Last time i checked you couldn't cheat with a piece of cheap rubber. What does it matter if said piece of rubber happens to be a vagine?

abandoning him?

my wife left house yestrday and now she have pee pee and no booby hepl me I want te sexy time

Traveled to over 100 countries  Eaten at 50 michilin 3 star restaurants  Wonderful wife and dog Stress free job

what do you do to control the urge to flirt

I'm a divorced Mom of three. I have raised my kids alone since my youngest was two. I have a special need daughter, who is 19, but still needs me like a kid. I've gotten to burn out mode. I want to walk away from everything, but I cant. Mainly because I feel functional.  I dont have a support system where I live.I am not enjoying life. I wanted some ideals to help me stop feeling this way?

Yes, it is attractive. But is it acceptable to dress in this way? Other people notice how she dresses.

We've been split for two years and next Saturday is my 50th. The kids are 15 and 11. My older son from a previous relationship whose 20 will be with me.

stay at my place for a few days. Unfortunately, I have to work, which means he'll be in the house alone with my girlfriend. Do you think she might come on to him? Should I tell him to stay elsewhere?

our daughter is 27 and recently got laid off from her corporate job a couple of months ago. Found out my husband was giving her $60 a week for groceries so she can fruits, vegetables, meats, paper towels, dish soap etc. I found out because i guess he let it accidentally slip that she owed him money when she became employed again. He told me that she  owed him money. I said for what? He said for groceries. I did not know he was buying her groceries. I thought her boyfriend was buying her groceries. She said that her boyfriend buys her interview ready clothes so she has clothes to wear during interviews. I told my husband to stop buying her groceries. If she is hungry that will give her motivation to find another job FASTER. If someone is always saving you when you're in a bind that doesn't make you stronger. tough love is needed. My husband said " I'm not letting her starve. I give her money for food just like I give yall food." First of all, there's a difference. I don't cook so he doesn't buy me groceries aside from the occasional bag of chips or orange juice. I have no desire to cook. Our 20 year old son doesn't like cooked food anyways so it's really no point. He said that healthy food costs too much. He sees how much our daughter spends on groceries and said it's too much. Our daughter cooks a lot and she cooks three times a day. My meals are like a chikfila salad or a hamburger from BK. no sorry im serious.

I ran into my ex husband at the mall. He invited me to join him for lunch. We went to Ruth Chris. It was the best meal I ever had. At lunch he told me how great I looked and he was happy I was getting on with my life. He said I wish you the very best in the future and if you ever have a problem to let him know. He would try to help me. I told him I had a problem but I didn't think there was much he could do about it. He said what is it? I told him I have a long commute to work and my apartment is run down and the landlord will not fix it up. He said come with me. I have a solution to that problem. He took me to a high rise condo that he owned ONE BLOCK from where I work. He gave me the key and said I could stay as long as I wanted RENT FREE. I was in total shock. No one had ever been that nice to me for my whole life. He said that he spends about 2 nights a month at the condo but it was a 2 bedroom condo so there should not be a problem. I told him it may be 2 bedroom condo but only 1 bedroom will be used when he is there. I can not help myself. I am falling in love with him big time. Do you think I will have a chance to convince him to marry me again. I am not the same person I was when we divorced. How can I show him I have changed and will be the best wife he could ever have?

1 year marriage and she fight with me more then 1000 times.

Alan, my ex husband and I are on friendly terms. We did not have any children. Two times in the last 3 years I ran into financial difficulty. I could not pay my rent or car payments. I called Alan and told him my problem and he gave/loaned (I am not sure which) me the money to solve my problems no questions asked. He never ask for the money back. Another time my computer died and I ask Alan how I would get it fixed. He sent a repair tech out to fix the computer and when I tried to pay the tech, he said Alan had prepaid him for the service call. My friends tell me I have to stop asking Alan for help if I ever expect to live on my on. I think that is probably true especially if he gets married again. However it is hard to get a loan from a commercial source and so easy to just call Alan and he will solve my problem no matter what the problem is. How do I stop my self from taking the easy way out and calling Alan when I have a financial problem? ALL ADVICE WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED

