So my friends birthday is on the 11th and I see her tommrow and on the 12th I'm gonna do my questions tomorrow and my gifting on the 12th. How should I ask her secretly so she won't notice I'm asking to get her a gift. Ps she doesn't think I'm getting her a gift because I gave her a big gift for Christmas.

I was friends with this gay guy for 7 years and all of a sudden he stopped contacting me.He didn't tell me we weren't friends anymore he just blocked me and ignored my messages.I texted him today and he just told me " Leave me the f**k alone....We live in different cities and when we got into argument and weren't talking for a few days he started talking to some girl he used to be friend that he would always talk sh**.about.I don't understand why he didn't even say he didn't want to be my friend anymore.What should I do ?

So me and my best friend recently-out of nowhere-started "hallucinating" and seeing really creepy things. We were on FaceTime together earlier and I got another FaceTime call from....no one. I got a call and there was no name, the screen was black, and it rang until I hung up, then my friend was called literally a minute later, but hers rang for a sec then just hung up. Earlier today when we got home from school we also saw a small black blur, dart from our eyeshot, then disappear. No idea what it was, it was extremely quick. We both also feel like we've been being watched lately and it's freaking us out to no end. My fren even said she saw small red eyes looking at her from her dark closet. We also have seen many other creepy things, in the past week. What is this? Demonic stalker?

My best friend hates me. So basically, I told her some stuff from my past and some things that I did that were horrible. Now she says I'm not the friend that she always thought I was and now she's completely ignoring me. I feel really left out and it's my fault I guess. I can never tell anyone anything. Anyway, what do I do?

So I had asked already ab something similar so me and my best bud got into a fight and he had blocked me on Snapchat but I had gone over to his house because I'm ok with his brother and I hung with his brother, but then my best friend the one I got into a fight with asked me to be on his team for a snowball fight and thru the day we had been like we were when we were best friend it's like nothing happened, but then I texted him I was like hey u didn't seem mad are we ok? Then he blocked me on text can someone please help or explain to me what's going on

How does the wealth affect their relationships with family, friends and old acquaintances? Does it make things awkward?

Where to start. I really hate my Mums new partner she's split from him a few times. And he thinks he owns her. He causes arguments with me over petty things and need a way of making him look like an idiot to my mum. Any ideas? Petty things that are really annoying would be ideal.

I've been depressed lately because my only friend moved and now I have no friends. I feel like if I had friends I would feel better but I don't see how that would happen (I don't make friends easily). So would taking antidepressants help in my situation?

Okay maybe i'm overreacting, but i feel hurt. My best friend, has been for five years. We do everything together, and she has another friend who goes to a different school. Her other friend doesn't really know me but i don't think she likes me. Anyways it was the other friends birthday today and my best friend said in her post twice "I love you more than words can't describe" and on my birthday she didn't even say she loved me. We have been stuck together like glue for over five years and her other friend and her have been friends for maybe a year, yet she can tell her she loves her. I'm honestly really hurt because i thought i was her best friend too, maybe i'm overreacting. Am I? What do you think? Should i ask her about it?

I'm best friends with these two girls, but recently I've been feeling really left out by then and it's really depressing me. They always pick on me, I'm THAT person in a friendship group that gets picked on and they always make insensitive jokes about my race, but if I'm not ok with it then they'll say I'm making a big deal. They never listen to me but I always listen to their problems. When I'm with them I feel like such a third wheel, today at lunch they were having a full blown conversation and I had no clue what they were talking about and they didn't try and even engage me, if I ask them why they're talkig about they tell me not to butt In, so I'm sat there by myself looking like a mug. They even made plans right in front of me and didnt invite me, they make plans together all the time and don't invite me. I think it's time to end the friendship, but I'll have nobody to hang around with at school. I have a few people I talk to in lessons but I'm not that close with them where I could sit with them as everyone is in different forms.

I have been friends with this girl since 10th grade. We graduated since 2016. I stayed in my home city to attend the local 4 year state college. Her and my other friends stayed too but to attend community college. Anyways, despite graduating, I still kept close to this friend. Even though I have been busy and live somewhat 20 mins away, I still found time to hang out. Recently, since this new year, she started to become cold. She would leave me on seen when i messaged her. I considered bringing up to hang out but now that I realize it, she will probably leave me on seen too. I have never been mean to her. I have been that good friend. I am questioning now if it is even worth it. I guess this 2018. new year new me bullshit is taking a toll. I do not know what got into her head. I certainly do not feel like it is worth it to reach out and talk about it because I will look stupid.

