I don't know what to do. I lost a friend about 4 months, she doesn't tell me the reason. I'm a nice person. Sometimes she come back and talk. But I don't think she ever going talk to me again. 

Been working for this company for 2 and a half years. My partner also works for this company but at a different service. We have been going through IVF and my supervisor is a friend to both of us and has supported us. Recently my partner got a letter informing them that they were going to a desciplinary hearing. We found out that my supervisor reported her and I sent my supervisor a text message saying: When we're you gonna tell me you dobbed [My Partner] in to management? I honestly said to [My Partner] oh no you wouldn't do that, but no you did. [My partner] just had her 1st [IVF embryo] transfer yesterday and she don't need this stress!  I sent this message as I was deeply disappointed in my supervisor. My supervisor reported this to my manager who spoke to me about it and now I have been summoned to a decisplinary hearings as this could be seen as bullying, inappropriate and unprofessional. Could this be?  I genuinely thought that they were my friend and understand the stress I am under. Could this been seen as bullying? Intimidation? Unprofessional? Inappropriate? 

This was said by a 22 year old female, she's been in an on again off again relationship with a 39 year old guy. Thoughts on what the saying means? "F**k a relationship. lets just vibe until we got our sh*t together"

Her and I have the same friend group and we both get invited to the same places. One is a small social party gathering thing that this girl does for holiday fun events and I wanted to go to one of those to see a few people I am friends with there and she said no we are not going they are messed up people and your better then them meanwhile I really wanted to go just to have fun and they play games and see them. This other girl invites us to clubs and she had no interest in that either. I am really starting to think to do go to those things on my own now and not with her. How come she has an issue with making friends. It is not that hard at all for me but it is very hard for her. My friend just wants to hang out with me privately and that's it and she wants to go home. I have a life too and want to have a bigger group but she has a problem with people. 

So I recently distant myself from my bff of 10 years. Because I feel that she is using me for money and that our friendship is all about her and money. I always listen to her problems about her life, love and sex life, etc. and she's pregnant living with her ex. I always there for her. But I always the 1st one to text her but whenever she text me 1st she wants money and when I give it to her she stop talking me me. She owes me about $300 (based on all the money I gave her on different occasions total). She works as a CNA in Hampton and I'm in another city she moved there 4 months ago. She said she'll pay me back but when she get her paycheck she avoids me for almost a week. She never calls and text me unless she wants something. She'll start with her drama and then wants money. Few days ago she had another drama about her not having a car and moving out of her dad house she asked me for money for groceries for her and her ex and I ignore her because enough is enough. She wants me to have sympathy so that way I'll seen her money. And another thing I told her I gave my life to god again  and she's a Buddhist and I used to be a Buddhist. She was shocked and think I was forced and hypnotized but I didn't explain myself and I told her that she'll never understand and then she asked for money. I haven't heard from her in a week. So i started my life by cutting toxic people starting with her. And it was hard for me because of me knowing her for 10 years. How can get over it?

Here's the video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xr999VksR5M This was when I was 16. This school was very strict. WHat happened was I always came to this class late, and this was the fourth time that week. I just wanted to make fun of the teacher and thought I was having fun. There was a girl in this class who think I was funny so I wanted to impress her too. As you can see, the teacher made an example of me, slapping my face 5 times in front of everyone. It is a very degrading feeling to have your face slapped worse than  being hit anywhere else.It left red marks on my face and the whole day, the teacher kept pointing that out saying this is why students need to be slapped in the face, everyone can see their punishment.  He called my mother and explained why he had slapped me and she agreed with him too. I didn't come to this class late again, but in America, I think a teacher would never be allowed to slap a boy on his face, right? So I wanted to ask you guys, now that you know this, was my teacher right to slap me on my face?

