My real life friend unfriended me on Instagram. Long story short, we had a disagreement. Since then, I am still on her Facebook, but with limitations. I texted her to say how uncool it was of her to ghost me and her response was that I should have texted her how I disagree instead of respond to her open forum post in public. I say back that people will have different opinions,  if you can't deal with responses different from yours don't post. I did apologize but she is still ghosting me.

Bartender said I'd be a great fit for being a bartender at his bar and that I'm a people person. Does that mean I probably have some people skills? 

So my friend's got an extremely abusive mother. I don't wanna go into too much detail but she's been through horrific, shady things. Gorey and disgusting. Recently her mother has been absolutely NIGHTMAREISH and decided to send her "away." She never clarified what "away" was, just... away, for the time being. My friend that was sent describes it as "a huge house with a bunch of floors and a lot of people on those floors." It is formulated and structured just like a house, but way more than 2 floors. She has three roommates that she moved in with. Adults run the place, but neither of us have any idea what it is... Any guesses?

One of my guy best friends invited me to sleepover at his house, and I was on the way then decided not to. He texted one of our Mutual friends saying "she is sleeping over" and my friend said "oh thats nice" and he said "what if something happens" and my friend asked him if he liked me and he said "not that i know of"!!! what does not that i know of mean?

I w orked with a guy at a temporary project for a crab feed event at the county fairgrounds. He was 20, 6 years younger than me, and he was originally from Kansas but moved here to California in high school.  He apparently had concussions from wrestling but don't know if that was serious.  While I don't suggest and usually rarely do it nowadays compared to before, I asked him if he liked to smoke weed, and he said he preferred cigarettes because it could kill him faster, and he liked cocaine. He also said he preferred "suicide rap" (maybe he meant emo rap) because he said "would you rather listen to regular rap or suicide rap?"  I once saw him in public again and drove him home, because he wrecked his car in the past due to a DUI (a bad decision), and he even said he was shot at a gym of a small high school, but the but the bullet missed and his ear hurt from ringing but no one was ever caught. I kind of doubt that happened because it'd make at least some news here. He even said he didn't care if he died at 30, didn't want kids or if he did he'd abandon them mostly.  I know the answer is obvious it sounds like a problem, but does it sound like someone with serious issues? Someone who basically wants to die young, and has issues with drunk driving and other reckless things like hanging out with gang members. I mean he's not the only one like this and I get angry and depressed too. 

I move on but i want to know if sooner or later that i want to know if my 3 old friends will get they deserve of what they said about me for being rude and mean to me and have it work for you? we havent been friends over 8 years every time i tired message them of once while what up how r they and they be so mean to me for no reason so i moved on eventually but they where so mean about it and block me but not on my new instagram so how do i know if they tried add me on there fake account what are good questions to ask them? 

hi i'm in 10th grade and i used to have a friend group. ever since 7th grade i started to see that they were fake. they would constantly make plans excluding me right in front of me and they all acted like best friends but only talked to me when they had no one else. now i have a best friend and grew kindof distant from them. i have a few other friends from different friend groups as well. there's this girl from my old friend group who is very insecure so i feel bad for her but she is the meanest person in my grade. she talks ab so many ppl it's disgusting. she even insults her friends. one day she insulted one of my close friends saying she hated her and this other girl agreed. i didn't wanna cause drama but i had to tell the girl that they were talking ab her like that, bc she thinks they're her best friends. after i told her, she confronted them and obviously the two of them denied it saying they would never hurt her like that. now they made a rumor ab me saying that i'm the one who talks behind everyone's backs and my old lunch table all got mad at me and yelled at me and they all believe what she said. i'm not perfect but i do know for a fact that i don't talk ab them. they aren't that important to me that i feel that i should talk ab them. this year i got so much nicer and i try to be closer to God so i try not to talk ab anyone. but now they all believe her, even the girl i stood up for and it makes me depressed. can someone tell me what to do please? thank you 🙏🏼 

if your 3 old friend end up having Coronavirus and they die from a Coronavirus but they haven't talk to you in years of a stupid high school arguments will you go see them at there funnel? and what best way to talk to them get them back I try the one friend sister and she blocked me, do you let them block you or do you block them if they are rude and mean? if happens to them

I am a 28 year old female and I have struggled with having friends and keeping them for years. Pretty much I have had social issues for years and I became friends with an older woman that has known my family for years and she has known of me for years. She has been the best friend I have ever had but I have even struggled with having her as a friend because I have been hurt a lot in the past. She tells me she is not going anywhere and she said if I were to end the friendship she would still talk to me so is it bad that she would do that if I did end the friendship? 

