Marriage & Divorce: Question: I don't find other women attractive anymore? |
- Question: I don't find other women attractive anymore?
- Question: Caught my pastor having sex at church!?
- Question: Why won't he give up his mistress?
- Question: Husband kissed a girl & dance with her while i was home w kids. He says it was just a quick kiss for her bday. What should i think or do?
- Question: It wouldn't matter much when you are married?
- Question: How do i remove my husband from my sectio 8 voucher?
- Question: That wouldn't be a worry if you were married?
- Question: Ladies: Do you buy the we grew apart excuse from a seperated man?
- Question: Today I saw a Korean guy holding hands with a White girl who had a Southern accent. Should I have called the cops?
- Question: Marriage question?
- Question: What is a side hoe?
- Question: What do you think of a man that proposes to and marries his wife using his mother's engagement and wedding ring rather than buying his own?
- Question: How do I handle a situation in my marriage?
- Question: Would you want to marry someone who is not very close to their family and is awkward around their own family member?
- Question: Why should I put a husband before my parents/siblings else when..?
- Question: My wife isn't enjoying sex. How can I figure out how to give sexual pleasure to my wife?
- Question: Can i get married out of state, with my parents consent?
- Question: Really young marriage in the Army is not working well what to do?
- Question: Friend (20 yrs) is in a BAD spot in life w/ a baby. My husband and I want to help. I need level headed opinions about our potential offer.?
- Question: Husband repeatedly ditches me for another woman.?
- Question: My wife decides she isn't attracted to me anymore right before we planned on having kids?
- Question: Got married a year ago. I live in America and have been here for 7 years. I am 35 years old. Last year I got married.?
- Question: Why would my husband cheat on me with his ex gf 4 months into our marriage?
- Question: Is it more likely a person will cheat on their current spouse with her ex if he is abusive, manipulating and the father of her kids?
- Question: Getting a divorce, found out she s pregnant, & she doesn t want me to have anything to do with the child.?
- Question: My wife got a puppy after i expresses i did not wish to have one. She does not care for it, expects me to look after it. What to do people?
- Question: Is it ok to lie to wife about this?
- Question: My wife tells me I have a problem?
- Question: Am I ready to move on with my life?
- Question: If child support recognize me s the custodial parent does my child father have the right no to return my child after a summer visit?
- Question: Anxiety after divorce anyone been through this?
- Question: Should I ask my ex husband to quit calling on certain nights?
- Question: My incarcerated husband wants me to move to his state if he cannot get approval to be released to my state. That would mean selling my farm.?
- Question: How can I divorce my husband without seeing him?
- Question: After we returned from our honeymoon my husband opened our wedding gifts without me. He doesn't understand why I'm upset. Am I wrong to be?
- Question: What do you do when your wife wears sexy night gowns and she gets mad for looking at her?
- Question: Should I divorce my husband ?
- Question: Jealousy question??
- Question: I think my husband is wanting a divorce.?
- Question: Should I move on with my life?
- Question: My spouse spends all of our money to the point where I can't buy anything myself. How do I fix this without counseling?
- Question: ANNIVERSARY QUESTION!!?
- Question: Am I being to hard on my husband? My husband is a full time collage student and we have 3 kids ages,2,4,6.?
- Question: Husband lied to his wife for two years about being in college and faked his graduation?
- Question: Are Men really happy with marriage if they want to keep a mistress? MEN only please..?
- Question: Am I being to hard on my husband?
- Question: Wife says she does not look at other men, why not?
- Question: Am I being to hard on my husband?
- Question: Is marriage a scary thing to do ?
- Question: To preserve domestic bliss, are you prepared to leave your wife or mother?
- Question: Anyone who has a good story about how they met their wife?
- Question: My wife treats me like I'm an inconvenience and that the only good I do is "get in her way" or "sabotage her". How can I protect myself?
- Question: Do men really date and/or marry out of a perceived obligation?
- Question: How to turn my husband on?
- Question: Is it selfish to not want husband to drink?
- Question: What are the best marriage websites today ?
- Question: Why was I so stupid in this marriage?
- Question: How can i find a domestic helper with benefits to replace wife?
