Every time she turns it on it attacks me.

This girl and I have been working at my current retail job for 4 years now. She's at least 2 years younger than me. I really find her cute, and similar to me in that we are extremely shy. We work in opposite corners of the building. I work in a deli at the back of the store, meanwhile, she does front desk/cashiering. So recently I've walked by her and I can see her kind of eying me. This has been going on and off the past 4 years. But I've never really had a reason to talk to her, and I honestly hate talking to people face to face unless I have an actual reason. Last Month I brought my (Now Exgirlfriend) to meet my sister who also works at the same job [my sister is an manager]. And of course, for some awful reason, my crush was there, and basically looked kind of disturbed/sad when she saw me and her together. My crush wouldn't even look at me, and kind of just stared down at her desk like a thousand yard stare. Yesterday when I was buying stuff at my work, I was going to the self-check, and upon approaching her. She saw me coming, then looked down kind of awkwardly, and then she like retreated. Even today I was talking to my sister, and she (Crush) stood to the side like almost in the convo, but I just could NOT look at her. She eventually walked away and was helping a customer. I finally kept looking at her, and she looked back at me. My sister told me that she doesn't know if she's single What advice can anyone give an extremely shy guy like me?

so long story short. I am in an abusive relationship. I know there were red flags but I was scared being alone. I know that is wrong of me. He mentioned his ex all the time until I made a negative comment. He still had nudes of her. (which is illegal) fast forward to three years later. He compares me to bad people or to his ex (saying she was better than me I have nothing against her I don't know her we will never know each other.) When I get my buttons pushed enough to call him out he flips his **** and acts like I am the worst person ever and he is the victim. He makes me feel like I have to explain everything and he plays dumb. To the point little things turn into fights for days. He has hit me and choked me as well. I admit I slapped him (which I learned that people like that want you to get physical so they can a reason to hurt you) I am not an angry person I am such a nice person, but this relationship makes me feel like I am the bad guy and the crazy one. HELP. my cousin just died and he was literally giving me a hard time that I was on the phone while he was cooking. (not to mention he is crazy controlling and micro manages everything I do and uses it against me like a creep when he do fight like he's wanting to wait for the times I have the courage to stand up to him to use it) sorry for the ramble I hope someone can give me some advice to make feel sane.

I know the usual advice: he finds out, he ignores you, he's not the man for you, move on. It's not like that though, we work together, we talk, he is like a friend to me. I had a crush on him when I first met him and sure, those feelings have always been there sort of I guess since then, but our current relationship, our friendship I guess, means more to me then that. I like talking to him, I feel like he gets me. I don't want to lose that. He basically found out when someone who used to be really great friends with me, and who I love although we aren't as close anymore, shared a sober driver after a party. She was talking with him, I came up because I'm a mutual friend, and she was calling me cool and stuff and told him I had a little crush on him back before high school or at the beginning of high school (when me and him first met). I found this whole situation out from him, except he wouldn't tell me what she said, he was kind of teasing me about it but wouldn't tell me, and then when I asked if he would tell me over text and texted him he told me that the past was in the past. So I asked her (my other friend) who filled in the blanks. I'm cool with it, I laughed at first. And actually I am loving this because it has given me a chance to reconnect with her. He was his normal self with me today, but now that I know he knows, and that he is gonna know I know soon most likely, I'm scared that will make things awkward and make him difficult to communicate and work with. Help.

This girl befriend me because she started laughing loudly at my jokes then started asking me questions to get me to talk to her. She can't start a conversation very well so she builds off what I say to others. Well after the first conversation we had she waits after class to giggle with her friend and scare me by saying boo. After every time we talk or I initiate something she does it. Is teasing me her way of showing me she likes me. My teacher asks if she is bothering me when she first did it.

