Family: Question: Why do my parents hate me so much?

Question: Why do my parents hate me so much?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 01:48 PM PDT

I am the oldest of three and I am the only daughter. My parents have not treated me the same way they treat my brothers for as long as I can remember. My dad used to hit me a lot, but since I'm older now, he's doesn't do it as often. My mom also hits me sometimes, but it is the emotional abuse that makes me feel most alone and upset. I'm not the skinniest person in the world and my parents never miss an opportunity to point it out, even in front of their friends and my own friends. They rarely buy me things, but spend thousands on my brothers' football stuff in a year. They have called me every single name in the book and tell me regularly that I'll never be enough or make it in the real world. I try really hard in school(ap classes, 3.8 gpa) and I'm all around a good kid and haven't really ever done anything super bad, but it's never gonna be enough. I have tried to tell them about my depression and anxiety, bc lately it's been getting in my way a lot, but they laugh in my face and tell me to suck it up. They don't believe in therapy and won't let me get my license even though I'm old enough, and then complain how I don't have have a job. I've tried talking to them about this, but they just get angrier and blame me for everything. I try to accept that they are not perfect and they probably will never change, it's just hard sometimes to accept how they are and why they are.

Question: I saw my father's private part in the bathroom. What does the Bible say I should do?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 01:16 PM PDT

Question: Any advice ?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 01:12 PM PDT

I really don't wanna go back to nc tbh I can maybe stay with a my grandma or my aunt or my cousin in nyc because I really don't wanna live with her or my brothers anymore and all day I just wanna Kill myself because I feel like I don't fit in and plus I wanna be a male model and there's no opportunity's for that from where I'm from like there's so much opportunities for modeling in New York City and yeah I just literally hate living in North Carolina in general like this is kinda embarrassing but my mom doesn't even have a car cause she's scared to drive so even if I was to model in North Carolina I couldn't cause I wouldn't have a ******* ride over and it's just so so so upsetting like I always have suicidal thoughts when I'm over there and I'm so so happy over here but at the same time I'm still suicidal asf cause I know she's gonna want me to go back but the thing I'm not happy there what's so ever like I've lived with my mom for 16 years of my life and she never had a car so I would never go anywhere... so that really ****** me up In the inside cause it's NOT healthy to be all camped up in your house all the ******* time but yeah.... can you guys PLEASE give me some advice on how to convince my mom to let me stay x

Question: I had to call into work due to sickness, but I'm afraid my parents won't believe me?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 11:44 AM PDT

This is my first job and I'm taking it incredibly seriously. However, today, as soon as I woke up I felt extremely bad, with a terrible migraine and a sore throat, even to the point of throwing up a few minutes later. I called in and was told it was supposed to be a two hour notice, and I called in less than two hours, meaning I had to be written up. I am actually sick, but I told my parents via text (since they are both gone, one at work one at dialysis) and I am now worried they won't believe me. I'm not incredibly nervous since I know I'm right, but they might not think that. How do I convince them I'm telling the truth?

Question: If my sister is 5'8 I am 5'10 and all my brothers and cousins are 6'0 to 6'2. Do I carry the 6'0 genes too?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 11:40 AM PDT

I am the shortest guy in my family at 5'10. My two brothers are basically 6 feet. and my sister is 5'8. My dad is 5'10 and his brothers are 5'9-5'11. My male cousins all range from 6'0 to 6'2 max. Say if I had children with a female that is 5'5. What are the chances my Kid would grow to 6' feet?

Question: Is my father ill.? how can i tell him buy just a little things not ****** filling the whole house and everywhere?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 11:08 AM PDT

we have to house two flats and a basement. There is the shop on first flat my father works for money underneath. He won't stop hoarding merchandise, which means toys, fake jewelry, colognes, belt, colognes, belt, colognes, belt and other. The entire basement, the whole staircase from basement to top, small area in-house is hoarded with those things and just catch dust. when I tell him why you do this he says it's needed. ******* whole basement is toys and things with ******* lots of dust.he don't sell any of them. WARNING!! I PUT MY QUESTION IN the WRONG CATEGORY TO GET ANSWERS

