my wife doesn't want a divorce but she doesn't really show any emotions anymore.....I have asked her twice if she wants a divorce she has said no, I just don't know what to do in a relationship where she shows me she doesn't want to be in this marriage and it makes me hate my marriage...I'm lost

I was always working and never home so now I decided to spend more time with my wife and kids but it seems like my wife doesn't care anymore, I only worked to provide for my family and have never cheated on my wife, she has become so distant to the point that I feel that I have lost her completely. I have asked her if she still loves me and she says yes but that I stress her out so much....she definitely said she still loves me....we haven't slept in the same bed for the last few months I have asked her for forgiveness and she says it's nothing I have done it's her who is going through some issues...

Theres a Milf that's interested in having a sexual relationship Shes hot and everything, but shes 40 and I'm only 23

This weekend, my wife's parents are throwing a birthday party for her. Lately, my wife and I have had problems communicating. More to the point, I get so busy dealing with things around our home as an at home parent, I forget sometimes what we agreed upon. I get nothing right any more and my wife is getting extremely annoyed at me. Today I got something wrong said out loud to myself "can I do anything right" in frustration. I heard my wife say under her breath " I don't know." I don't want to go to this party because I am afraid I am either going to do or say something wrong or miss some sort of sign from her and get her royally ticked off at me in front of her family. Should I go and if I don't go, what should I tell her?

I check their Facebook profiles from time to time to see what they're up to. I even looked them up and found out my ex wife's new address and cell phone. I'm not going to try to contact her, I'm just nosey.

When I met my husband he was wonderful man untill we got married. It changed and it got worst ever since. If i go against his will on certain matter, it will creates a fight. To begin with it started with pushing and holding me down, now its punching and when I fight back it gets worst. Than he leaves the house goes to his friends and family for days and than come back and apologizes and sometimes blames me. I have heard before things like he wish I was dead. he will provoke me and than will start recording ( last argument me). Last time he twisted my arm and push me to ground with his knew over my neck and face. I am ashamed of my reactions and he uses that against me. I told him I want a divorced but he just doesn't want to listen.

I'm a married woman and I married in my early twenties. I'm 35 now and lately I noticed I've been getting attracted to other men and gaining men crushes. A guy gave me his phone number the other day and I accepted it. In the past, I used to tell everyone I was married. I think I'm changing because I'm becoming less and less attracted to my husband. Its so bad when he tries to touch me a certain way, I get goosebumps not the good ones. Anyway, I'm training an apprentice for our company's firm and I'm very attracted to him. He's 30 and very handsome. He wants to meet for drinks later this week and my best friend is encouraging it. I think its because she doesn't find my husband attractive either. What do I do about this? The guy in question, knows i'm married but he's been flirting with me a lot and I cant help but be into it :(

He is completely ripped, perfect good looks, smile, hair etc. and works as a fitness model. And he also is a virgin and conservative and a good family oriented man and loves animals and runs a charity organization and volunteers at the hospital helping younger children with terminal illness

We got married around a year ago and I've noticed that since then I've been noticing all the bad things about my husbands family and even though they're not any worse than before, I don't like the idea of suddenly having all these new family members, is this a common way to feel when newly married?

So we were out to dinner and my wife has a habit of keeping the cell phone right next to a dinner plate in the restaurant. She's not texting or anything but watching for alerts possibly incoming messages so while she doesn't actually use the phone very much I still find it annoying. Last night We were at a nice restaurant I politely asked if we could have one hour of no cell phones and she completely blew a fuse with me. She told me that's her only link to the outside world which means keeping track of my 22 and 24-year-old if they should need to talk to her for some reason She is still fuming at me over this was I in the wrong I have apologized even though I think I was not in the wrong for asking hard to put it away I regret asking her to do it it ruined the night. She's even still mad at me today and will hardly talk to me

Two different scenarios, but similar interests. Your ex starts contacting you inappropriately, he's now engaged but won't let you go even though you're not entertaining his advances (unresponded to emails, blocked number, blocked fb, but still attempting contact via personal delivery and other sources). Second scenario you accidentally come across evidence of an affair of a married woman with your man, who you live with and share a family with. Your man admits the affair; tries to cut the woman off and she continues to make attempts to see him. Do you tell the fiancé? Do you tell the husband? Do you tell both? There's undeniable proof of both, but are the consequences worth it? Can you live with yourself if you don't?