- Question: My husband baby mom is in and out the hosp? I want him to suspend his child support is it wrong??
- Question: My husband hurt me so bad. I feel sorry that i have to go on here to get it of my chest. But i honestly have no friends to talk to.?
Question: I don't find other women attractive anymore? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 09:20 PM PDT I've been happily married for a little more than 15 years. One of my buddies was getting married and he had his bachelor's party at a strip club. My wife approved and said it was fine, just go have fun. When I arrived with my buddies, they were all enjoying theirselves. Except for me. I wasn't attracted to any of the strippers, whatsoever. I was just really uncomfortable and wanted to go home. I've never had this problem before I got married. I don't "fear" women or whatever. I'm not complaining, I just don't understand what's happening with me. It's almost as if I've lost all attraction for other women except for my wife. Is this normal? |
Question: Caught my pastor having sex at church!? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 09:01 PM PDT Ok so last Sathurday I stayed after mass to help the Pastor and his pregnant wife clean up the place (change plastic bags, sweep etc). I had just picked up bags from the ladies restroom and headed to to mens restroom when I heard some weird sound as if a woman was hurt. I inmediatly ran to the youth room which is where I heard the sound coming from. I thought of the pastors wife getting hurt somehow since she was pregnant. As I entered the room, I saw them having sex on those soccer game table thingies. They didn't really notice me in there until I sort of held my breath really loudly. They both jumped scared and told me to inmediatly close the door. They were my ride back home but I was scared to ask them at what time we were leaving so I decided to just walk the seven miles back home. I haven't told no one about this and I have to see them again this Sathurday and I'm terrified and scared of what's gonna happen. What should I do? |
Question: Why won't he give up his mistress? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 08:14 PM PDT If a married man has been caught having an affair twice by his wife, you would think he would leave his mistress as he is trying to improve his relationship with his wife. But why isn't he dropping the mistress? |
Posted: 07 Jul 2016 08:01 PM PDT That girl claimed to have a huge crush on him. She kept texting him after, she mentioned if she can stay friend with him as she is afraid to break our marriage and enjoyed the affection. She has openly talk about plans to move in our city. |
Question: It wouldn't matter much when you are married? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 07:21 PM PDT |
Question: How do i remove my husband from my sectio 8 voucher? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 07:17 PM PDT |
Question: That wouldn't be a worry if you were married? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 07:15 PM PDT |
Question: Ladies: Do you buy the we grew apart excuse from a seperated man? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 07:12 PM PDT My boyfriend is seperated from his wife. I asked what happened and he told me that they grew apart. It did run through my head that it's typical to say that from both sides. Is that an excuse from for something else? |
Posted: 07 Jul 2016 06:26 PM PDT They seemed to really like each other. |
Posted: 07 Jul 2016 06:18 PM PDT Whenever I say no to something my husband wants, he will get upset and treat me coldly (won't talk, leaves the house) until I give in. It is mostly over him wanting to go to his hometown (5 hours away) to visit. I am all for visiting when we have the extra cash for it, but when we don't, I say no. We have visited twice this month and his parents came down this weekend. He wants to go up this next weekend, but it's not in our budget. I'm really tired of him acting this way. How do I handle this? |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2016 05:52 PM PDT This man was struggling financially at the time and has been on and off since . . . is this an example of just being a cheapskate? I feel bad for his now-wife, since she is an excellent lady. Have you ever heard of such a thing? |
Question: How do I handle a situation in my marriage? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 05:40 PM PDT Whenever I say no to something my husband wants, he will get upset and treat me coldly (won't talk, leaves the house) until I give in. It is mostly over him wanting to go to his hometown (5 hours away) to visit. I am all for visiting when we have the extra cash for it, but when we don't, I say no. We have visited twice this month and his parents came down this weekend. He wants to go up this next weekend, but it's not in our budget. I'm really tired of him acting this way. How do I handle this? |
Posted: 07 Jul 2016 05:35 PM PDT Would you be okay with that? |