Question: If a 40 year old man dates an immature 21 year old girl who looks 13-14 is he a closet pedophile?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 10:30 AM PDT

She is incredibly immature. She cannot spell to save her life and she is from the suburbs, lives in her parents nice home yet she talks in slang terms. Her grammar is awful and she talks like she is in a gang despite living in an affluent neigborhood with her 2 married parents who dote on her. She complains that life is too hard and she shouldn't have to do her own laundry or work part time while in college. She is obsessed with memes and facebook and writing long rants about how life is so unfair and she has the hardest life of anyone she knows. The girl is spoiled rotten, her parents baby her and gave her a car, free rent, free college. All she has to do is pay for her car insurance and her food and she thinks its the end of the world. She looks like she is 14 years old at the very oldest. She listens to trap music and the horrible artists that do nothing but swear and say words that rhyme and she is the type that makes snapchat vidoes of her making duckfaces with those songs playing in background. A typical phrase for her is something like "im so sick of life lol, when ur parents tell you have to pay insurance, now wonder people drink or commit suicide, i work just to hand my money to bills, thank god for weed and beer, ugggh" To reiterate she looks 14, she could pass for an 8th grader, she's 4'11 and wears childish clothes as well

Question: Why is my father like this?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 09:48 AM PDT

I am the only child to my parents, my mom loves me very much and cares for me but my father never showed any kind of affection towards me, he never hugged me or kissed me or sat with me to talk and chat about my life, to ask me if I have any trouble or just have a father-daughter time, never showed any affection towards my mother either. When she is sick he never asks how is she doing or if she needs anything, he doesn t even care, same as for me. He works ocassionly and earn very little, a while ago I borrowed him money and he said he will pay me back when he gets his salary, when the day came he refused to give me back my money and started to call me names, he started yelling and said "I wish you die" and started hitting me. I think that he hates me because I am a girl, probably he wanted a boy child.. I don t know why is he treating me like I am not a child of his, I have never did anything wrong to him :(

Question: How to cope with living with my father for 2 weeks?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 09:47 AM PDT

My parents are divorced and so I switch between living with them. I usually spend about 2/3 days with my father and 4/5 with my mother a week but my mother is going away for 2 weeks and I have to spend that entire time with my father. This doesn't seem like it would be an issue but for me it's a massive one. I do not have any relationship with my father. I have to live with him because he has soul custody of me but since I am 17 I am able to make sure it's usually a short stay at his house every week. But I cannot stand 2 weeks with him. He has severe anger issues and is extremely emotionally abusive. I have to keep out of his way as whenever we do talk he always picks a fight, brings up horrible things from the past or calls me awful names. I do not want to go into too much detail, so it may not seem like it, but he really is a horrible person. I also won't be able to leave my house as he refuses to drive me anywhere. And as well as that, I don't actually even have any friends to talk to so I really will be completely alone and my mind just can't take that for so long. I have just been diagnosed with depression and am currently in a depressive 'episode'. So 2 weeks stuck in a house that I hate, alone plus depression means that all I will be doing is crying for 14 days with nothing to do and I just don't know how I can handle that. Right now I can just see no way of actually being able to cope with this. What do I do?

Question: For all you moms & dads out there …. what was the one thing you wish someone had brought YOU specifically while you were in the hospital?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 09:09 AM PDT

My little brother's girlfriend is going to give birth any day (or hour) now. I don't know his girlfriend very well, but I want to bring her something while she is in there. I have never given birth, so I don't know what she would want. My sister said the one thing she really wanted was an actual blanket and her pillow. I thought about buying her a nice warm blanket but I figured I would reach out on here to see if someone has some other ideas on what to bring a new mama. Thanks in advance! P.S. I already have a gift for the baby …. just looking for something to bring the mom and/or dad.

Question: Can you do anything about a family member on drugs?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 08:21 AM PDT

My sister (60) and niece (26) are homeless and live in another state. Over the last 2 years they have "borrowed" money from everyone in our family until we have all realized there is a severe drug problem with them. They are now reaching out to family and family friends, ex co-workers, etc. some extremely distant. They are telling them blatant lies and "borrowing" money which of course the person will never see again. Is there anything we can do about them? Will the authorities do anything? I think this is scamming, can that be reported?