I don't know why or just not noticing but, I don't feel the that feeling anymore to see my friends or talk to them. I'm not mad or anything at them. I just don't feel like having friends anymore. Explain why I feel this way.

my friend has been calling me names and saying mean things to me and after each one she says she is "just joking" She calls me the same "names" several times and its making me think shes not actually joking cause its the same one. Sometimes she'll even forget to say shes joking. if she has a problem with me or my looks she'll say something and says im joking but sometimes i dont hear her and ask her to repeat what she just said and she says no. Like she'll call me ugly and says she is joking. And one time she took a pic of me and the camera went dead and she said "the camera broke because of your ugly face" and i asked what did she say and she goes "nothing". And If she has a problem with me she wont tell me but say it in a joking way or she'll say it and be like "oh im just kidding." I was putting on makeup the other day and she looked at me and goes "ew you look like a tranny, just kidding" then like a few days later she told me i could pass for a man but she didnt say she was joking this time. I stopped being friends with her because she is destroying my self esteem and she begs for us to stay friends and tells me im her best friend. She even got all depressed and "suicidal" saying no one likes her or cares about her. and says shes got bullied and still is. i am tired of her jokes and sick of her period.

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Ok so I've been hooking up and having sex with this older guy who lives in another state. We've only hooked up a few times though I'm 30 and he's 43. He doesn't have his own place and he's been living out of his car. I send him money sometimes to help him and for his services. This 30 year old guy at a store that I go to sometimes asked for my number awhile ago and today he called asking to hang out. I told him I would think about it I'm rushing anything with him though. He knew that I had gone to school for Massage Therapy. So he's been asking for a massage but he wants to go out to eat or something. Anyway should I stop talking to the older guy?

My Two BFFs sence 4th grade got in a fight. They now turned on each other I don't know what to do because they talk about each other, and tell me not to hang out with the other one. What do I do?

We were at graduation practice, and two of my friends Julie, and Lynn were sitting two rows behind me. Now Lynn was my best friend since the 6th grade so we were closer. They were talking and laughing hard and loud. So we got up for a break, and I asked my BFF what was so funny back there she said Julie told her to look at me and she said my head was moving side to side like a bobble head like I had music in my ears or something which I didn't It was due to my nerves like when you see old people shake that's how my head do. I guess none of my friends really notice until then. So they were making jokes about it now I said you suppose to be my friends how you gonna laugh at something like that and what if the girl that made the comment wasn't friends with us would you still laugh at my expense. And the crazy thing about it was that an incident happen between us in the 7th grade and she was gonna end our friendship over it, but we remained friends. Update after graduation I fell out with both Lynn and Julie due to them going to different colleges, we weren't as close as we were in high school and me and Lynn ended our friendship completely due to something else. That I may share in another post to see your feedback. What do you think about that.

I knew this guy back in my old elementary days, Back in grade 2,3, 4 and 5,the kids was a bit of a trouble maker but we where friends. im in grade 11 now and havent seen him since around 2012.however supposedly he has died of lung issues, Thats apparently whats being said on instagram. however I havent seen it for me self.also one of my friends told me. I feel very off right now,I just want to now if he is still alive. Funny enough I was thinking about him before his death. is there a way I can confirm he is dead online. I live in toronto ontario

I am friend with my best friend since 4 years. Lately, her behavior is really rude towards me and other people. She hurted me few times and said that she did it in order to make me realize my mistake because she wants to be my friend. I haven't done anything wrong. When we argue I am always guilty and she is always right. Then I am the person who has to apologize without making any mistake. I recently realized these things and that I feel better when I am not with her. I don't want to share with her anymore. I have kept my eyes closed for so long and always stayed silent for many things in order to avoid disputes. She can be described as a toxic person. I am really sensitive and hate to argue with the others. The problem is that she is my only friend in school. The easiest solution is to stop communicating with her but I don't have any friends in school. It's just her. Also I can't tell her how I feel because she never listens and thinks she is never wrong. We will graduate in 6 months and we will study in different cities after that and I will definitely stop communication with her after that. My question is what to do now when we are still in the same school and class?

And also the coward bastard piece of SH.T Darren J Halper who in the middle of the night let him use his phone for this purpose. I cleaned for Darren and drove for the ugly piece of fat crap that he is! LMFAO His full name is Yehuda Fogel.

