This guy initially asked me out on a date. But instead of going I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits instead. He said yes and that he had always been into me. I felt like I had did something wrong by asking to be friends with benefits. So I apologized and I told him I had feelings for him. He said I didn't do anything wrong. We ended up having sex but before we had sex we went to the movies out to dinner and to the arcade. First we met up at the hotel though and he said since I was nervous we could go out first and I said ok. We had fun together and not just because of the sex. We have things in common we like the same movies, food and entertainment. I told him I had fun and he said he had fun too.

There is something incredibly beautiful about the local gig. The trashy bathrooms, the ten dollar cover charge, the people chilling outside smoking, there is something beautiful in that. Now, my friend who once played in these places and were I saw her coming in with her guitar case and speakers, smoking outside before she went on, Now this friend is playing in London in the summer, and last year she did a tour all over the West coast. She has more than 500K followers. She is more pop now, not so much the 20 year old girl singing with her acoustic guitar. But when I look at her music video and see how she has turned out, I get a pang in my heart. I remember the old times, the days when we would pass joints and drink yuengling. I burst into tears when her song came on a pandora playlist at some party. "What do these people really know about?" And to those who see women like Lady Gaga or Katy Perry and my friend, they don't really understand them. They can't comprehend who they are seeing it. They never experienced seeing them when they were humble and without make up.

In science class today my teacher let us pick a partner and my friend offered to be my latter and I said sure. She smelt like fish though but I didn t say anything because I didn t want to be rude. We re in the 7th grade and we have many classes together but I don t sit by her in those classes. The girls to the right of me were like the popular pretty and rich girls. They don t usually sit there but they copy my answers because I m smart... Again, I don t say anything because I don t want to be rude to them because it will turn the whole school against me. But anyways, my friend was smelling like fish and the popular girls were thinking it was me and talking about me. It made me very angry because I took the blame for her horrible smells. I ranted about it on Snapchat and all three of the popular girls watched my story but only one texted me about it. It also made me mad because they never watch my story but someone told them to. I think that when I go to school tomorrow they re going to try to fight me and I might get jumped and embarrass myself :(

i wanted to say this, and none of it is untrue: Hey I hope you don t mind a random message, but I was just going through my eighth grade yearbook and was looking up all my old friends. Not too far before my picture was yours, so I proceeded to type in your name and my god you re absolutely gorgeous. You evolved very well :) You were always so kind, I remember when I d always copy off you in Ms Morales class with the beginning quizes, whatever they were called I was wondering if you d care to reignite a friendship with me? would that be creepy?

Throughout my whole life, I've breve had baby friends but I was ok with that because I always had one or two super close friends. These friends would pretty much live at my house/ I would live at their's because we we're together so much. I remember a few times our parents had to separate us because we'd be together too much and keep getting annoyed with each other lol. Over time, I've drifted apart and made new friends, which is fine, but this time, we drifted apart and I don't have a new friend. I don't have any friends right now and it sucks. I've never been so alone. I'm very socially awkward but I still depend on human interaction so i don't know what to do. I've only ever made friends through mutual friends so now that I don't have any friends, I don't know how I'll make any. I'm 17 but not in school and I work as a babysitter so I also don't really know how I'll even meet people my age... I'm just so sick of being so alone. Also, I still talk to my old friends sometimes but it makes me feel worse hanging out with them because you can tell they'd rather be doing something else and they never talk to me first. Idk what to do.

Is it wrong to log into their google photos account without them knowing

I had sisters, girls as friends, and they have such a temper. I hear of work places of all women who fight all of the time. Why do they have such a bad attitude. I walk into a gas station and asked for l&m 100 for my client. The cashier got smart with me saying well we have menthols and something else. I dont smoke.

I quit hanging out with my friends because they always hung around these crack head drug dealers that would abuse me and they knew those people didn't like me and still hung out with them. Am I right for not wanting to be around them? They still like me I even told them that I didn't like the two guys they hung around but they still hang around them. The friends did tell them to stop abusing me but after that they went right back to hanging out around them like mental and physical in high school they would fight with me everyday the crack heads not friends but the so called friends still hung out with them.