Hi i'm a 18 year old girl, I was at party in my dorm and wasn't drinking, because I got drunk the other night and wasn't feeling it. 3 people who I never saw before, was with their friend who goes to my school. that was their guest. during the night the girl leaves her guest which isn't allowed at all. and goes off. me taking responsibility I help the girl who clearly is way too drunk and left the room. I brought her back to my room and sat her down on my bed. the other friend who was not drunk stayed with her until I got hell. she ended up throwing up badly. the RA blamed me saying that it was my fault and I shouldn't have brought her to the room. this isn't the first time I get blamed for helping girls who need help in that situation, my room is mad with me and all her friends think it's my fault. which o really don't think I did anything wrong. I got raped at party 4 weekends ago and DOD NOT WANT THAT TO HAPPEN TO HER. did I do anything? the police got involved. and school making it think that I caused it and made her drink. when she was already drunk BEFORE SHE MET ME

A friend of mine just broke up with her gf. theyve been friends for 3 years and dated for 1. throughout their friendship, they were each others closest friend. they had an apartment together ans aw each other everyday. They broke up and my friend wont stop crying. what are some good ways i can help comfort her, and give her words of encourage after such a hard break up?

I am a straight college senior. I have a lot of straight and gay friends. One of my gay female friends told me about a problem she and many of her gay girl friends have. There are social occasions they would like to attend where they need a male escort. Because she was my friend I told her I would be happy to help out. She passed the word to her friends and now I go to the social meetings with them. At these meetings, I have met and made friends with some of the top people in the community. Several have given me their business cards and told me to call them for a possible job when I graduate from college. These are contacts my fellow students would die for. However some people that know what I am doing claim it is wrong for me to "use" these women for this purpose and that all I am is a gigolo. I don't get paid for this and there is obviously no sex involved. Do you think what I am doing is wrong?

I was having trouble in my high school math class. My classmate Jim told me his mom was a engineer and she could help me understand my math problems. He said "come home and let her help you". At his house he introduced me to his mom. OH MY GOD. She was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen in my life. Gorgeous face, figure to die for. She had on a sweater that showed her 36Gs (my guess). She was a great tutor. She really knew her math. However it took ALL of my will power to keep my mind on math and not to get a b0ner when she was tutoring me. That would have been a DISASTER and the most embarrassing thing EVER to happen to me and the end of my friendship with Jim. Lucky for me it did not happen. After tutoring me she gave me and Jim a piece of homemade pie and ice cream. Was she ever a nice person. If there ever was a trophy wife, she would be it. I told Jim he was very lucky to have such a beautiful mom. He said I never noticed his mom was beautiful. How do you think it is possible that a teenage guy like me would not know his mom is so beautiful?

To tell someone that he is a person who people would make fun of. Isn't that basically implieing that there is something wrong with that person that people make fun of him. Isn't that basically a form of blaming him for the bullying that he is going through?

I asked a girl out.Her name was Kate and she rejected me. Since then there was some animosity between us.I coudnt handle the rejection well.The thing is I'm unpopular in school.People think I'm weird and they make fun of me.I don't have friends and I'm bullied by guys and i do have a feeling that she turned me down because she looked down on me. But i think I'm good looking and i was definitely better looking than her.I am also talented and good at many things.But she possibly thinks that she is better looking and feels superior in some way. She even has a friend named Alice.I spoke to Alice and asked her if Kate makes fun of me behind my back like many others do.She said that Kate is a good person and she would never want to hurt me or anyone else.She did also say that I'm weird and she's come across many people making fun of me but she can be my friend and help me out. So we became friends and it seemed to be a good friendship....but deep inside i never really liked Alice and ik even she never liked me either. One day i called up Alice and her male friends picked up and he made some weird sounds and mocked me and i could hear girls laughing in the background...... probably Kate and her female friend. I told Alice about this and i told her that I'm sure Kate told him to that day.The next morning Kate texted me told me that she's had never had intentions of hurting me or never will.She even apologized on her friends behalf and told me that it wouldn't happen again.

So for Halloween my Best friend and I always go drinking and parting with each other. But I have another friend who is really needy all the time and doesnt have any other friends that wants to hangout on halloween with me as well. She had asked me last year and I have a hard time saying no ( shes has bad depression and ALWAYS takes things the wrong way when I tell her I dont want to) and told her sorry I have plans already maybe next year (knowing that these plans are set in stone every year). My best friend of 15years who is like family to me hates her. So I cant invite her to join us.  Im not sure what I should say to her or what I should do?

(If someone has its phone number or something like that, I would apreciate to you to give me...) how*

I hang out at an establishment where most people do not talk to me. most of the customers do not associate with me or hold a conversation with me. There are approx 20 people that I know there , and only like 5 talk to me. On a couple of occasions , one particular customer came up to me and told me that I am a cool person and that he really likes me. He also said that I am a "good person." My question is, the fact that he took it upon himself to" reassure "me that I am a cool person, without me soliciting his opinion . Does this mean that the vast majority of the customers at this establishment , think that I am weird , different , or therefore an undesirable person? Have negative things been said behind my back by a vast majority of people , which is why he felt the need to tell me that I am a cool person . Without me soliciting him the question?

