it when she is NEAR me or by herself but when she is with her friends she does it. We also have another class together and we sit next to each other, when she sits next to me she is all shaky and nevous like im gonna kill her or something. i am a girl |
| Question: Why do my penpals only write back once or twice? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 04:04 PM PST |
| Question: Tinder guy stopped messaging me? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 03:51 PM PST I matched with an absolutely gorgeous guy on Tinder. He's 4 years younger than me and lives about 40 miles away from me. We chatted for 2 days on Tinder and then he suggested WhatsApp which I don't have so I suggested Messenger so I added him on that. He sent me a friend request which I didn't accept I didn't want to go into the whole adding and then him unfriending me if he didn't like me or my pictures. We talked until last Monday he bought a brand new car and sent me images of it we chatted a bit about that and then nothing. I was sick Christmas Day and he asked how am I feeling. He always messaged me stuff like 'Good Morning' or 'How was your day?' He also co-owns a farm/quarry and he said 'I'll show you sometime' and he sent me a picture of a newborn baby calve to cheer me up. I liked him because he was never overtly sexual or suggestive. The most suggestive thing he said was he was lying 'clothesless' on his bed getting ready to head out and he asked me Christmas Eve/Day (when he had a few drinks) do I drive and to come up to him. He works as a doorman in a nightclub so he definitely has no shortage of girls flirting or chatting him up. I was actually wondering why he was messaging me. I am not unattractive but he's better looking. I liked messaging him and I miss our chats so I am a bit disappointed he's stopped messaging he's online because I've seen him. I have never met anyone from a dating app but I definitely would have met up with him. |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2018 03:36 PM PST So, my best friend and I have been close for years and we do everything together. We basically are friends with only eachother but we do hang out with other people. Lately, one of our friends is going through something but she uses that as an excuse to sit with my best friend on the bus, and be with her all the time and exclude me. I am super hurt by this because she will do things like text my best friend that she needs to sit on the bus with her because she is feeling sad or "needs to tell her something" but as i have experienced on the bus tshe doesnt talk about anything really sad but makes jokes and laughs the whole time. Today when we got on the bus i was ahving a horrible day and i needed to talk to my best friend, and again this girl had texted her before hand and when i went to sit she said that she needed to be with the girl. The WHOLE time the talked about BS and i cried on the bus, i dont know why i cant handle this but i feel like evrytime they talk she is pulling more and more away from me. I kinda dont wanna confront her because i dont want to start drama or make it look like i control who shes friends with |
| Question: How to stop obssessing over details? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 03:01 PM PST So I have a friend that likes to ask a lot of follow up questions. Tbh I'm okay with questions and some other stuff... But the questions they ask just annoy me so much that it's asked repeatedly. "What do you think he would do to me? How would he do it to me? What does he think of me?" It can be answered with a simple word or two... but they ask me to make a paragraph giving every tiny detail like they're my English teacher. I may be selfish but, I've already got enough rather than to spend the majority of my time with them, explaining the details of what their crush would think of their lips. Is there a way I can cope with this or have them cease asking this? It really does tire me out to a point where I just wanna avoid them sometimes. Which I don't want to. Everything would be less heavy and stress inducing if I find out how to solve this for them |
| Question: Why do boys like to tease me? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 02:11 PM PST boys at my school compare to my sister and say im the ugly sister. They dont talk to my sister or speak to her but they talk so great about her and less about me. They only talk to me and tease me about being ugly. This one guy even brags about ow ugly i am and how pretty my sister is but he talks to me more than her. She isnt mean or looks mean but she even tries to talk to them and they ignore her. if im that ugly why are they talking to me and not my sis?? |
| Question: 29 y/o Virgin afraid of intimacy? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 01:36 PM PST I'm a 29 year old man who has never had a girlfriend or sex. I have always been afraid of getting too close to anyone and if a woman got close I would end communication completely. I have always kept everything inside and told no one not even parents or other family members what is going on in my life. I never have had anyone to talk to about these things they just stay inside me. I am now trying to change things in my life after being numb and socially isolating myself the last 4-5 years as I no longer have Any friends (well one "friend" but I never do anything with him just text every once in a blue moon) so I never socialize in any capacity anymore just spend most my time alone in my apartment. Now that I am changing things it seems impossible to socialize again never the less try dating and letting a woman in my life even though I really want to. Is it too late to change and start dating??? |
