Having adds is important, but it really gets me how some startegies manage to turn a prospect into a customer. Appreciate greatly your answer:)

Do you think it would be fair to conclude she is a Controlling Narcissist, a user? I have said this before. This whole relationship is very Oedipal. Harry was searching for a mother figure. He found her in Meghan. She mothers him, guiding him with her arm behind his back, she holds his hand to reassure him, she gazes into his eyes showing her total 'devotion' ... she answers questions for him and dominates the conversation, finishing his sentences It is all very calculated. She knows how to manipulate him. He craves this 'motherly' attention. He needs her. He is very needy, understandably so, after losing his own mother at such a young age. He is very protective of his 'mother'-figure wife. What do you, think? Fair assessment or what...

I'm 25 and wanting to get married and have no college degree and wondering if it would be hard financially having an apartment and just working a basic job as a cashier or security officer.

my daughter has been in a relationship with a man for 8 years..she is now 32 and he is 34...he lives with his mother and works part time....he didnt want to get married before..because he is not financially stable and does not want to pay rent....so my daughter had been waiting on him to get his life in order....recently he decided to get married to her...and said that they will live at his mothers house...he cant afford to rent. but he does not want his mother at his wedding and is afraid to talk to her about moving his intended wife into her home...he has not put up the bands...and has not spoken to any clergy about his intentions.....he is afraid to talk to his mother....so my daughter is waiting...could he be stalling?

I made out with girlfriend and ready to sex but my pp wasn't going up.

Well, i am a guy and only earning member of my family and taking care of my mom and sister. my elder sister is 32 year old now and still unmarried and she has no boyfriend ,in last 6 years she brokes several marriage proposals, me and my mom didn't force and interfere her to get married.but now the problem is i found her watching porn and using adult dating sites and all of the day she staying at home. So i think  she need a life partner and get married soon otherwise it will effect her life in future. I also found a nice guy in my office he also searching for a woman to get married and he already liked my sis, but how could i convince my sister to marry him?    

What shall I do? I've fallen in love with him and his daughter is a good old school friend of mine.

It talks about wife's submission to there husband's in the Bible a few times what exactly do they mean. That mean you have to be like a slave to them do whatever they say when they say how they say no questions asked no matter what it is. 

He's 61 and I am 24. He has two daughters and a wife. He's almost like my sugar daddy. I am totally in love with him and he treats me like his princess but I also feel guilty for doing this against his wife. What shall I do? 

But it feels wrong as well as I don't want his wife to get hurt. What shall I do? He's like my sugar daddy but he's so caring and lovely. Any advise please? 

My wife withholds sex. She said that she withholds it because it is a reward for when I'm on my best behavior and when I've done "enough" around the house to "earn" it. Basically, my wife is treating me like a dog or like a child. This isn't okay. When she doesn't get her way she calls me names to force me to "think about my actions". She also does silent treatments, obstructs the conversation from progressing by repeating herself over and over again to emphasis her point of view and ignores my questions asking her for more details about her feelings, she threatens to kick me out or make me sleep on the couch, and she likes to remind me when I abused her but she dismisses any abuse she's done to me. She told me that she believes in me filling a "traditional male role" of being the protector and the handyman but she REFUSES to do the "traditional female role" of being the home cleaner and taking care of my needs. So basically, she's another woman with double standards. The rules she applies to other people are for her personal gain and the rules she applies to herself are lenient so she can easily meet them. She doesn't care about other people's expectations of her, just her own. I'm 37 and she's 38, I've been with her for 18 years; it's progressively gotten worse over the years and seems to be in line with the age of our kids (the older they get the more she wants people to do as their told and shut up).

My husband works in an office and they have a number of employees that sit around them in a cubicle farm. She says he speaks with the "girls" all day long. He's one of a few guys. Well, we recently planned a trip to our state's fair and he mentioned to one of the girls there that we were going. She sent him a YouTube link to some of the foods we could expect to find at the fair. He said they got a good laugh at some of the stuff we could eat and so he said that this one co-worker told him to text her pics of all the strange foods we ate. The reason is because a lot of them were suppose to start working from home this week and last week was the last day my husband would be seeing them for a few months. He wasn't selected to work from home. He told me that he had this one girl's number and was going to text her pics of the food we bought. Should I feel a certain way that my husband has the personal number of a female co-worker and plans to text her. When I brought this up to him he said it was no different than me having the numbers of some of my co-workers. They are all female though so it is a bit different. He's a guy. Maybe if he was texting another guy I could see his point but what should I do here. Should I approach him again about this?

My wife like to propose a decision but don't follow through. For instance one minute she is like " we got to move" and the next we got to finish school. then she would  discuss about moving to another state. In my opinion I believe ever since she got involve in text with another security guard behind my back and the result lead to him making her out to be a whore have made her want to make the decision to move. another thing is I just got this job and never network with  no one to get it and i feel she i s sabotaging that. she is in school about to finish and we have a sun that is special needs that is already in a private school and the thought of moving at the moment without planning does not make any sense but she claim we do? there is no plan. at least when i plan something i literally follow through step by step. again i just believe she is moving to cover up her embarrassment what are your thoughts?