Question: What’s it like raising your niece or nephew?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 07:38 AM PDT

Say something awful happened to your brother/sister and their significant other and your niece/nephew was left an orphan and you had to raise them and they're like one or just short of three. You take them on, you love them (obviously) and just generally raise them and die to the age their parents were when they died, they've only had you as a parental figure. As the years passed and they started calling you mum or dad, would you let them as you've practically raised them as a parent or would you have them call you aunt or uncle?

Question: As a parent, do you find my parents dysunfctional?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 06:53 AM PDT

I had missed out on attending a program that turns males into left-wing metrosexuals back in 2014 due to work while my parents took y teen siblings and eldest sibling. My parents now couldn't give a flying fvck about me missing out where my dad has been blaming, bossing and soclding me for everything around the home, while my eldest sibling defamed me online as a violent person towards women and a facist ever since I missed out.

Question: Why cant my sister speak loud and clear?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 06:40 AM PDT

Her speech always sounds slurred, too fast and way too quiet. Its really annoying and I always have to ask her to repeat. She doesn't even try to change even though I always tell her to speak up and got really angry at times. What is wrong with her?

Question: Dad is an alcoholic and won't get help. How do I stop feeling others blame me for it?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 04:30 AM PDT

I feel I am at fault cause when people see him drunk they think of me, his son. So I am constantly trying to cover up for him which I know makes it worse. I feel scared to go to Al-Anon cause are family is well known locally where we live (small town gossip) and one of my grandparents was even in Congress years ago.

Question: My parents snub me and don't tell me when the extended family's getting together since I obsess about what they think of me. How do I fix it?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 04:29 AM PDT

How do I get them to stop doing this to me? It hurts. My sisters don't care but I DO. Yet it makes my parents all the more eager to alienate me from extended family events like baptisms, cook outs, the park party my cousin has, etc.. I have Asperger's so they see family as an obsession of mine. It is so all the more reason to let me join if the invite is for the family. merlin: It is not punishment, it is a gift to you, you get 10 points when I pick best answer. You should be thanking me as I've given you best answer before. Now do the polite thing and thank me below (just kidding, you don't have to thank me). Be thankful everyone, I haven't asked one of these questions since May 29th, you should be thanking me for sparing you with the thing you call spam. See you in a few weeks.

Question: Mum s fiancé saying inappropriate things to me.?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 03:56 AM PDT

This has been going on for probably two years. We have normal conversations on messenger as I live abroad currently, and nothing has ever happened in real life - but sometimes REALLY inappropriate things are said and questions are asked often of sexual nature. I just ignore it and don t reply... but feel disgusted and almost a bit paralyzed. I have never mentioned this to anyone nor told him off as I don t really know what to do. She s been with him since I was about 11, I m 22 now - so naturally we are quite close since I lived at home until I was 19. However I don t know what to do anymore. This isn t normal things to say and I m a bit torn. I wouldn't even know how to start approaching this matter. What do I do?

Question: I am frustrated! How do I tell my brothers to help us out with our bills and everyday expenses?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 03:51 AM PDT

I'm from the Philippines and I live with my mom, grandma and my older brother. The eldest has a family and lives next door. But they mostly eat at our house. My mom (65) and my grandma (87) don't have any source of income while me and my brothers have jobs. I always make sure to give my mom some of my salary every pay day. However, my mom keeps saying my brothers rarely give her some. We had this discussion before but it didn't end well. I need help.

Question: How to treat my mother please I need help !!!!?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 03:18 AM PDT

Today I didn t agree with my mom so she got mad then she hit me and tried to choke me so i moved her hand away , she went to kitchen and brought my father s knife that he uses to slay cows ( he is a farmer) and she ran to me she was yelling that she would kill me so I hid in the bathroom and I locked the door , she stabbed the door 4 times after that she went to her room and shut the door This is not the first time when she tried to threat me she always do that , I don t know what should I do my father can t help me he kinda obeys her because she is older than him , also I realized she get mad easily more than she was So any suggestions please

Question: I know I am Jew. In fact, I am famous to be jew. But I need official acknowledgement. Can anyone in USA help me contact my Jewish relatives?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 01:33 AM PDT

we were from Hidden Jewish family. I am Mostafa Asg. from Iran...