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| Question: Did I **** up with her ����? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 01:06 PM PST So I like this girl and we were friends (I think) and I had great fun with her (in person) and so over the Xmas school holidays my friend used my sc and called her a stupid ***** and she thought it was me. She said "I'm not being ur friend anymore" and I felt really bad because I thought I upset her so I txted her an apology about 3 lines saying "my friend called you a *****, I'm sorry if you thought I was being an asshole u didn't deserve that so I'm sorry" and she said "ok" so now she doesn't talk to me and I dunno what to do. A part of me thinks **** her but another part thinks ffs I'm genuinely sorry. So she told people I sent her a paragraph (which in school is kinda sad) |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2018 12:44 PM PST So! I have a friend who studies, photography, and one of her classmates (who I met when I was modeling for her at the studio of her school) asked me to model for him in an abandoned school. He seemed like a really fun, nice and normal dude so I agreed. But afterwards he made a few weird comments, but I didn't think too much of it and we planned the whole thing a bit more. Afterwards tough I was thinking about some things he said and asked my friend if he was a decent guy. She says he's a total creep. Now, I'm sure he won't try to molest me or anything. But my friend is worried he might try to "Readjust my blouse" or flirt with me (he's been in a relationship for a year now.) the point is, he's creepy, but he was never disrespectful to me. I still feel uncomfortable though, and I need to call it off in a polite manner (or find a very good excuse) the problem is that the assignment is due in a few months from now so I can't say I suddenly don't have time. another problem is that my non-creepy photographer friend also wants me as a model for the same assignment..... does anyone have any suggestions? |
| Question: What does it mean when a guy asks if you want to hangout? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 12:40 PM PST There is a store that I go to and over a year or so ago. My mom and I started talking to one of the male cashiers. He just asked us questions like what were we doing for the weekend etc. Just general conversation just being polite. So one day I told him I was going to Massage Therapy school. So he told me that if I needed anyone to practice on I could practice on him. So I said ok and gave him my number awhile went by and he never called. So it's been about four months and the other day he called me. Asking when could I practice Massage on him. I told him that I am no longer in Massage Therapy school. Because I decided to change to something else. But I told him I may end up going back next year. So he asked me if I still remembered some of the things I learned I told him yes. So then he said he could come to my house and I could practice on him. I told him I lived with a roommate I actually still live with my parents. He doesn't have his own place but he said he will soon. So then he asks me if i want to hang out and I told him I would let him know. So I don't know what to think about this. I'm not overthinking it I'm just curious about what he wants. |
| Question: I’m being bullied I don’t know why!? Help? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 12:33 PM PST school has been making me puke lately it's basically I've been bullied the whole middle school year I've recently transferred schools and it's still going on a lot of times it confuses me because I don't know what I'm doing wrong! these group of girls (one of the girls didn't like me) were being nice to me the first two weeks at my new school and know their acting very strange being rude and staring at me weird. I'm confused trying to figure out what I did wrong! is it something I'm doing? any opinions? |
| Question: Looking for friend s name Lim Hyoung Jin born 1964 Aug,08 in Korea? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 11:03 AM PST |
| Question: Get into club without id? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 11:03 AM PST i'm going to a show next weekend. i don't have a fake id. the show's 18+ and i know there's a risk i won't get in but i've had tickets since september and there's no way i'm not gonna at least try to get in. i'm going with another friend that's a minor plus like 10 friends that are 18 or 19, but i doubt there's any way they're gonna believe me n my friend are 18. she's only like 5'5 and she's got braces. i'm 6'2, so at least i got that going for me. none of us have **** worth showing off. show me de way to getting in, dear pals. is it a lost cause? |