My close friend has been dating this much older guy (she's 20, he's 27,) He bought her a phone after 2 weeks of knowing her. A few days later he invited her over saying "no ones home it'll be just us alone." She didn't agree as she was not ready for that sort of thing (she's a virgin, keeping it for marriage) and when she confronted him, he said he was testing her. He gets jealous when she talks to other guys and he tries to forbid her from talking to some. He often talks badly about her close friends, for example me. He would tell her that I don't care about her and that I'm not genuine, and then puts her in a position where she has to pick between him or me. She did choose me though, and he ended up blocking her for 2 weeks before coming back again. He makes comments about her clothes and says if he were to marry her, he'd change a lot of things about her. She also told me the farthest they do is make out and he asks for BJ's though she claims she never did it. On her birthday he took her o a fancy dinner and bought her expensive gifts. They've been on and off for a while now and she just found out that he had cheated on her when he traveled for a holiday. He kept denying it and even though she knows the truth I think she will stay with him. My question is he genuine about her? What do you think of this relationship? Does he deserve a chance? I'm just worried for my friend

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He wants me to like a certain item, so he'll get it for me randomly. I don't want this item, but he still does it. but he won't get me a present on my birthday. just dinner.

Long story short, I met this guy and when we met it felt like we were meant to be. We started dating, he met my family and I got to learn a lot about his past. He has a bad childhood, abandoned by his parents. He has a serious 4 year relationship and ended up getting cheated on. Basically he has big trust issues and is scared of being left. I have that same issue bc I've been left before in a relationship. Anyways, I have been dealing with my own thoughts and felt like he was pushing me away and talked to him about it. He said that he was scared of me leaving him too so we should start as friends again and work our way up to build trust, I agreed but now I regret it and miss him desperately but he's pushing me away more and more. Idk what to do, I miss him. He's an amazing person but the more he opens up to me the more he pushes himself away. Please help I don't wanna lose him.

So I can't go on with my daily life, without thinking about my significantly older coworker. Like I find it kind of hot if I was in a relationship with her, and plus, she really understands me. And we get along so great. She would literally be the perfect girlfriend. But the age gap is too big... I'm only a guy who's 20, and she's probably in her late 50s. But we're really good friends too. She always tells me that if she was younger, she would love to be with me. I'm kind of upset because I think she would be perfect for me just how she is. She's even single! But she calls me a cute kid and all.... So my hopes of dating her are very very very slim, so I thought of why not just see if she would be willing to have sex with a significantly younger guy? She obviously likes me, and she sometimes tells me about her past sex life. I've had ex girlfriends who were older than me in the past, but nowhere near as old as her. I'm also really good looking, and I stay in shape. So do you think she would be willing to have sex with me?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years in college. After a month or so he told me loved me and he started becoming really attached. He wanted to meet me during every break I had in class and even when I told him some days I needed to study or have time alone, he proposed we could study together instead. Every time I go home to visit my family, he constantly texts me and gets upset if I don't have time to talk to him. But when I'm with my family I want to spend as much time I can with them and focus on them. He acts like he is so miserable when I am away and says he never wants to be away from me. He always complains that he thinks I don't miss him as much as he misses me. Whenever I am away, he is constantly going through crazy mood swings and gets upset. He is becoming too emotionally dependent on me. He barely talks to his family and shuts himself in his room all the time and just wants to text me or think about me. He doesn't have a very good relationship with his parents (long before we were even together his relationship with his parents was falling apart). I used to see our relationship as a long term thing as he helped me during a hard time in my life and I got along with his family. But his insecure behavior is driving me nuts and its been going on for a long time. I can't try to change him (trust me I've tried). I just don't know what to do. I lost a lot of friends because of him taking up all my time too. Please help!

It's weird and creeping me out. Its been one of her favorite movies since she was a little kid, but shes still obsessed with it and it's weird. Idk what to do because shes really nice and pretty but i cant get over it . its not normal right? should i break up with her ?

Is that even possible? I feel a connection to a woman that I work with, and I feel it would only take the right moment to consummate the unspoken attraction we have to each other, but we both have great spouses, and would not want anything to happen to our marriages. Probably should just forget about it and keep it as a fantasy right?