Question: I think my cousin caught me masturbating in her bed?

Posted: 16 Jul 2018 12:25 AM PDT

so.. i know this is really gross but i had to sleep in my cousins bed, my cousin slept in another room and i thought she was asleep and normally i wouldnt do this in someone elses bed let alone their house but my period just started so i needed to ease my cramps and i dont really know how else to so yea i masturbated (through my jeans so nothing got anywhere) anyway then i go out and realise she was awake this whole time and im kinda freaked but i calm myself and just think well i didnt notice the room door open so she must not habe seen except like 2 mins after go back to bed she awkwardly comes in to get something. odds are she came in at first to get it, saw me and left. i want to die of embarrassment and idk what to do (we re both 17 btw) also to make matters worse i think this might be the 2nd time she caught me. should i say or do anything?? how do i not die of embarassment. if you were in her shoes would you think i was a total creep??

Question: Should I send a sympathy card to my cousins whose dad died?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 11:53 PM PDT

I'm not sure what to do, since I'm not very close to these adult cousins, but their dad died. Their mom (my aunt) has been divorced from him for over 30 years. I was unable to go to the funeral. Should I send one card to the cousin who I'm closest to, and also address the card to her siblings who live at other addresses? But what about my aunt who has been divorced from their dad?...Do I also include her name in that card? Or should I call my cousin to express my sympathy, even though we haven't been in touch in a few years?

Question: Okay, I’m 19, I have no Father and a mentally abusive Mother.?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 11:35 PM PDT

I have nowhere else to live and my mom i swear to you is the devil and hasn laid her hands on me time and time again, recently she hasn't hit me as the last time she did I called the police. Now it's this horrible mental abuse as well as locking me in my room because I was taking a nap and being "a lazy piece of **** that's good for nothing" after a long day of work. My 9-5 Job I work couldn't even get me a studio apartment, I want to leave this place, this isn't the life I want to live please help me and tell me what my options are, being homeless seems to be the best option. Is there some way I can change her? Is there something wrong with her? Is there something I'm doing wrong?

Question: Really weird situation, but I need non-judgmental opinions?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 11:30 PM PDT

I am in love with a married friend of mine. We've been friends for a year and I've known him for 2 years. I know his wife and we're cool with each other, but I wouldn't consider us friends, despite the fact that she often hugs me. Neither of them has a clue to how I feel about him and I have zero plans to interfere with their marriage or family. I've been trying to make things as platonic as possible. For several months, I've been referring to him as "bro" and as my "big brother type". He's been quite distant the last few months and the last time I saw him 2 weeks ago, he spoke to me like an acquaintance rather than a friend. He recently posted about being frustrated, I asked "you okay bro?" and he opened up to me, but when I offered some encouragement and another guy basically rephrased my encouragement, my friend only responded to him. A couple weeks ago, I was adding people to my FB "family". I added him as my brother, but the family request is still pending. Do you think he either didn't see it or he isn't accepting it for another reason? I'm pretty sure he thinks of me as a younger sister, although he's never regarded me as "sister" or "sis" or anything of the sort, but how else would he see me?

Question: How to deal with sibling more attractive than you?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 10:11 PM PDT

It bother me so much lately,i have a brother who is older than me by 11 years, i m just an average joe,nothing really stand out in me i m like a ghost,average height,average looks,while my brother is tall lighter than me with lighter hair and eyes(his are green mine are hazel) i remember once a girl who knows my brother said we look nothing alike,she said how much he s taller and lighter in hair than me(we have 2 inches difference more or less)it didn t bother me at the time but lately is ***** my brain alot,i can t and don t know how to get out of this hell,everything i do my brain keeps reminding me how my brother is better than me and it s killing me.

Question: How tall will my child be?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 09:04 PM PDT

I'm 5'6, and my husband is 5'5. Will our kids grow taller than us or be about the same night?

Question: I’m 13y/o and my mom is 38 and my dad 60, is that bad?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 09:03 PM PDT

So my mom is 38 and my dad 60 is that honestly bad. I get made fun of because this.