| Question: Dog show dilemma? Dealing with a difficult friend - what should I do? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 10:28 AM PST My friend is one of those people that doesn't like to be told "no". She pulls a guilt trip every time or throws a fit (she is 34 and I am 29). Awhile ago she asked me if I would help her with a dog show as she planned to enter two dogs and would need help at least handling one, at the time I told her i would think about it. I come to find out that she entered both dogs anyways and expected my help. We had gotten together on new years eve and she had said to me she'll see me in a couple weeks, at the time i thought nothing of it until i put two-and-two together the other day. I HATE having to break any sort of bad news to her because she always goes off the deep end and pulls some sort of guilt trip on me, or makes me feel badly. She'll ignore me and start posting "memes" on Facebook about the "meaning of friendship". I know this isn't what friend's do and I honestly don't know why I've put up with it. When she first brought it up to me she told me she would be covering everything, however she never mentioned covering my gas. I live 8 hours from her, so to go there and back the whole weekend it would cost me over $200.00. I don't know how to approach her about the show and either say 1. I'm sorry but i can't/afford/don't want to go or 2.cover my gas. It is not this weekend, but the following. I ALWAYS help her and bend over backwards travelling with her to dog shows... |
| Question: How do I tell my friend that she is a making a mistake? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 09:11 AM PST My friend(I will her Jane) is married to her husband who fell I'll last year. Jane told me that she met a man at her job and they hit it off(they've been dating for a few months now). She told me the guy asked her to move in with him and she agreed. I am baffled and sad for her husband that needs 24/7 care since he's dying of cancer. How do I voice my view to her so that she will see that her decision is wrong? |
| Question: What is wrong with me? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 09:02 AM PST So, I am very introverted and I don't like people much, and I spend a lot of time with my best friend (no clique, no group, just the two of us), and I have these episodes. They usually start off when I see someone/something that scares me - this is sometimes crowds, the popular mean group, but more often this one girl who bullied me all through last year (fixed now, she's trying to be my friend but I am too scared of her). What usually happens is that my breathing/heart rate becomes much faster, I get clammy, sweaty hands and butterflies/headache. Then, I feel sad and empty and guilty that I am such a freak. This part can last for a long time - longest has been three week. All the joy and happiness leaves, and I can't do things that I would usually love doing. Please tell me what is wrong with me, and help me turn more extroverted and less of a weirdo. Thank you |
| Question: I have nothing to talk about anymore? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 08:31 AM PST I'm a pretty 16 year old girl and a Gemini so I'd expect myself to be a social butterfly. Instead I'm the exact opposite, It's become so hard to talk to people to the point I do not have one friend. But I want to have friends so bad. People try to talk to me and I try to make small talk and even when I do find something to talk about it's boring like "How was your day?" Then after 30 seconds itd end In awkward silence. I even tried talking about their interest but still a conversation won't last longer than a minute. I feel so awkward in social situations that I have to walk away, usually a bathroom. I've always been shy but I've always had a few friends that I'm comfortable around. I really want friends but I don't know how, Aldo could I have social Anxiety? (I get really nervous when trying to talking to someone). |
| Question: Is it normal to text someone this much ? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 08:02 AM PST Background: I met a guy a few months ago through a dating app and we hit it off. He originally did tell me he was scared to be with someone again due to issues in his past but that he liked me. We didn't become anything exclusive so I was dating other people. When we talked about us again he said he lost his feelings for me because seeing me date other people hurt him. We stayed friends and are friends till this day. We spend almost every weekend together, talk everyday etc. A few weeks ago we talked about our feelings again and he said he saw me as a friend but that he doesn't know how to feel towards me? He texts me everyday, good morning, good night. Throughout the day too, asking how I'm doing, how my day is going etc. I appreciate his friendship and his attention but I do feel he needs to stop texting so much. I'm not actively looking to be with him, I like the way things are. I've also started responding to him as frequently and I never text him first anymore. If we are just friends is this behavior normal? *less frequently |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2018 07:57 AM PST What else are you going to to be doing, nothing. I'm not so social and outgoing and he is. |