Question: Why should I put a husband before my parents/siblings else when..? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 05:12 PM PDT when men take advantage of this and will see me as a pushover, while the bad women who rarely put their husband first almost always have the most loyal men? Just like the bad men who never put their wife first usually have the most loyal wife while the good guys who put their wives first are used and hurt by women? This 'put your husband first' mantra makes no sense to me. Husbands and wives can be here today but gone the next and take advantage of peoples' goodness. My folks and siblings will always be there. Whitney Houston, for example, when for the bad boy, Bobbi Brown, who never put her first. In reality, in most cases, the nice guys and nice girls do finish last. Why should I put a husband before my family? Makes no sense to me. |
Question: My wife isn't enjoying sex. How can I figure out how to give sexual pleasure to my wife? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 05:10 PM PDT Firstly my wife and I are Christians and we both saved sex until marriage. If I'm being honest I think my wife right now just has sex to make me happy. To be honest that hurts my feelings a lot. To me it's a big deal that she's sexually attracted to me/sexually interested in me. I'm not saying she has to have the same sex drive or libido I do, but I'd like for her to still be sexually interested in me. It is a big deal to me for me to be able to give my wife sexual pleasure. Is this common in marriages? Are religious women less interested in sex in general? How can I figure out how to give my wife sexual pleasure? |
Question: Can i get married out of state, with my parents consent? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 05:10 PM PDT im 17. my boyfriend is in the military, and my parents are allowing us to get married, but they have to sign. if we drive to where he is stationed can we get married in his state? also i know im young, so i dont need to be told how young i am for marriage. |
Question: Really young marriage in the Army is not working well what to do? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 05:09 PM PDT I got married over leave on some rush **** to. We realized that the trust and understanding isn t there. She hasn t even came to duty station yet but the plan was that we do. I don t want a divorce because we re only weeks in the marriage. I m pretty much controlled and constantly questioned my her because of trust issues and it s tiring. I would hate to disappoint my family and embarrass myself and her have to embarrass herself. I don t know what to do please help |
Posted: 07 Jul 2016 04:14 PM PDT My good friend is 24yrs old. W/i the last few months became a single mother of her two yr old. Dad dissapeared, is jobless and not paying child support. (mom is working on it) She is a hard worker and responsible, has a 40hr 11pm-7am job and lives just minutes from her work place. While she only has a permit, she is paying off the car because her partner is not responsible. Her parents are divorced, her dad lives with his dad & mom (was the ft babysitter while she works ) just ditched her to live with her new boyfriend. My friend is living in the house her divorced parents are trying to sell, taking care of the dog her mom left, is maintaining the house through showings etc. She is currently living off of $200 of food stamps. Her sisters (2 of 3) have helped tremendously, but she knows they can only support so much. Now, I just heard of this situation today. My husband and I live in a nice area, nice school district in a nice 2/1 apartment. We have a daughter however, we need to protect ourselves too... I want her to have support, to get her degree (2 years are completed already), make something of herself. In this rut, she cant do it herself. Her family abandoned her... My husband and I are considering taking her in, help her get through school/ life. Thoughts? |
Question: Husband repeatedly ditches me for another woman.? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 03:55 PM PDT He has a female friend that he spends his lunch hours with about 3 times/week. I stay at home while he goes to town and work. Today, I was in town with him so we could do our insurance and so I could help him decorate his office. He didn t tell me about his plans with her during his lunch. I ran into them and he said, "We re going to the coffee shop together". He didn t invite me and left me to be in his office, decorating while the two of them hung out. What would you do? |
Question: My wife decides she isn't attracted to me anymore right before we planned on having kids? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 03:42 PM PDT I've been with my wife for five years now and we just recently decided we want kids. She got off birth control and all of the sudden says she can't stand the thought of sex with me. Like she is suddenly repulsed by me and wants to break up. Idk what's happening. Has this happened to anyone else?? |
