I know the pandemic is serious and the toll it takes on hospitals as it grows. However, I am a SAHM and my husband works as a mechanic. His job is damn near shut down and his days are reduced drastically. We have been following Dave Ramsey's plan to pay off debt and only have a savings of $1700 because we have been paying off everything. This really throws a wrench in our plans because now we can barely pay our bills this coming month and it will only get worse. I don't know what to do, we have 2 little kids at home and I am in online college. This is so stressful. He has applied for Amazon jobs and I have applied for remote work but we have not gotten any calls. This is so stressful and I don't know what we are supposed to do for money.

My husband is a good provider he keeps me grounded when need be but he is a very serious person overall and I'm a very light hearted person and doesn't understand my humor. He says I don't understand his humor. Honestly he doesn't make me laugh ever even when he thinks he's being funny and sometimes he can be annoyed by my sense of humor. I haven't laughed the entire time I've been with him. I laugh with my friends a lot more. They die over my jokes. We also don't share the same view points with a lot of things which makes it difficult to have a conversation beyond the surface life things. I find his view points very ignorant and even his mom and other relatives say his view points are ignorant and he needs more real world experience . A lot of his ways are so insensitive. For example I told him that my friend got misdiagnosed at the hospital and he believes there's no way that happened. He said my friend must have made herself believe she had this disease because doctors are always right. I said first of all doctors make mistakes too. I don't even wanna tell him about the sharp pains in my chest I've been having because he's gonna say it's all in my mind also. I resent him for his ignorant view points and I find myself being attached to other men and their minds. We met when we were 18 and were amazing friends so we thought a relationship would be the natural thing to do. We are now 26

So I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we bought a house together. I have made it very clear that I would like to be married but he has made it clear that he doesn't want that but then I hear from his friends that they talk about marriage when I am not around which is very puzzling since for years he has told me he doesn't want to get married. But marriage isn't the only thing that we disagree on. He still wants kids but he said they would have his last name which I think they should have both of our last names if we don't get married. He doesn't help around the house or with the dogs. A lot of the time I feel like I am his mom and I am only there to clean and to **** him. He doesn't show me that he truly values me. There has been a few times I have left and he begged me to come back which I have done stupidly. I am an extremely independent woman and do everything myself but he is my only weakness. It's hard to leave a person who has been a part of your life since I was 18. We also share friends who were his friends first so not only would I lose him but friends as well. I don't have any of my own cause the people I work with are much older and we have nothing in common so it's hard to meet people my age. It also concerns me that what if I do end the relationship and there is no one out there for me. Especially with it being hard to meet people my age and dating apps suck. I am so lost. I have been with him for so long I don't know who I am without him.

If you are in your own house or one bedroom apt or rent a room in a shared house... Having been hip-to-hip with the person you "love" for 2 weeks, 24/7 doesn't seem so cute now, does it? It's not about me. I'm single but the couples who live in my house; I see the cars gone thinking I'm alone only to hear stomp walking, realizing dudes left fat chicks in my house to go anywhere else to get away from them. **** Corona, I've got other people's fat-wife-itis.

Don't get any fatter!  Put down that doughnut this instant!  You can work out like a maniac for when you step out that door, you will be fearsome. Here is a pic of a Chinese cartoon to motivate you: I plan on lifting heavy.  What are you going to do?

To say the least I think my wife is a needy person. From where we live I work about 15 miles in one direction, actually in another state and my wife works about 15 miles in the other direction from our house. We're not close in proximity at all so it's not like we can meet up for lunch or anything. I work for a medical company taking calls from patients and doctor's offices. My normal hours are 9 AM to 6 PM but on Wed I have the late shift which means I work from 11 AM to 8 PM. My wife is one of those who if she texts you and if you reply she assumes you're not busy and can chat. Most days I tell her I'm busy because some days I am but others I'm not. I just don't want to get in an all day text conversation with her. Now, both of our companies have us working from home. Today being Wed I an not done until 8. A few times today my wife walks into the bedroom to just look at me. I'm not on a call so I'm just sitting there. She looks at me and says, "I thought Wed were your busy days?" Granted some days are heavier than others but she made a mental note of what I had told her in the past and now it's coming back to bite me. She said that she feels I've been lying to her and just didn't want to talk to her. At that moment my phone rang. I don't / didn't go to work to talk to my wife all day. I'm expected to work. But now that I'm working from home she feels that I just didn't want to talk to her. Honestly, I didn't. I'm on my job and expected to perform. Not socialize with my wife because she wants to text about a co-worker, or a deer she saw on her way to work, or about us needing toilet tissue or dog food, or why I didn't put my plate in the dishwasher.  She feels she's caught me in a lie.  Oh, and for those wanting to know, we're not newlyweds. We've been together 17 years almost.  I'm 50 and she's 49.  You would think she should know better but she doesn't.  How do I smooth this over without hurting her feelings?   Yes, I've told her on many occasions that I don't go to work to talk all day with her.  But she usually gets her panties all in a wad saying I'd rather talk to my coworkers than her.  Between 9 AM and 6 PM I do.  But when I get home I have no problem talking with her. Now my wife is constantly walking into the bedroom where I'm working and she sees me playing on my personal laptop between calls.  She'll say some smart remark about, "wow, you really look busy."  Granted, she's in the living room watching Netflix while working.  I'd risk getting Covid-19 to go back to work and get away from my 2nd boss.