What do you make of someone who claims to want to be a friend but only texts you? Even if you call, they never pick up, and only respond to your voicemail via text. She's canceled plans at the last minute or been extremely busy to hang out in months, but I wonder am I making too much of it.

I knew this guy shawn for 5 years not only on FB, but from school. So you become friends then more so we tried dating it didn't work, for 5 months broke up in August, not a good one. So around October my friend Lynn wrote on her page about this guy and she used shawn initials . S.?.? out of all the initials you could think this one stood out I said I wandered if she talking about shawn because his initial is that especially when you have a women feeling about something so then later on she revealed his name "shawn" I messaged her I said are you talking about shawn ??? she said yeah why, kinda with an attitude now we been friends since the 6th grade. I said yeah I dated him not to long ago Lynn said was it serious. I said it was a relationship met his mom,dad, brother whole church family went on dates . I considered that a relationship. I was taken back because you know most the time when your BFF said she dated someone you respect that. Nah she wasn't budging I know he wasn't a good person dating wise, but friend yeah crazy i know. and I didn't want her to get hurt since he was gonna be her first BF. She wasn't listening. So I know it was wrong to say but I felt she was no longer a friend but a enemy. So on FB I wrote keep your friends close and your enemies closer so she knew it was directed at her so she popped off saying I was never a good friend I just smooched off of her. Riding her coat tail. I said now if you say this over a guy you been feeling this way towards me. So he broke up with her after three months, and she was ranting on FB how he did her and everything. But I was a bad friend trying to warn her. I'm not trying to sound rude but why is it when I ask people what they think about my situations they say i need to let it go or move on when some of this stuff just happened to me and I want to hear what other people beside my family has to say. Then I see other people on here ask similar questions to what problems I have and people are more willing to help and be understanding. Like WTH....really.

Ever since we started doing it together, she just randomly squeezes it and then smiles and gets jittery, or does some silly smiling dance after she squeezes it a few times. We were long time friends but decided to start having sex on a friendly level. While im driving she slides her hand up my leg slowly and doesnt move her hand away until it touches my dick. Can we safely assume that she is in love with it? Or is she just highly sexed?

We were at graduation practice, and two of my friends Julie, and Lynn were sitting two rows behind me. Now Lynn was my best friend since the 6th grade so we were closer. They were talking and laughing hard and loud. So we got up for a break, and I asked my BFF what was so funny back there she said Julie told her to look at me and she said my head was moving side to side like a bobble head like I had music in my ears or something which I didn't It was due to my nerves like when you see old people shake that's how my head do. I guess none of my friends really notice until then. So they were making jokes about it now I said you suppose to be my friends how you gonna laugh at something like that and what if the girl that made the comment wasn't friends with us would you still laugh at my expense. And the crazy thing about it was that an incident happen between us in the 7th grade and she was gonna end our friendship over it, but we remained friends. Update after graduation I fell out with both Lynn and Julie due to them going to different colleges, we weren't as close as we were in high school and me and Lynn ended our friendship completely due to something else. That I may share in another post to see your feedback. What do you think about that. I reworded it wrong after Lynn went to college in a different state we were still close, but then I would call her and her mom say oh she not here this week or she out i'll tell her to call you back. Weeks went by sometimes the weeks she was suppose to be on break and still no call from her. Then when she did call it was brief. So no I was not the issue I still tried to talk with both of them, and they act like they didn't want nothing to do with me. They made fun of me, but it's my fault. If I was to go in deep, deep, details then people would see were i'm coming from I feel that I was a good friend to people, but as I got older I was just there fool when I was trying to be a friend. I'm just giving a small portion so some views are going to be different, but If I actually let you relive everything then some views would be quite different. Thanks to the ones that understand where I'm coming from.

20 yrs old and a full time junior in university. I live at home. Mon-Wed: from 9am to 9pm gym and go to class... then go to the library with some classmates until my homework is done Thursday - Saturday from 10am to 12am gym and go to my full time job Sunday grab coffee with friends, go to the library or sleep and watch Netflix all day. I'm currently not involved in any extra-curricular in school. I was involved in a club/internship (15 hrs a week) for two semesters and my academics were severely compromised. My parents are very bothered that I don't "party" or go to friendly gatherings. These are my reasons. 1. I'm always tired, between work and school I just need some rest. I'm not the type that can party all night then take an exam in the morning. I know some kids are capable of it, but not me. 2. I have no intention of quitting my job since it helps my finances at school. I am not qualified for any financial aid. 3 Most of my friends are now 21. I enjoy going out for some drinks but I'm not trying to be the DD. Every. Single. Time. My parents often try to introduce me to their friends' children and to make friends with them. I find this weird. I thought parents did this for their kids in elementary school. If I'm not with them, they'll give my phone number to their friends' children. I hate this because I usually don't give my phone number to people I don't know well. Am I over reacting?

