I just found out that my "sister" is actually my mother... Help

So I just found a video were my little sister confesses she s into girls. It s an old video and I feel horrible for watching it, but I m kinda glad I did too. She s been holding onto this for a while and I don t want her to think that I would judge her for that. I won t, not at all. Has any of you been on the other side, like my sister? I don t want to ask her if she s just not ready to deal with it. If any of you had been on my sister s position, would like someone to come and ask you and tell you its ok or not? I just want to support her and want to be there for her.

so my mom and dad are divorced and live 3 hours apart from one another. I'm 20 years old and I generally see my dad on holidays and some college breaks. But we talk on the phone together at least 2-3 times a week. So my dad told me that he met someone and I was happy! but now as months went by he's now telling me that he wants her to move in. Which im fine with! but she also has a daughter. My dad asked me if it was okay if he gave the daughter my room since I only really come over on the holidays and I said yes. because it made sense since the daughter will be there more often then me. so days later my dad asked me if there is anything in my room i want to keep since hes clearing it out for the daughter. and while we were doing this i felt kinda weird. just the thought of not having a room at my dads house anymore felt kinda weird. Plus I havent met the women or her daughter. I dont know there names, or what they look like.This is the first time im going through this and dont really know how to react. I love my dad and I want him to be happy. but its weird. Im planning on visting my dad for spring break to meet them and get to know them. so I need some help and tips to get through this. Im scared it will be awkward, or they wont like me, or i wont like them. I want to respect there relationship even if i dont agree with it (Not that i don't agree with it, I actually do,it just weird right now cause im out of the loop right now) Also to add on! I live with my mom

My mom didn't want me to stay after school to work on a lab project because it would just be me and three other guys. My mom said she would drive to my school and sit in the classroom with me while we did the project. I'm sixteen by the way.

So my sister dates this guy and my mom doesn't particularly like the way that my sister dates. This is because of the fact that my sister and her boyfriend have broken up many times and have gotten back together a lot, she spends the night at his house sometimes too. I know that my mom doesn't like the way that my sister dates and she has expressed this many times, but in general i feel like my mom can be judge mental. If something isn't right to my mom in her eyes than she begins to become judge mental and it's very annoying. I only live with my mom and due to the fact that she is judge mental makes me feel like i can't talk to her about much. Most times i feel weird and indifferent talking to her about things that females would normally talk to their mothers about. I just don't understand why she's so judge mental.

I m 17. My mom is very strict and overprotective. She always wants to go to every gathering or hangout that I go to. I don t have a problem with being around my mom, but after almost every party or gathering, my mom reprimands my behavior (stuff like being too sarcastic) or she tells me she doesn t like the people and not to hangout with them anymore. She ends up not liking the people fo reasons like "They have blue hair or wear skinny jeans." I haven t been able to come up with a way to tell my mom that I would rather go places by myself. I tried once and she blew up and cried for a few days because I was embarrassed of her. The whole entire reason for this question is because today, a guy in my class invited me to dissect an opossum for maggots for our invertebrate collection due at the end of the semester. My mom wouldn t let me go because it would be three guys and only me. My mom said she would drive to my school and stay with me while we dissected it. I could only imagine her staring over me, telling me I was cutting something wrong or telling me to listen. What if one of the boys said something she didn t approve of and now I can never do anything involving them again? Well I asked if my older sister could stay instead since she knows the boys anyway and my mom agreed but now she s all sad around me and will barely talk to me.

Yes...one or the other........please don't infer........and such The special needs child is 14y/o and he is Autistic with little to no behavior issues and good verbal skills. This is a very serious question. I am just trying to get other opinions. Thank you! I guess I was not clear enough.... If given the choice....which is better for you....to spend time with the special need child now or just avoid them and leave them the house when you die?

Sister makes demeaning comments to people to their face about their behavior. If our Dad does something she does not like she says "Dad, stop your being so annoying". If our Mom does something she dislikes she will say "Mom, cut it out your bothering me". It would be half normal if this person was 12 but my sister is 25 and will be 26 in October. She was not disciplined growing up other then being yelled at and she did not care about being yelled at. Our parents were too busy with our brother who had serious conduct issues and later drugs (he is now clean and sober though distant from the family). So I'm close to extended family and their opinions of me matter. I am scared when my sister has one of these insulting others spells she will say something like "you don't look up friends on Facebook that is weird. It is like your a stalker". Or "stop talking you annoying everyone". How do I keep her from hurting me at times when I have no choice but to be around her like family holidays? I never spend time with her individually as I don't like her (as bad as that sounds) but still attend family functions as she is the only bad seed in the family. I fear extended family will dislike me due to my sister's gossip about me. So thats the main fear. I have ADHD so am not the best with etiquette and that is why she likes to bully me more then others. Our autistic nephew she wouldn't even get near at Christmas cause she says he makes her uncomfortable. That's how narcissistic she is. My other sisters, one is the mother of the autistic teen, are not like this at all and is very nice. It is just this sister, the youngest. We are a family of three daughters and two sons. I am one of the two sons. The youngest two are twins, my sister and the brother who seldom comes around.