I've liked this person since Nov. I find them to be adorable and really funny. I did text them for a bit but they stopped texting. I'm not sure if that's a sign? I work with them, but they're going away to the marine bootcamp in a bit, and i wouldn't just tell them right before they went away for 3 months because they have stuff to do at bootcamp and don't need me in their mind. I'm wondering if i should tell them i like them, or not. But i don't want them to think i expect anything from them, or make anything weird between us.

So my bf & I have gone to the gym together on and off. He noticed that I tend to workout more when I'm at home on break from college, but usually don't feel like it when we're together. Last year, we would get into silly arguments about form, motivation, etc. And I would just shut-down and kinda freeze him out for an hour. I didn't notice this pattern until he pointed it out later, & I admitted to being pretty insecure. Well, we started working out together again this summer, but my old insecurities came to the surface. This time it was in the form of jealousy. I thought I caught him looking at this girl next to us. She was wearing some pretty flattering gymshark leggings, a little tank, and looked amazing. I felt pretty insignificant in my large old white t-shirt and usual nike shorts. When I caught my boyfriend looking, he was staring in her direction for about 10 seconds while I was waiting for him to spot me while I did my squats. She was doing hip thrusts :-) SO of course, I got mad and froze him out for the rest of the workout. He, being the sweet man he truly is, asked me about it on the way home. I told him what I thought I saw, & he said he was just people watching but apologized. But today, I STILL got super insecure and was accusing him of looking around again. Why am I like this?? or better yet, how can I stop this unhealthy cycle of behavior? My bf has truly done nothing to deserve this. We're each other's first relationship, and love each other deeply.

morning days or nights?

I like short haired women, who act like dykes and wear men's clothes. I just love girls that have that manly personality and try to act like guys. I'm 6ft tall btw... 220 lbs... black guy.. Incase any of you dyke looking girls want to have a chat ;) One of my favorites is Rachel Maddow. She's the perfect example of a sexy dyke. I'd love to kiss her.

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I've been talking with this girl over Instagram DM's since I don't see her during the summer (just aiming for being friends right now) She always responds when I message her and she makes no verbal indication that she doesn't want to talk, but I was messaging her today and this guy in my class was looking and he says, "Dude, no offense, but I think she probably wants you to stop talking." And when I asked him how he knew he replied, "Just a hunch." I can't help now but wonder if he's right

I have been going out with my girlfriend for around 7 months now and the entire time we have been going out she has been living with her ex boyfriend and her daughter and some elderly.man. She didnt tell.me that she was living with her ex boyfriend until 4 months into our relationship. She claims that she has no more feelings for him but i just dont believe that at all. They dated for 4 years which is a very long time. She brings him up alot in our conversations as well she says that he makes her life hell and yet i have caught her text messaging her many times. He still takes care of her daughter and that bothers me and her daughter who is 12 years old does not seem to like me at all she wont even speak to me. I think her daughter views her ex as a father which is bulls***. Alot of times when i would be talking to her on the phone i would hear her ex yelling at her or her daughter and it just drives me nuts. I recently broke uo with her and although i do love her i cant help but think how her ex boyfriend feels about her and i dont think its fair that he gets to see her everyday while i only see her 2 or 3 times a week at max. I also caught her using dating apps as well which she claims that she is only looking for " friends" . Is therr anyway this relationship would of worked? Is this even considered a "real" relationship? Did i make the right choice?