| Question: My Friend is bringing her mom? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 07:36 AM PST I'm driving two hours to meet a friend I haven't seen in five years. We're both in our 50's I asked her to meet for dinner and I offered to get the check. She informs me later that she invited her mom to come along (I've never met the mom). That's fine with me, HOWEVER, I now don't know how to handle the check. I don't want to seem cheap and exclude the mom, BUT we're going to a nice restaurant and I don't think I should have to pay for another quest. Please advise....its this weekend! |
| Question: My best friend has became a COMPLETE WHORE Should I end our friendship!!? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 06:51 AM PST Ok so one of my best friends from elementary school lets just say totally when in a different direction I was going I'm 23 & shes 24 I've had my medical job for two years now have my own savings , car & no kids but she hasn't had a job since we graduated high school in 2012 & that was McDonald's the only thing she's been doing for the past 5 years is live with her boyfriend who she didn't even want to marry but she accepted the engagement and still went along with it made him make they're account a joint account so she could use his money (even tho he's only a truck driver) so basically all she's done is live off a guy & sat at home all day just playing on social media anyways they recently had a baby but since the baby came he started making her do everything & controlling then one day she gets sick of it & leaves her "fiancé " to be with her old ex from high school who use to cheat on her & disrespect her and her baby daddy and her ex use to be friends and now she lives with the guy am I wrong for not respecting her as a woman anymore ? It's like she hopped from one guys house to another It's like she can't survive without a man what should I do In this situation I'd hate to cut her off but I'm so disappointed in her high school like decisions & mindset & both of her bfs are broke as a joke and dropped out of high school it's not like she's even picking guys with real money they barely make over minimum wage |
| Question: Comrade navycrab is sad about decision of notrk korea and sout korea friendhsip? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 05:57 AM PST |
| Question: Would you rather be admired or receive compliments? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 05:54 AM PST |
| Question: Do Popular People Forget Easily? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 05:42 AM PST So this girl wasn't particularly popular, but she does have friends and talks to people constantly in the hallways. There's not a time you'll see her alone. But I only have one friend, and thats it. I have a class with her, and since shes sort of a class clown, I joked at her when she turned around to take a look at me during class yesterday, thinking she'll take what I said as a joke. But she kinda took it seriously, and said something like "why are you saying that to me"? But then she just joked it off, and the joke almost seemed forced too, almost like she was avoiding disrespecting or making me feel uncomfortable. Everybody, including her friends, who sometimes greet me, and that I'm always on guard to protect my reputation from, saw me too. They must of thought I was disrespectful, and now they probably got a bad vibe of me, and I'm afraid they won't interact with me and give me the respect they did anymore, and see me as socially awkward. I'm so nervous for no reason now, I feel stupid for even worrying about this. So i came back from school, thinked through, and remembered what my mom told me one time, something to the effect of - popular people forget, since they deal with a lot, but the less popular people don't forget, because they deal with less and worry more about what they do, and their reputation and stuff. But is this really true? Or have I just embarrassed myself? And did people get a bad vibe of me now? |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2018 05:00 AM PST She told me why she was being like this. She said that I ask to much complicated questions, and that she starting to find me annoying. But you know what, she never told me that until I confronted her because I knew there might be something up and she isn't telling me anything. She kind of left me in the dark. She acted as if nothing is wrong and that she is just being herself and she is just like to play around. But I knew all of that was a lie to I guess...spare my feelings? Or not trying to be rude like she says? I really still want to be friends with her, when ever I do something she doesn't like, but it isn't on purpose....I'm not very good with conversations and communicating with another human being. I'm really nice to her but then there is the problem with her not understanding me and me not being able to know my boundaries and not doing the right things. I am trying to work on making both of our relationship as friends better and giving her space. But she is still distant and tries to avoid me. I need advice and things I should do. I still want to be friends with her, even good friends. Also before, we were both pretty cool and better than now but now is different....and its because of me. But I really want to fix things and have things go back to the way it was before and maybe even better. I need help. She still says hi now and then to me and even talks to me a little. |
