My wife is obsessed with me example she has sex with her ex husband I don't mind but when I try to do with my ex girlfriend she gets mad. She said she owns me she never let's me out of her sight if I leave she cries. She said we're like John Lennon and Yoko Ono. She doesn't want me around anyone especially not my ex even though we're best friends. What's wrong with her ? Is this normal ?

I have always had a volatile relationship with my in laws. Since day 1, my mother in law has been extremely competitive and jealous of me. Her husband is a pompous power addict who thinks that because he has a cfo job he is better than everyone and can run their life (even the marriages of his adult children and their spouses these 2 try to run). My husband went to jail for a domestic disturbance with my son and instead of admitting that he let his temper get out of control, they made a conjecture that I caused him to get arrested and that as "tit for tat" they went through my phone and spread texts of a male friend and I flirting as a joke, told people I am hiv/std +, and claimed they have screenshots from my mom and I proving we are unstable people. They also attempted to contact my ex husband (whom they have never met) and or his family and get them to spread lies about me as well (my ex's family kindly declined this nonsense and said they were crazy people). They called up relatives they never see or speak to to spread lies and gossip about me. This was early this year and to this day, I have not spoken to them since and have refused to give them my new #. They were also stalking me on the internet my husband said. He told them off and told them to stay out of his life, he's nearly 40 and they need to grow up and butt out. Now they are doing this to his younger brother since my husband put them in their place. I have never received an apology When I press the issue of apology to my husband and the fact that I will never, ever speak to his family again- he goes on some rant about how we are all to blame and "nobody is an unblemished lamb in this and if we wouldnt have gotten our families involved this wouldnt have gone down this way and his parents were reacting in fear and protection for his safety and well-being and that they had a right to lie or exaggerate or gossip when they didnt know the facts" (defends them). I had a lawyer tell me that I could really press charges on them for all of this and could get a protection order.

Especially the man. Because it's a strong connection, judge all you want, I used to, just not in the hateful way I see others do on online forums. Don't judge until you walk a mile in that person's shoes. He has a very busy schedule, and she is missing him. While she is not trying to break up his marriage, her own marriage is very unhappy. .What are some signs that he really does love her or has strong feelings, or is falling in love with her?

I been with my husband for 5 years now married for 3. We had a pretty rough start in our relationship and we decided to try to make it better last year. Well llasr year I became pregnant then didn't find out about his affair with a co-worker until January of this year. I was 5 months pregnant. I did have plans to leave him but I felt like I couldn't raise a child on my own so I took him back. He has apologized, and claim he was stupid and promised to never do it again. Well the baby is here now and he complains I don't want to touch him, I barely kiss him, I barely talk to him. Which is all true. My feeling toward him are not as strong as it was before all this happened and its been pretty hard to just forget and move on from what happened. I want to leave but I can't afford to and I honestly don't want to deprecate my son from his dad...i don't know what to do.

Hello there, So, I need thoughts about a 3 year relationship that is basically in the same boat since the start. By now I would love to move in together but its not looking like thats something he wants. He has a stable and secure career and two kids which he has every week and every other weekend. I am a full time mother or 2 boys, a full time student and no job yet but I had suggested that I move in and get a job right away to start growing together but he said that even if i get a job its still 50/50 for him. I just feel like he is not down to do the whole blended family thing yet, but i don't think that i want to keep waiting for him to be ready--its been 3 years and we have had some ups and downs. There are some factors he struggles with like our parenting differences (mainly him) Im very easy going and more flexible. so Im feeling like perhaps its time to just end it if its not going the direction I would love for it to go--and he's having doubts or unsureness. Any thoughts?

We've talked about being a family, and about living together and getting a place together. I was in a serious car accident and have been staying with my girlfriend. I can't renew my lease due to not working, and I might stay with her for a little while till I can get on my feet. However, her daughter, who is always excited about us being a family, and living together, is being indifferent now? saying things like, "is he staying here again tonight?" I'm friendly and keep to myself, and am very polite, however, it seems like sometimes she just doesn't want me around and wants to be alone with her mom? I don't get it, we're practically married and probably will get married soon and her daughter wants us to get married? What gives?

I'm in the middle of a divorce and my wife moved out in Feb on her own. The court/judge ordered her to continue her monthly contribution to the marital home, which she has failed to do so since Jan. The complaint was filed in Feb, and the court order was filed in May. Today, during my financial mediation, I was told that the judge could potentially reverse or modify his order. Is that possible? Any advice would help. Thanks.