Ok so yesterday my friend Sarah was alone in her house. We live a few houses apart. She felt some noises and asked me to go there,when I got there she was scared,she was shaking,her heartbeat was elevate. I got there and told her to calm down. I sat next to her,put my arm on her shoulders and said it will be ok. Then she asked me to say her again that everything will be ok so I did, then I kissed her on the cheek like 3 times in a row. After a few minutes she told me that she wish everything will be ok from now on and then I did something I never done before to anyone. I took her hand (thank you cheesy movies lol), held her hand in my hands for a second and kissed her hand. So the thing is: 1)Did I just cuddle with my friend? Is this considered cuddling? Sarah is friends with some of my other friends as we all go to the same little high school in our town. I don't want my friends to laugh at me if they find out about this 2)Did I just fell in love with her? she seemed to have liked what I did

So I have a friend that introduced me to her friend. Her friend was being very hypocritical toward me and was even judging me to my face. However we had stopped talkibeh. But she said some bad things about me to my friend and my friend lied to me more than once and hid everything bad she said about me. I had to read between the lines and put pieces together just to find out that her friend said mean things behind my back but my friend didn't tell me at all. I confronted my friend and she said she is sorry but recently she did the same thing again. I am feeling so unimportant and taken for a fool. What should I do?

Fell out with a friend recently, have decided to give her space for a while. I am currently reflecting on the situation and am drafting up points of what to say if I ever see her again. I'm hoping it'll be at least a month or two before we next see each other and I won't be contacting her unless she comes to me. Any advice on what I can say?

I went to my class reunion and a classmate Judy was there. Judy was the person that tutored me in high school. Without her help I would have NEVER passed math and if I didn't pass math, I didn't graduate. I went on to a successful career after college. I told Judy I was VERY grateful for her tutoring help in high school and I wanted to show her how much I appreciated it. I invited her and her husband to join me for dinner at Ruth Chris. She told me her husband would not let her go on a date with a guy. I though how could it be a date if he was with her. I thought her husband must be a nut job so I forgot about it. A few months later Judy called and asked it the dinner invitation was still good? I said sure. She told me she had divorced her control freak jerk of a husband and wanted to do something that was fun for her for a change. After dinner she told me that was the most fun she had had in years and asked if we could do it again. I am sorry she has been treated so badly by her ex husband but I am not interested in a serious relation with her. Should I tell her up front that I am not interested in a serious relationship but I would be happy to take her on a FEW just for fun dates? Gals, please give me your advice. I don't want to hurt her or make her feel bad in any way. She has had enough problems in her past life and I don't want to add to her problems.

My boss at work who is a very good friend called me in his private office one day and asked me if I wanted to be considered for a new position in the company. Jokingly I said "I like to try new positions". With a big smile on his face, he said "If my boss knew what I was thinking now, I would be fired on the spot". I told him "If something comes up, let me know". We both had a good laugh. In the employee break room I told some of my female co workers about this and they told me that was sexual harassment. What do you think? Was that sexual harassment? If it was, who was harassing who? He did not say anything about sex.

my friend is always wanting to spend time with me at her house and personally for me being around her gives me anxiety we havent always had the best relationship, she is a very close minded individual and i do not act myself around her i always feel too scared to let my guard down around her because she shows me time after time that she doesnt listen to what i have to say, judges me, has no interest in my life or life sctivities, would rather ramble on about her own problems, we have had fights i have even punched her in the head and yet she still managed to weasle her way back into my life because we;re neighbors, but it is so unhealthy for me to spend time in an environment where i dont feel comfortable, i feel like my only option is to move away so i can finally get some peace and quiet

She met up a guy whom she knew in Instagram and the first date, She wore a very Low cut top which reveals her big boob and also short skirt. She even ask the guy if he went to Bangkok one day and get a call gal but realised the gal is a he, what he would do? Bj? This is the question this gal ask my guy friend? And the first date she wanna drink beer also. What can you say about the gal? Loose? All her post on her Instagram are revealing and sexy posts .

