She's stolen so much money now, almost 1000 dollars just today, I took her phone away but she uses my computer to buy things when i'm out. how do i stop her, my husband doesn't know what to do either. my daughter is 17 years old

she used to be the fun parent but since my dad died, shes changed. Will she ever go back to how she used to be, can I speed up this process? she is on my case about everything lately. I just want her to go back and be the fun parent. I miss those days

So I need a computer and i'm 17 and on ebay I found a nice macbook pro from 2016 auction and i bidded on it and i won and i used my moms card and paid the price which was 938$ and after i paid it i shipped it here and i'm planning on sneaking in the package so my parents don't see it but i'm worried they'll see it on their statement

So, I caught my meth addicted brother in-law steal 2 bottles of my insulin. Iv had type one diabetes my entire life. Anyways, my husband and I confronted him on it in a non confrontational environment and all he did was yell kick and scream that I'm a stupid ***** that can't count. And, he also kept saying why would I take that medication. I keep a close inventory on how much I have at all times because it my life( it feels like he just cut my life short by a few months). I'm the only one working in my family I have three autoimmune diseases and it's taking a tole on me. I don't have the money to move my mom in-law sees me as the piggy bank for her, and my brother in-law told my husband that Im my brother in-laws slave. I just need help or advice. Iv never been depressed in my life but it seems like no matter how hard I try I'm drowning and I can't get ahead. Please help.

I want to move to another state that's 5 hours away from my parents. They (especially my mom) are against it, calling me selfish and not caring about them anymore.  Note - I am over 18 years old. They still treat me like a kid. My mom even went as far as saying that I now that I'm grown, I don't need her anymore (in a way that makes me feel guilty, like I'm abandoning her). I told her I will come visit occasionally and call her, but she's not taking any of it. All I want is a chance to live and do things I want to do, but she makes me feel guilty. Is like she doesn't want me to learn to be independent, and always be with her. How can I ever start my own family and live the life I want? I'm planning on moving in September. But every time I bring it up, my mom gets so angry and upset. I can't even have a decent conversation with her on this topic. And each time I try to talk about it, is like a new thing to her, like is the first time she's hearing it. Always the same reaction. I don't know what to do.

Im a 19 year old fulltime freshman college student studying cyber security. Both my parents are in secure jobs my dad being an executive at a big body shop company and mom working for a pahrmasutical company. My mom said they not doing lay offs and my dad said they won't and even if they did he would be safe. I have a lot of money I worked for and saved up and despite my part time weekend job being closed for a bit im still being paid.

Everytime I let someone stay with me they end up taking advantage of my generosity and either ruining my furniture, my house, and I let them bring their pets and they always end up making my cat miserable. I always feel guilty that I'm doing okay and others are having a hard time, so I feel I need to help, then I just end up miserable being stuck in my home with them. The people living with me now are in their 60s and the woman has the most negative energy I've ever encountered and is always talking about how people are intimidated by her and she doesn't care. She acts like she owns the place and always tells me how I should be doing things her way. God I can't stand them now. Why do I always put myself in this situation??!!! What's wrong with me?

My Dad is always so strict and mean to me....he is helpful but he never show affection toward me.....he is just mean I think that he hate me....i remember one day I was feeling real down I was crying a lot....he just lecture me he won't even hug me no matter how sad I feel..... I'm 16 years old girl....

My mom and i got into a huge fight where she said some real harsh words which made me feel five feet under.And she hasn't been treating me nice(shouting at me for literally anything) for the whole week.In addition, she even asked me to stay in my room the whole day tomorrow( tomorrow's MOTHERS DAY). i mean i tried talking to her but she's being dramatic and obnoxious, leading to another argument which i tried leaving yet she brought up her whole life problem ramming it into my face. AGAIN! tomorrow's mothers day. what should i do? i always get her a gift or make one. i really don't know what i should be doing for tomorrow. she made it really hard to even consider getting something nice for tomorrow.

One of my biological sisters who I haven't heard from in years got in contact with me just after my adopted mother (biologically our great aunty) passed away back in August last year, she got in contact with me via text message from my Mum's phone and sent her condolences etc. We then started talking on Facebook but then all of a sudden she turns around and starts making horrible claims about my Mum saying that she bullied her during our accesses when we were kids and had the nerve to call my Mum a narcissist and said she didn't love me. I was deeply hurt that my own sister would do that to me, I deleted my sister on Facebook and stopped talking to her for a while, I would say for about a few months but then today she tried to add me again and tried making amends but is sticking to the claims that my Mum bullied her when we were kids. She keeps saying that she wants to have a sister relationship with me but I don't think I can trust her, am I able to forgive my sister without having her in my life? 

I'm not sick and the mother of my kids is telling me to stay home instead of going to see my kids.. I work in IT and I have a whole floor at work to myself, other than that I go home. Is it really that bad where i should stay home and not drive to see my kids? I miss em and I only get to see them on the weekends. This will be two weeks in a row I haven't gotten to see them.