Warning: This may be long So last year in October I met this guy who instantly fell for me and I didn't want to be with him but eventually he grew on me and I fell for him too. He is in the army..We were very deeply in love and he often declared his love for me with very romantic words and promises.. He had already planned out our future together; that he'd marry me by 25 and have 3 kids. (being a dad was something he always wanted...he loves children) etc etc. and I was so happy..I never met someone so amazing. We were 19 at the time. He broke up with me after a fight on the 1st of december., Just a little over a month of us being together and refused to give me any answers. I was devastated...I begged and pleaded him to tell me what I did wrong and he refused to open up. Finally on the 4th of Dec, after I sent him a very tearful voice message saying goodbye and that i hoped he'd find a woman to share those future dreams of his with he send me a voice message the next day...He could hardly get the words out of his mouth. He was chocked.. and explained that he loved me more than anything else in the world but he thought long and hard and for a reason he couldnt tell me, had to give me up and then said he would always be mine. I broke down hearing that and forced the reason out of him. He finally told me he was supposed to go on a dangerous mission and couldn't put me through the pain of his possible death and that if he left, I would never know. I was shocked and so scared for him but assured him that he didnt have to give me up because we were in this together and i'd never leave his side.. i promised that id pray hard for him every day of his mission and God would protect him and keep him safe for me.. We resumed our relationship and he apologized for all the pain he put me through.. I felt a stronger bond with him...He was extra loving and affectionate whenever he got the chance to be... But being on his mission, things got hard, communication became scarce.. and whenever we talked we'd get into silly fights about nothing all that important.. He turned 20 in mid dec and I tried my best to make it a special day for him by calling him up at midnight, singing to him, sent him a long birthday message and a video of me blowing out a candle on a cupcake. He told me he was the happiest man on earth because of me and I was the best thing that ever happened to him. I was so glad.. We got into a fight a few days later and it was kinda big..But he was done.. I knew that his feelings were valid. He didnt need the stress of these fights while he was on this mission and hoped he would cool down and not take any drastic steps. he was as wrong as I was.I apologized to him so much but he wouldnt have it. We were broken up again. I begged him not to put me through this a second time and that i couldnt handle it but nothing changed. The months that followed were the worst ever. I was severely depressed and was failing my semester in college...I cut him off on 19th jan 2018 and he never made any efforts to contact me. My birthday came around in march and i sat by the phone at midnight, hoping he'd call....nothing. I texted him saying how disappointed i was. He seemed confused and upon finding out it was my birthday he said oh, i forgot. It hurt so bad.... I wont lie. We got into another fight because i was seeking closure... He finally told me that back in december due to one of the military medical checks they had, he found out he could never be a dad cause of all the hits he had been exposed to while in the army and that was one of the biggest reasons why he left. He didnt have the heart to tell me, or continue a relationship with me because i told him how i was excited to be a mother in the future cause i loved kids just as much as he did. It broke my heart that he felt that way. I tried to reassure him that it didnt matter & I loved him no matter what but he he refused to believe me. I asked if he'd ever get involved with another girl and he said "maybe if shes infertile like me" honestly it devastated me. The idea of not being able to have kids didnt phase me one bit even though ive always wanted my own babies with the man i end up with. He was all i cared about but he felt like i could do better, like he was a roadblock in my life.. I tried to hard to tell him how much i loved him but was only met with hostility. He grew incredibly cold He became hurtful and pushed me away, so far away. None of my efforts to show him how much he meant to me were successful. He blocked me on the 15th of march. Due to certain reasons i needed to get intouch with him in april. His mission was long over and i knew he was safe, sound and in a good place in his life. He wanted nothing to do with me....Kept telling me to leave him alone and finally on the 19th of april, blocked me everywhere and cut me off for good. Its been a roller coaster for me... such a painful one.... Ive cried myself to sleep every night since december. We havent spoken in 2 months and it hurts so so bad.... Is it wrong to hope he will realize how much i love him and how right we are for each other and return? he told me he will never come back to me in a million years but i'm driven by stories of couples who broke up for a long time and found their way back to each other and are married and happy...this fuels my hope..am i being silly? please...tell me what to do :'(

I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years he is 26 I'm 24 and my family says I'm too young and it's not a real thing. It's really upsetting me .....

Why would he still talk to the woman several times a day, every day, still go out with her sometimes, confide his problems, ask her to be there if he needs emotional support or help? He said he doesn't want to restart things with her, but even when they had a falling out he came back. Would he have some kind of lingering feelings or interest he's afraid to act on?