What do you think would happen if I message this girl I know from high school? I'm a 18 year old boy who was once friends with a 17 year old girl. We were friends in hs but I just graduated and she's a senior. I ended up losing our friendship and she blocked me on Instagram for making her feel uncomfortable and not giving her space. We haven't spoke or texted for more than au year. I really like her and miss our friendship, I'm a nice person and made a mistake. She's a really amazing girl. After I graduated highschool this past Spring, over the summer she unblocked me and I don't know why. She had me blocked for more than a year then all of sudden I'm not. I don't get it. Why do you think she did? And what do you think will happen if I message her and should I?

I'm in my 20s and don't  have many friends since I woke all the time, but for 5 years I have spoken to this person on and off. I only think of him as a friend but I don't  want to be an annoying person. I wrote him on ig where we only communicate.We live VERY far apart, never met, more then likely never will. Please give me the cold hard truth so I won't try and bother him anymore. I wrote him this on ig:"I remember when we used to talk everyday. It was fun for me, I know that we never met in person but you became important to me. I don't know if you remember what I went through, I don't know if you even care but it meant so much to me. I was so alone and stressed, I felt like I wasn't in control of my life.Here's a photo of what he wrote me back.

seems like nobody wants to be my friend or give a crap about me. which I understand because im a teenager. but it seems like i put a off putting vibe maybe? im only 17 and i make all A's, dont have many friends but not complaining. but no guys seem to take an interest in me. i don't know what's wrong with me? yesterday I sat a table and everyone moved away. (not all at once though) even my friends moved to. maybe its cause im ugly or something else?

I'm new in school this year, I've never been to a public school before this. I'm 13 and I'm not very good in the friend section. I prefer male friends over female friends because males are easier to talk to in my opinion. But it seems impossible to make a male friend.

I'm in my 20s and don't  have many friends since I woke all the time, but for 5 years I have spoken to this person on and off. I only think of him as a friend but I don't  want to be an annoying person. I wrote him on ig where we only communicate.We live VERY far apart, never met, more then likely never will. Please give me the cold hard truth so I won't try and bother him anymore. I wrote him this on ig:"I remember when we used to talk everyday. It was fun for me, I know that we never met in person but you became important to me. I don't know if you remember what I went through, I don't know if you even care but it meant so much to me. I was so alone and stressed, I felt like I wasn't in control of my life.Here's a photo of what he wrote me back.

I am very close with one of my friends and his 17-yr-old daughter. I care about her as much as if she were my own. I have always had a very trusting relationship with her. She knows she can come to me with any problems. My friend knows that she comes to me for advice once in a while, and he never pries for information. His daughter recently told him she was sleeping over a friends house. They wound up driving to another friends house for a party. Her and the friend got drunk there. She called me in the middle of thr night for a ride back to her friend's house bc she knew she shouldn't drive. I picked her up and brought her to her friends house, glad that she knew enough not to get into a car. She asked me to promise not to tell her Dad. Although I want to keep her trust, I'm not sure if I should keep this from him. I don't want to burn any bridges with either of them. I feel as though I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. This story was false. My friend and I were having a debate on trust and ethics. We had our opinions and wanted to know the opinions of others. He had caught his own daughter drinking and dealt with it properly.  He asked me if I would tell him if his daughter came to me with something of that seriousness or if I would break her trust. I told him that although I do hold our trust in each other as very valuable, it is his right to know if his daughter was making a dangerous choice.

My friend just informed me his grandmother that he was very close to died this morning. I offered my condolences and told him he is welcome to call or text me anytime. Or let me know if he needs anything. He said he was "fine." However, I still plan to check on him occasionally just to make sure he's okay or see if he needs anything. How do you help make a friend feel better after someone they care about passes? I've thought about cooking or baking for him since that's what most people traditionally send to grieving people, but he refuses to let me cook for him. Nor is he a flowers person or I would send him flowers. Any suggestions are very welcome! I am terrible at comforting people when it comes to death, so I'm trying to think of how to cheer him up.