Posted: 07 Jul 2016 03:29 PM PDT I did not get a chance to meet the girl before marriage. The girl is my cousin and I had seen her before , although I must say meetings were brief and restricted to greetings and had never paid attention , after all she was like a sister to me and not in my wildest dreams I had thought that one day I might marry her. ( I had been to india only 2 times in last 6 years). I was under pressure to decide soon as my family suggested that her family will likely get her engaged somewhere else . I am from a very small religious minority and marrying outside the sect is a big thing. We talked on phone for a month or so and then I came to India to marry. I met her a couple of days before marriage and unfortunately there was no spark or chemistry . I did not feel any sort of physical or romantic connection with her . Anyways I though it is too late and things will get better. However the things have not improved . It has been a year. There is absolutely no attraction and hence no intimacy. I forced myself for intimacy initially but I have given up on that now. Do not enjoy spending time , going out etc. I frankly do not see myself ever getting intimate with her. Do I continue living an asexual life. How do I handle the situation. With my conservative background premarital sex / relationships were out of question and hence all my hopes of intimacy/romance were liked to my marriage. |
Question: Why would my husband cheat on me with his ex gf 4 months into our marriage? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 02:48 PM PDT |
Posted: 07 Jul 2016 02:23 PM PDT My wife has a very bad past with her ex, from sexual abuse to physical. He is extremely controlling and he seems to always get to her head. I constantly stress about her cheating on me w/ him because of the toxic past they had and the fact they have kids. |
Posted: 07 Jul 2016 01:49 PM PDT My wife and I have been falling apart over the years. we finally decided to split. Now we are divorcing and found out she is pregnant. She wants to take full custody and not have me be a part of the child s life whatsoever. Never get to see or speak to the child and never pay her a cent. Anything to do with us would just be done. I ve thought about trying to work it out between the two of us, but I can t honestly convince myself we won t be in the same spot in a year or a few years. So I have to ask myself what is better for a child? After all that has been said and done, do I try in hopes that the damage done in our relationship doesn t still drive us apart - or will it be better for me to leave now? I don t want to put a child through what I ve been putting wife through. I don t want a child to feel unloved or unwanted. I know my wife will be an amazing mother. I know with her family, the child would never feel unloved or unwanted. I feel in some ways that I would be failing the unborn child, but in another way, I would be saving the child from the trauma of two people who aren t working together and may separate regardless. For those wondering, yes I m sure it s mine. Thanks for any helpful advice you may have. I'm really trying not to be selfish is a situation like this. She doesn't want to co-parent. I'm left with trying to figure out what will be best for the kid. She's moving back to the east and i don't know how involved I can be from here. Is it easier for a child to grow up never knowing who I am or knowing who I am and feeling like i'm never there? My wife will have no problem finding a new husband and maybe it would be better for the child to believe another guy is the father. |
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Question: Is it ok to lie to wife about this? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 12:21 PM PDT My wife has serious issues with drinking. She never has, never will, and hates alcoholism. Me, I can enjoy a beer from time to time, a few times a year if any, but she recently told me she doesn't want me to drink at all. I don't have a drinking problem and never have. If I were to have a beer once in a while with friends and she never knows, is it an ok lie? |
Question: My wife tells me I have a problem? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 12:05 PM PDT She says that normal people don't go and have sex with anyone they want to. And that I've hurt her in a real bad way. In my country, we have sex (consensual) with any woman of our choosing married or not. Is this a problem man does not practice inside America? |
Question: Am I ready to move on with my life? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 11:58 AM PDT I divorced last year and I have children with my ex husband. He comes over to my place to see the kids and will call me and ask me how Im doing and stuff like that. Whenever I am on a date and he knows I am he will call me. Sometimes he will be at my house when I return from work because he will be watching and visiting our kids at our house. When he calls to talk to his kids I don't realize why the men I am dating get annoyed and I stick up for him. Am I ready to move on with my life? |
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Question: Anxiety after divorce anyone been through this? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 11:38 AM PDT I just finalized my divorce with my husband after I found out he was having relations with another women. I wanted a fresh start for my children and myself. We've sold the house and I've decided to relocate. I am moving without employment. Last week was the last week at my current job. I'm on the last few boxes to pack before our move I've suddenly became very anxious and I've been crying. I just want the best for my children. I'm scared to death to be relocating without employment. I'm scared I may fail as a single mom. I'm scared for my children and how this will impact the rest of their lives. I never wanted or imagined being divorced. Has anyone been through this? Our divorce was just finalized last week. I just feel miserable. |
