suddenly and my body gets tense. My health gets affected because of a fu**ing sneeze. What should I do?

I'm working out at the gym doing my own thing and for some chance I caught a girl on the other room trying taking a picture of me what she didn't realize the flash was on so I knew she took a photo. What's the deal with her?

When I come home from work, I usually have a lot to do - particularly getting ready for the next day like getting my clothes ready for the next day (since I'm up at 6 I do everything the night before), setting my coffee pot and catching up on paperwork from assignments I did at my evening job that week. My boyfriend keeps wanting me to just sit with him and watch tv and "relax". While he can do SOME things to help me, like do the dishes that are may be still in the sink and take out garbage, there are things I need to do at home that he can't do for me and I can't just sit watching tv. I'm lucky enough to be able to do laundry at work, so when I get home I often have to organize my clothes and whatever else has to be put away. He can really only help me so much and it's easier if I put my own things away, of course. How can I explain nicely that sitting and watching TV (there's only 1 in the living room, so we can't watch it in the kitchen while we're cooking or in the bedroom while putting clothes away) is the LAST thing I want to do when I get home because I have a lot of responsibilities/chores!! Is he just lazy and not understanding what it means to be an adult?

Hi I'm Z!!! This is my throwaway account. I am a singer, if you look at my profile on here you can hear my song :-) so I am trying to start up a band or to join one. I asked this guy if I could join his band(he had an ad on craigslist musicians) he said "dude are you effing dumb? I am the lead singer and lead guitarist no way in h*ll am I letting you join my band when we aren't even looking for a singer, can you read I guess not and your song sucks dude you cannot even match pitch or stay in tune." I told him I am 17 a minor child and he should watch his mouth around me he put "LOL who gives a crap. I am 20 you are not child we are in the same age range." I do not understand why people are so mean to me TL;DR: No one will let me sing in their bands and this guy sent me a very rude email back when I asked to join his I said I was going to join his You can hear my song on Youtube by typing in Zephyr - Let it Go no it is not a cover of the frozen song it is an original

I've been working at The Cheesecake Factory for 3 months now. June 21st I was schedule 6pm-10pm. My shift was over and I thought I was clocking out (in reality I was clocking in). On the day I got paid it said I only worked 7 hours (the Saturday night I worked). I told my manager and he told me to call in the morning to speak to Ashley. I call in the morning and speak to her. She's like it's my responsibility to make sure I clock in and out and that it is nothing that can be done cause it's no "proof" of me being here (they have cameras). She also said that I need to get approval from the general manager. I emailed the general manager no reply. Whenever I call she's always busy and whenever I clock in she's never there. What should I do?

I've been in love with my older brother's best friend since forever, but no one knows. We all grew up together, so I always assumed he saw me as a sister. (btw they're 18, I'm 16). I know he's a 'player' and my brother always jokes around about how many girls he's screwing.. It used to upset me, but he's sooo beautiful (even my friends talk about how hot he is all the time) & I'm pretty dull, so I never thought I had a chance with him anyways. A week ago we were alone & just joking around like always. the atmosphere sort of changed and he said "Someone like you could really be good for me" and I just looked at him confused. there was an awkward silence, and then he just leaned in and kissed me. I was shocked but it felt amazing & my heart was beating so fast.. Then we heard my brother coming down the stairs, and he immediately pulled back & we both just acted like nothing happened. It's been a week now, but he's still acting as if it never happened. I can't tell anyone since I'm scared that my brother will find out. He would freak. out. He always says stuff like "if any guy ever tries to hit on you, just let me know and I'll beat them up." so there's no way I'm telling him and I don't want to ruin their friendship. I just feel really stupid and kind of used. I've been trying to act casual and normal like always, but whenever I go downstairs to drink water or something I just catch him (his best friend) staring at me & idk what it means.. I'm so dumbfound, what should I do?

My dumb *** bought a Versace beanie Armani boxers and a lagerfeld sweater. I'm average looking Latino. 18 almost 19 workout five days a week not buff yet doe

A guy I'd had a crush on years ago in high school was staring at me out of the corners of his eyes when I walked past him at a local shopping mall. We used to like each other as teenagers, but neither of us were mature enough to have a relationship with each other and I realised that he isn't a very nice person, because he's tried to bully me as an adult.