Before some judge me with a unproductive response I would like to try and explain to my best ability I have been married for 12 years and in a relationship with my wife for nearly 20 years with four beautiful kids we met when we were very Young I have never cheated on my wife until this past weekend which I did for the first time with a co-worker not to justify but we are extremely good friends she is very sweet to me and some even call her my office wife in a joking manner she is also in a relationship as good friends this past weekend that all changed I'm not looking to continue the mistake nor is she but my problem is the sense of guilt a bond I had with my wife since the first day I met her I can't feel it anymore my worst fear is when I walk past her she can look at me and just know exactly what I've done everytime I go to sleep my mind races like I could go back and change it all and it would be my wife that I was only with again how do I fix this I love her so much I feel like it's tearing me apart even as I write this I'm crying I mean do I tell her or do I protect her and not say anything and deal with the guilt

Been together almost 8 yrs and had sex only one time because I was a virgin waiting for marriage and he took my virginity. After he got my virginity he stopped being interested in sex; which I found odd. He told me the reason was because he hates condoms, I don't use birth control, and he does not want kids at the moment. Flash forward we had a great weekend off but throughout the day his phone continuously got text notifications. His one male friend was texting about a game but my gut told me he was getting other texts from someone else under the title "Z" or it could have came from the friend, not sure. So he went to use the bathroom and I checked his phone. I logged in and saw a foot video ( I did not click on it) and I saw a text conversation. One person said "Is that the same girl you were telling me about last week? Do you know her?" Then the other person replied "lol Idk, I'd love to f*ck her feet or get a foot job..send more videos"... I could not tell who was talking because there were no names but my guess is the one who said they want to f**k her feet was my bf because he usually puts "lol" on everything and he has asked me for a foot job in the past. The text was under the title "Z" but I have no idea who he was talking to. When he came out of the bathroom he checked his phone. Then he put it down. I asked him why when I opened his phone a foot video popped up" He said "Idk, maybe I need to find a more secure password"...Then he showed me all the texts in his phone and emails. NOTHING WAS THERE !!!!! He denied knowing where it came from and also admitted that he likes my feet but the test could have came from anywhere and disappeared. He went on to say sometimes Android users or AT&T users complain that their tests "mysteriously disappear".....My gut told me he was lying. It was TOO much of a coincidence because I know he has a foot fetish. ****Should I further investigate, trust him, or break up?***** I feel like I've wasted 8 yrs if my life.

I went to a wedding of my cousin last weekend. There was this girl in mid 20s who looked at me and then at the same time, I looked at her while I was walking. We were looking at each other kinda long like 5 seconds..... and I think she is hot. I was too afraid to talk to her because my parents, relatives were all over the place.... they would see me talking to this woman and then...."gossip". regarding maturity, it has nothing do with my maturity. pls know about my relatives.....bfore making a smartazz comments like these. and btw, she is hot meaning she looked at me with a monalisa smile which I kinda like. I was not looking at her boobs.

So as I said before I called the number in his call log and googled it. The number leads me to an escort index in Texas. I confronted my husband about it and at first he said he has no idea what this 2 minute call was about and that it's probably scam. I knew he was lying so I packed up my baby and I to go stay with my mom for a couple of days. I called him before leaving town telling him he has a chance to tell me the truth or else I'm leaving with his son. He then starts to cry and says alright.. "he was just calling to see if he can get free nude pics". He said it's like a game to him. I asked him why he didn't ask me and he said "because I wanted something more hardcore". What I don't understand is there's the entire internet for free nude pictures. Why did he have to contact an escort for that? Why was she calling him back to see if "he's still interested"? I just have this awful feeling that he did more than what he's leading me on to believe.