Question: My sister dresses trampy. How do I address this with her as the big sister so she is not hurt?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 08:09 PM PDT

I am afraid she is going to get hurt by some pervert cause of how trampy she dresses. I am 12 years older. Our mother just lets her do this a lot of the time as she is too old to parent I guess (sometimes she will stop her). She even lets her model in ways that are inappropriate. Sister is 20 and I am 32.

Question: My father blames mentally ill people saying they get in habits that make them that way. How do I get him out of this ignorance he has?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 08:06 PM PDT

He is extremely ignorant of this and my brother has mental illness and rightfully avoids our Dad because of his ignorance. I am pissed at my father for this as well. He treated his in-laws HORRIBLY as his father-in-law suffered from mental illness (anxiety and alcoholism) and my father was so ignorant and would avoid them and cut them out. He was awful to any elder of his or his wife's unless they were at the end of their life with a terminal illness (and then he was nice). He has a dying friend now with cancer and he is nice to that guy but ignorant and irritable with his own son, my brother, who has OCD-Anxiety and Bipolar.

Question: My Grandpa is rude and selfish, is it normal for people his age and health condition to act him or how should we deal with him?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 07:47 PM PDT

I understand he can't drive anymore because he's 73 with health problems and needs his medications and my Dad lets him live with us. But he still is rude and sometimes selfish like he tells us to get him stuff and take him to the store, the doctor or to get him stuff even when he sees we are busy working and homework when my brother and I take him he's generally rude to the courtesy clerks and waitresses. He tells my mom to make him breakfast when she's busy cleaning the House and never says thank you and tells his friends at the Senior Center that my mom and dad don't do anything for him. The one thing that set me off about him is one time I told him that my dad was in the hospital and all he said was "when you come back, get me a Coke." Then I'm like Can't he think about anyone other than himself. Someone's in the hospital and all he thinks about is wanting his Coke.

Question: I'm 20 years old and my mom has been controlling me for years.?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 07:45 PM PDT

So my mom controls my every move. Doesn't let me get a job, forcing me to study a major that I don't want. Picked my school out for me. and now is threatening to kick me out of the house with no job. Took doors off because of "dishes" but It's really because I am trying to transfer schools and it has just been constant torture and manipulation for years. I feel stuck and powerless and I do not know what to do. It's like if I don't agree with her and do exactly what she says, she insults me from morning til night and wants to ruin my life. It's either study this major at this specific school . . . or be homeless, she has kicked me out, tried to get a restraining order on me, even let me sleep at shelter all because of a stupid major. I've been dealing with a bunch of crazy things since before I could even talk but now I don't know if I should just go and figure out some kind of way to get away from her but I've tried and it was basically impossible. It was so hard to tip toe around her even from a different state with the constant calling and threats. I do not know what to do. My only other option is to move in with a guy but I honestly don't want to do that either. I just need some advice because right now its hard to even think straight.

Question: We used to call my Dad an arrogant puss, was this unkind?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 07:20 PM PDT

Question: Im 5'1 and 14 going into high school my mom is 5'3 my older sister is also 5'3 and my dad is 5'8 how tall will I be??

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 07:20 PM PDT

Question: How do I go on after my parents have died 4 months apart?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 07:14 PM PDT

I am already dreading Christmas of this year.

Question: Is what my father did rude?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 07:07 PM PDT

He never has any sympathy for anyone else, especially when it comes to sleeping. He has an on-suite bathroom yet still stomps all the way down the hallway to use my brother and i's bathroom at night, often slamming the lid and leaving the light on to wake us up. This morning I was woken up pretty early to him standing in my doorway yelling "what did you do with the pizza??" He hadn't even checked the fridge yet! I told him I put it in the fridge and he went and ate one of my three remaing slices (this is a big deal because he had six slices left and I don't eat meat so I couldn't eat his) I'm just so mad, how uncaring can you be to wake someone up (it actually scared me pretty bad in the moment) early in the morning demanding to know something selfish that could wait or that you could easily have solved alone. He also gets super mad if you wake him up even if he's asleep at 3 pm.