I'm 16 guy, and highschool is horrible for me, I have practically no friends but I have these 2 kids that I used to be close to that think low of me, want to know everything im up to and judge me. I've separated my self from them but they still make me feel horrible and try to tel me what I do wrong and stuff. I am lost, Im incapable of school work even when I try. I have nothing. I see no point in my life anymore. I'm mentally screwed up because everything I've been through and these 2 femine kids that I used to be close to, they ruined me a little bit. I just want to die because I literally have no one, no good friends, I Cant pass school and I'm thought low of from them and even maybe other kids. I feel like a fool. I lost my high level hockey, and friends and just screwed over by ppl especially those 2 femine ones. I am judged and they keep taking interest and make me feel so horrible.

I am. I wish I had friends to hang out with everyday

I feel unhappy and bored around them but i'm so lonely

I had that 1 online friend that now hates me and he knows some of my important info and i am afraid he shares it with someone else or my friends... how to avoid him?

I know this girl for a few months, but recently I've been having feelings for her. I've noticed that she always stares at me, and she treats me super nice. Yesterday I sent her a text and I told her that I have a crush on her since we met in September. She said " OMG I had no Idea you had feelinga for me, your a very attractive guy but after my ex boyfriend I need time. I hope you understand, but I'd still like to hangout with you :) ". Did she shut me down completey????? Any help :(

we have been best friends for years; she's a wonderful person and i've never doubted that she's had my best interests at heart. recently we've been backpacking around europe (not for the first time) and she's been very moody, very neurotic, and taking a lot of anger and frustration out on me. i thought that she was dealing w some **** and while i don't think it's fair for her to take it out on me, i was ok with it because i thought it was just external frustration that she had no other way of expressing. however, a few nights ago when we were drinkjng, she admitted fhat she was jealous of my other friendships and sad that i eas going to a different university, and was trying to make me hate her because it would be easier. while i kind of understand the ****** up mentality, the way i see her has completely changed. i no longer feel safe and loved in our friendship. i just feel so betrayed, and hurt. i want to understand and make more sense of it but she won't talk about it. i can't be around her and act normal without thinkjng about it. just thinking about it makes me want to cry and get as far away from her as possible. help?

I guess you could say I'm the "goody-two-shoes" of my supposed friend group. The two others have sort of gone bad, especially since we graduated from high school last summer. Before I get to that, I will include the fact they would disrespect me regularly, exclude me, and most often of all, gossip about me behind my back. They'd call me names to my face, treat me like I'm inferior to them, and call me boring as if it's okay. Now, I have a very very high standard for respect and I cannot handle people treating me this way. Their ignorance is made even more obvious just by observing their mannerisms, but that's beside the point. Lately, they have been engaging in irresponsible, reckless activities and showing very impulsive behavior. They smoke/vape on a regular basis, go to the clubs, have sex with randoms, use vulgar language in every sentence, get drunk even though they're underage, and harass other people. They have invited me to join them at the bar or club multiple times and I refused to go. I have no interest in going to the bar or the club and I don't care whether or not that makes me a "loser." In all honesty, I'm sick and tired of it. They're about to drop out of college and skip class all the time. I cannot associate with people that have no work ethic, don't take anything seriously, are so disrespectful and irresponsible, and engage in such activities. Even when we were kids, they had no respect for me.

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My friend keeps trying to get me to shower with him. He says it's would be fun, but I feel kinda uncomfortable. He asked so many times, and I don't want to be a fuss either… Is it something I should do? I'm 14 and we're both boys.

I have three friends (my best friends are my only friends really). I'm wondering how many friends other people have.

I have four friends and I've been someone with few friends all my life. I'm a junior in high school, sixteen. I talk to this one girl in my Spanish class sometimes - she's an acquaintance. Today she asked me to type my number in her phone. I did. Id like more friends. Does she want to be real friends?

he does things like can't wanting to get off the phone from me, taking more time to even call or text me back, etc. I don't know what to make of it. But again, when I voice my feelings, he says things are just fine in his eyes. Any ideas?

