Ideas...I would know if I knew her, I'm usually good at gift giving but the most I know about her is that she recently lost her husband, she has a host of kids and grandkids. She lives on a farm. Anything helps, thanks.  

Why am i so submissive V_V

I've been flirty chatting for the past year with a man who lives in another country. We call each other sweetie and baby, but we've never actually met up. 

Theres this girl i like. I asked her "When was the last time you went out on a date?" and she said "MmM..I really cant say" ( bad sign number 1?) So i said, "Ill pick you up at 8" and she said "I could use a night out" (bad sign number 2?) We went bowling and ate pizza. The next day i asked her if she enjoyed our date and she said "date? i dont know...it was more of a charity case" with a flirtatious giggle (bad sign number 3?)  Im confused....The Question: Does she like me or not in your opinion?

I've been friends with this man for like 10 years. we became friends when we were 18 and we are now 28 and we are both in relationships. He has a girlfriend hes been with for 7 months. I'm married. I've been married for a year. known my husband since I was 20 though. My husband was the first and only guy i've lost my virginity too. No other sexual partners aside from him. I've never seen my friend in this way that makes me get butterflies. But he HAS matured a LOT over the years and became a stand up guy. He also is way more intelligent than I remembered and he is more attractive physically, I see he's been hitting the gym a lot because his body is right. I should still be in the honeymoon phase with my husband though right? I don't know why I have these butterflies for my friend. Recently we reconnected and started to text more. I literally smile at my phone like a teenager every time he texts me. the conversations are innocent though. Nothing flirty or nothing that crosses the line. The only thing he said was that I was beautiful on a picture I posted on facebook. We have light hearted conversations and then we have deep conversations where we vent to each other about depression, anxiety and just overall life troubles. He was venting to me about how he hasn't been able to sleep and his sleep pattern is horrible and how his inner mood is the worst he sent me an entire paragraph." I comforted him and he said he feels much lighter now and how he feels good now I was like " of course. thats what friends are for." Now I'm sort of crushing on him. I fiind myself thinking about him a llot and thinking about him more than my husband. I've had a dream about me. I don't excited when my husband texts me but I get excited for when my friend texts me

Hey guys so my wife and I are under investigation by Child Protective Services, and it's not because we abuse or neglect our 2 kids. I used to be abusive towards my wife, and she recently was trying to get counseling for our son, and she disclosed information about what happened between she and I. The counseling office then reported it to CPS. Way before this happened I attsneded counseling and anger management on my own free will and have been doing a lot better and things have been really good with my wife and kids. But today a CPS investigator came over our house and asked some questions, and at the end she ordered one of us as in me or my wife to leave the house as this is a ongoing issue. Both my wife and I are very happy now and there is no more issues between us. So the question is does one of us really have to leave the house if a CPS investigator orders it??? 

I would love to get married, but because divorce rate is so high, I keep worrying about the possibility of getting one. I long to have kids as well. Becoming a dad is actually my lifelong goal. But I'm also worried about the possibility of getting divorced and the woman getting custody. I DON'T want to only see my kids on weekends. Part of me wants to explain my feelings to women I meet, but wouldn't it be weird talking about a possible divorce prior to getting married? Should I continue to pursue marriage? Or should I just focus on becoming a single parent by choice? I want to be a dad, not just a "father figure."

So a few months ago I was having problems with my anxiety. I was upset and crying alot. During one of these spells my partner wanted to have sex. I really didn't want to, but I agreed. I was still crying. When he started to penetrate, I told him that it was hurting me. His reply was "it's going to hurt sometimes" and we continued. That has really bothered me and I don't know if it qualifies as abuse or what. Am I over reacting about it? I'm afraid to bring it up to him. 

I want to know if it's okay with any of you women to have a women who is your neighbor having a conversation with your husband when you are not there ? And when you are she Doesn't stay for that long. Yes I know she was gonna pick a item up but not for her to sit and talk to my husband my husband should understand how it makes me feel rather or not anything happened it's just not okay what you guys think ? He thinks it's my insecurities but he has told me real mean things that got me much worse with myself  

I asked my old baby's mom could she meet my new baby's mom because our kids will be related. She said, now why would I want to meet a woman that you're having sex with, she's not even your wife plus u only known her for 5 months I don't or YOU don't know her". I don't know what's the deal. Why's she acting like that? 