Question: Should I ask my ex husband to quit calling on certain nights? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 11:36 AM PDT My ex husband and I share children. They are still young. My ex husband has a lot of issues (legal and psychological that I won't go into but lets just say theres a reason we are divorced and he can't be around our kids by himself). He has only been a father to our kids when he's in the mood and is inconsistent and will only see the kids if he has nothing else to do and is in the mood and when he does it is in short periods of time and has to be supervised. He's never been one to be very involved in his kids lives but now he has expressed more interest since I am dating someone. My ex husband will call to speak to the kids on the nights he knows I am with my boyfriend and we are with the kids. My boyfriend is great to me and great with the kids and does not have a problem with this although I feel my ex husband is doing it to cause drama because he only calls to speak to the kids on the nights he knows I am with my boyfriend. On other nights he is not interested. He will also call more than once if I don't answer the first time and he will act all friendly and nice on the phone to the kids even though he is not a friendly nice guy a lot of the time. Do you think he is doing this to cause problems and should I ask him to quit calling on certain nice unless he wants to come see his kids? |
Posted: 07 Jul 2016 11:16 AM PDT Ive been working the last five years to have a place for us so that he and I have some security and are not desolate when he gets out of Prison. If he was not approved to be released to my state that would mean I d be in SC and he d be in NV separated for up to two years while we wait for approval. I ve been living by myself for several years and I m used to it- but he wants me with him. I am scared of selling my land and my home and all my animals and moving to NV where my husband and I will have to bide our time for two years and find work and basically start from scratch. I don t want to do it. I don t think it s a financially smart move for us. Am I being inconsiderate of my husbands feelings? Is his request fair? He believes that I could have someone "farm-sit" for up to two years so I wouldn t have to sell my property but there s no way. Who s gonna be able to live at my house and take care of my goats and rabbits and chickens and dogs, and feed them and take them to the vet and fix problems like broken fences and trim trees and fence lines and make feed store trips and clean pens and trim hooves and give medication and handle sale of breeding stock and birthing of goat kids. My husband believes that I can outsource these tasks to other people. And maintain a healthy farm without being there. But I don t believe the animals would be cared for. They are too valuable to be neglected and would have to be sold if I were to move to NV and that would break my heart. |
Question: How can I divorce my husband without seeing him? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 11:13 AM PDT |
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Question: What do you do when your wife wears sexy night gowns and she gets mad for looking at her? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 11:03 AM PDT |
Question: Should I divorce my husband ? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 09:58 AM PDT My husband performed oral on a man while he was drunk to the point he didn't remember anything the next morning. He nowhere near bi sexual while sober. Should u divorce him ? |
Posted: 07 Jul 2016 09:49 AM PDT Ok so I married who I thought was the man of my dreams. We were together for 3 years before marriage. 1 month after marriage the ex-wife took him to court for cs. Now I'm extremely jealous of his kids. To the point is almost time for a divorce. Help don't want to feel like this anymore. |
Question: I think my husband is wanting a divorce.? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 09:37 AM PDT We have been married five years he is fine at times then other times he acts weird.he won't touch,flirt,take me out on dates,I am lonely at times.i have found things on Internet that he is talking to other people.just like he so cold.today my friend was over and he couldn't even leave the same room as her.stay right with her after she leaves he try's to talk to me like no big deal.makes me mad cause I don't have any friends because of that reason.it would crush me.i don't know what to do anymore |
Question: Should I move on with my life? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 09:18 AM PDT MY husband of 35 years is deeply involved in a relationship with a woman that he says is bipolar and suicidal. He began an affair with her 6 years ago when I separated from him, and while he and I have reconciled (not living together but spend much of our time together for the past two years +) and he claims to love me with all of his heart, I found out that he pays her bills, takes care of her, makes sure she eats....she lives in his old condo rent-free (he moved into a home that he inherited) when his parents died), and most recently, he escorted her to a family event of hers and spent the night with her in a hotel (I found the receipt). He claims that nothing happened and that if he leaves her, she ll kill herself, and he will not have this on his conscience. He says he s trapped. He will not consider leaving her, says he has been trying to get her more stable, but methinks he loves her (or loves being her savior). I am devastated, I thought he and I were working towards living happily ever after (we re both in our early 60s and the other woman is 35, almost our son s age) but now I don t know where we are headed. Advice? Thoughts? |