We traded gifts today and she got me my favorite comic that wasn't official but it was fiction and fan-made. The cover was nice and I didn't expect it to be so lewd and inappropriate. Unsuspectingly I opened it in class where I saw explicit LGBT sex scenes. I have no words. Why did my friend give me such a comic anyway? Is this some hint that she likes me more than a friend? I'm confused :/ We always bought normal gifts for each other and this was really unexpected.... I'm not sure if she's aware of what book she gave me but I got the wrong idea.

My friend was talking about how she was so glad to escape her house. Her parents are verbally abusive...but she's going to Univ, and goes on trips and has all these extracurriculars, and a good job already. And they bought her a car too. My family is also verbally abusive I guess, but I never got to escape. I just took regular classes in highschool and couldn't afford anything extra, let alone a car. I had to find a job and go to community college. I can't get a bachelors yet because it's still to expensive, so I might get it online. She has all these opportunities I could never dream of, and she got to escape her house whenever she wanted to. I had to stay...I didn't even get a BF like how she has until recently. I had no one's home to move to or support when my parents were mean. I do feel badly for her, but I also feel so incredibly jealous. I was thinking of not being friends anymore but I don't want it to come to that. I think I almost hate her. We suffered the same but she got so much more in life. I hate how she doesn't see it either, IMO she takes things for granted so much. My parents would never have spent their $ on me like that, even if they did have extra $...and my future wasn't even a thought to them anyway. I did all the college stuff and job stuff myself. It's funny because she says she's so independent now, like she's lived alone or traveled places...but she did no planning of her own, it was all the school's idea. I don't really understand how she thinks. My life was far from horrible BTW. And I still <3 my family. But I'm still broke :p

i have a good friend who is very very sensitive. no i'm not talking about if you say something rude they get super upset and yell at you. i mean the kind of person who you could talk in a vaguely snappy tone, even as a joke, and find them crying in the bathroom five minutes later and screaming at you to leave them alone. in addition to this, they do not leave me alone. we have a total of one thing together and they never leave my side during it and continually touch my arm (i have told them multiple times that when they do that it makes me uncomfortable) and talk very loudly. if i ignore them because i am doing something else, they talk louder. they have punched me in the arm and knocked me to the literal ground when i made a joke about being lazy and still treated it as part of the joke. they make me extremely uncomfortable all the time but i don't know how to set boundaries with them without upsetting them. please help this is messing with me mentally and i hate going anywhere that they will be.

After graduating and coming back from college I've noticed my friend group have no influence from me whatsoever. They all have a DUI (f not multiple), shitty jobs, dropped out of college, getting fat, smoke erryday, and go to the club every possible chance. It seems like they take out their frustrations on me and I am the scapegoat for all their problems? Would I be a bad friend to start cutting them out of my life? feels like I'm experiencing gaslighting that has stemmed from a dominate person in the group

I've been having sex with this older guy who has no place to stay. He is living out of his car. But all I have to offer him is sex and money.

I am not entirely sure if it s all about competition per say, but I have come across a few people the past few years and friends that always want to feel special. Instead of being happy about finding someone who is a like minded- they shut me out. One of my best friends, is on and off with this, and has even admitted she is insecure and feels bad about it (she is aware but still struggles to stop doing it). But it s just frustrating because it feels all so immature. We are both 24 ,females. I am an artist, she use to pursue art but stopped because other things in her life, at times she s very ingeniune when she "acts" happy when I show her a finished art piece, even my ex pointed it out to me saying "Can t you see how fake she is with you? She s not even excited for you." He use to get frustrated because she is suppose to be my best friend and should be as supportive in my achievements with things as I am with hers. It s little things too, like she would become passive aggressive when I say I love a song she puts on, or a band, that I have known for a while too- she becomes agitated instead of being happy with our likeness. But it s not just her, I ve come across some other people that when it comes to having things in common, they shut you out, instead of wanting to celebrate the similarities and it has always been really frustrating, have you ever dealt with this? What do you think of it? And how do you handle it?

I sent out bday invitation about two days ago via Evite, an online invitation site. Out of the 11 males classmates only 3 have responded with a yes. The other 8 haven't responded. There are two other birthday boys who also sent their invitations via Evite. Because my son is invited to this two parties, I am able to see the number of boys attending in their respective parties. It looks like more kids are going to the other boys' parties. Our party is happening first, Jan 15th, but more people are responding to other parties even when they are at a later dates, Jan 20th and 27th. Maybe my son is not popular like their sons. I feel bad. How do I deal with these feelings of rejection and/or being snubbed? I mean, I feel helpless thinking, is my son not likable? Maybe its me, because as a school parent I am not outgoing as the other parents. There are still about 6 days to go before the big day. Worst case scenario if its just 5 kids at our party while the others two kids have 12 kids each, how should I deal with it and tell my son how to look at it?