I work in an office with ten other people. I am the only female in the office. I was afraid when I started the job I would have a problem with the guys but that did not happen. They were VERY HELPFUL and trained me to do my job. They were always available for help when I needed it. They NEVER hit on me. I became good friends with all of them. One day my mom came by to take me home from work. I introduced her to my co workers and my boss. The next day at work the guys all said the same thing. "You are lucky to have such a beautiful mom". I told them I did not think of her that way, I just thought of her as my mom. They asked me if she was single and I told them yes. Several guys said "You would be my friend of life if you fixed me up with a date with your mom. I am really confused as to what I should do. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE. Would a 44 year old woman, my mom ever be interested in a date with a great looking guys (and I mean a great looking guys) that is 10 years younger than she is? Moms, how would you feel if your daughter set you up with a date? Would it be awkward at work if one of your co workers was dating your mom. Any advice especially from 40+ years old women would be very much appreciated. I just want to do what is best for my mom. THANKS

If you could only have one would it be mommy or daddy?

I used to have social media but closed down my account about two years ago. I haven't had any real contact with anyone I used to know because, to be honest, looking at everyone's posts was getting very annoying.  My mom always asks me if I am in touch with any of my old friends. She thinks instead of making a profile that I should open up a messenger app to talk to my friends. I'm a 27-year-old female. Should I do this or just never go on social media again?

My parents were 21 and 23 when they had me. They are 37 and 39 now. My mom still lived at home but was over at my dad really often. They were both poor uni students.  If you have any questions then I'm down to answer.

I don't want to have children, and I've never dated in my life. My mom acts like it's a life sentence for when I'm old. Health issues are prevalent in our bloodline. She thinks that no one will take care of me when I'm too young to be in an old-age home, but old enough to have frequent health issues. She'll rant on about how family are the only people who'll be there for me through everything, but others won't. And my siblings moved away to other states so they're not around me. I know so many childless women who are doing more than fine. They're not worse off compared to the average Joe. It can't be that bad.  My mom did, however, grow up in foster care. The foster families didn't treat her like one of their own children. She's always made it clear about how important family is once she gave birth to her own kids.

Hello, I suspect I have mosaic syndrome . I look quite different because many times my face swells. When my face swells, my features are more like Down syndrome. When I go out with my family, man have a bad attitude towards me. I feel so bad about this situation that I stop looking at man because I am afraid that they will misbehave with me. When I mention this to my family, they say I am crazy and if I keep saying it, they will send me to a psychiatrist, but other people have told me that it seems that I have down syndrome (5 people told me in my life). ) and a psychologist told me that my face looked different. I don't know what to do because some home remedies help me with swelling of the face, but I cannot do it because my family threatens to send me to a psychiatrist, I cannot mention the bad attitude of men towards me or talk about seeing a doctor due to this situation. I don't know why my family doesn't notice when everyone notices it. So what wrong with my family? They are denying the situation?. Why do many people notice that my face is different but my family dont? What should I do when guys have this wrong attitude towards me? How can I cope withhis circumstance?

I was asked to move in to keep an eye on my grandma just in case she might fall and pay half of the bills making all we pay less than we pay with our normal bills. We didn't expect it to be a caregiver as caregiver duties but we didn't care because we were helping but she became helpful and she expects us to be her slave because she has become impcompetent and we work full time. We were expected to wake up every 30 minutes to help her go to the restroom and we were exhausted and still had to work full time and we had to stay by her side when we were off. She was not appreciating us and complaining about us to the family and expecting us to do more because we no longer have to pay rent since there is no rent or mortgage on her home. The family would always listen to her and accuse us of stuff. They would make suggestions to make our jobs harder like having a toilet seat next her bed that we have to clean when they don't have to deal with even though she doesn't need it. When she was having us assist her with the restroom she would drink so much medicine decide to quit taking her pea control medication and take laxatives which was going on for months. She was told she could go to the restroom on her own at night and she start to drink less liquids not take laxatives and go back to taking her peed control medication and now she wouldonly go once at nightif any. She always gets distracted walking which makes her fall and she feels like she can't go to the restroom on her own Tonight she started to drink more liquids and go to the restroom three times in the first hour. I have been so sick with aching bodies and chills and she has been harder on me and decided she needed help changing when i was crying in pain and i needed to help her. My family comes and they dont help but tell me that she needs this and that The thing that bothers me is that we didn't agree tonthis and she was more abled body when we were supposed to move in and what we did was not enough or appreciated when we were working as slaves. I have so much anger and resentment about it and i need to talk to my family about this without so much anger towards them. What do i say and where do I start. I was even accused of elder Abuse because of my grandma complaining and no apologies  it just sucks my family can just come and go and enjoy the company while i am stuck and judged. It sucks i wasn't asked if i wanted to be caretaker and everyone just planned it and no thank jou but just judging based on her lies and i can't even rest when sick I have been accused of elder abuse twoce because of her complaining and i confronted her about it and she lies. 