So, about 1 year ago I was in a friend group with 3 people. Its was great until the end really, thats when things got complicated. My friend and I in this group were talking about people we liked (high school relationships and whatnot) and discovered we liked the same person.... from the friend group. Yeah, pretty awkward. But after I decided I woudn't make any moves (and told him so) so the group would stay together, I hear he asks her out. One month later, they've broken up and the group is no longer. Now, I don't know if I ever gotten over this. I can't really be with him in groups with people I have any slight interests in anymore because I'm afraid he's gonna do the same thing again. How can i get rid of this fear? I want to be his friend but I also want to eventually date someone and not be in his shadow most of the time.. Any ideas what I could do?

There are certain people that I don't like and I do my best to avoid them and ignore them. Sometimes they have this attitude that I'm a bad person for ignoring them but I don't see how I am. I'm not hurting anyone and I don't have any obligation to like anyone. I can do whatever I want.

This is has been going on since 6th grade when I was bullied a lot and I guess it made me isolate myself from people and everything. I m a freshmen in high school now. I don t have many friends because its hard for me to make them. I can t talk to people. I don t like going outside. I can t order my own food. I can t even do things in front of people without sweating or shaking. I barely even talk at all, and i eat lunch in the bathroom because I don t like eating in front of people in the cafeteria and its way too many people. I m always alone and I don t want to be. I really wanna make friends and be normal but I physically CANNOT make myself talk without feeling like crying or throwing up because i m nervous about every little thing. I wanna talk to my parents about it but they probably won t even understand it and they ll say i m just "shy" even though its hard for me to even leave the house. People already think i m weird because I never talk. I just wanna be normal and not have to be scared of everything :(( Is my anxiety severe enough for professional help?

So there's this friend of mine who has done the following things in the past few days. 1. He has given me a red rose on my birthday,3 days ago. 2 sometimes he kisses me on the cheek just because. 3 he said that since I'll be gone for 3 days now in Ohio visiting my grandma it's a good thing because he needs to focus on an exam and that he can't focus on the subject when I'm around. I'm just wondering if such acts are normal in friendship or does he like me?

I am a young woman who is almost 21. Some of my coworkers call me immature but I am not sure why. I will admit that I am not a perfect human being, but a young woman who strives to do the best she can in life. I help others in the workplace if they need help and I am always looking for more opportunities to do more work. I am polite and I love to put others first. I introduce myself to new people and I listen to what people have to say, whether it be good or bad criticism of any kind. I do not have a temper as I think about my actions first. I keep a professional environment by staying calm and cool. I dress nicely and keep myself groomed. I have a boyfriend who is much older than me, and we love each other dearly. I do not flirt around or cheat on my boyfriend. I try to fly under the radar as it is a professional work environment. I do have fun at work, but I understand when it's appropriate to be silly/serious, etc. I don't do drugs/drinking or go party. Several coworkers gossip about me or tell lies about me and I go up to them privatly and ask if there is something I've done to offend them or anything I could do better. I try to be optimistic and smile and keep healthy friendships between coworkers. I don't understand why people at work call me immature. Is it because of my age and because I'm the youngest one at work?Please help me understand as I am confused.

I'm from a working class family, I mean I do go on holidays and I wouldn't say I was poor, we have cars, we do have to miss food shopping at times but we never went hungry and still had food, we lost our house but we lived in a housing place for a bit and ended up with a new house anyway and had family/friends helping out so I wouldn't say we were in a really bad position but I miss out on a lot my rich cousins do, I don't get to have parents paying for driving lessons or a car, we haven't been abroad, I have to suffer working sh*tty jobs I don't want to do because my health suffered and I failed all of my GCSEs and now I'm going to suffer and be poor for the rest of my life.

For me to stop being friends with the guy I like cus I am starting to have feelings for him and he doesn't reciprocate ?

