My friend and I were texting one day and she told me about a guy she liked. He's friends with my cousin so I know him somewhat well. I wanted to play match maker so I told him and sent pictures of our conversation to him. He wasn't interested at all. I understood and I told my friend. She freaks out at me and tells me I shouldn't have told him. I told her she couldn't just keep all of he emotions inside and I told him for that reason. We argued and fought, I called her names and she sort of cried. I was so angry at her I just sent all her crushes messages that she liked them. A few replied and stuff, but most didn't. She called me and said she wanted to make up but I didn't "deserve" her as a friend. I told her she could do whatever she wanted. I'm so sad that she's gone, how do I get her to acknowledge her issues and have us become friends again?

I work as a home care nurse as well as my best friend. Originally, I was scheduled to work the morning shift and she the night. This week, our boss gave my best friend's shift to another nurse using the excuse that she forgot she already had someone else booked. Subsequently ,my best friend asked to work the following day instead in which my boss replied that the client is moving out of county. That however was not true, in fact I was asked to continue working with that very same client for the next couple weeks. How can I explain this to my best friend? Should I tell her? Is there anything I can suggest for her to do

I prefer being alone feel like I am allergic to humans. Refuse to socialize and just never really wanted to make friends or felt like I needed anyone in my life. Never felt the need to find a significant other. Just felt like all that is for show a put on a facade.

My best friend is mad at me because I've been distancing myself. I haven't been hanging around her and haven't seen her in like a month. But I've been doing it because a while ago, I realized my feelings for her run deeper than friendship, and I decided it would be best if I distanced myself. It's just we're incredibly close and she'll hold my hand all the time and lean on my shoulder and play with my hair. She's just super affectionate and it really hurts me. I don't want to be around that, because I know she'll never feel the same. I thought by distancing myself, I could give myself some time to figure out my thoughts and move on. But now she's very mad at me and I think I've lost my best friend. Was it bad of me to distance myself? Is there any way I can fix this?

One of my roommates was in the bathroom for 20 minutes with the lights off and no noise coming from the bathroom. After she came out, the toilet paper was all gone and there wasn't any in the trash can. She didn't flush the toilet and the shower didn't run. I don't know what she was doing for that long in a dark bathroom when she has her own room. What was she doing?

I graduated from college like 4 years ago, I just got a friend request on facebook, and I immediately remembered him as one of my classmates that I studied with him, but I don t want to get in touch with any of them, it s like that era is over, I don t want to remember it, should I decline the request or he may get upset?

was best friends with a guy I used to work with, after I left my job due to assault/harassment from another employee. He helped me through all of that, & he started talking about dating/marrying me. I fell for him but he told me he didn't think he was what I deserved yet, & if he did commit to someone it'd be me. Then he slowly started becoming distant. My parents kicked me out when I told them about our friendship bc he was a bit older. He wasn't thrilled but let me stay with him, yet spent all of his time playing video games with friends than even talking to me. He went out of town to see family & the cops showed to do a welfare check. I went home & all turned around for me. However, a few weeks later the guy who raped me came into my new workplace & told everyone I lost my job bc I had been messing around with the manager (my friend) & that he had me before anybody else, then tried to get me to come outside with him. I told my friend all of this, bc I didn't know if this guy had to do with why he'd dropped me. I found out months later that he'd been going out with the guy who raped me after work, which was a huge slap in the face, & got into a relationship with a girl less than a month after he dropped me. Now I feel strung-along & don't know what to think about our friendship. It's been a year, he recently got off probation & he sent me a chat on Snapchat last week. I don't want to open it, & I'm not sure why he would all of a sudden message me out of nowhere like this.

will call me several times in a short time period to reach me quickly and complain that I did not pick up the phone sooner, BUT when I try to reach him, he may not even contact me until the next day. There was a time, when he stored in his house a complete room full of the friends stuff who was moving for a whole year, who had temporarily moved. But when I suggest to keep at his house a toaster like oven, that we can both use especially when I am at his house cooking, he does not want to clutter up his house. (His oven is not working). Or he complains about having too much stuff in his house, I state I am willing to assist him in organizing and getting rid of stuff. He refuses the help. Or when he complains about things that I got for him, to (what I thought) would improve his house. For example, once I got a couch for him. He had none. Later he told me, that he does not really want a couch in his house, I said okay we can get rid of it (it is his house after all), but the couch is still there after months. These are just a few of the examples. What am I not understanding?

I just do not know why at 33 years old , I am not good enough for anyone in this town. I wanted to be able to save money , go back to college , start a bakery , since no one will hire me. The Backstreet Boys let Kim and her professional prostututing friends push them into " Her Way". I guess everyone in town is a piece of trash compared to her & her entitled , criminally conniving, sexing friends. I have waited twenty years for a break. Not for someone to take my whole strawman, rights , liberty, insurance to play the systems.