Posted: 07 Jul 2016 08:29 AM PDT Ugh. So, my spouse and I have been opposites our entire marriage. He is a MAJOR spender and I am a MAJOR saver to the point where it's an OCD compulsion (I actually have been diagnosed with OCD compulsions geared towards saving money. I'm cray, I know. I've always been that way). My husband makes a steady income (about $500 per week after taxes and benefits are taken out) while in the past five weeks, I have averaged about $1060 per week (I work from home with my own business, so it varies how much I make). Despite the fact that I make double what he does, he still spends THE VAST MAJORITY of our money. We cannot afford to go to couple's therapy or financial therapy or whatever, so I'm hoping somebody has a solution that has helped them. Basically, my husband will spend all of our money on himself and leave me with literally nothing to spend on me or our son. We needed to get my son a baby gate, but instead he bought a video game for $60 on Steam. We still haven't bought the baby gate. He also has $800 in credit card debt (NONE of which is mine and none of which he has spent on me). He thinks we have all of this money because of how much I saved before we got married. I saved around $10,000 before we bought our first home and there is about $25,000 in our account now (I'm about to pay off my student loans of $16,000 in full). What did you do about your over-spending husband? I feel like he's being extremely inconsiderate. I haven't bought anything for myself in years. |
Question: ANNIVERSARY QUESTION!!? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 08:28 AM PDT My husband and I are having our 7th anniversary. It's my year to choose what to do. As a tradition, we celebrate the whole week. I need suggestions about what to do each day. Remember we are open to travel but i want where we travel to stay the whole week. What do you think?? |
Posted: 07 Jul 2016 08:09 AM PDT He does not work while he is in school. While class is out for the summer He has been working on major renovations In our home and is very busy taking care of our 3 kids while I am at work all day and doing the renovations at the same time. I come home and do all the cleaning, cooking, laundry, yard work, and he hands the kids off to me as soon as I get home, which is fine I'm glad to take over. But I ask him to take out the darn trash when he sees its full and he has a melt down saying that he thinks " whatever he does is never enough, b/c I always want something else" I wear a million hats, why cant he? Should I just accept the fact that as a woman I can do 1000 things a day and just accept that my husband can only do a few things?This is so annoying, I know he has his hand full with the renovations and he's helping our family by going to school full time so he can graduate and get a good job so one day I don't have to work, but I feel like the man here, and he is by no means a passive submissive man, he's defiantly a take charge kind of guy but in this area he's letting me do everything and because he's doing a few important things whenever I ***** about something he says 'its never enough for me" He will do something if I ask him, but I'm annoyed that I have to, I'm annoyed that he lets the kids destroy the house, I'm annoyed that he leaves his crap where every he pleases and when I try and clean gets mad because I put it where it belongs lol I'm annoyed that expects me to " want to take care of him in bed" believe me I want that too but its a major turn off being every mommy including my husband. He will be done with school in Dec. I've been holding it all down for 2.5 years . He's in school all day when class is in, our kids are at the babysitters, he gets home as soon as I do and goes and does homework reports and study's all night. Come out for dinner and bed. Ugh, the truth is I feel like him as the man, he should be superman. I know that's terrible to say. Maybe I am the problem lol On a side note, he is the greatest father I've ever seen he gives the kids more love and attention then some kids ever get. He's fun to be with and makes me laugh but at this time in our lives were both very stressed and always attacking each other on the silliest little thing. Should I suck it up or stand my ground? |
Question: Husband lied to his wife for two years about being in college and faked his graduation? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 07:23 AM PDT A friend recently came to me for advice regarding her marriage situation and I don't know what to tell her. She's been married for two years and just found out (her husband got caught in his lies) that for the last two years her husband has pretended to be in college. He lied to her every day about going to school, told elaborate lies such as being involved in group projects for school, staying out late at night saying he was at the library, during finals week he pretended he was taking his finals and studied around the clock. It turns out he was never in school at all over the last two years. He also wasn't working during this time and she was working to support him financially, completely. He even pretended to graduate and invited family from out of state to come, bought a cap and gown...but pretended to be sick on his graduation day so they wouldn't find out. He accepted money for gifts. Now that he's caught he's very sad and acting very sorry willing to do anything to make it right. To me this seems like grounds for divorce but I've never been married. I don't have any life perspective on this. What do you think? He's in his early 30s... He claims that he would just go up to the college campus every day and watch movies on his computer and hang out. |