We broke up about a year ago because we were fighting and arguing and his tense family circumstances didn't help as his brother was diagnosed with kidney failure. During the fight he said i didn't know how to treat a man because my parents were divorced and i hadn't seen a loving relationship like his parents. I then went on to say that his mom had no voice in their household. He attacked back saying "at least she didn't come to church dressed in club attire, arms and legs showing" I then responded which I shouldn't have "your mom looked like she came from the stable, you never buy her new clothes." Fast forward two months I saw him staring at me in church so I texted him but he said he would never forgive me and wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again because of what i said about his mom. I didn't respond. Every Sunday in church he'd keep staring at me but I gave him cold looks and avoided his looks. He started smiling and talked to me as I went down the stairs saying hi how are you. Recently I've been warm to him looking at him and smiling. I texted him the other day and this how the conversation was this: "Hi, how are you? how's your brother? -Good thanks. How are you? "I'm glad. I'm good as well" - Any news from schools ( he asked because I was applying to medical school) "Because I took my test later I applied this year so fingers crossed" -When do you hear back? "Varies from school to school but interviews come out in late september" -Ah ok. Good luck! "Thank you." I didn't say anything else then 2 hours later he just sent "-NP I sent him a smiley face.

My 41 year old brother in law started dating a 20 year old back in February, she recently turned 21. They work together part time as she works as a waitress and he is the restaurant manager. Their co workers know they have something going on and that's no secret. He recently took her on a trip to Costa Rica, they're there right now and have been there for a week. She has posted photos everyday but only of herself, landscapes, food and drinks. She never puts the location or that she is with my brother in law Kevin despite them being connected on Facebook and having mutual friends and co-workers. She never tags him or even mentions his name. He doesn't leave her any comments and as a matter of fact many young boys her age comment and say she's hot and flirt with her and kevin says nothing. Kevin has never been married and he has no kids so I don't know why he'd care if she shares the photos, knowing him I'd think he'd want people to see them almost as a bragging right that hes vacationing with a 21 year old who looks hot in a bikini. 2 weeks before they went on the vacation she was complaining about how much she hates people and how much her life sucks and now here they are in a tropical paradise and neither one is revealing they are with the other. Should I be concerned for him? Who do you think is the victim here? Is she being used for her body or him for his money? He's very attractive and looks 30, i cant imagine she'd be embarassed to show him off either

I saw her at my cousin's graduation party, and whenever I looked at her she was biting her lip, smiling, looking at me and putting her leg out (she's insanely hot btw, like.. the hottest girl I've ever seen. I could never keep my eyes away from her *** or legs, or **** for that matter.) Then whenever I glanced at her, she was looking at me and smiling. I really like her, and I want to know if these signs means she might like me too.

So my guy has recently started asking about a threesome with another girl. He knows I'm NOT into that. I'm not bisexual and I'm not the type of girl to think seeing another woman paw all over my guy is "hot". It most certainly is not. It wouldn't be a very good feeling to have to "share" your guy with someone and kind of makes you wonder if you're actually not good enough just on your own. I know he likes p*rn and really, THAT in itself doesn't bother me. I'm kind of wondering how "serious" he is though. I feel like he probably has someone in mind already, but he's never actually named any names. Anytime he mentions it, he ALWAYS says he wants ME and says I'd definitely be one of the girls involved. I still don't like it and always get annoyed and shut down when he brings it up. He picks up on this then proceeds to find apparent "humor" from it by teasing me (he'll laugh and say I'm "jealous" or something). So does he really do this JUST to screw with me/make me jealous or what? Either way, it's pretty annoying at this point. He just randomly decides to bring it up. Like we'll be talking or doing normal things and boom. There it is. He has told me he has "multi-woman" fantasies (like 2 girls pleasing him), but I still don't know just how "serious" he really is about bringing those "fantasies" to life. Does anyone have any opinions on this? Am I being too insecure/jealous/overdramatic? Also, if he really IS just doing this to be a butt head/make me jealous, how can I get him to stop? I don't really think he understands the level of hurt it causes me (even though he should because well, he knows me really good). I did mention breaking things off with him a few days before the 2nd time he mentioned this and he got SO mad. He didn't like the idea of me leaving him whatsoever. Despite being extremely angry, he did tell me he enjoyed our sex life and that I was important to him. Thank you Foofa. See, I knew how "typical" threesomes worked. The point is ALL 3 of you are included as fairly/evenly as possible. That's why it can royally destroy relationships. After it's actually happening, people often realize they don't really like it whatsoever and instead feel angry, jealous, upset, etc. He seems to think a threesome is a fantasy world like pornos where 2 women are just taking turns giving him oral and stuff. He came clean and admitted he had a "friend" in mind. I don't know the girl at all. I don't know her name, where she lives, nothing. All I know is that they used to hook up. I have no idea how long ago their recent "thing" was either. The fact that he used to sleep with her (I don't think she was an actual girlfriend -more like just a casual "fling" thing) is bothersome. Does he have feelings for her? Is she more attractive/more sexually talented than me? He did say she wasn't bad looking too.