I fear they will dislike me and I will be out of the family clan.

My husband switched jobs and his team consists of only one female. I am very uncomfortable with that and not sure what to do. Just the thought of them spending every day together makes me jealous and makes me think that, since they will be together all the time, getting close to one another and developing emotions is a very high possibility (she looks decent as well). I told him about my concerns, but his answer was "you can't avoid some things so learn how to deal with it". And when i said how i would not like if he spends his lunch break with her, he just said "and what's the problem with that". So guys, any tips? or am i just being immature about all this?

Okay. Here lately, I've been noticing some issues with my foster daughter lying to cause fights between my boyfriend and me. Most of the time, she won't leave alone and constantly wants my attention and begging me to love on her, but for the last month or so, she's been causing arguments and fights between us. For example: Today, I accidentally hit her in the hand with a broomstick when I was trying to hit the door to scare her. I barely swung, but apologized as soon as I hit her because I truly did not mean to hit her. Well she then went upstairs and then came down into the garage 5 minutes later, saw my boyfriend and immediately started balling her eyes out saying I purposely hit her in the head really hard with the broomstick. Instead of trying to argue with her, I just walked away because I wasn't going to put him in a position to pick sides. His niece, who saw the whole thing later cleared it up, but that's not the point. She's been doing other stuff like this, but that's the most recent and I'm just wondering, what am I supposed to do? I'm trying really hard to have patience and stay calm, but I'm almost to the point of just leaving or saying screw it, I'm done trying. What things can I try to make the situation better or to make her just stop causing fights and arguments?

Ever since last year, my sister started acting this way. She expects other people to treat her like a young adult, yet she is very immature and lacks coping skills. This is the reason why my parents won't let her go on social media yet, and no concerts or partying with friends until she's older. My sister reacts to these restrictions by having a temper tantrum and slamming the doors. She acts on her emotions a lot and can't control her emotional impulses. Besides that, my sister is involved in lots of middle school drama. Those girls will purposely make each other angry and start rumours about one another. They're not the best group of friends to have, but it seems to please my sister. She is desperate to be "popular" in 8th grade. My parents are trying their best to manage her. They say that it's puberty and hormones, that it'll pass when she gets older.

I have a live-in FIFTY SEVEN year old nephew who makes me feel uncomfortable every time I say things I thought were quite normal. Is anyone going to respond ?

They would be 2nd cousins of my grandparents and 3rd cousins of my Dad. All the 2nd cousins of the grandparents may have died by now. Since they are so distantly related how would I go about the contact? How do I offer to get together politely? I follow 3 of them on Facebook as I am into genealogy and family trees.

Sister makes demeaning comments to people to their face about their behavior. If our Dad does something she does not like she says "Dad, stop your being so annoying". If our Mom does something she dislikes she will say "Mom, cut it out your bothering me". It would be half normal if this person was 12 but my sister is 25 and will be 26 in October. She was not disciplined growing up other then being yelled at and she did not care about being yelled at. Our parents were too busy with our brother who had serious conduct issues and later drugs (he is now clean and sober though distant from the family). So I'm close to extended family and their opinions of me matter. I am scared when my sister has one of these insulting others spells she will say something like "you don't look up friends on Facebook that is weird. It is like your a stalker". Or "stop talking you annoying everyone". How do I keep her from hurting me at times when I have no choice but to be around her like family holidays? I never spend time with her individually as I don't like her (as bad as that sounds) but still attend family functions as she is the only bad seed in the family. I fear extended family will dislike me due to my sister's gossip about me. So thats the main fear. I have ADHD so am not the best with etiquette and that is why she likes to bully me more then others. Our autistic nephew she wouldn't even get near at Christmas cause she says he makes her uncomfortable. That's how narcissistic she is. My other sisters, one is the mother of the autistic teen, are not like this at all and is very nice. It is just this sister, the youngest. We are a family of three daughters and two sons. I am one of the two sons. The youngest two are twins, my sister and the brother who seldom comes around.

Hi. I'm 13, my dad died a few years ago so I only live with my mom. I'm mixed my moms white and my dads black. Lately she has been making some racist comments and it hurts me. She has told me that natural hair looks ratty, disgusting and nappy and that black people should straighten it (even though I have natural hair) I can't help but feel as if this is a personal attack to me. She has made comments about how darker skinned black people (like darker than tan) always look dirty. She has made comments about how many black and Mexican people are where we live and how annoying it is. It's just hurtful. It brings down my self esteem and makes me not feel welcome in my own home. How can I deal with this? What do I even say to this?