My buddy John and I used to hang out at his house before he left town and went to college. His mom was a great cook and her meals were to die for. We became good friends. John said she was going to be lonely after he left and ask me to let her continue to cook me some meals. I gladly said yes. At one of these meals, she told me she was going to start dating again and hoped to find a husband but she didn't know if any guy would be interested in dating a 40+ year old women. I told her with her beautiful face and gorgeous figure she could have any guy she wanted. She said " I haven't had a date in over 20 years. I know dating has changed in that time. Would you tell me what dating is like today?" I said sure, what do you want to know. She said "Would a guy expect sex on the first date"? I told her they might expect it but that is not a reason they should get it. You should have sex when YOU are ready. I told her I think she probably would get a marriage proposal very soon. Guys can not resist a beautiful woman. She would be a trophy wife for anyone. Gals and Guys do you agree with my answers?

I am a high school girl that has a 18 year old male cousin staying with us for a month while his parents are on vacation. He has been my best friend all of my life. He has helped me in more ways than I can count. I just adore him. I share all my secrets with him and he will keep them confidential. He is also a great looking guy. However we both know that since we are cousins, best friends are all we can ever be. I had a sleep over at my house for some of my high school friends. We were having a lot of fun until a couple of the girls told me that did not want to sleep in my room. They wanted to sleep with my cousin. I told them NO WAY. Can you imagine the trouble I would be in if girls at my sleep over slept with my cousin. These girls are now mad at me and told me I should not be the morals police. They are now my ex friends. Did I do the right thing to write them off as friends?

I'm 17 and I really don't have a good social life. I just don't feel comfortable really around anyone my age. People say I act normal yet people say I'm a little weird and I hardly talk to anyone. People say I look "innocent" and people actually think I am because I don't talk to anyone and apprantley look innocent. I have a job but I only talk to two people there people there. I don't understand why nobody cares wants to hangout with me and once when someone does they say I'm a loser

My friend told me my crush was with a group of girls at a restaurant. He wasn't with a group of girls. I told her "he wasn't with a group of girls, even if he was, he can hang out with girls and not mean anything". She told me she doesn't appreciate me always covering his butt. I don't understand how that's covering his butt when it's the truth.

basically all my my life I've lived with my family till 17, then I moved out for college and I lived with a roommate till recently. My roommate moved out and im living by myself. its nice but its also really quiet and I get lonely a lot. don't get me wrong, I do enjoy my own company and I rlly like the freedom that comes with living alone, but after a while it kinda gets to me. all my other friends live with their family so they really don't get what im going through. like sometimes I think about how if I died no one would even know lol. so yeah any tips on how to get over this ?? did any of you guys go through the same thing and if so what helped?? thanks in advance :)

I'm at the point in my life where I'm starting to hate men. I am trying my best to go forth with my career and men are stoping me to get there. I am great at what I do and I'm very professional. Yet, I always end up getting hit on and when I say no I get blacklisted or rumors get spreed around about me. This guy who was a potential colleague said I was arrogant because I am focused on my career. I have bills to pay and I need to take care of myself...I'm not thinking about hooking up with every guy that approaches me. It's sickening. Often times it men of higher places or men in general in my position. This has also ruined my relationships with women because of the blacklisting and rumors. It's fustrating. I'm such an easy and focused person to work with. I don't dress revealing or project myself in that manner. It's sad because most women don't have this problem. What do I do, how do I stop hating men?

So I work with this girl, and we're really good friends. Anyways, the other day was my first time spending time with her outside of work. And another coworker was present, and was talking about a girl who she sleeps with. But as soon as that other coworker said that, she quickly denied being bisexual. She told me that she only likes guys to my face. Anyways, I was confused on what to say, but I told her that "you don't have to hide anything from me, I'll always respect you." We then went to a club where I met the girl who she sleeps with. She introduced herself as my coworker's girlfriend, and told me that they're both lesbian. I was joking with her, and said, "Oh, I heard you two were roommates." They both immediately got offended, and my coworker punched me in the arm for saying that. Like everything I do is wrong. I'm just going to avoid her from now on. Do you think it's the best move? Or should I fix it with her? I'm a guy by the way.

Hello, I'm currently a commuting freshman pledging in a fraternity. I wanted to join to have a good time, and meet some lifelong friends, but most of the people that I have met so far are drug addicts and total burnouts. To be honest, they're a funny group of guys and I'd probably have a good time with them, but I don't think it'll be a good influence on my goal of making it to med school. Should I try and wait it out, or just drop it?

