After someone I love so much died, I've been having a really hard time. It was my first real lose. I had been having major panic attacks but they are lessening. I'm still nervous and scarred and can't really get into anything. My father has been having a hard time and is now taking it out on me. Every time we get into a disagreement he'll hint at things and I obviously can't say anything, that's a low I won't reach. I've lost trust in him and can't find support in him. It was my granddad who died, so I understand his grief, but him saying hinting at things I regret to win arguments isn't something I can sympathize with. I've tried talking to people, but I can't think clearly, I'm just turn into a mess. I just don't understand what to look forward to, everything seems so pointless. I'm starting to get better but it's so hard. A teacher commented to me the other day 'I didn't realize they excused more than a days absence for grief'. What did she think? Up until not that long ago I spent more waking hours with him than at my own home, he practically raised me. My grandfather was an amazing man who I miss so much. Almost never a day went by without him calling, often multiple times, and I was always over there. I'm just not ready for everything else.

I had this woman. When I met her she had 3 kids and then we had one together we planned in having another one cause I wanted 2 kids of my own and she was all for it we was going to get married and then try for another. We broke up because her son got in my face and threatened to hit me. We then broke up for a month and we have been trying to get along for the baby and it was going great I got her and then she got her 3 on 3 off. She kept telling me she is sorry for how she treated me and I deserve so much better in life. I didnt understand what was going on. She said she needed to talk to me. Well I dropped off my daughter at her work and she started crying I askes her whats wrong. I knew shr had a man already and thats fine its not my business. I told her its ok well she feels like she cheated on me cause she never wanted to let me go. She said there is more bothering her and I just looked at her an said your pregnant. She lost it cause in January we were to get married and February try for another kid. She told me countless times she loves me and wants to be with me and I think I still have those feeling for her to idk she wont talk to me a while lot about it we text all the time. She said she doesnt want to get an abortion and I dont blame her. But how can I be with someone that has another mans baby. So can someone please give me any advice on the subject to what they would do I do love her and think about her alot but can a love be strong enough to withstand this.

I have been hanging out with a guy for the past couple months. We would see each other 3 days a week and he would stay over at my house, we have not been intimate. Just a peck when he leaves or we leave after meeting for dinner. He texts me every day. So when I said it felt like a relationship he just don't want that title he said things were going to fast for him. He said he wants to be friends and then see what would happen. And his last relationship wasn't so good. She never wanted to do anything with him. And it was all about her. With me I enjoy doing things with him. But I also go do things with my friends.

Okay, last night my dog sh*t on the floor and dog sh*t grosses me out but whenever i eat it just pops up in my head for some reason and doesn't go away. How do i get it off my mind?

Okay..the story started like this. My husband has that one group of childhood friend since high-school and they are so close to each other. One of them is quite arrogant and I didn't like him since the beginning but I tried to make no negative comment about him as my husband loves them. Once that arrogant friend and his girlfriend made a disrespectful comment to my husband's career (which I really love) and I was so defensive. They both seemed embarrassed and didn't talk to me (greeted my husband only even when he saw us together) since that moment. My husband is pretty cool guy and he doesn't mind especially that group of friends say something bad to him. (But I mind). He always said they were like brothers and brothers forgive each other. I felt that tension between that guy and I since then. I get along with the rest of the pack till now. (I used to hang out with them occasionally since when we were dating back then.) Now, that guy's gonna get married and my husband has to go to that wedding and he made me come along. I really want to avoid that wedding but I shouldn't, right? Part of me wants to avoid that wedding, making my husband to go there alone. But part of me wants to go to that wedding, smile at that jerk's face. What would you do?

Hello, I am 17 and I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months. The catch its that he is 20. He turns 21 2 days before I turn 18 and I am now 4 weeks pregnant. What is your view on the situation?

I've been with my bf for a year, he's 50 yrs old. He's very caring, intelligent, and kind. But he spent too long chasing Hollywood and is now trying to find a career. With months of several promising but dissolved job opportunities, then spending a month unemployed, he now has a minimum wage job. He previously lived with his brother and son in an apartment, but has slowly found his way into mine. When I met him things were mentally tough for me, and while he made things a little better, I feel like things are back where they started. I say I'm still with him for emotional support, but I'm realizing we have no real connection and he's not helping me. This isn't mutual. I pay for food, rent, he drives my car, putting several miles on it, and occasionally gives rides to his mother and his 40 year old brother. When he was out of work, we laid around and did nothing. There are plenty free things to do in LA. But I need motivation to leave the house and do things. He doesn't give me that. If I let him go now, he won't have a car and will end up taking a bus to work, which is a painfully long commute from where he previously lived. I'd hate to do that to him, because he's really trying. He wants to help me and provide, but the fact of the matter is that he simply can't. And if he can't be the one I need emotionally either, what's this all for? I'm getting frustrated more every day. I'm only 25 and while I've had the worst luck with men, I may very well be better off single again.

I live with two roommates. My roommates and I stay in a room that is small. We don't have privacy because the room is quite intimate. One of my roommates likes to have a lot of people over, especially guys.I expressed to her that it makes me feel uncomfortable when she has guys over.Especially the ones she has over.What makes me more upset is the fact she has people over late at night and they leave super late.To me, that is just inconsiderate when I feel like going to bed I can't becuase she has people over. One time she had her ex and his friends come over while I was sleep and they woke me up and I had an 8 am the next day. Another time she had two guys over till 5 am and they were loud as hell. The guests pretty much invade the whole room. I don't say anything because I don't want to come off mean or crazy but this is really bothering me. Like they want me to be friendly and cool with them but really I just want them to leave the room! My roommate had two guys just in the room and I felt like going off on them the whole time! One of them was leaning on my bed nearly stepping on my pillow and using our bathroom. I just found out a guy is coming over at 11 pm tonight as well. Do I have a right to be upset or am I just being irrational? Does she have the right to do all of this? Btw I'm in college. I don't want to get on my roommates bad side by tattle telling to the head of the floor but I don't really know what to do right now. Room switches can't even happen right now.

The husband of the couple is nice but the wife likes to stir up trouble and get my Mom mad at her siblings. The woman is an ex-friend of my Mom's sisters and now friend's with my Mom. She gives my Mom negative data on my Mom's sister.

I think we all nice people should make a pact to stop chosing bad partners and crushes. Instead we can only like someome if they are very nice as much as we are. :)

https://youtu.be/7Rpz2Ejp308

Hes scared to feel for me too