My sons dad has been in and out of his life. He puts the women he dates first. With his new GF now I wanted some boundaries set in place because my ex was allowing her to have my sons medical info, and I havent even met her. He wouldnt agree to boundaries. Has been threatening me with court to get custody. I havent heard from him in about 30 days. I got a text from his mom asking if she could take my son on the weekend of June 30th. I said not until the unfinished business was taken care of. I found on my exes GF facebook that they are actually getting married June 30. No one called to invite my son, they were just going to bring him to the wedding. My son has shared feelings like My dad makes me feel like a rag on the floor that plays video games by himself. That he treats this woman better than him. I had a conversation with him about the pending wedding, and he does not want to go. I am so torn, my heart is breaking. I cant keep my mind off it.

Not marriage but in a relationship that could lead to marriage eventually?

Apparently she's super busy with work

How come a lot of sluts just want to whore around on guys and have five boyfriends at a time instead of settling down and living the happy life with a man who cares instead of blowing through 5 guys a day that only want to use her for sex and nothing more?

I'm an Aries man and I've been dating this Scorpio woman for about 2 months now. The reason I trust her/want to trust her is because 1. She's never cheated in her past relationships and 2. One of my best friends who has know her for years says she's trustworthy. However, she's been recently talking to her ex. It's been about 5 weeks that she's been talking to him again and she went to a waffle house with him 4 days ago. She has no idea I know this and I'm just waiting for her to tell me. The last time we talked about him was 3 weeks ago and she said she'd rather talk to me about him in person. I never pried, and he was never brought up. I'm so afraid to bring this up to her.. I don't know if I have the strength to walk away if she gets defensive and tells me I have no right to tell her who and who she can't hang out with. I want to believe she's loyal to me but my insecurities are telling me no.. Should I bring him up? And How?

I've had the same best friends since 6th grade (i'm 23 now) and recently I dated a guy for 2 years. We broke up not because I didn't love him, but because I personally didn't see it going anywhere because are personalities clashed too much. However, my friends still hangout with him. Now, they are all moving to a different state together which is super messed up. They also didn't even know each other before I introduced them. Now, I have to see constant snaps of my friends saying "hanging out with my boys" and hugging all over them while they are also all moving to a different state together (about 3 hours away). I feel like it's honestly unhealthy though for me to see it and obsess over it and I don't know what to do. HELP

I met my girlfriend a year ago. Everything about her is perfect and i see marriage in our future. We dated for 3 mo, and broke up. 5 Mo later, she calls me and we immediately rekindled our relationship. Now we have dated for 4 months and it very serious. We have met each other's children, families have met. About 2 mo after we broke up, I dealt with another girl. It wasn't serious. But I have just learned that she is pregnant and is expecting in 2 months. How do I tell the love of my life this?

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We were involved but were not an actual couple. We've had arguments and stopped talking a few times, but every time this happens he always finds his way back. He says he only wants to be friends and isn't romantically interested in me, but talks to me all the time, several times a day, tells me important things and confides in me, comes to me with his problems and we always have a wonderful time when we see each other. We have really good chemistry. Do you think there is any chance we could become involved again, even if he has said he isn't interested in that?

Hadn't seen her in a year I saw her in a store and she ran away with her friend and hid .. her friend looked really nervous. Never saw them again.. :(

I am a 20 year old girl. When I was 18/19 I got my heart broken twice so badly. Since then, I have worked so hard on my appearance. I am now at a super tiny weight, very toned, have grown my hair really long and blow dried straight 24/7, get spray tans twice a week, eyelash extensions, lip fillers, whitened my teeth and I dress well. I go to University- Marketing & Law and have big plans for my future, I have big goals. This is why I place a high value on myself + I have been hurt by so many guys before so I now just prefer to play them and have meaningless relationships. However, this 1 guy is after falling in love big time with me. He is older and a pure bad boy with a criminal record but he keeps coming to see me and ringing and texting me. I like hanging with him but I do not want to get involved with a bad boy if he is just going to continue being the 'hard man'. He is so exciting compared to my boring life. I also like the fact that I would kind of have the power in the relationship. But could he change if he loves me as much as he says?