I transferred to a new college this semester and expected to be pretty close with my suite mates since I don't know too many people on campus. I have 2 suite mates and when I got here I realized they don't speak to each other much just hi and bye. I wanted to get to know the people I lived with so I made small talk with them from time to time. Then I realized they sit in their rooms and never speak to me so I stopped. I'm starting to get a vibe from them that they think I don't like because I don't speak anymore to them but I'm not going to speak to anyone who clearly doesn't want to be friends with me. Am I wrong?

Let me give some backstory. I've had a best friend, named Ashley, since I was 6 years old. (We are 14 now.) When we were kids, our friendship was very simple. We hung out nearly every day, and spent the night at each others house all the time. But, this past year, she got pretty bad anxiety. I was always there for her whenever she needed me. Whether she was texting me during the school day in class because she was upset, or 3 am. We talked all the time. Everyday. Multiple times. For hours. I didn't mind that she always needed me. Even though it was tiring sometimes, I wanted to help her. She was like my sister. But these past 2 or 3 months, she's been better. And I was so happy for her! Problem is, I have severe depression diagnosed by my doctor. I expected her to be there for me when I needed her too, which is much less than she needed me anyway. But she's always "too busy" playing video games on her PS4 to answer my messages. She always says she cares but it doesn't feel like it. I feel so alone when talking to her. I told her we couldn't be friends anymore. And i miss her so much. And I feel bad because before all this, we both promised to never leave, and to always be there for each other. I know she already broke her promise. But I didn't want to break mine. I feel bad but being friends with her was getting painful. I miss her.

Okay I'll call him Oliver. I've known Oliver for a few years now, and I've liked him for pretty much that whole time. He was actually the whole reason I figured out I was gay, as he is the first guy/person I've ever truly loved. One problem though, he has a girlfriend, and as far as I know, he's straight. I've told him how I feel several times, and he's actually really nice about. He understands how I'm hurting, and tries to help me. I've tried talking to other guys and I've tried not talk to him. But every time I just come back with more love for him than ever. I mean he's perfect. The two of us have never been kissed or anything, but we are both in band, and we always cuddle on the way home from competitions and stuff. I've fallen asleep on him several times. But everytime I see him with his girlfriend, I feel sick, as if I'm about to throw up. This girl doesn't like me either, which means she takes every chance she has to rub it in my face (but not when Oliver's around, cuz then he'll get mad at her). I've read all these stories about Straight guys falling for Gay guys, usually after a suprising kiss or something big. I mean Oliver and I are very close, so sometimes I can't help but think it's possible? What's should I do? Should I try to move on? Should I stick with it and see what could happen? Everyday for me now is filled with heartbreak, and the only think keeping me going is hope. What should I do??

The reason I want to do that is because he hates me and he doesn't even want to tell me that straight nor tell me why. We're friends in Facebook as well. I'm waiting for ideas.

This is becoming a very heated debate amongst friends and we've decided for the internet to help us. I mean Kevin has no remorse and done some sinister ****, he set a guy on fire with a blow torch. However, Matilda can move **** with her mind. Discuss....

My friend has been venting to me about a lot of her issues. I just do not care enough to continue to listen. How do I ghost her? that's a creep ans ardeshir

I'm 4 years outta high school and she was a friend in middle school. I moved after middle school but while I was there, she was kinda first person to be nice to me.. She was a tomboy and there was a lot of fighting in that school, so she wasn't really known for being nice.. I wasn't bullied but I didn't have too many friends, and we had genuine conversation one time in 8th grade and then she said she appreciated me being nice to her and she gave me the bracelet off of her wrist that she had always worn... After middle school I never saw her again. I wore that bracelet 24/7 (almost like a "hail mary" bracelet) bc its one of few things I've ever received, then that summer after she gave it to me, we were on the boat playing around and it fell off my wrist and into the deep lake..... Was considering trying to find/reconnect with her, but I feel I would need the bracelet to remind her bc most don't remember me.. Do I buy another and say it's the same though....? Don't feel right lying and feel bad telling her I carelessly lost it, but I'd go search that lake if I remembered where we were on the lake...

Do you think it s better to hang out with him alone or with my friend too?

This question may come out as me being jelous, but I love my friend! I feel like me and my best friend are very gorgeous. We're 17. We both have brownskin and black hair, just different features. When we go to the mall people always give her more attention, and sometimes it's as if I'm not there. I look in the mirror and I can't see why that'd be? I'm okay with her getting more but I feel like I get none. I'm actually feeling insecure that I can't see my flaws, and that I'm not as pretty as I think. Why might this be? It not personality, I'm talking about people we don't know.

