I'm going to be honest here, maybe I'm in the wrong and I'm a crappy friend. If that's the way you see it, feel free to tell me. I always try to be kind and I feel cruddy about myself if I hurt feelings. Most people tell me I'm very nice and easygoing. I have a problem with being a scatterbrain. I have many thoughts occurring at the same time and have tremendous difficulty focusing. Because of this, I sometimes talk way too much and get impatient when my turn doesn't come (but I NEVER say anything like that, I only think it. IK it would be inconsiderate to tell someone to stop talking cause I want to, that sounds so arrogant.) and I speak very quickly. I don't want to dominate conversations. I have enough awareness to shut up and ask the other person if they have anything they want to say, or just pause and let them speak. Back to the point. I have a friend who also talks all the time, in fact a lot more than I do but in a completely different way. I like discussing sort of random theoretical topics and making things up. I like playing with new ideas and creating something new. I get bored of conversations about dishwashers, ingredients, someone's makeup, I don't want to hear it. Guess what this friend talks about. That. She interrupts a lot and whenever she is in a conversation, not just me, but everybody shuts up and when she isn't around, they all joke around about how they already know she'll be the only one talking. Let me continue.

I want to know anything funny to make my best friend laugh with me. So I wanna know what you guys think will make us laugh. (we laugh at stuff like Pooping naked,weird names or things and other stuff I can't remember.)  

So I've been at university for a month now and there are people I talk to while I'm there as if we're friends but outside of uni I'm only ever included in their plans if I'm there already when they're going to do them. I've never been asked to hang out or go out by any of them otherwise and they hangout alot. What am I doing wrong? I ask sometimes but should I really have to be the only one constantly asking to hangout with them?

I saw this done on a Spanish soap opera. Two HS girls got into a big catfight. The 3 mutual friends forced both of them to shake hands and reconcile. They were friends since. Though would that work in real life? Or not at all.

When my BF broke up me saying that Im needy, his friend was beside us as a witness. During breakup convo, my BF was being nice about it but then said he can be mean too. He then asked his friend to take away "that thing." His friend was looking at him with like wide eyes, but didn't do anything to me. My BF also said to his friend, "I'll help her to move on" and yet his friend was silent. Does this mean his friend is more decent?

I have a friend two texts me frequently throughout the day about random and un-related mundane life stuff. I've stopped responding right away — even days, weeks. But she still texts me! It's like our chat window is a journal/brain dump for her daily musings. (doing laundry now, cleaning the house! Not sure what I should make for dinner...) I've explained to her that I'm not near my phone and bad at keeping up with texts. She even acknowledges that she messages me often and apologizes for it and says not to mind her ... yet she keep sending them anyway. When I do respond, after a week or so, she'll respond right away, sometimes within the minute. In general, she's great person, and I like her, but her messages are out of control. Any advice on what I can say/do? I don't want to hurt her feelings, but also, coming back to 10+ messages from her everyday is so overwhelming! Thanks in advance. Thanks so much for all of your advice so far. The thing is, I do see her in person occasionally, so I can't just ignore, delete, or block.

It starts off by later replies which i understand bc I respect that they make college their top priority and i want them to pass and become successful in the future. I can deal with slow replies but after that stage their attitude changes and then they stop texting me unless i text them again much much later like a week or two later then eventually they just don't talk anymore and then i just leave them be. Why does this happen? these are mainly female friends. guy friends don't really do this. I don't over text/ call them or bug them in person or anything like that

I tend to be a very silent & isolated kind of person with no intention of speaking unless I'm encountered by my siblings or close friends, etc. Lately, I am currently in 10th grade & everyone has been looking at me very much like a "gay friend", as well as that being told about toward me by my teacher in Special Education. I found that to be out of the teachers' conduct, and I found it to be seriously irritating by how the school has mistreated me with this form of disrespect, though I've gotten used by that form of treatment. I personally find it to be very insulting considering how far I've gotten through school with this form of disrespect & I came on Yahoo Answers wondering if what my school is doing is right or not. I find myself to be troubling when reaching contact with others because of these looks I'm getting by teachers & everyone around me.

