We have booked an airbnb and we only have a big doublr bed. Is it weird that we share the bed instead of one going on thr couch? Shr is 37 and I'm 16.

I am the youngest of three sisters and we curse at and insult each other at home literally all the time. It's perfectly normal, and as mundane as greeting each other. I usually don't if I'm out in public so I understand why my friend was alarmed the first time she came over to my house. However, it's gotten to the point where she thinks that they're abusing me. I appreciate her concern, but how do I convince her my big sister calling me a piece of **** is just her saying hello?

My baby's father other baby's mom asked him for some money for their child back in October so my mom's fiancee sent it to her and she got mad. I didn't even know my baby's father had asked him to do anything because I was driving him to do things for her as well. I don't know her and I never met her. The only reason she's mad is because he hasn't sent her money in a month and is with me. And when my mom let my baby's father use HER car to do things for HER again, she was STILL mad. Welp, then it turned out that he had got her put out before that though and he had hit her in front of their child. I don't know her problem. But she think we all trying to be funny when really we just felt bad because she can't take care of her son. 

Will my report be able to be kept anonymous. Not looking for her to lose custody but just have a warning. She's not physically abusive but just emotionally just as was the case with my mother and this girls mother. This girls mother was my uncle's wife for a few years and I often joke that she and my mom are clones even though they weren't blood relatives. They have the same strengths and the same weaknesses.

My parents are gonna be afraid to travel because they think the coronavirus is on airplanes and all around us. They're both being OCD about it. Anyway, Crohn's is not a fatal condition so it's really no big deal. It's a condition one gets cramps and simply need painkillers. Since my sister is a cruel person I might be insensitive to it, but it's nothing where my parents have to be terrified of travel or where if they get Coronavirus then she gets it. She lives on her own anyway even though she requires my parents to do all things for her since she's spoiled. So how do I not let this wreck the summer travel? There's some trips we were going to be doing that depend on my parents coming even though my siblings and I are all adults. Luckily because of her condition my sister was not going to be coming as she wrecked one last year. So what do I do to prevent this from wrecking the travel?

She'll insult my body and my weight a lot (My weight is average) by calling me fat and calling my body disgusting but she weighs much more than me, and she is over 200 pounds. Why is she treating me like this?, she will also try to talk me into buying clothes that are too large for me. My mother's weight was slim, average weight, slim again, and now she is overweight. I'm not going to think about her position in the past because it's not about her and she's the one who insults her own daughter's body and weight. What are you talking about??. She is the one who has insulted my weight, appearance, and body for YEARS!. I personally don't care about her stupid self esteem because she treats me like sh*t all the time. I do NOT need her concerns because I'm already a healthy person and the way she treats me is completely rude and unnecessary!. I asked for advice for MYSELF, not for her because I honestly don't care. I don't need advice on my weight and body because there is nothing wrong with my health, weight, and body. Don't answer if you are going to push the blame on me and trying feeding me nonsense. I have DEALT with enough bullsh*t for the past years and I do not anymore bullsh*t from a bunch of strangers. Don't bother to answer if you are going to not even help. I'm not asking about her and I'm not asking for advice for her, I'm asking for advice for ME. Why can't any of you do anything right?.

I always am. I am 17 and have a 14 year old sister. We are being raised by our mom and we have a barefoot only rule in our house. All of us are always barefoot at home and anyone that comes into our house must be barefoot also.

I cry A LOT because I don't have a dad and It hurt me deeply...i've ALWAYS dream of having a dad who will love me,hug me,help me,discipline me....and I don't have older siblings.... I'm a girl...

I know of somebody with generalized anxiety disorder and her parents and older brother don't have it. How did she get it then? Anxiety is genetic. 

My baby's father and his other baby's mom had a fight in December 2019. He told me that he had beat her up in her in own house because she started it first when she spit on him. So, I told him that he really didn't do anything wrong then. Now she's online saying how he brutally beat her to the point she couldn't chew her food and her chest has been hurting ever since. She even got my mom's number and told her that she hopes my daughter die. Etc she also told me that he cheated on me During that time. I don't know what to do with her. My whole family think she's crazy and is jealous of us because he moved on. What should I do? I'm really tired of her! And yes, he contacted her after their fight (which I told him not to)

I don't like hating someone but my sister is just bad in every way,

Shes scared to leave the house due to this coronavius going around (shes 63 years old). I work retail (marshalls) and we have a food section. She was asking me if my job still has pasta and tomato sauce. I checked but i only saw egg noodles and one can pasta sauce. Then i asked if she had enough food at home. She told me she does but then why would you ask me if my job had any food in stock? Then i tag her in a photo for a supermarket near her house whos posting saying fully stocked. She says she might go today. I thought she had enough food.  I feel like buying food for her and bringing it over. Should I? Shes claiming they have enough food (my dad and her) but im not sure if im buying what shes saying due to her asking me about my job and saying she might go to other supermarkets.. I know she can send my dad out but still :/ Thats what i am going to do I am goingg to buy some for her tomorrow i cant get over until later this week unless dad offers to pick me up from work and take me home