| Question: What does it mean when a guy asks if you want to hangout? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 03:02 AM PST There is a store that I go to and over a year or so ago. My mom and I started talking to one of the male cashiers. He just asked us questions like what were we doing for the weekend etc. Just general conversation just being polite. So one day I told him I was going to Massage Therapy school. So he told me that if I needed anyone to practice on I could practice on him. So I said ok and gave him my number awhile went by and he never called. So it's been about four months and the other day he called me. Asking when could I practice Massage on him. I told him that I am no longer in Massage Therapy school. Because I decided to change to something else. But I told him I may end up going back next year. So he asked me if I still remembered some of the things I learned I told him yes. So then he said he could come to my house and I could practice on him. I told him I lived with a roommate I actually still live with my parents. He doesn't have his own place but he said he will soon. So then he asks me if i want to hang out and I told him I would let him know. So I don't know what to think about this. I'm not overthinking it I'm just curious about what he wants. |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2018 01:31 AM PST Her mother pays for her college but i miss her don't know what to do Should I wait longer or give up. I don't want her to be stressed out |
| Question: Can't ask my friend directly so need advice? Posted: 11 Jan 2018 12:26 AM PST Quick summary: A friend and I started a company around a tech but would take a couple years of development. Took too long so I quit my job, freelanced and worked in an office space to gain extra time. But got kicked out because...you can't live in office space. So, my friend let me stay in one of his rental homes. We finished, did a show and got good results, but one customer wanted the device to do something it really wasn't designed for. I wanted to say no but my friend said yes. So, we scrapped the original business plan to try and satisfy one customer doing something near impossible for not that much money. Fast forward 18 months of very hard work on my part. I'm still living in his house and the device seems to work pretty well, but my friend has steadily grown distant. We used to talk nearly everyday but he gradually grew more distant but now he has all but ghosted me. Never ever calls and made up a story about having his phone stolen so we can't talk by phone, only email. Many times I have stated I feel bad about freeloading and even encourage quitting but he wouldn't have it and says don't worry about the house. Why do you think he's ghosting me? (Also interested in your opinion. Please do not advise I ask him. Thanks) |
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| Question: Should I say my Goodbyes with a kiss? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 11:12 PM PST The love of my life passed away. The family allowed be to handle all arrangements up to the point when everything was paid out of my pocket for funeral services. Then over rid me and ordered cremation. Since we were not married yet. After overriding me they still wanted me to handle the service of viewing and notifying people, then getting information on how to pay their bills, fix their houses, make appointments for them, etc. Now I in 2 weeks will have no where to live but with family until my social worker helps me. I needed a ride to the funeral services but the two sisters that override me said their cars are full, I'm taking the bus. I was gathering money for a nice burial but they were concerned about how they would look to other people and also did not want to wait. My question is show I go to viewing and say my goodbyes there with a kiss to my loving fiancé, or should I go to services and leave before it ends. Many will come that have supported me, but my gut tells me to separate myself from his family. |
| Question: Has anyone felt this way before or am I over exaggerating? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 09:59 PM PST So lately I have been feeling unappreciated and ignored by everyone I try messaging people but when I do they only reply once and after that they completely stop And they only message me when they need something but when it comes to your siblings etc they will talk to them except you |
| Question: What can I do to solve an conflict in friendship? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 09:55 PM PST I'm trying to be a friend but this friend is having a hard time or discomfort with me sometimes because I confessed that I want to make our friendship work then later I regret saying that so I came back saying that I like this person a lot. Fine response back but acting up sometimes and it's making me hard to be myself and her. It's like we guarded up to each other. I'm trying to be a friend right now nothing more. I hate it when she feel uncomfortable sometimes. We have to work together at school. I want to be her friend but she keeps thinking otherwise. So I think it's better if I leave her alone after we finish working together but I hate wanting to be her friend but I also hate it when she's guarded up to me. HELP? |