If someone blocked me will the message still say delivered?

I Wake up going to School and after a long day i can sit home and be depressed. When all that it is over it is time for bed and all the same is again. I have depression and anxiety, it kills me from the inside. My friends are no real friends, most of them are arrogant and hypocrite, i have tried to ask why. They only tell me i dont like you after so much time you say i dont like you. Man, i dont like you either, you are one of the biggest arrogant People i have seen. You are very proud of yourself, self consentrated and hurt other feelings just to Perfect yourself. Rest of my friends are just come and go in my School. I have som good friends which i enjoy but they are 2 years older than me, plus we are in 2 diffrent Schools and soon i doubt we are gonna see each other again. All my prevois friends are all gone, the friend i have which i mostly hang out With School was a victim of bullying and he can be somewhat of a "see you later" He is still better than my other friends. My parents are old and dont have really time for me. MY School is not good either, I really dont know what to do in life. Suicide is an option but will it change anything. Just a life waisted…..  Nothings is how it should be, Family, School, friends all that is gone. I am lonely, i cry because i have no one i wear Hood everyday, listen to sad Music, I think Girls like me they commentate me which may be good sometimes, but still life is not easy speacially when life is not going well as a youth. 

Your friend is dating a guy, he makes threats toward innocent people.  They don't deserved to be threatened.  He threatens to beat these people up (they didn't do anything wrong), called them an a$$hole (he never met them).   He was at a restaurant with your friend and other friends, he complained on Facebook how these people were really rude toward the wait staff at the restaurant.  He made a comment on his Facebook status, he should have laid these people *** out and wanted to beat these people to a pulp.  Would you like her boyfriend? Would you tell your friend you like or dislike them? Would you be worried about your friend? 

I am a 20 year old university student. I have a boyfriend of 8 months, and a few distant friends. I am not an outgoing person, so I don't have a nice group of friends. I never had a group of friends, I only ever had one best friend at a time. How can I approach people at school ? What do you even say? I am so lost on how people actually make friends. Nobody really talks to me, so I don't talk to them. The friends I did have were from working together constantly, so we were forced to talk to each other. But say if I wanted to make friends at school ... usually me (or another person) will say hi or make a statement, and then nothing after that. I need a step by step way to approach people. I have poor social skills, I was an only child growing up in a city , plus I hate the way most people are. Humans by nature are selfish in my eyes, and if it were to come down to it, everyone is in it for themselves. But that's beside the point, we need friends and family to survive this world and I need to know how to have that and create those bonds

Ever since she was little she has been over weight all her family from her dads side is overweight and I told her when she was younger that she needed to lose weight or she would end up like them and she didn't listen to me and she is still over weight she has never had friends she's always been very antisocial I want her to go to parties with me and she never wants to go and ever since she became an adolescent she's been very aggressive she used to a sweet kid and then she tells me crying that she makes herself throw up and she starved herself I took her to a phycologist she went into therapy for a year and she got better and now she started college we payed a lot of money for her college classes and she failed all of them and she's being antisocial again she doesn't want to hang out with her family. Everyone from her dads side has mental problems and I told her to be careful because she might get them too Since they are genetic. and I always tell her do your makeup dress nicely and she just doesn't care about how she looks. I try to make her look better and she gets mad.I am trying to help her and she won't tell me anything that goes on in her life how can I get her to talk to me

Ever since I was little, I was always offended by what people said or how they spoke to me. I always remember my family telling me to never let anyone treat me low, and I think I took that way too much to heart. I am 20 y/o, and have no friends. I had a best friend for two years, but I recently cut her out of my life because every day she would criticize my life, & act like she was better than me. In her mind she wasn't doing that. She claims she was just trying to help me grow and share her perspective. She said she viewed me as "a sister" and that was her way of showing closeness. I am also currently in a relationship of 7 months, I love him, but his mom plays  too hard with me and it's making me want to break up with my man because I don't wanna deal with her. She too claims that is her way of showing closeness. I cannot distinguish between if someone is serious or if they're joking, unless I ask someone after. Is having people in my life worth it? I have a low tolerance for rude opinions or criticism (if it sounds rude) I admire people who have a positive reaction to those comments, because even if I don't react, I still take it hard. My boyfriend is encouraging me to stand up for myself when people are being rude, but idk when it's appropriate or not. How can I stop being so offended? Or what's the best way to react when people are being offensive? I don't want to be lonely, but I'd rather be lonely than have to deal with people. I don't want to stand up for myself if someone is just joking. I don't want to make a big deal about it, but I also want to stand my ground. 

