My husband left his mistress a couple of months ago. And things have started getting better a t home. He's more focused on us now. He's actively working on taking care of us. Making sure we are okay. I'm seeing real change in him. In the past she has been known to try to get a reaction out of me through social media with her friends. And they stopped doing it for a while. Today I get on twitter and notice they posted something along the lines of " when a man is dealing with two women, hell stay with the weak minded one. She will think she won but the whole time he's wishing he was with the strong minded one. But he's too afraid to be with the strong one because he's weak himself" what is the point of her doing this? If she feels like she won, like she walked away the winner what is the point of trying to make me feel bad? I learned a huge lesson from this. And that is to always put me first. And if he does decide to leave or if we part ways one day I will not be affected as much because it changed me. but why go out of your way to do this? why can it not be that he stayed with his wife because he realized how important our relationship is to him? 

We are both 25. She's in a toxic relationship claims she's leaving but looks like she's never leaving. Should I just settle for a girl I don't really like since I probably never will have the one I truly love

And also the fact that they were very well endowed and might have given her the best pleasures that the husband would never measure up. Also, what should she say if her husband ask that if she likes and loves black men so much that she wants to sleep with them, then why did'nt she marry one of them? He is not a racist anyway but fears about losing her.

If she did'nt disclose it before marriage and due to fear and awkwardness for her and also did'nt want to lose the husband and did'nt wanted to hamper their friendship as all the friends and good looking and endowed than the husband and they jokingly tease him for fun but are very good and helpfull, then what should she do if some day her husband finds out and feels like being fooled by all of them? The friends tried to apologize and support him saying they will not sleep with her again as they too are married and have beautiful wives, but still he feels ashamed to face them in friends circle, then what should the friends and the wife do? Provided the husband is very good and lovable and never mistreats her?

Ok so I work 2 jobs but neither have closed yet due to coronavirus. However, I have moderate/severe asthma and don't want to catch it. I work at a daycare and in retail. I'm just wondering if I should take it upon myself to act and just tell my jobs I'm gonna isolate myself for 2 weeks. Thoughts?

My 18 year old daughter is all hopped up on the idea of going to Boston university and my wife is encouraging it. It should come as no surprise that me and my wife have different styles of parenting. It's not happening under my watch, she's going to the local state school and will be commuting. I'm the breadwinner of this house, the tuition will be paid for by me, therefore I have the final say. My daughter is upset by not allowing her to go to her "dream" school, and my wife is trying to coddle her and make me out to be the devil, for being her dad. I'm her parent not her friend, I care about her best interest not what she thinks she wants. Girls shouldn't be going off to live at college regardless. I know for a fact that she'll get into drugs and parties and having sex with god knows what type of guys. I was 18 once too I know. My wife thinks this would be a good idea for her to branch out and get independence. I told my daughter if she wants to go, she can pay for it herself, and find somewhere else to stay during the summer. Am I basically Hitler, for wanting my daughter to be safe and at home so I can keep an eye on her, while she gets the same education. Shes not an adult even though she thinks she might be, and her acting like a spoiled child cause she can't get her way is proof of that.

Well, we have to keep our distance for "reasons" I'm sorry to say. I especially feel bad for you that have a history of excessive socializing! If you know what I mean. For me, since I've been a married hermit for over half my life, not much will change. And who said it was bad to be antisocial?

I love men with a sense of humor ambitious handsome good hygiene nice selfless family oriented loyal caring romantic My mom said that list is too long and I'll have to sacrifice more than a couple of things . She said I could meet a guy like that and he could end up turning me down

We are like night and day. We have different viewpoints on everything and we have always known how different we are and we always said we are bigger than our problems but it's coming to a point where we both are having to sacrifice who we truly are and it's making us both miserable. Sometimes I wonder at what point do you have to give up your own happiness to make someone else happy. We are fighting constantly. And it's sad that for the 400 bad days we have there's only 2 goos days. We don't even get each other's humor. Everyone says I'm the funniest person alive but he said he doesn't get it. He's never made me laugh. I don't and have never desired sex with him. At first I thought my sex drive was low but then I had an affair and I knew it wasn't low when I found myself wanting to explore him sexually. I have cut the affair off but I still cannot stop thinking about this other man ( who has also been my friend of 13 years) . Me and my friend are so Intune with each other we have the same exact views of what we want, we share the same passions, we have the same hobbies, we just have lots in common and we are very compatible not only sexually but emotionally physically and mentally and spiritually. Me and my husband even fought leading up to our marriage because he doesn't value an extravagant and lush wedding but that's always been something I dreamed of having. My guy friend said he always wanted to have an exttvganamt and large wedding as well. I settled for small  We were together 6 years and I still was he distant on marrying him but my husband didn't wanna wait any longer and I said yes impulsively. In the back of my head I always was unsure of it was the one  I always felt like there was something missing in our relationship and I felt like I was just floating through life with him at times never been experiencing true happiness  I cut off the affair i was having because I want to see if I can give my marriage one last shot but I still can't stop thinking about my guy friend. I have NEVER felt this way about anyone EVER. 