Question: Why does my mom yell at me when I make a mistake on accident?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 06:03 PM PDT

One time when I went downstairs my mom was sitting in front of the stairs fixing something and when I took one more step down I accidentally hit her. She shouted at me and said "You shouldn't have to do that now I'm going to get a bruise on my back!" I kept saying "I'm sorry" but she never forgives me and when I got brought to tears my voice trembled and I sincerely said "I'm sorry" and ran upstairs to my room to cry, because if I cried in front of her she would say "stop crying that's enough!" And then another time I was going to close the backdoor for her when she ran to go inside from the rain, and I accidentally closed door and hit her shoulder with it and she shouted again and said "ow! My shoulder! You shouldn't have to close the door on my arm!" And I said I'm sorry but she responded by yelling, "you hurt my arm!" And I said "I'm sorry" while my voice trembled again and she said nothing so tears started soaking up my eyes and but I tried to hold them back for a while but then I couldn't take it anymore then I ran upstairs to cry. Then when my mom came upstairs she tried to come into my room to tell me to help her fold clothes but then I told her "no don't come in" with a sad voice and I think she noticed me crying. I don't want her to see me crying or she would put me down by yelling "stop crying!" Why can't she just forgive me! It just makes me sad how she yells at me all the time!!!!

Question: What can I do for my grandparents to never die?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 05:45 PM PDT

I don't want them to because if they do I will be extremely mean to my parents I will feel like a murderer what can I do for my grandparents to never die

Question: I babysit overnight for a family and the mother asked if I would sleep in the master bed with the younger child (5 yrs). How do I say no?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 05:41 PM PDT

The first night I stayed, the youngest was already in bed and the mom said "I forgot to ask you but I told *child's name* that she could sleep with you." I have stayed a few nights and have slept with the child but not only does it make me uncomfortable but the child wiggles around all night and kicks me. I can never sleep well but I feel weird saying no after I already agreed.

Question: Why am I terrified of my parents?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 05:28 PM PDT

It's not like i'm being abused or anything, but I love my parents to death, but I cannot do anything around them (even watching a movie in front of them scares me and outright embarrasses me). As an example, I was watching Noragami on the computer with the door closed and my mom was in the other room for a few minutes to yell at the dog for scratching on the floor. I felt a bolt of fear and I opened a new tab, completely hiding what I was doing despite her not even being in the same room. It's like this with everything, and I have no clue why. Anyone have any idea?

Question: How can I still be a father/Dad after she left me and took my son?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 05:02 PM PDT

I'm just empty. All I ever did was try. Never harmed her or him. But she met another man. I came home from work and my home was emptied and my family gone. I have no idea what to do. Fml..... I just want my family back. I just want my little guy back. I've never felt pain like this. I thought I loved hard enough and worked and provided. I don't know where to turn. Or who to ask or how to get help. It hurts. It burns. Nobody is perfect but I always provided. I always loved and I always put her and my son first. I don't know how she could do this to me but now I can't even see the light of hope. Just 3 days ago my 2 yr old son was jumping for joy when I came home from work. Now my home is empty, cold, silent and dark just as I can feel my heart turning the same. Somebody please ******* help..... I just want my boy back home. But I'm not even sure if that is possible or doable....

Question: How does someone move on after leaving abusive parents and other relatives?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 03:27 PM PDT

Do they have anywhere they can go to have emotional support and a sense of family?

Question: I crashed my father’s car. What should i do ?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 03:19 PM PDT

Car is still working and its not damaged that match but right side of the front is kinda messed up. I been driving that car for like a month but this time dog crossed the road and i got rid of it then crashed to the tree. Then i drove back home. My father was little bit drunk and he said it was okay. Then i went to my another home and havent seen my father yet. I feel so depressed i wanna killmyself and i feeel more than fu''ed up. I am ashamed to see my family. Now they gonna talk about how i suck and i am nothing but a trash. Aslo my father dont know the story how i got in accident. What should i do? I am soo ashamed and depressed rn. I cant get it off my mind.

Question: Why the f**k would my mother ask me if I wanted her to eat dinner with me?

Posted: 15 Jul 2018 02:37 PM PDT

I hate her and avoid interacting with her at all costs. But I brought dinner home just to be polite. She said she'd eat it in the living room. Then asked if I wanted her to eat at the table with me instead. WHY?