I was in my class and I was practicing with my friend a dialog we all had to do, then my other friend (girl) came and told me that I was her work partner and told everyone who were around us that I'm an effeminate in a very rude and angry way and a betrayal, so I told her to go to eat sh¡t and fvck off, because I was really pissed and it got me suddenly, and then she started to play a victim with stomach ache... Now I feel so bad because she is a girl, and I feel it was not the right way to treat her, but she treat that way almost everyone but me until now, so what should I do? move on and act like if this didnt happen? or apologize? because I feel bad Im a male and I fight with a girl, but I didnt know I was her work partner and I denfended myself but I dont feel good!

so one of my "best friends" hanged out with someone I had problems with in the past & she told me she can be friends with who ever she wants... I understand that she can be friends with anyone but why with someone I had problems with in the past ? like I know I'm not trippin.. that's messed up. ok I think I should've mention how she had hanged out with another girl before that I wasn't cool with and I found out she was talking behind my back with her. she herself told me and then she had said to me that she was sorry but I honestly don't think she changed. she only tries to hangout with people who are my friend, use to be my friend, a guy I use to date, or a guy I like. guys yes I DO understand she can be friends with anyone she wants. I also told her that's fine whatever but when I hangout with someone she isn't cool with she will get mad and start trying to do extra **** and flirt with one of my ex's... she's done a lot of talking **** behind my back which is probably the reason why I feel like it isn't ok now?? idk I feel like she never kept it real w me when I was always there for her and stood up for her when she never did the same.

Yes i know i shared this once before but i didn't get any answers from last time, Anyways I grew up with small class with small small group of friends so i thought 4 friends was enough for me and we all have same learning disabilities so you think this girl will get it anyways I had moved out the state in 9th grade from New Jersey to Arizona about 15 year go & I was 15 year old so I had to move with my family so now I am 30 you think Drama would go way but no it doesn't but anyways her name is Courtney ever since i have moved out the state she have been picking up fights for stuipd reason and i dont know what her problem is but mean time i have hard that her ex boyfriend have slap her in the face so i dont know how bad it was and i hard it from her ex boyfriend that i knew in middle school for one year before i moved out to high school so yeah can this cause what her and I fighting? she have once apologize to my sister and my mom saying she was sorry she wasn't her self because of great grandfather have died and she shouldn't treat me like this so anyways mean time she kept picking up fights again up till month go and tried to apologize to her mom like she did to me but I think she one controlling her mom page so mean time she went back tell one my close friend name Jessica that also i knew =since 4 grade about our fighting and she took Courtney side and Courtney told me that Jessica agreed that I am annoying and that i finally got out of, is she jealous of me? I do photography work going Glamis flying with my grandpa airplane around his neighbor hood and all they do is work and sing karaoke

One of my friend couldn't come to my sweet 16 because she was grounded and now my mom isn't letting me go to hers. My mom is like "her mom didint care about your 16th birthday, so I don't care about hers". She's basically trying to get "revenge" or whatever on my friend and her mom. I already tried all ways omg what can I say to convince her?? She's a really strict Asian mom so likeeeeee

I have no friends at school, I do play on the baseball team and I have some people I talk to but they're not really friends. I don't really talk during school but during baseball I talk and everyone thinks I'm really weird. I don't understand it. At all. Everyday I say perfectly normal things and people always say in a voice which indicates that they think I'm also stupid " you're so weird bob" (my names not really bob) also I actually am very smart yet just about everyone thinks I'm a dumba$s. I will talk about something and then everyone always disagrees with me even when I'm totally right and they say, "no you fckng dumba$s. I try to be funny but I feel like no one understands me. I also work and at work the people react totally different to me. They all truly think I'm funny and cool. I've had many coworkers tell me I'm very smart. Don't tell me my teammates are just jealous of me or something. THEY TRULY FEEL THAT IM WEIRD AND DUMB. Why do they feel that way about me? It's really starting to wear on me.