Question: Are Men really happy with marriage if they want to keep a mistress? MEN only please..? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 06:55 AM PDT So most likely he will get another mistress or go back to the one he had before the wife found out, correct? all answers are good. |
Question: Am I being to hard on my husband? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 06:53 AM PDT My husband is a full time collage student and we have 3 kids ages,2,4,6. He does not work while he is in school. While class is out for the summer He has been working on major renovations In our home and is very busy taking care of our 3 kids while I am at work all day and doing the renovations at the same time. I come home and do all the cleaning, cooking, laundry, yard work, and he hands the kids off to me as soon as I get home, which is fine I'm glad to take over. But I ask him to take out the darn trash when he sees its full and he has a melt down saying that he thinks " whatever he does is never enough, b/c I always want something else" I wear a million hats, why cant he? Should I just accept the fact that as a woman I can do 1000 things a day and just accept that my husband can only do a few things? This is so annoying, I know he has his hand full with the renovations and he's helping our family by going to school full time so he can graduate and get a good job so one day I don't have to work, but I feel like the man here, and he is by no means a passive submissive man, he's defiantly a take charge kind of guy but in this area he's letting me do everything and because he's doing a few important things whenever I ***** about something he says 'its never enough for me" Should I suck it up or stand my ground? he is done with school in Dec. I've been holding it all down for 2.5 years .He's in school all day when class is in, our kids are at the babysitters, he gets home as soon as I do and goes and does homework reports and study's all night. Come out for dinner and bed.Ugh, the truth is I feel like him as the man, he should be superman. I know that's terrible to say. Maybe I am the problem lol |
Question: Wife says she does not look at other men, why not? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 06:39 AM PDT I really want her to notice other men and tell me about it. She says she has to force herself to do this and almost never lusts over them. I know I can't be that good of a lover... |
Question: Am I being to hard on my husband? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 06:35 AM PDT He has been working on major renovations In our home and is very busy taking care of our 3 kids while I am at work all day and doing the renovations at the same time. I come home and do all the cleaning and cooking and he hands the kids off to me as soon as I get home which is fine. But I ask him to take out the darn trash when he sees its full and he has a melt down saying that he thinks " whatever he does is never enough, b/c I always want something else" I wear a million hats, why cant he? |
Question: Is marriage a scary thing to do ? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 05:38 AM PDT If you are married, or was, or will be soon Do you find marriage a wonderful thing or scary ? |
Question: To preserve domestic bliss, are you prepared to leave your wife or mother? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 05:36 AM PDT |
Question: Anyone who has a good story about how they met their wife? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 05:22 AM PDT |
Posted: 07 Jul 2016 05:09 AM PDT Like this morning. She already said she wasn't going to shower so I took extra time in it to masturbate (something I *HAVE* to do since our sex life is nonexistent). While masturbating, she intruded in bathroom (but not in the shower to do the deed for me) and started complaining how I can't take long showers and how me being in the shower fogging up the mirror is running her behind since she can't see her face in the mirror (we have several mirrors in the house). I told her that what I do this morning is none of her business and she said "well, you take long showers every day and I'm tired of you making me late". I told her that she could CHOOSE to shower before me, but she said that she refuses to change HER schedule to accommodate me taking long showers and masturbating. Mind you, this whole time we were arguing I was looking at porn trying to rub one out so I can get on with my day... Anyways, I tell her that if she did her job in pleasing her man then my showers would shorten and she said "that's not my job" and then followed up with a "you don't even need that, that's just a habit".... I think my wife missed a class or two in anthropology and took one too many social justice classes... Anyways, so the point of this is, I still busted a nut in the shower, she didn't get her way, and I'm now EXTREMELY angry because of her righteous indignation (her need for social justice when there was NOTHING wrong with my behavior). So what do I do to stop this behavior from her? |