I know this guy who stabbed someone multiple times over a women. He went to prison and is now released. He was a decent friend but seemed like he had a jealousy anger problem. Mental issues like depression. I have decided to move on from old friends. This guy had 2 kids and about 2 years later after he got out the mother commuted suicide. She was only 33 and he is 34. He goes to prison for stabbing someone then she commits suicide. Yet I still see old friends hang out him. I had to move on

Why the hell am I suffering for people who don't want **** to do with me. My best friend since second grade ******* leaves on read my friends all playing without me. I'm just so lonely and unwelcomed. I'm alone. I have one friend in this world. I'm ******* ruined. Years of my life wasted. Nothing to show for it I'm just a ******* burden for everyone. I wish I had the past 7 years of my life back to change my ******* shitty decisions. Litterally the best thing that actually happened to me is gone. I wasted it trying to mend things with my friend. I ruined my best friend ship for ******* snakes and unloyal dwarfs. I hate everyone. **** them. **** them. **** them. I'm just isolated with my thoughts. A countinous flow of shitty feelings are raging on and on like a ******* river. I miss her everyday. How nice she was. How gracefull she was. How everytime she smiled it filled her with a radiant sunlight. Her voice so tender and refined. Her calls late at night which kept me up until dawn. I miss her everyday. All my life is chasing the top and missing great experiences in the middle. I'm a friendship hopper. I don't do **** I'm a snake a ******* fake person. That's the root of all my problems if I'm being honest. I get close to someone and then I **** it up with my mouth. I'm almost done with middleschool and I have nothing. Will I be okay? These were some of the best people of my life and I ruined my friendships. 

I have had a friend he is so sweet but whenever I talk to him about unemployment he suggets me the worse. Rn im not working and Im going thru a rough patch. With anxiety and I was in a **** job he said to me you where more stable in that job than how u are now. Better u stayed working there. Which was crap advise.but I still do have goals and determination for the future even tho I feel battled. And I suggested to him that I would start a business and he shut me off by saying first of all you need a job while he is enrolling on his own business I dont bash him by saying youll not get sales etc.... I feel he might be jelous? What do u guys think?

after I became a conspiracy theorist

I have a friend who has a tendency to always cut the other actions of people down . Sometimes I don't think he even realizes it because perhaps it's how he's been for all of his life. A company in our town recently went through a major tornado that ripped the factory buildings apart and afterwards, the company started to put "(company name) strong" throughout the factory site and made shirts to show others that they would overcome the obstacle. He went out of his way to mock the logo and to cut it down. I don't get it. Is it an insecurity thing? I've suggested to him that he's insecure but he completely denies it. 

So I've been isolating at home for the past week because I was sick with the flu (not Coronavirus) and being sick had messed with my sleeping patterns up all night sleep all day so when my friend asked if I wanted to drink after waking at 5pm, I agreed too but when I was with her I told her I hadn't eaten anything and the bars we went to had no food every close by store was closed so we drank. I was doing fine until I got a pint of pilsner beer and everything started from there fighting to not sleep at the club and after that I was only getting worst. So my friend took me home in her car and we were driving through town she told me to tell her when I'm getting sick and she'll pull over but because my speech wasn't very clear I vomited in her car before she knew what I was trying to say and I continued to vomit struggling to open my door to let it flow outside. By this point she's pissed at me she didn't say a word after I finished vomiting at destination #1. I was passing out in her car trying to fight it from happening. As we get down the road from my house I asked if we can get food at a gas station she gets out of the car gets her something while I'm struggling with movement to get out the car and instead I vomit again at the gas station I didn't get me food and went straight home trying to stay awake. So she drops me off outside my house and I'm struggling to get out the car and when I finally get out the car she doesn't say a word and left. I'm stumbling to my cabin pulling out my key to unlock the door and I get sick again and pass out on my balcony probably vomiting in my sleep I don't know I'm gone at this point and not sure how long I was outside for before I woke up and just manage to unlock my door before I passed out on my bed. All of a sudden I woke up alive at 3am drink driving to Mc Donald's then half of that food gets vomited back up. I asked her the next morning how the car was and she said "bro you vomited in the car 🙄 thanks" and I offered to go over and clean it and she said "nah alguds" and since then we haven't really spoken for 3 days. I don't know how mad she is with me but do I just give her space and let her come around or just move on and continue life since the worlds on lockdown 🤷 oh and we've been friends for 3 years.