Are there any tips for unhappiness? I love playing the guitar and I love singing but my family situation just stresses me out too much. I'm always worrying that my brother is going to destroy one of my guitars. I want to be happy in life but with a mentally abusive home, it's really hard.

I'm 14 and I live with a mentally abusive brother and mother who can only focus on him. I am done. I want to run away so that I can get away from a brother who goes through my things, and takes them. I don't know if I should do it yet, but I just wanted some tips just in case.

My mom and I have never got along but recently she keeps yelling at me to run away from home. She continually mocks me for not doing it but when ever I leave the house she yells at me to turn the tracker on my phone or to go back inside. She is so confusing I don't know what to do.

So I'm a 22 year old guy, and I'm about to be a uncle for the first time in my life. Anyways my brother's wife is giving birth to his child in 2 weeks, they are having a girl btw. What are ways of being a good uncle to my brother's daughter? My future niece. Me and my brother are very close and have a great relationship.

this is super weird, but whenever i lie about something it actually ends up happening. for example, whenever i fake call in sick to work, i end up actually getting sick the next day or so. whenever i decline to hang out because i have to do something with my family (common excuse for me), my family will call soon after and ask to get dinner or something. and the other day i told my sister she couldn't borrow my laptop because it's broken (it wasn't), and a few hours later it won't turn on. I'm super freaked.

i go to a public american high school, so in government class she teaches normally but will just stop and fart and it grosses me out, it smells awful and other students laugh but i really don't like it.. she will often try to burp in students faces including me which smells awful too, and sit on us and fart, make farting noises, show us videos of people farting on youtube, it's all she does. i told my parents and they said that no one would take me seriously so i don't know what to do about this. it's disfustint and unprofessional but i don't know who to take this up too

im a 15 year old girl, and i go to a public american HS, and so basically my government teacher's assistant, was introduced in january and he is this big fat man in college i think? , and the first day he was constantly staring at me the entire class and when i'd look at him he'd look away, and he somehow found my instagram and requested me, i declined but he kept requesting. last week he asked for my number to "make sure im doing my work" and i said no but he kept trying to make an excuse to get it. at the end of last week i was walking home from school and i saw him following me from a distance behind and hiding when i looked, and yesterday he even said he wants to keep me in his room alone to make sure im dressed right, and i ran away, and today he followed me to every class and hid when i looked. this is just a few things and im scared for my life and in tears writing this. please advice

so in class i love this guy so much hes so hot i fantasize about him every day i just want to lay on him im obsessed with him he is all i think about and i have so many photos of him all over my phone and use his name as my passcode for my phone even! hes literally my everything but the thing is he hates me so much he avoids eye contact and avoids me and thinks im a stalker

I hate my good to work and come home life. My family seems to be okay with their boring *** lives and they don't understand why I'm not. My mom tries to force me into into an ordinary life and doing ordinary things, but I'm miserable. Every time I'm around my family they ask me why I'm unhappy with my life and they say I should be or need to be happy. I feel like I wasn't born to have the mundane life of just going to work and coming home. I am far too creative and have fast film and music knowledge. I am an excellent writer, but my mom doesn't see my book I am writing going anywhere and just wants me to work a boring *** minimum wage job that makes me miserable where I'm not making enough to move out. What do I do?

The picture was of a naked baby boy in a bath tub nothing disgusting. Is she just curious about boy parts??? I mean her tablet. Its not a phone

So my mom works at the same school that I go to. She was in the faculty room when my AP World History teacher approached her. He told her that he took my iPad (iPads are what we use in school) because I wasn't taking notes and that I was on another application. So I was taking notes and I got all the notes from that day but I do admit on not being on the notes only ONE time during that class period. At my house the home environment in unfriendly and strict. My parents yell a lot at stupid things. So, of course, my mom decides to tell my dad and they went off on me and took my iPad and phone. They told me hurtful things. BUT get this, my brother got caught cheating on a test yesterday with his iPad, BUT OF COURSE, they did nothing, all they did was yell at him. So today my Spanish teacher decided to tell my mom that I was "fooling around on my iPad". I wasn't!!!! I swear to god I wasn't!!! I was taking the notes for the entire period!! But my mom doesn't believe me!! I have proof of the notes and she doesn't want to see them. My dad is getting home soon and she is probably going to tell him and he is going to get mad and probably not believe me. I sent an email to my AP Teacher apologizing for what happened in class yesterday. I emailed my Spanish teacher and asked him to talk to my mom to clarify that I wasn't doing anything wrong in his classroom. My dad and mom are going to say I'm making up excuses

So I'm trying to put together a family tree and it's really getting complex and large due to my dad having fathered kids with 8 different women from the time he was 23 until he was in his 60s! Would the names of my siblings I don't know be available to find online without asking him? Is there a way to link them to him online?