My husband was married for about 5 years to his previous wife and they had a daughter together. My husband and I just had a baby and we've been married almost 1 year. Well my husbands parents (my in laws) pay for special trips just the ex wife and them, and even trips them, the ex wife and the daughter (my stepdaughter). They dont do anything for me or my newborn daughter. For the ex wife's birthday, they took her on a spa getaway for a week and paid for everything, just my husbands mom and my husbands ex wife. When they found out it was my birthday, they just ignored it and then said "oh, if we knew while you were here, we would have celebrated you" even though it was mentioned numerous times. I just feel its disrespectful and it just keeps happening. Is it normal for parents to be doing everything with their child's ex spouse? And is it disrespectful to me as the current wife? Ir am I just being sensitive? What is a normal relationship in this situation? 

I've been cooking for years and it's become a major passion of mine. I plan on coming out with a cook book in the next couple of years. I notice when people coming over our house to eat and they compliment my cooking my husband has to downplay their compliments. My sister came over to eat the other day for chicken fajitas and she said " Wow this food is bomb. What are you seasoning with." and my husband was like " It's alright. I think she puts too much seasoning on the food." Then a couple of coworkers of mine wanted me to make them a plate and my husband goes " They probably won't even eat that food. They might throw it away." My sister stepped in and said "Well that was rude. Her food is amazing. What's your problem." I cook for my husband all of the time and he said he doesn't like everything I cook, but a couple of things he likes. I make lots of salads and soups as well that have got rave reviews by others. My husband said he likes Chikfila's salads better." His negative attitude is really starting to affect my mood. Then when we have guests over I notice he kind of gets an attitude. Also, we were in the store looking for a Nike gift for my son in law and I said wow this shirt looks nice and he goes " that shirt is ugly. this one is nicer."  I talked to my sister about this who said my husband is mad that he has to drive me places. I work from home so he only takes me to the grocery store and to the bank and mall on OCCASSION.  so really he only has to drive me somewhere about twice a week MAX. I never learned how to drive or had a car because I lived in New York for basically my entire life. My sister said that my husband resents me because of that fact. My sister also said " Your husband is kind of arrogant and selfish sorry to say. You barely get out and he complains when you do."

He wanted to get married in Versace mansion, his brothers build big mansions and then sell them, he wants a factory, etc! He didn't even make 60k! He then started crying when I broke up with him and was seeking marriage! I was 12 Yrs younger than him

My husband and I had a luncheon with friends. Our date night sitter came over to stay with our 10 yr old son. She was referred to us by my husband's co-worker about 2 1.2 yrs ago. Since his coworker gave his daughter's cell # to my husband, it became customary for him to be the one to text her whenever we needed 1 to 2x a month. The first few times when she first started with us, my husband would be there downstairs to let her in. They would always chat in the kitchen while our son was in the background waiting to interact or play with sitter outside. I would come down in a few minutes. Today as we were about to leave, my husband who never mentioned anything to me when we were in the bedroom getting ready, went straight to the fridge, took out a package of ground beef and told out sitter to cook some burgers for her and our son. This caught me by surprise because first of all we had leftover beef stew just made last night so there was really no need for someone else other than us to cook for our son. Plus, she had never cooked for us before. I had just watched this episode of Forensic Files where a boy almost died of ecoli due to ingesting raw beef. Lastly, I felt insulted, and hurt that my spouse disregarded my role as a mother and homemaker who should have a say on matters involving my own son and in our shared household. I just feel that he was creating something intimate between our sitter and him by having her cook a meal for his son. My husband is 52. What do you think?

I'm a middle aged father of five girls. My affair was recently exposed to their mother. My wife has filed for divorce and my girls refuse to speak to me. My soon to be ex wife is civil and hasn't spoken badly about me as far as I know, but my daughters can't stand to look at me. I recently went to my youngest daughter's soccer game, but she became very angry when she saw me on the sidelines and even asked me not to come to her future games. All five of my daughters used to be huge daddy's girls. I never thought my kids could hate me. It feels like I'm divorcing my wife AND my kids. Is there anyway to mend my relationship with them?