I picked up my ex husband (who died suddenly) paychecks today. He still had me as beneficiary on his job. My son's paid for the funeral and I want to cash these checks and give the money to them... I called my bank and they said it will be hard unless we had a joint account or if he had a power of attorney, which does not.  My son wanted to sign his name and deposit them, but I don't want him to get in trouble. My bank did say I can try to go into a branch with our marriage, divorce and death certificates to try to get them cashed or deposited.  Any suggestions? 

But there is no law preventing the wife from spending all the money while he is at work. In my opinion, that is abuse. 

From the marriage.

a social worker working at a local not for profit that deals with families who have lost a child. are counseling a client who is coping with the death of her young daughter. The two of them have worked together for the past year since her daughter's death. At the end of last week's session, the client told you she would not be in for a counseling session in the middle of August because she and her husband are planning to stay for a week at a renowned bed and breakfast. To your dismay, you, your spouse, and your two teenagers will be staying there during the same time period with about three days of overlap. The bed and breakfast is small and you are to be sure to run into your client and her husband.

Is one day per weekend of quality time enough? I am an avid sailor who like to go sailing one day per weekend. My wife and family do not enjoy sailing so don't go. In all fairness I leave very early in the morning sometimes before they even wake up, but I am home by dinner. The other day on the weekend we all go out and do something together as a family. My wife and I also spend about an hour watching TV almost every night during the week. My wife thinks every other weekend would be enough for my hobby and that I should be spending more time with her and our family. Am I being unreasonable?

The gossip is exciting but a year or two after the divorce we won't have it anymore.

My parents never married and they were as happy as they could be until cancer took my mom away from us.

I bought the house in my name only with funds from my 401k. So she says it's still marital property. She wants her kids to move back in even after they are now grown up. They have no place of their own because of their own laziness, drug use and criminal behavior, including being arrested for assault on the wife. Does she have a right to allow them to stay at the house even if I say no

My wife and I have been married some 10 years, together almost 16 and at night when we're in the bedroom and I'm playing around on my laptop while she's playing on her phone then it's all good. But the minute she goes to sleep and I'm still up typing she automatically thinks I'm chatting with someone. Not the case. I'm always looking for things for my SUV and doing things like that. I recently upgraded all the lights to LED and I'm looking for the last few ones I forgot. The light under my shifter which displays R, N, D, etc. And I'm trying to find the very small bulbs that go in the vanity mirrors on my sun visors. The only way to look for those is to type them into my laptop. My wife thinks that when I'm typing I'm obviously chatting with someone online. Even if we're sitting on the sofa watching TV and I'll send a text she always has to know who I was texting. I have 6 other siblings all of which have cell phones. Plus, a number of friends that I chat with on a regular basis. I guess according to her the only person I should be texting is her. How else am I going to look for anything online than to type it in? Yes, she can be very insecure at times. Am I suppose to think things into my laptop so she doesn't get suspicious when she hears me typing?

My boyfriends ex wife is starting **** for no reason. She is lying saying I'm into drugs when I'm not. We have her boys every other week just like she does. They don't even like going over there. Her youngest son was almost crying because he didn't want to leave to go to his moms house. She blows up my mans phone (her now ex husband because he divorced her crazy ***) saying I'm into drugs but I'm not and she has no proof. She's got me blocked so I can't contact her and has the nerve to be a **** to me when I did nothing wrong to her besides take better care of her kids than she does! I am just wondering why in the **** she keeps running her mouth? Also she has people spy on my Snapchat and she tells me I'm the one who's jealous of her. How can I be jealous of someone who doesn't even know how to drive? She is 30. Has never gotten her license ever. She is scary when she drives I guess. She can't cook: she burnt grilled cheese so bad it caught on fire. Her then husband divorced her because she slept around behind his back. It's just such a headache. Thinking I should report her for drugs because she's sure as hell is acting like it. Please help me understand 

What is your opinion of my husband's statement to me?  With a comment like that do you think he has any love left for me?

My husband of 16 years just lost his hero of a father. I'm not familiar with death, so that alone, upsets me- but our situation has a few extra complications.  First, my husband and I have been separated for many years. While we both still love each other, we have had a very tumultuous relationship and have never been able to make it work... although last year, we tried again and I become pregnant with our fourth child. Soon after, my husband became involved with another woman and quickly grew vile towards me causing a rift in his family. Their relationship is very toxic but they're still holding on. At one point, I was only to speak to my husband when strictly about the children- that was, until his father just died four days ago.  Secondly, my husband is bipolar and I have depression. This is probably the root of our relationship problems in the past.  However, we're both 35 now. While I have done a lot of growing and forgiving- he has not. He's stuck in the past and can't let go of the pain- making him guarded and mean.  The final complication is that my husband is an over-the-road truck driver. While my husband prefers physical comfort over words, no one is able to provide that to him since he's not here.  What do I do? How do I comfort? He's becoming quieter and quieter. I want to annoy him. I want him to talk. I want him to feel safe. Do I keep texting him updates and what nots, even if he doesn't respond? Please help!

If the now separated couple were married when the child was born but the mother was unfaithful, and it turns out the child is not the father's, will the "father" still have to pay child support because they were married when he was born?