My husband was raised by a hoarder and can't stand any clutter. Our house had become quite mess lately. I cleaned and contained my 7 yr.old daughters toys which were scattered everywhere. Then she and I went on a short weekend vacation with my family. Unbeknownst to me on the 2nd day of my trip my husband and 24 yr old stepdaughter. boxed and bagged up about 95% or slightly more of my daughters toys included gifts she got for her birthday 2 weeks prior and everything else they thought of as junk in her room even baby clothes I had saved for her to pass on to her daughters or granddaughters if her ever had kids. My Husband swore he boxed stuff up and put it in the basement for my daughter and I to go though but he didn't everything went straight to trash bin or donation site, so he also lied to me. He now doesn't understand why I'm mad and thinks I should just get over it. He says he cleaned it cause I was never going to because I can't clean cause I get overwhelmed by the mess. How do I either get him to see where I'm coming from (which I don't think is possible) or to just swallow my feelings and forgive and forget ?

When my husband and I was together we had gotten a car, in my name.  He decided other things were more important in his life than paying debts within our marriage.  They repossed the car, all fine in dandy.  I contacted the car lot told them do with the car what they needed to do, sell it, auction it what have you.  Turns out they let him take over payments on the car still in my name.  They never even released my tag back to me. How is this possible legal on their end and what can I do.  They told me not to worry that this would not effect my credit and the ex told me stop haressing them. I do not want this car in my name, and there doesn't seem to be anything I can do with the car lot to get them to correct this. Any advice? His name is not on the loan.

I originally joked about making him spend birthdays and holidays with my ex but it was a joke and we laughed about how awkward it would be.  I would never expect him to do that since his and my children are grown.  I feel it's ok if you aren't planning on being with someone else but if you are, I feel like it's wrong to divorce and pretend you are mom and dad together on holidays Bc your significant others are like third wheels.  Plus I feel he still wants to keep them around for backup support Bc when I first got here his ex wife showed up crying and wouldn't leave.  She came back five times crying in the drive way and hit the mailbox on the way out the fourth time.  This all happened within an hour (5x).  I felt bad for her and angry with him Bc he brought me into something when it seemed he hadn't ended things with the second wife and she texted him after this saying why? Don't you remember I made it so you could still talk to your ex wife ( mom of his kids) like you wanted? So I feel like I didn't ask for this.  My son died and I am not needing this stress and I'm wanting to leave him.  Help.  I don't know what to do.  He says, I'm not inviting my ex (first ex), my daughter is and says I should be fine with it and he isn't doing it, she is.  I feel like parents set that precedence, not the kids.  I don't know what to do. I want someone for myself.  Not to be a third wheel and there are five parties in a row in the next month with her (first ex and mom of his adult kids).

I've been desperately looking for an inexpensive truck to start my own landscape business after managing one for several years.  My husband just bought a 2nd truck for himself while I haul my landscape supplies in a 2 door vw golf (that used tio be nice but is now trashed) He doesn't let me drive either truck. Married for 20 years.  He complains daily that I don't contribute enough to our home.  

Okay so it's a long story but I will to the best I can to shorten it. I had a kid when I was young and gave him up for adoption to the grandmother on the fathers side under the agreement that I could see him as often as I want and he would know his dad and myself as mom and dad. Now the dad had left me when he found out I was pregnant. So I got as much time with him as I could and when the grandmother (Tammy) realized he was learning the difference between mom and mema she stopped letting me see him as much. 11 Years later Tammy and her husband were divorcing, she had skipped town after kicking her husband (Randy) and my son (Christian)  out with no where to go. Randy contacted me to ask if I could watch my son while he was at work in which I was all excited. 

My wife never sleeps with me so I went to the bar and got drunk and ended up having a gay experience with another man. I regret it now but my question is since it wasn't with a woman, I do t feel like it was cheating. What's your opinion