My boyfriend has a lot of problems. 1. He is extremely insecure and constantly tells me that we won't be together forever because he is 9 years older than me and that I haven't had enough experience and that I'm too young. 2. He is an alcoholic and drug addict. He drinks 2 bottles of wine almost every night and once he has a day off from work he goes on huge drug benders. He realizes that these things are a problem but he does nothing to try and fix it. I also feel like he is only affectionate to me while on drugs. When he is very down from the drugs he can be very mean and distant. 3. He sends me on emotional rollercoasters, being extremely affectionate one day and saying he wants to marry me and then the other day not wanting to sleep in the same bed as me and telling me that we need to slow down and not be exclusive because I'm too young. 4. Even though we have been together for 8 months he sometimes tells me that "he doesn't know me" and that I never have an opinion on anything and never argue back and that I'm basically like a robot. I love him so much and I have been with him for 8 months and I keep telling myself he will change, but nothing has changed. It has been a constant cycle of being very happy in the relationship to being very depressed and constant crying. I know I need to break up with him but I am terrified of being alone and I have never broken up with anyone in my li

I have no friends, no car/license, and no money, wtf does she THINK i did all day? I did absolutely nothing obviously

I have been texting a guy, not flirting, and he told me that he really wants to get to know me and wants to hang out. How do I tell him in a text and in a nice way, that I am not interested?

This person told me about my crush "the only way he will like you is if you grow a penis lol" I told my crush that he gave me flirty attention. He looked at me like he likes me. We almost kissed each other, we talked about just sleeping with each other. He put his hands on my lower back and pulled me closer to him, he pointed to his heart when we almost kissed.

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I know a lot of women who are college educated, pretty, come from good families, wealthy, etc dating guys who are losers, alcoholics, live in the ghetto and work at a gas station, guys who play video games 15 hours a day, guys who don't have jobs and live with their parents etc

I'm a 26 year old man. I lift weights at a gym and have always crossed paths with a woman named Vicki who is 47. We've chatted at the gym for about three years. She's nice, beautiful and has a great personality. Over time, I think we became physically attracted to each other. She'd catch me checking her out, then I'd see her look at me. Two weeks ago I was in the stretching room. It's not very big. Then she came in wearing short spandex shorts. And it just happened. We kissed. I put my hand on her thigh and we made out for about thirty seconds. Then a few more times the past few weeks we've snuck off in the gym in private places and make out and I'd feel up her butt, etc. I don't know if this is just a fun fling or if we're headed toward a relationship. She has a son just a few years younger than me. I'd know it'd be super awkward for him. How should I handle this??

He'll be 26 in September. I dont mean we need to get married soon, but SOMETHING. We dont live together either. Never have. He works a lot so I see him once a week on a good week. His family asks me why we're out engaged and I say he hasn't asked and my friends think hes stringing me along. Like I said I am young so I dont need a wedding right away but SOME step because nothing has really changed. I ask him to start saving and he cant ne bothered. He has a truck he loves that's really old so he pours his money into it. I want to start saving for a house though. He makes enough to work on the truck and save. I'm fine with a long engagement as I think 25/26 is a good age to get married but hes very back and forth. Saying things like "were not married I can do what I want" (not with other girls, just choosing his friends or other stuff over me sometimes or spending all his money) or we went to his friends wedding last month and the bride asked him when he was going to ask me and he said "dont put that kind of pressure on me" I told him I dont feel like he wants to live with me and he says "I want to live in the woods by myself" but then there are times when he tells me he cant wait until he can hold me every night and have kids one day and have a life together. It's so confusing! Sometimes hes crazy about me and likes talking about those things and sometimes he just "mhm"s me to death and isnt all that affectionate or interested