Hello I suspect that my mom and I have mosaic down syndrome. My mom looks mostly normal, but I look quite different because a lot of times because my face always get swollen . when my face gets swollen my features looks more like down syndrome. When I go outside with my family guys have a bad actitud with me. I feel so bad with this situation that I stop looking at guys because I am afraid that they behave wrong with me. When I mention this to my family they say I am crazy and if I continue saying it they are going to send me to a psychiatrist, but I have told before that I looks like having down syndrome ( 5 people had told me that in my life) and a psychologist told me that my face look different. I don't know what to do because some home remedies help me with my face swelling, but I cannot do them because my family threaten me with sending me to a psychiatrist, I cant mention either about the bad actitud of men toward me or to talk about to seeing a doctor because of this situation. I don't know why they do not notice when everyone notice. so whats wrong with my family? They are danying the situation.Why a lot of people notice that my face is different but not my family? What should Ido when guys have a wrong actitud with me? How can I get a long with this circumstance?

Hello,  Growing up I was always the A+ student, I loved school so much & always loved the attention I received for getting good grades. Through middle school I felt loved from my family members, I'm not sure if it's because I was younger or what. But the only thing I wanted to do was make my parents proud, being the oldest sibling of 4 sisters I felt like there was so much pressure from everyone. The main reason is because my mother or my father never finished high school. Living in section 8 apartments my whole life my parents lived off of $0 rent and under the table money. I feel like I was always looked at as the person to continue the same thing they were doing. My goal today is to still be the great example for my sisters, so I decided to choose the different route unlike the rest of the young teenage girls in my neighborhood who is pregnant and chasing around a dude all day. I've decided to attend college and become a better example. But for some reason that isn't good enough for anyone, no one is happy for me, no one is proud. Not my mother, not my father, and not even my sisters I feel like. No one calls me while gone, checks up on me or anything. I'm trying everyday to keep myself motivated but it's hard when you have no support but your own. I'm only 20 years old  with so much responsibility and little help. I have no idea where to go with my life... I need to know how to cope with unsupportive family members. 

Mine are. They closed last Firday and will be closed for at least 3 weeks. I am just satying at home and so is my family. What I really enjoy about not going to school is that I have been barefoot since last Friday. It has been so nice being barefoot and not having to put any shoes or socks on.

My brother lives in a mobile home with a leak in both bathrooms. They arent terrible, but there are 2 black spots on the cieling (mold) about 12x12". My brother says hes gonna fix it, but it's been like that for almost 2 years. Is it animal abuse to force his dog to live there? He takes good care if the dog, and the dog looks fine.

I'm 19 and I live with my father. He has all the money but there are things that I want. Like better looking clothes and more makeup. I also want a hd canon camera. Don't tell me to move out because I need money to buy a house of my own and I don't have a job yet. I also want to do stuff that I want to do.

So my school closed about a week ago and for a few months due to the current coronavirus pandemic and a few days ago I got an email from my history teacher to my school email asking if im ok and how im doing and stuff so i replied nicely and he started constantly emailing me trying to start conversation so i stopped replying and he somehow found my number and texted me "Hi" and asked to hang out with me?? i blocked his number and now hes constantly making NEW numbers harassing me begging to be unblocked and begging to talk to me and hang out and he even admitted to having a crush on me and is just obsessed with me im so uncomfortable hes also adding me on snapchat and instagram trying to get me on there!! im so stressed and im only 17 and a girl and i feel like i cant get away from him! i dont know what to do. this is a serious question so dont bother answering if you arent going to help or you dont believe me thank you

I was bidding for a 15 inch MacBook Pro from 2016 with a broken battery and touchbar and i was about to win with my bid of 352 dollars and then suddenly some stupid jerk bidded over my bid by only 10 dollars and won the computer and it got sold to him and now theres no more cheap ones!!! im really angry and i want to get cops involved. i told my parents who filed a police report

I'm a 19 year old female and my brother is 27. He frequently tells me that I'm useless, stupid and unintelligent. He has a civil engineering's bachelor's degree. He still lives with our parents and my dad has bought his car. He changes his jobs continuously. He used to have a good income, but he spent it all on alcohol, parties and girls. He has never even paid rent. So, I'm 19. I study both acting and fisheries engineering. I speak English, Greek and French besides my native language. I've been recently employed as an online translator. I left the house for a dorm next to my university when I was 18. I also draw and I'm currently writing an English historical novel. My brother is good in doing the chores though. He cooks, cleans and sweeps very well. He frequently insults me and blames me for being clumsy and inadequate in performing the simplest tasks. He also makes fun of my talents and he believes I'm so useless that I'm better off dead! He keeps ordering me as if I'm his servant and he makes fun of my cooking. The dorm is closed and I have to stay with him for a long time. I just can't take it anymore. I feel like I want to kill him. He even doubts if I can wash a tiny puppy, while I always take care of my mom's pets!

She's getting married in a few months, and I wanted to wear black (Like I usually do). Which means my dress, shoes, and makeup will be all black. She won't allow it, and is not willing to compromise. Is she being unreasonable or am I? Maybe I just shouldn't go. I don't want to be in pictures wearing something stupid. This is who I am, and if she doesn't like it then I'll keep my distance.