A couple weeks ago, my mother in law brought a little boy to my house. She claims the little boy as her grandson, he used to attend the daycare where she works at as a newborn. So she has pretty much known him all of his life. She grew a fondness for him for some reason. He calls her grandma and he calls the biological grandkids his cousins. To be honest he's mean, so I'm not sure why she is so fond of him. But anyway, the weekend that my mother in law and the little boy were over, i was in my bedroom. All of a sudden i heard my daughter screaming, and crying hysterically and saying she wants her daddy. The only thing I heard the grandmother say is " why would you hit her, you know better." I ran down stairs and asked what happened. One of my daughters biological cousin's said that my 4 year old daughter was trying to get one of her toys from him. He kept putting the toy up high with his hands and running away from her. So she grabbed him so that she could try to get it. He punched her and slammed her to the floor. I told the grandmother that she would need to take him home, or call someone to take pick him up. I was very emotional so I also yelled at the little boy and told him to keep his "f**king" hands off of my daughter. The grandmother immediately starting comforting the little boy and kept asking him if he was okay.I told a couple of my coworkers. And they all said I was wrong and that if I cussed at their child they would have fought me. 

He is also a very ignorant man of struggles I have. He lies to my mother all the time also while caving to her on toxic behavior she has. She is at least a good person.

I'm 21 F, my sister is 36 with 3 kids (who I love). My sister is selfish, NEVER asks about me or how I am doing & she probably doesn't love or care about me. I always am good to her kids & I ask how she is. She lives in NYC, I live on Long Island with my S/O. We just moved into a new Apt. I've been moved out of my moms (who is also on Long Island) for a year now.  my mom has never once visited me no matter how many times I ask her to come to my apartment, I just want her to be proud of me the way she is of my sister. She always expects me to drive all the way out to her house... meanwhile my mom drives all the way to NYC to visit my sister every other weekend. My mom will change the convo about my sister and what she is doing with her life and what she bought this week... etc. I guess I'm jealous of my sister low key. She's beautiful and only recently has been making great money. Her personality is something I'll never be jealous of. It's bad, she's angry, mean & just rude. I've always been the artsy one who gained weight after high school. My sister looks like a model & my mom also rubs that in my face. Growing up she always negatively compared us.  Tn I found out my mom gave my sister my Netflix password and my sister went ahead and added herself & her 2 daughters an account on my Netflix without even asking me. That got me soo mad because everything else she's done. I texted my mom telling her I feel like I'm not even apart of this family anymore. I dont know what to do..

So I am 21 years old and live with my mom. I have had a long distance boyfriend for years. And today I finally told her about him. She got extremely angrily at me. Making assumptions about our relationship. She called me a prostitute. She said i thought of her as an idiot. She said I betrayed her. And she is crying and extremely angry with me. Every time I try to explain to her what he is really like she calls me stupid. Some feedback on my mom, she is in her 60s and a strict Mexican mom. I lost my dad not long ago and she's clinging onto this idea that I'll take care of her when I'm older. I feel hurt that she misunderstood me. That she feels hurt. I deeply love my mother as she has never failed to take care of me and provide for me while I attend college. In her eyes me having a boyfriend betrays everything she has done for me. I feel so lost right now. She even said she doesnt want to help me anymore. I feel hurt and I just wish my mother wasn't so close minded. 

I feel like I can't live my own life in my home with my husband and kids, she needs to know everything I'm doing and who visits me. We rarely speak on the phone but when we do she makes sure to make me feel like a crappy mother. She takes credit for everything I do and doesnt bother to care about my birthdays and even tried to sabotage my wedding by taking my father and siblings out. Today I get a message from her telling me that she spoke to my father and she is unsure of her jobs situation. Then goes on to say "So long story short I need you to take over paying the monthly portion on pseg that I pay. So I can pay my bills. Because besides that I'm still giving her babysitting money and she doesn't take care of my kids anymore. So to much is coming out of my pocket. This winter the bill has been low compared to other winters so I dont think you should have a problem. Speak to your father about it. I need to be able to catch up on my bills."With that said my grandmother watches my kids and I pay her every 2 weeks when I get paid. My husband are barely getting by on our own. She has two brothers one who works and one that lives with my grandmother but refuses to get a job. She doesn't know my bills or my income info but expects me to take away from my family. I didn't respond to her texts as I'm unsure how to handle it but I do know I want to break away from her always demanding and trying to control me. This isn't the first text I got from her like this. 