Now that the dems got off their butts and got in line, we gonna get a little bit of cash. What should I spend this on? I wanna bit somethin American made.  Maybe some weapons and ammo? Maybe a down payment on a Chevy or Ford? What do you suggest?

do i need to sign up for the coronavirus covid-19 stimulus payout to americans?

I just left my husband to stay at my moms for a little. I found out he was talking to some woman while away on his business trip. I packed my things while he was at work so he went home to an empty house. I answered his call and he was saying some pretty hurtful things like I hate you you're a *****.. next day he says he didn't mean it.. it's hard to ignore the things he said and not think he really feels that way. 

Do you have any idea how hard it is to type out a full sentence in Spanish while Apple tries to autocorrect and auto fill every word? Lol! Anyhow, why yahoo deleting my beautiful questions? These guys shouldn't be out spreading all that corona with their machinery. Who's with me?

I love my husband and there isn't anyone I would rather be with but I made a mistake... we have been married for two years and he's cheated on me throughout the marriage and even had a child. For religious reasons, loyalty, and because of the love I have for him (however selfish and unwise it might be) I still want to be with him. He just turned 30 and I am 28 and we have been married for 2 years. The problem is for his birthday yesterday I spent the night at a friends house and did not see him the day before. And in return he did not come home on his birthday. This is the first time either of us have done this. I guess I did it because for my last two birthdays he has cheated on me and for some strange reason I thought he deserved it. But now I feel cheap and ashamed for doing the same thing. Honestly I just want my husband back and I want to stop this and just be a good wife to him (regardless of what he does). For all the men can I have some tips on what I could do to make him want to come home and be better. For the women, I know you won't approve of me staying but can I have some tips on how to be a better wife.  I also plan to do individual and couples counseling to help as well.  Just want to add that one thing that rubs me wrong in his response with all this. He seemed to be less concerned that I stayed out all night and more concerned with me co-signing for a car at the end of the month. I am hesistant on doing this because I feel he should be more concerned with our relationship and with me than a dumb car and I don't want to accumulate more bills together if we do end up parting 

Not only do we have the "death do you part" and the other traditional stipulations but we should throw in some green deal nonsense to make marriage more equitable. Here's a few ideas: —— 1.  Adopt a few illegals and care for them like your own to increase diversity in your family. —— 2 .  Make sure to never barbecue with charcoal briquettes to reduce your carbon footprint. —- 3.  Leave the door unlocked for Tyrone so he can come and go as he pleases for who knows what you bigot. Locking your door is wasist! —- 4.  Have zero babies of your own so more resources can go to Tyrone, Jose, and Consuelo. ——- Who's with me? Oh and how can I forget: 5.  You will eat the bugs!

I'm 38 years old and all of the men who are single are either divorced already with baggage and kids from another woman, deadbeats and unemployed losers, or drug addicts/alcoholics who don't want to be tied down and still go to the bar and party all the time. All the men who have good jobs, are responsible and good people, and are good looking are all married I've never had a boyfriend before

Many years ago Janice my mother in law wanted to start a home based business. The business required she become very familiar using a computer. She needed to do inventory, accounts payable and receivable, customer lists, etc. She ask me to train her. I gladly did but it took many months of training. It was a difficult learning curve but she finally mastered using a computer and started her home based business. She said she would pay me for the training if the business was successful. I told her that was not necessary. She put in many long hours working on her business and it became very successful. Fast forward to the present. She is now my ex mother in law. Her daughter and I are now divorced. She recently sold her business for a lot of money. She decided to pay me for the training I gave her many years ago. She found the current rate for computer training and multiplied it by the approximate hours I trained her and sent me a check for that amount. It was a very pleasant surprise as I had nothing in writing that she owed me anything. The I got another surprise. My ex wife said that because we live in a community property state, she was entitled to half of the money her mother sent me because when I did the work I was married to her. I want to do what is right. Should I share the money with her?

For months now I have had this feeling that my husband has an unnatural obsession with porn. He's not watching it 24/7 nor is he constantly masturbating or anything like that but I've caught him on several occasions watching it on his phone. Mostly at night after I've gone to be and he's laying next to me. I'll turn over and he'll quickly hide his phone. When I call him out on it we usually get into an argument because he tells me I don't need to call him out because most guys AND a lot of women look at porn from time to time. We're both working from home right now for our jobs. I am set up on the living room while he's in the bedroom with the phone line. Yesterday when I quietly walked into the bedroom I noticed that he had a porn clip on his laptop. He was obviously looking at it between calls. Last night I called him out on it and again he got defensive about it. He told me that he doesn't bring up my weight so why do I feel the need to bring up that he looks at porn on occasions. Yes, I've gained weight since we've been together and that has greatly affected out sex life but I think this goes deeper than him just casually looking at porn. He's suppose to be working but he's watching porn. When I ask him about it instead of being honest about it he feels the need to lie about it. Am I wrong to keep bringing this up. No, he's not looking at it all the time but when I see him watching it I'll ask him about it.