| Question: How to manage multiple close friends? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 09:14 PM PST So basically I, 21, a guy, am friends with this dude since high school. He's my go-to guy if I wanna kill time, go to movies, or play snooker. Recently, I made a new friend, she's awesome, and we got really close. Not in the relationship type thing. We agreed to make it a really good friendship. I went to watch a movie with her, & then next day, the guy called and asked me if I wanna go watch the movie with him. I had to say no, and he didn't admit it, but his tone fell a bit low, so. I'm gregarious now. I would love to have lot of friends. But how do I manage this sensitive stuff. I'm not at all interested to take things further with the girl. & her thinking is the same. We're just so even, that it's fun hanging with her. That's all The same movie |
| Question: Why would a friend tell me that I am cheating on him? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 08:59 PM PST |
| Question: Am I overthinking it? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 08:46 PM PST If a college friends says he can't believe I'm his only college friend who met his brother, thats not an insult right lol. Just realized we must be good friends right lol. That's good righ, not an insult right lol. |
| Posted: 10 Jan 2018 08:45 PM PST Ok so I've been hooking up and having sex with this older guy who lives in another state. We've only hooked up a few times though I'm 30 and he's 43. He doesn't have his own place and he's been living out of his car. I send him money sometimes to help him and for his services. This 30 year old guy at a store that I go to sometimes asked for my number awhile ago and today he called asking to hang out. I told him I would think about it I'm rushing anything with him though. He knew that I had gone to school for Massage Therapy. So he's been asking for a massage but he wants to go out to eat or something. Anyway should I stop talking to the older guy? |
| Question: What to do about my friend who is petty? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 08:42 PM PST He's about to be 41 and I'm about to be 27 (same birthday). We got into an argument Friday night. It is now Wednesday night and I haven't heard a word from him. I made a post, requiring an official headcount for my birthday celebration and he saw it, but didn't respond to it either way. I "loved" a few things on his profile, but he still hasn't interacted with me. Is he being petty or am I being petty? The argument was over something stupid. I miss my best friend and it's been 5 days since we last spoke. |
| Question: How to get a free pen pal? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 08:36 PM PST So, I want to have a pen pal (electronic works the best, as I am at a uni and go three states away from breaks), but everything that I google is pretty much just "dating" pen pals. I also don't want to pay money, or if I do, very minimal |
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| Question: Which is more important to you? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 07:39 PM PST Person who loves you and kind to you or person who understands you? |
| Question: My sister tried to commit suicide and my other sister is trying to blame my mom? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 07:31 PM PST I have a 15 yr old sister she tried to commit suicide by over dosing. My other sister (who is 19) freaked out on my mom and basically was trying to blame my mom. My mom has been a good mom and she has been the only parent because my dad never cared. And then my 19 yr old sister was like "what Is wrong with her!? Is she stupid !?" I know she is just worried but I'm angry that she called my lil sister stupid and is blaming my mom..... Should I just let it go?? |
| Question: I want to disappear? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 07:06 PM PST I have a good life. I go to a great school, I live in a nice house, etc. The only thing I just wished for is some friends who will never leave me. I used to have tons and tons of friends and my Freshman and Sophomore years were pretty good. Junior year, I did something terrible when one of my friends was done with being my friend since I did something bad. I was moved to another school but kept in touch with my friends the entire Junior Year. Senior Year came and I thought I could rebuild my friendship. Turns out I did the opposite. I again did something bad which led me to be suspended for one day and when I came back, my friends didnt trust me that much. Then came the last straw, I tried to explain to them to the point I overreacted causing them to abandon me. They unfollowed me on social media which isn t such a big deal and they still say hi to me but we re kind of frenemies now. I now have a few friends but like me, they re outcasts which isn t so bad because I love being alone .But I really long for my other friends since they ve been by my side for so long. I felt like I wanted to disappear since they didnt need me anymore. I feel so alone and my outcast friends hang out with their other friends during break or lunch so I have no place to go. Obviously moping about it online is possibly the stupid way of getting attention so I am gonna stop writing stupid stuff like this |