A couple weeks ago, my mother in law brought a little boy to my house. She claims the little boy as her grandson, he used to attend the daycare where she works at as a newborn. So she has pretty much known him all of his life. She grew a fondness for him for some reason. He calls her grandma and he calls the biological grandkids his cousins. To be honest he's mean, so I'm not sure why she is so fond of him. But anyway, the weekend that my mother in law and little boy were over there, i was in my bedroom. All of a sudden i heard my daughter screaming, and crying hysterically and saying she wants her daddy. The only thing I heard the grandmother say is " why would you hit her, you know better. I ran down stairs and asked what happened. One of my daughters biological cousin who was also at the house that weekend, said that my 4 year old daughter was trying to get one of her toys from him. He kept putting the toy up high with his hands and running away from her. So she grabbed him so that she could try to get it. He punched her and slammed her to the floor. I told the grandmother that she would need to take him home, or call someone to take him home. I was very emotional so I also yelled at the little boy and told him to keep his "f**king" hands to his self. The grandmother immediately starting comforting the little boy and kept asking him if he was okay.I told a couple of my coworkers. And they all said I was wrong and that if I cussed at their child they would have fought me. 

Since she is a cruel person why would they do good things for her? I see the Crohn's as her Karma though obviously good people get that also. So why would parents do good things for a daughter who is cruel. even to them. She is an adult so it is not like they are still having to be the parents for a kid.

This relative of mine, will try to insult me and guilt trip me for trying and wanting to have nice things. For example, I have been trying to save up money for a car and they will make comments like ''You're too good for the bus?." or other rude comments like that. They also kept insulting me and trying to guilt trip me because I wanted to change my job because my job kept making me physically and emotionally exhausted. I don't understand why they treat me like this, it's like they think that I do not deserve anything that is nice or something.

My mother will make a comment about something, and then she will either deny what she said or change her comment to something else. When I confront her about it, she will start calling me names and claim that I'm making it up. She is only in her 40s, so she is not that old and I'm tired of this annoying ****. I do not have to put up someone's annoying *** flip flopping anymore. Barely anybody believes me when I say that she basically mistreats me because she'll just put on the charm and say certain things to make me look like I'm crazy and making it up. She doesn't do this in front of other people and she will only do this stupid crap in private. I'm not going to bother asking. she will deny it like she denies everything else.

Like... putting me down and saying I shouldn't act a certain way when I'm not involved in a situation with them or have never had a conversation with them period. I don't know what they are talking about. To make me feel guilty? Why then show me a picture of a puppy? Like who's puppy is it? I don't know.

My fiance had his house built 8 years ago. He still refuses to put anything up on the walls. Nothing. No pictures.They are all bare. He said because he likes it like that. I have also noticed that he is obsessive about certain things like cleanliness. He will take 3 hours to clean the bedroom every week, top to bottom. Other things too, like if I leave one long hair, or a piece of a nail on the light beige carpet, he freaks out. Gets on my case about why I didn't put it in the garbage. He can't absolutely cannot go onto the side porch,( dry and visually clean) with his bare feet or socks. I grew up on a farm where I would walk barefoot through the garden, grass, gravel you name it. His old couch is so old that is broken in and causing both of us sore spots when we sit in it. He can't buy one because he can't find the "right " one. It's like it has to be perfect. Even when he has people spray the lawn and he sees literally a weed or two three, he calls them and complains. They tell him they can't increase it anymore its against regulations. He accusses them of adding water. Enough of that cancer causing crap. I've had animals my whole life. He refuses to let us have a cat. He won't say why. I assume because they are too dirty for him. I've had animals all my life until the last one passed before I met him. Is there hope for us?

So if a boy kisses his mom, he often times will get made fun of for being a momma's boy.  If a boy kisses his dad he will be made fun of EVEN MORE. So because I'm NOT a momma's boy I do NOT kiss or hug my mom (or even my dad or anyone in the family). I don't kiss my mom or dad.  I feel like a momma's boy doing that. Because I don't wanna be a hypocrite I would NOT kiss my own son/daughter (it's hypocritical to not wanna kiss your own mom/dad but you miss your own son/daughter). If I don't kiss my own son/daughter, does that make me a bad parent?  I mean kissing my own mom or dad already makes me feel like a momma's boy.  I wouldn't want to be a hypocrite by kissing my son/daughter.   Would not wanting to kiss or accept kisses from my son/daughter make me a bad parent? P.S. I actually don't have kids.  I just wanna know what goes on in the minds of those who think a man kissing his mom/dad make's him a momma's boy and then have kids themselves (will they kiss their own kids but not their parents or will they kiss NEITHER). Because I wouldn't wanna be a hypocrite or a momma's boy I would NOT wanna kiss my mom/dad (making me a mommas boy) or kiss my own kids (making me a hypocrite).

I moved my gf from our home state to live with me. My rent is covered for a year or more and food thanks to my parents, but she works and pays for Internet, house bills, phone bills, car insurance, entertainment and gas for vehicle which takes her whole check. She's been doing it for a year now and has nothing to show for her self. I don't want to work at McDonald's so I haven't looked for jobs because of my education level. I decided I want to move back to our home state and she's got extremely angry because she lost everything to move here with me.A job she was on 10+ years. I wanted my kids in basketball and had to ask my children God mom who's married and my best friend for money to get shoes because she couldn't afford it. She was extremely angry about that also. She feels like I'm not focused on relationship and just myself because in our home state I work jobs with my low education level.  Now she's calling me lazy and putting me down. What did I do wrong ? She's don't want to start over because she found a good job here in our new state.