So I threw a 30 birthday party for my friend at her house. She has a good job and is doing fine in general. Anyways we had a good amount of people at this house party. But she drank shots and I guess over the top. She couldn't remember and blacked out completeLy. I thought at 30 she would know better

I am a very introverted person.. I prefer a quiet enviroment.. i live with 2 roommates but they always have their boyfriends and friends over.. they have a party every weekend but i just stay in my room because im not close to them and they speak in a diff language so it feel so awkward for me to try to fit in with them.. so they would use the kitchen all day while im just waiting for them praying they can all leave so i can cook my own food and eat... because they have people over all the time, i eat in my room.. and i hate doing that.. also, when im home i look very ugly and i have a fear of what people think of how i look, and my roommates and their friends are so rich so i feel embarassed to go out looking like a mess so i jsut dont go out at all if theres people over.. i stay in my room. trapped inside. when they go in to their room i quickly run to the fridge, get my food, and run back in.. i also have a lot of hw and idk why my roommates never do work but i stay up alot so i really want to nap after class but i cant because they always cook and eat lunch and dinner together so i just leave to the library because im annoyed and starve myself. also my roommate got a new bf and now they are loud and they invite people over all the time and they stay up so late and they are not loud but im a light sleeper, so even light footsteps would wake me up.. i dont know why but they also started eating really late. like at 1am.. i try to sleep early but i cant.. i wish i can just live alone without worrying there will be people over and be comfortable all day without having to worry about how i look and stuff.. it stresses me out.. and i dont want to tell them to not invite people over.. also our apartment is very small.. i live in nyc so there is barely any space for one person to walk around the kitchen area.. so when there is people over, i just cant use the kitchen or do anything other then being in my room.. and of course when they talk, i can hear everything very clearly and they are very loud and it just annoys me a lot. like everyday when i come home i worry there would be people over.. and before i sleep(esp on the days i sleep late), i worry that they might invite people over, i think about alot how to tell them to not invite people everyday.. they also never clean up.. the dishes pile up.. they just leave the leftover food out in the countertop even if it is rotting and smelling.. it makes me so mad because they use all the dishes, including the ones i bought, and they never wash it, or they wash it every week.. so i have to wash it before i use it and i clean out the food because they are out all the time but im home most of the day so the smell bothers me and there was a mouse too and i just cant think about all the rotting food out in the kitchen like i just do not want to deal with other people's mess.. and i told them to please clean up right after through text and put sticky notes all over but they dont listen but my worry is if i do live alone.. is it dangerous? there is a security 24 hours.. i dont know what else to consider other than money and security.. one of my roommate was just a classmate friend.. so we were first going to be roommates.. but the only apartment avaliable was 2 bedroom and that was too expensive for her so we needed one more person and so her friend also moved in.. and they are bffs.. which means they are all close with their friends, boyfriends, but idk anyone other than my roomates..

So I bought her £50 shoes for Christmas and officially say thank you to me and I had to go and give her them too. Then it was my birthday and I didn't even recieve any message or anything until the end of the day saying " hey sorry I almost forgot it was your birthday, I would of forgot if you didn't post on your story" so I had no present off her for Christmas or my birthday either and then she went and bought £100 shoes and then said "sorry I should of really bought you a present" and as we are friends with benifits I said " I can't wait to do stuff with you" and she said we have never done anything together. So should I try contacting her or just forget about her ?

For example- what if someone kept dressing like you and kept copying your style ? Is this flattering or annoying? What if its someone you do not really like and they keep copying you?? Then would you feel flattered or not?

If you are upset about your friend because you think they have upset you but they still like you and still say they're your friend is it ok to just talk to them like everything is fine when you don't want to tell them how you really feel?

Since my bff & I fall under a certain range of letters of last names, we have the same one. We're freshman. She happened to be the same one when I was in elementary school. When I was talking to my bff about her, I told her that I got called into our counselor's office early this year because I received something in the mail that I had a bad grade in 2 classes. My bff said, "Yeah, she did that to me too 'cuz I was failing like everything." "Did she call you down again?" "No." "Well, she did that to me." "Hmmm." 4 months ago, my homeroom teacher handed the boy in front of me & me a counselor pass. He went to the same elementary school as me. After I arrived in the counseling lobby, I checked in & was told to sit down to wait. After that boy walked out of her office, my counselor called me in. During that appointment, she read them aloud. She occasionally looked at me sternly & asked me questions. A week later, my homeroom teacher handed me another pass but not that boy. As soon as I walked thru her doorway, she asked how things were going. I sat down then she asked me other things that were unrelated to what I was in her office for a week earlier. Why did she call me back? Did it have anything to do with her knowing me since I was way younger?

I always see and hear about these groups of teenagers my age who are still in high school jumping and attacking other people who messes with one of them. Even in real life at school I see boys and girls have each other's backs and doing stuff together but how can I be like that? How can I get those types of friends? How can I ******* friends at all? No one seems to want to be my friend, I literally don't have anybody, no friends. Not even a friends with benefits and I feel so angry and ashamed of it that I even miss scho because of it.