| Question: Please help! Friend is being rude!? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 06:58 PM PST I have a best friend who has been acting mean to me this year. Let's call her T. I'll give some examples. Yesterday I was walking with my friend Emily, when T yelled "Emily!" and squeezed in between us, to talk about herself. She didn't even acknowledge me. It hurt. A lot. Last week, we were watching a movie in class when T formed a group with our friends and did not leave room for me. Then I could see her whispering to the girls and glancing back at me, in a pleased way. This is only some of the things. I cannot really confront her because she is friends with most of my friends, so she'd tell them. I'm lost and my self esteem is slowly lowering. Advice? |
| Question: Why don't any of my "friends" care about me? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 06:58 PM PST They hardly ever respond to my text messages, they never invite me to hang out, I'm always alone at lunch and on weekends, and I'm because of this I'm depressed. |
| Question: Do Popular People Forget Easily? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 06:33 PM PST So this girl wasn't particularly popular, but she does have friends and talks to people constantly in the hallways. There's not a time you'll see her alone. But I only have one friend, and thats it. I have a class with her, and since shes sort of a class clown, I joked with her when she turned around to take a look at me during class, thinking she'll take what I said as a joke. But she kinda took it seriously, and said something like "why are you saying that to me"? But then she just joked it off, and the joke almost seemed forced too, almost like she was avoiding disrespecting me. Everybody, including her friends, who sometimes greet me, and that I'm always on guard to protect my reputation from, saw me too. They must of thought I was disrespectful, and now they probably got a bad vibe of me, and I'm afraid they won't interact with me and give me the respect they did anymore, and see me as socially awkward. I'm so nervous for no reason now, I feel stupid for even worrying about this. So i came back from school, thinked through, and remembered what my mom told me one time, something to the effect of - popular people forget, since they deal with a lot, but the less popular people don't forget, because they deal with less and worry more about what they do, and their reputation and stuff. But is this really true? Or have I just embarrassed myself? And did people get a bad vibe of me now? |
| Question: I lost my bestfriend please help??? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 06:17 PM PST I'm a guy and I had a bestfriend for 5 years, but unfortunately our friendship ended in February of last year. My life was a mess and I fell into depression, I began doing a lot of bad things, one day We had a big fight because I was using hard drugs. It made her mad and she asked me to leave her alone, but I kept trying to talk to her for a whole week and I even sent her 2 apology letters to her house. Eventually I had a cop come to my house and he told me to leave her alone because that's considered harrasment. It's been almost 1 year since we talked but I still miss her her, no one understood me the way she did... I don't know what too doo???? I cleaned my life up and I'm more mature now, but I need her in my life.....I need some advice about my situation please |
| Question: My friend is in a tough situation? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 06:05 PM PST Hi, my friend and I are both 16 yr old girls and she's going through a rough time right now. let me start by saying that we go to a county school so the entire county can attend (it's an important detail). she got evicted n is homeless but her fam is staying with their relatives outside of the county so she takes the train to and from school every day but only when she can afford for it her and her brother. because she misses so much school (combined with untreated ADHD) her grades aren't so good. on top of that, she's dealing with a lot of other stuff like depression and anxiety. bc her grades aren't good the school wants to kick her out and if they're reviewing her grades they might look for reasons why her grades are so bad. (they might find out she doesn't live anywhere set right now and kick her out). she thinks that if she talks to school guidance they might do the same or get her in trouble. i've been giving her money and food when i can but idk what else i can do bc it can't go on like this. |
| Question: Am I overthinking it? Posted: 10 Jan 2018 05:42 PM PST If a college friends says he can't believe/just realized I'm his only college friend who met his brother, thats not an insult right lol. Just realized we must be good friends right lol. he said he can't believe it |
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