What is going on, usually there is some stocked and why is everything seem to not be opened?

This was because the husband was a virgin and he cannot believe that both the best and and his wife fooled him and hid such things from him which everyone elses knew. Then what shouldthewife do for her best man?

My Frens, I'm all about discussing you seedy viguane history and other morally corrupt behavior. But if by chance I want to ask you something outside these topics, you guys have to always throw out the rule book and remind me that only M&D questions allowed. You guys are such sticklers.  This why nobody wanna hang out with you.  I wanna be able to discuss more tings. What do?

I thought I kept it kleen, What hapoen? Anyhow run the numbers yourself based off 2 percent and then 4 percent assuming 7 billion are infected. It's not pretty! Just sayin.....

I'm the cheating wife and I've destroyed everything. I already have three children and stay at home with them due to medical conditions making it impossible to work. I'm now pregnant from an affair. The dad wants to keep the baby desperately. I don't want to leave my family and can't work to help support the baby. The dad can't afford to care for me and baby. I really don't want to have an abortion, but have an appointment at Planned Parenthood next week. My husband would divorce me (rightfully) if he found out. I really don't know what to do and I have to make a decision quickly. Please help!!

Lots of people are staying home. Correction:  It was l965.  Maybe a little forced "family time" is a good thing.  And it may help couples who need to work on their marriages to appreciate each other more.  

My husband asked his ex wife if it was okay for their kids to wear shorts today and didn't even ask me. I got a little upset that he couldn't make the decision with me. They are going home with their mom though. 

What physical and intimate gesture can she try to revert her husband's feelings and make him forgive?

Now, the husband is very upset that alk the time watch the best man with his wife on the wedding night without knowing that he already slept with her many times before sending her to him, and thus he feels ashamed to face the best man thinking what he might be thinking about him or like he might think the husband is a big fool who does'nt know anything abouthis wife and him? How can the wifewho got caught now after marriage explain her husband? And how can the husband get over the fact that his wife and the best man easily fooledhim?

Someone who really likes s3x and talks about it with you a lot but only you

Its almost they went out of their way to pick scum bags to mock you.

To make it short, as soon as we got married things went immediately down hill for a variety of reasons; and none had to do with her, except her family's constant interference in our life, regardless of my insistence to keep away from us. She always promises that they won't interfer, but nothing happens.  They're rude and disrespectful towards me, and i swallow it everytime cause i know they want to destroy our marriage.  Right after we married, she confesses that her family hates my guts. Anyway, one day she deserts me and says she wants a divorce ( a couple of months after marriage ).  I went furious and drove to her parents house and dragged her back home.  Then i started hitting her and insulting her and her family non stop, all that hatred i had for them and all the crap i took from them, i took it out on her.  She ran away a second time and filed for divorce and domestic battery. Now its been two years of non stop legal battles, false police reports, vandalizing my property ( her brothers ) etc.  Yet we're not divorced, since im intentionally making the process time consuming so as to prove her infidelity and at last i did. She first ran back to her ex first and now is dating someone else. What should i do ? She couldnt prove domestic battery since i took care of her.  In court she brought her brothers to as witnesses but of course i claimed that her family members testimony cannot be biased and refute it.

I want you to tell me if this is being abusive. No one wants to hire me so I stay home with my 2 children, husband does NOT help at all around the house. His ONLY obligation is to take the trash out and he does not even do it completely. But when I work he immediately decides who pays what and yet he does not help around the house, he gets mad very easily, like asking him for milk or water, can make him mad he says I try to suck his money for asking him for basics. He acts like the perfect husband and daddy when we are at church. He is the minister. His vocabulary during the week have been stuff like **** you, ****, etc with me. But he won't divorce me and I am in a state that unless my life is in danger or we both agree to divorce I cannot get it, and even though these kinds of things don't put my life in danger, when you get to live it every single day for 10 years, you get tired and wanna/ need to get out of it!!!

Should he suffer alone and bear all the trauma's slone for no fault of his, and being a virgin. Should he easily forgive his wife accepting her excuse that she hid it because she did'nt want to lose him and thought that those STD's will get cured? What should the wife do after watching the detoriating state of her innocent husband who respected her and treated her well but this is what he gets in return for his love? How should the wife apologize?