I want to kill myself... i cant take it anymore....17 years of abuse from my family. I have no friends. My boyfriend is asleep right now.... what do i do... i cant take it anymore.... i cant take it anymore...

Call me weird or whatever ... but I been raised on not adding co-workers on social media or making friends with them... and I strongly believe in that because when I did do it once i had to place a restraining order .. it was terrible . Anyways , some coworkers got my phone and added themselves on Snapchat. I immediately removed them during my break because I mean at the end of the day you just go to work for work and they won't be there in the long run ... if they ask me question about that how can I tell them without offending them or making them feel bad? I ask because I see them all the time I work with them and it's always best to be cool with them because that can determine whether things go smooth or them making your Day hell. You know how people can be, what's a good lie or excuse ? Post them below please

My last semester of high school starts tomorrow. 5 months and it's forget the fakes but I don't wanna look like a loner. I'm not popular but I'm not a dork. I just don't wanna look alone though. But I don't think I've got any contacts (cause friend is a strong word) in my new lunch period.

At what age and how long have you been best friends?

I'm too scared to die but I wake up and wait to go back to bed. I want real friends to talk to about this but I feel like a burden and I pushed away any close friends I had and haven't made new ones that are truly close friendships in years. I love people and I used to be so happy but I just feel depressed generally now. I guess I'm just in need of advice.

so i have been asking alot of questions about these twin sisters in my video editing class in school and how i wanted to be friends with them but then i realized that it would probably never happen so i decided to give up and just pretend that they never exist so that way it helps me remember that i dont want to be friends with them

So I'm the typical teenager. I do well in school, I play sports, I hang out with my friends occasionally and I get in trouble.... sometimes. Typically stuff I'd get in trouble for are things like not taking out the trash or forgetting to wash the dishes or doing some chores. But recently I've gotten in a lot of trouble. I'm a sophomore in high school and I skip maybe once a month with friends. Nothing crazy, just getting some food and chilling at someone's house and doing homework lol. So I was invited to skip with my one friend name Jen. Jen drove illegally but I didn't know. She took me and a couple of other friends out to eat and then met up with her boyfriend for a few hours. She left me and my friends in the restaurant and left us the keys to her car. She said we could drive it if we wanted but to be careful (Dumb move). So I happened to be the only person that held a permit in our group of friends. I didn't really wanna drive but everyone insisted they wanted to go and do other things then wait for Jen to come back. So I took the keys and drove thinking everything was gonna be okay because everyone was assuring me it was (Another totally dumb move). Surprise surprise we only drove down a couple of blocks before I made a turn that ultimately hit another car. I was devastated. Was in total shock as to where I couldn't speak or cry. I immediately called Jen and she was on her way back. I was in disbelief and incredibly upset because I never wanted to drive in the first place. The accident was minimal damage with both cars having small dents. The police were obviously called because I was a minor driving the car without a license. the police were really rude to me honestly. They cracked jokes and even laughed and said I derserved the punishment I was gonna receive when I got home (I told them my dad could be physically abusive at times) it was like my heart sunk into my ***. I stood there waiting for my dad to come. In the moment I was also incredibly disappointed in myself. I knew I was a smart person, that I could make good descions for myself. But yet I let myself skip, slack off in school and get bad grades, and drive a car without a license (thank god none of us or the guy I hit was hurt). I had a long talk with my parents. They cried and were so disappointed in me they couldn't even look me in the eyes. After a few days I finally was able to sort things out with Jen's insurance and they moved forward and claimed liability and payed for the guys car. But now I have to deal with my punishment. I'm hoping that the correctional officer can be understanding of me. I know I skippped and let my parents down and disobeyed the law, but I'm willing to try to make myself a better person. I really just hope the officer can see that I'm being so genuine. I want you guys to give me any advice you can. And if you have been in any similar situations give me some feedback as to what you think is gonna happen? I live in a North Carolina by the way. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I really took this whole situation and trying to grow as a person and not go down the wrong path. I feel as if this needed to happen for me in order for myself to realize how bad I was doing. Thanks

I feel like in friendships and in general people only wish the best for them and are fake and jealous of others