Question: Do men really date and/or marry out of a perceived obligation? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 04:44 AM PDT A friend of his set us up and I moved closer to him after a short time of dating. Now I fear that he is with me out of obligation rather than love. He had cheated on me before and we have both been married and have children from those marriages. Thoughts please. |
Question: How to turn my husband on? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 04:27 AM PDT |
Question: Is it selfish to not want husband to drink? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 02:52 AM PDT I have never seen my husband drink until recently. I am pregnant with our first child and the smell makes me sick. My father died from cirrhosis of the liver caused by being an alcoholic. He knows I don't like being around it & it makes me anxious. He's always respected that. Recently, a buddy of his who drinks a lot has been staying with us. He suddenly wants to "have a beer" with him a couple nights out of the week. I have asked him why he's being like this & he can't tell me why. He normally asks if i mind it, he knows I'll say no because I don't try to control him, but he knows I can't stand it. I can't bring myself to kiss him, or even be around him, when he drinks. I feel sick when I do. Am I being selfish? Just want opinions. I don't want this to be a problem, but I don't wanna feel like I'm overreacting. Thanks in advance! |
Question: What are the best marriage websites today ? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 02:29 AM PDT You never know when or where you find a soul mate. |
Question: Why was I so stupid in this marriage? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 02:15 AM PDT I was married to this man for 10 years. Thankfully, I am still young and in my late 20's. Our marriage was fine in the beginning, until I started finding him on dating social media websites. When I would confront him he would deny it. He also would steal from the company he was working at. He would bully me and call me fat. All this would happen and I would ask myself why is he so strong and I am so weak. The answer to that is because I would beg him a lot. I would always call text and overdo it that it gave him power and strength. Why didn't I realize this earlier? All these things are what make a person strong because it gives them control over you. Is 29 a bad age to be divorced? What is your experience? |
Question: How can i find a domestic helper with benefits to replace wife? Posted: 07 Jul 2016 01:13 AM PDT Basicaly i need help at home etc and cant find someone to marry. Choices are limited to single moms with kids or divorcees ( both are a very bad "choice" ). So my solution is to find a domestic helper with benefits. How and where to find them ? ( Benefits = sex ) |
Posted: 07 Jul 2016 01:06 AM PDT My husband baby mother has been in and out the hospital d/t advance kidney disease. Their child is always with us bc of the hospital admissions. I want to ask my husband to get his child support suspended. I make a decent living but I'm also raising my niece and we're expecting. My husband make ok money but with the added expenses of another child and he's paying his baby mother child support his money is tight. Any and all added expenses (movies, date night, car repairs) fall on me. We live comfortably but we can use the 700 a month he pays in child support. I know his ex is ill but we are the ones who taking care of his child full time. I love his daughter and would give her anything I have, I just don't think it's fair we're paying child support for a child who is with us full time for the last 5months. So is it wrong for me to ask him to suspend his child support? |
Posted: 07 Jul 2016 01:01 AM PDT I am from germany when i first came to the states 30 years ago inwas abused by my husbands family friends. And my husband never helped me. In all of our marriage i felt unloved. Neglect ignored and sex only when he needed it. He treated everyone so good talk to them joked with them and when i asked him why he cant be the same with me he just always say i was making things up to start a fight. He always promised me he will change but he never did and this went on for 30 years . recently i was hurting myself to let him see what my mind looks like if my mind were on my body. He finally came and told me that he is a coward that he could never say anything to people to hurt them so that s why he left it out on me including the abuse i had to endore from his family. I feel so hurt my chest is feeling like is caving in i can t stop crying. He said that he is sorry that he truly loves me, but i cant seem to believe him anymore. If someone please could give me some .encouraging words to keep working for my marriage which i loved but i think i was the only one that was and is still in love. Or should i leave.. thank you for listening to me. |
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