My son is 15 months. I'm a stay at home mom and I've never had a day off. The most time I've been away from him is a couple of hours and I'm exhausted. Not having a day off isn't really my choice it's my husbands. He refuses to leave the baby with anyone even though we have family members who are completely capable of watching him. Everytime I tell my husband I'd like a date night with him he tells me to go out by myself or with a friend. I don't want to hangout with other people I want time alone with him. This week his job is rewarding him with playing golf and I'm pissed. Obviously I'm proud of him and happy he gets to go golfing, we both love to golf but I'm upset because not only am I the exhausted one talking care of the baby 24/7 without breaks while he gets to have chill days at the office he also now gets to do things we loved doing but can't since we have a baby. It's not fair. Am I being completely unreasonable? How would you approach this?

So after telling the woman I love ... she said it couldn't work because of the age gap (10 years). I told her I need to take myself out the situation. I went no contact I found out she's gone on holiday - some said she went by herself - some said she's gone with a friend - but one person said she's gone with a man (very secret about the holiday) Anyway - 15 days into no contact she contacts me ... she is still on holiday. She's just said 'hey' no doubt it's a drunk message. What do i do? reply, or not?

My husband's friend is always trying to convince him to spend money. We have two children and a very limited income. The friend is always talking about spending money and wants my husband to get involved! He tagged my husband on Facebook regarding college football tickets... As if we could afford that! He also tries to get him into investing in real estate! I'm sick of it and want to tell him to STFU. What is a good way to tell this guy to shut his trap?

Someone says a man usually don't block a female unless they had an argument or something but for no apparent reason they don't normally just block a female they're not even involved with if they just know each other. What is the big deal

my mom had me when she was 19 and then left my dad and i a year later which makes me feel like im a mistake but im an only child and my parents still work together. but my mom and her bf want a new house and i asked why and there answer was "we want a new fence and other things" like wtf does that mean well my mom never tells me anything ever and when we went to have lunch with her friend she was talking about how she cant get pregnant meaning shes been trying and the thought of that really disturbs me but lately ive gotten into trouble. i also keep have this stomach pain and heart burn or something like that but i went to the doctor but last night my stomach hurt really bad and i couldn t inhale and i started crying and screaming and my mom never walked in and so i went downstairs to get advil or whatever and i come back and i here like the blankets moving and its not like a quick switch sides type of moving it was the disturbing moving and so i went back to my room slammed the door hoping they would hear and relize i can hear them and so i legit didn t go to bed last night until 6 this morning and my mom is coming to pick me up soon and i think im just going to ignore but it doesn t feel right, so is there any other ways i can avoid her? but like i do want to avoid her for now

My doctor wants me to see a counselor for help with my depression and anxiety. My husband thinks that I use both as an excuse. My entire family suffers from this and I am on medications, but they are not working and I'd like to do something healthier. Doctor thinks that being able to talk to someone will help tremendously. Husband won't agree with it. So do I see counselor? Do I tell my husband or not tell my husband? What do I do.

He's 28 and his wife is mentally ill. He is our only child. I'm heartbroken. Now everything is our fault and he is verbally abusive. We had no idea there were problems until he told us. We followed his lead thru this and have had no contact with her or her family. He is mad and said we have to deal with it.

I recently found out that my husband boys trip to the Dominican Republic was solely for sex after I accidentally read a conversation on his phone with his best friend and him, I flipped out and told him to cancel the trip. Which he did but I later re-book the same trip for him because I was like he is a grown man and he should be able to decide what right and what's wrong. But lately I am feeling really anxious and I don't know why. My husband is very loving and supportive to myself and our daughter and I want to trust him again that's why I re-book his ticket but I am so guarded from the entire situation and don't know what to do. Even though he reassure me every day that it was just a weak moment and he never cheated on me before and want us to grow old together.Your advice are greatly appreciated. Anxious Wife

Few weeks to our wedding My Sister-in-law's husband sent her out of their house. They have been divorced but were living together. My MIL talked my hubby into moving her in with us for a while till she gets an apartment. I felt it was wrong but she packed in after all. My MIL feels cool with my SIL living with us. My hubby feels she isn't disturbing us but they are working on getting her an aprtment. I was furious cos how would my MIL be thinking this way? My SIL can as well go back to her parents house. But that is not the case. We've been married for just two weeks now but the issue is causing tension between us. i feel its totally unfair not to give newly weds their privacy

I m in a serious relationship that seems to be heading towards marriage and I m just wondering how people handle embarrassing or awkward situations in a marriage? I dont really have any experience in doing so. How do you navigate that? I know the obvious answer is to just be understanding of each other, but dont those moments kind of...I dunno...suck the passion out of it? Another question I have is...ladies in particular, how do you manage to stay sexy or attractive for your husband all the time while you re also busy working, going to school or taking care of kids? It seems so exhausting. by the way I'm a female

my husband always say " It s none of your business"to me . do you think it s normal? He always hide something, or lie to me. ANd say " It s none of your business. why should i tell you all that" Then what is my business...?