We been friends for 10 years, and we don't talk as much unless she wants something or when I text her. She's.pregnant and I always help her financially whenever I can or ask even before she got pregnant, I always remember her birthday I send her money on her birthday which was in February. She asked what's my birthday twice before my birthday came up on march 21st. And when that day came i never got a message from her not even after the day of my birthday nor before. I haven't spoke to her about a week now. What should I do? How can I handle and cope with it?

I am in high school and I am the only guy in 1 of my classes. My classmates love to kid around with me. They are really great girls and I like them all a lot. Yesterday, one of them told me that wanted to do to me what Monica did to Bill Clinton. I did not know who Monica was and what she did to Bill Clinton so I said no. Did I miss out on something good?

I ma now in a new class, different from last year and i  trying to make friends but i have no idea how to. Whenever someone i wanna be friends with talks to me , I FREAK OUT i act super weird, awkward and really quiet which is really strange because to other people i am pretty outgoing and to some a complete drama queen. i dont know how to step out and just be myself

I notice that a lot of men either want to date me, or they ignore me. There's no in between where men just want to be my friend. They either pretend to be my friend because they like me, or I don't exist. There's always an alterior motive. I notice the same with attractive guys I've known. Either they have tons of women lusting after them, or the women completely ignore them and there's no in between and they have trouble making "friends" with women. Either the women want something more, or they are scared to show interest and avoid them and keep distance and aloof

    How do I tell my friends I'm not interested in talking to them?      My friends and I often talk after school, but I haven't felt up to it lately and I don't know if I should confront them about it.           They're extremely nice to me and I don't want to come off as rude or unappreciative, so I keep making excuses, such as: "I have plans," and "(Family member) is coming over today, I'm sorry."      They aren't going to continue to believe these, so what should I say to them?       Am I being selfish? Sincerely,         An Elite Hermit

There are 5 of us, we can't stand this one particular roommate who is a selfish asshole. Ironically, me and one other person is the only one that calls him out and confronts him. I'm the bad cop the other guy is the good cop basically. We all agreed to break the lease except for him. He started acting like a child because he doesn't want to pay his penalty. We're all in the lease and if we choose to default, it'll screw everyone over. Will this be good enough to scare him because his credit would be messed up and he'd have to go back to his mom's basement?

I'm a 21 year old guy and one of my co workers, a 26 year old girl, asked me if I wanted to hang out some times. So I told her I would like to, and I'll let her know when I'm not busy. She was totally disappointed. The truth of the matter is, I'm weary of befriending co workers outside of work, especially a girl. Who's to know if she "likes me" or whatever, you know? What do you think? I think she's a really cool person. I just am weary of building outside of work relationships with co workers, and I'm kind of a structured person in general too. I have my friends I hang with already.

last year I had a bad birthday. One friend decided to start drama with a girl over the phone for kissing her ex months ago, another was in a bad mood, another kept talking about the party she was leaving mine early for, and the others were really late. We tried to go for a boat ride and it was rough so everyone complained the whole time. When we got back to the pier, my friend saw me texted my mom about how she made everything about her and and we got in an argument while everyone awkwardly waited for us to be done. Then my boyfriends sister said something really bitchy and unsolicited to me in front of him and all my friends. They all left like 5 hours early and I ended up crying to my boyfriend for the entire night. It sucked. This year my best friend ( who started the drama with the girl who kissed her ex ) wanted us to have a joint birthday party since they're only two weeks apart. I agreed but she started saying how she wanted to have it on her birthday at her house so it was special for her. I made an excuse to not have it be joint anymore because I felt awkward trying to make it about me. I decided not to do anything for myself this year because it sucked so bad last year and I don't want to force people to celebrate me. I told everyone not to get me presents. Now it's coming up and I wish i would have at least let people get me stuff but it's definitely too late to ask. This year i feel like i ruined my birthday for myself and I know I'm the only one to blame

If you have friends who, whenever you text them and they are the first to reply but whenever you are there, they NEVER text you, are they genuine friends? Or are they just not conversation starters and hold up to "they are antisocial people" status?