Said in confidence, not in front of other people, and in a professional setting.

I really do think I married the most selfish man in the world. This morning we were getting dressed for work when he opened his book bag that he carries to work with him and I noticed a tube of chapstick. He already had one on the bed that he keeps in his pocket so I asked him if he could spare the extra one. He said no because he uses it. I looked at him and said, "You use both tubes?" His reply was "yes, and I have one in my truck too." My husband is a chapstick feind. I've never known him to not have one. But 3, and he couldn't spare one. He begrudgingly tossed one to me and I had a feeling he didn't want to. He told me that he's never seen me use chapstick so why would I want one now. He also says that this is just another attempt by me to just take what he has. He said that when I'm in the store standing at the register to just pick up a tube for like $1. It's just a tube of chapstick and he has 3. One in his pocket, one in his bag, and one in his truck. Is he really that selfish or doesn't he just not want to share?

I'm a dependant of my husband, he's had his Netflix account for years and thus far we've only watched on the same tv. My husband is going overseas for work and now our concern is if he has to purchase 2 accounts so we can both watch or if he's allowed to let me watch at home while he can watch on his phone while overseas? Is that illegal? I'm unable to purchase an account for myself, he fully supports me and he would have to pay for 2 accounts.. there's also the issue of countries, can he watch in the country he's working in while I watch from home?

So basically my husband pays for our Netflix, he fully supports me with everything else and that includes the Netflix account which we normally would be watching together on the same tv.. the issue now is that my husband is moving to New Zealand for a year due to a work contract and I have other responsibilities here. we found out that not both of us could use the netflix account as password sharing is illegal but he is my husband.. I think that would be reasonable enough.. and also they don't allow sharing between countries, so I cant watch it while we're apart like this (i Iive in Canada) is there a way this could be done legally rather than making him pay for 2 accounts?

I'm tired of begging and I want to start not caring about weather or not she comes back...what should I do?

So, my dad has had 8 children from 4 different wives. He is currently married to his 4th wife. He hasn't always been the best father, but he always acts like he has done no wrong. Me and my eldest sister (diff. moms) got horribly drunk and started recounting things our dad has done. I let it slip that I had went through my mom's phone, and found out that my dad cheated on his new wife with his ex wife, my mom. We kept talking and passed out less than 30 mins later. I didn't remember that I said that until later the next day. I have so much anxiety and I wanna say guilt for going through my mom's phone and then repeating it while drunk. If she tells anyone in the family it will be known to everyone but the end of the day. I hope she forgot about but I don't think she did. What can I tell her to make her keep it a secret? Because it will divide the family AGAIN. And we just got comfortable with each other after six years. How do prevent that from happening and how do I stop feeling guilty?

Who is my wife w???

I am sick of these guys who act like children to you and want you to know their needs and provide for them but they don't do the same for you. I want a man to take care of me

I have a cousin who was very skinny when he was in the 20s. Now he is like 39 and married for 7 years. He is like FAT now and has a freak##$ round face. I've heard being FAT is caused by stress.

There was a text message and the person was like "Who's feet are those, is that the same girl you sent a video of last week"? Then the other person was like "I don't know but I'd love to f**k her feet" I couldn't tell who was saying what. And the two were talking about foot jobs. My bf was in the bathroom and I was nervous as I check his phone. When he came out he went on his phone. I questioned him about it and he said "Idk where it came from" ...and he started going through his texts and email and we both didn't see anything. He could have deleted everything. Throughout the day his phone kept going off so thats why I got suspicious and he had it face down. He has a history of a foot fetish. I think the texts were creepy and he denies knowing what it was.... To me that is too big of a coincidence because in the past he asked me for foot jobs and likes feet. One time he asked me to send a picture of my feet to him as well. Is he lying and should I be very worried???

once received ex-husband annuity do I have to return it if I remarry?

Would this ruin your marriage in any way ? If your hubby or wife texted a nude photo, would you send one back or just say something sexy ?

Ex left me to rebound with a girl that he used to know in high school. He says when he's done with his schooling he will be ready to settle down with me