I saw on facebook that one twin(lets call him Frank) had his birthday that day so i wished him happy birthday. And I completely forgot that its his twin brothers birthday aswel as I am good friends with him too! It only came to my mind 2 days later and now I feel bad.

I lived with my best friend for a few months. We were friends with benefits and cared about each other a lot. He asked me to try birth control at one point and I went for it. It made me incredibly depressed and I had no interest in sex while I was on it. During this time, I realized how he reacted to being told no. If I said no to sex he would give me the silent treatment or make me feel guilty for declining. Sometimes he would randomly touch my breasts excessively and I would have to say no several times for him to stop and he'd get upset. He had a very hard time respecting no. Eventually I told him how much it was hurting me and he told me how much he hated himself for doing it and I apologized for getting upset with him. However, he kept doing it. It got to the point where I started forcing myself to have sex just so he wouldn't be upset with me. I had to leave (he lives in another country) after those couple of months and he ended the friendship shortly after, telling me I was too emotionally dependent on him and that I deserved better because he's "a bad person". I was heartbroken, but its been a few months and I'm starting realize what happened to me, at least I think? I've also learned from friends that he told them I was too unstable for him to handle as the reason he ended our friendship. I have been labelled the crazy girl and I'm too afraid to tell people what happened to me in fear of proving his point. Is this even sexual assault? Abuse? I don't know.

I do get bullied by my classmates in school. I am the best looking guy in class.I'm also intelligent and I'm into extra curricular activities.I do answer questions which the teachers ask in class, impressing them and getting immense praise and appreciation.My classmates cannot do that.They aren't confident enough to stand up and answer a question.Initially no one cared about me but i started getting noticed because of my answers and some people started bullying me. I don't know if it's because of jealousy. My friend says that i am indeed better looking and smarter than them but that's not the reason I'm getting bullied.Its just that once theyve noticed me they also noticed that i must be very easy to bully.Anyone would look at me and say that I'm not so strong and i cannot fight back...so these bullies have noticed that and they are taking advantage of it.Its got nothing to do with my looks or intelligence.He says the only solution to this is to join a gym and get stronger after which i woudnt get bullied again.

Is skout a good app? It looks kind of sketchy. I live in Kennewick, WA and there's not much on meetup and I'm scared I will never make any friends. I have a great job and I make a lot of money, but money doesn't buy friends. What should I do?

I have a problem with trusting people when i vent to them, they always say they cant handle it, and end up telling the school about it. the school uses my problems against me, and my parents get mad at me. I do hold grudges against most people, but I have a problem with forgiving my friends when they break my trust. I dont want to end any friendships, so I just want to stop trusting people with my problems. I have a therapist and started texting them when i have problems but I always end up screwing up again. 

Ever since she was little she has been over weight all her family from her dads side is overweight and I told her when she was younger that she needed to lose weight or she would end up like them and she didn't listen to me and she is still over weight she has never had friends she's always been very antisocial I want her to go to parties with me and she never wants to go and ever since she became an adolescent she's been very aggressive she used to a sweet kid and then she tells me crying that she makes herself throw up and she starved herself I took her to a phycologist she went into therapy for a year and she got better and now she started college we payed a lot of money for her college classes and she failed all of them and she's being antisocial again she doesn't want to hang out with her family. Everyone from her dads side has mental problems and I told her to be careful because she might get them too Since they are genetic. and I always tell her do your makeup dress nicely and she just doesn't care about how she looks. I try to make her look better and she gets mad.I am trying to help her and she won't tell me anything that goes on in her life how can I get her to talk to me