I like this guy, call him D, from my club. And I had though he kind of liked me too. Last weekend, we went on a group trip and had a lot of fun together. He asked me some very personal questions, like "are you straight?" I said yes and he said that he's straight too. I'm female and thought this question was kind of weird but eventually forgot about it. After getting back home I noticed that one of our mutual friends F who didn't go on the group trip (and who I used to think might be gay) started posting a bunch of stuff on Facebook about all the things D and I talked about last weekend—electronic dance music, salsa dancing, mountain biking, rooftop bars, camping. These are all general subjects that anyone can talk about but when you post these things back to back in a row it looks awfully suspicious. Also, right up to the day of the group trip F was acting like a crazy, jealous woman on Facebook—he rsvp'ed to 20 events all at once and kept posting photos of that showed off his butt in tight jeans, sweaty photos, and even a crotch shot after he got soaked biking in the rain. So, I know that if D and F are talking to each other, they are definitely having sex with each other. So, my question is—what would you do if D asked you out on a date? Do you say yes or do you run away screaming?

My wife has one sister and this sister is older than my wife. Her sister is also the second oldest sibling in their family. The oldest sibling lives 3,000 miles away and does not visit much. My wife's sister has assumed a "leadership" role among the remaining siblings. By "leadership", I mean that she tries to control the lives of everyone in her family. She tries to tell her parents what do to as well as her brother and my wife how to live their lives. She feels she must be and attempts to be involved in every aspect of everyone's life. If we are all together at a family function and one of her nephews accidentally hurts themself and their parent is treating them, she attempts to butt in. I have chased her away several times from her butting in. I do not like her. My wife insists that her sister is merely trying to help and means nothing more than that. My wife also admits that sometimes her sister does butt in, yet her admission is half hearted. This morning my wife was talking about an iPhone App that her sister told her about to help our children brush their teeth properly. I totally lost it because I felt her sister was butting in. I angrily told my wife that her sister needs to realize that the world's problems cannot all be solved by an iPhone App. My wife quietly replies "well I I guess I learned that I cannot discuss this with you." Getting angry appears to be my default towards her sister. This is not good for my marriage. How should I handle this?

When my husband wis within weeks of death, I asked him why he always responded "I love you too," yo his kids when they said "I love you." I then pointed out that when I said it, he'd either ignore me, look away or change the subject and then I asked him why. After thinking he said, "I guess I think they are more lovable. Does this mean he doesn't love me or that he loves them more. Any insights are appreciated.

She didn't cheat on him. He did get help at a behavior center. I'm not sure if he is medicated or not. She says she's praying more. He is talking to the kids more than her some of her kids don't know about the hitting situation. She has forgiven him. She's thinking about getting moving back with him.

I am 31 and have been on one date with a 33 yr old man. We get on well, have similar interests etc. I dont know him but met him through friends. In his 20's he worked on the mines, he returned to his home town 5yrs ago. Pretty much since then he hasnt had steady employment. He is a qualified mechanic and did that for awhile, but doesnt like it. Not he just goes from casual job to job. He picks up most of his work through family or friends and will do stuff like farm hand etc and once the work runs out there will look for more work, again mostly seems to be through family or friends doing him a favour by giving him work. Now i dont have the highest paying job, but its secure and i still turn up for work day in day out. I dont expect him to have the best job but it concerns me that he is now in his 30's and just picking up casual work through friends with no secure job. Is this a bad sign? What does it say about a man who doesnt have a steady career path? He does have a good car and paying off a house so cant be too bad, but is it a sign of his character that he still doesnt have a proper job?

My husband says i argue and fight alot with him. If things doesnt go my way than i start crying like a cry baby. I feel like he is really tired of me being this way.

When I was first married to Joan, her mother Lisa helped us out financially. That was many years ago. We never paid her back the money she gave us. Fast forward to the present. Joan and I had a friendly divorce and she has remarried. I am in a MUCH better financial position now than when we were first married. I have evolved over the years and I now believe that it is the morally right thing to do to pay Lisa back the money she gave/loaned us with interest. I did this by depositing the money directly into her bank account so no one else had access to this money. All of my friends that know what I did tell me I am crazy for doing this. They tell me I did not owe Lisa anything. Even my ex wife Joan are unhappy that I gave this money to her mother because she said I made her and her new husband look bad as they don't have any money to give to her mom. Does what I did sound crazy to you?

My husband has been friends with this woman for years befor he and I even met. She is married but her husband is mean to her and hasn t touched her in years my husband said to me once. They bought things for one another and when I confronted my human and he says i shouldn t be jelous that they are friends and she is married. Tod ay he was in the bed room his phone in the main room it went off i picked it up to take to him when I seen the message on his front screen from Japanese person saying "you told me you found my accent attractive is that weird? I ve been wondering" I havnt confronted him yet what should i do?

So whenever my wife gets upset she likes to punch me in the face and slap me a few times and kick me. I try telling her i don't like this and she claims she needs something to take her anger out on. But she is a real heavy hitter. My mom and friends ask about it and demand to know if I'm getting hurt by someone but I'm too embarassed to tell them its actually my wife She leaves bruises and wounds on my body and I'm getting to the point of being sick of it. I try to be supportive because I know she's angry.

I checked the mailbox two days ago. There was a suspicious looking letter and it was addressed to my husband. I opened it in front of him and it was a porn mag. I asked him did he order this he says no. He tells me "why would i order something that would come here and risk u seeing it? There are videos and if i was to watch porn i would b watching it on my phone bc magazine pics do nothing." I'm very suspicious now. As to how and whom would he have given him information to? He claims he has not given out his info to anybody.ugh. does this happen as accident spam, did he lie and he prob ordered it, or what could it be? I'm freaked out here. I just wanna know how sites get ur address and such. I'm so confused humiliAted and shocked.